We're Not That Close // Dr. Dharius Daniels

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    Dharius Daniels is a cultural architect and trendsetter for his generation. He is the founder and Lead Pastor of Change Church. Change Church is a vibrant ministry that impacts people of all ages, socioeconomic classes, and ethnic backgrounds.
    He holds a Bachelor of Arts degree in Political Science from Millsaps College in Jackson, Mississippi, a Master of Divinity degree from Princeton Theological Seminary in Princeton, New Jersey, and a Doctorate of Ministry degree from Fuller Theological Seminary in Pasadena, California.
    He is married to Shameka Daniels and they are the proud parents of two sons Dharius Seth and Gabriel Micah Daniels. Visit Dr. Dharius on the web at www.dhariusdaniels.com.

Komentáře • 201

  • @deebobbitt5562
    @deebobbitt5562 Před 4 lety +53

    "Maybe God is silent because He is waiting on us to obey the last piece of instruction He gave to us!! 💣🔥.

  • @lowkee9731
    @lowkee9731 Před 4 lety +40

    "If you can't support it with scripture don't say it" 🙌😁🔥Amen!

  • @softlifeera404
    @softlifeera404 Před 4 lety +24

    He will move everything out of order to move everything in the right order ...

  • @edeneverson2226
    @edeneverson2226 Před 2 lety +3

    Found it! It’s called What about your friends

  • @phillipjohnson5487
    @phillipjohnson5487 Před 4 lety +143

    "An associate is not evil enough to be a enemy but not safe enough to be a friend"....amen

  • @fayetoliver562
    @fayetoliver562 Před 4 lety +131

    Young people please get this message EARLY it will change your life and save you many sorrows.

    • @dashamccormick4088
      @dashamccormick4088 Před 4 lety +5

      Most of this I'm thinking I learned this the hard way!

    • @karenmcgee1869
      @karenmcgee1869 Před 4 lety +6

      Amen! It cost me much peace.

    • @brittanyhawkins933
      @brittanyhawkins933 Před 4 lety +1

      Share it with us then! :)

    • @humilis42
      @humilis42 Před 4 lety +2

      This is so true! Learn to walk away early on. I got it in my mid to late 30’s. Early enough for me but to become bitter. You are able to spot out people who don’t deserve you but your gift only. It’s okay, it’s all good. Like Pastor said, this could be in the form of a mentor or even a Pastor. Think about that. Thank you Pastor Daniels. This was so on time.

    • @CodyCole80
      @CodyCole80 Před 4 lety +2

      I agree. I didn’t learn this lesson till I was almost 30, and I wish I would’ve learned it earlier.

  • @MsMirageLove
    @MsMirageLove Před 4 lety +23

    “I know you had all them plans... SCRATCH THAT!”🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 My GOD! That’s the season I’m in! He is literally interrupting EVERYTHING!🙌🏾 I’m going, scared and all!

  • @promisemethis1035
    @promisemethis1035 Před 4 lety +74

    He speaks to me every single time!!!! God bless you Pastor!!!

    • @ashleyhicks7589
      @ashleyhicks7589 Před 4 lety +1

      Amennnnn

    • @tiavanhoo
      @tiavanhoo Před 4 lety +1

      I agree I don't know how I found this pastor on CZcams but Lord knows I am thankful for his teaching and preaching 🙏

    • @promisemethis1035
      @promisemethis1035 Před 4 lety

      @@tiavanhoo Yes he is by far one of the most relatable pastors I have come across. I watch him every week. God really uses this man!

    • @mariasolomon419
      @mariasolomon419 Před rokem

      😭🚨🙏🏾🚨🚨🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @crowned_in_beauty
    @crowned_in_beauty Před 4 lety +5

    Now who is that demon that already disliked the video?? That was some good preaching 🙌🏾

  • @SistaInTheFaith
    @SistaInTheFaith Před 2 lety

    MY GOD!!!!! MY GOD!!!!! You better preeeeeeaaaaaaccccchhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!! HALLELUJAH!!!!!!

  • @fayetoliver562
    @fayetoliver562 Před 4 lety +10

    Had to to do a video stop at 20:30 ...right on my street!
    Because when I got better, people got weird...no rejoicing at all!

  • @danahmarie793
    @danahmarie793 Před 4 lety +13

    *throws phone*!!!!!!! Hallelujah what a word ! Maybe I do need that book!

