How To Have Sex Like A Classy Woman
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Anna you are God sent! We love and appreciate you! Have fun in Capri!💝
Yes enjoy your trip! Ciao Bella🤍
Thank you for yet another great video, I am so glad you covered this topic.
To me elegance means to me confident, know what you want and act with grace to get it. I think it will reflect to the bedroom as well ❤️
I kinda liked seeing you blushed, anna..😀😍
Love it! Thank you for the insights.
My mother always said “you can talk about anything in the right way”. This is a marvellous example ✨
👌🏽👌🏽 absolutely
That's very good. I wish it was true. Try talking to your family about circumcision.
My mom tell me same thing, and now I tell it to my kid
Absolutely true
Title has SHOCKED me🤣🤣🤣🤣
Me too!
Me too😂 I thought Anna would never do a video like this
She's a wild one, our Anna
😂😂
Not me.
if you decide to wait - you will see a man’s true colours of how much he respects you!
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Love this 🥺🙌🏽
And how much he is in to you
🎯 facts
That’s why I’m waiting till marriage
Will someone please give Anna an award for her comprehensive and ethical contributions to womankind? Her philosophies are the perfect blend of tradition and modern thinking.
Anna is a true feminist!!! She doesn’t drag other women about their decisions and I love that about her💗 feminism is about allowing women to make their decision, even if you disagree with them. I’m waiting for someone special, not marriage but someone who values me really and truly
So true. I think women should do whatever they feel comfortable with. And how sad it is that too many women still rush into sex thinking if they don't, he won't like them, will go looking for someone else.. *We teach others how we want to be treated!*
Feminist and a Humanist💖
So true.
Yes I love watching her videos
True feminist? LMAO funny
I think elegant women will wait but I do think all women should wait and be selective of who they allow near their bodies.
❤ I think this comment should be pinned😘
Yes. Agreed.
Absolutely!!
so true! In sex ed they should teach us that our female brains will subconsciously want to "nest" after we have sex, causing all sorts of drama and chaos in our lives. I wish I knew that in my 20s.
@@LazygirlLA892 “ nest” meaning?
Excusing yourself if the sex is unpleasant or if he is in the process of doing an act that you do not enjoy is such underrated advice. I feel like a lot of ladies don’t stand their ground enough. I was in a situation in bed that I found unpleasant, and was even more uncomfortable with him being turned on by it, so I literally said “excuse me” and removed myself from there, got dressed and left 😂
You're awesome!!! Gosh, how many times Ive heard from some friend that the sex sucked but she just stayed there so as not to offend him xD I think the more invested they are and the longer the relationship is, the less they dare to show disatisfaction as they dont want to "lose the guy". Girls tend to be worried about "the male ego" but guys never seem to consider our feelings! I hope to have your sort of sincerity and courage if ever in this position!
Women are taught to be nice so even when we are uncomfortable or scared or whatever we feel we still have to be nice even if the man is not nice with us.
I applaud you 👏
@@beans9499 There's nothing "not nice" about excusing yourself! You are not doing anything bad or rude, you are just kindly telling him to stop and leaving!
@@margaritanoir True, I heard that from some friends as well. We spend time worrying about male ego, but what about our ego? Why should we be afraid to lose a guy if he brings us anything but magic in bed?
From someone who is a bit older than most of the women on this channel, I can assure you, the guy doesn’t take off if you don’t give him what he wants. Not if he’s decent and not in my experience at all. If he does, he will never be satisfied anyway. Take care of you and your own body and live with integrity to your soul. I cannot express how important that is.If you’re not in the mood that’s OK! Do what’s right for you I totally agree with Anna, from experience.
“ Take care of you and your own body and live with integrity to your soul””. Love this!!!! 🔥 🔥
As an older lady (52) I totally agree this has also been my experience. My mother advised me about this when I was young a good man who is interested in you, will be willing to wait.
True n i m jst 28 bt feels like doin sex wid anybody ll annoy uh only n how can u do it like wid anyone fst u need a gud companion n a care from the person
Meanwhile last guy I went on a date with ghosted me after we have some much in common but he touched my boobs and I didnt want anything
@@viennala2528 I believe the first date is and get to know you did the most should be a kiss even that isn’t necessary depends how you feel.
I can't with the flower and the gardeners 😂😂
It was too funny😅😅😂
😂😂😂😂😂
I cringed each time. Is she living in Victorian England?
