Aging in Perspective 🥹

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  • čas přidán 17. 04. 2024
  • Time never stops moving forward and aging is an absolute, but growing old doesn't mean the person you were when you were young is no longer there 🥹
    🎶 Original score by the oldest McFarland brother, Mitch McFarland 🎶
    #shortfilm
    #shorts
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  • @my.names.robb.with.two.bs1
    @my.names.robb.with.two.bs1 Před 15 dny +114350

    Dude. That was deep.

    • @therookie5714
      @therookie5714 Před 15 dny +591

      @@uncleswellwhere did he say it was uncommon?🤔

    • @thylabyrinth
      @thylabyrinth Před 15 dny +372

      @uncleswell Not even AI sounds this lifeless and robotic.

    • @Owly_Goth
      @Owly_Goth Před 15 dny +63

      @@thylabyrinthnah fr

    • @xraystudios3693
      @xraystudios3693 Před 15 dny +42

      That's what she said

    • @A.S.S.M.A.N
      @A.S.S.M.A.N Před 15 dny +71

      Life really does pass you by if you don’t stop to enjoy it. It’s a culture of working yourself to death just to survive now for a lot of people. I’m 41 have had a lot of fun in my life and like Kurt cobain said “now I’m bored and old”.

  • @isaactaher9396
    @isaactaher9396 Před 15 dny +79231

    When you expect a dad joke but end up feeling the feels 😭

    • @gabrycast5395
      @gabrycast5395 Před 13 dny +181

      that's what makes you more emotional, you don't have the expectation of a skit that's sad or bad

    • @gabrycast5395
      @gabrycast5395 Před 13 dny +61

      and that's why i have to clean my eyes too 😢

    • @warweasel2832
      @warweasel2832 Před 13 dny +65

      When you beat your dad at a sport/game and he says “Yep, your old man is slowing down.”

    • @husseinsalih6952
      @husseinsalih6952 Před 13 dny

      Oh man ​@@warweasel2832

    • @dyjital
      @dyjital Před 13 dny +3

      No shit.

  • @Nighturz
    @Nighturz Před 5 dny +2878

    Details.. when he picked up the coin his hand was the old mans.. when walking into the diner, relfection was the old man. This was deep and real. Thank you so much.

    • @richbeach9664
      @richbeach9664 Před 4 dny +12

      Wonderfully spotted.

    • @yuemcoy835
      @yuemcoy835 Před 4 dny +23

      You can also see the reflection behind him when he goes to grab the coin

    • @moiouimoi3858
      @moiouimoi3858 Před 4 dny +9

      On the phone when she takes the picture, too !

    • @Fobia17
      @Fobia17 Před 4 dny +7

      When they first cut to the crosswalk, too

    • @djkiltech
      @djkiltech Před 3 dny +1

      Came here to comment about those exact details. And the phone screen when she takes the picture, during the shot over her shoulder.

  • @zacharyrollick6169
    @zacharyrollick6169 Před 5 dny +1198

    84 and walking the town with full independence is a major landmark of health.

    • @deathbloom27
      @deathbloom27 Před 2 dny +27

      I work at a retirement facility and some of the things these people do is crazy. There's one resident that I didn't even realize was a resident, I thought he was an employee! He not only was always in the fitness center working out, but he was constantly walking around in the building or outside, I'd see him walking in town, he worked as a dish washer in a nearby restaurant. He looks like he's in his late 50s, MAYBE early 60s. Turns out. He's 80!

    • @user-zt7vb9kt8l
      @user-zt7vb9kt8l Před 2 dny +1

      Can't be that crazy the president is 81.

    • @ege8240
      @ege8240 Před 2 dny +5

      ​@@user-zt7vb9kt8lthere is no such thing as the president. there are lots of presidents, you need to clarify the country

    • @MagickArcher
      @MagickArcher Před dnem +8

      ​@@ege8240If they say "The president" assume they're from the US, most of us like to think we're the only country on the internet

    • @Ren_load
      @Ren_load Před dnem +2

      ​@@MagickArcher yeah, truly one of those 'muricah moment (im from boston btw, so no hate)

  • @Saltyboi_14
    @Saltyboi_14 Před 15 dny +26479

    My grandad talks about how it feels like he’s not old and even gets annoyed at other old people for being slow until he sees himself in the mirror. This really put it into a great perspective. Well done.

    • @automagicashie
      @automagicashie Před 15 dny +720

      Noted. Destroy all mirrors after age 55. Key to eternal life

    • @charliechurch5004
      @charliechurch5004 Před 15 dny +397

      My granny used to say "I don't feel old" 😞 she would say "I look in the mirror and think who is that old lady?" 😞

    • @Tokyoghoul4life
      @Tokyoghoul4life Před 15 dny +23

      Shit

    • @Tokyoghoul4life
      @Tokyoghoul4life Před 15 dny +6

      ​@au😂😂😂😂😂😂tomagicashie

    • @Caoimhin93
      @Caoimhin93 Před 14 dny +6

      ​@@automagicashie nice 😂😂😂

  • @Jiamil
    @Jiamil Před 12 dny +10140

    A 70year old friend of mine said at 30 you kind of stop feeling you are aging and every morning in front of the mirror, you are reminded of how the time has passed.

    • @susan7775
      @susan7775 Před 12 dny +231

      I can vouch for that. Mentally I don’t feel old, physically is another matter

    • @Crazywaffle5150
      @Crazywaffle5150 Před 12 dny +138

      @@susan7775 I'm 32 and feel the same as I did at 25.

    • @ComplexConfiguration
      @ComplexConfiguration Před 12 dny +109

      @@Crazywaffle5150 40's is when you start aging FR tbh. 30's are still young person .. ;) Enjoy.

    • @NOSTahlgia
      @NOSTahlgia Před 12 dny +81

      Even when I was 27 years old people thought I was 21, 22. Once I turned 30 I really started seeing my appearance catching up with my age, but from the inside I haven't aged a day. Sometimes I realize I can recall memories of my younger years better than I can the last week

    • @squishy_Rio
      @squishy_Rio Před 12 dny +4

      Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuh for reals man wtf

  • @stevene.9858
    @stevene.9858 Před 5 dny +289

    My dad passed away at 84 years old. It's been 3 years now and I still miss him everyday. ❤

    • @brucewilkey3535
      @brucewilkey3535 Před 4 dny +3

      RIP Dad. My best friend and confidant. Oh how you are missed and loved. If only I could have you back even for just a short time. I would love to show you smart phones and self driving cars. I remember rolling my eyes when you told me these things should be invented. Thank you to the producer of this video. We Americans should be ashamed at how horribly we treat our grandparents/elders. 😢❤

    • @lmaomoofeq2505
      @lmaomoofeq2505 Před 3 dny +1

      84 years, he did very good

    • @Skyesoceaneyes
      @Skyesoceaneyes Před 2 dny +3

      My dad died at 84 years only a few months ago. It's hard.

