how, she cannot because she had a traditional wedding. And in an IsiZulu traditional wedding you cannot divorce your husband or wife. Look at what happened to Nkosazana Zuma.
They are advised by toxic/stupid people that the problem nje you can't advise someone to be independent when you don't believe in it Yooh I wish thando can get a job or go back to school
Thando frustrates me because she could've changed her life a long time ago,the first step being getting a matric certificate. 6 seasons in we are still endaweni eyodwa. Always saying she is leaving but dololo actions 😩
I feel like everyone on the show who's supposed to be helping and supporting Thando are all clout chasing and very self serving 😢..It's sad to watch when you take away the entertainment part.. she's alone 😓
I honestly don't see even one reason why this girl got married to this useless, disrespecting diabetes patient. Hope ladies sees how a guy treats you mayelobolelwe engaz kunjan uksebenza kanzima ulobole mfazi ngethukuthuku zakho.
This is Bab’ Dlamuka’s doing and he knew exactly what he was doing. Thando is Syacela’s safety net. Bab Dlamuka could see that Syacela was ungovernable and lazy. He was getting old and he had health issues and he wanted to secure his future or make sure that he became another person’s responsibility when he was gone. He knew how some families respect the idea of lobola, so he put his plan in motion. Voila Syacela is Thando’s problem now not anybody’s. He is spoilt, rude and lazy, he does not want to improve his life.
@@sylviamodise3887 You got this very right. The plans some parents are drawing when they sitting alone outside. never to be underestimated. You will think they love you while you needed to take care of their people.
Guys all we can do is pray for uThando akukho okunye. USyacela nobaba wakhe kade bayibopha ingane bayidlisa. It won't be easy for her to leave that marriage without some type of spiritual intervention
I wish people knew that you can only approach uhome affairs to your marital regime once there's an order from icourt ordering home affairs to change istatus of your marital regime. There should be valid points akwenza ukuthi ufise ukushintsha imarital regime and kumele kube ukuthi ayikho iparty that will suffer prejudice uma kushintshwa imarital regime. When you are changing imarital regime you need a Lawyer to run an application in court and upon valid points being stated inkantolo might grant an order in your favor or dismiss i-application yokushintshwa kwe marital regime.
True that hope Moja love will organise it for her. Even though that is sorted she is not happy will that loveless and respect less marriage improve Na. I wish she could get support system that will enlighten her about life in general as I think she has limited exposure
Yes.. once kwaze kwafuneka ukuth ubekezele emshadweni wazi ukuth sekuphele wona, if ubekezela kuzophela nawe nalogogo uyambona akekho ryt, ayikho ryt at all lento eyenzek ku Thando😭😭😭
What a toxic marriage, my word.🥲 Siyacela doesn't want anything good for Thando. Not to mention how disrespectful he is. For Thando to wake up and smell the coffee, Nkosi yam. 🕯🕯🕯
nalabomama acela kbona i advice are not wise they think they know everything about marriage kanti they only know the struggles of umshado ngoba mubheka nakbona there was no happiness , bazi ukbekezela nje kphela and it is SAD
🤦🤦 am an advocate for marriage mara le bekezela accept all the nonsense and also you as the family can't control or reprimand him mathata nje. The wives have no solution they don't even advise her to empower herself to be a better person and self sufficient . Weeeeeeee Thando vuka ugeze, ugcobe ugqoke look pretty ulwele to better your life
This marriage is not working, file for a divorce. Her husband is rude. And I think there's no more love involved. Neither there's respect.
how, she cannot because she had a traditional wedding. And in an IsiZulu traditional wedding you cannot divorce your husband or wife. Look at what happened to Nkosazana Zuma.
