Yes exactly because men forget how woman are created , they want to talk about how Allah created them to desire more than one woman , yet forget that a woman is emotional and sharing the husband is never easy even if she agrees . Then some men actually deal with these emotions by punishing the wives by giving her time to the other wife out of spite . Also catering financially to one and barely doing the basics for the others , treating a virgin wife better than a divorcee and justifying this treatment . If men can understand our fears came from watching their mistakes they cannot possibly be of sound mind if they think there is no justification for woman refusing to allow this
I don't understand this obsession with having multiple wives. No Muslim can deny that it is halal but that every practicing brother wants to have multiple wives is not true. Alhumdullilah, the men in my family are all very satisfied with being committed to their one wife and very much in love. In fact, it is those men who are focused on reaching a higher spiritual connection with Allah don't obsess about seeking to fulfill their bodily needs. Most of their energy is spent on an intellectual pursuit, not about base desires.
Islam is a sex positive religion. Lust is not something bad in Islam, let's not forget that. Halal sex is considered as worship and gets rewarded. It is even promised in Paradise. No other religion is like Islam when it comes to sex.
i think the main reason why a lot of women including myself are scared of polygamy is bc of the fear of mistreatment, abandonment, emotional replacement (even if theyre still married), and losing the support and presence of their husband esp if kids are involved, and tht creates a sense of self-consciousness, insecurity, extreme ghirah, and feelings of threat to their sense of security, and theres not a lot of men who can fulfill these things for even one wife, especially here in the west, so even if you tell them that the husband wants another wife, it has nothing to do with the first wife, and that its just in his nature, polygamy would still seem completely out of the question 😞 im already scared of marriage in the first place bc of the fears of mistreatment, and yeah theres some women who could care less about those things and some who just want a lavish lifestyle and the money to do the things she wants, but for those who value quality time and acts of service more, polygamy is a very difficult thing to understand and agree to partake in :( however i understand that theres a wisdom behind it and that Allah is Al Hakim, so im not against the concept in general, but i think it would cause me so much emotional distress to the point where it would be detrimental to my health :/ like for me to even consider polygamy, he would have to be extremely exceptional in akhlaaq and character, strives to be as pious as possible, has taqwa in all aspects of his life, fulfills my rights and our kids' rights (fulfilling his rights and me practicing these things as well goes without saying), and is financially well off to where money would not be an issue for supporting all those he is responsible for... idk man الله المستعان
I’m 42 married with kids and fear this myself even though my Huby would never marry a second due to varied reasons but it even makes me insecure never mind the fear of my two teen daughters. I will ensure I educate my kids so if they are not happy in a situation or place they can leave. Life is to precious and life is hard enough without adding an extra mix but I do agree polgmny sorts wider issues out but causes internal issues I think
Women dont want to be Jealous+poor&mistreated. Jealousy itself can make you very sick so it has to be the Man who is very very kind and very sweet. I didnt saw such! Oh by the way i live in the Middle East Sister. Dont think the Men here are doing better. Its worse cause my Husband worked with charity Organisation and he had to help Women whom their Husbands left them to starve for 2. Wife and one Woman had a Dying Son...his father put all Money to the new Wife. My best Friend is in Polygyny and her Husband tells Brothers most Men arent for this Lifestyle and its exhausting.
@@susanneal6063 That's truth nowadays women want more handsome husbands these days and its sometimes make me sad and jealous Idk about husband all these stuff I am just start leaning one and don't be mean to mean I am vulnerable person OK 👍👍
@@susanneal6063 that’s awful, honestly I just don’t understand the Hadith there will be more women in hell. I see women showing beauty yes, but the stuff u mention is horrific. I’m in the uk we really don’t hear of it much here but think they must be doing secret marriages. So glad I’m in the west and work. Men think they tho g to save widows and divorces it has nothing to do with that.