  • @sweetpealee056
    @sweetpealee056 Před 4 dny +47

    Yep! This is exactly how it feels! I'm 70 and disabled now but I'm still that optimistic 17 year old in my soul! Thank you for making this 👍🫶✌️

    • @alegoncalves472
      @alegoncalves472 Před 55 minutami +1

      May God bless you and grant you a lot of good, happiness and a long fulfilling life!!! 😊🤗🤗🤗

  • @GamingintheAM0801
    @GamingintheAM0801 Před 9 dny +4901

    Didn't expect this to hit. I'm only 34, not that old, but in my head, it feels like I'm still 17. Life gets ahead of us.

    • @Izanagioomikami
      @Izanagioomikami Před 9 dny

      Ahahahah! You old fart ! (I'm 33)

    • @CHEWYUMFAT
      @CHEWYUMFAT Před 9 dny +95

      When you're 40 buy yourself a motorcycle. It will kick you like 10 years back at least :-D

    • @yobimobi2736
      @yobimobi2736 Před 9 dny +51

      I'm 17 and still think I'm 14

    • @user-sy2mt3fr7j
      @user-sy2mt3fr7j Před 9 dny +45

      Im 30 and feel like 45

    • @davidt0504
      @davidt0504 Před 9 dny +39

      Dude same. I'm 34 and I think about time passing faster and faster just about every day.

  • @mikebennis77
    @mikebennis77 Před 14 dny +12402

    This is absolutely true. I’m 46 this year and I have this perception that I’m still 22.

    • @bennoreuter4393
      @bennoreuter4393 Před 13 dny

      Dude I am 70 and I date 19yo girls, fuck that mentality.

    • @shizuxo
      @shizuxo Před 13 dny +220

      love you man stay like that

    • @tilda3316
      @tilda3316 Před 13 dny +233

      I'm almost 40 but I'm definitely always about 26.

    • @jamesv4463
      @jamesv4463 Před 13 dny +40

      I think that's a good thing

    • @brandongaysr.4922
      @brandongaysr.4922 Před 13 dny +278

      I'm 37 and still look for the adults when I walk into a room.

  • @moniquekelly1725
    @moniquekelly1725 Před 5 dny +75

    A brilliant way to express insight into aging perspective. Well done and thank you.
    This should be on all the media platforms to promote compassion and build better communities.
    MK
    Australia

  • @mikearambula89
    @mikearambula89 Před 5 dny +43

    This is such a deep yet simplistic idea that you guys executed beautifully

  • @realNoMee
    @realNoMee Před 13 dny +4006

    The constant in between shots where you can just barely spot his "real" age is some stellar foreshadowing.

    • @lockl00p27
      @lockl00p27 Před 12 dny +141

      And the glass. His reflection shows his “real age”

    • @sajidismail755
      @sajidismail755 Před 12 dny +42

      This comment needs to be pinned. I didn’t even notice till you said it!

    • @swtvic
      @swtvic Před 12 dny +12

      oh i just noticed, nice details

    • @orilio3311
      @orilio3311 Před 12 dny +6

      Seriously tho

    • @xaurelienhancoux
      @xaurelienhancoux Před 12 dny +15

      Topnotch editing right there!
      It's obvious on second watch, but it means it worked subliminally 😮 awesome!
      And don't get me started on the feels 😊😢😅 everyone can relate!

  • @ekowcrent1246
    @ekowcrent1246 Před 10 dny +2902

    This is not a skit.
    It’s deeply philosophical and artistic as it is.
    Thank you 🙏

    • @nekad2000
      @nekad2000 Před 10 dny +4

      They could have used someone who's closer to 84 though. You're 55? Perfect for the part!

    • @DavidMark-jk5yk
      @DavidMark-jk5yk Před 10 dny +1

      ​@@nekad2000he's still pretty young honestly...

    • @MissKitten-gt4zb
      @MissKitten-gt4zb Před 10 dny +3

      They do another skit where his daughter is pregnant sitting at a bus stop. He forgets that it’s his daughter and it shows her talking to him like they’ve never met before.

    • @UnanimousDelivers
      @UnanimousDelivers Před 9 dny +1

      It's a good film but I think you're lowering the bar for what's "deep"

    • @ekowcrent1246
      @ekowcrent1246 Před 3 dny

      @@UnanimousDelivers I believe using the word “deep” in this context is purely subjective. You could use that word in a different situation and someone else would disagree with your choice of words.

  • @flipper-b8588
    @flipper-b8588 Před 4 dny +4

    That hit deep. I love it!

  • @Suvendu.Ganguly
    @Suvendu.Ganguly Před 6 dny +2

    Very Beautifully done and executed... one of the best videos I must say... Very thought-provoking and deep.

  • @MM2009
    @MM2009 Před 11 dny +4488

    That's life no matter how old are you, you always feel 20 years old inside, your body just not catching up... Happy birthday seniors.

    • @buuuuuh365
      @buuuuuh365 Před 11 dny +2

      eww

    • @Text-SpeechStories
      @Text-SpeechStories Před 11 dny +38

      ​@@buuuuuh365wdym ewww?

    • @Text-SpeechStories
      @Text-SpeechStories Před 11 dny

      ​@@buuuuuh365you just a dirty mind person

    • @manfredmichael_3ia097
      @manfredmichael_3ia097 Před 11 dny +3

      3 minutes ago ahh comments

    • @buuuuuh365
      @buuuuuh365 Před 11 dny

      @@Text-SpeechStories Idk, but that kinda stuff is what pedos say: "Oh, we are just kids trapped in an old person's body." Like you are old, be old. How can you feel 20 when you are 70 LMAO.

  • @TimeWarpKing
    @TimeWarpKing Před 11 dny +1694

    My fucking heart. You did more in 60 seconds than most movies do with 90 minutes.

    • @idehenebenezer802
      @idehenebenezer802 Před 11 dny +12

      Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.

    • @krepsak3399
      @krepsak3399 Před 11 dny +29

      @@idehenebenezer802 goo goo gah gah RAAAH

    • @r3d0c
      @r3d0c Před 11 dny

      what shitty movies do you watch

    • @abizzle7504
      @abizzle7504 Před 11 dny +6

      Right!!??! Like I'm not trying to cry at work guys, come on....

    • @GoldenDragonGod
      @GoldenDragonGod Před 11 dny +3

      @@idehenebenezer802I think u should be the first one in to do so! Do the exact same words u say!

  • @kontrygrll01amerika54
    @kontrygrll01amerika54 Před 5 dny +4

    So true, you do feel decades younger than your outward age.

  • @thepianisthd
    @thepianisthd Před 6 dny +4

    this felt like a real movie about oldness bro well done.

  • @Swoleminer71
    @Swoleminer71 Před 11 dny +2803

    52 and this is 100% legit. I've watched this one over and over.

    • @DaveRusso
      @DaveRusso Před 11 dny +7

      51

    • @GizmoMaltese
      @GizmoMaltese Před 11 dny +11

      Same. It's depressing to think about.

    • @danif620
      @danif620 Před 10 dny +7

      ​@@GizmoMalteseDepressing and Blessing at the same time.

    • @starkidforlife136
      @starkidforlife136 Před 10 dny +8

      Seeing white hairs on your own head is a major sign that your time is running out and that you need to find your creator before the day you can’t return for a second chance

    • @huntercoleherr
      @huntercoleherr Před 10 dny +1

      Shit, and here I am feeling ancient at 41...