  • @tashianh9962
    @tashianh9962 Před 4 lety +44

    Just 6 minutes in and the word has blessed me already! Wow!!!! Placing people in the right Positions!!!!

  • @MsMirageLove
    @MsMirageLove Před 4 lety +14

    Lot is a good relationship for Abram, not Abraham!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @nadinedomany3987
    @nadinedomany3987 Před 4 lety +35

    God just detoured me recently from Ft lauderdale, Florida to Philadelphia, ; I did not understand why then. As I sit reflecting on my life recently, I am starting to understand why God is doing many things. Some things are making more sense; things are slowly falling into place. I did not understand why God placed me where I am, but now it is making more sense.

    • @trishamgreen
      @trishamgreen Před 4 lety +6

      It's interesting how you "see" why God makes a decision later on in our journey. It's like a light bulb goes off when we're enlightened.

  • @powerofcare_
    @powerofcare_ Před 4 lety +10

    Preach the Book sir!!!!! Thats rare now a days!!! You are truly anointed and a necessity for all generations especially mine

  • @redeem372
    @redeem372 Před rokem

    I'm glad I found this teaching now. So grateful! I needed it two years ago . Still on time God!

  • @Ghe608
    @Ghe608 Před 4 lety +3

    Who fast forwards pastor Dharius Daniels?!!!! Not me ... the way he brings the word ... lord thank you!!

  • @hopeallen6210
    @hopeallen6210 Před 4 lety +12

    HAVE MERCY GOD ALWAYS HITS ME WITH AN ON TIME WORD 😭😭🙌🏾

  • @jacqueng817
    @jacqueng817 Před 2 lety

    This was an apt word ! Thank you Jesus for using Dr Dharius thank you Dr Dharius for willing … to be used !

  • @macc1178
    @macc1178 Před 4 lety +9

    PASTOR DANIELS I WANT A COPY OF THIS!!! THIS RIGHT HERE!!!
    LISTEN TO IT ONCE A WEEK !!!
    CHANGIN LIVES!!
    GOD BLESS U!!!

  • @careyhodshire1995
    @careyhodshire1995 Před 4 lety +13

    OH MY GOSH! That is EXACTLY what is going on in my household .. me, spouse and mom-in-law under the same roof! I knew there was something there that was "awkward" (rebellion, lying, secret stuff, etc) and here it is! Thank you for the revelation! This will clarify and help me with many things that are already in play!

  • @HosannaJesusSaves
    @HosannaJesusSaves Před 4 lety +9

    I dont want this series to end. Thanks, Pastor.

  • @platypusdeathstomp
    @platypusdeathstomp Před 4 lety +9

    It's like you're listening to me and my wife talk. She said the very thing you said and even used Lot and Abraham as an example! Confirmation is happening here!

  • @zeal4god402
    @zeal4god402 Před 3 lety +1

    New and better exposure=New and better elevation

  • @madamguro6922
    @madamguro6922 Před 2 lety

    Since I heard you preach @Elevation Church (June.26.2022) " This doesn't fit "
    . I have followed Dr./Ptr. Dharius after that preaching & started listening to his sermons . This is my 1st in the list. I thank the Lord for orchestrating a way to listen to your powerful message

  • @danahmarie793
    @danahmarie793 Před 4 lety +2

    Back watching this for the 40th time, and it still speaks to me !!

  • @almadeluz501
    @almadeluz501 Před 4 lety +15

    I felt so healed from this talk.. it was exactly what I was feeling and to have it worded so beautifully and articulate... it released a weight from my chest and shoulders.
    I sobbed some serious pain at the end of this video... and I also felt a heavy-ness lifted... and then a soft gentle wave of love, and warmth pulsed into me..
    No more wasting my time and putting in effort into the wrong people.
    I see clearly now what was once a dark cloud of confusion, a blur, and pain..
    Jesus, you are my truth.
    Thank you Jesus Christ.
    And God bless you Dharius.. and everyone else who is struggling with deciding who you should be keeping close.. I pray you find your truth as well 💕

  • @JAYEHILLMUSIC
    @JAYEHILLMUSIC Před 4 lety +3

    When you fast forward anyway LOL!!!! I brought it back thought

  • @anointedstilettos
    @anointedstilettos Před 4 lety +2

    I'm about to shout walking down the street about associates

  • @paulaclark7412
    @paulaclark7412 Před 4 lety +10

    I love how you teach kingdom culture for kingdom advancement...your an amazing thought leader...

