The tissues made me really sad. I saw your other video about the letter you found that she wrote. I can only imagine how many tears she shed and I feel the tissues represent that. You’re an angel and you give people hope. I just know the Lord smiles down on you. ❤
1. You’re young, so please protect your back. The bending, lifting, and twisting is what destroyed by back. 2. You’re an angel. The woman probably feels like a very heavy weight has been lifted.
Ya i used to have a cleaning business and kept my home immaculate but over time it tore my body up so bad I'm physically disabled from that and 2 car wrecks. Now i don't have anyone or any help n don't know where to turn. These awesome people seem to only do super bad hoarding homes not really dirty cluttered homes. So after searching hard to find help I'm hopeless.
@@RedRose4141you could see if you qualify for a home health aid, contact the department of human services in your area and see how they can help ❤ prayers
As a 70+ single woman who has lived with depression for close to sixty years, I can only say that you are an angel. For some people this is a new beginning. For others it is a temporary respit. Weather either or in between, it is such a relief. Not just for the individual, but for everyone who cares for them. Bless you. 🦋
I hope she gets therapy to help her in being able to throw out food garbage like that so she doesn't relapse. It is so so hard to find a therapist that specializes in hoarding. Also, I am glad that the floor itself looks clean once cleared.
Your videos make me feel like I can tackle my depression messes. They’re not at this level, but seeing someone as kind and compassionate and empathetic as you makes me feel like anything is possible❤
It made me so happy to see the dog, nice clean brushed coat, good weight, happy, wagging his tail.... Even going through a dark time where it's hard to take care of herself, the lady is still taking good care of her fur babies ❤️🩹
@@nikribblenothing better than bacteria and mold in the air getting into the lungs of a dog that is clearly not being taken to the vet. If it was a kid y’all would think differently. Gross
@@nikribbleagreed! You can tell she’s done what she could to take good care of the dog. So amazing the occupant gets to sleep with them again! Hopefully that will give her the motivation to keep it up at least a little bit.
It has to be done that way in Canada. Blue for recycles, green for wet garbage, clear for garbage and maybe more depending on where you live. It's 5 sorting where I live.
I recently helped my boyfriend clean his room up. It took several days and many trashbags as it was the result or years of depression. It broke my heart abytime we uncoverd half filled trash bags and he immediately started talking about how hard he tried to fix things on his own. It is so much cleaner now and only needs some organizing and vacuuming. We found so much stuff he thought hed never see again and he feels so much better and more hopeful. Doing one room of that has given me so much more respect for all the work you do (even though i had a lot) and im so glad you can give people the relief that he felt when we were able to walk around that room again.
Big shout out to that friend, awesome way to support someone who needs and deserves it. The real friend that's at your side through good and bad because they always want you to have better.
Thank you for doing this, May God bless you for this work. Thank you for showing such compassion. It's so sad that the friends and family wouldn't have stepped in earlier. I know what it's like to be overwhelmed, but thankfully, I haven't been in this position, but we all could be if life got too hard for us to manage. I'm praying she finds the help she needs to ensure she doesn't get back here again.
Thank you for recycling! However, if someone reading this is struggling and has recycling piling up or plastic containers in the fridge with moldy food...just throw it straight into a big trash bag and let it go. It's okay.
I had to do this for my mom and for my foster siblings mom so they could finally go home to her and they both flew out to tackle my disaster after my newborn passed away and I went from a vibrant person to just a shell for a year. I remember how overwhelming getting started can be , how labor intensive it gets and also how much weight is off their shoulders when its done. Its not just tidying up it gives them a clean slate to keep working on themselves from and room to do that work instead of the walls closing in around them. You are amazing and deserve so much more credit for the empathy and impact you are making in others lives
Great job! You are doing an absolutely wonderful thing for other people. I guess I started doing hoarder houses with my own family, three teenage sons who can't clean anything for some reason. And a very resilient hoarder husband in denial. He's gone now but man some of the rooms he had were really really disgusting. Didn't matter. I love them. Anyway. I just got a bunch of contractors bags and cleaned all that nonsense up. So much happier now. And last month I did my first hoarder house and I got halfway through it so I think that's pretty good before the anxiety was too much for them. I'm still working on it so pray for me that I can get that done for them
When it starts to get even a quarter of this bad is often when it becomes too much. Even beginning to clean up seems impossible and progressively gets worse. You are doing God’s work on earth and helping these people breathe easy and live with some relief. Thank you.
