Heartbreak & God's Timing | Timing | Part 4 | Jerry Flowers
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- Sometimes pain and purpose are married, which means you can't birth anything without pain. What if God is trying to see if He can trust you with that disappointment?
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I am listening to this, while I am in this exact cycle over and over… and yet I don’t have the strength or courage to end this cycle…
Kindly use this comment as a like button to remind me that I can do this!
When you are weak, He is strong! This is the perfect situation for Him to step in and display His Glory. You said “I can’t”. BUT HE CAN. Speak to Him, seek Him and He will transform you and you will be victorious. In fact you already are! I thank Him for breaking your unhealthy cycles. In Jesus Name. Amen. God has glorious plans and promises for you. Walk with Him. He has you.
You can do this!!!
What cycle
Praying for you. I was in a 12 years relationship with someone who mentally abused me not always physically but it was at times. He would cheat and leave and I stayed because he told me if I left he wouldn’t be here for my daughters anymore. I knew how much my girls loved their dad so I dealt with whatever. God knew that I should have left years ago. I didn’t listen it got worse and worse. I feel like I taught him how to treat a woman. Because 6 days after cursing me out and being with me he had a side chick he went and married. I told god why me. I’m still lost for words it’s only been 2 months and I’m still hurting. But I believe god was like “you wouldn’t leave so I showed you why you should” god knew I wasn’t going to get anywhere with this man. But now I have to heal and I’ve been getting closer and closer to god.
@@NieshaDeniseoh dear😔😔… how are you holding on now😔
Whoever is reading this comment, I wish you success, health, love and happiness
I receive.. IJN! AMEN! TY ADONAI.. SAME TOU YOU..
Thank you.... and to you as well... !!
Thank you
I pray the same for you as well. 😇
AMEN 🙏🏽 Same to you 🙏🏽
I'm tired of the same cycle. Same mistakes. Teach me lord to move forward and not to look back. Heal my heart from pain from my past. I hold myself accountable for my decisions and those who I have hurt in the process of looking for remedies to take the pain away. I pray God heals me and in his timing that I receive what is his desires are for me. Amen.Amen
Amen 🥰 same here
You got it Bro 💪🏾💪🏾
Amen
You said it 🥹😢😢😢
Amen
I found this video during my current breakup. I never thought we would get to the level of anger that we reached. This video really helped me and gave me some answers. Please pray that I can hear God and make him the head of my life.
He is the only answer you need in life ❤️ God is the long game to salvation in the moment and in the end - I’m in the same struggle
Going through a breakup as well, or ghosting which is worse. Spending as much time with God and in his word as I can❤ stay focus on him and he will heal your heart and help you through it
You are not alone, same here 😢
You have arrived to spiritual
maturity when you view disappointment as God ordering your steps ❤️💯
That! I felt like I was in a spiritual chokehold when I heard that! 😂😮
I choose faith over fear! Both of my sons are autistic it’s overwhelming at times because they require so much from me. As a single mother things are difficult. I keep faith in God even as I struggle to support them. I keep faith as I struggle to pay rent, and as I struggle to buy groceries for my sons. Every month is a battle. I want to give up yet God gives me strength. Strength to go on. Strength to share my testimony. No matter our struggles God will never leave our side. Praise God and keep faith no matter what. I have faith God will make a way when there is no way. ❤
Amen! I also have an autistic son the road has been soooo hard (especially being a single parent) I too struggle with bills, homeschooling, working, etc trying to juggle so many things. Keep praying and know you’re not alone ❤ your breakthrough is coming soon!
God bless you sweetheart the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous and his ears are attentive to their cry 🙏🏾💞 I know your boys love you more than ever xx
I've seen this exact post on at least 5 Christian youtube videos......hmm
@@iTzBigbinkExactly. It is SO annoying. This person has been doing this for quite some time now. They stopped for a little while (may be they got blocked or something). Now I'm starting to see ALL of this mess ALL over again. SMH.
@ladennayoung2939 Thank you for replying, several other ones I've posted about no one seems to pay attention to but I'm glad I'm not the only one who sees it.
Tired of learning thru pain😢, i feel that
I needed this message! This year has been a rocky year for me. I lost my grandfather, I lost my relationship with my ex, I lost friends, and I lost my dad on Dec 1st. It’s tough and I’m a bit puzzled with everything at the moment with my walk with God and Jesus. But through it all, I didn’t lose God and Jesus! Whoever come across this message. Pray for me. Thank you 🤲🏾💙
Praying with and for you.
