7 Weaknesses of the ENTJ Personality Type

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  • čas přidán 8. 09. 2024
  • ENTJ is one of the 16 MBTI personality types and is grouped alongside the INTJ, INTP and ENTP as part of the temperament group known as “the Rationals”. ENTJs have been referred as “the executive”, “strategic fieldmarshal” and “commander”. Their strengths include an ability to devise effective plans and strategies, focus on goals and manage their time well. As with the other personality types, the ENTJ personality has its advantages and disadvantages. Here is a look at 7 weaknesses associated with being an ENTJ.
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Komentáře • 503

  • @bradylumsden3057
    @bradylumsden3057 Před 3 lety +201

    Me an entj, skipping ahead to see the next weakness. Video: Impatience

  • @dasikakn
    @dasikakn Před 4 lety +74

    How many ENTJs wanting to just read the list impatiently clicked the details triangle but then get annoyed that it didn’t have any information?

    • @bradylumsden3057
      @bradylumsden3057 Před 3 lety +2

      I am being called out for somthing I absolutely did.

  • @jamsheeddevotee7588
    @jamsheeddevotee7588 Před 4 lety +1400

    False. We have no flaws. We are the ultimate type.

    • @ludwig4
      @ludwig4 Před 4 lety +156

      That's your biggest flaw right there

    • @djgranville
      @djgranville Před 4 lety +36

      You’re putting far too much confidence in something that’s complete subjective speculation.

    • @danafatma1444
      @danafatma1444 Před 4 lety +36

      Let me, as an entp, prove you wrong.

    • @acedcoffee6934
      @acedcoffee6934 Před 4 lety +16

      TRUE WORDS

    • @art-of-the-art
      @art-of-the-art Před 4 lety +15

      @@ludwig4 YEEHAW WE ARE

  • @dan7582
    @dan7582 Před 3 lety +274

    I'm an ENTJ and it's very easy for me to hear other people's opinions and considering them, as long as they are presented in a rational way. I believe that most ENTJ doesn't care about being right, they care about being efficient. We are always looking for opportunities to improve, a real ENTJ would even thank you if you show an objective error in him/her

    • @nidhisahai3555
      @nidhisahai3555 Před 3 lety +4

      True

    • @Lavender0810
      @Lavender0810 Před 3 lety +5

      Yes

    • @chloesmith7392
      @chloesmith7392 Před 2 lety +7

      true, and we gain respect to those who correct us.

    • @kenseisato1989
      @kenseisato1989 Před 2 lety +5

      Thats one of the things I love about ENTJs. Humble enough to ask questions and to consider/adopt other peoples point of view in an objective manner.
      INFx-T/A here

    • @jimblywimbly4056
      @jimblywimbly4056 Před 2 lety +2

      Completely agree

  • @MK-ks7qz
    @MK-ks7qz Před 4 lety +457

    Often as an ENTJ, in order to get things done and actually have friends, I have to change my personality to tailor to the other persons likings, because I’m too aggressive and controlling. I think being two sided can also be another weakness

    • @ningningshining2831
      @ningningshining2831 Před 4 lety +42

      I relate to this on soo much levels..

    • @moiraelisabeth5552
      @moiraelisabeth5552 Před 4 lety +8

      Omg same

    • @raniyahfathima2809
      @raniyahfathima2809 Před 4 lety +3

      Omgggg. So true

    • @veenu1258
      @veenu1258 Před 4 lety +2

      Same

    • @jamsheeddevotee7588
      @jamsheeddevotee7588 Před 4 lety +27

      Unpopular opinion: you're not really friends if you're wearing a mask.
      I have done the same with people and my family and I got sick of it because I only ended up isolating myself. I advise you not go down that road. Find people who you can be yourself with, otherwise it'll eat away at you.

  • @josiahjudah3126
    @josiahjudah3126 Před 4 lety +290

    We can be patient and kind if needed to accomplish a goal effeciently and effectively.

    • @raymondbillups2002
      @raymondbillups2002 Před 4 lety +6

      Facts!

    • @tonyhadchiti193
      @tonyhadchiti193 Před 4 lety +6

      couldnt have said it any better

    • @EricraftDeeb
      @EricraftDeeb Před 4 lety +2

      That it Your rigth

    • @alexiaramirez4928
      @alexiaramirez4928 Před 4 lety +10

      Yes! I'm not a huge fan of making friends and talk to people but if I need to I'm the most sociable person in the world

    • @TheKyley100
      @TheKyley100 Před 3 lety +5

      I was just about to say that these channels fail to recognize that we have a secret hack, if our goal is to have good relationships we can be super feelers and considerate loving people. I don’t think it makes us two faced I think we are resourceful as hell. I’ve been getting all those criticisms since I was a child so I put work into being a more compassionate person. Dear ENTJs check out Teal Swan, she’s a crazy spiritual lady who will teach you the practical understandings of emotions!!

  • @taymee
    @taymee Před 4 lety +386

    These all sound like strengths to me.

    • @JoseMartinez-zh1tk
      @JoseMartinez-zh1tk Před 4 lety +48

      Lol that’s why you’re an entj

    • @alexaarenstrup2883
      @alexaarenstrup2883 Před 4 lety +21

      I'm an INTP who would sell my left nut to be and ENTJ and I agree

    • @AK-jt7kh
      @AK-jt7kh Před 4 lety +27

      Trust me. They are not. My dad is an ENTJ and he’s incredibly hard to get along with. It doesn’t serve him. People respect him less for it and feel less loyal to him because of his obnoxious streak

    • @JoseMartinez-zh1tk
      @JoseMartinez-zh1tk Před 4 lety +7

      A K I hope my kids don’t feel the same about me.