I've been watching cleantok videos all week and everyone has motivated me to clean my whole bedroom, bathroom, kitchen, and deep clean the fridge. I'm just going until I lose steam 🚂
You are a true blessing to society as a whole. Absolutely amazing. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for helping this woman I don't know her but it just makes me feel good to know that there is still good people out there😊😊
Thank you for your care and consideration and kindness without judgement! When I see your videos it always moves me to tears. And it restores my faith in humanity. Thank you and may God bless you and those you are helping.
I’m really glad to see someone doing this because I see so much hate for people who struggle with this both online and in person so this is just a little more faith in humanity restored
These kinds of videos make me feel so happy ❤ its just so nice to see people helping others who are at a low and need some help! Especially sense there is so much shame put on people for their hygiene and cleanliness... Its just nice to see people going in judgment Free and with love ❤
I think it's wonderful what you do, but please always look after yourself first. Especially your back and your knees. A kneeling stool, trash bag holder and those 'scooping hands' they use outdoors for leaves would be a start. Wishing you all the best. X
How can i get assistance?? . Im working on mine just need help w/:consitance. Can't find someone willing or what i can afford. My isnt quite like this. God Bless!
Speak to your local council - they may be able to hook you into someone in your community or a service like RSL. If not, ask if you can speak with a social worker and see what benefits you may qualify for to be able to pay for this service. Wishing you the best and good on you for starting.
Just a random thought/ question? Do you take the recycling money and buy them new things you’ve noticed they are in need of ( toothbrushes sponges towels you know just different small things that make a huge difference? I absolutely love your channel and all the good you do!
My aunt was a hoarder before she died, I spent a vacation that I earned driving 2 1/2 hours to help her clean some rooms of her house. Luckily she wasn’t a garbage hoarder. She was just a hoarder of things. She was a morbidly obese person never married no children. After that house got cleaned up. We sold it and she moved in with my parents and lived with them for 10 years. Depression is the number one issue, I have suffered from depression myself going through menopause and so forth and life struggles, but I have never let my house get that bad. I will say I have had a hoarder closet, and I do clean it every six months.
How do I find someone in my area who does this? My mother struggled with this issue her entire life, it progressed and got worse the older she got and she Eventually ended her life. I know this was a contributing factor in that decision and now I’ve noticed another family member facing similar struggles. Several cleaning ladies have quit, no showed, or never returned. I’ve helped, my children have helped but it’s just too much to be able to get done all at once and I’m not able to commit to multiple days in a row.
Only they can fix their behavior. You can help but never expect mental illness to be corrected with a clean up. Your friend also needs therapy, outlets, and aid to help stymy the impulse.
Trying not to judge. I just have a hard time grasping one thing in hoarding cases why anyone would hoard garbage. I've struggled with severe depression, anxiety and panic attacks really bad. But not taking out garbage is not any option to me no matter how hard it is to take it out. 🙏🏼 I hope she will really try hard from now on because letting just the garbage alone collect makes everything way way harder. If she's literally physically unable then its best for her to ask someone to help her take it out once or twice a week so its possible. Leaving her a garbage can with bags could help her start in the right foot. Those poor doggies too. Hope she watches this. Thoughts and prayers 🙏🏼
So if you've struggled with depression, anxiety, and panic attacks, all of which I do as well, then I'm guessing you have not struggled with hoarding. Until we have, we really can't fathom what they are going through. If she's physically able to move the garbage and still hasn't, there's obviously a reason and a good one. It's certainly not because she likes living like that. If you're trying not to judge, I would suggest you try harder. We have not walked in her shoes, and we should be very thankful for that.
