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  • čas přidán 11. 02. 2021
  • Hi guys! For episode 4 I’m telling my dating story of how I met my husband as a single mother.
    Make sure to stay tuned next Thursday for our big news that will be posted at 9am pst on my channel!
    Winner of the iPhone giveaway is..... Reina Olivas. Congratulations!! She will be sending in a video of her with her new iPhone that we’ll feature in an upcoming video!
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Komentáře • 341

  • @brittanyxavier
    @brittanyxavier  Před 3 lety +129

    If you liked this video, make sure to check out the first episode in the series - czcams.com/video/yWt1T7fEVRM/video.html

  • @helloalexandraa
    @helloalexandraa Před 3 lety +1291

    What are the odds that the one guy that stood out to you at the bar was already mutual friends with the person you came with AND almost didn’t even go out that night 🥲

    • @sincerelysof
      @sincerelysof Před 3 lety +65

      Plus he also scanned the room and felt attracted to her!

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  Před 3 lety +218

      that’s why we always say it was meant to be 🙏🏼

    • @helloalexandraa
      @helloalexandraa Před 3 lety +17

      @@brittanyxavier thank you for sharing so much of your family’s story 😭

    • @dominikamihokova784
      @dominikamihokova784 Před 2 lety

      It was meant to be for sure!!!!

    • @shannonmccarthy3461
      @shannonmccarthy3461 Před 2 lety +3

      Literally they both didn't really wanna go imagine if either of them went... Literally meant to be

  • @chelseaheninger998
    @chelseaheninger998 Před 3 lety +1133

    Oh my gosh I’m CRYING over Jaden being so excited when she said “you’re gonna marry mommy!? Hehehe” GAHHH I LOVE YOU GUYS😭🤍 and when she puts her hand over her eyes. I cannot deal.

    • @helloalexandraa
      @helloalexandraa Před 3 lety +55

      And jadyn was holding a little mermaid purse when “prince Eric” proposed to her mom 😭

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  Před 3 lety +88

      I knowww 😭 she was so excited 🥰💞

    • @chelseaheninger998
      @chelseaheninger998 Před 3 lety +20

      I didn’t even notice she was holding a little mermaid purse!😍 How freaking adorable.

  • @lilianaagredano6498
    @lilianaagredano6498 Před 3 lety +541

    Did anyone else completely loose it when they showed memory engagement clip with little Jaden and Anthony proposing to both of them? I went from fine to bawling in literally half a second.

  • @LayneFable
    @LayneFable Před 3 lety +502

    THAT PROPOSAL

  • @ThulisileKolweni
    @ThulisileKolweni Před 3 lety +939

    You can tell Anthony loves it’s here and loves being a father. He is gold . Such a beautiful story and moments ❤️♥️😍😘💕😘.

  • @allibrooks4094
    @allibrooks4094 Před 3 lety +419

    oh my goodness jayden’s little giggle during ur proposal 🥺

  • @vivianag_
    @vivianag_ Před 3 lety +122

    “Can I call you Dad?”🥺😭 so cuteeee
    You are so strong and an inspiring woman!🤍🤍

  • @quinngonzalez7372
    @quinngonzalez7372 Před 3 lety +267

    "omg don't call him over i just ate garlic fries" is the most relatable thing ever

    • @Ellie-pm9he
      @Ellie-pm9he Před 3 lety +8

      ... nO- gArliC trUfFle friEs. IT'S IMPORTANT-

  • @juanna8822
    @juanna8822 Před 3 lety +93

    I met my boyfriend similarly the same way, I wasn't supposed to go out that night to a restaurant because it was a Monday and I had work the next morning. When I first walked in I went with one of my friends, who I mentioned to "I think that guy is so cute!". She then took my drink and told me we are sitting at the table beside them, and I had no other choice! We hit it off right away and coming up 2 years now!