    • @AK-jt7kh
      @AK-jt7kh Před 4 lety +10

      Jose Martinez Well I love my dad though too. There’s a lot of really cool things about him that I enjoy. His ability to simply enjoy life with no strings attached, for instance. He’s a very good teacher too. But what I don’t enjoy is how he’s really territorial about stuff in the fridge or pantry and how he constantly thinks people will walk all over him if he doesn’t “protect” himself from that kind of behavior. So he will, for instance, tell you what he wants to happen, and then if you try to have a discussion about it he says “I don’t want to talk about it”. It’s basically his way or the highway and there is no in between. He does it because he thinks he’s protecting himself because he has it in his head that people will disrespect him. Nobody wants to disrespect him or ignore his feelings. He’s just paranoid. And in that way, his fear that other people are going to walk all over him makes him a bully, because he won’t listen to or respect the opinions or feelings of others, and won’t even engage them in conversation. It actually hurts my feelings because of how much I love my dad and how much I DO care about his feelings. Sometimes I feel like he sees me as the enemy in a way. I wish Dad would try harder to actually listen to other people and understand where they are coming from. He’s great at doing that in business. He doesn’t extend the same kind of respect for his family. Not that he’s a bad family man - he’s a great family man. It’s just that one major aspect he sucks at. Lol

  • @michelletapia833
    @michelletapia833 Před 4 lety +189

    Funny how I agree with mostly all the comments. I usually never agree with other people’s opinions!

    • @FarizCircleXVIP
      @FarizCircleXVIP Před 3 lety +4

      coz the comment comes from ENTJ which is in same very high skill degree like you
      its like Messi comment about Christiano Ronaldo
      instead ppl opinion (noob comment about Messi)

    • @n1mutant
      @n1mutant Před 3 lety +3

      same here!! i have liked every comment on thus far I have scrolled, its freaky like reading comments from my self

    • @user-tw2nk9lj6r
      @user-tw2nk9lj6r Před 2 lety

      Same, however I don't find not agreeing with other people a bad thing because it is an opportunity for a good debate when both parts consider the other people's Opinion and come to a middle ground!

  • @SomeGal
    @SomeGal Před 4 lety +212

    This video was clearly created by someone who is not ENTJ. Just their perspective of some jerk they met once. Some of us are caring individuals. We just show it differently.

    • @gustamagla23
      @gustamagla23 Před 4 lety +2

      word!

    • @ghoot
      @ghoot Před 4 lety +15

      Hm not really. I'm an entj and I guarantee you those things can really mess up what we're doing some times. And I can really relate to all the things on the list. Like yeah we can be caring but it really takes time.

    • @viviyang8531
      @viviyang8531 Před 3 lety +1

      mby ur an entj-a? im t and im... uhh

    • @a-k-mosa
      @a-k-mosa Před 3 lety +8

      all of what was said carries a degree of truth , even thou we are all ENTJ we have our own differences , this is not a list of problems ALL ENTJs have , it is a list of the most COMMON problems an ENTJ COULD have .

    • @karinawithk
      @karinawithk Před 3 lety

      trueee

  • @BIGGELATO
    @BIGGELATO Před 2 lety +81

    [0:35] 1. Not being emotionally supportive; ENTJs would start finding solutions to someone's problems by giving advice instead of emotional support.
    [1:11] 2. Impatience. Self-explanatory. This is why I'm making this list in the first place.
    [1:52] 3. Imposing their will on others. Too bossy, judgmental 🙄
    [2:40] 4. Dealing with Emotions. Holding on to emotions because we don't want to give others ammo.
    [3:26] 5. Lack of Diplomacy. Unfair debates. We're in our own lanes, which are so far ahead from competition that nobody is anywhere close.
    [4:15] 6. Ruthlessness. Again with the unfair treatments and whatnot.
    [5:05] 7. Explosive temper. Emotionless + livid = Hurricane Level 76
    Takeaways: Try balancing out and learn to be humble. We're not alone in this world, we do need each other one way or another to survive so be kind, be positive, give a hand, manage expectations, and take care of yourself, and others when you can. What's rarer than an ENTJ is an assertive, balanced ENTJ.

    • @qbertproduction5761
      @qbertproduction5761 Před 2 lety +4

      thankyou kind human being this save time SO much

    • @TheElectronicAngel
      @TheElectronicAngel Před 2 lety

      thanks

    • @esmeherrera9204
      @esmeherrera9204 Před 2 lety +1

      Yes I am all of the above but I'm trying to evolve and work on these issues one at a time.

    • @Kkllmo
      @Kkllmo Před rokem

      I do look for this while listening to the first point, which illustrate 2nd point and i can skip listening to the rest by going thru ur list faster lol

    • @stormcrow20
      @stormcrow20 Před rokem

      Thank my fellow commander

  • @thesparrow3902
    @thesparrow3902 Před 3 lety +40

    I have learned that when I can see the solution in the first 30 minutes of a meeting, I need to give the others 8 hours to get there. But, they do get there. It's just so excruciatingly painful for me to wait.

    • @rashamalik4317
      @rashamalik4317 Před 3 lety +1

      aaaaaaa this!

    • @user-tw2nk9lj6r
      @user-tw2nk9lj6r Před 2 lety +1

      Not everyone can be as decisive, the important thing is for all of us to try to better ourselves and not stop working on both our strengts and weaknesses, the important thing is that you colleges are trying! And also waiting isn't so bad, you can always eighther relax(less common) or occupy your time with something interesting and useful ( more common).