I’m going to be honest. This is just turning into another dawah bros podcast lol. You guys are going over the same topics again and again. Polygyny Hijab Women being in the home vs in the workforce Men and women are different Rinse Repeat. You have a great idea and there’s potential but like….it’s getting old fam. Please read the Seerah of ahlul bayt if you want to understand family dynamic. Read about the Prophet sws and the sahaba if you want to learn about being a man. You are just two guys with layman, shallow knowledge….up your knowledge.
@@xcurrentbreeze6626 honestly, I’ve had this account for a long time and I wasn’t always a Muslim Edit: I just looked through my subscriptions…and idk what’s the issue you have with them lolll.
Brothers TORTURING their wives that they will get another wife if she doesn’t clean or isn’t enough is a horrible sin… less than 1% of the world gets a second wife. So everyone chill and enjoy your spouse. Fear Allah and stop torturing each other. If you don’t want a husband who wants lots of wives than when you ask him BEFORE marriage then don’t marry him
Honestly I wonder what is the real intention behind these type of videos. Here in the uk all I have personally seen with men pushing 4 polygamy is a rise in divorce and increasingly young Muslim women marrying non Muslim men. There are so many issues facing muslims whether here in the West or in Muslim nation least of which is lack human rights in so many Muslim countries and yet all I constantly see is this obsession with polygamy. Sad, no wonder the ummah is the state it's in.
I'm expecting our first and one thing I was told is that extreme stress can even force the mother's body to miscarry the baby. Wallahi that kind of stress during pregnancy is absolutely horrifying. I even cry if my husband is stuck in a meeting and i have to eat dinner alone lol. Completely irrational but that's what baby hormones do to you. Oh and I'm definitely the quality time type over money anyday 😂
@@user-ve4zw6jp9i 😢 dear sister I am so so sorry this should never have happened. Innalillahi wa inna liayhi raji'un may allah unite you with your baby in jannah
@@Mochi5335 jazakallah khairan. I am pleased with Allah's decree because maybe it would have been bad for me but i ask Allah to punish him and his ex wife because they destroyed my mental health and my kids mental health.
It took me a while to understand polygamy and not have a hatred towards due to personal reasons. I’m okay with it now but I also feel like it’s important to put your family first, if your wife is not okay with it, and you have children just know your wife may not show her emotions to you but she will to her kids. That’s how the hatred between the wives reach the kids. Polygamy is a practice that a lot of men want and that’s fine just make sure the environment is not a toxic one where the wives hate each other.
The wives also has a role to play in order to keep the peace. They don’t need to be besties, but at least treat each other with respect as a fellow Muslim sister. Respect the other co-wife’s time and not talk bad is a good starting point.
Masha Allah guys. Really enjoyed this. It’s a REALISTIC commentary on a delicate issue. If we continue having the conversation in the manner you two did, more sisters will be more open to the idea. In the end, Allah knows best. He’s put our religion in place to show us the best way to Jannah. It’s not always going to be easy. But instead of constantly striving for “happiness” we should strive for contentment, which is acceptance of what Allah has given us in this life, and we should have happy thoughts of our reward in Jannah for remaining faith to him in hard times.