  • @justace7869
    @justace7869 Před 3 lety +182

    As a child of this situation, I want to thank you for sharing your journey to motherhood. My parents (aka my Brittany & Anthony) are my world and hearing your story gives me even more appreciation for their journey to creating the family I am grateful to have today. Sending your family tremendous love on the next chapter 💕

  • @kita3256
    @kita3256 Před 3 lety +23

    Anthony is honestly worth more than the most precious gem. That proposal and wedding 😭❤️ your daughter is so blessed.

  • @kathiacruz9896
    @kathiacruz9896 Před 3 lety +99

    OMG JAYDEN’S GIGGLE WHEN HE PROPOSED!!!!!!!!!! I’m crying 😭

  • @gabyromero8939
    @gabyromero8939 Před 3 lety +438

    i hope the big announcement is that she’s preggo!!!

    • @isabelmalagon8879
      @isabelmalagon8879 Před 3 lety +4

      Samee

    • @menzi7282
      @menzi7282 Před 3 lety +3

      awww same that would be great 😊🥺😌

    • @niamhwatson
      @niamhwatson Před 3 lety +21

      I'm sure it's a collab or some business announcement.

    • @esmehdz2359
      @esmehdz2359 Před 3 lety +1

      Omg I’m was so thinking the same 🥰🥰🥰🥰

    • @Victoria-ci2ud
      @Victoria-ci2ud Před 3 lety +6

      That would be awesome but its not likely

  • @d26s10
    @d26s10 Před 3 lety +152

    What a beautiful family unit, you guys are wonderful for sharing such a mature and responsible approach to love and raising kids.

  • @mariapaularodriguez886
    @mariapaularodriguez886 Před 3 lety +56

    Absolutely love how you guys included her and he included her in the proposal. Being a daughter of a single mom I always have grown up knowing how important I was in the dynamic and feeling included is so HUGE for kids ! It was so sweet to see. Love this love so much for you guys ♥️♥️

  • @raquelcrochet_designs
    @raquelcrochet_designs Před 3 lety +518

    He does look like prince Eric lol

  • @nicoleroden9647
    @nicoleroden9647 Před 3 lety +21

    My parents never spoke negatively about my biological father and I am so appreciative of that. I have always been my "step"-father's daughter.

  • @Peanutwhiskers77
    @Peanutwhiskers77 Před 2 lety +24

    My parents separated when I was very young, my dad took full responsibility of me while my mom didn’t really want to be a part of my life. My dad gave her the freedom to visit me whenever and never bad mouthed her even though she did very hurtful things to the both of us. It was very important to him that I came into my own conclusion when I got older, I’m very grateful my dad did everything he could for me and tried to make my life as normal as possible being a single dad. Growing up in a conservative country didn’t make it easy to have a child be born out of wedlock, let alone being a single parent. Thank you for sharing your story. 🙏🏽 Good parents are truly a blessing and I thank God for making him my dad.

  • @TediRae
    @TediRae Před 3 lety +24

    This whole story hits home more than I can express. I became pregnant my senior year of high school. I met my now husband when my son was a month old. He was in college and we took it slow. 13 years later, my son is 13 and our daughter is 9. We have a beautiful life we built together. My sons dad use to see him but stopped like 4-5 years ago... It is heartbreaking to see your child go through that. But he has always had my husband since he was a month old. truly a blessing a man can love a child so strongly, and biology is the only factor. Thank you for sharing your story!

  • @victoriawinhumphries7161
    @victoriawinhumphries7161 Před 3 lety +100

    Brittany you are so strong and Iike listening to your story. It gives me some hope in life. Thank you for helping me without you knowing it.

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  Před 3 lety +8

      Aw I love that! Thank you for following along! 🥰

  • @sydneywettengel8599
    @sydneywettengel8599 Před 3 lety +192

    When did Jadyn change her last name to Xavier? Did Anthony adopt her?
    Loved this series! ❤️ Such a good example of a strong family unit! Can’t wait for next weeks announcement!

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  Před 3 lety +124

      when she was in 4th grade 🥰 She had my maiden name as her last name before.