Sending you love and light 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Very sorry for your loss of your loved ones 🙏🏾 that is a rough year indeed. Thanking God for his presence throughout it all is a testament of true faith
@@yolandarichardson2797 Thank you
🤲🏾💙
@@malikhoward1971 Thank you bro
🤲🏾💙
“Until the pain of change outweighs the irritation of being stuck, you’ll never move.”
WOW. 💪🏾🙏🏾
Amen
It’s not until the pain of change, outweighs the irritation of being stuck you’ll never move
“Father, I trust you even when it hurts; help me to view disappointments as you ordering my steps”
I am going through the worst heartbreak and KNOW it's only God that lead me to this sermon. Thank you God for a perspective shift. 🙏
Same here…
Same here
it's well
Me to x
Same!❤
God is faithful and amazing! One year ago I was soooo heartbroken over someone who I thought was my soulmate but God reveal to me it was a soul tie. I prayed for that bondage to be broken and now fast forward today- I’m in a healthy relationship. THANK YOU LORD PUBLICLY AND PRIVATELY ❤
can't wait to reach this stage🥺
@@VanessaNyatsapfu you will very soon in Jesus mighty name!
Can relate😢 I really knelt down in prayer. May I ask your WhatsApp and how did u cope
Found this video when I just finished praying for Gods strength after a break up and the person now ghosting me. I pray the Lord gives the strength to stop trying to go back to what broke me just because it feels home
Hugs 🫂
Such a perfect, right on time... powerful message. Thank you JESUS 🙌🏼❤
This is the most helpful thing I've heard since my most recent disappointment.
The heartbreak was so bad, I thought I was going to die, but it was a blessing in disguise. God also blessed me with an infected stone in my jaw, that lead me to a nurse who prayed for me in Jesus name(yes she said in Jesus name!!) it's been 4 years and I've been practicing celibacy (no more fornication) and serving the LORD daily❤🙏
God is truly using this man. My sister and I made it to service yesterday and the congregation was nothing but millennials. It was so beautiful seeing so many young people hungry. The Word was RIGHT ON TIME. The church has a separate parking lot and four overflow rooms that were all filled to capacity yesterday! God is going to bless them with a larger building soon!!! Thank you, Jesus!!!!
Yes God 👏🏽👏🏽
BUT GOD!!! ❤🎉
I pray that the Lord blesses this ministry 100 fold because it's fruitful and impactful for change.
Our generation has become weary by the complacency of tradition and church as usual. We've grown weary with leaving church the same way you arrived. Weary of not addressing the elephant in the room and hiding our face to the very things that are wounding us.
God bless the anointing over Pastor Jerry's ministry and life.
Oh I can see God moving in that aspect! The move of God is extremely unstoppable. One Bretheren and Sisteren are a part of the Kingdom of God, he uses people to make the plow manifest. This ministry is impactful for change. And it's clearly just the beginning of what God is doing and will continue to do.
This song is SO TIMELY for my family and I! My 13 year old sister has cancer, and Sunday I had gotten a call from my parents asking to gather all of my siblings to come and say our goodbyes… We prayed, we asked for a miracle, and here we are 5 days later and my sister has made a MIRACULOUS recovery and doctors are in AWE!
God bless you
That's a blessing 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Wow thank you Jesus 🙌
Wow praise the living God amen!!
This is amazing!
Hallelujah 🙌
Thank You Lord Jesus 🙌
I've been ready to give up .. I got on my knees today and cried out to God, questioning if he even hears me. I feel bad for single mothers, struggling & feeling alone. Especially single moms who aren't single moms by choice. We deal with so much alone ... the load gets heavy & tiring. I hope anyone going through can find the strength to pull it together.
Sending you some love sis ❤
God will provide that. Seek Him. He will give you all you need. Strength, peace and more my love. ❤ sending you light.
I can totally relate to this. Trying my best to stay positive and patient in God’s plan and not my own.
Thank you so much sis❤
I’m feeling the same way, that is why I found this video 😢
This randomly popped up so I decided to click it. Glad I found this message thank you. ❤😢
If you’re reading this - stop thinking whatever is on your mind right more and remember this : God’s already figured it out - just show up and do what he says
Father, I trust you even when it hurts; help me to view disappointment as you ordering my steps
I needed this. After being in a relationship with a man who showed me who he was throughout the relationship, I kept holding on. Now I actually see the blessing in the breakup. It definitely had to happen to draw me closer to God and be tired of toxicity . I now have a growth mindset. Still growing. Thank God ❤
When Jerry said “I seen her at a funeral”….. my Spirit was like “yeah, death had to happen (death to self) for resurrection to occur”….. ohhhh weee - right person, wrong time! Jesus- ya’ll give me hope for that future husband
“You can’t birth anything without pain” beautiful
Heart break is when our emotions have to readjust unwillingly
FATHER, I TRUST YOU EVEN WHEN IT HURTS; HELP ME VIEW DISAPPOINTMENT AS YOU ORDERING MY STEPS!!!