True
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Engabe uyo joina uku gyma ayeke ukuba islima🥺🥺 uzofa emncane akakhoni nokuphefumula yhuu
Kunephika loku😢 nxa
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Can moja love just help thando get a divorce or something, it’s so sad watching her go through this whole ordeal 😢
Wazithandela undenyanyisela ukudelela utatakhe ngexa yelanto yakhe engamthandi
No ubemncane ubengazi ukuthi kuyoba nje bandla
@@sikhokhelecengimbo2813Kodwa ngathi umvundla seziyaw'ncanda phambili kuThando
Family yakhe uzoy'dinga🤞🤞
Nabazali bakaThando hayi shame bayenza into kwelixesha langoku uvumela umntwana ayokwenda jonga ngoku umntwana ukwesiphi isimo💔💔
@@user-gx7wf2js8c ngiyakuzwa mina vele zoydinga
Thabethe family like TV shm bazama ngayoyonke indlela Jesus
Ey odoti babantu labaya futh abaphel moya
Imagine a birthday party without Mr party🤔attention seeking nje
How on earth do you celebrate someone's birthday a kula😮😮
@@sharonshalang7814 akuko rong loku abakwenzile coz bashilo ukuti ubambekile
How do you celebrate in the name of birthday when the person of interest is lying down sick💔💔💔
I film xem
What a toxic marriage 😢 lapho there’s a child involved
Kubuhlungu shme😭
Kwa le family nje yoh
Lomfana uyabheda nje nalentombazane uthotho nje she has nothing other than a child
Imisebenzi ka Dlamuka
They are advised by toxic/stupid people that the problem nje you can't advise someone to be independent when you don't believe in it
Yooh I wish thando can get a job or go back to school
Thando frustrates me because she could've changed her life a long time ago,the first step being getting a matric certificate. 6 seasons in we are still endaweni eyodwa. Always saying she is leaving but dololo actions 😩
Ifunani kanti lentombazana kulomfana ose kanje💔💔💔
Toxic attachment my dear and she’s still young
Lesson learnt:hlukanani nokushada nisebancane
kwamina ngimdala kodwa ei funa kuphuma
@@ZandileKhwelaKanjan oe thina sisacukuza sifuna ukungena😢😂😂
Thando is the breadwinner in the Thabethe family,hence behlezi bekhuluma ngaye. As for the estranged sister,she should sit this one out.
Wena Siyacela you don't respect your wife uyisilima sendoda and you got a matured wife who will help you bcs Wena uyanhlanhlatha
Uma kithiwa indaba zakini ungazitsheli indoda
Uyalayeka Thando makahambe ayolungisa izinto motatakhe ayikho leh
Yhooo indlela aphefumula ngayo uSyacela mmmh uThando akaphumuli ngisho ebsuku ilento.. ngathi uyanuka futhi uSyacela ngeke 😏😏😏
Kodwa yini😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Uyambona nje , i doubt uyazwana namanzi .So nasty eeuw
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Uzovela afe 😂😂
Baba kaThando is using his child for relevance. Hhayi uyabhora shame, akakhule. Uyangicika!
I feel like everyone on the show who's supposed to be helping and supporting Thando are all clout chasing and very self serving 😢..It's sad to watch when you take away the entertainment part.. she's alone 😓
Using her child how because his on the show he must create his own story
I'm confused with this using situation
Siyacela ukhuliswe umama oshadile kodwa akanawo umthetho
Lomjita uphefumula ngenxeba😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 lonto liisile eli rhanise
@@phumzagalada6263weeeh I rhanise waze wangiqeda ngehlaya 😂😂😂😂😂
😂Waze wamuhle waclean uPinky♥️♥️♥️🥰
😂😂😂😅
ngath'uyafa
I honestly don't see even one reason why this girl got married to this useless, disrespecting diabetes patient. Hope ladies sees how a guy treats you mayelobolelwe engaz kunjan uksebenza kanzima ulobole mfazi ngethukuthuku zakho.
Doti womuntu siyacela
This is Bab’ Dlamuka’s doing and he knew exactly what he was doing. Thando is Syacela’s safety net. Bab Dlamuka could see that Syacela was ungovernable and lazy. He was getting old and he had health issues and he wanted to secure his future or make sure that he became another person’s responsibility when he was gone. He knew how some families respect the idea of lobola, so he put his plan in motion. Voila Syacela is Thando’s problem now not anybody’s. He is spoilt, rude and lazy, he does not want to improve his life.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 diabetes patient 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yhuuu this one annoys me to the core😭😭 i hope we take some notes
@@sylviamodise3887 You got this very right. The plans some parents are drawing when they sitting alone outside. never to be underestimated. You will think they love you while you needed to take care of their people.
