EPISODE 1: MOST REALISTIC TIPS FOR SURVIVING LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP

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  • čas přidán 5. 08. 2024
  • WHAT THEY DON’T TELL YOU ABOUT LDR!!!
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    7 LDR SURVIVAL TIPS THAT WORKED FOR US!!!
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Komentáře • 59

  • @Niniolaoluwa
    @Niniolaoluwa Před 5 měsíci +7

    Thank you Nurse Mj❤ My last LDR or should I still say current lol😂 did not end up well
    He never want to hear my bad days anytime I bring it up he sees (called) it has a blackmail emotion…
    I am glad watching this
    This actually lightened up my mood 😊❤

    • @NurseMJTV
      @NurseMJTV  Před 5 měsíci +4

      Awwwhn! I’m so sorry to hear it didn’t end well! But that’s his LOSS!!! You can’t afford anyone wasting your time! LDR is no child’s play! & I mean that in every definition! I will be sharing more about “How I knew He was the one from a distance (LDR) in the second episode! Please stick around 😍❤️!
      Kindly like and share this video 😍😍🤭

    • @Niniolaoluwa
      @Niniolaoluwa Před 5 měsíci +2

      @@NurseMJTV😭😭 Nurse mj 🫂🤭❤️you really don’t know your reply and pining my comment hit me crying
      I have actually been down for a week because he stopped talking to me after him telling me all that and calling me names 😪
      All I wanted was to share my day my rough shift days to someone
      Thank youuuuuuu❤❤❤❤😢

    • @emmanuelakande3381
      @emmanuelakande3381 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @NIniolaoluwa, sorry to stumble on this.
      I felt ur pain seriously but life moves on.
      Am emmanuel by name, can I meet u?

    • @itamahpromise5285
      @itamahpromise5285 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@emmanuelakande3381 better don't be deceived, there is a reason he dumped her, don't be a dumping ground for someone

  • @debbie1765
    @debbie1765 Před dnem +1

    I just discovered you today on TikTok.
    I’m currently in a LDR for the past 4 years. He calls me everyday. We have our ups and downs but overall, I really enjoy it. He’s started the process of my son and I going to join him please wish us well🙏 I love how your LDR ended and your son’s very cute. I saw him on the app I discovered you earlier

  • @FaithOjone
    @FaithOjone Před 5 měsíci

    Nice video ❤ super happy for you girl 😊

  • @thecontentjane
    @thecontentjane Před 5 měsíci +1

    Veey insightful. Not in an LDR but this would definitely add to my knowledge bank. I can easily give someone advice on what works. I enjoyed this content as usual. 🎉

    • @NurseMJTV
      @NurseMJTV  Před 4 měsíci

      Thanks for sharing!❤️

  • @inaramonigha
    @inaramonigha Před 5 měsíci +1

    This was so beautiful to watch🥰. Thank you MJ 🤗

    • @NurseMJTV
      @NurseMJTV  Před 5 měsíci

      Awwhn! I’m glad you liked it 🤭❤️😍… thank you! Stay tuned for the second episode! “How I knew He was the one from a distance” 😍❤️!
      Kindly like and share ❤️😍🤗

  • @user-zd9zi2zx1i
    @user-zd9zi2zx1i Před 5 měsíci +1

    Thanks for the tips, nurse MJ!😍 😊

    • @NurseMJTV
      @NurseMJTV  Před 5 měsíci

      Awwhn! Uwc 🤭❤️😍… thank you! Stay tuned for the second episode! “How I knew He was the one from a distance” 😍❤️!
      Kindly like and share ❤️😍🤗

  • @cynthiaadiri4483
    @cynthiaadiri4483 Před 5 měsíci

    I learned a lot... thank you Nurse MJ

  • @tractorbooty15
    @tractorbooty15 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you so much for sharing such wise words.
    Wish you and everyone in LDRs all the very best❤

  • @Ayomidecorner
    @Ayomidecorner Před 5 měsíci +1

    Thanks for the tips MJ ❤️

    • @NurseMJTV
      @NurseMJTV  Před 4 měsíci

      You are so welcome! thanks for watching ❤️

  • @efeatutu6498
    @efeatutu6498 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Am in LDM and trust me it’s not easy but we pushing! Tnx for d tips nurseMJ🙏🏻

  • @Daakie9362
    @Daakie9362 Před 5 měsíci

    Thanks for this great 👍 tips

  • @amandaesumeh
    @amandaesumeh Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you so much for this video

  • @Ada_Mbaitoli
    @Ada_Mbaitoli Před 3 měsíci

    What a sweet love story 💕😍

  • @ConfidenceOlachi
    @ConfidenceOlachi Před 5 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much
    This tips will really go a long way for me

    • @NurseMJTV
      @NurseMJTV  Před 5 měsíci

      Glad you found it helpful ❤️

  • @Inloveandbeyond
    @Inloveandbeyond Před 5 měsíci +1

    I am in LDR with my Polish partner and I can say all points you have mentioned are very valid. Also virtual dates helps us a lot and we also have fun documenting our long distance relationship journey here on CZcams so it’s one of the activities that brings fun into our relationship too. New subscriber here ❤

    • @NurseMJTV
      @NurseMJTV  Před 4 měsíci

      Thanks for sharing!!❤️

    • @NurseMJTV
      @NurseMJTV  Před 4 měsíci

      Thanks for subscribing! big hug🤗

  • @deborahkayode6751
    @deborahkayode6751 Před měsícem +1

    Nurse MJ❤❤❤❤
    I'm so in love with your videos

  • @annesharon2754
    @annesharon2754 Před 5 měsíci +2

    ❤❤❤awwwww

  • @efeatutu6498
    @efeatutu6498 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Am waiting MJ

