Me and my mother in law very friendly for almost 15 years, but when there is an issue, she took her daughter's side and ditched her own son, my hubby very badly.. after 15 years living with her like my own mom in a joint family, i realised that mother in law can't be our mother at any point.. it's a myth.. till situation dint arise, they will behave good, but when there is a situation they will definitely become mamiyar.. infact they see their own son as daughter in law's husband.. and treat them differently compared to their daughter..
U are absolutely rt... Even I was in joint fly for several yrs... And further i was nursing my mil mom... When i refused my sil tld it's ur karma... Though being educates unable to raise voice against these sister in law's... Finally mil mom expired in 2019 and for her rituals my mil just like that spilled words as to serve for my mother only we got married to my son.... Fm there i to my charge to back fire her.. now after 3 yrs I am living peacefully..
Same here. She said nasama poiduvernga nu. After that, I lost many things. My second baby girl got expired at 2021 . she was prematured baby. Then my husband's open heart surgery, and lot of health issues happened to me. Still its paining a lot. Worst lady ever I have seen. I don't want to be with her at any cost
Why do you expect a daughter in law to be your official cook and an unpaid servant? Why would you then want to marry your son instead hire a maid/ cook!
பச்சை சேரி மம்மிஸ் வெரி பேட் மம்மி🙄🙄🙄 எம் புள்ளை என் புள்ளைன்னு சொல்ற மம்மி அவங்க புள்ளையை அவங்க புள்ளையாவே வச்சிருந்திருக்கணும்... வேற பொண்ணை கல்யாணம் செய்து அந்த பொண்ணு வாழ்க்கையை பாழாக்க கூடாது
This is the reason why dil's, don't like to live with their MIL's. When you think of controlling other people. It simply won't work. When are you all going to understand.
@@nandhithanuts9485aama athaan pidichurukku... Antha amma laam pesurathukku pesaamaye irukkalaam... Yebba.. ithu nadanthu oru 8 yrs irukkum.. antha marumagal ku inneram intha covid time la suthanthiram kedachurukkanum nu naan vendikkiren😂😂😂
Andha 9th degree mam& black saree mam avangaluku vara pora marumagal really Princess,queen ipadi enna ena words iruko yalladhaiyum sollalam (the point of view is very clear & this generation fact ku yatha mari irukuradhu dhn best) ❤ andha green sarry mam oda marumagala nenicha dhn pavama iruku 😢😢😢 andha marumagal evlo kasta patutu inneram anupavachitu irukum nu 😢😢😿😭
Neatness, discipline, good habits Amma veetla ponnu thaana appudinu solli kudukkaama vitrupaanga. Adha unga amma solli kudutha thappa. Husband first marranum enga Amma enna adichu irukaanga thitti irukaanga adhey Pola en wife oda ammavum. Endha pillayum appa Amma kitta thittu vaangama adi vaangaama valarndhadhu illa. Unga wife oo Amma vo sonna problem ennanu kelunga adhu rightna sollunga do the right it on time. Nenga pudichuttu valikkudhu thanninu nee sollum podhu marandhutten, illatti meduva vandhittu irundha accept pannuveengala. Ammavum ponnu thaan wifeum ponnu thaan. Amma kashtapadum podhu theriyala, wife free ya irukkanum jolly AA irukkanum. Idhenna niyayam. Tharaasil sammamaga alakka vittaal vitiruveengala kadaikaranai. Nerngalum unga veetil uravugalai tharaasil sama mmaaga niruthi paarungal. Veetil nimmadhi santhosam, amaithi, iraivan arul irukkum.
மருமகள் மாமியார் வீட்டிற்கு வந்திருக்கிறார் கிட்டத்தட்ட அவள் விருந்தினர் போல தான் சோ குறைந்தபட்சம் ஆரம்பத்திலாவது அவள் விருப்பத்திற்கு அவள் ருசிக்கேற்ப உணவுகளை நாம் தரவேண்டும் அதை விட்டுவிட்டு எங்க சௌகரியத்துக்கு எங்கள் டேஸ்ட் கேட்டபடி சமையல் என்று ஆர்டர் செய்வது சமையற்காரயை நீங்கள் கொண்டு வரவில்லையே.....