Prayer time saves time.
Jesus took time.
Be patient.
Heal well.Take time to grow.
Regulate your emotions.
No time to waste
Amen
So true. We don't like to wait in our society. In the previous sermon in this series by Jerry Flowers , he mentioned how we like to do secondary things First. That was convicting.
Prayer time saves time indeed. Many skip this step, blame God and wonder why portions of their lives are at a stand still .... God gives us free will, but he'll step back because his love for us is so strong. Yet, he steps back and let's people do what they want, but knows that people can be digging themselves into turmoil on their own.
“Heart break is married to Gods timing”
The timing of viewing and listening to this sermon, is miraculous. Glory be to GOD, in Jesus' name.
"Some of you won't turn to the next page because you know that person (that we shouldn't be with, it's not God will) won't be in the next chapter." Thank you for that!
I did leave, but I keep wondering if I made the right decision out of loneliness. That statement spoke to me that I am right where God wants me and to keep moving forward with the Lord.
Same… 🙏🏽Amen
Needed this real bad especially when the wife spoke 🙌🏾🙏🏾
Father I trust you even when it hurts help me to view disappointments as you are ordering my steps!!
I need this type of sermon... I don't need the gospel sugar coated 😢. I need deliverance. Please pray for me.
Heartbreak is MARRIED to God's Timing - mind blown 💥💥
Wow, very timely wake up call for me. Thank you!
Wow yesss sometimes God let’s us suffer for a reason
Pastor Jerry, I can’t even begin to thank you enough for allowing God to use you to reach our hearts.
Mrs. Flowers, I’m in that same situation right now. I just got out of a relationship and now I’m focusing on God. Thank you ALL for this AMAZING, Word!!!!
Me too, sis. So hard. But I find peace in God and His will for me. This was something He tried to show me about and removed from my life once before. I fell back and am paying. He once again shows me He has better in store for me.
Same here sisters but God ❤
Thank you for this. To those who see this Please help me pray to steward my pain well. It’s hard guys. 🙁
Heartbreak is when your emotions have to readjust unwillingly. You won’t turn the page because you don’t know who will be in the next chapter
Things will remain the same until the pain of remaining the same is greater than the pain of change.
Thank you for this message. Although, I’m watching this message 4 months later so many people could benefit from this. Recently, I’ve been guilty of not being a good Steward of my pain. I know my ex is not my person but in a moment of weakness, I checked out and decided to act in my flesh. Thinking it would make me feel better, I only felt worst. This message has certainly placed me back on track to healing. 🙏🏽I forgive myself and I’m ready to embrace the pain and grow.
Father, I trust you even when it HURTS! Help me to view disappointment as you ordering my steps! AMEN AND AMEN!🙏
FATHER, I TRUST YOU EVEN WHEN IT HURTS; HELP ME TO VIEW DISAPPOINTMENT AS YOU ORDERING MY STEPS ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
I've decided to heal, surrender and keep my legs closed before marriage. 🙌🏾🙏🏿
🤝🙏❤
Wow .. I’ve been depressed for weeks now dealing with heartbreak/disappointment -& I came across this sermon after coming home late at night from work . I was tired but I stayed -& watched the whole time . Thank you for sharing this word . I needed it 🙏🏼❤️🩹
❤️🙏🏼❤️
I pray that your strength is increasing and that you're beginning to feel better.
❤
I went through this and prayed. Someone i met came back into my life and I prayed for clarity and I got it. Though what happened was I placed him before God once I felt i had him. Then he left. Blocked me, no explanation nothing. This last Saturday, 8 months after we broke up, i bumped into him with his brand new extremely beautiful bride, and she is gorgeous, at their wedding reception. I was there to pick up a parcel and I was late for my appointment. I have definitely not stewarded my pain right. I have been on antidepressants and all sorts since we broke up. I was broken all over again. I needed this and I will listen to this on repeat and keep praying. I know I am where she was. I dont want anymore pain. I am even tempted to say i dont want anyone else. I am 43 and childless and it just doesnt seem to be coming.
Aww this must’ve been so hard. I’m sending you so much love and strength!