    • @NurseMJTV
      @NurseMJTV  Před 5 měsíci

      Awwhn!!! It will end beautifully!!! ❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @nancymakele4283
    @nancymakele4283 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you very much

  • @efeatutu6498
    @efeatutu6498 Před 5 měsíci +1

    🎉

  • @preciousekanem6989
    @preciousekanem6989 Před 4 měsíci

    ❤🎉

  • @olagrace-vr8cv
    @olagrace-vr8cv Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you so much Mj
    I need your help for a job in Uk please

  • @amandaesumeh
    @amandaesumeh Před 5 měsíci

    How did you cope with misunderstandings? Where there days of unnecessary arguments

  • @yussuphomotomilayo
    @yussuphomotomilayo Před 5 měsíci +3

    I was in a LDR relationship before we got married last week
    He’s in the Uk while I’m in Nigeria
    I can say everything in this video is absolutely true,they worked for us and they made LDR easy except the sexual part sha cos me I’m a shy person abeg😂

    • @NurseMJTV
      @NurseMJTV  Před 5 měsíci +1

      Wow! Awwwhn! Congratulations to you!!😍😍
      Share some tips with us 😍😍

    • @yussuphomotomilayo
      @yussuphomotomilayo Před 5 měsíci

      @@NurseMJTV Thank youuu🥰Honestly everything you said!!! Communication,Patience,Attention,understanding and constant reassurance
      The first 3 months of LDR wasn’t easy for me we fought almost everyday cos of lack of understanding but we talked things through and it got better and my man is always assuring me that also calmed me down

    • @yussuphomotomilayo
      @yussuphomotomilayo Před 5 měsíci +1

      Trust and honesty as well like you’ve said
      Even though we are miles apart,I mostly know what he’s up to every time and vice-versa cos we carry each other along in everything, we don’t keep secrets

  • @emakhusamuel4977
    @emakhusamuel4977 Před 5 měsíci

    😊nice

  • @kemisakin7663
    @kemisakin7663 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I was smiling and nodding while watching. My experience was exactly all the opposite of these tips. I broke off the relationship and I felt I was being a lot for what I was asking for in the relationship. Thanks for sharing, helps me with closure. 😊 ❤❤❤

    • @NurseMJTV
      @NurseMJTV  Před 4 měsíci

      Sorry to hear that🥺.. I'm glad you found this helpful... a relationship is a relationship regardless of the distance you should feel safe❤️

  • @ilolojeedith3599
    @ilolojeedith3599 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Thanks for the tip but my question is what about when you finally see the person physically you are no longer attracted to the person or there is no chemistry between the both of you physically what will you doc

    • @NurseMJTV
      @NurseMJTV  Před 5 měsíci

      Very possible. We had this fear too, tho he was somewhat certain that we will click… make video calls with full body and all,,, like you’re beside him/her… try to find out as much as you can before you meet… I think you just have to find out and when you finally meet, give it time… just try to meet on time, so you don’t waste too much time.

  • @beatricedavid7238
    @beatricedavid7238 Před 5 měsíci +2

    While watching this video,I was reading the comments also and i was like Waoooo😂😂
    I vowed never to sex chat buh find myself doing so because my man is thousands of miles away from me 😢 and guess what....am the only best friend he has and he's the only bestie i have,We don't keep secrets,we talk QDS everyday.
    Mehnnnn,If u no get PATIENCE..no do LDR ooo😂😂😂😂

    • @NurseMJTV
      @NurseMJTV  Před 5 měsíci +1

      PATIENCE is very key! 😂😂some things are necessary 🤭😘 I’m glad it’s working out for you ❤️

  • @HeIs-os6ct
    @HeIs-os6ct Před 5 měsíci

    Which kind of toys/do you watch blue movies?

    • @NurseMJTV
      @NurseMJTV  Před 5 měsíci

      lol, which one is blue movies 😆… visit the toy stores there are varieties depending on what you want to explore😊

  • @adielechristy8946
    @adielechristy8946 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I swear
    Never say never.

    • @NurseMJTV
      @NurseMJTV  Před 5 měsíci +1

      Everything I said I’d never do ehn😂🤣😂I over did

    • @adielechristy8946
      @adielechristy8946 Před 5 měsíci

      @@NurseMJTV Honestly, the most important thing is to be with the right person, regardless of the compromise.

  • @amandaesumeh
    @amandaesumeh Před 5 měsíci +1

    How did you cope with misunderstandings? Where there days of unnecessary arguments

    • @NurseMJTV
      @NurseMJTV  Před 5 měsíci +4

      You are two different humans, to make things worse you are not present physically… so fights are inevitable…. In our case, we do more of video calling instead of chatting… important information get lost in the chats..
      My man is very expressive! & he will always want us to talk about anything and ensure we don’t leave anything unaddressed for too long. Thats where effective communication comes in… Always be ready to talk, & be quick to apologize when you’re wrong.

    • @ahyeebah
      @ahyeebah Před 4 měsíci

      In a LDR and it's not been easy at all. We are actually losing communication due to his work and other pressing issues. He can go days without reaching out. It triggered me and I confronted him but instead of addressing the issue, it was more like gaslighting. I don't know what to do anymore.