This show is a brutal truth of so called progressive Indians...a Boston graduate is telling, if my wife will work who will take care of baby...bloody rich brats...my favs were Nadia and Vyasar
@@MrBiltoria that's the issue this show is trying to showcase... Due to parental and peer pressure... Sometime the guy/girl don't have a choice of their own and are forcefully married to ppl who they are not compatible with
@@souravdatta9990 read my comment bro i m not supporting that show its a commercial show But all i am saying is that indian feminism and western feminism are different And many indian girl like the concept of housewife and balanced family And arrange marriages are like deals so if you are making a deal then there is nothing wrong with make clear demands
Well what you are saying is true but there are various degrees of pressure In some situations love marriages are prohibited But in some cases people complain but cant take a decision for themselves or choose someone for them
Actually I think his statement was blown out of proportion..doesn't a girl also want a life partner with her father's qualities ? That statement would make everyone go Aww but Akshay has Oedipus complex 🙄
Akshay and his brother have Oedipus complex. I mean which mom in law says that you marry this year and his brother will have the baby the next year. I mean she's controlling every one. Shouldn't it be the choice of husband wife about having the child?
@@ruchi5345 Actually, if you ask me although I love my dad a lot and respect him, I don't want my life partner to be like him. I think it's just a mere generalization.
Being a CA student myself I feel bad for the CA girl.....after putting so much of hard work and struggle in her life atlast she was happy and naseeb itna kharab ki ye chutiya mil gaya😒😒
Abe Sadhguru wohi gandu hai jo bolta hai ki, jab ek aurat twins paida karti hai or wo ek ladki or ek ladka hota hai, toh mother k dono breast alag alag doodh paida karta hai. As in ladke k lia alag or ladki k lia alag Or tu aise chutiyo ko follow kar raha hai Kal ka Ram Raheem hai yeh, likh k lele.
I am happy to see that so many people hate seeing someone judging another person on the basis of his looks. I wish people also apply this in their own life.
So true...everyone says they are progressive but when it comes to their own sons and daughters they want tall, fair, good looking, highly educated and of same caste too. Such is our hypocrisy
Honestly it’s ugly but true. I a deal with filthy rich people who is getting married and they are like that. Judging each and every thing. I feel pity for them.
Seema is not the problem It's the problem of her customers She is giving service of their choice, like you're using abusive language in your show thinking it's cool amidst young
Seriously that girl has A CA and an MBA and he and her mom still wants her to work at home... Once I saw they r getting married... I was screaming... Girl just run away😰😰
Pradhyuman was irritating too. He was just feeding makhana cooked in nitrogen and gave it a fancy name. And he has his photograph on the handle of his bedroom door...
Ok first thing that struck me host using the word "Adyair Umar". All throughout the video you are talking about how the characters in the show are judgemental and showing prejudice against color, height, etc. I thought the host started off the video doing the same being judgemental and calling names for unmarried people of a certain age range. Also if someone is accepting on national television that they are lonely. I think it takes a lot of courage to do so and it's admirable than being mocked for. There were a lot of aspects of the show that I didn't accept but I think it's also very important to be sensitive towards the people that are involved in the show and not ridicule them to such a level as they are real people. "Practice what you preach" I know it's not easy but we can all try to be best versions of ourselves.
Exactly. What is wrong with being middle age?? Everyone ages. And not all are lucky to find their true love or life partner, no matter how much they try. Am like what is wrong with being single in your middle age?? So what if you are in your 30's and not married. Does getting married gives you some kinda certificate or award??
I agree, no one got time to get married till they are settled unlike people who just want to depend on their spouse and want dowry. It’s normal to be single in 30s in western countries
Love - Love your review. I live in UK, and to hear someone from India talking common sense is refreshing. There is hope for our culture, if people can laugh at the judgments our society applies. Well done
I was shocked when Akshay's sister said - What about 'THE CHICK' from Udaipur. Really ?? ' Chick ???' ...I find no difference between Akshay's cousin sister and a Roadside illiterate Loafer .... I still wonder why no one pointed this out 😑
We judged Aparna so quickly but blamed Akshay for marrying a CA ,, yaar that CA girl in spite of her education decided to marry him for his money even though he has such regressed thinking and overpowering mother .. so just don’t blame the guy , he went after the looks and she went after the money 💰
I would feel sad for the girl if she married that sick fuck. Imagine being that qualified and talented to be a CA and then staying at home doing chores
I strongly object to everything in the show BUT it is the reality of 80% arranged maariages irrespective of their economic status and educational background.
I randomly found this guy on CZcams, watched his 4 more shots ka review video and damn!! Kaha chhupe the yar??? Such such honest straight forward and bang on videos!! We need more like you!!!!❤️
Akshay- I need a women who does what mother does and cook like my mother, take care of babies bcoz that’s not me rightrrr Me- dear tereko partner nahi mom replacement chiya.