பெண் திருமணம் ஆகி கணவர் வீட்டுக்கு வந்தாசுன்னா கணவர் வீட்டுக்கு சுவையில் தான் சமைக்க வேண்டும் எல்லாருக்கும் அப்படியே பழகிட்டாங்க ok அந்த பொண்ணு அவ வீட்டு சுவையில் சாப்பிட்டு பழகிருப்பாலே அப்படின்னு யாராவது யோசிச்சிங்கலாம்மா அவ ஸ்டேஸ்ட்ல சமைக்கட்டும் அந்த ஸ்டேஸ்ட் புடிச்சா அப்படியே சாப்பிடுவோமே ஒரு வாய்ப்பு கொடுப்போம் என்று சிந்தனை யாருக்கும் வரல முழுக்க முழுக்க சுயநலம் படைத்தவர்களாக இருக்கிறார்கள் அந்த பெண்னுக்கு வாய்ப்பு கொடுதோமாணால் அவல் சமைத்து உங்களுக்கு பிடிக்கவில்லை என்றால் அவளே சரி அவர்களுக்கு நமது ஸ்டேஸ்ட் பிடிக்கல so நாம அவங்க ஸ்டேஸ்ட்க்கு சமைக்க பழகுவோம்ன்னு அருமையான முறையில் பழகுவாங்கமா பயப்படாதீங்க நீங்களும் மருமகளாகி இப்போது மாமியாராகிருக்கீங்க so பொறுமை
Left side Brown saree super mamiyar.. 😍😍😍 & nan patta kastam en marumagal padakudathu super statement for better life.. Right side blue saree romba over namba than ellam nu Stone hearted person.
Yeppa! The price young women pay for marrying sons of such ladies . Dowry, MIL competing , trashing, being bossed around by in-laws, in-laws bringing frictions into married life, damaged self-worth, lack of appreciation for all the menial labour done, mainly such cheap Politics that suckle peace away, someone else dictating the ways of our lives ….all these for love from husband. No wonder divorce rates are up & live-in relationships are chiming in. Both men & women are losing faith in the institution of marriage. Why can’t married couple be a separate branch of the same tree & function independently understanding each other’s needs & derths? Also noticed how they address their sons as “en pillai”, “kolandhai” they never expressed a dot of love for DILs?
Strict mother in laws all are thinking that daughter in law is just a unpaid maid..... It is really showing in their speech and attitude at few mins of show itself...... They all are just expecting to share work that's ok..... But how they can think that a girl is coming to listen to all my words??? Are daughter in laws slaves for you? To listen to all of your words and mood their head and keep quite?
They will all suffer when they become old , their dil will do it back to them at that time. Instead if they are friends naturally the dil will take good care of them. What we give is what we get.
ஆயிரம் இருந்தாலும் தாய் இடத்தில் யாரும் கிடையாது கிடையாது மாமியார் பெருமைக்கு ஊர் மெக்சிக்கோ கூறலாம் அதுபோல் மகள் இடத்தில் யாரும் கிடையாது கிடையாது பெருமைக்கு கூறலாம் சூரியன் கூட மேற்கே உதிக்கும் இந்த உறவுகள் மாறவே மாறாது 😁😁😁😁😁🙏
9th std mamiyar knew how to handle the whole fly... Even my mil was a teacher... She expects the same fm me too like her scl.. students... She has an attitude as educated PPL know more than the uneducated.. Padipu வேற பண்பு வேற
The difference between the two groups is a little humility. Yaarum first naale perfect dil ah iruka maatanga. And every mil was once a dil. I want to be one such good mil in the future like Poongodi aunty.
என்னுடைய கணவர் அவருடைய அம்மாவுக்கு தான் முக்கியத்துவம் குடுப்பாங்க நா எதாவது சொன்னாலும் அவுங்களுக்கு எல்லாமே தெரியும் நீ எதுவுமே சொல்லாத உனக்கு அந்த பக்குவம் இல்ல அப்படினு சொல்லுவாங்க அவுங்க வெளிப்படையாவும் சொல்லுவாங்க எனக்கு அம்மா அப்பா தான் முக்கியம் அடுத்து தான் நீ என்று சொல்லுவார்
The left side of mother in law ( free mother in laws) are perfect for the current generation. Then only life will be happy, easy, affectionate and understanding
@@nandhithanuts9485 excuse me...what has happened to the responsibility and duties of men in a family...they also have to help in household duties...just because they are going to work doesn't mean they don't have to help in household duties...men also have to share housework...daughters in law also go to work...won't they be tired doing all the housework all by themselves?....besides going to work?...stop picking and picking on daughters in law...its just not fair....
@@nandhithanuts9485 I’m sorry, but where is the man in this situation? Why does the burden fall on the daughter-in-law to be a perfect caretaker/cook/maid/whatever? What role does the husband play? Are women the only ones burdened with responsibilities?