"Besizomnquma ukuba unotho" haibo Moja love, all this for content😭💔💔💔
yazi I olso noticed that 'a'njengoba abesifazane bebulawa kanjena nje nx '
Thando kuyabonakala awukho happy mntanami..Phuma lapho
Ayocala phansi azakhe, she will be fine.
Uthando akanabo obhiti kubo..
Mina angisoze ngayekelela udadewethu ephila ngaloluhlobo kulomuzi😢🤞🏽
"Anginayo ngisho i signature"
Uyagula u Syacela istru🤞
Thnks admin ❤ plse
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This is one show that i just watch to raise my BP,siyacela is so arrogant ijoo
Ngifisa ngingathola umndendeni ofana nowakwa Thabethe 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Thando deserves better,she is so calm
Calm kodwa uyadelela xem uthatha first prize for disrespect
Get ur own lifestyle gal phuma nje kulento ubuyele e skolweni
Guys all we can do is pray for uThando akukho okunye. USyacela nobaba wakhe kade bayibopha ingane bayidlisa. It won't be easy for her to leave that marriage without some type of spiritual intervention
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Ooh Nkosi yam ngaze ngafisa uThando abuyele eskolen azibuthe nj. Awu yaguga ingane incane nj ngempela. Nalesthuphethu sakhe esphefumula ngenxeba
ei nobuhe buyaphela yazi
😂😂😂 usthuphethu uphefumula kanjena inephika yini inkosi
😂😂😂😂😂😂
In community of property, I khona yona leyo property 😢
Yes......
I wish people knew that you can only approach uhome affairs to your marital regime once there's an order from icourt ordering home affairs to change istatus of your marital regime. There should be valid points akwenza ukuthi ufise ukushintsha imarital regime and kumele kube ukuthi ayikho iparty that will suffer prejudice uma kushintshwa imarital regime. When you are changing imarital regime you need a Lawyer to run an application in court and upon valid points being stated inkantolo might grant an order in your favor or dismiss i-application yokushintshwa kwe marital regime.
siyacabanga ukuthi Thando unolwazi
True that hope Moja love will organise it for her. Even though that is sorted she is not happy will that loveless and respect less marriage improve Na. I wish she could get support system that will enlighten her about life in general as I think she has limited exposure
Sisi wafika umuhle kulomshando mina nguwe ngabe ngibuyela ekhaya bese ngiyaqhubeka nenfundo yami ngishiye lengulube
Waze wakhuluma kahle aunt pinky
kakhulu
Thando uhlukumezekile ucindezelwa nawulo gogo ohlezi ethi kuyabekezelwa emendweni
Yes.. once kwaze kwafuneka ukuth ubekezele emshadweni wazi ukuth sekuphele wona, if ubekezela kuzophela nawe nalogogo uyambona akekho ryt, ayikho ryt at all lento eyenzek ku Thando😭😭😭
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What a toxic marriage, my word.🥲 Siyacela doesn't want anything good for Thando. Not to mention how disrespectful he is. For Thando to wake up and smell the coffee, Nkosi yam. 🕯🕯🕯
Kwayena Thando nje she doesn’t want anything good for herself soze yhuuu
Njee akazi thandi😅😂😂
I would never allow someone to get over my head..like siyacela rhaaa
Imagine being in a relationship with someone who's comfortable to insult your mother every chance he gets kodwa usahleli.
Siyacela ufaka size bani kubra
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44 dd😂
Xxxxl
@@thandahmsomi3633😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
UMdu uhlwibi kmele athule
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uSiyacela uthi nabo bhut bakhe ishumane 😂
Ukhuluma kAnjani ngo ma kA Thando ? Yoh iyadelela lengAne
Wena Thando usazohlupheka kakhulu ngoba awazi ukuthi ufunani 😂😂😂😂
Wena mdu thula awuganiwe
Sishimane loyo 😂
😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Manje wena Mdu ufakaza ntoni🚮🚮asikaze simbone owakho unkosikazi
USyacela uyabheda wena uyameseka,,,,aiiisuka😮😮😮
Bathi abelungu ' the best relationship advice comes from the single person '😅😅😅
@@user-se4fh5fq1j 😂😂soze!!!njay'ni??