How do you like a guy dont u like yr guy to be good looking? Nd if you say no. Please let me see your boyfriend. Or if your e single and u dun go on looks ryt go give a chance to some ugly guy who loves u unconditionally but because of looks or money u will be the one who will deny his offer and p.s you will simply try to prove me wrong which you can but u knw yhe reality
@@9999905422 if you are good looking yourself then it’s fair but if someone looks like Akshay then it’s a high expectation..but he got the pretty girl in the end 😂
I feel bad for that CA girl..I thought she would be sensible enough..she threw away all her education to marry that cartoon character who can't stand up for himself..it's clearly visible on his face he's being pressurised to marry soon...he got way more than what he deserved..he wants a good looking,tall , fair, educated, housewife whose like his mother..
Each and every words u said about this series is true... as a NRI I m so ashamed. How peoples in other countries will judge Indian just because of this 💩 show. Toxic kids with toxic moms with a toxic show. Why they show like rich people have no mind ? The boy praduman its lok he wants a model wife for show off. And Akshay and her mom omg 😱 lots of sympathy for her wife.
Agreed... This is what our society is. Gucci ki belt pehen lene se khayal change nahi hote...and every one (save a few) is regressive. One thing I liked is that they highlighted that boys also get a lot of pressure to get married in our society, its not just girls. Usually when we talk about marriage pressure the conversation revolves around women... And this show highlights ki ladkon par bhi utna hi pressure hota hai
@Naveen singh Atleast he's not like 'respect mothers and women ' and lo 'be******* or m**********'. Many big youtubers swear but no-one of them created pathetic examples like Shubham Mishra. Understand the difference bro. It's not what u say, it's what impact u have on ur listeners. And may be u find his swearing cute(thats why u wrote 🤣), I don't .🤣🤣
This is so true! This show is a true representation of what “needs to change” in India. Girls/boys shouldn’t find a life partner just by looks, color and how much money someone makes.
It shows that Sima is okay with serving to this kind of superficial criteria. If she wasn't judgemental she would've just rejected this show, isn't it? In the show "A suitable girl" she indulges in the same kind of behaviour as her clients.
She is quite a smart businesswoman She knows exactly what Indian society is like, and she knows people here are slow to change and have a shitty mentality. She knows to deal with them. Hating her is not the solution, she didn't make Indian society like this we did that all on our own.
Alka Soli SEER CREATORS , Doing her job doesn’t mean she supports everything. If not her, someone else will do that job. Moreover, she did try telling her clients to change their rather unrealistic expectations. This sadly does not go well with people because no one wants to compromise on their idea of a “perfect” partner!
My dear Prasher, your analysis of this show INDIAN MATCHMAKING is 100% honest and highly commendable. Hard to believe that you spoke about how I felt about those characters and Seema Aunty. Your last comment about the depiction of the NRI, India's wealth status, and the rest was the cherry on the top. I am looking forward to your review on Koffee with Karan ( Indian Liberace).
That guy Akshay, O God, he was with the second most cringe mentality on the show(first one is his mom, definitely). He wants someone just like his mom because he is so obsessed with her that he doesn't even a piece of brownie without her permission. His mother has him into her clenches so tight that he is just an immature mamma's puppet. But jab kismat me likhe ho pakode, to lag hi nahi sakte lau**. He gets matched to a pretty, tall, well educated Chartered Accountant. God works in mysterious ways.
@@bahnikasen6114 Exactly.. how can someone control you so much and how can you let someone do that. We all respect our mothers but there is always a line. Agar thoda bhi aur control show karte to Oedipus Syndrome ka case ho jata..
Yes but he broke the engagement reasoning he couldn't even talk to her for 5mins, how can he spend the rest of his life with this girl. But in reality, I'm sure, radhika dumped this Mama's boy.
Absolutely! Once married Akshay would have asked her to leave her job, sit at home, prepare his tiffin and tc of their kids. She would have regretted it.
Akshay reminds me of this extremely wealthy Indian guy who liked me in college. He was extremely rich like Akshay and lived in a huge palace like house too. He wanted to introduce me to his parents and be with me forever as he put it, even though we weren’t dating lol I was just his friend and went out with him a couple of times. Like Akshay, he had no idea how to talk to a female. He had never even kissed a girl or anything. I told him I wasn’t interested and he asked me if the reason I didn’t like him was because he was black (he was very dark skinned), which really opened my eyes about colorism in India. I’m not Indian so I was a bit confused as to why he would say that until I learned just how important skin color is in India. His parents would have probably disowned him if he would have started a relationship with me because I’m not Indian lol
Well it isn't wrong if he didn't kiss anyone. It's normal in India. We just wait to marry before doing all that & him wanting to introduce you to his parents means he was really serious about you because that's a huge thing in India coz we normally hide even our opposite sex friends too as parents will scold us for it
Shantanu I don't think it is fair to say things what you said about Sima . When she talks about height, fairness, and caste, it is not her who dictates that she is a matchmaker she is supposed to find matches based on family preferences
My dear shantanu , Not everyone is like me and you who doesn’t care about color or or height, Grooms and bride demand all these things, So sima is just serving that only
@@ShanPrasher I dont understand why some new age Indians are pretending this is all new and shocking to them. Dont you read the papers. Just look at the matrimonial coloumn, its far worse than its portrayed in the show. Casteism shadism and racism are so open and bare in society it shocks the daylights out of foreign visitors. Go on the streets or in your neighbourhood and ask people their views and even in 2020 most Indians will agree with the show and call it a liberal view.
