My mom programmed me to be fearful/untrusting of my dad at a very young age (well before the divorce). Now that I look back, I realize that she did it to hide her own abuse, which was insanely damaging to me emotionally. I attached to a mother who really never loved me, and distanced myself from a dad who always loved me.
I have been an alienated parent for over 20 years. Nobody I know understands what happened. So I just have to live with the pain and get on with my life. It truly is a terrible thing.
Got you beat by 5 years. Now, I have to face facts I will never connect with my children again. I'm 67 and with all my friends dying here lately I don't feel theres enough time left to reconnect. So I say and i do, Live your life to its fullest make yourself happy. I sure understand. Its been a damn nightmare for me.
@@stemtostern7611 I get it now I've given my entire life to narcissistic abuse. My innocence and having no one to talk too kept me trapped.. I continue to try to help as I see my grandkids now suffer. My mother in law passed abuse to her son, who passed it on to our son, who is passing it on to our grandkids. Will it stop at 4 generations or forever continue
Awesome presentation. I’m living this and tried therapy, texts and letters. Very hard to take the verbal abuse, feels like I’m back in the house taking abuse all over again. Waiting and rebuilding my life. Building a nice home, solid physical and mental and meaningful spiritual to have something to offer one day. Thank you.
Wow finally someone who gets what is happening to children who are alienated from the other parent. So why don't the courts get it and do something about this abuse
So hard to get the courts to even recognize parental alienation. I haven’t seen my daughter in months. It is ordered through the court, but she is 15 and refuses to see me. It’s like watching your child die right in front of you.
@Gemma Dann teenagers are not typically allowed to walk away from their parents. Kids in this situation are in a way different position than normal teenagers. Mine has been gaslighted her entire life. Its now been 4 months that I haven't seen or talked to my daughter. Unless I come up with $150,000 and go to court to force her to come back, I won't see her again. She's been head jacked.
I’m 58 yrs old. Parents divorced when I was around 10. I WATCHED my mother, try to reason with my father, and he only became more angry & more angry. As an 8 year old, I had no power but to scream& break up the fight. My mother would never say bad things about him. He was our father. Yet she didn’t have to say a word. I watched it all like a movie. For all the people who blame the Ex-spouse, most of you need to grow up. The kids get a front row seat. They will choose sides. After my father left, PEACE came over the household. From that day forward, my life was magical. He would visit, but I sure was glad he was gone. They never criticized one another. And she tried to include him at holidays. Looking back, I now understand they were both immature. Very immature. My fathers “temper” was truthfully, a high functioning autistic man with no control of his emotions. He was a good father to us as an adults. I would have wonderful conversations & I share many many of his personality traits. My advice to parents that are alienated is to not blame their ex. Keep communication lines open. Send that birthday card. Send the Christmas card or text. As mine aged, their closest friends in BOTH cases were their grown adult children. The girls more so than boys. We are just more understanding & understand loneliness when we see it. But his care in sending a card & writing about his daily life in those cards are what kept the door open. Hopefully people can heal. I doubt it though. Still have issues from watching those fights🙏
I pulled myself away from the anger and fighting. It was not helping and making everything worse. I began healing 4 yrs of social isolation. Self blame took me to a dark place. Not having answers but after 4 yrs of isolating i came back into the light. I have three sons. 3 individual and personalities with seperate thoughts and feelings. I cannot change or make them feel better. I can listen with empathy and understand they have 2 parents. I cannot say anything bad about their father. Not even the truth unless they ask. I want to but know that is my ego. I have to rise against, accept and let go.
I’m everything that is bad to my 3 alienated children. They reject me terribly. I need to learn more about the splitting mechanism. It’s so sad. Nothing I do can help them feel attached to me. Their family (which is not me) makes sure the children are loyal to them, and hate me.
An up to date research, with Quantitative positive results, 2017. Free access from Academia. www.academia.edu/34361522/An_Objective_Measure_of_Splitting_in_Parental_Alienation_The_Parental_Acceptance_Rejection_Questionnaire
When I moved to become the ex-husband, I became the ex-father. Most of us are unable to afford the kind of expertise required to navigate these sort of disputes. I was left with a dreadful decision……continue to fight and watch my children get twisted more or let them go. It feels like my children are dead……a part of me has certainly died. Parental alienation should be called what it is…..abuse. It is a form of coercive control designed to punish the other parent. It’s tragic.
Quién diría que escuchar una ponencia en CZcams, cambiaría mi vida. Éste ha sido un punto CIEGO por años, con consecuencias muy dolorosas para toda la familia. ¿Cómo agradecer su generoso compartir de conocimiento invaluable?
Thank you for speaking about the children in these cases. Most people focus on the rights of the maligned parent. That’s obviously important, but the children surely are the most vulnerable victim.
so true and that''s what none of these experts get...children are AFRAID of abusive dad's but moms get accused of alienating them b/c they don't want to go where they feel and are unsafe, then he gets custody to truly alienate them
My granddaughter was showing signs of splitting when she was less than two years old. When we did the exchanges leading up to the drop off and at the pickups hours of her pouring out garbage like a bad report. This made me aware of how this child was being interrogated. Well she is 14 now and her dad and paternal family now have not seen her in four years nor has little brother. Completely the intended work of her mother who had this same childhood. The saddest thing I have ever seen or experienced is my son and my granddaughter.
and control over weak mind population while years ago you could lock them in the hospital, now they let them run free and do all sort of things. it started from life stability , moved to family stability , now it's the next stage. Personal and emotional stability.
I would like to reiterate its not just the mother anymore, I am a mother going through this. My ex husband lied through his teeth and caused false accusations, meanwhile prior he moved to a different state for two years then married someone with money and everything he accused me of he is literally doing now. So please stop using the mother as the only one who does this.
it's not the only mothers but in court the mostly mothers get the sole custody upon words " I'm scared" and you never see your kid again. Then you learn about the PA and the game is typically over for you as the courts never acknowledge the father as righteous parent. So it isn't as simple. Where in majority of dv cases women suffers , in PA cases the majority who suffers is men. Sorry for you experience, I'm not trying to take anything away from your pain but the weights are bit different but all cause from the same source.