  • @femmefartale4466
    @femmefartale4466 Před 3 lety +13

    'I realized I can NOT live without them' AWWW my heart melted, you guys are so cute ♥

  • @meganmarino2012
    @meganmarino2012 Před 3 lety +4

    This series you have is so incredibly helpful. It’s so easy to feel lonely and hopeless as a single mother. This gives me so much hope!

  • @ejmakesus6
    @ejmakesus6 Před 3 lety +102

    The child support I can relate too as well. Sad how some ‘dads’ don’t step up to their responsibilities 😑

    • @brittanyxavier
      @brittanyxavier  Před 3 lety +41

      literally. huge character issue

    • @ejmakesus6
      @ejmakesus6 Před 3 lety +10

      @@brittanyxavier you said it so well 🙌🏻⭐️

  • @gematrujillo8002
    @gematrujillo8002 Před 3 lety +73

    I just binged your story and omg I’m crying. I love your family sooo much!!!

  • @klepece
    @klepece Před 3 lety +8

    OMG!!! Will you be a flower girl ❤❤❤❤
    I'm crying my eyes out! I'm 6 months pregnant and single, the dad decided to ghost me completely... thank you for this beautiful story! And thank you for being so honest in previous videos about the strugle ❤ I'm so proud of you being so young and getting through this. I'm 38 and I feel broken right now, don't know how to deal with all of it! Everyone around me is expecting me to feel confident and happy... but I'm freaking out! Your story made me feel normal... I've been feeling so guilty for not being able to be happy...
    You seem like a very nice family. I wish you all the best 💞

  • @lekc716
    @lekc716 Před 3 lety +5

    I’m tearing up watching this❤️I love how Anthony not only treats Brittany after everything she went through but how she treats Jayden and respects her and loves her

  • @Catchmee24
    @Catchmee24 Před 3 lety +12

    I'm not an emotional person and totally didn't plan on watching even the 1st video...... but now I'm 4 episodes in, crying tears of joy for you, and am absolutely subscribing :') :') :'). Thank you for sharing

  • @SR-ju4uh
    @SR-ju4uh Před 3 lety +5

    You all are such a beautiful family. Thank you so much for being so vulnerable and honest. I enjoyed this series so much! ❤️

  • @juanna8822
    @juanna8822 Před 3 lety +35

    I'm crying with how BEAUTIFUL your love story is

  • @BrendaMang
    @BrendaMang Před 3 lety +19

    the proposal with Jaden included had me so teary and happy 💛

  • @alexisdionisio4282
    @alexisdionisio4282 Před 3 lety +4

    To have parents completely understand their child and what they go thru is amazing.

  • @goodtalker
    @goodtalker Před 3 lety +7

    Somewhere in this world a young woman and young man will watch this. Their spirits will be lifted, and they will know, that things are going to be fine, by realizing the great, great example you two have set. God Bless.

  • @gonda3435
    @gonda3435 Před 3 lety +55

    True viewers know she told this story already

  • @martanowak194
    @martanowak194 Před 3 lety +2

    I’ve watched all of the episodes about your pregnancy and your hard situation. Finally I feel like I understand my mom better and what she did for me❤️

  • @SuperNancyFancyPants
    @SuperNancyFancyPants Před 3 lety +14

    This entire story is too cute! Jaden is adorable. I literally could not with the engagement clips. *Insert cry face here* ❤️

  • @MT-zm1yb
    @MT-zm1yb Před 3 lety +12

    You are such a good mom and parent, your daughter is going to grow up to be an amazing human being.

  • @Not_The_Momma
    @Not_The_Momma Před 3 lety +2

    Just the way they look at each other is so genuine!

  • @Mai-id4fw
    @Mai-id4fw Před 3 lety +6

    This is so lovely!!! He’s a great guy, & you can only find these few rare men’s like that on this planet! 💕✨ Gods gift! So happy for you & your little family!