    • @melaniebruchard3226
      @melaniebruchard3226 Před rokem +1

      whenever I tell an idea to my boss, he rejects it purely because it isn't his but he usually comes back a week later with a brilliant idea: mine! At least I get to agree with him about it being a good idea (I also remind him that it was my idea, 'oh really? well that was smart' is the typical answer...) 🤣

  • @ggr7359
    @ggr7359 Před 4 lety +76

    i was like, when do the weeknesses start? then i remembered my spelling

    • @hasmanism
      @hasmanism Před 4 lety +6

      As long as the person understands what you're saying, who cares if there's a tpyo?

    • @xofantaxoo4690
      @xofantaxoo4690 Před 4 lety +3

      As a entj i can say i agree euth you on fhis

    • @AK-jt7kh
      @AK-jt7kh Před 4 lety +2

      The weakness was the arrogance you feel in thinking all of these things are strengths. Take it from an INTP who has accepted the laundry list of weaknesses that come with their type. You want to know ENTJ weaknesses? Not valuing other people is a big start :/

    • @TheKyley100
      @TheKyley100 Před 3 lety +1

      Bro wtf I can’t spell at all is this an ENTJ thing???

    • @TheKyley100
      @TheKyley100 Před 3 lety

      A K value yourself instead

  • @paigeherrmann6332
    @paigeherrmann6332 Před 3 lety +20

    Me: *having an inconvenient feeling*
    Me responding to that: “well this feeling isn’t actionable so it’s pointless and I’m going to ignore it. Forcefully.”

  • @tiarafariza9238
    @tiarafariza9238 Před 4 lety +27

    Ha, the inability to give emotional support is totally spot on. I thought giving direct solution is more important than just listening. What’s the goal of mumbling if you can’t find the way out? Also, for the bossy part. We just know what’s best.

    • @bradylumsden3057
      @bradylumsden3057 Před 3 lety +4

      I think that us entj`s are wired diffrent, or somthing. I myself can not wrap my head around people not getting to the point immediately.

    • @user-tw2nk9lj6r
      @user-tw2nk9lj6r Před 2 lety

      About the bossy part - we can try to do what's best, if someone however proves you wrong with objective data, you need to take the idea into account and seriously and respect that person! As for the feelings part - venting really isn't as important as not feeling helpless and finding a way out! Well said!

  • @susankievman642
    @susankievman642 Před 4 lety +83

    Alas, this video is very true. I related to most of it. I did not relate to the moral and ethic spart, because those qualities are quite high for me, I also dont have an explosive temper because I really hate being out of control and feeling vulnerable. But I do get very impatient with people who dont get the concepts and ideas that are expressed. I do tend to think that they are slow and stupid! But with age and experience, I have come to realize that it is an incorrect assumption. Working on my patience!! I hate people who beat around the bush when asked a direct question. It is very important to be clear, concise and honest. I realize that emotions are important, but dwelling on them without coming up with solutions seems to me to be such a waste of time and energy!

    • @michelletapia833
      @michelletapia833 Před 4 lety +3

      We are the same

    • @Fthrof7
      @Fthrof7 Před 4 lety +2

      I completely agree with everything you've said - ruthlessness not so much for me - my morals are more important to me than my ambitions; I also don't have an explosive temper. But I resonate completely with what you've said.

    • @AK-jt7kh
      @AK-jt7kh Před 4 lety +1

      When it comes to my dad who is an ENTJ, though, I understand exactly what he’s saying because it’s fairly simplistic and well organized, but he generally believes I don’t understand him and keeps repeating the same thing in hopes I will agree. I am an INTP, and my INTJ mom is able to translate between myself and my ENTJ dad. But she is the only person on Earth that appears to have this gift. If she’s not present, my dad won’t listen to reason. He just keeps insisting his beliefs are right over and over again in hopes it will “sink in”.

    • @bradylumsden3057
      @bradylumsden3057 Před 3 lety +2

      God, same. Anyone who beats around the Bush or sugar coats things is someone who annoys me.

    • @user-tw2nk9lj6r
      @user-tw2nk9lj6r Před 2 lety +1

      Really well said! Also some people need more time to consider decisions and ideas, this isn't lack of interest or laziness and sometimes it is important! Also morals are important, because when you are doing something, you need to do it for the right reasons! Progress is a never ending journey we can all learn to be better!

  • @1abi07
    @1abi07 Před 3 lety +8

    Being self critic is absolutely true.
    Failure is not an option and we hate it more than anything else.

    • @user-tw2nk9lj6r
      @user-tw2nk9lj6r Před 2 lety

      Being critical to self helps you better yourself, the important thing is not to loathe yourself and to remember: You might fail, but you never lose until you give up!

  • @rachelm7322
    @rachelm7322 Před 3 lety +19

    This whole time, I thought I just needed more coffee.

  • @sam-yx8fr
    @sam-yx8fr Před 4 lety +34

    It's so hard to comfort people without trying to actually freaking help them because then they get offended. I'm still working on it, this is pretty accurate though. I struggle with all of these. I'm still in school i ask so many questions, and, 'argue,' (debate,) with my peers and teachers and apparently they see it as rude. And I get bullied and stuff. I am working on controlling people without it being obvious so they don't know that i'm actually manipulating/using them. I have a hard time with empathy, although i understand why they feel the way they feel, i have trouble caring. For people i do care about, i try to fix their problems, or tell them how to fix them. I LOVE debating. I get a lot of sh*t for it though.

    • @unintelligentsupport4721
      @unintelligentsupport4721 Před 4 lety +3

      Eh

    • @bradylumsden3057
      @bradylumsden3057 Před 3 lety +4

      God,same. Debates are so fun and interesting, I could go on for hours debating.

