Such wonderful advice that we get what we think we will. Challenge is when we've been hurt in love before it becomes harder to relax and not be nervous that they'll leave. And having an anxious/insecure attachment style makes it even harder. Want to know if you have anxious attachment? -> bit.ly/love_bonding_quiz
I already know I have an anxious attachment style without even taking a quiz. It goes so deep I dont think it can be fixed. I was in 4 homes by the age of 5 which I definitely interpreted as a child as repeated rejection, being unlovable, and instilled insecurity and no self worth. And despite all the counseling in the world all my sense of worth is in other people and only happy when they want me only and I cannot tolerate a guy who dates around and I feel like I'm not good enough if a guy doesn't want to stop seeing others and only be with me. Instead of just feeling I'm wonderful no matter what people on the outside think of me. And once I develop feelings for someone I hold on tight as possible to stop him from seeing others and I cant find anyone else attractive and dont want to date others like hes dating others. I'm just sick of dating and want to find one person and be in a relationship but it seems I'm the only person who wants that as far as men I find attractive.
How can u explain . Like i liked someone i wish to be with him . 2 yrs back he got married got broke and came back to me . But now he is engaged again to somrone . And it feels impossible for me to manifest him to me. And i cnt break the cycle of my negative thots to break and bring him back to me ?
Anytime you let your happiness be dependent on someone else's behaviour, you don't feel good because you can't control them and they don't feel good because you want to.
I have recently realized that I want both commitments and freedom, and I had the belief that if I was in a commitment I would have to give up my freedom. So, these days, I am changing my belief.
If you will read the info under the video ... This is a platform for woman to grow .. The whole series is designed to allow Women to find thier love sanctuary ... It's about women ... It's not difficult to understand...
I think it’s a visual representation connected to the fluctuation in volume, and I think it’s in the center of the screen, which is where the girl happens to be. I don’t think he was left out of the sparkles on purpose 💖😊
I love Esther's coaching so much... empathic... and always sooo conscious to offer aproppriate ecxamples from her and Jerry... and always talking with heart, compassion and humor ... great. Thank you.
Brilliant!💜 Came to me at the right time...thank you!! And noticed at the time as I clicked like was at 444😁....I tune my guitar to 444 ...dont ya just love synchronicity
Most empowering speech by Abraham. Most enriching. Most eye opening. I am thankful for this experience Abraham. I love you dearly as you are my inner source.
There has never been anything as helpful in explaining the situation I have gone through in my own recent reality as much as the woman in the hot seat, the relationship with her partner, or Abraham’s words than this clip here. I can so not only identify with this woman, but with her partner as well. So good. Thank you Esther for all your help. It’s been a blessing in my life. And you are right...it takes a little practice...or a lot of practice rather to get in the vortex...but it sure is obvious when I’m in it. Just seeking more of a good thing, while missing what I had at the same time. ❤️🐿💨
I think what she’s talking about is more easily doable for someone who doesn’t face negative vibration from past traumas.. but that detailed and still simplified transition from “trauma” to “loving life” would make a great video and is pretty essential to the everyday collective if you ask me.. I’m Also really curious about how to sustain your desire so that when it finally does come to fruition, you still love it and desire it just as much as you did in the beginning. One other thing is, what’s the approach for finding a partner that you also want to have a family and children with. I mean, after watching a few videos, do I even want kids (I do, but I need someone to make them with hahaha) I’m all for letting them be free in their own right, and not causing unnecessary resistance.. but how do you manage raising children with someone who you’re not sure how specific their desires are and the only thing you know is that they want to have kids someday, but you don’t know if they have the desire to be the parent that you want your kids to have. How do you gain experience and collect data for your vortex to ensure that it’s equipped with even the things that you may someday desire, but havnt realized it yet?
What if you’re doing a really good job on your vibe and then the other feels like because you’re not dependent on them for your happiness they take it as you not caring or missing them etc? How do you handle that
7:44 - I watched three of your videos before arriving at this very insightful advice... You said it plain, without SoCal nonsense vocabulary, and it was beautifully stated (and heard). Maybe that sounds harsh, but if I'm new to your videos, and you're rambling about vibrational vortex, I'm just a bit distracted trying to discern what you're talking about. Great content otherwise. I enjoyed this particular interview/session. I felt it and identified with it.