*Timestamps:* 00:00 - Introduction to the Myth of Monogamy 00:26 - Definition of monogamy as a Western concept 01:00 - Islamic view on polygyny & fairness among wives 03:52 - Comparing Monogamy vs Polygyny 07:06 - The impact of womanism on views of polygyny 09:50 - Responsibilities & Roles of Muslim men 11:09 - Advice about Life for Muslims 12:07 - Modern societal norms of relationships & infidelity 13:08 - Message for Muslim Men about marriage 14:15 - Need of upholding wife's rights in marriage 16:01 - Polygyny in various cultures & beliefs 18:33 - Issues with polyandry & assurance of paternity 20:31 - Loyalty & mental impact of multiple partners 24:50 - Message to muslim women about polygyny 27:02 - The Truth about Polygyny 27:53 - Need of financial stability before considering polygyny 29:10 - Advice to Men regarding practising Polygyny 30:15 - Challenges of managing multiple wives 31:26 - Considerations for having multiple wives 33:32 - Advice on timing & readiness for polygyny 36:26 - Emphasis on personal growth & responsibility in marriage 38:47 - Synthetic male enhancement pills vs natural methods 41:16 - Effects of relationship type on s3xual health & behavior 44:04 - Understanding the Nuances of Marriages 46:05 - Advice for maintaining a healthy marriage 48:08 - Women's social intelligence & preferences 50:14 - Polygyny isn't a solution for p0πn addiction 50:50 - Reality of having multiple wives 51:37 - Fulfilling each wife's rights in polygamous marriage 52:47 - Recognising women's rights in polygyny discussion 54:34 - Closing Remarks & Wrapping Up MashaAllah ❤️💙💛 Fabulous Podcast 👍🏻👌🏻 _May Allah ﷻ bless you both and accept your efforts._ 🤲🏻
Being married to a second, third or fourth wife is a responsibility and not a right and most men unfortunately fail to realise this fact. Let’s not sugar coat this as “men are the way they are” because if done for greed and not being able to control their gaze nor desires then the consequences are dire such as weight gain, receding hairline, stress, illness and much more as I have seen many cases of men marrying multiple women and a few years later looking and living in dire conditions. Some men are mature enough to have multiple wives but that is ONLY a fraction of them compared to the masses who only think of this through the lens of greed but title it as “it’s decreed”…The British guy speaking couldn’t even make his first marriage work and lost the hair on his head, add another two wives and he’ll have no moustache nor eyes brows left either.
Also a Muslim man can have concubines too if he is surrounded by concubines and can't get a wife. You can get as many concubines as you want according to my shaykh.
@@zahrahramnath9380 An-Nisa' 4:36 وَٱعْبُدُوا۟ ٱللَّهَ وَلَا تُشْرِكُوا۟ بِهِۦ شَيْـًٔاۖ وَبِٱلْوَٰلِدَيْنِ إِحْسَٰنًا وَبِذِى ٱلْقُرْبَىٰ وَٱلْيَتَٰمَىٰ وَٱلْمَسَٰكِينِ وَٱلْجَارِ ذِى ٱلْقُرْبَىٰ وَٱلْجَارِ ٱلْجُنُبِ وَٱلصَّاحِبِ بِٱلْجَنۢبِ وَٱبْنِ ٱلسَّبِيلِ وَمَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَٰنُكُمْۗ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ لَا يُحِبُّ مَن كَانَ مُخْتَالًا فَخُورًا English - Sahih International Worship Allāh and associate nothing with Him, and to parents do good, and to relatives, orphans, the needy, the near neighbor, the neighbor farther away, the companion at your side,[1] the traveler, and those whom your right hands possess. Indeed, Allāh does not like those who are self-deluding and boastful, Right hand possession are alluded as concubines and it's halal in Islam according to this ayah from the Quran.
Nah the first 3 minutes of this podcast is already killing me! This has to be sarcasm otherwise I can’t listen any further 😢 if every man is supposed to have four wives by default then that means many men would be single so you’re understanding of the religion is totally flawed! Men and women are equal in numbers according to today’s statistics!
This is something I noticed people like farid, Gabriel, ali drama etc never adress which is in a healthy society the ration of men to women is 50/50 even if a small fraction take more than one wife never mind 3 or 4 that will mean millions of men won't be able to get married. Millions of single men spell trouble and instability in society I suppose that's why so many Arab and African countries are unstable since they have historically practised polygamy.
Also _“men and women are equal in number”_ is false. Remember Muslim women can ONLY marry Muslim men, while Muslim men can marry any woman of the Book. So there are a lot more options for us.
I would love there to be a solid community properly supporting women who are willing and want to participate in polygamous marriages. There are of course many fears, some other posters already alluded to them. I believe entirely that women need to support one another to make these marriages work well for everyone. Alhumdullilah. I truly believe that polygamy, as a woman, gives me the chance to be part of a larger family than I could build with just myself.
Women out there have an open mind keeping a man happy all the time is toooo exhausting. A lot of women can’t find suitable men. All you have to do is keep your jealousy in check. On the flip side it takes a lot of courage resources and super smartness to handle multiple wives. But it’s a solution for so many social issues if both sides focus on pleasing Allah and keep their minds and hearts open.