  • @charmikabrown9
    @charmikabrown9 Před 4 lety +8

    God is just giving me clear direction and instructions thru this series. Things I've been praying to him about concerning ppl in my life, he's speaking thru these "relational intelligence" sermons. A lot of confirmation too🙌🙌🙌

  • @et427
    @et427 Před 4 lety +5

    I've got to rewind this and listen again! Whew! Preach! 👏👏👏

  • @MoonGlow444
    @MoonGlow444 Před 4 lety +8

    On point !!. I experience this a little over a year ago 😓. Thank you God for freeing me 🙌🏽🙌🏽.

  • @Iamkgems
    @Iamkgems Před 4 lety +2

    Love it! God said I’m a about to blow everything up 🤣😩🥴! My life right now !

  • @mphumelelimathenjwa914

    This is so good. Thank You Lord Jesus.

  • @Simplicityispeace
    @Simplicityispeace Před 4 lety +2

    Jesus!!!!!! Vision is disruptive...You can’t receive vision without disruption.....People who are unwilling to let God disrupt their life will continue to live without clarity.....Very profound statement and we as ppl wonder why we can’t really hear what God is saying and unclear in our very next step.

    • @abeekuworldchanger380
      @abeekuworldchanger380 Před rokem

      Oooof that's GOOD. Often times too, it's certain people that are blocking us to get to our next. I realized that when I left a former Church to the one I'm at now, where I am now, people are moving forward. Our church is birthing so many people. Entrepreneurs, authors, etc. Vision is disruptive. It's why the Lord makes it plain when we write it down

  • @aliciajohnson2632
    @aliciajohnson2632 Před rokem

    This! we’re not that close

  • @marlynnfoster8955
    @marlynnfoster8955 Před 2 lety

    Praise God. Timely

  • @breonb.7474
    @breonb.7474 Před 2 lety

    This lesson is for me. I needed this 3 years ago lol no friendship intelligence.

  • @c.johnson9695
    @c.johnson9695 Před 4 lety +7

    On time message. God's truly good! Getting the breakdown explains a lot. Bless you Pastor D.

  • @Champagnedreamsxo
    @Champagnedreamsxo Před 3 lety +4

    Wow just WOW. I've been schooled and I loved every single minute of it. I didn't realize how important it is to be able to distinguish between friends and associates or how much relational intelligence I lacked. This answered so many of my questions and man I'm just grateful that God is real. Believe that anything you don't know he will teach you and anything you think you can't do he will help you do on the way to where he is taking you. God is the greatest frfr. None like him.😭🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏽🙏🏽.

  • @kiarabailey1084
    @kiarabailey1084 Před 4 lety +8

    I get so hype when I get the notification.yessss 🙌🏽🙌🏾

    • @misguidedpearls7456
      @misguidedpearls7456 Před 3 lety

      Me too girl
      I luv him
      And check out rcblakes jr
      Queenology
      Blessing to women

  • @melissambabazi1878
    @melissambabazi1878 Před 3 lety

    Pastor you are so Wise wow God is so good

  • @shonbond8074
    @shonbond8074 Před 4 lety +4

    Great word. With this word I have to do a evaluation.

  • @Dadayi33
    @Dadayi33 Před 3 lety

    This is for me and my sister

  • @horibasangtam7618
    @horibasangtam7618 Před 2 lety

    HALLELUJAH AMEN AMEN

  • @breinspiredd
    @breinspiredd Před 4 lety +6

    This blessed me! Added value to my life!!!!!

  • @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L
    @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L Před 3 lety

    VERY INTENSE SALUTE 🎓📖👍🏿💯❤️🙏🏿

  • @daphenernorwood
    @daphenernorwood Před 3 měsíci

    PD this word was for me! Parasite associates who are family members are tough to shake. The Lord let me to the Abram and Lot story and then I heard it again in this video which confirmed what I already felt in my spirit. Praise God and amen.

  • @FG-vz4sm
    @FG-vz4sm Před 4 lety +6

    Whew you preaching Doc!

  • @agator9419
    @agator9419 Před 4 lety +5

    This is some good word praise God thank you pastor. My mom would always say know the difference between friends and associates. 🙏🏽🙌🏽

  • @teresaflash9498
    @teresaflash9498 Před 4 lety +2

    It’s so hard to apply to adult children Pastor. But it’s absolutely necessary for me to create distance so I can receive clarity. God Bless and Thank You for the insight that you have spoken to me tonight. I should receive my book from Amazon tomorrow.