We wouldn't assume that just because he won't say the words you want to hear that doesnt feel the same way bcz he does but your need for something that he is not ready pushing him away
Yes I agree! At times Esther can speak quite fast and often uses language that might be unfamiliar. I use the pause occasionally or slow the speed down and give myself a chance to really marinate on each insight :)
You’ll get used to it. But what they say is the lesson can be heard when one is ready to hear it. You may not be in the receptive mode of the messages yet.
Okay, Abraham, I love you and everything ... but when I did this which you're saying, I found myself deeply in love and in a toxic relationship ... so I think if you just focus on things to love about someone, you may end up not paying attention to red flags ..
I think this advice is meant for someone on a level that sees red flags instantly and cuts off the relationship right there because they know they deserve better. The trouble comes when you're already in a relationship with someone that wasn't toxic but has become toxic. Because you don't know if you should give up on them or not..... I can't just walk away from the only person that has EVER been there for me.. but if the relationship does not have mutual TRUST and respect then I will have to let it go.. all I want is loyalty.
I think this video shows how Abraham can be harmful, spiritual bypassing. Not saying she is not right but she misses a whole group that has trauma and triggers. The reason I stopped listening to her because I felt unsuccessful that I couldn't keep myself in "good vibration". The girl in the video is away from her boyfriend for 30 days, is happy, meets her boyfriend again, gets triggered, unhappy. Abraham's answer, just keep away from it/those who trigger you (??) Ie ignore your triggers, trauma? Don't deal with them, don't face them? "Don't ask someone else for your happiness, find your own happiness. Resources to be happy exist only within yourself.. Don't become codependent".. Yes, of course, we all know this, so obvious. But she doesn't go deeper. WHY does this girl have these triggers? WHERE do they come from? WHY does she get codependent?
Abraham doesn’t work with someone who has cptsd unless they work on their trauma yes. But maybe it’s really effortless ? Maybe it’s just y simple matter of perspective
None of that matters in the grand scheme of things. None of us are broken and this isn’t a therapy session that’s for the girl to dig deeper into no Abraham. She isn’t a psychic
I think Abraham wants us back in a natural state, the way we were born, where we open up fully to what pleases us, with trust and hope and surrender and curiosity. Every moment we can choose to focus on what feels good or what feels bad. Every. Moment.
Men reject is the reflection of problem deep inside u , u think u r Not Good Enough , if you Love yourself Enough u will know that You Deserve the person who Beg to be with you . But problem might be codependency . That why some people Allow men hav sex with them , let them Hav power over you ! ( and think that a guy will change his mind to love her oneday ) And that why men see that you are not challenge or not good enough for them
Also some men get scared when you are able to detach after sex and then they may feel a smidge if inadequacy ...many questions arise leading them to running away
From experience, I disagree that if you are looking for someone to love and channel source energy from you into them that it always works out. Maybe it works out in the sense you learn a lesson from the relationship but it might not be associated with the outcome you desire. I feel like some of these teachings are contradictory. I understand that even if you think your thoughts and energy are in the right place, you may actually be repelling a potential parter with deep seeded limiting beliefs. However, is that not the universe telling you the situation is not right at that moment; telling you to give up and move on because nothing can be forced? Other excerpts from Abraham seem to suggest, if things aren't perfect than it's not meant to be. If your partner doesn't want to commit, that is a lesson about your thought patterns to be applied to the next one.
But this is not saying pretend you don’t want what you really do, right? Like, you’re not supposed to pretend you don’t want commitment just to scare him away. I think it’s saying just wholly focus on you and what you can control & the rest will follow?
I think what she is saying is the same as the everything else in the LOA. If you want something, it is given. But you need to align yourself to receive it. She wants commitment, the person in her vortex will commit. But that person will not commit if she is not in alignment. If she depends on him committing to be happy, then he will never commit. She will need to stop living in fear and feeling anxious of being unable to ‘control’ him and then the universe delivers and he will commit.