I honestly wish people like the matchmaker did not exist, so that atleast a fraction of these people never find their toxic twin to procreate with thus ending their casteist,racist and straight up misogynist lineage with them. JaiMataDi. XD
Rather than writing letter to Seema Aunty,write one to Families, and People who set such criteria. She is just a mediator doing her job, fulfilling the requirements of her clients. We say times are changing such criterias, checklists are antiquated,take one look to matrimonial ads and apps ,those still exist. The show is horrible but it's also very much Real. By showing high class here,they meant that these are families so educated,well to do nd all but still their Mental state still same..
@@happyjollyjolly8850 first of all unki engagement tut chuki h kab ki or dusra....ak C.A ko kisi or se paise k liye shadi krne ki kha se jrurat pad gai? 🤣
I think that’s the actual reality of our Indian society especially for the people who believe that they’re far more educated and are the heterodox. They say something else and they follow and do something else...that’s why our society isn’t able to develop in a way it should be developed.
if i want my partner to be beautiful/ handsome (which everybody wants) and i reject someone by looking at their picture whome i don't find attractive , is that a bad thing ?
Loved the roast Shantanu. These couples don't end up together. And it's scripted to some extent as Nadia ke third date pe Vipul didn't ghost her, he actually justifies it on social media. Akshay breaks the engagement the next day.
God knows y Netflix India is doing this to us. In other countries netflix hve shows like Dark, Black Mirror, Stranger Things, Altered Carbon, etc. Bt in India netflix gives us IndianMatch making, Beetal. Y netflix y???
This docu series showcases some bitter truth and harsh realities which do exist in the Indian System but I feel the way it has been executed or showcased like kind of people portrayed in the series, the millennial generation is not being able to relate with such stereotypes and that's the reason why lot of negative comments are pouring in for the show. But I feel its helping Netflix making it a commercial potboiler and people should watch it in a fun manner..
We watched this show and I think it reflects to a great extent what people are looking in their partner. It is unfair to say Sima Taparia is judgmental, she is just telling what people are looking for. Even in this day today, people do pay importance to looks, color, height, money etc. and that is reality whether we like it or not. It is true few people on that show were annoying and irritating to us, but it is who they are. It is wrong for us to be judgemental about these people.
Totally agree with everything you said Akshay and his mother were biggest disappointment. Can’t believe such mummy daddy controlled remote controls exist It’s not relatable at all.
Isn't this what indian arranged marriages are? Your parents deciding someone for you based on looks and salary. The middle class still wants their daughters to not have an opinion about their marriage
Seema aunty is a product of people's demands. She knows that in their minds people judge their potential partners on all these bases but they don't say it out loud many times. She considers all these qualities because she already knows that this is what people want. The better you judge the better matchmaker you are.
Problem with this show is, no self respecting family displays the process of finding a suitable match for their child. They don't even tell their close relatives until these things are finalized. I am not sure these families featured, want the matches to happen or the motive is to become famous on TV.
@@sharda2886 So what Radhika.. may be he want his wife to be carrier oriented... there are so many couples where man is carrier oriented and woman is not.. the only issue is teachers are not well respected.. So why girls are so afraid to take the responsibility?
But shan don't you think our society is like this. Showing things like this maybe a good thing for people to know that these things still exists in India and we ourselves should not do something like this.
This is a reality of Indians I face every day highly intelligent Indian wants katrina with degree of shanta bai and figure of Gigi Hadid which allowed me to take decision that living single is much better
you are getting better with every review good to see that now you actually review the show not like the honest review times when you and zain only used to crack jokes..
Although I have already watched this video, I'm watching it again, and god, Shan's video making and presentation has grown immensely! The honesty level is still the same but the humor n entertainment is so better n captivating now! Still, it's these videos that made me subscribe him n I'm glad I did ❤
Waiting for the day when you came to make men's XP just for one day as guest to roast salman Khan for his best hit flop movies 😂😂😂 can't imagine how much funny it will be to see three of you
FRIENDS is overrated, NOT.
Likha hai, hahah. Yaar.
Your reviews are best bro😂😂
🤣🤣
Sahi bhole, Shantanu bhai.
@@Nopy4263 not bhi likha, padh lete use.