@@lawnerd67 ikr???
@@lawnerd67 yup!
Definitely not giving my cookie away to any man who doesn't deserve it, he better work for it 🙂
agreed sis
You're not "giving" anything away. A better analogy would be allowing someone to taste your cookie. Theoretically, you could let as many people as you like taste your cookie without degrading the cookie. It'd be like never ending samples at Costco.
My theory for life is: only after the marriage! Hahaha
@@liviapontes4738 LOL same !!
@@liviapontes4738 And who is prospecting you for marrige?
I am 20 and virgin and I was always quite uncomfortable with the fact that if you have a boyfriend at some point you will HAVE to have sex with him to keep him. Thank you dear Anna for elaborating on this topic and reassuring me that to have or not is only my right and desire. If the man does not respect me or force me into something then it is not worth it.
Much love xxx
me too, I’m also 20, virgin and never dated kr had a boyfriend. I agree with you :)
You ladies are rare and precious!
@@Lana.a_ Dang it, we all same. I'm also 20 and never had a boyfriend. Consequently no sex.
You're right!
Please please treasure that. If I could turn back the time I would've preserved myself. For me, it really is special to give it to the guy who you choose to spend your life with, which means after marriage. I know not all will agree with this. In the past I thought just because I'm in love I have to do it, but nope. Sex after marriage is much better. For me.
I like that she says "Water your flower" instead of "Take your flower".
Also, "Don't let any other Joe enter your garden."
Spoken like a true woman. ✨💕
@Anna-Maria So what?
Everyone has a past.
I think of it that way: if you're looking for something serious then wait until you have an emotional connection with someone before you have sex. This has nothing to do with "not giving it away too soon" in a way of being "easy to get" or whatever. It has more to do with taking your time and adding a personal note to your sexual interactions. Sex will ALWAYS be better if you know each other a little more plus sex usually gets better over time so the first time usually won't be the best.
Exactly.
It is also safer, it's dangerous in many ways to get a stranger just like that.
I agree with the emotional connection.
I agree but I think some women forget that it has to be a constant thing - I think some women are scared to leave a guy and start again with someone new because they don't want to push up their "number" (especially if they waited until marriage).
@@lizzyq-r8062 I don't think it's just about the number. I've been ten years with my husband and at this point, it's difficult to imagine intimacy with someone else, not to mention all the flirting process and starting all over again with another person when you already had something deep and meaningful.
Only Anna Bey can touch on sensitive topics with such elegance and class. So educational and helpful and I love the gardener and flower analogy ❤️Your humor is so refreshing ❤️
"You two have plans tonight?"
"Just a little gardening."
Lols isn’t it gorgeous! Perfect way to explain to your children that you are going to be busy as there is no way any one of them would want to join you. When gardening and mowing starts up do you ever have a child come offer to help? Lols not usually, so this was a perfect way to put it!
My parents used to call it this and now whenever anyone says that in the usual context at first I’m like 👀
Lmao
@@priscillazucc4021 😂
😂
Anna really does feel like a big sister; gently nudging us into self reflection to see what we truly both want and deserve
I love how Anna is becoming more and more daring😳😎
Tbh I have no idea if it was 2020, her recent marriage to an extremely lucky man, or the build-up of media criticism....but her confidence, humour and daring personality have all been rising lately and I absolutely love to see if from an amazing women who has unapologetically looked out for the best interests of women looking to enhance their lives 😊😊😊 I hope she truly knows how much much her efforts are appreciated 🌸
@@lunar686 Agreed- stepping into her power completely
Also the background music is point
I laughed soo hard when you said "if she had many gardeners coming and watering her flower shop" and seeing the gardeners collection popping out 😂
The garden would be waterlogged and the plants will get root-rot and then wither. One hose at a time, please ladies!
I was gigling too
😂 “gardeners”
It’s the “being a playboy, isn’t elegant anymore”
In high society, maybe. But sadly in average society, the "pimp" and "ladies man" still has a fairly established place.
Just watch any hip hop video (or any popular genre) or tune into "alpha male" videos on CZcams, to see that these men still have a sway in the public imagination.
I wish they didn't exist, but they do. So we women need to be careful, intelligent and strategic.
Date only the men who respect you and value you through their actions
I love this woman. She is absolutely flawless in her mindset. Perfect balance between empowering women and dealing with society rules.