Such wonderful advice that we get what we think we will. Challenge is when we've been hurt in love before it becomes harder to relax and not be nervous that they'll leave. And having an anxious/insecure attachment style makes it even harder. Want to know if you have anxious attachment? -> bit.ly/love_bonding_quiz
I already know I have an anxious attachment style without even taking a quiz. It goes so deep I dont think it can be fixed. I was in 4 homes by the age of 5 which I definitely interpreted as a child as repeated rejection, being unlovable, and instilled insecurity and no self worth. And despite all the counseling in the world all my sense of worth is in other people and only happy when they want me only and I cannot tolerate a guy who dates around and I feel like I'm not good enough if a guy doesn't want to stop seeing others and only be with me. Instead of just feeling I'm wonderful no matter what people on the outside think of me. And once I develop feelings for someone I hold on tight as possible to stop him from seeing others and I cant find anyone else attractive and dont want to date others like hes dating others. I'm just sick of dating and want to find one person and be in a relationship but it seems I'm the only person who wants that as far as men I find attractive.
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Focus on already being with the person instead of focus on NOT being with the person. Shift your focus and believe that he is already with you 🙌❤
How can u explain . Like i liked someone i wish to be with him . 2 yrs back he got married got broke and came back to me . But now he is engaged again to somrone . And it feels impossible for me to manifest him to me. And i cnt break the cycle of my negative thots to break and bring him back to me ?
If anyone can help me out please reply here
@@rishta-wi4iv maybe you need someone else then. the universe can give you the same or better, just focus on that!
Anytime you let your happiness be dependent on someone else's behaviour, you don't feel good because you can't control them and they don't feel good because you want to.
This is not really about him , it's about what you are doing with your own Vibration 🥰
“The way you set your tuner is how you broadcast.”
I have recently realized that I want both commitments and freedom, and I had the belief that if I was in a commitment I would have to give up my freedom. So, these days, I am changing my belief.
Did anyone else notice the girl is sparkling in the video and not the guy lol ✨
Yes😍
If you will read the info under the video ... This is a platform for woman to grow .. The whole series is designed to allow Women to find thier love sanctuary ... It's about women ... It's not difficult to understand...
Only now that you mentioned it ! Cool
The sparkle also contains where they connect by their embrace.
I think it’s a visual representation connected to the fluctuation in volume, and I think it’s in the center of the screen, which is where the girl happens to be. I don’t think he was left out of the sparkles on purpose 💖😊
I love Esther's coaching so much... empathic... and always sooo conscious to offer aproppriate ecxamples from her and Jerry... and always talking with heart, compassion and humor ... great. Thank you.
When you find a reason to love someone or something, you always have source energy is flowing through you
You don't need someone else to flow it to you because your SOURCE is always flowing directly to you too..
2:45; 4:00 ; 7:00 important; 7:45 👌
Ur sense of humour gets me right into the vortex
😅😅😅😅🙌🙌🙌🥰🥰🥰
Brilliant!💜 Came to me at the right time...thank you!! And noticed at the time as I clicked like was at 444😁....I tune my guitar to 444 ...dont ya just love synchronicity
Lucy Blu & The Blu Boys liked for the fourth time. Next 44 likes. Then 444 😁
@@viaja3569 LOVE!!💜
Most empowering speech by Abraham. Most enriching. Most eye opening. I am thankful for this experience Abraham. I love you dearly as you are my inner source.
So lets feel and focus on that vibration what I desire in (my) relationship And beside that live and love my life ❤️
The laws of the universe are very simple..
You get what you think about..
What u feel too well ... what u see mostly
Why focus so much on a man's love
If it's meant to be it will be.
Stop trying to find love on you giving up yourself
What a great message about relationships this was great thank you
She needs to look into Attachment Theory. It'll fix her core wounds.
wow, same situation as mine and such a wonderful interpretation that his stubbornness led to connect to the source energy and we can dance together!