    • @TridoS
      @TridoS Před 3 lety +8

      @@bradylumsden3057 The funny part is that peole always think it is rude when you start to argue because it seems like we want to force our opinion on them, but what they fail to understand is, at least for me, I want other people to argue well, I want them to challenge my opinion and use good strong arguments to express their point of view. But at the end of the day I'm the stubborn one. When I have passion for whatever topic it is I'm interested in, and the other person I'm having a debate with has a different point of view but the same passion... I'm happy. You learn so much about stuff that might not even be on your radar... but yeah.. I guess I'm the stubborn one..

    • @melocorr3361
      @melocorr3361 Před 3 lety

      I can so relate with what you said with the being there for people... I know that I think very much also about others and how to help people but I still got told that I'm unempathic... The video explained it so good

    • @TridoS
      @TridoS Před 3 lety +2

      @@melocorr3361 True. But then again we can handle being told that we are rude or unempathic or whatever. Others maybe can't. And since we can deal with it we should. And at the end of the day we get shit done and after all that is what matters. Who cares that I'm not good at emotional support. Once I'll fix the problem that caused that emotional distress this won't even be an issue anymore. And if I can improve the life of the people I care for and the cost is being perceived as cold that is a price which I pay without a second thought. Because that is what matters at the end of the day.

  • @august2241
    @august2241 Před 3 lety +7

    Me: *emotionally broken*
    Also Me: tHiS iSn’T eFfEcTiVe, MuSt StOp EmOtIoNs

  • @victorz1969
    @victorz1969 Před 3 lety +8

    omg i feel the power of us in the comments that's amazing

  • @simonarnback6547
    @simonarnback6547 Před 4 lety +20

    I KID YOU NOT! I was about to jump forward in the video right before patience came up!

    • @bradylumsden3057
      @bradylumsden3057 Před 3 lety +1

      I actually did, and then laughed audibly when Impatience came up.

  • @sehrishsaeed4477
    @sehrishsaeed4477 Před 2 lety +7

    As an ENTJ I find it difficult to cope with the recent paradigm shift towards being hypersensitive and touchy-feely. People need to handle constructive criticism especially when their actions are detrimental to the organization’s mission statement. Tired of being the most productive and hardest working team member.

  • @thesparrow3902
    @thesparrow3902 Před 3 lety +5

    Ethics and Morals never take a back seat for me as the video states they do for ENTJs; rather, they provide the necessary boundaries within which I can be a successful ENTJ without destroying other humans.

    • @bradylumsden3057
      @bradylumsden3057 Před 3 lety +2

      Exactly, if we didnt have morals we would all be psychopaths.

    • @minskybrown8634
      @minskybrown8634 Před rokem

      Yeah.. Exactly. its at this point I switched off the vid to find something more informative. Why was I even looking at weakenesses. I already know what they are as ENTJ's can self evaluate and develop techniques counteract them.
      I know far better than anyone else who I am.

  • @cadecope278
    @cadecope278 Před 3 lety +7

    This was strangely accurate. Well done

  • @mcorleone77
    @mcorleone77 Před 4 lety +10

    this guy knows me more than my gf

  • @short-circuit2339
    @short-circuit2339 Před 4 lety +9

    This is almost identical to ESTJ weaknesses.

  • @internalclorox7010
    @internalclorox7010 Před 3 lety +5

    As an ENTJ, I find one of our biggest problem comes from low Fi. Sometimes we often get burnt out and become very insecure, believe we are bad and unsuccessful useless people, and don’t understand ourselves or what we like.

  • @asena1236
    @asena1236 Před 4 lety +26

    these are not weaknesses just because some weaklings decided that theres one way to do things does not mean we are weak if anything it means we are strong to live with these kind of people. have a nice day my fellow entjs

    • @keithgraham9547
      @keithgraham9547 Před 4 lety +9

      Exactly what I was going to post. Plus their comments on ethics and "explosive" temper. ENTJ'S are virtually never explosive in temper. The touchy-feely snowflakes think any kind of firm response is explosive.
      ENTJ's probably have the strongest ethic codes and it goes against our nature to violate such. But we tend to set our own codes, not the society norms. For example, I would think most ENTJ'S despise liars and will call them out. Society sees US as the bad guys because they're like hippies. "Oh, that heavy metal music is so harsh! It's killing my buzz!"
      Yes, ENTJ'S are the Slayer of Meyer-Briggs.

    • @unintelligentsupport4721
      @unintelligentsupport4721 Před 4 lety +1

      @@keithgraham9547 I SWEAR.

    • @StaaaaNzHD
      @StaaaaNzHD Před 3 lety +2

      Well said

    • @ilhamemoon364
      @ilhamemoon364 Před 2 lety +1

      @@keithgraham9547 thanks, you're comment made me understand you're weaknesses very well.

    • @user-tw2nk9lj6r
      @user-tw2nk9lj6r Před 2 lety

      @@keithgraham9547 IT often depends on the situation, also there is a difference from an ENTJ to ENTJ and while I agree that we are an amazing personality we also can work on improving and progressing, we should compete only with ourselves, because noone is perfect! Also it isn't about,,calling someone out" the more important part must be making sure someone learns from their mistakes ( including yourself)!

  • @Tw0ify
    @Tw0ify Před 2 lety +2

    1. I understand, but from my experience feelings focused people have a hard time to understand that there a lot of situations where your emotions mislead you and cause more harm than good in the long run. Heart is good, but don't forget you have a head too.
    2-5 and 7. I would say are traits which can be easily held under control by personal development. Although as an ENTJ handling your own emotions will always be hard.
    6 When used right it is actually what separates us ENTJs from the rest of the world. Like the samurai said "When the task has been set, surrender yourself wholeheartedly to it's completion. Act without hesitation or fear of consequences."