@@swathiniraju4731 yes Romba miss panren ☹️. Nalla mother in-law vum irupanga. Enga Amma kuda Ethavthu work panna solluvanga but en mamiyar Romba kind nalla pathupanga. Ethume kurai solla matanga😍
Worst mamiyaars ... Please don't get ur son married ... Keep it with u life long. Tell your daughter in law your family practices and cultures but please don't expect them to be a dippi copy of you .
At no point the men were expected to do some chores,fight is which woman should work,at least teach your son to clean the plates after eating, DIL or MIL mattum thaan sapta thattu kaluvanuma?
That strict green saree women - she just wanted a slave women and they way she says shows how cruel a women can be sometimes😞 she worked all her life but she doesn't want her daughter in law to work coz she has to work at home and she says thats the way it should be. What a double standard it is!
Glad to see a sensible mother in law. Proves formal education has nothing to do with how sensible a person is. Like my loving mil. Love her to bits. This emotional blackmail for son's attention is the very reason why people want to move into individual homes, however small that space might be. These women are the very reason their child's life will get frustrating and spoilt. Thankful for my mil who praises even a simple tea i make for her❤❤
Superb show. Gopi conducted it so well and participants did amazing contribution. I don't have mother in law but I got many take aways how love wins over control to use in my life.
@@sd-ud6iq thanks for the reply, absolutely agree. They are craving for attention and love. But sometimes the best thing is to love yourself so you attract love from the right people. That’s an ongoing work on self. 🌈♥️✨
Aiyoh indhe maari strict mamiyar kudhe eppadi thaa irukaange 😂 ennale mudiyaadhe pa samy.. athevum andhe aunty, you cook whatever you want but I won't eat. Idheve andhe DIL panna, you cook whatever you want but I buy groceries taniya and cook taniya. Did she accept it ? See your DIL as your own daughter. If cannot taniya anupi vechirunge... kasthem oh ennavo avenge go through pannikethom taniya. Your son is not a kid anymore. The moment he married a girl, he has his own responsibilities
Antha pacha saree kelavi pinnaadi okkaanthu iruntha antha kelavi laam covid la ticket vaangirukanum nu naan vaendikiren.. antha marumagalgalukku oru independence day maari irukkum athu..
21:03 அந்த அம்மா மருமகள் தேடல அதிகாரம் பண்ண ஆள் தேடுறாங்க மாமியார்( including my mamiyar )கூட வாழ்ந்து கஷ்டப்பட்ட யாரும் இந்த அம்மா மாதிரி பேச மாட்டாங்க 😢
Stop calling whatever you want to convey just tell directly may be she will notice n ask or will realise same happened to me. Na ethume koopidrathilla 10 yrs ayiduchu analum nalla pesarom pazhagarom
Even in friendly side they are not truly friendly. Adhigaram and feeling happiness and thimiru from adhigaram is fundamentally the old system and not friendly. Why you want to lrder around another woman ? Dont you remember how you felt ?
strict மாமியார்களே, உங்கள் மருமகள்கள் மட்டும் இல்ல, மகன்கள் கூட ரொம்ப பாவம்😢😢...உங்க attitude, family politics ல, BP எகிரி உங்களுக்கு முன்னாடியே போயிருவானுங்க.
World best liars, 1:17:40 , society ku act as a good person but inner heart worst worst behavior, same scenario and same year 2014 I face in my life , break my marriage life , enga ponnugaluku important illa , gold , money than important........eppo ethalam change agum ?
I don't understand one thing, how come these MIL's think that they hv to speak in anger, they hv to order, etc etc. Why do they think like that.? Is this why the parents of that daughter raised her with so that one day the princess to turn as unpaid maid? Won't they get hurt? None of them talked over this POV
Amma Amma Dhan.maamiyar maamiyar dhan. No one replace our mother.. I love my mom
Mrs.Poongadi should start a "mother-in-law training academy"!
mumble weed super pa! crctu!
9 th standard mom in law amazing... My kudos to you👏🏼👏🏼
Me and my mother in law very friendly for almost 15 years, but when there is an issue, she took her daughter's side and ditched her own son, my hubby very badly.. after 15 years living with her like my own mom in a joint family, i realised that mother in law can't be our mother at any point.. it's a myth.. till situation dint arise, they will behave good, but when there is a situation they will definitely become mamiyar.. infact they see their own son as daughter in law's husband.. and treat them differently compared to their daughter..