  • @bobbomcgee9958
    @bobbomcgee9958 Před 10 dny +1099

    Having the old man in the reflection is peak cinematography for a CZcams short

    • @thatminer7174
      @thatminer7174 Před 10 dny +17

      Didnt notice that, thats smart

    • @izzyviridian1485
      @izzyviridian1485 Před 10 dny +24

      Hands too. And some cut away shots.

    • @xavxavxavxav
      @xavxavxavxav Před 10 dny +4

      i didn't notice. amazing catch!

    • @dukitcher
      @dukitcher Před 10 dny +2

      This is comment, this is what I came here for

    • @maw5646
      @maw5646 Před 10 dny +3

      He’s actually sprinkled all throughout the video.

  • @KevinVenturePhilippines
    @KevinVenturePhilippines Před 3 dny +5

    That's it. I was 18 yesterday. Now I'm 54.

  • @carpentryfirst3048
    @carpentryfirst3048 Před 5 dny +2

    My grandfather did assisted suicide at age 98. His body eas breaking down but his mind was as sharp as it had ever been. The last thing he told me before he died was that he still felt like a youngnman inside. That will stick with me forever. Im almost 40 and can relate a lot

  • @NotoriousWhistler
    @NotoriousWhistler Před 8 dny +1482

    Wow, I didn't even notice all the little glimpses until my second watch. This is honestly so well made.

    • @criticaldatabeats
      @criticaldatabeats Před 7 dny +35

      The reflection in the window was a good one.

    • @deltavega9203
      @deltavega9203 Před 7 dny +36

      The aged knuckles picking up the coin was my first clue.

    • @nveptunes
      @nveptunes Před 7 dny +8

      when she took the picture on her phone - that was brilliant

    • @___idk
      @___idk Před 6 dny

      ....

  • @LilyNaahma
    @LilyNaahma Před 9 dny +2282

    THE REFLECTIONS IN THE WINDOW SHOWING THE ELDER IS PERFECTION. This made me start crying.

    • @sethf2258
      @sethf2258 Před 9 dny +17

      Fr this short is so well made

    • @Kaleb-fi8vz
      @Kaleb-fi8vz Před 9 dny +15

      I had to go back this is some insane detail

    • @jehrieltv8066
      @jehrieltv8066 Před 8 dny +1

      Fr real details

    • @ChefChiron
      @ChefChiron Před 8 dny +12

      the hand picking up the coin is also old

    • @shepardog8180
      @shepardog8180 Před 8 dny +1

      I didn't even notice that oh my god😢

  • @EmDee118
    @EmDee118 Před 2 dny +4

    this actually makes me feel sad. my nana always thinks she’s younger than she is (she’s 81) but she not got any memory problems or anything. now i understand

  • @Neli2789
    @Neli2789 Před 5 dny +2

    my grandfather got Alzheimer's, wish i spent more time with him, def wish i said something about him at his funeral. he meant so much to me.

  • @brandyb2931
    @brandyb2931 Před 11 dny +2538

    My dad always said "my body is getting old, but in my mind, I'm still 25." He passed January 30, 2020. He developed Lewy Body dementia and it ravaged him quickly. He was very intelligent, so we noticed things quickly were going wrong. He hated what was happening to him. He was the smartest and strongest man I have ever known, and that disease stole who he was from him. When he passed, he had aged 30 years. He deserved to grow to be an old man. He loved life, and his passing left an enormous hole in our family that has still not been filled. I miss him so much.

    • @gassyalways
      @gassyalways Před 11 dny +15

      😢

    • @dots-gastly3369
      @dots-gastly3369 Před 11 dny +26

      Dude love and respect for you and your family😢❤

    • @AmitRozee
      @AmitRozee Před 11 dny +20

      The space for self growth is as big as the horizon...grow into the example he was and surpass it...he sounds like a great man worth remembering.

    • @techlonizerGT
      @techlonizerGT Před 11 dny +9

      You have my deepest sympathies for the loss of a precious comrade of yours.

    • @Acidburn1155
      @Acidburn1155 Před 11 dny +6

      Man, rest in piece.

  • @troy.s
    @troy.s Před 11 dny +2311

    53 and I feel this 100%.
    Some days, I feel my age more than others, but in my mind, I'm still in my 20's or 30's.

    • @triskits_mmm
      @triskits_mmm Před 11 dny

      Oh my gosh you baby. Man up.

    • @gyaniadmi2347
      @gyaniadmi2347 Před 11 dny +46

      That is true, I am 45 I still feel like 25 , I even see myself in mirror as a 25 year old

    • @italianduded1161
      @italianduded1161 Před 11 dny +10

      Never give up sir!!!! I always tell this to my uncle, never think stuff like “maybe in my next life” or stuff like that, you want it!? You get it!!!
      💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻never give up.

    • @tsavage4337
      @tsavage4337 Před 11 dny +12

      Take care of yourself and life will reward. My dad is in his 60s and still works his excavating job shoveling with my brother and I, hammering cement, and picking up logs and brick. Usually he’s in the excavator but when he hops down to help with the hand work you’d think him more fit than most 20-30 yr olds. It’s a shame people think after 30 or so they just become unable to do physical activity and can’t stay fit for much longer. Truth is, human bodies are very adaptable even in older age.

    • @MrBigMoneyMan909
      @MrBigMoneyMan909 Před 11 dny +15

      As a 26 year old man, I’ll make sure to be extra thankful for my youth and to do my best not to squander it.

  • @soundmindtv2911
    @soundmindtv2911 Před 5 dny +1

    This is absolutely brilliant piece of art that should be preserved for the generations to come. It has layers of meaning for both those who are just beginning to age but have an aging loved one, and a different impact for those of us who are aging and can't align our self-image with that older person in the mirror. Definitely pulls out all the basic emotions. Thank you for creating this.

  • @sheikhsadab
    @sheikhsadab Před dnem +1

    One of the best shots I've seen ... Truly a real masterpiece with all the hidden details. Loved it.

  • @Barfield-cg7iq
    @Barfield-cg7iq Před 12 dny +2056

    I'm 67 and in my head I'm the same as I was thirty years ago although my back hurts more. The other day for the first time ever a guy offered me his seat on the tram. I was both delighted and devastated in equal measure.

    • @KR0OK
      @KR0OK Před 12 dny +65

      This is exactly how I felt the first time someone called me sir

    • @user-gx5lo6yu2i
      @user-gx5lo6yu2i Před 12 dny +5

      Did you accept the seat on the tram? Or graciously declined like the video guy?😢

    • @jawanation1850
      @jawanation1850 Před 12 dny +6

      Take this slow Gramps, Don't let it ruin your day!

    • @rayane2835
      @rayane2835 Před 12 dny

      I know your ass is not 67

    • @ABombs1
      @ABombs1 Před 12 dny +3

      My back already hurts, not looking forward to that future!

  • @__seeker__
    @__seeker__ Před 15 dny +3133

    That’s the thing about getting old. People start to see you in a way you don’t see yourself. It’s extremely alienating. No one thinks it’ll happen to them, but it always does.

    • @ytj22
      @ytj22 Před 15 dny +34

      If everything goes well it does...