Anna really knows how to talk about sex in an elegant way 🙌
Agree
Between the "sheets"
She does.
She knew this would get clicks 🤣
Really mad clicks!!
as she should 😌💅🏾✨😂
I can't believe you watch this too! I love Lennon. 😂
Why not? Its relevant and worthy it.
Ohh we've been waiting patiently for this...
The way you encourage women to set themselves as a priority is unique and much needed in today's society. I really appreciate you Anna.
Anna, I met my partner and stayed with him for 10 yrs, when we met we had instant chemistry. I met him at a local restaurant for a drink. We had so much in common, he invited me to his home for dinner. I don't know what I was thinking I said "Yes" and we both drove our own vehicles to his home which was less than 10 minutes away. When I entered his home his housekeeper came to the door to greet us. She was preparing our dinner which was one of my favorite meals called Osso Buco. We drank ate and talk for hours, and by the end of the evening, I ended up going to bed with him. Years later he brought up, and you went to bed with me the first night we met.
I've only been with five men in my lifetime at the age of fifty, he was number six. He had the nerve to say he's been with 68 women.
What I am trying to convey, please elegant ladies don't go to bed with any man the first night. It doesn't matter how many women they have been with because sooner or later you will be judged. He never wanted to marry me I end up wasting 10 yrs with a man that never loved me. Please don't make the same mistake... Ciao Bella! 💜
"Being a playboy is kinda just immature" - YES! I had to pause and like the video at that moment. I was going to like the video anyway haha, but had to go for it after Anna said that. I have been thinking this for a while as I have matured as a woman.
I agree! Men who sleep around a lot and have a high body count are such a turn off to me because that tells me he's a sex addict who's willing to sleep with anyone for a quick release. Meaning he's more likely to cheat for sex and he lacks self control. There's nothing more sexy in a man than him exercising self control and restraint.
@@gigijanae1460 couldn’t agree more!
@@gigijanae1460 I have trouble to find such a guy 😭
@@gigijanae1460 the same goes for women. Those tik tok trends of guys and girls “showing off” their body count like it’s an accomplishment is so stupid. It takes work to have self control and be patient, but it doesn’t take much to open your legs. Yet, They are always the ones who are belittling those who choose to wait until marriage & who are waiting until they find the right person. Because without “experience” then no man/woman is gonna want to be with you. (Which is complete bs)
Every body talks about sex like it’s some meaningless act, but it’s so much more than that. It is a way that 2 people become closer and become one (literally & spiritually) and the thing that so many young people don’t want to see sex or relationships as special just disappoints me. Especially when I am part of this young generation and almost nobody thinks like me
my brother had difficulty getting a lady from a good background because he was tagged as the towns playboy
This is true feminism. This is why I appreciate you channel so much, Anna!
exactly!! a true feminist is a woman who doesn't tell other women what to do, a true feminist is a woman who motivates and respects other women no matter what.
There is no such thing as true feminism. Please don't bring the male gaze to feminism. This vs that is childish boy nonsense.
@@butterflymoon6368 there IS a thing such as true feminism when you see a lot of misandry being covered as ✨ feminism ✨
@ann zaliko It's not a thing that kills men. Women are killed and abused every single day by misogynists therefore they have every right to hate men. Anyone living in this culture has every right to do that. Men are not babies. They see what other men do and they allow it.
I really like that you brought up how sex is different for women compared to men. Recently, I found out that, when a woman has sex with a man she produces a bonding hormone, the same bonding hormone she would produce after childbirth.
Imagine all of the unpleasant situations, emotions, and drama that come about simply because of not knowing our bodies and how they work. Not to mention how a lot of men (and women) have been miseducated by adult films and don't know how to properly care for our gardens, as Anna put it. I will wait for marriage before being intimate with a man but for the women who don't mind I'd say three to six months of waiting. Usually by that time most of the unfavorable gentleman will have given up.
Regardless of whether or not you choose to wait, you should always make sure that you and your partner don't have any diseases before you do anything. I really enjoyed this video and it has opened up a very interesting discussion. Well done Anna!
Thank you very much for mentioning the binding hormone!
Thank you for sharing about the bonding hormones. I knew about this, but did NOT know it was the same one produced after childbirth. Sex Education and Health Education is falling soooooo short of what young women actually need.