@@ShellyCline So true. I said i don't understand but yes thing's piling up and not wanting to throw away too many thing's because of poverty i do understand. I know there's different types of hoarding too. My anxiety used to motivate me and i put it into obsessively cleaning and used to run a cleaning business for wealthy clients. Being disabled and many medical struggles that just in the last 5 yrs I've went through major surgeries where I've been all alone through recovery too. So difficult that i can't physically do much anymore. But taking the garbage out to avoid bio hazard i make happen no matter how difficult. I can't mentally handle letting anyone come in my house because it no longer reflects who i am inside and unless other's have been through or seen someone go through the domino effect of everything I feel like i have to explain myself too much because so many their way of trying to help is telling me/ talking down to me thing's i need to do instead of caring to hear exactly what thing's i need help with that i know would get me back to a fresh start and I'd no longer feel this overwhelmed like i do that holds me back from the easier things i can try to do alone. I've looked for resources hard and their isn't any at all. To hire a cleaner is over $25. Hour which on the lowest s.s. there's no way to afford it at all. Not having anyone when you've swallowed your pride and your willing to take the help if only help was there but its not is hopeless. I realise shutting oneself in only gets harder over time to know anyone but if i feel like i don't have anything to offer other's plus how depressing being around me is then its impossible to have anyone. But like i said nobody is there in any ways at all. So as i wrote no i don't understand the trash part at all since that is the one thing i personally cannot. If she's a psychologist specialising in this stuff then she could explain about it so i could understand why n how other's hoard trash not just thing's.
The tissues made me really sad. I saw your other video about the letter you found that she wrote. I can only imagine how many tears she shed and I feel the tissues represent that. You’re an angel and you give people hope. I just know the Lord smiles down on you. ❤
Her allergies are also probably off the charts with all dust mites that are more than likely there :(
1. You’re young, so please protect your back. The bending, lifting, and twisting is what destroyed by back.
2. You’re an angel. The woman probably feels like a very heavy weight has been lifted.
Ya i used to have a cleaning business and kept my home immaculate but over time it tore my body up so bad I'm physically disabled from that and 2 car wrecks. Now i don't have anyone or any help n don't know where to turn. These awesome people seem to only do super bad hoarding homes not really dirty cluttered homes. So after searching hard to find help I'm hopeless.
maybe one of those grabber things that older folks use could help with the bending and such
@@RedRose4141you could see if you qualify for a home health aid, contact the department of human services in your area and see how they can help ❤ prayers
@@RedRose4141idk where you’re located, but I think Midwest Cleaning does homes other than just hoarder situations.
the dogs look so well maintained, it looks like that even despite it all she still cares for them 😢
As a 70+ single woman who has lived with depression for close to sixty years, I can only say that you are an angel. For some people this is a new beginning. For others it is a temporary respit. Weather either or in between, it is such a relief. Not just for the individual, but for everyone who cares for them. Bless you. 🦋
You and Mack and Barbie and Auri and all the others who do this for free are angels come to earth. 💖💖💖
Agree 💯. And don't forget Bonnie 😍
So glad many folk are being kind.
This is mental illness this is not being lazy.
We in my household love and appreciate what you are doing. ❤❤❤
I hope she gets therapy to help her in being able to throw out food garbage like that so she doesn't relapse. It is so so hard to find a therapist that specializes in hoarding. Also, I am glad that the floor itself looks clean once cleared.
Your videos make me feel like I can tackle my depression messes. They’re not at this level, but seeing someone as kind and compassionate and empathetic as you makes me feel like anything is possible❤
i believe in you, itll get better or at least ok
You are such a kind person, helping not only the people you clean for, but those who watch your videos. Thank you
You are an absolute angel by separating recyclables. Going the extra mile for something that was already lots of work!
that doggie looks so healthy and well taken care of 💞 i hope she can sleep with them again soon
I'm glad a friend knew! I know many people with spaces like this hide it from everyone, making it even harder to get help
She has a Friend!!!!