Because the Sahaba grew up with Islam, right? Right? 😂🤦🤦🤦 Obey Allahs orders for the sake of Allah. The Sahaba completely and utterly changed their lives from what they were raised upon.
Prophet muhammed encourag3d us to not marry jealous tyoe wmn because they destriy ones life!!!!(hadith of why he didnr marry a wo^$man fromt the ansar). It sad seeing wmn even making dua for ounishment for thwir husband ovwr doing something complwtely mubah and recommwnded....
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Polygyny is for high value men who has a lot of patience, not for average men who gets angry over little things 😊
Yes exactly because men forget how woman are created , they want to talk about how Allah created them to desire more than one woman , yet forget that a woman is emotional and sharing the husband is never easy even if she agrees . Then some men actually deal with these emotions by punishing the wives by giving her time to the other wife out of spite . Also catering financially to one and barely doing the basics for the others , treating a virgin wife better than a divorcee and justifying this treatment . If men can understand our fears came from watching their mistakes they cannot possibly be of sound mind if they think there is no justification for woman refusing to allow this
polygyny is for any man
Not All men should have multiple wives
@@Saber23 sunnis are the only actual muslims, what are you yapping about
I don't understand this obsession with having multiple wives. No Muslim can deny that it is halal but that every practicing brother wants to have multiple wives is not true. Alhumdullilah, the men in my family are all very satisfied with being committed to their one wife and very much in love. In fact, it is those men who are focused on reaching a higher spiritual connection with Allah don't obsess about seeking to fulfill their bodily needs. Most of their energy is spent on an intellectual pursuit, not about base desires.
Your last point isn't exactly accurate
Islam is a sex positive religion. Lust is not something bad in Islam, let's not forget that. Halal sex is considered as worship and gets rewarded. It is even promised in Paradise. No other religion is like Islam when it comes to sex.
So the prophet who had 9 wives at the same time was chasing carnal desires?
i think the main reason why a lot of women including myself are scared of polygamy is bc of the fear of mistreatment, abandonment, emotional replacement (even if theyre still married), and losing the support and presence of their husband esp if kids are involved, and tht creates a sense of self-consciousness, insecurity, extreme ghirah, and feelings of threat to their sense of security, and theres not a lot of men who can fulfill these things for even one wife, especially here in the west, so even if you tell them that the husband wants another wife, it has nothing to do with the first wife, and that its just in his nature, polygamy would still seem completely out of the question 😞 im already scared of marriage in the first place bc of the fears of mistreatment, and yeah theres some women who could care less about those things and some who just want a lavish lifestyle and the money to do the things she wants, but for those who value quality time and acts of service more, polygamy is a very difficult thing to understand and agree to partake in :( however i understand that theres a wisdom behind it and that Allah is Al Hakim, so im not against the concept in general, but i think it would cause me so much emotional distress to the point where it would be detrimental to my health :/ like for me to even consider polygamy, he would have to be extremely exceptional in akhlaaq and character, strives to be as pious as possible, has taqwa in all aspects of his life, fulfills my rights and our kids' rights (fulfilling his rights and me practicing these things as well goes without saying), and is financially well off to where money would not be an issue for supporting all those he is responsible for... idk man الله المستعان
I’m 42 married with kids and fear this myself even though my Huby would never marry a second due to varied reasons but it even makes me insecure never mind the fear of my two teen daughters. I will ensure I educate my kids so if they are not happy in a situation or place they can leave. Life is to precious and life is hard enough without adding an extra mix but I do agree polgmny sorts wider issues out but causes internal issues I think
Damn That's truth few month I am simping men over female thanks to my mother now I am a good person
Edit : Nah man he still gammmm
Women dont want to be Jealous+poor&mistreated. Jealousy itself can make you very sick so it has to be the Man who is very very kind and very sweet. I didnt saw such! Oh by the way i live in the Middle East Sister. Dont think the Men here are doing better. Its worse cause my Husband worked with charity Organisation and he had to help Women whom their Husbands left them to starve for 2. Wife and one Woman had a Dying Son...his father put all Money to the new Wife. My best Friend is in Polygyny and her Husband tells Brothers most Men arent for this Lifestyle and its exhausting.