I really don't believe in bonding hormones
Hi, do you mind sharing where you learned this information? I’ve seen it very often parroted by misogynists, but can’t find any scientific evidence for it.
@@shammahmkandawire it doesn’t mean it’s false, exceptions are always a thing.
I think we can all take a moment to applaud how Anna managed to discuss such an intimate and taboo subject while remaining elegant, funny and positive? Not dragging anyone down and taking the time to remind everyone of the most important aspects: to enjoy yourself, listen to yourself and be safe? And also, not do like some people who encourage you to use this area of life as a weapon or as a manipulation tool! She could so easily have given outdated or unfair guideline but she did not, understanding that feminism is about letting women make their own decisions! Perhaps it is because her view is quite similar to mine so I am biased but I really loved this video!
A few minutes of pleasure are not worth a potential lifetime of regret. Be selective. Take time to know the person. Never give in too quickly. Value yourself above all else. Protect your flower and your heart.
plus when you dnt really know the guy its not really pleasure
Anna never ceases to surprise me, in a good way!
Sure.
This was a perfect balance of class and lightheartedness. I loved the phrases, "many gardeners" and "stinky flower." It got the point across very clearly without being overtly descriptive.
I am 72 so these days are pretty much behind me but loved this video! Going to suggest my adult granddaughters watch it. Wonderful advice sprinkled with humor ❤️
That's too bad. I am going to be 76 in Sept. Last year, I had a man my age want a very casual, friends with benefits relationship. My body wanted it but not like that. If your libido has always been light, then it's fine but don't let a number, your age, define your sexuality.
Not true for every woman! (I am 72 as well.)
@@deborahlove1987 wait, so are you saying you can still be horny past menopause?
Don’t sleep with anyone unless you accept the possibility of raising a child with that person. At a minimum don’t let anyone into you that you wouldn’t trust with your phone passwords and all your keys! Privacy is protection.
Yes 🙌 too many women are protecting their phone passwords and not their 🌸 I also think about the energy aspects of it, do I want this persons karmic energy attached to me? How would anyone be able to make these decisions upon hardly knowing someone. 🤯
This! So many women forget that one of the consequences of sex is the creation of human lives! Don't sleep with anyone you wouldn't want to raise a child with.
So true! And if you are not ready to take responsibility and not just terminate another innocent life for the sake of pleasure, then don't do it.
@@audraelynnegrimmelhaussen8808 💯
@@DianaMillan 😂 how primitive!!!
I WAS SO SHOCKED WHEN I SAW THE TITLE 😳
I'm so glad I found Anna under the age of 25. I feel like she's been training me for when I get on my 30s. I wanna be like her ❤️
Same 🍀
My husband, when he was my boyfriend, said he was so impressed that I didn’t throw myself at him sexually too early on. I got the impression that other women had and I was glad that I stood apart from them in that way. I wasn’t intentionally holding myself back to impress him but rather because I had my own standards of where and I how I would do things because of my age … I was much more free in my youth but by the time I met my now husband, my own standards for “the garden” were different
I am a 27 year old virgin, but I clicked so fast. LOL I need the tips, thanks Anna!
Thanks for emphasizing chosing to do sexual things when and as often as YOU want. It's so good to see someone in this community voice the importance of making that decision based on your own comfort and desire.
exactly. women are taught so much to do things for men when they already carry so much weight. i really love gentlemen and i am making that kind gentleman familiar to my subconconcious mind starting from today
I think this is good advice not only for the bedroom, but for relationships in general. As a single mom I learned it the hard way. Sadly it still is highly accepted in society when men
decide to step away from their responsibilities.
I love that you’re straight up helping women climb social ladders without perpetuating misogynistic ideas that support those social hierarchies. Getting very good vibes from you as a person
The sound of the multiple gardeners is priceless. 😂
Lol
Lol
When she said stinky flower, I spit my coffee out 😂😂😂 OMG lol
Not so very elegant of you😂
LOL
A Rafflesia who popped out my mind, a stinky flower type. 😁😅
me too! Hilarious!!!
No one ever told me these things- so I didn’t realize these things until this year and I am 30 and in a relationship with my sons dad. I Wish I would have had this video 12 years ago. I used to give it away to the shittiest guys. I’m so glad my sons dad is respectful and loving
Do not regret we all have our past. Experience is the best teacher.