  • @Grendygirl
    @Grendygirl Před rokem +1

    No. 3 "Imposing their will on others", I totally agree with I think this is why I prefer strategic and persuasive communication, its easier to argue/debate someone into agreeing with you than outright tell them what they should do and how they should think, and how they should feel.

  • @bebrave9108
    @bebrave9108 Před 4 lety +6

    Congrats. We’re part of the 3%. Now who wants to rebuttal and have a debate?

    • @kirby8555
      @kirby8555 Před 4 lety +6

      You used "rebuttal" wrong. It's a noun, not a verb.
      Debate started?

    • @catulytown8051
      @catulytown8051 Před 4 lety +2

      @@kirby8555 Yup. The word he should have used was "rebut".

    • @bradylumsden3057
      @bradylumsden3057 Před 3 lety +2

      You are my people, we need a debate club

  • @johnserafano2648
    @johnserafano2648 Před 4 lety +10

    Wow very insightful. These videos can tend to be just rehashing of the same old crap we all know. This was pretty solid.

  • @codyholt2358
    @codyholt2358 Před 2 lety +2

    I love that we are all here critiquing the video. They could make the video more efficient by using time segments for each one of the "weaknesses."

  • @goliathsteinbeisser3547
    @goliathsteinbeisser3547 Před 4 lety +6

    People get angry at me when I point out that shooting any given group of people won't solve anything. That is my current struggle.
    In turn I had to learn that a hug can go a long way at times. And that thing about not being too pushy about everything every time with everyone.

  • @knightgern
    @knightgern Před rokem +1

    My mother was ENRJ. My mother was the most caring person I ever met. She has strong minded but caring, actually too caring. She can't be compare with other's mom.

  • @sahand5277
    @sahand5277 Před 4 lety +5

    They may sometimes seem angry when they aren't..i have heard it a lot :)))

  • @Peoples_Republic_of_Devonshire

    From my point of view as an ENTJ:
    1- I definitely have difficulty with this however over time I have learned how to become more and more supportive and what tactics to best employ
    2- yup, I have no patience whatsoever and I have a hatred of bureaucracy, even though it is a necessary function to a point
    3- I'm actually not like this at all, I'm introverted and lack self confidence so I'm not comfortable in command roles; when brainstorming ideas I try and get other people's opinions as I can't think of everything and a fresh perspective can be very useful, however when I am in command I don't want to have a mother's meeting about something if I just gave an order
    4- again, this is something that doesn't come easily but I have learnt how to be aware of and process effectively my emotions. This is the result of past trauma and mental health problems, and one of the areas for improvement I identified. However the only way I can do this is by breaking it down into a logical flow of cause and effect and identifying the process it should follow to get it out of my system
    5- yup, I'm blunt as fuck. But as with the above mentioned I've had to learn to use it as one might employ a particular set of tactics
    6- yes and no, I'm extremely driven to achieve however what I want to achieve is to become a Medical Assistant in the Royal Navy, I take it very seriously and my whole thinking revolves around it so ethical decisions are a part of that
    7- ok woah. I am extremely self critical to the point that it actually affects my mental health and I'm beginning to devise strategies to overcome this and balance it. Not just my temper is simply volcanic, when I lose it I black out and become violent with no control or memory of what happened. That said, one of my proudest achievements is that fact that the last time I fully lost my temper was 2016

  • @bibipictures554
    @bibipictures554 Před 3 lety +4

    Personally I'm good with supporting my friends and family emotionally of course I focus on results, but the comforting part always comes first.
    Although I must admit when I'm the upset one, I try to ignore it.

  • @riannahmendoza6539
    @riannahmendoza6539 Před 2 lety +1

    ENTJs maybe the commander and the most vocal with their opinions but we are not egotistical. If somebody points out an error that we make, we are thankful because we always want the most efficient ways.

  • @amirr137
    @amirr137 Před 4 lety +4

    Je suis un ENTJ 😈

  • @elysian5074
    @elysian5074 Před 3 lety +2

    The amount of immaturity in the comments ☠☠☠

  • @sarahbuchanan1200
    @sarahbuchanan1200 Před 2 lety +1

    i think what all these videos, articles, whatever, fail to address is that underneath the critical thinking and need for efficiency ENTJs are also highly loyal people who form very deep attachments to the people they let close to them. just because our care doesnt extend to anyone and everyone doesn't mean that appreciation, love and connection isn't felt, it's just reserved for people that add to our lives and i think thats a good thing tbh

    • @melaniebruchard3226
      @melaniebruchard3226 Před rokem

      and it can actually hurt us when we realise their feeling toward us isn't as deep as our towards them

  • @ammarkhalil34v
    @ammarkhalil34v Před rokem

    Thanks for this video. I appreciate being ENTJ.

  • @comelaluna845
    @comelaluna845 Před 3 lety +1

    I can't think of these as weaknesses except the last one.

  • @shakizzle33
    @shakizzle33 Před 4 lety +17

    Why does this computer voice tell me this?!?!?!

    • @Ben7Roethlisberger
      @Ben7Roethlisberger Před 4 lety +15

      That's just an INTP narrating.

    • @unintelligentsupport4721
      @unintelligentsupport4721 Před 4 lety +2

      @@Ben7Roethlisberger I'll be honest, I didn't realize it was a computer voice.
      I've spent too much time in r/intp.
      Sorry not sorry.
      Okay, I'm sorry. [My Canadian took over.]

  • @lucca.c1788
    @lucca.c1788 Před 4 lety +3

    I love this type

  • @thesparrow3902
    @thesparrow3902 Před 3 lety +1

    The picture of the robot doing mathematics on the chalkboard is basic Algebra with a smattering of simple Calculus.