@@susanneal6063
That's truth nowadays women want more handsome husbands these days and its sometimes make me sad and jealous Idk about husband all these stuff I am just start leaning one and don't be mean to mean I am vulnerable person OK 👍👍
@@susanneal6063 that’s awful, honestly I just don’t understand the Hadith there will be more women in hell. I see women showing beauty yes, but the stuff u mention is horrific. I’m in the uk we really don’t hear of it much here but think they must be doing secret marriages. So glad I’m in the west and work. Men think they tho g to save widows and divorces it has nothing to do with that.
I’m going to be honest. This is just turning into another dawah bros podcast lol. You guys are going over the same topics again and again.
Polygyny
Hijab
Women being in the home vs in the workforce
Men and women are different
Rinse
Repeat.
You have a great idea and there’s potential but like….it’s getting old fam.
Please read the Seerah of ahlul bayt if you want to understand family dynamic. Read about the Prophet sws and the sahaba if you want to learn about being a man.
You are just two guys with layman, shallow knowledge….up your knowledge.
my thoughts exactly lol
If you're going to make a comment like that, I'd hide your CZcams subscriptions. Those subscriptions are honestly embarrassing to have as a Muslim.
@@xcurrentbreeze6626 honestly, I’ve had this account for a long time and I wasn’t always a Muslim
Edit: I just looked through my subscriptions…and idk what’s the issue you have with them lolll.
@@Saber23 oh Lord. Here we go.
@@Saber23 they aren’t the most important ones though. They’ve been regurgitated so many times.
Brothers TORTURING their wives that they will get another wife if she doesn’t clean or isn’t enough is a horrible sin… less than 1% of the world gets a second wife. So everyone chill and enjoy your spouse. Fear Allah and stop torturing each other. If you don’t want a husband who wants lots of wives than when you ask him BEFORE marriage then don’t marry him
Honestly I wonder what is the real intention behind these type of videos. Here in the uk all I have personally seen with men pushing 4 polygamy is a rise in divorce and increasingly young Muslim women marrying non Muslim men. There are so many issues facing muslims whether here in the West or in Muslim nation least of which is lack human rights in so many Muslim countries and yet all I constantly see is this obsession with polygamy. Sad, no wonder the ummah is the state it's in.
I'm expecting our first and one thing I was told is that extreme stress can even force the mother's body to miscarry the baby. Wallahi that kind of stress during pregnancy is absolutely horrifying. I even cry if my husband is stuck in a meeting and i have to eat dinner alone lol. Completely irrational but that's what baby hormones do to you. Oh and I'm definitely the quality time type over money anyday 😂
Happened to me when i was 27 i had a miscarriage for my third. Found out husband was getting married
@@user-ve4zw6jp9i 😢 dear sister I am so so sorry this should never have happened. Innalillahi wa inna liayhi raji'un may allah unite you with your baby in jannah
@@Mochi5335 jazakallah khairan. I am pleased with Allah's decree because maybe it would have been bad for me but i ask Allah to punish him and his ex wife because they destroyed my mental health and my kids mental health.
It took me a while to understand polygamy and not have a hatred towards due to personal reasons. I’m okay with it now but I also feel like it’s important to put your family first, if your wife is not okay with it, and you have children just know your wife may not show her emotions to you but she will to her kids. That’s how the hatred between the wives reach the kids. Polygamy is a practice that a lot of men want and that’s fine just make sure the environment is not a toxic one where the wives hate each other.
The wives also has a role to play in order to keep the peace. They don’t need to be besties, but at least treat each other with respect as a fellow Muslim sister. Respect the other co-wife’s time and not talk bad is a good starting point.