I love how open minded yet realistic your perspective is!The control over women's sex behaviour and seperating them to "precious" and "non precious" is such a patriarchal phenomenon few people are aware of.We us women should be careful with those people who believe these cause they might ..humiliate us
"Ladies i dont want you to be a sexual doormat" haha ohh Anna you have such a way with words!
I loved that part right there
Ladies let’s have our flowers watered elegantly
🤎🤎🤎
😂 yes
😃😃
*YES* LOL
😂😂
My husband is my first and only. I love Anna's input on watering the flowers.
“You don’t want to be q stinky flower” 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m balling.
I can't help but picture stinky cactus fliwers that are meant to attract flies and bats🤣
ME TOO !! 😂😂
Since I met you Anna, my life has never been the same. I get compliments from men that I haven't in my 30 years of existance. I love you and may you live forever.
cool, what compliments do guys give? just curious
Can I add point 4?
Women don't "hate to" put up with anything they are uncomfortable with, emotionally, physically, morally, etc, even if "everyone is fine with it", be that sex acts, sexual behaviour, porn use, involve other people and whatever you don't feel OK with. It is ok to set boundaries. You are not selfish, prude, unrealistic, controlling, bla, bla, bla. Value yourself, your ethics, your views and feelings. If the guy is not OK with your boundaries, and acts with disrespect to your feelings, he is not good for you.
Surround yourself with people who encourage you and celebrate and respect your boundaries 🤩
Anna is a feminist to me, a 62 year old who remembers when that word was a positive. Anna wants us to take control of our lives and our bodies - including enjoying the heck out of having our flower 🌸 watered!
I really value that you said that women should have sex when they WANT to have sex. It's sooo important and varies according to the woman, regardless of the expectations put on us by men.
I am engaged to a such a good man who’s a mariner. I’m still virgin and I want to wait for our wedding night. It’s been a 6 years and our wedding will happening soon.. He respects and we both waiting patiently ❤️🙏🏻
6 years! girl I'm going to tell Jesus to give me the kind of patience you have lol
I bet you are indian
@@moinmoin1293 what is the point of your existence
You're 💯 Indian beb 😂😂
I actually did this already and wished I had more partners, you get incredibly attached to your first and it’s not all that great I’m not giving my power to anybody
A lady should be able to say ‘no’ without guilt. And sex is not the most important part of a relationship/marriage. It constitutes a very small part in my opinion. Caring, respect and love are much more important.
Sex is not the most important but it is important. You can have care, respect and love even in friendships. I want to be loved by my man but also be desired, want to be the woman that makes him crazy. I think you are only looking from the female perspective(though many women love and enjoy sex too) because if we ask men in a relationship most of them will say that sex is fundamental and not just a small part of the relationship. Most men love sex and that’s a fact, there’s nothing you can do to change that. Also there are women that truly enjoy sex and want a partner that pleases them to have a satisfactory sexual life. I think in a relationship both parts should clearly say what they want if you are a woman that doesn’t like sex much you should say to your partner so that there are no problems later. Also men should clearly say if they want sex regularly.
Sex is not that important but touch, feeling and intimacy is.
@@MJ-rh6tu I agree! And I mean there are some woman who like having sex with men then there are many that like pleasing themselves instead of having sex with a man but I would say sex is something that some desire but it’s not need but intimacy is what really connects you with someone! Intimacy and sex are two different things.
@@AbunaiAiko yes exactly! Intimacy and sex are two different things and I’d rather be intimate than have sex tbh
@@0fficialselena__90 what is the difference between intimacy and sex
I can't help but think that a high-value would respect the woman more if she doesn't give him the cookie quickly. Men love the chase, especially masculine men looking for feminine, elegant women.
Very good point!
I personally think that Anna was trying to remind us that each one of us has its own needs to be fulfilled and that we also have the power to control our own destiny and take our own life choices
Dear Anna, is so refreshing hearing someone talking elegantly about such topics. I've been following your channel for a while now and I have to absolutely say that you exude femininity and grace.
I mean, safety measures are never safe, except birth control probably. But even that wouldn't save you from a disease or an infection. I think it's better to keep men away until you find a trustworthy partner. Momentary "fun" isn't worth the health complications down the road.
Even birth control is not completely sex.There is still that 1 % chance you can get pregnant. My cousin is an example of that
I do know about some packaging scandals impacting the feasability of condoms in certain countries but it is just wrong from you to say that condoms are never safe. Most of the time they are and it‘s for sure more safe than leaving them away only because there‘s no 100% guarantee. There are many sd that men can‘t detect so having a trustworthy partner is worth nothing when he doesn‘t even know about the sd in the first place.