  • @kaylynr8335
    @kaylynr8335 Před 3 lety +11

    On the verge of tears this entire video. Your story is so beautiful and personally so relatable you guys are so down to earth and I really have loved watching this whole series. Many many blessings to you Anthony and Jayden ♥️

  • @GoodBadBeautifulLife
    @GoodBadBeautifulLife Před 3 lety +7

    CZcams recommended this series to me a week or two ago and I've been following along with every episode. After watching this video especially I can't believe you were so worried you wouldn't be maternal while you were pregnant. Your maturity at such a young age was incredible and it's so obvious from hearing you both speak that Jadyn was priority number 1 from the start. Awesome family and now I can't wait for next week's announcement!

  • @chryssas.556
    @chryssas.556 Před 3 lety +4

    Brittany you are literally the best mother and the best role model for your daughter. You are incredible. You are exactly the type of woman that I want to be someday.

  • @lin_zp
    @lin_zp Před 3 lety +6

    the video of him proposing.... omg i sobbed. how special wow

  • @bluepeachwhispers6845
    @bluepeachwhispers6845 Před 3 lety +6

    😭 this is so heartwarming 😭🥰 so happy for the three of you 💛

  • @urisseegatdula196
    @urisseegatdula196 Před 3 lety +4

    It makes me so happy to see how he and jadyn got along. When they met ugh. So happy

  • @KristinasDigitalDiary
    @KristinasDigitalDiary Před 3 lety +72

    This series was incredible and truly inspiring for you to share with us, thank you for your bravery 🤎🥺🥰

  • @eleonoraianieri5479
    @eleonoraianieri5479 Před 3 lety +6

    What a wonderful story! So happy from you guys, you deserve it all❤️

  • @user-hm9gp4um7o
    @user-hm9gp4um7o Před 3 lety

    You are an inspiration story.. all of the times you were worried not been a good mom. That is the definition of being a good mom. 💗

  • @zeynepcakir7946
    @zeynepcakir7946 Před 3 lety +45

    This was an amazing series. Thank you for sharing your story!

  • @juanitap9087
    @juanitap9087 Před 3 lety +9

    crying when he gave the ring to Jadyn, sooooo cuteeeeee

  • @marybarrett6123
    @marybarrett6123 Před 3 lety +4

    My sons birth-dad dropped out of his life pretty much after we separated & divorced. When he was 7yo I married my 2nd husband & had a similar "name" situation. We my so that he could either call by his 1st name or dad. His response was, " I finally get to have a dad?!"
    When he turned 13yo we offered him the choice of adoption. He didn't choose that because he always hoped his bio-dad would come back & want to be in his life. When he turned 19 we asked him what he wanted for his birthday. He said he wanted his dad to adopt him...so he did. They are so much alike that no one would ever guess that they aren't blood related.

  • @MZ-nm8eb
    @MZ-nm8eb Před 3 lety +8

    Your videos got randomly recommended to me and I ended up subscribing ☺️ You guys are too cute and your girls are so lucky to have you as parents 🥰

  • @greenylee8227
    @greenylee8227 Před 3 lety +7

    Was wondering if you were going to upload! Made my night ❤️

  • @thesimofalltrades3703
    @thesimofalltrades3703 Před 3 lety +24

    ANTHONY HAS ENTERED THE CHAT!!

  • @summerdow7149
    @summerdow7149 Před 3 lety +27

    I would love to see a video if Jaden is ok with it, maybe a video of how Jaden felt when she was little and how she is now with having her dads in her life:)

  • @ashleywilliams8543
    @ashleywilliams8543 Před 3 lety

    I’m crying. So much love for your beautiful family❤️

  • @mariannedressler6784
    @mariannedressler6784 Před 2 lety +4

    My goodness!! What a beautiful outcome for what started out as a very dark time in your life! ❤️

  • @Daniela-zw3go
    @Daniela-zw3go Před 3 lety +4

    I love these video series!! ❤️ you guys are so beautiful 🤩

  • @jadhurshanashangar
    @jadhurshanashangar Před 3 lety +16

    Thank you for sharing your story 💖. Your an incredible strong woman and love your such great role model to your daughter.