LENGANE AYIPHUME KULOMFANA ALIKHO IKUSASA LA
nalabomama acela kbona i advice are not wise they think they know everything about marriage kanti they only know the struggles of umshado ngoba mubheka nakbona there was no happiness , bazi ukbekezela nje kphela and it is SAD
Qobo uyofa ezilanda uthando mayengaguga nalo doti womfana
Yaze yayislima indoda kodwa lengane yashadelan nalento nxa
Isilima somfana uyangidina yezwa😩😩😩
Makuthiwa uthando aluboni ay😢
Uthando usesemncane for ukuphila lempilo aphiliswa uSyacela yona, iyhooo Ai angeke😢
Lento abayenza kaThabeth chaa amasimba nje angfuni ukqamba amanga niyakthand ukvela kmaTV ngomsangano
Siyacela akazame ukwehlisa umzimba uze uyehluleka ngisho ukuphefumula umphefumula ngomlomo uzobane sifo senhliziyo
Wangiphuca amagama emlonyeni, uyahefuzela kabuhlungu
Kodwa no Pinky ngathi uyabuhlaba nje😂
😂😂eii lezithuphethu ezimbili mxmm Thando engbe wawubonani kulolugqinsi lwa flour ongakhukhumele😂olungafundile olwagcina ka3😂😂😂
Ukbekezela okuthen oku nkosi yam🙆🙆🙆
Lol abaka Thabethe bayadakwa bebekuph all these years bonke njengoba sebekhona now bayadakwa nje laba
Thando phum nje ku syacela
Makakhululwe uthando ehambe
How can they have a party without umnikqzi we party vele ? Myb ukube bathe it a fam gathering ngabe kuyazwakala
Ilezingane esiy thola komama abangashadilr yoooooo😢😢😢😢😢😢
Yadelela ingane 😭😭
Yini umtshado badelelwa abafazi emhlabeni yingane ehlala ugqoke ama shorts
Uthando kwathabeth bamthandel imal yakh
Thando nje awukho happy kulomshado ongasike yislima xeim siyacela
Uyisilima nje lomdeni
Phuma apho wena Tando, you're still very young. Shiya lomntu ungena skolo nxaaaa
6:34 did siyacela say "besizomnquma kube unotho" 😲😲 noma angizwanga kahle haibo...
Abantu bakwathabethe banescefe nje
I’d cry everyday if I were married to siyacela😭😭 my blood boils by just watching💔
Birthday yani umkhulu egula cha Thembinkosi uyathanda ukubukwa
This is pure madness. Unsure why Thando hates herself like this to endure this much disrespect.
Ungazohlanya wen. Ngulubexe abazali abahlangan nje naloshidi owushoyo
Thabethe family niyabhora
The lady in marroon dress ,,,u should seek more advices from her thando u will be fine nana
Kodwa naye lontombazane maybe izinto azimhambeli kahle nje emshadweni wakhe ubuye eshaywe nawukuthi akamhloniphi ubaba wakhe ukhuluma noma kanjani. Phela umzali wakho ngunkulunkulu wakho wasemhlabeni, regardless ukuthi wenzeni akangenza ini.
Wena okwakho as ingane, mhloniphe, bese amacala akhe ahlale kuye azibonele. Buka nje naleslima esiwuSiyacela simphatha kanje ngoba siyazi samdonsa waphuma ku family yakhe, senza sure ukuthi uphenduka isitha ku family yakhe ukuze angabi na support. UThando akahlele izinto zakhe, abuyisane nomndeni wakhe aphume kulokhu kweyisa umzali wakhe.