@@wassupbhavesh sarcasm me bola hai
This show is a brutal truth of so called progressive Indians...a Boston graduate is telling, if my wife will work who will take care of baby...bloody rich brats...my favs were Nadia and Vyasar
Nadia,Vyasar and that lady with the kid... I thght these 3 wer genuinely nice ppl and wanted them to get good matches🙌🏼
so dont marry him some who would like to be a housewife would do that but please respect housewives
@@MrBiltoria that's the issue this show is trying to showcase... Due to parental and peer pressure... Sometime the guy/girl don't have a choice of their own and are forcefully married to ppl who they are not compatible with
@@souravdatta9990 read my comment bro i m not supporting that show its a commercial show
But all i am saying is that indian feminism and western feminism are different
And many indian girl like the concept of housewife and balanced family
And arrange marriages are like deals so if you are making a deal then there is nothing wrong with make clear demands
Well what you are saying is true but there are various degrees of pressure
In some situations love marriages are prohibited
But in some cases people complain but cant take a decision for themselves or choose someone for them
Akshay's oedipal complex is what must have inspired Freud's thesis. I have never seen someone want EVERY girl around him to be his Mom THIS MUCH.
Actually I think his statement was blown out of proportion..doesn't a girl also want a life partner with her father's qualities ? That statement would make everyone go Aww but Akshay has Oedipus complex 🙄
@@ruchi5345 nope
Akshay and his brother have Oedipus complex. I mean which mom in law says that you marry this year and his brother will have the baby the next year. I mean she's controlling every one. Shouldn't it be the choice of husband wife about having the child?
Its more Stockholm than oedipal .. The poor guy was kidnapped as a baby and never got to leave the womb he came out of.
@@ruchi5345 Actually, if you ask me although I love my dad a lot and respect him, I don't want my life partner to be like him. I think it's just a mere generalization.
Being a CA student myself I feel bad for the CA girl.....after putting so much of hard work and struggle in her life atlast she was happy and naseeb itna kharab ki ye chutiya mil gaya😒😒
Bhai lag to graphic era wale hain aap
Not really...anyone who falls into marriage too quickly without knowing a person at basic level...it's stupid -_-
Thankfully they are not together . She will be fine now.
What did I do? How did you find out? I’m happy for her if she is not with him
They broke up. Don't worry.
What is education?
Ans=The way to become a Human
People Ans=the way to get job,wife,big house
It's Both.
True
Education is a way through which we can understand what is wrong/right and how we should behave..
@@ICLA_YT agree 👍👍👍
@Pranshu They are not well educated. They are well trained
So basically its Rakhi ka Swayamvar with fake accent!! 😅
Hahahaa
*The purpose of marriage is to multiply the joy , if you are multiplying misery ; That's a crime against humanity* - Sadhguru
Abe Sadhguru wohi gandu hai jo bolta hai ki, jab ek aurat twins paida karti hai or wo ek ladki or ek ladka hota hai, toh mother k dono breast alag alag doodh paida karta hai.
As in ladke k lia alag or ladki k lia alag
Or tu aise chutiyo ko follow kar raha hai
Kal ka Ram Raheem hai yeh, likh k lele.
Aparna is multiplying misery
@@Vision_Voyagers sadhguru is better than zakhir Naik
@@aniketjaiswal3147 kar di na ludo wali baat, Zakir Naik chutye ka naam kisne lia ludo.
Didn’t Sadhguru murder his wife? So much for multiplying joy 😬
I am happy to see that so many people hate seeing someone judging another person on the basis of his looks. I wish people also apply this in their own life.
So true...everyone says they are progressive but when it comes to their own sons and daughters they want tall, fair, good looking, highly educated and of same caste too. Such is our hypocrisy
But in an arranged marriage what else are you supposed to judge on?
4:27 "Yeh log Judgemental, narcissistic, misogynist, boarder line shameless hai..... Basically tum inko Hindustani Bhau keh sakhte ho" 😂🤣🤣
Show dekhne layak hai like one time watch?
"Itne se rang se kaaala reh gya", I died luaghing hearing this line.
The way pradyuman spoke about jalgaon is so sickening
Honestly it’s ugly but true. I a deal with filthy rich people who is getting married and they are like that. Judging each and every thing. I feel pity for them.
Seema is not the problem
It's the problem of her customers
She is giving service of their choice, like you're using abusive language in your show thinking it's cool amidst young
👌 exactly.
True
Right
I agree 💯
So true yaar....
“Shaddi clearance exam” 🤣🤣🤣
Akshay was the most irritating character they shown.....
Seriously that girl has A CA and an MBA and he and her mom still wants her to work at home... Once I saw they r getting married... I was screaming... Girl just run away😰😰
Sourav Datta they did break up eventually. Great for the girl😀
I know right. At one point I thought it's all staged up cause I can't believe someone can be sucha douchebag.
@@souravdatta9990 they can demand whatever they want its upto the other party to entertain their wishes or shut em up
Pradhyuman was irritating too. He was just feeding makhana cooked in nitrogen and gave it a fancy name. And he has his photograph on the handle of his bedroom door...