  • @Jacqueline8
    @Jacqueline8 Před 4 lety +3

    This man of God is amazing, I'm glad God has brought Pastor Daniels to my life :)

  • @toriAllisonP
    @toriAllisonP Před 2 lety

    When you're laying in bed talking to God about something very specific and then you get this sermon in your text messages only to find out that within the first 10 minutes he starts answering you back 😭 Whew! 😮‍💨That was a whole buffet y’all! 🍱 🍽😋😩🙏🏼🙌🏼🤣

  • @FredrickGiles
    @FredrickGiles Před 4 lety +8

    Listen this word is on point!

  • @jesslove1794
    @jesslove1794 Před 4 lety +2

    Now THIS is a WHOLE word!!!!💎💎💎

  • @gisele2926
    @gisele2926 Před 4 lety +9

    Thank you for this word. I humbly receive this message from God as I reorganize and put in perspective those relationships that are toxic and unhealthy (whether friend, family, or associates)

  • @trudybuckmann9354
    @trudybuckmann9354 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow! Dr. Daniels is an amazing teacher. I don't usually write reviews but I must say that ever since I started listening to his messages on CZcams, I have a better understanding of who I am in Christ!

  • @graceoverton7633
    @graceoverton7633 Před 3 lety

    Awesome word fruit for the spirit love your teaching man of God

  • @MzSienna
    @MzSienna Před 4 lety +4

    This is confirmation about what I've been feeling. Wow God!!! #Clarity

  • @lifeinthecarolinas4283
    @lifeinthecarolinas4283 Před 4 lety +9

    An on time Word as usual! Thank you for your obedience Pastor Daniels!

  • @akeshaclark7415
    @akeshaclark7415 Před rokem

    Pray for me and my Family Family and Friends Akesha Clark

  • @naturalfitgirl80
    @naturalfitgirl80 Před 4 lety +7

    I received this! Every Word you spoke is so true- Right on time biblical word-as I am currently putting people in their place. It's life changing. I feel good! Thank you and I will be sharing!

  • @blondiez1981
    @blondiez1981 Před 4 lety +3

    Ok I clearly need his book🙄😳🙏🙏🙏💜

  • @goldilocks3593
    @goldilocks3593 Před 4 lety +37

    Great talk; it’s so true: a person who can be GREAT for us as one type of relationship can be a complete disaster if we start trying to switch the roles up. I have found the key is to know who I am and where my own boundaries are. If someone starts trying too hard to cross those it is usually time to put some distance in the relationship and accept it is not going to evolve any more than it already has. This is always hard but the alternative is being held back from your own purpose in life, so it has to be done. Thanks.

    • @humilis42
      @humilis42 Před 4 lety +7

      Goldilocks
      This is my life right now. You look up and no one is standing beside you. But I need MY peace.

    • @trishamgreen
      @trishamgreen Před 4 lety +4

      That's why it's so important to discern who belongs where in our lives. I look forward to reading his book Relational Intelligence to learn more about defining and aligning relationships.

    • @helen9412
      @helen9412 Před 4 lety +3

      Amen!! Well said!

    • @Champagnedreamsxo
      @Champagnedreamsxo Před 3 lety +2

      Damn you're so right💯💯💯

  • @ramonaturner401
    @ramonaturner401 Před 4 lety +6

    Wonderful message, nice suit 🙏🏽

  • @ritabailey3000
    @ritabailey3000 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for this word, it blesses my soul!!

  • @neishawiley6672
    @neishawiley6672 Před 4 lety +4

    Dynamic word!!!!!

  • @delmi864
    @delmi864 Před 2 lety

    This message is deep!! Thank you Pastor. 🦁

  • @fredajohnson506
    @fredajohnson506 Před 4 lety +10

    Wow! This is powerful message.Its eye opener for me to. Now I know why God separate, me from certain people. I'm glad God revealed the truth.Thanks MOG for words of wisdom. May the anoiting of holy spirit, rest mighty on you in this year.

  • @annetteoleary5691
    @annetteoleary5691 Před 3 lety

    Not me finishing this sermon and realizing i have no friends 🤝😭😭😭

  • @Callmerayyyyyyy
    @Callmerayyyyyyy Před 4 lety +7

    Yeo! This is so on point with some stuff I’ve experienced regarding friendships & associates.

  • @oldskoolempire6314
    @oldskoolempire6314 Před 3 lety

    Amen Amen Amen 🙏

  • @35tshone
    @35tshone Před rokem

    Right had to learn these lessons!!