There has never been anything as helpful in explaining the situation I have gone through in my own recent reality as much as the woman in the hot seat, the relationship with her partner, or Abraham’s words than this clip here. I can so not only identify with this woman, but with her partner as well.
So good. Thank you Esther for all your help. It’s been a blessing in my life. And you are right...it takes a little practice...or a lot of practice rather to get in the vortex...but it sure is obvious when I’m in it. Just seeking more of a good thing, while missing what I had at the same time. ❤️🐿💨
Lmaoooo at the challenge of being happy for 30 days she fills my heart with laughter and good feels
I think what she’s talking about is more easily doable for someone who doesn’t face negative vibration from past traumas.. but that detailed and still simplified transition from “trauma” to “loving life” would make a great video and is pretty essential to the everyday collective if you ask me.. I’m Also really curious about how to sustain your desire so that when it finally does come to fruition, you still love it and desire it just as much as you did in the beginning. One other thing is, what’s the approach for finding a partner that you also want to have a family and children with. I mean, after watching a few videos, do I even want kids (I do, but I need someone to make them with hahaha) I’m all for letting them be free in their own right, and not causing unnecessary resistance.. but how do you manage raising children with someone who you’re not sure how specific their desires are and the only thing you know is that they want to have kids someday, but you don’t know if they have the desire to be the parent that you want your kids to have. How do you gain experience and collect data for your vortex to ensure that it’s equipped with even the things that you may someday desire, but havnt realized it yet?
Omg this is the most helpful one I’ve heard so far!! Thank youuuu 💗
The best talk ever about relationships ❤
Wow! I just found you and I am blown away! Thank you 🙏🏼❤️
In other words commit to yourself and he will find you
I'm a women and I want freedom. So I'm one of the expection!
You and me both.
jjintheflesh exception?
Me too!! Always since I was a child...FREEDOM!!
I am a beautiful woman who like expanding in my life without being held back by insecure men who not yet know who they are are know what they want
What if you’re doing a really good job on your vibe and then the other feels like because you’re not dependent on them for your happiness they take it as you not caring or missing them etc? How do you handle that
Man, the girl in the hot seat sounds so much like me. This video is on repeat today.
Yes she reminds me alot of me
She has such a cute voice. And a great video too with very enlightend ideas for me.
I needed to hear this ❤️
7:44 - I watched three of your videos before arriving at this very insightful advice... You said it plain, without SoCal nonsense vocabulary, and it was beautifully stated (and heard). Maybe that sounds harsh, but if I'm new to your videos, and you're rambling about vibrational vortex, I'm just a bit distracted trying to discern what you're talking about. Great content otherwise. I enjoyed this particular interview/session. I felt it and identified with it.
WOW! THIS WAS JUST ***THE BEST***!!!
Thank you sooo very much for sharing!
We wouldn't assume that just because he won't say the words you want to hear that doesnt feel the same way bcz he does but your need for something that he is not ready pushing him away
Has anyone else tried ho'oponopono on your perspective of someone- then seen your relationship transform?
What is that?
I dont know why! But abhram teachings seem very complicated. Its hard to extract
Yes I agree! At times Esther can speak quite fast and often uses language that might be unfamiliar. I use the pause occasionally or slow the speed down and give myself a chance to really marinate on each insight :)
Are there any books i should go first of her
@@TheLoveSanctuary I feel with time you will gain more understanding ... When you are ready you will hear everything ....
You’ll get used to it. But what they say is the lesson can be heard when one is ready to hear it. You may not be in the receptive mode of the messages yet.
Yes “ask and it is given”
This is exactly what I needed to hear💚
The Best of the best!!!!!
Very helpful.
Such wisdom...now I get it!
Bring me so much laughter this one!! Mucho amo xx
What a video. Information and advice was very clear.
This is gold 👌 ✨
Wow wow
Wow brilliant advice abraham ;) Thank u so much for this video and ur answer Abraham
Okay, Abraham, I love you and everything ... but when I did this which you're saying, I found myself deeply in love and in a toxic relationship ... so I think if you just focus on things to love about someone, you may end up not paying attention to red flags ..