  • @libbysmith5729
    @libbysmith5729 Před 3 lety +15

    this story!! it had melted my heart you guys are such an amazing couple. and like you are both so understanding about things and just seem so so welcoming and warm-hearted - such a good family sending so much love and good vibes for your future :)))

  • @not_cat661
    @not_cat661 Před 2 lety +1

    Jayden must be so excited and sooo sooo sooo happy am like in tears rn I can't watch anything but you guys your guys content is everything ❤️😭

  • @sandrao.7567
    @sandrao.7567 Před 3 lety +2

    I love your channel and your stories, I’m learning a lot whit it! ❤️

  • @isabellitss
    @isabellitss Před 3 lety +4

    What a beautiful story with hardships and a happy to be continue. I didn’t cry with the beginning of the story but man him proposing to both was my undoing haha

  • @sairathealchemist
    @sairathealchemist Před 3 lety +18

    So cute how he proposed to Jayden to be the flower girl 💕

  • @cheried9390
    @cheried9390 Před 3 lety +1

    I just found your channel, watched your story of your unplanned pregnancy to this one. Very touching story. I’m so happy for you. That this is a happy story. 🥰

  • @isassfilmss
    @isassfilmss Před 3 lety +1

    I am crying, i really love the way you love each other. I am a big fan of you, there's no way to say you are amazing people and humans beens. I'm from México and I'm improving my english by watching videos from people who speak english, and i'm really happy that i truly understand everything you say, and i am so so happy that I choose you as an "international" vloger haha to learn, i am really interested in your work as fashion vlogers, but also, now i am interested in you as people and as a family, i really wish you all the blessings. And i send you a huge hug from Coahuila.

  • @Polinaparvanova
    @Polinaparvanova Před 3 lety +8

    beautiful story, I'm learning so much from you about knowing my worth and believing in myself

  • @BeautifulInsideHere
    @BeautifulInsideHere Před 3 lety +2

    Your story gives me so much hope for the future for me and my baby 💕

  • @luizabarros5247
    @luizabarros5247 Před 3 lety +6

    This is so cute. I'm so glad you found each other! :)

  • @suzzyy8669
    @suzzyy8669 Před 3 lety +1

    Jaden was right, he was a true prince with a heart of gold! Y’all make such a beautiful loving family!❤️

  • @biancamahon5603
    @biancamahon5603 Před 2 lety +5

    I just saw the birth of your second daughter! I totally enjoy an love you guys so much! Great content! All the best! 🥰

  • @boucles89
    @boucles89 Před 3 lety

    Had to pause to comment... I’ve just reached the proposal and I’m beaming! Jadyns giggle and then giving her a ring too! You are such a beautiful family! 🥰

  • @lexiv4210
    @lexiv4210 Před 3 lety +8

    was anxious all day lol I love this series

  • @ashleymaxinne2122
    @ashleymaxinne2122 Před 2 lety

    I know I’m very late but I started watching your videos last week (the Dior baby shower). But after watching the Part 1,2 and 3 videos and this video, you guys became one of my favourite people on CZcams, I love what you guys put out, your content and your videos. Whenever I would watch one of your guys’ videos and I’m not sure if it’s just me but I feel like I’m also part of the family. I’m so thankful that I watched the baby shower video. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lamariereyes6696
    @lamariereyes6696 Před 3 lety

    What a beautiful story. Thank you for sharing! I’m a single mom and haven’t dated for years! I guess because of being fearful about bringing someone new into our lives. Fearful about everything that comes with it as well...but it is so refreshing to hear stories like this and how well it all worked out. Truly gives me hope ❤️ God Bless

  • @sarahwilliams911
    @sarahwilliams911 Před 3 lety

    Your story is so inspiring to so many young girls💕Thank you so much for sharing!!

  • @marygracevramos
    @marygracevramos Před 3 lety +1

    The proposal is so sweet 🥰 Lots of love to you and your family!!! ❤️

  • @trinakay9072
    @trinakay9072 Před 3 lety +3

    I love Claremont! I met my husband at the press in Claremont as well ❤️ Now we have a beautiful 9 month old baby boy! Congratulations to you and your husband on your pregnancy!