  • @jonslujalet3387
    @jonslujalet3387 Před rokem

    God bless you Pastor

  • @chard324
    @chard324 Před 4 lety +1

    Got it, We not that close

  • @johng.s.mayonii1942
    @johng.s.mayonii1942 Před 3 lety

    “Vision brings disruptions.” This is a word for me!

  • @amyerskine7494
    @amyerskine7494 Před 4 lety +2

    Fantastic fantastic fantastic word! One that definitely fed me regarding topics that have come up for me over the past couple of weeks!!! Thank u Jesus for sending this word to be delivered!!!! Amen

  • @mrs.murphy2611
    @mrs.murphy2611 Před 4 lety +1

    Most families wouldn't understand this, unfortunately. They'd think you trying to be better than them.

  • @JamesWashingtonJ1st2015
    @JamesWashingtonJ1st2015 Před 4 lety +6

    Pen in HAND!! Ready to get WISDOM!! Praise God!!! Preach to me Pastor D!! Blessings Sir!! Pray you and the CHANGE CHURCH Family had a Holy Ghost filled Worship experience this past weekend!! Blessings and abundant favor sir!!
    Bro Wash!!
    Relentless Church
    Greenville SC

    • @viviankiser6078
      @viviankiser6078 Před 4 lety +1

      Yes mam I totally agree with you he is a awesome pastor I make I listen to him on a daily basis.

    • @viviankiser6078
      @viviankiser6078 Před 4 lety +1

      I'm sorry I meant yes sir

  • @brilliantlymiraculousfount2068

    Hallelujah 🙌

  • @neba_heals
    @neba_heals Před rokem

    This is BLESSING ME!!!!

  • @ChynaThyck311
    @ChynaThyck311 Před 4 lety +4

    I received this message!!! You words and guidance through scripture have blessed my mind and soul. I’ve been in this struggle for some months.. this teaching has put things in perspective for me. I thank you Dr Daniels

  • @Plnetkhia99
    @Plnetkhia99 Před 4 lety +3

    MY GOD TODAY!!!🗣👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 this was good meat to my bones! Thank you for this inspection

  • @blessingleji3520
    @blessingleji3520 Před 4 lety +3

    You played me in the intro that was more than 2 point but aakkkayy - excites for this message the title alone 🙀

    • @ericmorton8995
      @ericmorton8995 Před 4 lety

      For me, when he said 49'ers.....I lost interest......Cowboys 4life.....😂😂

  • @gianna119
    @gianna119 Před 4 lety +1

    My book came in!!!!!

  • @gigilove2246
    @gigilove2246 Před 3 lety

    My dysfunction as I am approaching 50! God answers prayers! Thanks pastor

  • @msvanessaceo
    @msvanessaceo Před 4 lety +2

    Yes revelation can be painful at first yet healing for direction. Thank God you shared this what God gave you to teach us! Blessings too you

  • @therealbrittanygreen
    @therealbrittanygreen Před 3 lety

    My God. Thank you

  • @humilis42
    @humilis42 Před 4 lety +2

    This is a timely message. I was just having a conversation about this LAST NIGHT.Thank you God. I hear you. I hear you loud and clear. ❤️

  • @mswhite5732
    @mswhite5732 Před 4 lety +2

    Pastor this is so timely!!!! God always incline my ears to you at the right time. Thank you for answering the call to be a vessel for His word.

  • @faithobedient9388
    @faithobedient9388 Před 4 lety +1

    I feel like this happened to me, my lord.

  • @paulaclark7412
    @paulaclark7412 Před 4 lety +2

    MIGHTY MAN OF GOD

  • @womanofgrace1279
    @womanofgrace1279 Před 4 lety +2

    Powerful message right on point. Some of us need that clarity, because it's a lot of things and people will get us off focus of where God trying to take us. thank you for this

  • @tatianagold3423
    @tatianagold3423 Před 2 lety

    You are great!!!

  • @KeishaHodges
    @KeishaHodges Před 4 lety +6

    Blessed to have found you. Thank you!

  • @mariasolomon419
    @mariasolomon419 Před rokem

    Hold the line 🚨🚨🚨😭😭

  • @misguidedpearls7456
    @misguidedpearls7456 Před 4 lety +1

    This is real

  • @latoyadykes5010
    @latoyadykes5010 Před 4 lety +3

    That was amazing and right on time!!!!