I agree. I've been looking into this more, because as a mother I was the alienated parent, but also a victim of domestic violence. My ex-husband enlisted my kids, but mostly my daughter, who was much younger than my son to play a role in domestic violence. My son kept to himself mostly, locked in his room playing computer games. My daughter and her friends were used to target me repeatedly with sexual harassment and gas lighting. It was insane. It was all done with innuendos so I would often doubt whether it was or wasn't. I did feel like I was losing my mind at times. It was so cruel and calling it out was impossible, because they would just deny it. In fact, I just had to endure it, because my ex-husband threatened me not to question the kids on their comments. Going through something like that, with sexual harassment and gaslighting, and enduring some of the most humiliating and disrespectful comments by my own kids, it was so hard not to get upset or angry and even that worked against me, because the moment I did, Mike would act like the hero stepping in, insisting I was delusional and making crazy accusations against them. I felt like an open target and the only thing I could do was tune it out and ignore it. But how do you ignore harassment and disrespect? He was granted sole custody and my daughter vehemently hated me by the end of our divorce. I felt I couldn't do anything right, despite I was the nice parent and the good parent. There was a lot of hostility, and screaming texts from my daughter and you have to make yourself immune to it, even though I didn't understand parental alienation syndrome at the time. I couldn't understand the hate and for what? It's almost like you have to ignore it. As soon as I would get drawn into even suggesting their comments were sexual harassment, or they were lying to me, I'd get attacked for suggesting it. Maybe that was all a part of the game to them, which to Mike (my ex-husband), thought was so funny. It's about asserting power, but how does one even fight back or set boundaries with gaslighting? It's one thing if your child says something disrespectful and you can address it, but in this case I couldn't because it was denied over and over again. I have chosen to continue loving my daughter and son, despite they don't speak to me. They were used as pawns, and they might not see it for a long time. I reasoned if I had one day left to live, what impression would I have left my kids with? Maybe that's the only way you can fight back, is being ten times as good, and adopting nerves of steel, but I don't know that anyone can do that. We are human beings too.
My ex-husband did the same thing to me - convinced my children that I am the abusive one when it's really him. I love my children more than I love anyone and this is by far the biggest pain of my life - impossible to understand - because none of it makes any sense - it was all made up out of thin air.
he nailed it ! i experienced that haven't seen daughter in over 4 years the courts failed daighter mother was abused i think my daughter is fragmented and broken and there is nothing i can do my attachment has dropped i went through the pain it 's like a death so sad either the courts don't care or don't know i just live my life and hope one day i will see her
I have watched so many videos... Dr. Childress prior to this video, made the most sense, but this video explained exactly to a T as to what I am currently dealing with... to a T. Childress is so very technical and is rightfully on a campaign, but in laymen terms this has been the best video explanation as to what has happened to my family. Thank you.
But at least Dr. Childress puts a diagnosis on the issue. It’s not like…“oh in my view it’s child abuse“. No, induced psychopathology by another person is abuse and if you do this to your child it’s child abuse. Attachment system suppression, induced phobia, induced delusional belief. Child abuse. No discussion. A psychologist who denies this should have taken away his license
@@hiaslayer My intention wasn't meant as a slight to Dr, Childress, I believe he truly is bring to correct approach all aspects of diagnosing treating as well as legally helping familes who are going through these issues. I also believe his approach is the best and foremost approach. With all this being said... This particular video calls out to a tee what is and has transpired in my personal life well over the past two and a half years.I used the term Laymen as it speaks in a common tongue, easily digestible and understood.
@@brianmaypole84 I understand and all the videos on CZcams reflect what I’ve been through too. But no one cares as it is so easily to rebut what gardener is saying. Dr. Childress made a great video about the 8 symptoms and shows that they are not helpful at all in proofing „Pa“. It’s a back and forth…you are alienating, no I’m not, yes you are etc. if the three diagnostic indicators are met then there is no wiggle room anymore. It’s child abuse with the 5 factor model or gardeners model you will always have that debate
My ex would have our 6,7,8 year old child in tears every time she came home. She would often talk about feeling so badly for dad cuz he’s crying without me…. And lonely without me….. and he could die at anytime….. like omg hes 61! I’d be like “wow” how do you guilt a child like that..? I never made her feel bad for going to dads…. I’d say yeah I’m sad and I’ll miss you but you will be fine and have fun w dad and mom is going to start a new project at work… and we would talk about plans whe she got back…. He’d also buy over the top gifts so she would tell him something about me…. Biggest question? Did I have a bf. I didn’t for 7 years… she would often break down w guilt over that- I told her you have nothing to hide…. It’s ok..! I was always picking up the pieces…. But also dealing w the negative behaviors… he would encourage them.. just a nightmare
My husband was abusive and left me suddenly with 4 small children behind for 3 years with no contact. Suddenly he came back with a new woman. She saw my cute bi-racial kids and wanted my children immediately. Together with my own Caucasian father, they planned to take my children away to punish me. One moment my mom was babysitting and they came with a car and took all 4 boys away at once. Its abduction. I was helpless, living in a country that looks down on minority women, I had no chance. They were stronger and more believable and lying. EVerybody supported them. They made every rule from that moment on. Only my father got dispatched a few years later, they wanted to eliminate that side of the children's family completely (my side)-no contact anymore. I then had to take care of my severely grieving Caucasian father who was also on of the perpetrators. I could never go to court with it so I still have legal custody until now (22 years later). Because I am a minority mixed bi racial woman I knew I could never stand up against both well-educated Caucasian abusers legally. also after so many years of abuse and neglect and then the sudden abduction of my children I was broken, burned out and unsafe. My children really missed me, and always wanted to live with me for many years after it happened. Slowly over time they got alienated from me and now it has been 22 years, and I never reached out for help. All my Caucasian neighbors loved my suffering and everybody I knew 100% supported these people who took my children, even many of my friends, I lost all social connection and intimacy, ended up completely isolated. Both my parents had died already and I have no family (or friends) at all, been isolated since. It's a serious crime abduction and alienation on top. My children now grown, are very confused about what happened, they are told bad stories about me all those years, and told I gave them away they were never abducted, I was a bad mom. The abusers have many friends and a big family, they all surround my children, acting that it's quite normal the whole situation. So they grew up seeing all these people agreeing and being with the abusers and their family and friends with who they formed a tight-knit family. I am completely alone, and lost everyone since, not able to form healthy fun new relationships because I am in constant pain and grief. Also, I have no family, brother, sister, or relatives, so completely isolated and therefore my children totally believe in the 'stronger' parents. I am carrying this for 22 years never had help or a listening ear. I am on the brink of suicide. My whole life is taken away from me. But still, I can't leave my children behind....please can you point me to some serious help I don't know what to do, where to go....thank you.