Masha Allah guys. Really enjoyed this. It’s a REALISTIC commentary on a delicate issue. If we continue having the conversation in the manner you two did, more sisters will be more open to the idea. In the end, Allah knows best. He’s put our religion in place to show us the best way to Jannah. It’s not always going to be easy. But instead of constantly striving for “happiness” we should strive for contentment, which is acceptance of what Allah has given us in this life, and we should have happy thoughts of our reward in Jannah for remaining faith to him in hard times.
*Timestamps:*
00:00 - Introduction to the Myth of Monogamy
00:26 - Definition of monogamy as a Western concept
01:00 - Islamic view on polygyny & fairness among wives
03:52 - Comparing Monogamy vs Polygyny
07:06 - The impact of womanism on views of polygyny
09:50 - Responsibilities & Roles of Muslim men
11:09 - Advice about Life for Muslims
12:07 - Modern societal norms of relationships & infidelity
13:08 - Message for Muslim Men about marriage
14:15 - Need of upholding wife's rights in marriage
16:01 - Polygyny in various cultures & beliefs
18:33 - Issues with polyandry & assurance of paternity
20:31 - Loyalty & mental impact of multiple partners
24:50 - Message to muslim women about polygyny
27:02 - The Truth about Polygyny
27:53 - Need of financial stability before considering polygyny
29:10 - Advice to Men regarding practising Polygyny
30:15 - Challenges of managing multiple wives
31:26 - Considerations for having multiple wives
33:32 - Advice on timing & readiness for polygyny
36:26 - Emphasis on personal growth & responsibility in marriage
38:47 - Synthetic male enhancement pills vs natural methods
41:16 - Effects of relationship type on s3xual health & behavior
44:04 - Understanding the Nuances of Marriages
46:05 - Advice for maintaining a healthy marriage
48:08 - Women's social intelligence & preferences
50:14 - Polygyny isn't a solution for p0πn addiction
50:50 - Reality of having multiple wives
51:37 - Fulfilling each wife's rights in polygamous marriage
52:47 - Recognising women's rights in polygyny discussion
54:34 - Closing Remarks & Wrapping Up
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Being married to a second, third or fourth wife is a responsibility and not a right and most men unfortunately fail to realise this fact. Let’s not sugar coat this as “men are the way they are” because if done for greed and not being able to control their gaze nor desires then the consequences are dire such as weight gain, receding hairline, stress, illness and much more as I have seen many cases of men marrying multiple women and a few years later looking and living in dire conditions. Some men are mature enough to have multiple wives but that is ONLY a fraction of them compared to the masses who only think of this through the lens of greed but title it as “it’s decreed”…The British guy speaking couldn’t even make his first marriage work and lost the hair on his head, add another two wives and he’ll have no moustache nor eyes brows left either.
You are exaggerating it, also sexual energy isn’t greed, its natural
@@cyberyousef7519thank you for your unsolicited input. However with this type of comment I REST MY CASE. Have a great day 👍🏼
4:48 The word is "Goomar" my bro. I remember from The Sopranos.
Also a Muslim man can have concubines too if he is surrounded by concubines and can't get a wife. You can get as many concubines as you want according to my shaykh.
Try finding concubines lol
What nonsense
@@zahrahramnath9380 An-Nisa' 4:36
وَٱعْبُدُوا۟ ٱللَّهَ وَلَا تُشْرِكُوا۟ بِهِۦ شَيْـًٔاۖ وَبِٱلْوَٰلِدَيْنِ إِحْسَٰنًا وَبِذِى ٱلْقُرْبَىٰ وَٱلْيَتَٰمَىٰ وَٱلْمَسَٰكِينِ وَٱلْجَارِ ذِى ٱلْقُرْبَىٰ وَٱلْجَارِ ٱلْجُنُبِ وَٱلصَّاحِبِ بِٱلْجَنۢبِ وَٱبْنِ ٱلسَّبِيلِ وَمَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَٰنُكُمْۗ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ لَا يُحِبُّ مَن كَانَ مُخْتَالًا فَخُورًا
English - Sahih International
Worship Allāh and associate nothing with Him, and to parents do good, and to relatives, orphans, the needy, the near neighbor, the neighbor farther away, the companion at your side,[1] the traveler, and those whom your right hands possess. Indeed, Allāh does not like those who are self-deluding and boastful,
Right hand possession are alluded as concubines and it's halal in Islam according to this ayah from the Quran.