God Bless you Sis! 😢❤Phil 4:13 You are a testimony. God will restore and give you better. Trust the Process you are coming out as pure Gold! Gods turning your pain and to your greatest testimony!
Hallelujah Jesus thank you father for this message 🙏 🙌
@46:07 she said it took her “4” bad relationships then in the 4th hour of desperation God’s timing prevailed by sending her exactly what was her husband….Hallelujah ✨🙌🏾
This message is for ME🙌🏾 Just experienced a horrible heartbreak after a 3yr relationship. I’m tired of mismanaging my pain. I just want Jesus and his timing! That’s it🥹🙌🏾
We would all be alright
Just when my edges grew back, Pastor and the Mrs came and snatched them off again! Praise God!!!
WONT HE DO IT🙌🏽🩷
If we mismanage pain, we will mismanage time. ❤
Uhhhh such a Beautiful preaching and love story. Had me crying ❤
Father , I trust you. Help me to view disappointment as you ordering my steps💕✨🧘🏽♀️
I feel like I've been living in pain for over 30 years, I'm only 35. This was so good
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Amen, Amen, Amen!!!
Was in depression I lost all hope off living but my parents and my sisters continued to pray and cry out to God for a merical thank you Jesus
Amen!
Praying that your faith hasn't failed and that you know how very mu h you are loved. Remain encouraged. 😇
Amen .💓I'm so happy to hear this from you. Thank you very much. Wishing you health, luck and happiness, May God bless you all the days of your life. 🎉
@@SyvilleJosephine
Amen .💓I'm so happy to hear this from you. Thank you very much. Wishing you health, luck and happiness, May God bless you all the days of your life. 🎉
@@LaDonnaTaylor-Details
Give your parents and sisters a hug for me. They knew your worth even when you didn't believe.
I am listening to this sermon with tears rolling down my cheeks. God allowed my husband who was my best friend to die in August after praying so much day nd night. God allowed this to happen and after listening to thise sermon its like God is answering all the questions I pose to God everyday. Thank u for the sermon pastor😢
:( God bless you! I pray He mends your broken heart and appoints you into His perfect will! There was a reason! Just don't be mad at God, instead praise Him. Easier said than done but truly God loves you and His plans are perfect even when they don't feel like it in the moment 😢❤
My condolences 💐 God Comfort Her Soul Jesus
I’m starting to think Joy coming in the morning means it comes when you finally morn the promises you made for yourself.
God help me to finishing morning so I can have Joy Amen
❤️🙏🏼❤️
I just prayed about this... I asked him to remove anything and everything that's not his will, and replace it with what he wants for me.
Help to renew my mind, heart, and body. What's for me will be for me that he will and provide me 💯
Man I needed this spiritual food today!! Been dealing with an major disappointment and heartbreak .....4 1/2 year relationship to my fiançè ended....I found out she was having an affair with the guy she called just a "friend". It hurts!!!!, But this pain will not be in vain
Going through the same pain and disappointment
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My heart is so tender listening to this because it’s true. I believe it hurts more because you realize how you treat yourself. God needs us to do better. It hurts but I’m listening.
Whew I needed this 🙌🏾 After only 1 month of backtracking I finally have the strength to let Go! My peace is so much more important and I realize I started to lose my self worth. Yes I’m hurt, disappointed and heartbroken but I believe God lead me to this message to stand strong on my decision and focus on myself more. God’s timing is always perfect ❤
Preach ❤❤❤❤❤❤
FATHER I TRUST YOU EVEN WHEN IT HURTS; HELP ME TO VIEW DISAPPOINTMENT AS YOU ORDERING MY STEPS! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
For someone that's willing to have a significant other in their life, I feel like I been done the shadow work, completed personal goals of mine, and elevated and still feel depressed and lonely cause of the things I do doesn't honestly fulfill me when I don't have anyone to share those moments with
I understand. This entire world has to practice self love! It begins with ourselves🙏Its extra Lonely if you get with other people and your Not on the same page! We have to trust Gos Timing! I truly understand how you feel. But we have to do the work the self Love, So we can being balance to another whole and healthy person
I literally pressed play by mistake..the video being in my feed but exactly what I needed today. God’s doing indeed
Omg. His wife spoke to me. Like what! Praise God 🙏🏾 just tears flowing ! Thank you God.
"Get sick of being what the world is" that hit home 🙏🏽🙌🏽♥️
Arms that hold me, hold me from my peace, purpose and prosperity. Help me release him in Jesus name!