    • @kruz2727ify
      @kruz2727ify Před 14 dny

      Hey!! Let me live in my own youthful fantasy. Take your filet knifed tongue onwards to the next clip.

    • @RedragonReviews
      @RedragonReviews Před 14 dny +40

      Jesus that was deep bro. You definitely right man... I remember when I was 20 feels like couple weeks ago.. now next month I'm turning 32 I'm like wtf happened.... Jesus.... Life is wild

    • @Skiesoutthightsout89
      @Skiesoutthightsout89 Před 14 dny +20

      Not me! I’ll never get old! Because healthcare is too expensive ill prolly die in my 30s lol

    • @vivianloney
      @vivianloney Před 14 dny +12

      My mom's been talking about it happening to her at work. I had to do a double take, but she's a few years from retirement. I have to look at old photos of her when I was a kid to see how she's aged.

  • @two-chicks
    @two-chicks Před hodinou +1

    I've been needing help bending and walking all my life but because I'm young, people just automatically assume that I am weird or intoxicated, cops beat you up, people make fun of you.. I'm sick of it, I can't wait to have compassion

  • @baconoverlord7982
    @baconoverlord7982 Před dnem +2

    I'm not crying... you're crying.

  • @Sentientpotatoh
    @Sentientpotatoh Před 10 dny +1546

    My dad passed away last year at 70. He always said he felt like he was still in his 20s-30s in his mind and would be shocked he wasnt young anymore when something held him back. I miss him every single day. Im so lucky to have had such and amazing father.

    • @littleharry7977
      @littleharry7977 Před 9 dny +15

      I’m sorry for your loss your father sounds like a great man ❤️

    • @vigi86
      @vigi86 Před 9 dny +4

    • @camman18fanformission
      @camman18fanformission Před 9 dny +4

      I'm sorry for your loss... ❤

    • @crustydownunder
      @crustydownunder Před 9 dny +6

      My dad died a year ago at age 92. He said he still felt like 18. He never looked old, he was very fit and could still run and do chin-ups in his 80s. I can't say he was a great dad, he was mean and cruel, even so, I still miss him.

    • @Sentientpotatoh
      @Sentientpotatoh Před 9 dny +5

      @crustydownunder I understand that. My mom was a terror. She died when I was 21 and I still grieved her terribly.
      My dad was by no means fit towards the end of his life, his health failed over his last decade of life. It frustrated him greatly especially as it became harder for him to walk without pain. He passed so peacefully in his sleep. Just went to take a nap one day and didn't wake up. May we all be so blessed to go that way. 🙏

  • @azbeaux
    @azbeaux Před 13 dny +1491

    This is so true. How we see ourselves when we get old is entirely different to how we actually are.

    • @pbonfanti
      @pbonfanti Před 12 dny +13

      Very true, but physical pain is the way nature tells you are not more that young.

    • @Starteller
      @Starteller Před 12 dny +5

      Ya, but the mirror and the pain keep reminding us.

    • @JohnH108
      @JohnH108 Před 12 dny +2

      How others see us is entirely different to how we actually are.

    • @blurgle9185
      @blurgle9185 Před 11 dny

      I find this only to be true for people with poor self-awareness.

    • @idehenebenezer802
      @idehenebenezer802 Před 11 dny

      Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.

  • @macaryl95
    @macaryl95 Před dnem +1

    This is literally how I feel. At 28 I haven't aged mentally or physically much in the past decade. I feel very old, but 18 feels like yesterday. Even with all the experiences I remember throughout. It's only gonna get worse. Once I do visibly start aging again, I worry I won't recognise myself since remaining stagnant after puberty.

  • @heindnk
    @heindnk Před hodinou

    All the feels. My dad is only 73 and is declining rapidly due to Alzheimers. Spend the time you have with your loved ones.

  • @holliemichailidis2951
    @holliemichailidis2951 Před 8 dny +1677

    It is a privilege to grow old.
    My grandfather died before I was born at 47 years of age.
    I also worked in aged care. Many say in their mind they are young, its just their body has aged.
    Its sad but everyone time comes to an end.

    • @LeeroyFan101
      @LeeroyFan101 Před 7 dny +9

      Yeah man, a friend of mine is only 30 and she got diagnosed with Stage 4 cancer. She has less than 5 years at best. Really hits you how growing old isn't a guarantee and at any point your luck can just run out and that's it.

    • @Brodison5684
      @Brodison5684 Před 7 dny +3

      I think he’s 𝕘𝕠𝕥 dementia

    • @shelbyb425
      @shelbyb425 Před 7 dny +8

      Ik this is serious but it really got me with the "before I was born at 47 years of age" 💀

    • @holliemichailidis2951
      @holliemichailidis2951 Před 7 dny

      @@Brodison5684 ..pardon?
      People with dementia go back through the years. One minute they think they are a mother then the next a school girl.
      They've still lived long lives mostly. One woman was in a constant state of happiness. She was just always happy.
      Dementia is sad but it doesn't need to be scary.

    • @holliemichailidis2951
      @holliemichailidis2951 Před 7 dny +1

      @@shelbyb425 😅 yeah should have put a comma or new sentence. But currently I have the flu so it'll do.

  • @suen5006
    @suen5006 Před 12 dny +1770

    This is so true. Time goes fast and you don't perceive that you are really older.

    • @alonelymouse5293
      @alonelymouse5293 Před 11 dny +2

      i think he has dementia

    • @HeraldoftheMEME
      @HeraldoftheMEME Před 11 dny +19

      ​@@alonelymouse5293nah this is something we think about all the time as we get older and then one day it just hits you like a cannon ball. Especially if you haven't done much with your life or have worked your ass off most of it without stopping to spend enough time with your loved ones ...

    • @johnsennett8557
      @johnsennett8557 Před 11 dny +5

      ​@HeraldoftheMEME so true. And when you have kids and see them grow up you realize the amount of time that goes by 😢

    • @TrenchbabyMel203
      @TrenchbabyMel203 Před 11 dny +3

      @@johnsennett8557 Tell me about it I'm 30 now and can't believe it. My daughter will be 13 this year smh. I'm feeling old, and the young guys calling me unc when they find out my age doesn't help

    • @nollets
      @nollets Před 11 dny +3

      Around 2012 or so, my great-grandfather was in the hospital for something that I don't quite remember. I think pneumonia, but not sure, I was like 10 at the time. What I do remember though, is that he was put with the elderly people, and his reaction to that was "look where they put me, between all the old people". He was most likely the oldest in the entire hospital wing lol, at a nice 97 years of age!
      He definitely felt younger than he was. Sadly, he didn't live too long after that, he died maybe a year later, max.

  • @derpdawg420
    @derpdawg420 Před 2 dny

    who knew a simple short could be so deep and meaningful and cause you to shed a tear. One of the most beautiful shorts I have ever seen, Truly deserves an award.

  • @florencewatouo1999
    @florencewatouo1999 Před 4 dny

    Amazing how you feel young in your mind but your appearance is totally the opposite. So touching ❤

  • @CL-bm7bs
    @CL-bm7bs Před 11 dny +2265

    One of the best things I ever watched. Very well done. I am 67 this year and I see myself as a 25 or 30 years old at most, but the freaken body and face belong to a stranger. Life is really short. When we are young we're so happy and think that everything is still ahead, and at some point in life we realize that everything is already behind. Thank you for your vid

    • @idehenebenezer802
      @idehenebenezer802 Před 11 dny +31

      Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.