Please contact me I may be able to help......sometimes understanding why the wrong-doers look so squeaky clean and get away with so much, can help to start to heal.
@@femininejewel Again, I am so sorry for your pain and all the injustice you have suffered. I hope that is alright to ask you a few question, for the purpose of understanding a little about you . I don’t recall if I read or not where you are from, I live in NC, also do you pray, have you ever read the Bible, even a little? I Please write to me and tell me a little about you, how old are you, where do you live etc. I understand that the experiences you have had have brought you to a low place, as they would most of us, pain of the heart is so difficult to even know where to begin to heal, and especially as this involves the children you brought into this world. There is no quick fix, I am sure you have found that out already, however there is hope, Hope is an anchor to hold on to , if it is solidly based on Truth, without hope of a better tomorrow it feels pointless and causes us to question the very purpose of life. If you contact me at my email address, we can chat further and I will show you the only hope for the future that will bring an end to all the pain and suffering earth-wide. There are no costs involved. The following link is a brochure, it will show you The hope we can have for the near future.... www.jw.org/finder?wtlocale=ELI&pub=lff&srcid=share. Also please visit JW.ORG. You may have given up hoping in God, possibly thinking that he hasn’t helped you through all these years, I understand if that is where you are just now, But he may have got you this far without you even realizing it. But I can assure you, with just a little effort and even a tiny bit of trust, you will see a far brighter future and you will understand why such terrible things happen to good people. I look forward to hearing from you soon.. servingjehovahnow@gmail.com Sincerely, Sandra Maher Jeremiah. 29:11-14 For I well know the thoughts that I am thinking toward you,’ declares Jehovah, ‘thoughts of peace, and not of calamity, to give you a future and a hope. 12 And you will call me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you.’ 13 “‘You will seek me and find me, for you will search for me with all your heart. 14 And I will let you find me,’ declares Jehovah
@@sandramaher4243 Hi Sandra, thanks again for reaching out to me. yes, I am a Christian, and 10 years ago I was called to the Lord especially because of this. God already gave me an excellent plan even longer ago, but I of course, needed to come to Jesus in order for the plan to be launched from the right Power source. I am 49 years and second of June I will be 50 years. I am a biculturul woman from the Netherlands, with a Dutch father. But I was born in Nigera, from an African Nigerian mom. Grew up between only Dutch people in the Dutch system from 4 years old. Now I am in one of the beautiful 7000 islands of the Philippines, where I stay for a longer vacation for now 2 years will go for 2 more. Time to grief and become stronger for my Kingdom mission in One of the Greatest set-up Healing Ministry for the Kingdom on earth, where God promised my 4 children will be also a part of that. Sometimes though its so difficult to believe what the Lord promised me, and preparing me for, for over 22 years. It was quite a journey though to be prepared in many ways in order to execute this Vison. I had to travel to many places, learn many different healing skills and learn to create a biblical money-making machine internally and I did. But if I look at the current situation its so far from what God has preparing me for. I go here to a lot of grief, near the ocean where I live, and am completely isolated still....its so hard. Specially when a lot of negativity comes to me, (now from my own children) it keeps hurting so much, its like my abuse will never stops, it just goes on ....Because of this I was driven in time in the arms of Jesus, otherwise I would NEVEr had become a Christian with this Kingdom mission. My children are thereby not yet saves, but god promised salvation for my children and healing! But now my Heart must be turned upside down and purged almost beyond my capability to hold this ground. I am all isolated on a small island in the South of Asia. Although I have helped a few churches here and people and animals, having a missionary-Visa, I am still isloted with bitter grief, as always. i hope you have received some more information about me. You are always free to ask . I don't know why God have sent you to me, anyways Thanks a lot for reaching out to me sister. God bless you!
Again thank you for reaching out to me, I am sorry I did not reply earlier but was very busy fasting and praying. Sorry for all the spelling mistakes also. I was in a hurry. I hope you will write back. Fasting gives more clarity and hope and I can hear the Lord much better in His Guidance and plan for me. Just before coming to the Philippines, I myself travelled to New York and California. Been in the States quite a bit, and planning to live there in the future. I saw you were from NYC. God Bless you that you reach out to people like me.
Can someone please help me. My ex accused me of abuse and my daughter has said such horrible things that aren’t true I have been able to see her or talk for months.
@@kristiekogutrodriguez496 it is!!!! I made it thru. She is back. There is damage but things are better. What he did is just pure Illness and evil. I had to cha ge my anger around it though
@@catherinesinclair7727 what do you mean healing? I found it , when you get with your kids that's when the hell starts. There're used to hurt you every opportunity. I think you didn't listen carefully to the video.
After staying with a Machiavellian psychopath for an extra 10 years to give my kids time to grow up. I divorced their dad, and they divorced me. Just as the psycho told me would happen did, and not seeing the grandkids is the cherry on his cake.
The 'lead therapist' at his clinic, Karen Woodall, was sanctioned for 'professional malpractice on the grounds of recklessness and the provision of inadequate professional services' by the BACP in 2015. You can read the full details here: thecustodyminefield.com/parental-alienation-counsellor-sanctioned-for-malpractice/
My friends, nobody in the world can help you except for yourself. This is your own work, and it's a very, tremendously hard work. It's exhausting. But it's worth it, it's it not? But what these specialists can help you with is to gain understanding of what's going on in your son's mind, what type of work you can do in order to change yourself, and much more. Karen Woodall has an amazing blog, read it often. Do research. Read, learn and apply. That's the only way. I am on that way as well, it's been almost 2.5 years now. But never give up. This is the most important thing your child will appreciate mm you'll finally reunite, the fact that you've never given up. So, all the best to you!
@@vadimlevashov3812 great piece of advice. these informations is for understanding the hell of a situation and adjust your mindset to things you dealing with. The worst part , it's hell of a ride and it's almost infinite as you never know what you come up from it.