This was good because I’m changing things gods changing things and it’s lonely and hard and I really needed to hear this
This message is divinely timed. Thank you 🙏❤️
This has been such a tough year. But I am hoping and praying that God heals my heart and soul through this rough phase of my heartbreak.
My heart hurts so bad. He ghosted me out of no where. I trust in the Lord but the pain is so great I can hardly breathe sometimes. Sick to my stomach.
Pray! Continually until God gives peace to your heart. Plz don’t consume yourself with why. Rejection is Gods protection
Tanisha’s testimony touched my heart! Heartbreak is hard but God always uses our pain & experiences to show us we can get through it with Him. In the end , he gets the glory from it all! And we get to experience His love on a deeper level… even through heartbreak. Thank you for sharing this testimony Mrs. Flowers!💙
Thank you Jerry. This breakup is hard, especially when the person who was there to assist my healing is now doing the hurting. Seeing and hearing how my own choices and actions are affecting others too much has really sat with me, I want the pain of change to outweigh the irritation of staying the same.
Relationships are a blessing but can be hard work, break ups are a long slow lingering pain of the heart.
Should I stay or should I go?
Should I pray for restoration or move on?
The pain sucks, this sermon was encouraging and helpful.
Thank you.
-Craig,
New Zealand.
“we were meant to be just not at that time”
Fresh start
Father, I trust you even when it hurts. Help me to view disappointment as you ordering my steps ❤ God’s timing ❤️
Lord.. just got out of a 5 year relationship yesterday. Children included.. needed this.
Congratulations! You needed that message then! God has you and those kids!❤❤
I choose faith over fear. I try to look for ways to seek peace even when I feel like it escapes me. I would like to ask for prayer that I learn how to control my anger when I feel it and remember that vengeance is the Lords, not mine.
FATHER I TRUST YOU, even when it hurts. Help me to view disappointment as you ordering my steps!
You changed my life Jerry Flowers
I’ve been feeling so hopeless like this heartbreak will never end and this message helped walk me off the ledge and out of a dark place🙏🏽 God bless you all and thank you ❤
My Mother died September 12, 2022. I lost my faith. I became worldly and fell away. Then I had a dream about my Mom. She shook her head and knew it was her saying “this ain’t how I raised you” the coming weeks I turned back to God. I’m looking and praying for grace. I had to realize that God knew my Mother first. & he loved her more. She was his. Not mine. And everything I felt was because I wanted my Mom back and God did not see fit to grant that. However two years later I’m seeing that he needed to break me so I could finally learn to really seek him. & even though I miss my Mother. There are blessings born from the pain and loss. I praise God I’m seeing this now. I love you. May God be with us all.
This helped me genuinely
FATHER, I TRUST YOU EVEN WHEN IT HURTS. HELP ME TO VIEW DISAPPOINTMENT AS YOU ORDERING MY STEPS 🙏🏽
Father I trust you even when it hurts help me to view my disappointments as you are ordering my steps
FATHER I TRUST YOU EVEN WHEN IT HURTS. HELP ME TO VIEW DISAPPOINTMENT AS YOU ORDERING MY STEPS!
Thank You Jesus. My pain is not in vain.
Never let your guard down always be watchful.
@Pastor Jerry & Tanisha Flowers I Literally was in the same exact mindset before GOD sent my Husband who is the Love of my Life my Soul Mate he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD!!! I said GOD I’m DONE with Relationships I ONLY WANT YOU JESUS but GOD said nope I Got the Man for you 👏🏽💝💯🙏🏽
That’s how I felt when he took my new born away 5 month ago I have been through so much pain and also held on to God but he still took her away but I still stand strong on God and still praise him
But it hurt every day not a
Day goes by where I don’t shed a tear and wonder when God will ever give me peace and love ❤😢
Father, I trust you even when it hurts: help me to view disappointment as you ordering my steps!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Guard your heart for out of it flows the issues of life ❤
HOLY SPIRIT ILOVE YOU SO MUCH 😭😭😭THANK YOU FOR BLESSING FLOWERS WITH A GIFT OF TEACHING AND PREACHING IN A WAY THAT REALLY GETS THE MESSAGE ACROSS. YOU INTRODUCED HIS VIDEOS TO ME AT JUST THE RIGHT TIME . 😭😭😭😭YOUR SO AMAZING HOLY SPIRIT 😭😭😭.
Hallelujah 🙌🏽
FATHER, I TRUST YOU, EVEN WHEN IT HURTS! HELP ME TO VIEW DISAPPOINTMENT AS YOU ORDERING MY STEPS, AMÉN 🙏🏽