Ok first thing that struck me host using the word "Adyair Umar". All throughout the video you are talking about how the characters in the show are judgemental and showing prejudice against color, height, etc. I thought the host started off the video doing the same being judgemental and calling names for unmarried people of a certain age range. Also if someone is accepting on national television that they are lonely. I think it takes a lot of courage to do so and it's admirable than being mocked for. There were a lot of aspects of the show that I didn't accept but I think it's also very important to be sensitive towards the people that are involved in the show and not ridicule them to such a level as they are real people. "Practice what you preach" I know it's not easy but we can all try to be best versions of ourselves.
Totally agree !
Exactly. What is wrong with being middle age?? Everyone ages. And not all are lucky to find their true love or life partner, no matter how much they try. Am like what is wrong with being single in your middle age?? So what if you are in your 30's and not married. Does getting married gives you some kinda certificate or award??
I agree, no one got time to get married till they are settled unlike people who just want to depend on their spouse and want dowry. It’s normal to be single in 30s in western countries
Love - Love your review. I live in UK, and to hear someone from India talking common sense is refreshing. There is hope for our culture, if people can laugh at the judgments our society applies. Well done
Very good
I won't be surprised if any of these guys end up as psychopath killer in coming years
There is another series "A suitable girl" On netflix in which Sima Aunty is getting her daughter married 😂🤭
@N P it was shot in 2010 and it's a sad reality that nothing much has changed since then.
Exactly "a suitable man" has more irritating mother than seema aunty
@@preetsandhu6402 hahaha true that
I was shocked when Akshay's sister said - What about 'THE CHICK' from Udaipur. Really ?? ' Chick ???' ...I find no difference between Akshay's cousin sister and a Roadside illiterate Loafer ....
I still wonder why no one pointed this out 😑
@riaz issah lmaoo
Ama yaar!! That letter was everything the world needs but friends is overrated NOT. Loads of love ❤
That's sarcasm
Hahah. During the whole video my eyes were stuck on FRIENDS IS OVERRATED. Low quality me video dhkhne ka natiza comments padhne aya to dhikha😂
Dude ..sima aunty is only doing what she is told by her clients. These are not her views. Dont confuse the 2.
The show is a mirror of Indian society.
Exactly
Yeah she is just doing her job lol.I don't blame her.She knows what's the criteria for parents.
You have to blame her for opting that as a JOB
@@alkasoli4002 her job is to get people married... it doesnt qualify as a crime
@@mrp5764 it is not a crime??
To get people married?? What she knows about LIFE?
She lacks MATURITY..
We judged Aparna so quickly but blamed Akshay for marrying a CA ,, yaar that CA girl in spite of her education decided to marry him for his money even though he has such regressed thinking and overpowering mother .. so just don’t blame the guy , he went after the looks and she went after the money 💰
Thank u
Finally
Indeed.
Radhika rejected him later
@@kakolibhattacharya3980 🤣🤣🤣🤤
@Novelapanti idk but also it wouldn’t affect me as I am a nobody 🙂
Writing letter is always the funniest part 😂
True 🤣
No thanks. No regards. 🤣
Yes.. I love the letter writing ✍️ part
That was really hilarious. I think i peed a little 😂😂😂
@@maryjeen1063 TMI lol
Akshay didn’t get married to the girl...the engagement was called off
thank god !
I would feel sad for the girl if she married that sick fuck. Imagine being that qualified and talented to be a CA and then staying at home doing chores
I strongly object to everything in the show BUT it is the reality of 80% arranged maariages irrespective of their economic status and educational background.
I randomly found this guy on CZcams, watched his 4 more shots ka review video and damn!! Kaha chhupe the yar??? Such such honest straight forward and bang on videos!! We need more like you!!!!❤️
Same
One of my friend's friend apparently reached out to her. And guess what, she is booked till the end of 2021.
Akshay- I need a women who does what mother does and cook like my mother, take care of babies bcoz that’s not me rightrrr
Me- dear tereko partner nahi mom replacement chiya.
How do you like a guy dont u like yr guy to be good looking? Nd if you say no. Please let me see your boyfriend. Or if your e single and u dun go on looks ryt go give a chance to some ugly guy who loves u unconditionally but because of looks or money u will be the one who will deny his offer and p.s you will simply try to prove me wrong which you can but u knw yhe reality
@@9999905422 if you are good looking yourself then it’s fair but if someone looks like Akshay then it’s a high expectation..but he got the pretty girl in the end 😂
The last nail in the coffin was the decision to name it "INDIAN" match making
I feel bad for that CA girl..I thought she would be sensible enough..she threw away all her education to marry that cartoon character who can't stand up for himself..it's clearly visible on his face he's being pressurised to marry soon...he got way more than what he deserved..he wants a good looking,tall , fair, educated, housewife whose like his mother..
Update: they are no longer engaged. I checked! Their engagement broke off after the shooting of the show. I'm so glad. She's safe!