I think this advice is meant for someone on a level that sees red flags instantly and cuts off the relationship right there because they know they deserve better. The trouble comes when you're already in a relationship with someone that wasn't toxic but has become toxic. Because you don't know if you should give up on them or not..... I can't just walk away from the only person that has EVER been there for me.. but if the relationship does not have mutual TRUST and respect then I will have to let it go.. all I want is loyalty.
However, I still totally agree with you
I love this
Thank You! 🙏😊
Awesome message. It definitely resonates with my situation
WOW! THIS IS REALLY POWERFUL!!! 🙌🏻
love u abraham
Thank you
I think this video shows how Abraham can be harmful, spiritual bypassing. Not saying she is not right but she misses a whole group that has trauma and triggers. The reason I stopped listening to her because I felt unsuccessful that I couldn't keep myself in "good vibration". The girl in the video is away from her boyfriend for 30 days, is happy, meets her boyfriend again, gets triggered, unhappy. Abraham's answer, just keep away from it/those who trigger you (??) Ie ignore your triggers, trauma? Don't deal with them, don't face them? "Don't ask someone else for your happiness, find your own happiness. Resources to be happy exist only within yourself.. Don't become codependent".. Yes, of course, we all know this, so obvious. But she doesn't go deeper. WHY does this girl have these triggers? WHERE do they come from? WHY does she get codependent?
That is an excellent point,
Abraham doesn’t work with someone who has cptsd unless they work on their trauma yes.
But maybe it’s really effortless ? Maybe it’s just y simple matter of perspective
None of that matters in the grand scheme of things. None of us are broken and this isn’t a therapy session that’s for the girl to dig deeper into no Abraham. She isn’t a psychic
I think Abraham wants us back in a natural state, the way we were born, where we open up fully to what pleases us, with trust and hope and surrender and curiosity. Every moment we can choose to focus on what feels good or what feels bad. Every. Moment.
Men reject is the reflection of problem deep inside u , u think u r Not Good Enough , if you Love yourself Enough u will know that You Deserve the person who Beg to be with you . But problem might be codependency . That why some people Allow men hav sex with them , let them Hav power over you ! ( and think that a guy will change his mind to love her oneday ) And that why men see that you are not challenge or not good enough for them
So true
Also some men get scared when you are able to detach after sex and then they may feel a smidge if inadequacy ...many questions arise leading them to running away
I love 💕 these messages!
I can totally relate
9:02
What is the 30 Day Challenge?
3:33
From experience, I disagree that if you are looking for someone to love and channel source energy from you into them that it always works out. Maybe it works out in the sense you learn a lesson from the relationship but it might not be associated with the outcome you desire.
I feel like some of these teachings are contradictory. I understand that even if you think your thoughts and energy are in the right place, you may actually be repelling a potential parter with deep seeded limiting beliefs. However, is that not the universe telling you the situation is not right at that moment; telling you to give up and move on because nothing can be forced? Other excerpts from Abraham seem to suggest, if things aren't perfect than it's not meant to be. If your partner doesn't want to commit, that is a lesson about your thought patterns to be applied to the next one.
Thanx I needed to hear this
I'm like thus lady. Omg.
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Had an Aha moment
Wauw❤️
But this is not saying pretend you don’t want what you really do, right? Like, you’re not supposed to pretend you don’t want commitment just to scare him away. I think it’s saying just wholly focus on you and what you can control & the rest will follow?
I think what she is saying is the same as the everything else in the LOA. If you want something, it is given. But you need to align yourself to receive it. She wants commitment, the person in her vortex will commit. But that person will not commit if she is not in alignment. If she depends on him committing to be happy, then he will never commit. She will need to stop living in fear and feeling anxious of being unable to ‘control’ him and then the universe delivers and he will commit.
How does she open up then?@@evez2093
Then why are we here? If we feel this good in the non physical, why would we choose to be physical knowing the contrast will be so painful
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Humm. I interpreted the guy as the source of her sparkle. 😉.
❤️❤️❤️💕💕❤️❤️❤️
💫💫💫💜💫💫💫
This is great.
Thank you 💗
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Thank you 😍🙏🙏