  • @ME-tp8em
    @ME-tp8em Před 3 lety +6

    We reap what we sow= law of cause and effect 🙌🏽
    you’re beautiful souls, love your story 💗

  • @michellejosephh
    @michellejosephh Před 3 lety

    your story needs to be a movie, its so special

  • @NOregretsjustfun
    @NOregretsjustfun Před 3 lety

    Such a cute story!!! love the series

  • @bernierizcollazo4716
    @bernierizcollazo4716 Před 3 lety +2

    What a beautiful end to this story. God bless you guys!♥️🌹😘

  • @sophiag.s2978
    @sophiag.s2978 Před 3 lety +10

    hearing your story made me very emotional aswell. My mommy died when i was 9 (im 14 now), and i was living with my grandparents for about a month. Then all of a sudden i thought i was just visiting my dad for the weekend but I ended up staying with him forever. I still visit my grandparents tho. Also ive lived with my single mom and grandparents since i was born. My mom and dad had never gotten married, and she didnt have a job which is why she stayed with my grandparents. My grandparents would take care if me while she went to school aswell. Very similar situations. Except my step mom is horrible to me :(

    • @MaryPraveena
      @MaryPraveena Před 3 lety

      I’m so sorry... I hope and pray your stepmom has a change of heart. My stepfather was horrible to me until I was able to cut ties when I graduated (he is mentally unstable and doesn’t want my mom having anything to do with her family or kids). When things are hard, remember that you are so loved and you will do bigger and better things.

  • @LauraBuarque_
    @LauraBuarque_ Před 3 lety +1

    My god... I’m just I’m tears with your story❤️ god is so perfect and is always present in our lives and what happened to you guys just confirms that for me🥰🥰 congratulations!!

  • @thesimofalltrades3703
    @thesimofalltrades3703 Před 3 lety +6

    These videos have had me CRYING!! like every single time.

  • @cocom3037
    @cocom3037 Před 3 lety

    Such a sweet story ❤️❤️Congratulations! You’re a great match!!

  • @ameliaturner3255
    @ameliaturner3255 Před 3 lety +2

    You’re both a wonderful couple and I’m happy for you both!!!!

  • @annapinault
    @annapinault Před 2 lety +2

    Wow you guys went about this in such a responsible and mature way. Everything from when you first talked to how you let Jaden come to her own conclusions about her birth dad. Well done.

  • @sherlymadelinec3491
    @sherlymadelinec3491 Před 3 lety

    I love it when they tell cute stories like this omg my heart melts 😍😍😍😍

  • @jaypremium9605
    @jaypremium9605 Před 3 lety +1

    Thanks so much. You guys helped with my insomnia. Great vid.

  • @AngieCruz02
    @AngieCruz02 Před 3 lety

    Omg this made me cry 🤍🤍 I really enjoy how you tell stories

  • @Fashionlifestyle_Official

    Thank you for sharing Brittany!Hope everybody here becomes successful on CZcams 😊🥰

  • @Gurl-5150
    @Gurl-5150 Před rokem +1

    Britney you are an incredible mother and you and Anthony together are just an incredible couple

  • @AriMari26
    @AriMari26 Před 3 lety +6

    Soo cute!! I understand because im Anthony in my relationship, i have a “heart” boy! And i love him with all my heart

  • @catherinekelleher1227
    @catherinekelleher1227 Před 3 lety +3

    I love hearing your story!

  • @queenofthenight3518
    @queenofthenight3518 Před 3 lety

    I saw all parts of your story 🖤 so proud

  • @nondumisoshange5117
    @nondumisoshange5117 Před 3 lety +14

    Bless anthony and your whole family :)

  • @Sarahhhh33
    @Sarahhhh33 Před 3 lety

    You guys are the cutest couple!!! This is true real love!!!!! Im obsessed!

  • @jennycueme
    @jennycueme Před 3 lety +1

    The cutest family. I'm crying 🥺🥺🤧😭❤️❤️