This only applies to time of war and men are allowed to take the women prisoners of war as concubines
@@lightening791 this also applies in darul harb, you can take the polytheistic women (i .e. Hindus, Buddhists, rafidha) as concubines.
Why is one of the hosts implying polygyny is impossible in the first minute of the podcast.
Nah the first 3 minutes of this podcast is already killing me! This has to be sarcasm otherwise I can’t listen any further 😢 if every man is supposed to have four wives by default then that means many men would be single so you’re understanding of the religion is totally flawed! Men and women are equal in numbers according to today’s statistics!
The numbers of males and females will not change the reality of men’s desires to have several wives.
I’m sure he is kind of exaggerating … I’m male myself and allahu alam ofc but I doubt I’ll have more than 1 wife … 😂
This is something I noticed people like farid, Gabriel, ali drama etc never adress which is in a healthy society the ration of men to women is 50/50 even if a small fraction take more than one wife never mind 3 or 4 that will mean millions of men won't be able to get married. Millions of single men spell trouble and instability in society I suppose that's why so many Arab and African countries are unstable since they have historically practised polygamy.
What did he say that was wrong? Polygamy is a sunnah. Women gravitate towards high-value men, so these men will naturally attract multiple partners.
Also _“men and women are equal in number”_ is false. Remember Muslim women can ONLY marry Muslim men, while Muslim men can marry any woman of the Book. So there are a lot more options for us.
I would love there to be a solid community properly supporting women who are willing and want to participate in polygamous marriages. There are of course many fears, some other posters already alluded to them. I believe entirely that women need to support one another to make these marriages work well for everyone. Alhumdullilah. I truly believe that polygamy, as a woman, gives me the chance to be part of a larger family than I could build with just myself.
Women out there have an open mind keeping a man happy all the time is toooo exhausting. A lot of women can’t find suitable men. All you have to do is keep your jealousy in check. On the flip side it takes a lot of courage resources and super smartness to handle multiple wives. But it’s a solution for so many social issues if both sides focus on pleasing Allah and keep their minds and hearts open.
What's up with this polygamy propaganda on these "muslim channels" lately?
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Is the algorithm that bad that you have to make certain words and phrases silent?
You men can not handle that now a days. We didn’t grow up this. The didn’t learn the ways and costumes.
Don’t generalize
Because the Sahaba grew up with Islam, right? Right? 😂🤦🤦🤦 Obey Allahs orders for the sake of Allah. The Sahaba completely and utterly changed their lives from what they were raised upon.
These podcasts are gold brother Wallahi you 2 are great!!! Keep it up
Prophet muhammed encourag3d us to not marry jealous tyoe wmn because they destriy ones life!!!!(hadith of why he didnr marry a wo^$man fromt the ansar). It sad seeing wmn even making dua for ounishment for thwir husband ovwr doing something complwtely mubah and recommwnded....
What happened to the 3 Muslims?
Assalamu Alaykum,
Akhi the sister's are gone, but they'll be back with knives.....
Jk.
Love you All My sisters, May Allah grant you ease, peace and wellbeing in the Dunya and in the Akhira. Remember, Allah rules are also a test to show, who is sincere in obeying the commands and who isn't. A proof for the Akhira for or against as well. May Allah make it easy on us all. I'm not in the sister's shoes and it's def difficult for them to swallow but fight that emotion sister's for the sake of Allah. And wallahi Allah will make a way for you to be at peace. Be strong and don't fall for western society evil programming.
كان تعدد الزوجات شائعًا دائمًا في الماضي وحتى الآن. انظر إلى ماهابهاراتا على سبيل المثال كان لدى كريشنا ألف زوجة. كارنا لديها أربع زوجات وعبيد جنس. كان لأرجونا أيضًا عدد لا يحصى من الزوجات.
Here we go again!
The polygamy topic.🙄
This is getting so old now.