Ngiyabonga Baba, iqiniso elingephikwe umuntu ophilayo leli, umzali uyahlonishwa noma enamaphutha, uzozithwalela yena amacala akhe kumdali, musa ukuthwala isono somzali wakho
Aniyeke Thando baba wkhe wamphika aykho into ezolunga
Baba ka Thando guys aaii no maarn akakhulanga xem akanamthetho uyafana nosyacela...ucabanga ukuth uzofika umntana esemdala azom- claimer...f ethi uthando uwrong f efuna imali yokuza kuye....uthi akadize yini ngba nguye ofuna ukumbona
Nanokuthi uzoqhamuka usufonel abantu ema sidini ufuna uThando
Umthetho uthi yena bekufanele aye kwamsomi ayocela abadala bakwamsomi beyozilahla kwadlamuka bamcelela uthando ngba bazi bona abakwa msomi aaii lento ayenzayo kumele amhloniphe usyacela noma enje umkhwenyana akasilo isoka
Awe Waze wafaka enkingeni awukho happy shame shame 😮
Nimenzel kanjn birthday umunt omdala worse part uyagul lobaba akasil lon
Yes angithi niyadelela mange delelanani
uThemkosi noCcwakhe Mbumbulu bayadlana nje
😂😂😂
Syacela is childish xeim😢. When he says "kanti ubungibizela udoti onjena". Cabanga umnyeni wakho esho njalo nje🙌
UMdu akakahle wazini
Nilwa naye kahle kahle🤣😂😅🤣
Waze wagqunqa Thando😢 awubuyele ekhaya
Mina ngizwa kusho ingoma yale story kunzima nje🤞😢
Haybo birthday yomuntu ogulayo ey labodoti yabona nje show izosmisela ngenhliziyo u Thembnkosi nam ngeke nje ngimhloniphe yin yona le
Usyacela ngimhalela ngequpha
Ey yadunyelwa lentombazane isthuphethu njenge ndoda yakhe udela umndeni wakhe ngale sduphunga sesthuphethu sebaze baba ithuphethu bobabili sazozisola girl sazokhala ksekuncane lokhu ngoba awuzwa buka nje vele waguga umncane mmm 😭
Wang'dina from day 1 lomfana shame,so disrespectful,i wonder i moja love ithuleleni thando has endured so much abuse in this marriage this is gbv
Namang Thembinkos azange asho
I love aunt Pinky
Serves her rite uthando u can't just disrespect ur parent's like she did nxa
kwayona lentshebe ephawulayo inaye kodwa umfazi🙄🙄 loSyacela wakhona for sure uyaduma melele lohh
Thando ngifisa afunde azmele iscefe lento yalomshado wakhe iyacika😢
Hehehe kaze ngathini Jesu nginendoda enjengalena ebuye iyokhuluma indaba zethu kobhuti bakhe mxm ngeke
Logogo wakuqala uyasho ukuthi bamtshela ukuthi emendweni kuyabekezelwa wahlupheka wangathandwa,wabuzwa ubuhlungu balokho kodwa utshela uThando enze into efanayo. Aaaay ngeke badala yenzani kangcono
🤦🤦 am an advocate for marriage mara le bekezela accept all the nonsense and also you as the family can't control or reprimand him mathata nje. The wives have no solution they don't even advise her to empower herself to be a better person and self sufficient . Weeeeeeee Thando vuka ugeze, ugcobe ugqoke look pretty ulwele to better your life
Ayy abenze kancono ngempela abantu, how can you bekezela when it is clear that someone doesn't want you.
Baphi omama bendawo abalwela amalalungelo abesfazane endaweni yeehheni
uSyacela akaphilile ekhanda nooo 🙌uhlukumeza uThando nje 😏
Nani ngibuye nginikhohlwe Shembe😭😭🤣🤣😂😂😂💔😩😩
Doti wenja indoda enjena isilima nje esingafundanga
I wanda wena Thando uhlelele into eyaphi kulomshado ubole kanje.. Nenhlonipho ayikho anihloniphan
Mndeni wakaThabethe hhei amasimb labant nxaa
Plz cela ingane zesithembhu please
Mnxm lomndeni wakwaThabethe nedrama ebolile
And ibolile
Postnuptial is expensive. Aka divorce bathi bekezela so she can be like them their husband dead and left them at the mercy of his brothers
Yoh yoh kwa abamama 😭😭😭