    • @panteleymonschekochikhin-k1978
      @panteleymonschekochikhin-k1978 Před 11 dny +57

      Fuck me this is sad. I have to get the most out of my 20's while I still can.

    • @rewindlly
      @rewindlly Před 11 dny +41

      @@idehenebenezer802 cringe

    • @travelstories2529
      @travelstories2529 Před 11 dny +17

      @@idehenebenezer802jesus is not god, he’s just a messenger of god, Allah is god. Turn to allah before you return to Allah… christianity id so messed up so many versions of bible, understand this, learn about islam and accept it.

    • @roo9642
      @roo9642 Před 11 dny +1

      ​@@travelstories2529 Islam is demonic, dead and false. Research more about your own religion, once you learn enough of its lies you will want to leave yourself.

  • @painlesskun3959
    @painlesskun3959 Před 14 hodinami

    A short film of a minute worth more than a 100!!! Not many movies can build and showcase emotions like this (laughter, happiness, sorrow, etc)

  • @jsonjjohnson
    @jsonjjohnson Před 4 dny

    The editing was smooth and genius.

  • @julieleech8214
    @julieleech8214 Před 11 dny +796

    This made me cry because I understand it so clearly . I'm 62, and time goes so quickly

    • @idehenebenezer802
      @idehenebenezer802 Před 11 dny +9

      Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.

    • @stevonico
      @stevonico Před 11 dny

      @@idehenebenezer802no

    • @Dev_095
      @Dev_095 Před 11 dny

      Why does this sounds like you trying sell him Christianity ​@@idehenebenezer802

    • @MrFuzziiWuzzii
      @MrFuzziiWuzzii Před 11 dny +1

      @idehenebenezer802
      No u

    • @MrFuzziiWuzzii
      @MrFuzziiWuzzii Před 11 dny +4

      @idehenebenezer802
      Christ > Jesus 💯

  • @Iamskibidiman
    @Iamskibidiman Před 10 dny +1150

    THE MIRROR REFLECTIONS WERE SUCH A GREAT TOUCH 😭😭
    Edit: Also if you look closely, in every shot which isn't showing his face, is him shown as in his older self. Such as hands, body, shadow, picture.

    • @Laffytaffy0719
      @Laffytaffy0719 Před 10 dny +2

      Fr

    • @Rosie_macaroni
      @Rosie_macaroni Před 10 dny +7

      i didnt even notice

    • @wifsk484
      @wifsk484 Před 10 dny +1

      Holy shit youre right thats quite awesome ngl

    • @Rivalunknown
      @Rivalunknown Před 10 dny +1

      Those are windows, but yea it’s a great touch

    • @mollymauk4313
      @mollymauk4313 Před 10 dny +1

      Same thing while she is taking the photo, they put a lot of detail into this

  • @MG-pw7jp
    @MG-pw7jp Před 4 dny +1

    For all the fathers out there devoting your life for their family and blessing them with endless love. Thank you! ❤

  • @taffykins2745
    @taffykins2745 Před dnem

    This is exactly correct!!! You feel young on the inside even if you look older on the outside.

  • @JasonKB
    @JasonKB Před 15 dny +664

    Are there Emmys for CZcams Shorts? Because this should win.

    • @IDrawToothpicks
      @IDrawToothpicks Před 14 dny +8

      Absolutely 😭🩷

    • @neilrivera4194
      @neilrivera4194 Před 14 dny +4

      I would vote for this 😭

    • @miamitten1123
      @miamitten1123 Před 13 dny +9

      Should win an Oscar for best short film. Technically it qualifies as it’s over 1minute.

    • @blurgle9185
      @blurgle9185 Před 11 dny +1

      This is hardly original and it is way too cheese to win.

    • @idehenebenezer802
      @idehenebenezer802 Před 11 dny +1

      Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.

  • @Raiderman227
    @Raiderman227 Před 15 dny +1888

    His dads reflections in the windows is a amazing touch. What a good job. Love this family!

    • @Biiilllaaal
      @Biiilllaaal Před 15 dny +28

      Wow i didnt catch that until now

    • @Dupont728
      @Dupont728 Před 15 dny +10

      And the photo on the phone!

    • @esbastianordonezordonez5313
      @esbastianordonezordonez5313 Před 15 dny +12

      Not only that! But when the sign is covering his face in that same scene you can see the white beard.

    • @miacooper2307
      @miacooper2307 Před 14 dny +4

      Agreed. You guys are starting to get pretty good at this thing. I don't usually scroll. But when I do. It's mcfarland feed.

    • @austinkoeppen6122
      @austinkoeppen6122 Před 14 dny +6

      Also when he picks up the coin, it's his dad's hand.

  • @kirakaia
    @kirakaia Před 3 dny

    I didn't realize till the second watch that all the reflections are his 84yo self. Amazing storytelling and visuals yall!!!!👏🏾👏🏾💖💖💖

  • @tracir3072
    @tracir3072 Před 11 hodinami

    Wow, this is real friends. Made me cry.

  • @RRC5074
    @RRC5074 Před 13 dny +1463

    That hit the feels..... Thanks for helping me understand what seniors experience

    • @Ki-Lessons
      @Ki-Lessons Před 12 dny +12

      Live your life backwards, and there will be no surprises.
      Truly, plan backwards from your own passing.
      It's powerful :)

    • @Brauljo
      @Brauljo Před 12 dny +5

      ​@@Ki-Lessons¿hwət dəz lɪviŋ bækwərdz ivɪn min? brow θiŋks hi'z benʤəmɪn bəʔɪn ər səmθiŋ

    • @Ki-Lessons
      @Ki-Lessons Před 12 dny +6

      ​@@Brauljo I like the phonetic and IPA foreign language trick. Nice.
      To answer though - it means to contemplate your future, by considering heavy questions like where you will most likely die, at what age, and what things will be like then.
      Perhaps one makes it to 90. what is like life or you then, how many of your friends are also still alive. Are you lonely?
      Work backwards, 80, 70, 60, etc. It is a thought experiment, and by modelling this, what changes would one make in their life given the odds of it happening?

    • @idehenebenezer802
      @idehenebenezer802 Před 11 dny +1

      Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.

    • @Brauljo
      @Brauljo Před 11 dny

      @@idehenebenezer802 rɪporɾɪd æz spæm

  • @bekkimcgrath
    @bekkimcgrath Před 14 dny +1483

    The camera work switching to glimpses of the dad's hands, shoulder, reflection 😘 perfect

    • @Ovahlls
      @Ovahlls Před 13 dny +11

      It's actually really good for a CZcams short

    • @peaceanquiet4528
      @peaceanquiet4528 Před 13 dny +11

      I didn't see the reflection at the restaurant the first time.