You do important work, I’m glad you spend your energy this way. I see you, and I see good in the world.
I'm glad she still has the dogs. they are probably her lifeline rn
It made me so happy to see the dog, nice clean brushed coat, good weight, happy, wagging his tail.... Even going through a dark time where it's hard to take care of herself, the lady is still taking good care of her fur babies ❤️🩹
@@nikribblenothing better than bacteria and mold in the air getting into the lungs of a dog that is clearly not being taken to the vet. If it was a kid y’all would think differently. Gross
@@nikribbleagreed! You can tell she’s done what she could to take good care of the dog. So amazing the occupant gets to sleep with them again! Hopefully that will give her the motivation to keep it up at least a little bit.
@@Hwgt888I'm so glad you care more about the dog than its ill owner. 🙄
Thank u so much for sorting and recycling instead of just throwing it all out!
It has to be done that way in Canada. Blue for recycles, green for wet garbage, clear for garbage and maybe more depending on where you live. It's 5 sorting where I live.
Youre a blessing to this earth ❤
I recently helped my boyfriend clean his room up. It took several days and many trashbags as it was the result or years of depression. It broke my heart abytime we uncoverd half filled trash bags and he immediately started talking about how hard he tried to fix things on his own. It is so much cleaner now and only needs some organizing and vacuuming. We found so much stuff he thought hed never see again and he feels so much better and more hopeful. Doing one room of that has given me so much more respect for all the work you do (even though i had a lot) and im so glad you can give people the relief that he felt when we were able to walk around that room again.
Big shout out to that friend, awesome way to support someone who needs and deserves it. The real friend that's at your side through good and bad because they always want you to have better.
You are an amazing women!!! An angel on earth!!!! Please wear a mask and make sure you protect yourself!!
You are such an amazing and generous person! God bless!
Thank you for doing this, May God bless you for this work. Thank you for showing such compassion. It's so sad that the friends and family wouldn't have stepped in earlier. I know what it's like to be overwhelmed, but thankfully, I haven't been in this position, but we all could be if life got too hard for us to manage. I'm praying she finds the help she needs to ensure she doesn't get back here again.
Hallelujah, and God bless you! It breaks my heart to see someone going through this. Praise God you are able to help without rejecting the person!
So so glad to see your content again ❤❤
Thank you for recycling! However, if someone reading this is struggling and has recycling piling up or plastic containers in the fridge with moldy food...just throw it straight into a big trash bag and let it go. It's okay.
I had to do this for my mom and for my foster siblings mom so they could finally go home to her and they both flew out to tackle my disaster after my newborn passed away and I went from a vibrant person to just a shell for a year. I remember how overwhelming getting started can be , how labor intensive it gets and also how much weight is off their shoulders when its done. Its not just tidying up it gives them a clean slate to keep working on themselves from and room to do that work instead of the walls closing in around them. You are amazing and deserve so much more credit for the empathy and impact you are making in others lives
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Your a kind sweet lady.Thank you😊😊
Great job! You are doing an absolutely wonderful thing for other people. I guess I started doing hoarder houses with my own family, three teenage sons who can't clean anything for some reason. And a very resilient hoarder husband in denial. He's gone now but man some of the rooms he had were really really disgusting. Didn't matter. I love them. Anyway. I just got a bunch of contractors bags and cleaned all that nonsense up. So much happier now. And last month I did my first hoarder house and I got halfway through it so I think that's pretty good before the anxiety was too much for them. I'm still working on it so pray for me that I can get that done for them
Thank you for being an amazing human and helping out those in need. ❤
Bless you. You will have a huge crown of helps.
When it starts to get even a quarter of this bad is often when it becomes too much. Even beginning to clean up seems impossible and progressively gets worse. You are doing God’s work on earth and helping these people breathe easy and live with some relief. Thank you.
You are a miracle! Thanks for sharing!
I've been watching cleantok videos all week and everyone has motivated me to clean my whole bedroom, bathroom, kitchen, and deep clean the fridge. I'm just going until I lose steam 🚂
An absolute GOD send you are!!