@@juhisengu5633 oooo thank god 🙇
Each and every words u said about this series is true... as a NRI I m so ashamed. How peoples in other countries will judge Indian just because of this 💩 show. Toxic kids with toxic moms with a toxic show. Why they show like rich people have no mind ? The boy praduman its lok he wants a model wife for show off. And Akshay and her mom omg 😱 lots of sympathy for her wife.
Don't hate the show. Hate the rotten traditions of our society. It just puts a mirror to it. Nothing shown in it is unreal.
Agreed... This is what our society is. Gucci ki belt pehen lene se khayal change nahi hote...and every one (save a few) is regressive. One thing I liked is that they highlighted that boys also get a lot of pressure to get married in our society, its not just girls. Usually when we talk about marriage pressure the conversation revolves around women... And this show highlights ki ladkon par bhi utna hi pressure hota hai
@MrMagooo At least they have choice to get married or get divorced.
How are traditions to blame?? These are stigmas and stereotypes not traditions.
Absolutely , very true
I don't think anything except being rich was taken into account traditionally.
Bravo... That Hindustani bhau sarcasm... Respect 👍👍👌
@Naveen singh Atleast he's not like 'respect mothers and women ' and lo 'be******* or m**********'. Many big youtubers swear but no-one of them created pathetic examples like Shubham Mishra. Understand the difference bro.
It's not what u say, it's what impact u have on ur listeners.
And may be u find his swearing cute(thats why u wrote 🤣), I don't .🤣🤣
This is so true! This show is a true representation of what “needs to change” in India. Girls/boys shouldn’t find a life partner just by looks, color and how much money someone makes.
Why do you call Sima Judgemental ? She’s merely trying to match her clients‘ requirements !
She deserves such blame for opting that as a JOB
It shows that Sima is okay with serving to this kind of superficial criteria. If she wasn't judgemental she would've just rejected this show, isn't it? In the show "A suitable girl" she indulges in the same kind of behaviour as her clients.
She is quite a smart businesswoman
She knows exactly what Indian society is like, and she knows people here are slow to change and have a shitty mentality. She knows to deal with them. Hating her is not the solution, she didn't make Indian society like this we did that all on our own.
@@NidzShah-ps6kr But she is supporting that.. So there is no problem in hating her too
Alka Soli SEER CREATORS , Doing her job doesn’t mean she supports everything. If not her, someone else will do that job. Moreover, she did try telling her clients to change their rather unrealistic expectations. This sadly does not go well with people because no one wants to compromise on their idea of a “perfect” partner!
My dear Prasher, your analysis of this show INDIAN MATCHMAKING is 100% honest and highly commendable. Hard to believe that you spoke about how I felt about those characters and Seema Aunty. Your last comment about the depiction of the NRI, India's wealth status, and the rest was the cherry on the top. I am looking forward to your review on Koffee with Karan ( Indian Liberace).
3:06 "...tumhari zindagi to Uday Chopra ki picture jaisi ho gayi bhaiya, koii puchhega v nhi"
Me: 👁👄👁 uday chopra?????!????? Wo kaun hai?!???!???
Dhum machaaaaa leee dhum machaaa le dhum dhum
Exactly..
That guy Akshay, O God, he was with the second most cringe mentality on the show(first one is his mom, definitely). He wants someone just like his mom because he is so obsessed with her that he doesn't even a piece of brownie without her permission. His mother has him into her clenches so tight that he is just an immature mamma's puppet. But jab kismat me likhe ho pakode, to lag hi nahi sakte lau**. He gets matched to a pretty, tall, well educated Chartered Accountant.
God works in mysterious ways.
And when he said..I can't eat that brownie..my mom will kill me...
@@bahnikasen6114 Exactly.. how can someone control you so much and how can you let someone do that. We all respect our mothers but there is always a line. Agar thoda bhi aur control show karte to Oedipus Syndrome ka case ho jata..
Yes but he broke the engagement reasoning he couldn't even talk to her for 5mins, how can he spend the rest of his life with this girl. But in reality, I'm sure, radhika dumped this Mama's boy.
@@luluelmaknunfariha4428 I am sure you're right. But whosoever broke it, I am happy for the girl. She avoided being caught in an unbreakable trap.
Absolutely! Once married Akshay would have asked her to leave her job, sit at home, prepare his tiffin and tc of their kids. She would have regretted it.
This guy has seriously missed the truth about the show..the ugly face of society..
Ha bhai dus baar gaali de.. log dekhkege tera content.😊
@@cinefact3767 hota to bhai kaafi jagah hai.. it's great that you haven't experienced it personally.. but to some good extent it's out there..
Humare yeha bhi nai hota😊
@@urta9048 Humare Assam mein toh nahi hota aisa. Na hi bengal mein hota hai.
Meri Mom ko khud gussa chadh gaya jab unhone ye show dekha😂
Reality h ji...me being 29and single, can totally understand this...yes what u said abt families are absolutely true.. buy then dude sab sach h..