I think we’re in a very scary place when parents blame the other parent for their own terrible behavior and refuse to accept responsibility for what they’ve done in the relationship with their child to make them not want to be around them or trust them. And this twisted psycho babble of saying the child “splits” and then grows up not to be ABLE to make judgments-- well because you “professionals” keep telling them their thoughts, feelings, and experiences aren’t real. Like telling someone they are really asleep it only seems like they are awake. PA has taken vocabulary from law and psychology and blurred and blended it to fit any narrative where parents don’t have to take responsibility for being awful to their children. If you do something to hurt them, apologize. They don’t have to love you just because you want them to- you have to earn their trust and blaming the other parent for your behavior probably adds to why the child avoids you. You can’t terrorize your kids and think they’ll keep wanting to be around you. It gets too much for them. And instead of honoring them as individuals with their own sense of comfort, clarity, right v wrong, you literally campaign against them- you say it’s the other parent, but what are you doing to the child. Even if someone were telling them you are awful, it’s up to you to be a decent human being and then they will probably not want to be around that person. When you insult the other parent, you are insulting their dna like it or not. But that works both ways, and falsely accusing a parent of ruining your relationship with your own child, may backfire on you. Reality therapy is a great start to move away from all this blame and made up theories.
My EX is the covert narcissist father, my daughter is trauma bonded & needs his narcissist supply. He could burn down a house full of children & she would have a excuse for it... she would say, well they were bad children. My EX did a smear campaign on my chronically ill son her brother & she would not stand up for her brother. It's very disturbing the whole family is a huge narcissist family cult, they all turned their backs on my son who stood up for truth. I'm the parent who always advocated for everyone to get along, my EX wants to hurt me so bad he has hurt our children, divide & conquer. Now my daughter is brainwashed and I'm the alienated parent. What do you do if your child is now an adult? Can child services still get involved?
Be strong…. I’m dealing w something similar… we need to be there for our children…. Always. Even if it’s when they’re older sadly…. It’s the worst thing ever to go through
Interesting that in this video there is no mention about child not wanting to see a parent when the child is scared of the parent because that parent is abusive. Why have you not talked about a parent being abusive to the child and therefore child either “rejecting” that abusive parent or mother protecting a child from abuse? And btw I’m a targeted parent and alienated by abusive ex husband. And can you please clarify statistically and with supported evidence how many mothers are falsely protecting a child from sexual abuse. Or do you just not want to or not capable of acknowledging that there are children who are sexually abused by fathers. Does this not happen at all in your view?
Please see Amy Baker’s video on the difference between an abused child and alienated child behaviors are different kids are being abused of almost always align themselves with the abuser it’s a little like the Stockholm syndrome alienated kids are one parents great the other parents the devil- 🤗
So what about adult children who are alienated from the parent but in constant contact with their manipulative dysfunctional parent who has persauded adult child to keep away from and not listen to alienated parent. My grandchildren don't see their other grandparents often as they are Chinese and China has closed borders for covid reasons. I can't speak Mandarine to explain the situation.. They can't see the damage negative talk from my (sadly) sick son is causing the childfen. My abusive ex used fear to control. I think he has passed this trick on. I also think his father is abusing me by proxy through our only child my adult son. I see my grandchildren twice a year for three or four days at a time. I would be barred from seeing them if I push. I have cancer which can be used against me when and if wanted..
Amen! Have not seen my 4 oldest children in over 5 yrs now. It is so sad. Have decades of cards, movies, etc of them loving me deeply. My ex turned them against me. I cry often about this as I love them so much.
I do t know what this guy's on about making out like someone will interfer like the social services, they will do nothing and tell you to go for mediation
I disagree that splitting is a heathy thing for anyone to do no matter how young they are at the time hopefully only at first. Why that sort of thing right now is the norm could become a question to study in ethical based social sciences research. Which of course would be so hard to accomplish in a clinical setting so that is never going to happen. What about the inherent ability almost all human beings have to learn self-determination while growing up? Enough to for example understand paradigms whenever one is presented to them by someone who is younger than they are and/or from a gender different from their own or with less credentials in school or whatever than they have. Instead of automatic only assuming that the presenter only because they are different than they are just cannot hold 2 concepts in their minds. When without realizing it instead they are missing the gist of the presentation. Unless of course that inherent ability has been lost while aging so much that for example they start to just under the surface hate themselves and anyone who is the same gender as they are while at the same time believing the lie that only because of the career they cannot retire from which they have achieved recognition in according to them that proves they are so superior to the average same sex person and so that hatred towards themselves too can stay just under the surface. Unless of course when taking it out on a child of the same sex as a mother superior teacher there or whatever. That same mother superior type no longer has the courage to challenge their superiors about their working conditions nor how children could be better nurtured there instead of only being disciplined in the manner which they have been ordered to do - Which according to all of the local ordained priest heads of the family there too - Is to use an object like a ruler with a steel edge as weapon to administer that so called only discipline. She has lost the ability to challenge any of her superiors on that one too.
Please stop with the needless and gimmicky transitions. It is distracting. This is a very important subject and these interviews should be artifice-free. Thank-you.
That guy is doing a good job. Parental alienation is a serious and difficult problem.
My mom programmed me to be fearful/untrusting of my dad at a very young age (well before the divorce). Now that I look back, I realize that she did it to hide her own abuse, which was insanely damaging to me emotionally. I attached to a mother who really never loved me, and distanced myself from a dad who always loved me.
Did you reconnect with your Dad? What made you realise this?
I have been an alienated parent for over 20 years. Nobody I know understands what happened. So I just have to live with the pain and get on with my life. It truly is a terrible thing.
Got you beat by 5 years. Now, I have to face facts I will never connect with my children again. I'm 67 and with all my friends dying here lately I don't feel theres enough time left to reconnect.
So I say and i do, Live your life to its fullest make yourself happy. I sure understand. Its been a damn nightmare for me.
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Meg I hear ya Ive been dealing with it for about 13 years hopefully youre doing better but dont ever quit & God bless you!!!
@@stemtostern7611 I get it now I've given my entire life to narcissistic abuse. My innocence and having no one to talk too kept me trapped.. I continue to try to help as I see my grandkids now suffer. My mother in law passed abuse to her son, who passed it on to our son, who is passing it on to our grandkids. Will it stop at 4 generations or forever continue
I needed this 40 years ago. May God bless your work and may many children and parents be reconciled.
Awesome presentation. I’m living this and tried therapy, texts and letters. Very hard to take the verbal abuse, feels like I’m back in the house taking abuse all over again. Waiting and rebuilding my life. Building a nice home, solid physical and mental and meaningful spiritual to have something to offer one day. Thank you.
Wow finally someone who gets what is happening to children who are alienated from the other parent. So why don't the courts get it and do something about this abuse
Thank you. Maybe if we stop hurting children the world can be a more loving place.🌿🌸🙏
So hard to get the courts to even recognize parental alienation. I haven’t seen my daughter in months. It is ordered through the court, but she is 15 and refuses to see me. It’s like watching your child die right in front of you.