Bless you ❤
Turmoil. You are a lovely human.
You are a kind human being! Rare these days😢
You are a true blessing to society as a whole. Absolutely amazing. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for helping this woman I don't know her but it just makes me feel good to know that there is still good people out there😊😊
Thank you for your care and consideration and kindness without judgement! When I see your videos it always moves me to tears. And it restores my faith in humanity. Thank you and may God bless you and those you are helping.
For trash and clutter, this one looks surprisingly clean!
Thank you for helping her
I’m really glad to see someone doing this because I see so much hate for people who struggle with this both online and in person so this is just a little more faith in humanity restored
Thank you for helping people that can't help themselves and can't afford to hire someone to do it, you are a amazing person
So glad to see the pup is so well taken care of🥲❤️🔥😌
Remind me of when I was a child and my mom would come in my room with a roll of black trash bags a snow shovel and a rake
I love that you help people. Sometimes it gets overwhelming 🙏🏾♥️
These kinds of videos make me feel so happy ❤ its just so nice to see people helping others who are at a low and need some help! Especially sense there is so much shame put on people for their hygiene and cleanliness... Its just nice to see people going in judgment Free and with love ❤
That has to feel great!
You are a blessing dear❤
I think it's wonderful what you do, but please always look after yourself first. Especially your back and your knees.
A kneeling stool, trash bag holder and those 'scooping hands' they use outdoors for leaves would be a start.
Wishing you all the best.
X
In Germany that hills of bottles would be fortune 😩
Your amazing!!
How can i get assistance?? . Im working on mine just need help w/:consitance. Can't find someone willing or what i can afford. My isnt quite like this. God Bless!
Speak to your local council - they may be able to hook you into someone in your community or a service like RSL. If not, ask if you can speak with a social worker and see what benefits you may qualify for to be able to pay for this service. Wishing you the best and good on you for starting.
Oh I love you. 🫶
God bless you for your hard work and empathy 🙏
So grateful for you!
you're so kind
Bless you
Thats kinda impressive the piles were kinda organzied enough to recycle bags and bags of bottles!
Thank you.
Hope she keeps it clean for her and her dog, it takes a lot of work but I belive she can do it!
Your team and you are awesome btw
You are an amazing girl.
Bet there’s a decent amount of $ in recyclables in there
I wish you were in PA.
Please mask up during cleaning.... Blessings from AFRICA ❤️🦁🦁🦁
Girl is your name Angel? Because it needs to be God Bless You and what you do for these people😇🙏🫶
If they have a bottle return in the city you guys should save the bottles and cash them in for the person. It helps sometimes with extra funds
You're so wonderful
I wish you were in Missouri. We need help, & I can't find anyone.
This is Canada. I see Tim hortons and Boston pizza
I sure wish you could help me.
Can you please suggest to her to supplement with vitamin D. It helps so much with mental health. I have no judgement and struggle severely myself. ❤
NO ONE better come after her causebthe doggies.
Thay doggie looked very well cared for, im sure there is space in the home that looks better
I need your help.
Wow!!
❤❤❤
Just a random thought/ question? Do you take the recycling money and buy them new things you’ve noticed they are in need of ( toothbrushes sponges towels you know just different small things that make a huge difference?
I absolutely love your channel and all the good you do!
⭐️
Omg!
She had quite a bit in savings if she lived in Oregon, 10 cents/bottle
My aunt was a hoarder before she died, I spent a vacation that I earned driving 2 1/2 hours to help her clean some rooms of her house. Luckily she wasn’t a garbage hoarder. She was just a hoarder of things. She was a morbidly obese person never married no children. After that house got cleaned up. We sold it and she moved in with my parents and lived with them for 10 years. Depression is the number one issue, I have suffered from depression myself going through menopause and so forth and life struggles, but I have never let my house get that bad. I will say I have had a hoarder closet, and I do clean it every six months.