@@Vivi-tf3jl yep. And why there are people thay ask to be 100% perfect anticonceptives when is not a must in any other part of life? Never have heard that on activities like walking or cooking.
Agree with you
@@Vivi-tf3jl the problem is that a lot of people seem to ignore the fact that some STDs are transmitted even when you are wearing a 100% effective condom (syphilis, papilloma etc etc). You're right, some don't even know it and that's why it's important to get tested even if you are not promiscuous.
I am almost 22 years old and I am still virgin. Since I was a little girl I was careful with boys. Of course.. I want to be sexually active and I also have a great imagination. All of the boys/men that I have met wanted nothing more than to have sexual activities with me other than getting to know me first, invite me to dinner, give me a flower, show me respect and let me choose if I actually want him in my bedroom or not. Relationships takes time and patience. And all I’ve seen and heard was “let’s go do it” or “I want to marry you” such immature behaviors that made me sick to my stomach. Thank Goodness that I have never opened my “garden” to any of those boys. Even now… can’t they just think about something else other than sex? I feel hurt when they only want me for sex and not for me as a human being and for being funny, crazy (in a good way), a loving person, ACTUALLY A GIRL WHO DOES NOT RUN AFTER MEN! All they care about is to please themselves and nothing more. I hope that I’ll find the right man. Maybe in a 100 years 😂
I think "being present with your partner" is great advice. I've tried to be what I thought the man wanted, and I've tried to be what I thought I wanted out of a situation only to end up disappointed. Finally figured out that connecting in bed is similar to a great conversation: Give and take, reading the person, and being present in the moment. It also helps to get to know them a bit before hand. Think about how great chats are with a friend versus small talk with a stranger. It's just not the same.
The mannerism you display Anna whilst debating on such a sensitive topic is highly appreciated.😊
slayyyyy
I am totally agree with you Anna. S£x must be taken seriously, and it's such a shame that this is still considered a tabú in our society. If everybody would talk about it openly, there wouldn't be so many problems like aids, hiv, undesired pregnancies etc. I'm glad that you are sharing this content with the world, and I genuinely hope you can reach out as many people as possible! We really need educative contents as this one. I've been watching your videos since the beginning of your channel, you're a great woman!
Aids doesn't exist and HIV means nothing. There is no correlation between the two. If you don't believe it, ask Montagnier for the scientific evidence: It doesn't exist.
I think Anna did a good job of explaining her points. And I agree with her.
Male or female - remember: you hold the power for how far YOU want to go with a partner. You should NEVER feel like you "have to" just to appease the other person. And if you're being forced to do something you don't want to do but you can't leave, just know that it is NOT your fault.
Also, respect your body enough not to put it on display all the time. Always have a nice dressing gown on standby in case you need to get up for whatever reason.Close the door if you need to use the bathroom. Always be discreet.There's a time and place for everything, and that includes putting your birthday suit on display.
This was so fun to watch! I wanna send this to all of my girlfriends who feel they need to please their insufficient boyfriends! Very good advice for any lady really
I was waiting for someone to cover this topic, I never thought Anna would be the one, eager to watch the video!
Edit after finishing the video: I couldn't agree more.
"Try and put a lock on the garden until the gardener has showed himself worthy enough to come and water your little flower" 🌼💧Couldn't agree more. A garden's key should be given to whom that would take good care of it 🗝
This is by far the best guidance I’ve ever heard on this topic! Anna perfectly and politely says to enjoy yourself while respecting yourself.
Such a fun talk for the younger ladies - your "special effects" are hilarious!! Multiple gardeners and then the squeaky springs while just laying there had me laughing out loud!
Ladies let's talk about flowers and gardeners! This was a funny surprise from Anna. Lol.
Anna makes me laugh. She is so classy and cute on how she makes women feel good about themselves.
"Especially if she has many gardeners coming & watering" I nearly died laughing at this! Oh my god 😆 but hey I envy how she looks so damn good and classy even when she's just laughing 🤍✨
THIS is true female empowerment! Dear Anna, I’m 1000% with you 💗!
Anna's content is blooming these days!!!! This was a MUCH MUCH needed topic. Thanks Anna
A difficult topic to discuss was presented elegantly. Also, not judgmental. Great job Anna Bey.