  • @yooskkitagawa
    @yooskkitagawa Před 4 lety +5

    Wow, I feel called out.

  • @itsramon2429
    @itsramon2429 Před 3 lety +1

    I was trying to get into a nice relationship with an ENTJ person and the more I find out about it the more curious I get. I'm usually good at reading people but the ENTJs aren't that easy to.

  • @fareastpride94
    @fareastpride94 Před 2 lety

    the video is missing the important ones; high anxiety, fear of criticism, jealousy, unable to accept reality, focusing only on the goal while ignoring the obstacles in front of them.

  • @sam-yx8fr
    @sam-yx8fr Před 4 lety +1

    it's not a matter of ethics, its a matter of not caring. I don't care as long as they're being useful.

  • @AlastorTheNPDemon
    @AlastorTheNPDemon Před 4 lety +2

    INTJ dropping by for a quick hobby research thing. Two and seven are true on my end too. I get rather frustrated with slow and indecisive people, and will make moves to slip by them when possible. Number 7 is me at work verbatim - performance anxiety turns into rage very quickly and I can get really snappy with people when I'm not performing to my own standard.

    • @catulytown8051
      @catulytown8051 Před 4 lety +1

      Um. Im an INTJ. Maybe you should analyze all your functions more, to see if you are mistyped.
      Because INTJ are not known for short tempered. Because we are so methodic in our plans that we have a contingency plan for the unexpected. But in the RARE occasion an unforeseen issues arise, we simply re-strategized with a calm level headedness.
      The reason ENTJ are short tempered is because of their NI and SE function clashing.
      Their NI came up with a great plan.
      But their SE is saying no its not.
      So they get angry that what they Invision in their heads, is not playing out in the real world.
      And they super impatient.
      While INTJ do not have that issue. Because our SE function is such an inferior function, when it tells us our plan is not working, we simply double down on our NI (Our superior function) to come up with a better plan. We are not bothered by SE.
      Which makes us slow to act.
      Especially INTJ-A

    • @AlastorTheNPDemon
      @AlastorTheNPDemon Před 4 lety

      @@catulytown8051 ENTJ might be more it then. I could be a fairly introverted manifestation of one.
      Also, I have a personality disorder, so that tends to skew things.

  • @andromedamaxima1543
    @andromedamaxima1543 Před 2 lety

    i just blocked an entj on all my social networks because HE SIMPLY CANT GET OVER ME. He can’t fathom the fact that i broke up with him. He keeps wanting to prove a point, mentally. RIDICULOUS. He simply is unable to acknowledge the feelings of others and that the world does not revolve around them, and it’s useless and even counterproductive to impose their opinions on others. It’s borderline abusive, he is callous and cold. And of course, his emotional life goes from a failure to another because he is unable to handle others perspectives. All the weaknesses on this video are spot on.

  • @BenDonahower
    @BenDonahower Před 4 lety +9

    This started referencing irrational things like feeling. I make a quick decision and moved on...

  • @kingmushubenyaweh168
    @kingmushubenyaweh168 Před 2 lety +2

    Any true entj would look at this objectively as information to possibly grow from

  • @mihovildanicic5305
    @mihovildanicic5305 Před 2 lety

    I see this video is gonna make its points slowly, looked at the time remaining, scrolling down the comments, keeping my ear opened. I hear no real weaknesses, some flaws, no weaknesses.

  • @dranrebllasos9970
    @dranrebllasos9970 Před 3 lety +2

    I'm an ENTJ, usually attached to my friends. Sometimes I think they are the one hindering my goals, but I just cant leave them. May it be possible that personality stretches/evolves to what environment you're in?

  • @mr.shreyashk.sawant9223

    I m ENTJ.
    My behavior is not sociopathic.
    ThNks

  • @samanthamerrill1242
    @samanthamerrill1242 Před 4 lety +6

    I'm sorry, but my ethics are never negotiable and wrath? I'm not going to lose control of my emotions in public. I dont agree with this

    • @bradylumsden3057
      @bradylumsden3057 Před 3 lety

      Ehhhh, as an entj as well, I'm ashamed to say that I have. Luckly that was when I was in middle school.

  • @JohnJewel
    @JohnJewel Před rokem

    The one thing that I can do is force myself to speak softer .

  • @zajaiva5
    @zajaiva5 Před 3 lety +1

    An INFP passing by... I find it so amusing how different the comment section is comapred to the ones of videos of my personality type.

    • @catycika4856
      @catycika4856 Před 3 lety

      As and ENFP, i observed the same thing.

  • @Stew282
    @Stew282 Před 3 lety +2

    What makes you think these things are 'weaknesses'?

  • @dasikakn
    @dasikakn Před 4 lety +2

    I can relate to a lot of these, but learned through my career and parenting to manage them (for the most part 😛).

  • @ByChiaraLee
    @ByChiaraLee Před rokem

    For me there‘s nothing worse, then being stuck in a job where i have absolutely no responsibility and get constantly told what the heck i am supposed to do for some smug level one leader. I would rather die.

  • @Jayturbo_ENTJ
    @Jayturbo_ENTJ Před 2 lety

    Very well put.

  • @marsh6578
    @marsh6578 Před 3 lety +1

    EntJ biggest weakness is focusing on MBTI results to call oneself an Entj. I had joined a couple Entj groups on Facebook and it seems like many ppl have this mindset Entj means you gotta act confident n be an asshole. Being a healthy Entj means your have a personality to be good leader (but if you chose to be an asshole with explosive temper that’s your personal choice of how you draw your character and really need to work on yourself). And again MBTI is a myth just like horoscope. There are way more than 16personalities and you yourself change over time.