Akshay reminds me of this extremely wealthy Indian guy who liked me in college. He was extremely rich like Akshay and lived in a huge palace like house too. He wanted to introduce me to his parents and be with me forever as he put it, even though we weren’t dating lol I was just his friend and went out with him a couple of times. Like Akshay, he had no idea how to talk to a female. He had never even kissed a girl or anything. I told him I wasn’t interested and he asked me if the reason I didn’t like him was because he was black (he was very dark skinned), which really opened my eyes about colorism in India. I’m not Indian so I was a bit confused as to why he would say that until I learned just how important skin color is in India. His parents would have probably disowned him if he would have started a relationship with me because I’m not Indian lol
Well it isn't wrong if he didn't kiss anyone. It's normal in India. We just wait to marry before doing all that & him wanting to introduce you to his parents means he was really serious about you because that's a huge thing in India coz we normally hide even our opposite sex friends too as parents will scold us for it
0:10 me when i finished breaking bad coz i want to see it again with same suspense.
the best show ever
same here bro
I live in the US and the show has already made it to CNN news on how Indian judge people for marriage
All indians
Next Netflix will be producing kahan ghar ghar ki 🤦🏻♂️
I loved Nadia and Vyasar. I think they were really sweet and positive.
Shantanu I don't think it is fair to say things what you said about Sima . When she talks about height, fairness, and caste, it is not her who dictates that she is a matchmaker she is supposed to find matches based on family preferences
Getting married is like jumping in front of train many many times !
My dear shantanu , Not everyone is like me and you who doesn’t care about color or or height, Grooms and bride demand all these things, So sima is just serving that only
My dear Ishita,
Whoever has these demands, they are straight up idiots.
That I know bud. I knoe a friend who is looking for a groom and her demands are just like Aparna. She rejects every boy
@@ShanPrasher idiot nahi chutiya, chutiye hai sab ke sab
@@ShanPrasher I dont understand why some new age Indians are pretending this is all new and shocking to them. Dont you read the papers. Just look at the matrimonial coloumn, its far worse than its portrayed in the show. Casteism shadism and racism are so open and bare in society it shocks the daylights out of foreign visitors. Go on the streets or in your neighbourhood and ask people their views and even in 2020 most Indians will agree with the show and call it a liberal view.
I honestly wish people like the matchmaker did not exist, so that atleast a fraction of these people never find their toxic twin to procreate with thus ending their casteist,racist and straight up misogynist lineage with them.
JaiMataDi. XD
Bhai Akshay ki shaadi nai hui thankfully. It was just an engagement which he broke off the very next day😂
This channel is Underrated!! Sharing this video as much as possible. Wish you 100k soon, and then 1M 😊♥️
No
Rather than writing letter to Seema Aunty,write one to Families, and People who set such criteria. She is just a mediator doing her job, fulfilling the requirements of her clients.
We say times are changing such criterias, checklists are antiquated,take one look to matrimonial ads and apps ,those still exist. The show is horrible but it's also very much Real. By showing high class here,they meant that these are families so educated,well to do nd all but still their Mental state still same..
Blame her too for opting that as a JOB
I love how he said " multicoloured Indian audiences" !
It was best comedy show 😂... I just watched and laughed a lot
"Four more shots please" in reality show
He has already done its review.. n its very good 👍
@@aimans2312 yaa
"Basically tum unhe hindustani bhau bol sakte ho" that was epic 😂😂
Brother, I belong to a lower middle class family, but I and my family do not have such a bad thinking for women.
Kasam se Akshay ko dekh ke khoon kholta hai 😂😂🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
But still a CA is marrying him.money talks😅😅
@@happyjollyjolly8850 first of all unki engagement tut chuki h kab ki or dusra....ak C.A ko kisi or se paise k liye shadi krne ki kha se jrurat pad gai? 🤣
I think that’s the actual reality of our Indian society especially for the people who believe that they’re far more educated and are the heterodox. They say something else and they follow and do something else...that’s why our society isn’t able to develop in a way it should be developed.
It's hard to find a bride nowadays, even tougher than clearing civil services.
Also a decent groom.
You can find a unicorn but not a decent groom 😂
@@buzzbuzz4029 😂
@@buzzbuzz4029 i think both boy and girl should be loyal and faithful
buzz or amazing
if i want my partner to be beautiful/ handsome (which everybody wants) and i reject someone by looking at their picture whome i don't find attractive , is that a bad thing ?
Loved the roast Shantanu. These couples don't end up together. And it's scripted to some extent as Nadia ke third date pe Vipul didn't ghost her, he actually justifies it on social media. Akshay breaks the engagement the next day.
Omg I saw the show trailer and was waiting for your words on this😂 worth the anticipation
God knows y Netflix India is doing this to us. In other countries netflix hve shows like Dark, Black Mirror, Stranger Things, Altered Carbon, etc. Bt in India netflix gives us IndianMatch making, Beetal. Y netflix y???