Removing yourself from an awkward situation is what I did too, that's a really great tip, you dont have to be somewhere you are not comfortable, specially if you are starting with your sexual life. Great tips as always 💖
Anna you're such a botanist today!
Hahahha 🤣
So true! I couldn't have said better... 😂
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And you Mr. Who why are u selling yourself here??
It is the worst channel for that just for saying... please have at least one video or something before u marketing yourself
Ridiculous...
Not being a people pleaser is key. I totally agree. I made that mistake in the past.
I love how she includes personal brand in here 😂😂😂😂
This is literally my favorite channel to watch on youtube ❤️ thank you for all the constructive advice Anna 💯🙌🏼
Hi Anna, I just wanted to let you know that I've been following you for 2 years now, I'm a university student and growing up I didn't have a feminine and elegant role model around me so I didn't know how to dress up, act feminine and behave with manners properly. Although I have no aspiration to find a rich partner, I've learned so much from you and I feel a lot more confident and strong as a high value woman. Thanks a lot for stepping up and creating this content 🌸
Thank you for covering this topic, Anna. With so many false information roaming around, it's good to have this topic addressed by someone who is practical and honest. I love the fact that you put emphasis on safety and on treating sex as a duty. Many women think of sex as a duty, as something they have to do in order to keep their man. Love you Anna ❤️❤️❤️
Anna is so refreshing 💙 she takes her content very seriously! Keep going with the good job Anna, you deserve ✨
Being true self is the hardest thing and the most valued by everyone. Elegance means high standards I expect and do offer, the respect for my needs same as for others’s. Love your videos Anna.
Wow i'm genuinely surprised but in a good way that she covered up this topic... Thank you, Anna! I have tought about this more than i was conscious to be honest
Anna, could you talk also about this hot topic: not all women want kids and that is actually TOTALLY OK. And about the fact that a family can also mean just husband-wife, without kids and that dosen’t make it any less of a family? I was so surprised to see that answer on your IG story a while ago, with that lady who had the audacity to label a woman without kids in her ‘late 30’s’ ‘not elegant’? Some people do think like that and it’s their right, but at least they should stop TELLING SOMEONE this. Like ‘no, you are wrong and I am right’. It’s ignorant and immature. Personally I do want kids, but it bothers me to see women judging other women for not wanting them. I understand that women are associated woth kids cause they are the ones able to give birth to them plus they are on a biological clock men aren’t but it’s very personal and it’s everyone’s CHOICE. I don’t understand where the ‘love, peace and understanding’ are gone, as you said in your podcast:)))
yes!! would love a video on this.
Lol. YOU have already talked about it. You just want her to come and agree with you.
With the declining birth statistics, I think most people know it’s okay to not have kids.
@@ijeoma5891 No, I actually want to hear HER perspective on it. ‘LOL’
@@user-es8ho9qs5l I said I would like to hear Anna’s take on it. HER take on it. Cause she has such a classy way to adress things. And yes, I know her point of view cause she has expressed it in her IG stories. But a more in depth perspective of it put in a video would be nice coming from HER. And I’m surprised you say ‘most people know it’s ok not to have kids’ since a lot of people (women in general) judge harsh as hell child-free women. It’s not elegant or kind at all. Eventhough we live in such a modern age and we are free, a lot of people are still stuck in their narrow minded space and judge everything that moves and breaths.
Anna, I love the way you speak about different topics, especially controversial. I know people like to disagree with you (of course not everyone will agree, which is fine) and say you’re not a feminist, but truly, you are. You handle those situations with such poise, it is truly inspiring to watch you. I started watching your videos a few years ago, and was so glad to be able to be educated on how to become more elegant, things I never got taught but have always had an interest in. Growing up around people who don’t share the same ideologies when it comes to behaviour, there was never really anyone I could learn from (in terms of how I wanted to me). So truly, these types of CZcams channels have been such a great help for 1) feeling less alone in my behavioural ideologies 2) providing advice in such an elegant way so that there is no offence if people haven’t learnt these things yet 3) being such a great role model
Thanks Anna for great content. You’re doing a wonderful service and I look up to you immensely!
This video was so fun! I liked how she suddenly couldn't stop laughing but what she said was actually really good. I like how she always came back to ' whatever feels go for you'.