    • @theprophet9429
      @theprophet9429 Před 13 dny +1

      Both windows too.
      Excellent

    • @MavrikUSMC
      @MavrikUSMC Před 13 dny +2

      Bro. I was trying to get out of the deep, and you come along and sink my battleship

    • @Jay-cq5qr
      @Jay-cq5qr Před 13 dny +1

      It's crazy how people can mention things about a video that aren't even in the video 🤡

  • @capn.c5321
    @capn.c5321 Před 4 dny

    This was actually super well done.

  • @nickgrandy3098
    @nickgrandy3098 Před 5 dny

    Wow!!!...I remember asking my grandfather how it felt to be 80... he said he still feels 18, he just doesn't look it... he died like 8 years later... he was a great man!!!...

  • @incontinentia3119
    @incontinentia3119 Před 12 dny +918

    I'm 30 and I'm still 18 in my head. Wild and it'll only get wilder.

    • @debrawestbrook8960
      @debrawestbrook8960 Před 11 dny +32

      I just turned 32 and I still feel like a teenager even though I am not the same age my mother was when she had me (youngest of 5 kids). The new perspective is crazy. The age I am now, is the age my HS teachers were when they taught me, many of my old friends now how children...like how has all of this happened so fast!

    • @SirKolass
      @SirKolass Před 11 dny +5

      We only start getting old at 30, so you're not any older than you were 10 years ago. That can be sooner or later though, based on how healthy you are. If you wanna stay young for longer, be healthy.

    • @metalrain300
      @metalrain300 Před 11 dny +4

      I feel ya, I turned 30 last November and honestly I still feel like I left high school a few months ago. I don’t feel like I’ve aged, more important my body doesn’t feel like it’s breaking down either. It actually feels like the opposite. Lately it’s been unreal, like I’ve been able to actually spread my wings and follow the path I’ve always wanted to. I’m just waiting on my background check to go thru and I’ll be doing what I’ve always felt like I should be.

    • @catey62
      @catey62 Před 11 dny +6

      My amazing Mum told me a couple years before she she passed away at the age of 90 , that she still felt the same as she did when she was 16, it was just her body letting her down. I'm 61 and I can relate perfectly. inside. I'm still a teenager, just my body is getting older.

    • @mbyrd9223
      @mbyrd9223 Před 11 dny +3

      You all are still so young, enjoy it while it lasts. Wait till you hit 40 then you'll really start to feel like an old person.

  • @nicweiss9564
    @nicweiss9564 Před 8 dny +444

    Time goes by a lot faster than we think. I lost 3 grandparents in a year, and each funeral was the last time I saw the next one. Time is precious, enjoy every moment you can get

    • @Heitmotivation
      @Heitmotivation Před 7 dny +6

      That's heartbreaking ....hope you are doing well❤..RIP your grandparents 😢

    • @nowonmetube
      @nowonmetube Před 7 dny

      Wait... 3?

    • @nicweiss9564
      @nicweiss9564 Před 7 dny +2

      @@nowonmetube 2 maternal grandparents and 1 paternal

    • @PriyadharshiniIndhira
      @PriyadharshiniIndhira Před 7 dny

      This comment hurts somewhere deep😢

    • @jakegenocide
      @jakegenocide Před 7 dny

      ​@nowonmetube Well, you have your mother's parents and your father's parents, then if they every had to remarry, you have step grandparents.

  • @karolcpm-
    @karolcpm- Před 4 dny

    Am 18, but that cut with the food being served and the picture moment at the end really touched. Life's really amazing!

  • @user-ys5vi3mp5m
    @user-ys5vi3mp5m Před 6 dny +1

    Jesus man you made me feel something

  • @anthonyquote1593
    @anthonyquote1593 Před 11 dny +831

    If only shorts were that deep in meanings, people would be better.

  • @ChampionCynthia493
    @ChampionCynthia493 Před 7 dny +202

    I am working at a retirementhome as a nurse on a station with people who all have dementia and it seems like this is what they go through all the time... some of them being in their 90's saying "tomorrow i will visit my parents" and everytime i hear that i can't let them face reality and lie because it would be horrible to say "they are dead and you are 94 years old" or even ask them how old they think they are... sometimes one of them who can not stand up anymore says they want to go home just for me to reply with something like "i am sorry you are at the hospital and you can not stand up at the moment. We need to take care of you the next days" or something like that. Sometimes a nurse has to be very very creative the way they talk with elderly people and even more with from dementia suffering people. It can be hard to keep an illusion alive just so people do not have a worse time.

    • @tonymagona334
      @tonymagona334 Před 4 dny +10

      You’re an angel to all these people, bless you ❤

  • @kingquis8464
    @kingquis8464 Před 6 dny

    I just turned 40 i love when they joke, i loved this short. Perspective is so important great work McFarland family.

  • @tghiass
    @tghiass Před 3 dny

    Getting old is a true life blessing ❤

  • @NM-pl1iv
    @NM-pl1iv Před 7 dny +852

    Just buried my Dad, he was 63. Appreciate what you have, love hard and deep, don’t hold grudges and don’t waste time.

    • @sylviekins
      @sylviekins Před 7 dny +16

      I am so sorry for your loss❤. I lost mine 5 years ago, even though he was 92, I miss him🙏❤

    • @reynoldscs
      @reynoldscs Před 7 dny +5

      Same . My dad passed away at 63, 14 months ago, way to early. Brain cancer is aggressive and fast. I agree with all you said. Best wishes for you and your family! Cheers!

    • @GFGAngel
      @GFGAngel Před 6 dny +5

      My dad passed away almost a month ago. He was also 63. It doesn't matter how long someone has been in your life, it will never feel like enough time.

    • @BrianCunningham-kp1qt
      @BrianCunningham-kp1qt Před 6 dny +6

      Sorry for your loss I don't know my dad because of grandfather but my real mum died when I was 5 in 77 & my step mum died on my birthday in 99 spend all the time you can with your parents as 1 day they may not be there RIP Mum love & miss you more every day xxxxx.

    • @ShawnSandiego
      @ShawnSandiego Před 6 dny +2

      Sorry for your loss! 🍀 I hope y'all find the strength for these hard times.
      It's also the same for me.
      Mine passed away at age 63 unexpectedly due to cardiac arrest after a successful brain tumor surgery.
      It happened 15 years ago but he's still sorely missed to this day.

  • @Hydra_Scale
    @Hydra_Scale Před 11 dny +1252

    This hit me hard. We should nominate it for a short film award

  • @dank9261
    @dank9261 Před 3 dny

    Absolutely professionally done! From the camera angles, lighting, editing, cuts, and music, to the actors! I didn’t notice the reflection in the restaurant window until like the 5th time I watched it. You guys nailed it!

  • @sedrowow2766
    @sedrowow2766 Před 2 dny

    Actually broke me up in tears.
    Its literally feeling young, but you actually realize youre old...

  • @maikutsukino4743
    @maikutsukino4743 Před 11 dny +1500

    Lost my mom last year at 85. Just today I looked in the mirror and was reminded I'm not 20 years old any more. So this just hit pretty damn deep on me. I'm not crying, you're crying.