  • @i_forget
    @i_forget Před 2 lety

    If I’m always a little wrong then there is something that can always be updated to be made better.

  • @rodrigoestebanmoralesrolda1156

    Funny fact #147: Some ENTJ's pretend to feel emotions even if they don't really do it. And when others realize that we've been pretending all along, they see us as manipulative and cynical.

  • @seanprater1795
    @seanprater1795 Před 5 měsíci

    The first thing that I,as an INFJ always notice about ENTJs , is the domineering instincts, which often lead to power - struggles between us, and their subjective -based logic which they impose on others. They have difficulty accepting that their rationale may be flawed, and in need of refinement.
    If they do not have much life experience , they can be naive, concerning the human condition and intolerant towards people, who don't adhere to their notions of what is acceptable, good, and moral, which, to me, is akin to the mentality of world dictators, throughout history.
    They get better with age, and life- experience. When they grow out of the belief that they know what's best for others, and develop a semblance of self -awareness,they can become excellent,and noble leaders.
    When not sufficiently matured, they can be quite annoying to me, which is not surprising since their dominant function is my demon function 😊
    At their worst, they can be tyrants

  • @tiffanyg2102
    @tiffanyg2102 Před 4 lety +2

    I will now use this information to ensure none of them are true!

    • @JB-qg3iw
      @JB-qg3iw Před 3 lety +1

      Exactly, must optimise

  • @Narwell_
    @Narwell_ Před 2 lety

    Me being impatient, I watched this with the speed of 1.5

  • @reeldeal2149
    @reeldeal2149 Před 4 lety +2

    I feel this 100%

  • @qianjin88
    @qianjin88 Před rokem

    crushing on an ENTJ brought me here- infp and impatient too, just way too tolerant beyond principles

  • @jsrblow4267
    @jsrblow4267 Před 2 lety

    I feel I have the utmost greatest morals and extremely strong beliefs. As myself

  • @JoakimBB
    @JoakimBB Před 4 lety +4

    My life in a nutshell.

  • @chillibeans9519
    @chillibeans9519 Před rokem

    The only flaw is I can’t listen to anyone I have to be in charge

  • @user_-zo3qi
    @user_-zo3qi Před 4 lety +4

    We exist without flaws

  • @Azulakayes
    @Azulakayes Před 2 lety

    As an ENTJ, I can empathise with people but I have a line when people start whining. If you are complaining more than once, you are wasting time on not finding solutions. What does complaining achieve?

  • @MactanLady
    @MactanLady Před 3 lety

    I can’t stand anything that is unresolved if I can’t fix it leave it Let someone else fix it.

  • @jakw97
    @jakw97 Před 4 měsíci

    Hey guys, should we start a political party?
    I think we can set up a pretty fire debate lineup fellas.
    I don't mean to be direct (lie), but i have some things i have strong conviction about. And i feel confident debating them with any tv journalist or head of state.

  • @hx1487
    @hx1487 Před 3 lety +1

    I'm an INTP, and would probably drive an ENTJ insane

    • @bradylumsden3057
      @bradylumsden3057 Před 3 lety +1

      As an entj, you are correct

    • @catycika4856
      @catycika4856 Před 3 lety

      Me as an ENFP, thinking of all the possible fun ways of how to annoying ENTJ's.

  • @Starlightndust
    @Starlightndust Před 2 lety

    Always the most unpopular team mate in all my jobs. I try to curb my personality to fit in. Now I've realised it's my personality traits are not dysfunctional. ENTJ Woman.

    • @minskybrown8634
      @minskybrown8634 Před rokem +1

      ENTJ woman here. We do not work well in teams unless we are leaders. I work best with men where I have equal status. Feedback is that I hold my own exceptionally well as I never feel intimidated by others at work

    • @Starlightndust
      @Starlightndust Před rokem

      ​@@minskybrown8634 yes, feel the same. I work best with men. All of my friends ate men since my teens.

  • @Maria-ld1kq
    @Maria-ld1kq Před 3 lety

    I hate it when texts are red by bots

  • @rhysdenno5993
    @rhysdenno5993 Před 3 lety +1

    Lol why are the subtitles korean

  • @cubbyc0rner
    @cubbyc0rner Před 2 lety +1

    hey do any of you fellow ENTJs lose your jobs during covid? and how did you cope?

    • @privatepo5876
      @privatepo5876 Před 2 lety

      I upgraded in pay. The market for effective efficient leaders was up. Narrowed to 3 offers. Didn’t pick the most financially beneficial. Picked the best work/life balance, more manageability over my team and still within price point.

  • @drpsionic
    @drpsionic Před 4 lety +1

    And in what way are these weaknesses?

  • @tdiddle8950
    @tdiddle8950 Před 3 lety

    This video was pretty interesting, but it shows me the shortfall of trying to define a person in too specific of constraints.
    I have taken the Briggs-Meyers test many times. I tested field marshall three times and logistician once. And I know Jung, who is one of my heroes, was at the center of this, but...
    I call myself a natural leader, and I think that's why I tested ENTJ three times. But the field marshall certainly doesn't define me as a leader.
    I make it a point to emotionally support my loved ones and comrades. I think there is no route to leadership unless you have lots of good people behind you, because there is no true leadership without a coalition.
    So even though I am an ENTJ, that designation isn't nearly enough to define me.