Elegance in the bedroom means safety, respect, understanding, love, mutual enjoyment and consent.
Being a sexual doormat or too agressive sexually is not elegant, rather - be assertive.
The most elegant delivery on this delicate topic ever! Thank you, Anna!
Anna, this is my favourite video you've ever done! I feel like you're my wise, protective aunt giving me compassionate yet practical advice :)
I'm so glad you left things after the action starts to being natural- because it is raw emotion and you're right you should not be thinking about that stuff in that moment
I lost it when you said “let’s talk about the gymnastics” Oh Lord🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀
She said technicalities
Hey Anna, great video as always! I wonder if you could make a video about when to bring up serious topics (religious beliefs, how many children you want, finances etc) in a relationship because I'm really struggling with this. Obviously I don't want to look desperate, but I don't want to get emotionally invested in a man then have to break up with him because our hopes for the future aren't compatible.
I'm not Anna but I personally think that it's important to bring the topics up earlier on the relationship. There's no way to get around someone who wants vs doesn't want kids, you can't compromise on that. Once you feel comfortable just bring up what you want/ expect.
When he asks you to be exclusive, that’s the best time . Don’t invest until you get the ring and also have options.
I would advice you to discuss that early on on. If you wait too long, you might end up finding out that you're on 2 different paths and ending it will be much harder. I have seen it happen multiple times and the result was not pretty. Ask it in a way that isn't rehearsed or forced. Ask and let him talk without interrupting or trying to change his mind, and then make up your mind. Remember that men usually don't change their opinion; they mean what they say and won't change because of you. My friend brings it up on the second or 3rd date and if they are not compatible, that's their last date. It will save you heartache.
Its important to bring it up in a casual conversation. When you are talking, ask casually about each others families how many siblings they have , do you like your childhood with a small/ large family? This is a innocent way of bringing it up followed with , if you were to have a family what would you do differently? A great way to ask about finances is after a couple of dates in the general get to know you phase.. you can ask what do you like about your job? it opens the conversation to what they do, maybe he might complain about money or overtime. you can get to know if they are workaholics or if they have a stable job. open ended questions when phrased correctly help. Thats How I knew my husband was a hard worker and what he wanted in his family life.
I love that you are not pressuring anybody to wait till you are in a relationship! Because when I cliked on the video I was almost sure you would say to wait till commitment. I personaly wanna wait as long as Im able to, but I dont know if Im able to wait 3 months for example... it would be a challenge
You know ma'am, I'm a menswear expert (and Master Tailor btw:) and gentleman ship trainer. Your style has made me subscribe to learn the other side of the coin. Also your funny, the multiple gardners made me laugh too. Have a good one and I look forward to your other videos to learn more.
P.S. also I'm a straight male too (no shame to my gay friends, you guys are cool)
P.P.S I just finished the whole video, the bad lay stare up the wall made me choke on my drink with laughter in a positive way 😆🤣.
Elegance is truly knowing yourself, what you want, need and what makes you feel comfortable. If you require respect, a good man will wait for you. We have the power ladies! ❤
Ladies, wash your flowers with a bidet!
Love from an Italian lady who thinks bidet should be used everyday everywhere ❤️
your lady bits are self cleaning unless you have an infection. I would say a bidet is great for your backside though . Love my bidet.
Yes, agree 100%
@@ah5721 I’m sorry, but that’s not true. You shouldn’t wash there too often because then you’ll remove the “good bacteria” which your body needs, but once a day is perfect xx
@@itsemy1466 you can wash once a day when you bathe/shower 🤷♀️ but its true your body makes helpful bacteria
Watching Anna’s personality come out is the best!
“You definitely don’t want to be a sticky flower”☠️😩🤣Love your energy!Ladies if you have to keep one thing in this vid(for me)it’s ”have sex when YOU want to”. Don’t let anyone put pressure on you! You are the prize, share your energy with something who deserve it, someone who is showing consistency, putting effort on the relation, who is putting you on top of their priority. Remember men invest their energy and time on what they prioritise. Watch actions not words, if you just want to have sex for having sex do you it’s your business, no jugement here. If you want to build, create a long term committed love relation, I suggest you to share this privilege when you are willing to, when you feel it based on the actions of your man. Remember “potential”is nothing if your man is not willing to transform it,don’t fall for words or potential. Good luck ladies🤗
You handled this topic so elegantly and with taste. Anna is such a good communicator.