Uhm indian matchmaker also shows in de netherland
Indian Arrange Marriage is basically the insurance schemes for the caste system and all of the problems which caste system has produced in India.
Unfortunately, this is the reality. Rather than bashing the show, we must bash our society.
I dont blame Sima Taparia.. its just what people demand.. she does not make these criteria..
This docu series showcases some bitter truth and harsh realities which do exist in the Indian System but I feel the way it has been executed or showcased like kind of people portrayed in the series, the millennial generation is not being able to relate with such stereotypes and that's the reason why lot of negative comments are pouring in for the show. But I feel its helping Netflix making it a commercial potboiler and people should watch it in a fun manner..
Never wanted this video to end, it exponentially better than the one zain and shubham did
Akshay = My ex explained, surprisingly his name was Akshay too 🤣
We watched this show and I think it reflects to a great extent what people are looking in their partner. It is unfair to say Sima Taparia is judgmental, she is just telling what people are looking for. Even in this day today, people do pay importance to looks, color, height, money etc. and that is reality whether we like it or not. It is true few people on that show were annoying and irritating to us, but it is who they are. It is wrong for us to be judgemental about these people.
You deserve 1M Subs (minimum) bro.,.
I love how candid and into it shan's reviews always are 🤣
Please marry me 🙏
Never heard my name being taken that many times! This Aparna did me dirty 😭
Hhaha!
Totally agree with everything you said
Akshay and his mother were biggest disappointment.
Can’t believe such mummy daddy controlled remote controls exist
It’s not relatable at all.
Yes your are right..
'veg momo'and 'veg biriyani' there is nothing called veg momo and veg biriyani.
No shade on veg biryani. dictionary.cambridge.org/de/worterbuch/englisch/biryani
The fact is that this happens in our country.., that makes it even more funnier
Akshay= Anurag kashyap look alike 😂😂😂
Isn't this what indian arranged marriages are? Your parents deciding someone for you based on looks and salary. The middle class still wants their daughters to not have an opinion about their marriage
"basically tum unko hindustani bhau bol sakte ho" oh my god xDDDDDDDD
Somebody get a necromancer and wake Freud up because akshay just became the poster boy for the Oedipus conplex
Believe it or not that's the reality of our society every one wants the best 😂😂😂
What is the definition of 'best'?
These standards are set by public perception.
"nahi woh momo hai aur nahi woh biryani" dude you have my entire respect for those words, I bow to thee!
Sima aunty is just doing her business...show is the reality of Indian society...
This show is disgrace to our society, This is not Indian matchmaking It's NRI matchmaking.
FINALLY !! Someone has spoken the truth. Akshay wala case ,well quoted 👍 By god , I was so agitated while I was watching the show in 2x speed 🙄
Seema aunty is a product of people's demands. She knows that in their minds people judge their potential partners on all these bases but they don't say it out loud many times. She considers all these qualities because she already knows that this is what people want. The better you judge the better matchmaker you are.
Problem with this show is, no self respecting family displays the process of finding a suitable match for their child. They don't even tell their close relatives until these things are finalized. I am not sure these families featured, want the matches to happen or the motive is to become famous on TV.
Do yourself a favor. Don’t get married. Have a partner but not marriage, not kids.
I really liked the guy vyasar in this show. He was the most and humble and funny guy out of all idiots.
Yaaaa... I also liked Vyasar..
Yea but he was a man child with no career aspirations.
Me too
@@sharda2886 So what Radhika.. may be he want his wife to be carrier oriented... there are so many couples where man is carrier oriented and woman is not.. the only issue is teachers are not well respected.. So why girls are so afraid to take the responsibility?
Ohh matlab ladkiyo ko ab vyasar jaise ladke pasand hai aur mai bad boy aise hi bann gaya
A mirror of Indian society !
Glad to see you a long time after movie reviews, you're funny
But shan don't you think our society is like this. Showing things like this maybe a good thing for people to know that these things still exists in India and we ourselves should not do something like this.
This is a reality of Indians I face every day highly intelligent Indian wants katrina with degree of shanta bai and figure of Gigi Hadid which allowed me to take decision that living single is much better
😄🤣
True
Arrange marriages are two way deal
Its up to you to take it or leave it
Not everyone has the same privilege as you
@@ishjaipur15 whom are you referring to
I think Netflix wanted to show the dark side of Indian matchmaking and reality of marriages...
you are getting better with every review good to see that now you actually review the show not like the honest review times when you and zain only used to crack jokes..
Although I have already watched this video, I'm watching it again, and god, Shan's video making and presentation has grown immensely! The honesty level is still the same but the humor n entertainment is so better n captivating now! Still, it's these videos that made me subscribe him n I'm glad I did ❤
Waiting for the day when you came to make men's XP just for one day as guest to roast salman Khan for his best hit flop movies 😂😂😂 can't imagine how much funny it will be to see three of you
Ms. Annoying Aparna calls Dubai a "strange place" but wishes to go to Pakistan 😒. Seriously?