I just want to hug you
God bless you
May your daughter come back to you
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My Love Thank you so much for your kindness.
Know that u are not alone...I lost my 3 kids 12 years ago...they are now grown...gone...u have time still.
Mine is also 15 and doing the same. Its like a death with endless grieving
@Gemma Dann teenagers are not typically allowed to walk away from their parents. Kids in this situation are in a way different position than normal teenagers. Mine has been gaslighted her entire life. Its now been 4 months that I haven't seen or talked to my daughter. Unless I come up with $150,000 and go to court to force her to come back, I won't see her again. She's been head jacked.
I’m 58 yrs old. Parents divorced when I was around 10. I WATCHED my mother, try to reason with my father, and he only became more angry & more angry. As an 8 year old, I had no power but to scream& break up the fight. My mother would never say bad things about him. He was our father. Yet she didn’t have to say a word. I watched it all like a movie. For all the people who blame the Ex-spouse, most of you need to grow up. The kids get a front row seat. They will choose sides. After my father left, PEACE came over the household. From that day forward, my life was magical. He would visit, but I sure was glad he was gone. They never criticized one another. And she tried to include him at holidays. Looking back, I now understand they were both immature. Very immature. My fathers “temper” was truthfully, a high functioning autistic man with no control of his emotions.
He was a good father to us as an adults. I would have wonderful conversations & I share many many of his personality traits.
My advice to parents that are alienated is to not blame their ex. Keep communication lines open. Send that birthday card. Send the Christmas card or text. As mine aged, their closest friends in BOTH cases were their grown adult children. The girls more so than boys. We are just more understanding & understand loneliness when we see it. But his care in sending a card & writing about his daily life in those cards are what kept the door open.
Hopefully people can heal. I doubt it though. Still have issues from watching those fights🙏
God with us all still suffering from “Parental Alienation”, (been two years now since I have seen my two teens, still fighting!) ❤️🤘✝️
Oh my god I am going through this at the moment. Great video thanks I thought I was a bad dad 👍👍
I pulled myself away from the anger and fighting. It was not helping and making everything worse. I began healing 4 yrs of social isolation. Self blame took me to a dark place. Not having answers but after 4 yrs of isolating i came back into the light. I have three sons. 3 individual and personalities with seperate thoughts and feelings. I cannot change or make them feel better. I can listen with empathy and understand they have 2 parents. I cannot say anything bad about their father. Not even the truth unless they ask. I want to but know that is my ego. I have to rise against, accept and let go.
Stay strong…..🌟🙏🏻♥️
Do not give up on your sons. Keep reaching out to them.
HUGS!!! You're doing the only things you can. Sad, but ... hugs!!
Same !! Boundaries and more boundaries
I have a teenage patient like that. This was very helpful.
I’m everything that is bad to my 3 alienated children. They reject me terribly. I need to learn more about the splitting mechanism. It’s so sad. Nothing I do can help them feel attached to me. Their family (which is not me) makes sure the children are loyal to them, and hate me.
An up to date research, with Quantitative positive results, 2017.
Free access from Academia.
www.academia.edu/34361522/An_Objective_Measure_of_Splitting_in_Parental_Alienation_The_Parental_Acceptance_Rejection_Questionnaire
Jennifer A I'm going through this too hang in there dont quit & God bless you!!!
Your not alone I feel what you said, it's so painful. I too have lost a boy and girl to this poison. It's been 17 years... I pray you can reconnect.
When I moved to become the ex-husband, I became the ex-father. Most of us are unable to afford the kind of expertise required to navigate these sort of disputes. I was left with a dreadful decision……continue to fight and watch my children get twisted more or let them go. It feels like my children are dead……a part of me has certainly died. Parental alienation should be called what it is…..abuse. It is a form of coercive control designed to punish the other parent. It’s tragic.
My poor children were fractured 😥
Quién diría que escuchar una ponencia en CZcams, cambiaría mi vida.
Éste ha sido un punto CIEGO por años, con consecuencias muy dolorosas para toda la familia.
¿Cómo agradecer su generoso compartir de conocimiento invaluable?
Thank you for speaking about the children in these cases. Most people focus on the rights of the maligned parent. That’s obviously important, but the children surely are the most vulnerable victim.
...absolutely spot on. Superb insight into this devastating pathology. Addressing it calm yet passionate.
Many many thanks!
The problem is that the abuser uses the courts to block the target. My kids are adults and this is my curse I live with.
so true and that''s what none of these experts get...children are AFRAID of abusive dad's but moms get accused of alienating them b/c they don't want to go where they feel and are unsafe, then he gets custody to truly alienate them
My granddaughter was showing signs of splitting when she was less than two years old. When we did the exchanges leading up to the drop off and at the pickups hours of her pouring out garbage like a bad report. This made me aware of how this child was being interrogated. Well she is 14 now and her dad and paternal family now have not seen her in four years nor has little brother. Completely the intended work of her mother who had this same childhood.
The saddest thing I have ever seen or experienced is my son and my granddaughter.
Unfortunately it is mental illness, and if a person doesn't look in the mirror and realize what they are doing there is no hope
This is spot on in my experience. Why are authorities so blind to this?
It’s all about the Benjamins!!
and control over weak mind population
while years ago you could lock them in the hospital, now they let them run free and do all sort of things.
it started from life stability , moved to family stability , now it's the next stage.
Personal and emotional stability.
This was very eye opening. Thank you!
I would like to reiterate its not just the mother anymore, I am a mother going through this. My ex husband lied through his teeth and caused false accusations, meanwhile prior he moved to a different state for two years then married someone with money and everything he accused me of he is literally doing now. So please stop using the mother as the only one who does this.
it's not the only mothers but in court the mostly mothers get the sole custody upon words " I'm scared" and you never see your kid again.
Then you learn about the PA and the game is typically over for you as the courts never acknowledge the father as righteous parent.
So it isn't as simple.
Where in majority of dv cases women suffers , in PA cases the majority who suffers is men.
Sorry for you experience, I'm not trying to take anything away from your pain but the weights are bit different but all cause from the same source.
Wow.... I'm seeing that exact same thing as a very common dynamic in many comments. Icu and don't give up hope.