  • @josegodinez776
    @josegodinez776 Před 2 lety +1

    You get depressed quick but also get up quick, its weird since I'm bipolar 2 too. The thing is, my personality sometimes doesn't let me move on with life since I tell myself your a piece of shit for quitting in the first place. I need to be sociable or I fall into a deep state of forgettable moments. I tried to change my personality to be more of outgoing nice but damn I sometimes come off as an asshole lol. It is what it is, I just need to stop being a bitch and let go of the past. Live in the present they say.

  • @stelladebesche9222
    @stelladebesche9222 Před 3 lety +1

    I have found my people in the comment section

  • @zofiarobinska6253
    @zofiarobinska6253 Před 4 lety +1

    Some things made sense but that thing about loose morals is not true! We actually have very strong principles which we stand by no matter what.

  • @aron5951
    @aron5951 Před 3 lety +1

    here ENTJ also
    not many ppl can satisfy want i anticipate.
    this is also one reason i become AI programmer

  • @elsandstorm8997
    @elsandstorm8997 Před 4 lety +6

    I am ENFJ and a great friend with an ENTJ who's right now completely crushed over having failing a big life goal. He find it hard to show feelings and meet girls though all girls want him, but he respects me and so he can show his vulnerability to me. I try to help him. He hates that he lost his life goal and he became suicidal even. Help.

    • @chloepadilla6750
      @chloepadilla6750 Před 4 lety +4

      Not achieving a life goal is absolutely heartbreaking for an ENTJ. Ik personally I became very suicidal when I felt I didn’t have purpose - a reason to live anymore. You might just have to show your friend that there are other goals he can set, and that life is truly about getting back up again and doing what you desire in an advantageous way. Ask him about his future plans, and show him that there is no reason to lose all hope - one setback can’t stop us ENTJs!!!

    • @jackieshine9765
      @jackieshine9765 Před 4 lety

      I agree. Life goals are often found in failure. Help the ENTJ see the accomplishments that have been made and I'm sure they have more acheivements than failures. That's just our personality.
      Suicide is serious. Please introduce him or her to Jesus Christ.
      Stastics show that those who consider suicide, have lost hope. If you remind them of many other options, they can bounce back quickly and set new goals.

    • @DeLvoy1988
      @DeLvoy1988 Před 4 lety +1

      As an ENTJ, why he didn't calculate risk of fail! It's normal that while making a plan you have to make two or more declaraion statements in case when thing would fail! And yes, if it fails it isn't easy...

    • @bradylumsden3057
      @bradylumsden3057 Před 3 lety +1

      Crap, as an entj myself failing a big life goal would be detrimental. An entj is defined by the goals they pursue, if I had to give up on my goals, I'd most likely become depressed. Best of luck to your friend finding his motivation.

  • @MaysField
    @MaysField Před 2 lety

    I didn't even watch the video. I have a tendency to go straight to comment section to find some people's summary. Also love to use 2x speed on most of the youtube videos. If youtube develops 3x or higher speed I would use them too.

  • @StaaaaNzHD
    @StaaaaNzHD Před 3 lety

    ENTJ has no weakness. All strengths 😤😤😤

  • @tommygannett3217
    @tommygannett3217 Před 4 lety +7

    The majority of these are positives.

  • @SuperVegito9000
    @SuperVegito9000 Před 3 lety

    What weaknesses? Those are plus points.

  • @sgtthor7830
    @sgtthor7830 Před 4 lety +1

    Dammit they got me

  • @EvergreenOliviaTV
    @EvergreenOliviaTV Před 2 lety

    Ah. I'm an INFJ - --> who knows a few ENTJs... a "happier" ENTJ and uhm "frustrated" ENTJs. I get them. The happier one understands and adapts faster with abstract - the "frustrated" one is when they are in a difficult environment. ENTJs like to help people - while INFJs like to make people happy (but can work as hard as the ENTJ) the two are great forces to combine. ENTJs do care - but their language of care is act of service or something tangible. As an INFJ , ENTJ's mind work is a good "launchpad" to get all the "urgency" out in our internal loops. haha.

  • @fv7430
    @fv7430 Před 3 lety +1

    It's so hard for me to be in a relationship bcz of being an ENTJ

    • @efjayjohnson6029
      @efjayjohnson6029 Před 3 lety

      Do you know the types of your ex girlfriends/ boyfriends? Maybe the type didn’t fit

    • @fv7430
      @fv7430 Před 3 lety

      @@efjayjohnson6029 no, sadly they never wanted to take a test but:
      Ex-boyfriend (before coming out as a lesbian lol): he was very stubborn and everything had to go the way he wanted it.
      Ex-girlfriend: She was very funny and every loves her but she cheated on me and always lied to me about everything.
      My girlfriend now is An INFP and we get along pretty good.

    • @igot7problemsbutyougotnojams
      @igot7problemsbutyougotnojams Před 2 lety

      I’m dating someone who is an ENTJ and I actually find the difference in personality is refreshing at times, that’s probably because I’m like the exact opposite of him. I feel like he pushes me to be more “out there”, to be braver and try new things. I decided he was the one because he always puts things in a different perspective especially when I talked about why I was sort of scared about being in a relationship again. I’m an INFP and although our personalities are so different I felt like I could relate to him when it came to our past and struggles, so much so that I immediately started to feel comfortable around him despite how different we stand in life. I will admit, at first I was distant especially since he came off extremely extroverted. He was immediately willing to be in phone calls, play games, watch movies, go on dates/set trips etc. and I’m ngl that’s kind of scary for introverts in general but once we really talked and I started to open up I could see what I was missing in life. He’s the reason why I’m like fuck it and actually wanna try the things that can be a bit uncomfortable for me.

  • @jncreations4035
    @jncreations4035 Před 2 lety

    I am ISFJ. I want to become a better type like ESTJ Or ENTJ because the are good managers and get paid well in jobs