    • @kingki1953
      @kingki1953 Před 11 dny +40

      Damn, you lucky though. You can have mom until she at 85. I was 19 when i lost my mom, she was at 55.
      edit: She got cancer at 50 and i was 14. I wish someone told me that someone who got cancer don't live longer than 5 years. I was concern about this while she got only one year left at my 18. I know there's nothing i can do. In her last 3 months, she spend day by day really suffer from bladder cancer. I accompany him in hospital everyday until that day come, when she never reply to my voice again..

    • @eksboks148
      @eksboks148 Před 11 dny +18

      ​​@@kingki1953i get you're probably just trying to say look on the happy side or something but it really sounds like you're try to one up someone with what couldn't be less of a competition

    • @SureshKumar-pv7yj
      @SureshKumar-pv7yj Před 11 dny +5

      i just lost my dad last week at the age of 65.

    • @k1llahh
      @k1llahh Před 11 dny +8

      Жизнь странная штука, я вообще не ощущаю себя взрослым. В детстве казалось быть взрослым это круто, а теперь понимаешь, что это скукота и каждый день - день сурка

    • @hellothereuser1878
      @hellothereuser1878 Před 11 dny +13

      @@eksboks148 That was so rude. There's no one-upping here. This isn't a situation where we're discussing who made the most of a summer vacation. The guy is just trying to help OP appreciate the time he spent with his mother. Grief is proportional to the memories you create with that person, not necessarily the time you spent or when they departed. All he did was call him lucky and shared his own experience, and now you're trying to make him feel bad for nothing :(

  • @karthik_6938
    @karthik_6938 Před 11 dny +629

    You can see his old aged reflection in the shop mirror...
    The detailing! You really touched our hearts❤❤❤

  • @proassassin1152
    @proassassin1152 Před 5 dny

    That's enough to make a grown man cry.
    Even this man, you go right ahead tear.

  • @ChockyMilkDud
    @ChockyMilkDud Před 5 dny

    Why is nobody talking about how well this is made? Like all the reflections in the windows and the image in the phone makes it so much more dynamic! Also the little clips where you can sorta see it isn’t the younger man. It’s very well made

  • @jonathanferrer4108
    @jonathanferrer4108 Před 9 dny +1090

    This couldn't be more true, im 72 and i dont even realize how fast time is going. I am glad to be supported and i make sure to not miss a single moment with my grandkids. Always appreciate the time you have no matter what age, every second counts.

  • @farisasmith7109
    @farisasmith7109 Před 7 dny +328

    My dad is turning 94 years old. He often says in his head he's still a young man. Life goes by so quickly and you want more time. But you do your best with the time you're given. This made me cry.

  • @chariskreeger3501
    @chariskreeger3501 Před dnem

    I was filled with emotions while watching this. This truly shows how time passes fast and how you need to cherish it before it's too late.

  • @mommabear5663
    @mommabear5663 Před 5 dny

    This is exactly how it is. You look up one day, and you are a senior. I'm only 63, but when did all this happen? Its subtle changes.

  • @DrCryogenic
    @DrCryogenic Před 8 dny +219

    I like the attention to detail on this clip. The reflection on the glass shows true image while his image shows a younger version. Truly beautiful!

  • @jelyfisher
    @jelyfisher Před 9 dny +438

    This is how it feels. I don't feel older, but I am starting to look it. Youth and beauty is fleeting.

    • @nouseforanamelucky13
      @nouseforanamelucky13 Před 8 dny +2

      Sometimes "Getting Old Sucks (But Everybody's Doing It)" by Bowling For Soup helps me feel a little better about it..

    • @chaosmic
      @chaosmic Před 8 dny +3

      30 years old is a lifetime away for a teenager. 60 is a lifetime away for a 30-year-old. 80 is just a child’s life when you’re 60.

    • @mrdiippzzz7444
      @mrdiippzzz7444 Před 8 dny +1

      Your body if just a machine you “the brain” operates. The average brain takes many years before it starts to deteriorate whereas the body begins deteriorating much sooner. That’s why you don’t usually feel as old as you look. Until one day it all catches up

    • @lovablecharacter8167
      @lovablecharacter8167 Před 8 dny

      Beauty is only for the youth?

    • @buuuuuh365
      @buuuuuh365 Před 8 dny

      @@lovablecharacter8167 yes

  • @sheilastarlight2168
    @sheilastarlight2168 Před 4 dny

    This brought tears to my eyes. I was asked about using my senior discount last week... I told them that was for old people!

  • @MissJean63
    @MissJean63 Před 5 dny

    This is very touching and true. I’m 60 and I am well aware of my physical appearance But in my mind, im still young. I tell my students that I haven’t decided what I want to be when I grow up. Thanks.

  • @martinkunst81
    @martinkunst81 Před 10 dny +934

    My dad got cancer past year, he recovered and looks so much the same as this man, it really made me tear up he is still with us. Thank you for your video ❤

    • @CoentraDZ
      @CoentraDZ Před 10 dny +8

      Your dad is a hero ❤️ wishing you both a happy long life

    • @LG141602
      @LG141602 Před 10 dny

      Act fast. Tell them to stop eating sugar and carbs. They're in drinks and food. Sugar feeds cancer cells. They love it. End cancer naturally by eating healthy.

    • @LavenderCat175
      @LavenderCat175 Před 10 dny +3

      All of worlds love goes to you

    • @Behy.j.f
      @Behy.j.f Před 10 dny +1

      Wish both of you the best 🎉

    • @looleekon
      @looleekon Před 10 dny +2

      my dad also got cancer unfortunately he didn't make it he passed away last week I miss him so much 😢

  • @sunsethwy66
    @sunsethwy66 Před 12 dny +408

    Too real. People at work in their 20s started calling me sir for no reason. When I see pictures of myself, I think, "Who is that old man?" Touching sketch. Thanks.

    • @McCringie
      @McCringie Před 11 dny +2

      bro they was calling me "sir" when i was 20. even when i was 22, after the military, they continue to call me sir to this day. 24 y/o. being called "sir" is just an aura of mutual respect that collects around you.

    • @McCringie
      @McCringie Před 11 dny

      by "they" i mean people i work with and work for.

    • @Teenom
      @Teenom Před 11 dny

      Best New Balance Ad

    • @idehenebenezer802
      @idehenebenezer802 Před 11 dny

      Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.

  • @nooobody
    @nooobody Před 5 dny

    Why are you making me cry on a Sunday morning?😢 Good stuff, man.

  • @contactlensss
    @contactlensss Před 2 hodinami

    The reflection in the window of the shop was a cool touch!

  • @boyboy7818
    @boyboy7818 Před 11 dny +382

    I don't see anyone mentioned this but the reflection when he opened the restaurant door shows his "real self". Attention to detail is so nice. Great video!