I agree. I've been looking into this more, because as a mother I was the alienated parent, but also a victim of domestic violence. My ex-husband enlisted my kids, but mostly my daughter, who was much younger than my son to play a role in domestic violence. My son kept to himself mostly, locked in his room playing computer games. My daughter and her friends were used to target me repeatedly with sexual harassment and gas lighting. It was insane. It was all done with innuendos so I would often doubt whether it was or wasn't. I did feel like I was losing my mind at times. It was so cruel and calling it out was impossible, because they would just deny it. In fact, I just had to endure it, because my ex-husband threatened me not to question the kids on their comments. Going through something like that, with sexual harassment and gaslighting, and enduring some of the most humiliating and disrespectful comments by my own kids, it was so hard not to get upset or angry and even that worked against me, because the moment I did, Mike would act like the hero stepping in, insisting I was delusional and making crazy accusations against them. I felt like an open target and the only thing I could do was tune it out and ignore it. But how do you ignore harassment and disrespect? He was granted sole custody and my daughter vehemently hated me by the end of our divorce. I felt I couldn't do anything right, despite I was the nice parent and the good parent. There was a lot of hostility, and screaming texts from my daughter and you have to make yourself immune to it, even though I didn't understand parental alienation syndrome at the time. I couldn't understand the hate and for what? It's almost like you have to ignore it. As soon as I would get drawn into even suggesting their comments were sexual harassment, or they were lying to me, I'd get attacked for suggesting it. Maybe that was all a part of the game to them, which to Mike (my ex-husband), thought was so funny. It's about asserting power, but how does one even fight back or set boundaries with gaslighting? It's one thing if your child says something disrespectful and you can address it, but in this case I couldn't because it was denied over and over again. I have chosen to continue loving my daughter and son, despite they don't speak to me. They were used as pawns, and they might not see it for a long time. I reasoned if I had one day left to live, what impression would I have left my kids with? Maybe that's the only way you can fight back, is being ten times as good, and adopting nerves of steel, but I don't know that anyone can do that. We are human beings too.
@@y.a.p8951 well said and you were very caring and gracious in your comments.
You represent yourself in a Classy manner.
Best Wishes! M.H
My ex-husband did the same thing to me - convinced my children that I am the abusive one when it's really him. I love my children more than I love anyone and this is by far the biggest pain of my life - impossible to understand - because none of it makes any sense - it was all made up out of thin air.
he nailed it ! i experienced that haven't seen daughter in over 4 years the courts failed daighter mother was abused i think my daughter is fragmented and broken and there is nothing i can do my attachment has dropped i went through the pain it 's like a death so sad either the courts don't care or don't know i just live my life and hope one day i will see her
its on purpose and diabolical
Thank you…..very helpful.
This was so helpful to hear. Thank you for sharing.
Incredibly profound. Thank you.
Excellent assessment.
I have watched so many videos... Dr. Childress prior to this video, made the most sense, but this video explained exactly to a T as to what I am currently dealing with... to a T. Childress is so very technical and is rightfully on a campaign, but in laymen terms this has been the best video explanation as to what has happened to my family. Thank you.
But at least Dr. Childress puts a diagnosis on the issue. It’s not like…“oh in my view it’s child abuse“. No, induced psychopathology by another person is abuse and if you do this to your child it’s child abuse. Attachment system suppression, induced phobia, induced delusional belief. Child abuse. No discussion. A psychologist who denies this should have taken away his license
@@hiaslayer My intention wasn't meant as a slight to Dr, Childress, I believe he truly is bring to correct approach all aspects of diagnosing treating as well as legally helping familes who are going through these issues. I also believe his approach is the best and foremost approach. With all this being said... This particular video calls out to a tee what is and has transpired in my personal life well over the past two and a half years.I used the term Laymen as it speaks in a common tongue, easily digestible and understood.
@@brianmaypole84 I understand and all the videos on CZcams reflect what I’ve been through too. But no one cares as it is so easily to rebut what gardener is saying. Dr. Childress made a great video about the 8 symptoms and shows that they are not helpful at all in proofing „Pa“. It’s a back and forth…you are alienating, no I’m not, yes you are etc. if the three diagnostic indicators are met then there is no wiggle room anymore. It’s child abuse with the 5 factor model or gardeners model you will always have that debate
Agree….not as many psychological terms…..going to forward this to my mother, who is not a psychologist 😂
Nick Woodall great clip !
49 years ago this happened to me. No one spoke up and stoppped my mother and fathers didn't have a leg to stand on back then.
Father's still don't have a leg to stand in, why do you think women are so entitled and out of control?
Thank you , that was very helpful
Thank you
Thank you ❤️
Hun... I feel you. It's terrible! A living NIGHTMARE
My ex would have our 6,7,8 year old child in tears every time she came home. She would often talk about feeling so badly for dad cuz he’s crying without me…. And lonely without me….. and he could die at anytime….. like omg hes 61! I’d be like “wow” how do you guilt a child like that..? I never made her feel bad for going to dads…. I’d say yeah I’m sad and I’ll miss you but you will be fine and have fun w dad and mom is going to start a new project at work… and we would talk about plans whe she got back…. He’d also buy over the top gifts so she would tell him something about me…. Biggest question? Did I have a bf. I didn’t for 7 years… she would often break down w guilt over that- I told her you have nothing to hide…. It’s ok..! I was always picking up the pieces…. But also dealing w the negative behaviors… he would encourage them.. just a nightmare
Typical manipulation -- guilting a child, and using her as a pawn against you, etc. HUGS!!
wicked has no rest
My husband was abusive and left me suddenly with 4 small children behind for 3 years with no contact. Suddenly he came back with a new woman. She saw my cute bi-racial kids and wanted my children immediately. Together with my own Caucasian father, they planned to take my children away to punish me. One moment my mom was babysitting and they came with a car and took all 4 boys away at once. Its abduction. I was helpless, living in a country that looks down on minority women, I had no chance. They were stronger and more believable and lying. EVerybody supported them. They made every rule from that moment on. Only my father got dispatched a few years later, they wanted to eliminate that side of the children's family completely (my side)-no contact anymore. I then had to take care of my severely grieving Caucasian father who was also on of the perpetrators. I could never go to court with it so I still have legal custody until now (22 years later). Because I am a minority mixed bi racial woman I knew I could never stand up against both well-educated Caucasian abusers legally. also after so many years of abuse and neglect and then the sudden abduction of my children I was broken, burned out and unsafe. My children really missed me, and always wanted to live with me for many years after it happened. Slowly over time they got alienated from me and now it has been 22 years, and I never reached out for help. All my Caucasian neighbors loved my suffering and everybody I knew 100% supported these people who took my children, even many of my friends, I lost all social connection and intimacy, ended up completely isolated. Both my parents had died already and I have no family (or friends) at all, been isolated since. It's a serious crime abduction and alienation on top. My children now grown, are very confused about what happened, they are told bad stories about me all those years, and told I gave them away they were never abducted, I was a bad mom. The abusers have many friends and a big family, they all surround my children, acting that it's quite normal the whole situation. So they grew up seeing all these people agreeing and being with the abusers and their family and friends with who they formed a tight-knit family. I am completely alone, and lost everyone since, not able to form healthy fun new relationships because I am in constant pain and grief. Also, I have no family, brother, sister, or relatives, so completely isolated and therefore my children totally believe in the 'stronger' parents. I am carrying this for 22 years never had help or a listening ear. I am on the brink of suicide. My whole life is taken away from me. But still, I can't leave my children behind....please can you point me to some serious help I don't know what to do, where to go....thank you.