I would even know how to start
How do I find someone in my area who does this? My mother struggled with this issue her entire life, it progressed and got worse the older she got and she Eventually ended her life. I know this was a contributing factor in that decision and now I’ve noticed another family member facing similar struggles. Several cleaning ladies have quit, no showed, or never returned. I’ve helped, my children have helped but it’s just too much to be able to get done all at once and I’m not able to commit to multiple days in a row.
OMG
I hope she feels better at some point. All the soda... it's depressing
can only imagine the depression that leads to this lack of self care
I don't understand it, but I feel so badly for them. 😢
I helped a hoarder friend three times. She trashed again and again. I gave up.
Only they can fix their behavior. You can help but never expect mental illness to be corrected with a clean up. Your friend also needs therapy, outlets, and aid to help stymy the impulse.
Do you return the bottles in states that do the 5 cent returns?
I would love to know what your services cost and if you have anyone to help in the GTA
She does this for free to help people
Start with a dumpster
😮😮😮😮
Nooooooo😢
I had to do this my mother in laws house. It was awful and so sad
I’m confused, are all your videos shorts?
Is this even real? 😮 I am having a nightmare? God please help all those suffering with whatever this is!
Is this an official non profit?
what my house looks like every week after working two jobs 👀
*Throws trash aiming for the bin and missed 😅*
Trying not to judge. I just have a hard time grasping one thing in hoarding cases why anyone would hoard garbage. I've struggled with severe depression, anxiety and panic attacks really bad. But not taking out garbage is not any option to me no matter how hard it is to take it out. 🙏🏼 I hope she will really try hard from now on because letting just the garbage alone collect makes everything way way harder. If she's literally physically unable then its best for her to ask someone to help her take it out once or twice a week so its possible. Leaving her a garbage can with bags could help her start in the right foot. Those poor doggies too. Hope she watches this. Thoughts and prayers 🙏🏼
This is so much better than what deedee commented.
So if you've struggled with depression, anxiety, and panic attacks, all of which I do as well, then I'm guessing you have not struggled with hoarding.
Until we have, we really can't fathom what they are going through.
If she's physically able to move the garbage and still hasn't, there's obviously a reason and a good one. It's certainly not because she likes living like that.
If you're trying not to judge, I would suggest you try harder. We have not walked in her shoes, and we should be very thankful for that.
@@blueridgeocean agree, it looks like deedee's comment might have gotten deleted, and well-deserved.
I think that maybe they stop paying or cannot afford to pay for trash service. So it piles up inside.
@@ShellyCline So true. I said i don't understand but yes thing's piling up and not wanting to throw away too many thing's because of poverty i do understand. I know there's different types of hoarding too. My anxiety used to motivate me and i put it into obsessively cleaning and used to run a cleaning business for wealthy clients. Being disabled and many medical struggles that just in the last 5 yrs I've went through major surgeries where I've been all alone through recovery too. So difficult that i can't physically do much anymore. But taking the garbage out to avoid bio hazard i make happen no matter how difficult. I can't mentally handle letting anyone come in my house because it no longer reflects who i am inside and unless other's have been through or seen someone go through the domino effect of everything I feel like i have to explain myself too much because so many their way of trying to help is telling me/ talking down to me thing's i need to do instead of caring to hear exactly what thing's i need help with that i know would get me back to a fresh start and I'd no longer feel this overwhelmed like i do that holds me back from the easier things i can try to do alone. I've looked for resources hard and their isn't any at all. To hire a cleaner is over $25. Hour which on the lowest s.s. there's no way to afford it at all. Not having anyone when you've swallowed your pride and your willing to take the help if only help was there but its not is hopeless. I realise shutting oneself in only gets harder over time to know anyone but if i feel like i don't have anything to offer other's plus how depressing being around me is then its impossible to have anyone. But like i said nobody is there in any ways at all. So as i wrote no i don't understand the trash part at all since that is the one thing i personally cannot. If she's a psychologist specialising in this stuff then she could explain about it so i could understand why n how other's hoard trash not just thing's.
The motivation i need to clean up my room today (after two? three weeks? 🫣). Thanks❤