  • @ddprivett1
    @ddprivett1 Před 13 dny +924

    That just made this grown-ass man cry. I'm only 54, but I've never seen anything that has shown the reality of the experience as this does. When I was a young man growing up I saw older people (parents, grand-parents, etc...) as "old" and "different" then I saw myself. Like, as a person aged they changed. That their mind aged the same way the body doea and was as different from when they were young as their outside appearance was. So much so that, like most of us do, I spoke to them differently, like we do a child, to insure they understood what I was saying. What I could never have understood, however, is that they found it as offensive as I would have if someone spoke ro me that way making me feel they thought I was stupid or helpless. I now know that your sense of self doesn't age. You are the same person you have always been in your head only you're trapped in a body that ages and falls apart around you. I dont know what it is with the number, but I've heard others say, and I feel the same way, "In my head I'm 28. That has stayed the same, but my body didn't get the memo". It truely is difficult to accept the reality of what's on the outside isn't the same as the mind being carried around inside of it. Sometimes its shocking when you catch a glimpse in a mirror or see a picture of yourself and are hit with this reality. I could live to be 100 but the "me" that lives and thinks and experiences the world around me will always be this 28 year old Me I've always known no matter how anyone sees me from the outside

    • @Zombi-zm6iv
      @Zombi-zm6iv Před 12 dny +3

      Si lo queria leer pero mucho texto carnal

    • @alextorres5546
      @alextorres5546 Před 12 dny +10

      Beautiful thinking man

    • @jenshep1720
      @jenshep1720 Před 12 dny +21

      im gonna save this post, because ive been suspecting that it works like this more and more. im 22 right now, and it definitley feels like mindwise im not done maturing yet, but ive been wondering whether that just keeps going forever.
      and im really sorry, that sucks. but thank you for talking about it, its important that we know stuff like this so we can at least know what to expect and maybe prepare.

    • @sKTkC
      @sKTkC Před 12 dny +5

      Im 34 now, and although I do think that your mind ages as well, I still have to acknowledge that my inner spirirt feels rather like 26. Jumping forward into the future I guess Ill feel like 34 first when im in my 60s…

    • @tombprospectorvulcan6440
      @tombprospectorvulcan6440 Před 12 dny +7

      Gotta agree it annoys me to no end hearing my girlfriend talk about oh they're such a sweet old person as if they're a child or something like damn have some respect that's a whole ass person goals aspirations and achievements in life and just because they've become old doesn't mean now all of a sudden they're reduced to just old person but again I find a lot of people don't tend to think past their immediate interaction with people they meet or comprehend they have a whole existence outside of that moment

  • @evenebony1235
    @evenebony1235 Před 5 dny

    That made me cry. Keep trucking young man.

  • @captainsinclair7954

    Two Days from now will be 5 years since my Grandpa was last alive on this earth. I'm saddened by it because that day was a very happy day for me up until I learned of his passing later that night. This video hit me in the feels, and I am thankful for the time I had with him. He was a good man, a great father to my dad, and a Grandfather anyone would be proud of. Thank you for making me happy cry tonight

  • @LadyJulia13
    @LadyJulia13 Před 11 dny +1298

    I love the way they show old hands when he's picking up the coin or the reflection in the shop window ...
    Aging is inevitable but mind can perceive information differently.
    Thanks for this lovely video

    • @zrrichards592
      @zrrichards592 Před 11 dny +14

      😮 I hadn't noticed it until I read your comment

    • @fightdem
      @fightdem Před 11 dny +5

      It amazed me. The director's work is brilliant!❤❤❤😢

    • @UserUnknown07
      @UserUnknown07 Před 11 dny +3

      Oh yeah, now that i noticed, while she took the picture, it's the old guy on the phone. Also while sipping the drink. Good observation buddy!

    • @drcatspaw
      @drcatspaw Před 11 dny

      Also did not notice. Thanks

    • @paragon4770
      @paragon4770 Před 11 dny +1

      very briefly you can see him when walking to the crossroad before the tree covers him too

  • @alwiaalwiaggalwia1646
    @alwiaalwiaggalwia1646 Před 7 dny +398

    The first watch makes you feel tight in your chest. The second watch makes you feel like everything has become black and white. The third watch makes you feel like your heart wants to squeeze itself.

  • @DK-qx3lv
    @DK-qx3lv Před 4 dny

    Awww, that was beautiful. Wow! Great job bringing a thought to short film. Please do one about grandma if you haven’t already ❤️✌️

  • @MrBiffo1956
    @MrBiffo1956 Před 10 hodinami

    This is so true. Its not until you see yourself in the mirror you realise your old. In your mind your still young.

  • @CallumQuinnCreates
    @CallumQuinnCreates Před 11 dny +337

    This is such a beautiful and dignifying way to represent aging.

  • @lGuileWilliamsl
    @lGuileWilliamsl Před 10 dny +385

    I turn 42 this year. I miss my youth and all the energy I used to have.

    • @nikkimarie92
      @nikkimarie92 Před 9 dny +21

      I know how you feel! I'm hitting 50 this year, and although my brain still feels the same as it did 30 years ago, my body not so much 😕

    • @anazuki3835
      @anazuki3835 Před 9 dny +1

      So do i

    • @nycyo2626
      @nycyo2626 Před 9 dny +15

      100% I'm 41 turning 42 next month. I went outside to do a snow angel this winter and I was gonna just fall back into about 4 inches of snow like I did as a kid and right before I did it I decided I should probly squat down and fall from a lower height just incase! When I squated and teetered back, I fell in the snow and my left shoulder dislocated and the wind was knocked out of me and my keys fell out of my pocket into the snow. I went to do my little snow angel manuver and my right arm covered my keys with snow but my left arm had something wrong with it and I was like damn, this ain't happening. I got up and that was when the pain from my dislocated arm hit. Pain was 10/10 while I caught my breath and walked on in pain, catching my breath without my keys! I got to the end of the block, turned around and went home only to not be able to get in! I had to backtrack and look for the keys 3 different times before I decided they had to be in the snow somewhere and I kicked it around only to find I did my snow angel in a pile of dog poo! I did find the keys on the 3rd trip but my god, now I tell everyone DO NOT DO SNOW ANGELS PAST 40! VERY DANGEROUS!

    • @dianadiehl
      @dianadiehl Před 9 dny +18

      My advice from age 72 is to start focusing on the energy you do have and stop looking at what you lost. It really helps with happiness and contentment levels.

    • @lGuileWilliamsl
      @lGuileWilliamsl Před 9 dny +4

      @@nycyo2626 Damn, now that's a run of bad luck, at least we still have the good old days of knowing how to have fun. I went tubing awhile back and flew down the hill so fast I couldn't brake and ran into their end stopper so hard I damn near tore it out of the ground. The worker was super worried I was hurt until he saw me laughing my ass off. I was upside down in the tube 😆

  • @scalper6195
    @scalper6195 Před dnem

    i think nearing 30 is what made me realize i needed to really pursue life before its to late

  • @memewall678
    @memewall678 Před 4 dny

    This guy has impeccable flow.

  • @doxx2265
    @doxx2265 Před 13 dny +1088

    This might be the best short piece of story telling and cinematography I have ever scene.

    • @Cestariarts
      @Cestariarts Před 13 dny +7

      "seen" you mean

    • @Brotlov
      @Brotlov Před 13 dny +3

      @@Cestariarts Nah, it's a pun, bro

    • @Cestariarts
      @Cestariarts Před 13 dny +1

      @@Brotlov to me sounds like the typical average internet user that writes "your" where should be "you're" vice versa.

    • @sean1849
      @sean1849 Před 13 dny +4

      Stop commenting

    • @hipunpun
      @hipunpun Před 12 dny

      It was definitely a pun.