Please contact me I may be able to help......sometimes understanding why the wrong-doers look so squeaky clean and get away with so much, can help to start to heal.
@@sandramaher4243 Hi Sandra Maher. Thanks so much for responding and offering your help. How do I get in contact with you?
@@femininejewel Again, I am so sorry for your pain and all the injustice you have suffered. I hope that is alright to ask you a few question, for the purpose of understanding a little about you . I don’t recall if I read or not where you are from, I live in NC, also do you pray, have you ever read the Bible, even a little? I
Please write to me and tell me a little about you, how old are you, where do you live etc.
I understand that the experiences you have had have brought you to a low place, as they would most of us, pain of the heart is so difficult to even know where to begin to heal, and especially as this involves the children you brought into this world. There is no quick fix, I am sure you have found that out already, however there is hope, Hope is an anchor to hold on to , if it is solidly based on Truth, without hope of a better tomorrow it feels pointless and causes us to question the very purpose of life.
If you contact me at my email address, we can chat further and I will show you the only hope for the future that will bring an end to all the pain and suffering earth-wide.
There are no costs involved. The following link is a brochure, it will show you The hope we can have for the near future....
www.jw.org/finder?wtlocale=ELI&pub=lff&srcid=share. Also please visit JW.ORG.
You may have given up hoping in God, possibly thinking that he hasn’t helped you through all these years, I understand if that is where you are just now,
But he may have got you this far without you even realizing it. But I can assure you, with just a little effort and even a tiny bit of trust, you will see a far brighter future and you will understand why such terrible things happen to good people.
I look forward to hearing from you soon.. servingjehovahnow@gmail.com
Sincerely,
Sandra Maher
Jeremiah. 29:11-14
For I well know the thoughts that I am thinking toward you,’ declares Jehovah, ‘thoughts of peace, and not of calamity, to give you a future and a hope. 12 And you will call me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you.’ 13 “‘You will seek me and find me, for you will search for me with all your heart. 14 And I will let you find me,’ declares Jehovah
@@sandramaher4243 Hi Sandra, thanks again for reaching out to me. yes, I am a Christian, and 10 years ago I was called to the Lord especially because of this. God already gave me an excellent plan even longer ago, but I of course, needed to come to Jesus in order for the plan to be launched from the right Power source. I am 49 years and second of June I will be 50 years. I am a biculturul woman from the Netherlands, with a Dutch father. But I was born in Nigera, from an African Nigerian mom. Grew up between only Dutch people in the Dutch system from 4 years old. Now I am in one of the beautiful 7000 islands of the Philippines, where I stay for a longer vacation for now 2 years will go for 2 more. Time to grief and become stronger for my Kingdom mission in One of the Greatest set-up Healing Ministry for the Kingdom on earth, where God promised my 4 children will be also a part of that. Sometimes though its so difficult to believe what the Lord promised me, and preparing me for, for over 22 years. It was quite a journey though to be prepared in many ways in order to execute this Vison. I had to travel to many places, learn many different healing skills and learn to create a biblical money-making machine internally and I did. But if I look at the current situation its so far from what God has preparing me for. I go here to a lot of grief, near the ocean where I live, and am completely isolated still....its so hard. Specially when a lot of negativity comes to me, (now from my own children) it keeps hurting so much, its like my abuse will never stops, it just goes on ....Because of this I was driven in time in the arms of Jesus, otherwise I would NEVEr had become a Christian with this Kingdom mission. My children are thereby not yet saves, but god promised salvation for my children and healing! But now my Heart must be turned upside down and purged almost beyond my capability to hold this ground. I am all isolated on a small island in the South of Asia. Although I have helped a few churches here and people and animals, having a missionary-Visa, I am still isloted with bitter grief, as always. i hope you have received some more information about me. You are always free to ask . I don't know why God have sent you to me, anyways Thanks a lot for reaching out to me sister. God bless you!
Again thank you for reaching out to me, I am sorry I did not reply earlier but was very busy fasting and praying. Sorry for all the spelling mistakes also. I was in a hurry. I hope you will write back. Fasting gives more clarity and hope and I can hear the Lord much better in His Guidance and plan for me. Just before coming to the Philippines, I myself travelled to New York and California. Been in the States quite a bit, and planning to live there in the future. I saw you were from NYC. God Bless you that you reach out to people like me.
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Can someone please help me. My ex accused me of abuse and my daughter has said such horrible things that aren’t true I have been able to see her or talk for months.
I’m so sorry I hope your situation is better now, but I understand
@@kristiekogutrodriguez496 it is!!!! I made it thru. She is back. There is damage but things are better. What he did is just pure Illness and evil. I had to cha ge my anger around it though
@@ursulaward6023 wow, that's so great..time for healing now
@@catherinesinclair7727 what do you mean healing?
I found it , when you get with your kids that's when the hell starts.
There're used to hurt you every opportunity.
I think you didn't listen carefully to the video.
My recovery from PA and Brutal Betrayal
Can you help me regain my relationship with my son?
After staying with a Machiavellian psychopath for an extra 10 years to give my kids time to grow up. I divorced their dad, and they divorced me. Just as the psycho told me would happen did, and not seeing the grandkids is the cherry on his cake.
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How do I locate a professional competent in these dynamics in WA state?
The 'lead therapist' at his clinic, Karen Woodall, was sanctioned for 'professional malpractice on the grounds of recklessness and the provision of inadequate professional services' by the BACP in 2015. You can read the full details here: thecustodyminefield.com/parental-alienation-counsellor-sanctioned-for-malpractice/
How can you help me to re gain my relationship with my son?
My friends, nobody in the world can help you except for yourself. This is your own work, and it's a very, tremendously hard work. It's exhausting. But it's worth it, it's it not? But what these specialists can help you with is to gain understanding of what's going on in your son's mind, what type of work you can do in order to change yourself, and much more. Karen Woodall has an amazing blog, read it often. Do research. Read, learn and apply. That's the only way. I am on that way as well, it's been almost 2.5 years now. But never give up. This is the most important thing your child will appreciate mm you'll finally reunite, the fact that you've never given up. So, all the best to you!
Vadim Levashov
You don’t understand parental alienation
Vadim Levashov
You don’t understand parental alienation
@@vadimlevashov3812 great piece of advice.
these informations is for understanding the hell of a situation and adjust your mindset to things you dealing with.
The worst part , it's hell of a ride and it's almost infinite as you never know what you come up from it.
I think we’re in a very scary place when parents blame the other parent for their own terrible behavior and refuse to accept responsibility for what they’ve done in the relationship with their child to make them not want to be around them or trust them. And this twisted psycho babble of saying the child “splits” and then grows up not to be ABLE to make judgments-- well because you “professionals” keep telling them their thoughts, feelings, and experiences aren’t real. Like telling someone they are really asleep it only seems like they are awake. PA has taken vocabulary from law and psychology and blurred and blended it to fit any narrative where parents don’t have to take responsibility for being awful to their children. If you do something to hurt them, apologize. They don’t have to love you just because you want them to- you have to earn their trust and blaming the other parent for your behavior probably adds to why the child avoids you. You can’t terrorize your kids and think they’ll keep wanting to be around you. It gets too much for them. And instead of honoring them as individuals with their own sense of comfort, clarity, right v wrong, you literally campaign against them- you say it’s the other parent, but what are you doing to the child. Even if someone were telling them you are awful, it’s up to you to be a decent human being and then they will probably not want to be around that person. When you insult the other parent, you are insulting their dna like it or not. But that works both ways, and falsely accusing a parent of ruining your relationship with your own child, may backfire on you.
Reality therapy is a great start to move away from all this blame and made up theories.
If anyone has been abused by the British social services and needs help, please contact me.
I do not get involved in disputes with parents.
#AvaBenincasa
My EX is the covert narcissist father, my daughter is trauma bonded & needs his narcissist supply. He could burn down a house full of children & she would have a excuse for it... she would say, well they were bad children. My EX did a smear campaign on my chronically ill son her brother & she would not stand up for her brother. It's very disturbing the whole family is a huge narcissist family cult, they all turned their backs on my son who stood up for truth. I'm the parent who always advocated for everyone to get along, my EX wants to hurt me so bad he has hurt our children, divide & conquer. Now my daughter is brainwashed and I'm the alienated parent. What do you do if your child is now an adult? Can child services still get involved?
Be strong…. I’m dealing w something similar… we need to be there for our children…. Always. Even if it’s when they’re older sadly…. It’s the worst thing ever to go through
Why I don't blame my children as sure were manipulated and are just young. The older people should have known better
Interesting that in this video there is no mention about child not wanting to see a parent when the child is scared of the parent because that parent is abusive. Why have you not talked about a parent being abusive to the child and therefore child either “rejecting” that abusive parent or mother protecting a child from abuse? And btw I’m a targeted parent and alienated by abusive ex husband. And can you please clarify statistically and with supported evidence how many mothers are falsely protecting a child from sexual abuse. Or do you just not want to or not capable of acknowledging that there are children who are sexually abused by fathers. Does this not happen at all in your view?
Please see Amy Baker’s video on the difference between an abused child and alienated child behaviors are different kids are being abused of almost always align themselves with the abuser it’s a little like the Stockholm syndrome alienated kids are one parents great the other parents the devil- 🤗
That’s a completely different issue.
So what about adult children who are alienated from the parent but in constant contact with their manipulative dysfunctional parent who has persauded adult child to keep away from and not listen to alienated parent.
My grandchildren don't see their other grandparents often as they are Chinese and China has closed borders for covid reasons. I can't speak Mandarine to explain the situation.. They can't see the damage negative talk from my (sadly) sick son is causing the childfen. My abusive ex used fear to control. I think he has passed this trick on. I also think his father is abusing me by proxy through our only child my adult son.
I see my grandchildren twice a year for three or four days at a time. I would be barred from seeing them if I push. I have cancer which can be used against me when and if wanted..
I pray every alienated parent is reunited in Jesus name. Christ is my strength and forgiveness, I am unbreakable.
Amen! Have not seen my 4 oldest children in over 5 yrs now. It is so sad. Have decades of cards, movies, etc of them loving me deeply. My ex turned them against me. I cry often about this as I love them so much.
I do t know what this guy's on about making out like someone will interfer like the social services, they will do nothing and tell you to go for mediation
I disagree that splitting is a heathy thing for anyone to do no matter how young they are at the time hopefully only at first. Why that sort of thing right now is the norm could become a question to study in ethical based social sciences research. Which of course would be so hard to accomplish in a clinical setting so that is never going to happen. What about the inherent ability almost all human beings have to learn self-determination while growing up? Enough to for example understand paradigms whenever one is presented to them by someone who is younger than they are and/or from a gender different from their own or with less credentials in school or whatever than they have. Instead of automatic only assuming that the presenter only because they are different than they are just cannot hold 2 concepts in their minds. When without realizing it instead they are missing the gist of the presentation. Unless of course that inherent ability has been lost while aging so much that for example they start to just under the surface hate themselves and anyone who is the same gender as they are while at the same time believing the lie that only because of the career they cannot retire from which they have achieved recognition in according to them that proves they are so superior to the average same sex person and so that hatred towards themselves too can stay just under the surface. Unless of course when taking it out on a child of the same sex as a mother superior teacher there or whatever. That same mother superior type no longer has the courage to challenge their superiors about their working conditions nor how children could be better nurtured there instead of only being disciplined in the manner which they have been ordered to do - Which according to all of the local ordained priest heads of the family there too - Is to use an object like a ruler with a steel edge as weapon to administer that so called only discipline. She has lost the ability to challenge any of her superiors on that one too.
Please stop with the needless and gimmicky transitions. It is distracting. This is a very important subject and these interviews should be artifice-free. Thank-you.
The Catholic Current: Keeping Family Courts Accountable (Megan Fox) (libsyn.com)