Exactly.their love for son decrease after marriage if he contradict their opinion.eppavum aamam Sami podanum prusugaluku
True words... Bring a daughter in law of a single mother (Hubby's mom) I feel humiliated each and every day at my own home...
U are absolutely rt... Even I was in joint fly for several yrs... And further i was nursing my mil mom... When i refused my sil tld it's ur karma... Though being educates unable to raise voice against these sister in law's...
Finally mil mom expired in 2019 and for her rituals my mil just like that spilled words as to serve for my mother only we got married to my son.... Fm there i to my charge to back fire her.. now after 3 yrs I am living peacefully..
Yes but there are some exceptional Mamiars who treat well .
Same here. She said nasama poiduvernga nu. After that, I lost many things. My second baby girl got expired at 2021 . she was prematured baby. Then my husband's open heart surgery, and lot of health issues happened to me. Still its paining a lot. Worst lady ever I have seen. I don't want to be with her at any cost
Why do you expect a daughter in law to be your official cook and an unpaid servant? Why would you then want to marry your son instead hire a maid/ cook!
Haha. Good Q
💯 correct
She has to pay them la. That's why..
Green sarry anuty..ayyayyyo..looks like devil lady! I pity her daughter in law
Exactly! Why do women even get married under these circumstances 😮
பச்சை சேரி மம்மிஸ் வெரி பேட் மம்மி🙄🙄🙄 எம் புள்ளை என் புள்ளைன்னு சொல்ற மம்மி அவங்க புள்ளையை அவங்க புள்ளையாவே வச்சிருந்திருக்கணும்... வேற பொண்ணை கல்யாணம் செய்து அந்த பொண்ணு வாழ்க்கையை பாழாக்க கூடாது
no she is correct
She is toxic mother. That's called toxic mother issue. Like santhos subramaniyam father.. this is female version. They will destroy their son's life
Antha kelavi ellaam covid la kelambirukanum nu naan vendikkiren 😂😂
@@manimegalaira2824 edhu correct ah
Super super enga veetlayum same speech en pillai😂😂😂
நிங்க சமைக்கிற மாதிரியே தான் மருமகள் சமைக்கனும் என்றால் கல்யாணமே பண்ணி வைக்காமல் நிங்களே சமைச்சு போடுங்கள்.
S correct 💯
True 😂
@@shakthimaanr2251 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
😂
Ha ha ha sabash sariyana potti 😂
9 th ல்
degree படித்த சகோதரி அருமையான பேச்சு எதார்த்தமானது சூப்பர்
Timing solunga
9th std Degree mamiyar literally superb. Hatts off ❤️😍
Poongodi, 9th le degree lady was my favourite. ❤️
This is the reason why dil's, don't like to live with their MIL's. When you think of controlling other people. It simply won't work. When are you all going to understand.
They never understand
All these people never teach their sons cookinv
They see their Dil as sakkalathi😡
இந்த ஜென்மத்தில் புரியப்போவதியல்லை. அடுத்த ஜென்மத்தில் கர்மா விழிக்கும் போது தானாகப் புரியும்
I love the 9th standard mother in law - such love, humility and so smart and importantly so funny! ❤😅 40:08 and 40:33
Oru amma thun karuthai soll mudiyamal kashta paduthuradhu thaan ungalukku pidichirukka
@@nandhithanuts9485aama athaan pidichurukku... Antha amma laam pesurathukku pesaamaye irukkalaam... Yebba.. ithu nadanthu oru 8 yrs irukkum.. antha marumagal ku inneram intha covid time la suthanthiram kedachurukkanum nu naan vendikkiren😂😂😂
Yes I too agree
Mee too 😁😁😁
Exactly my mother in law
Andha 9th degree mam& black saree mam avangaluku vara pora marumagal really Princess,queen ipadi enna ena words iruko yalladhaiyum sollalam (the point of view is very clear & this generation fact ku yatha mari irukuradhu dhn best) ❤ andha green sarry mam oda marumagala nenicha dhn pavama iruku 😢😢😢 andha marumagal evlo kasta patutu inneram anupavachitu irukum nu 😢😢😿😭
மாமியார்களே கற்றுக்கொடுங்கள்..
கற்றுக்கொள்வார்கள்..
மருமகள்கள் அதிகாரம்
தேவையில்லை..
அன்பு மட்டுமே..
இங்கே உங்கள் அன்பான ஆயுதம் ❤
Better keep all your sons as bachelors ever
Their's are not son at all. Better to keep their monkey tails at their xyz
Super
R u bachelor still now uncle
Neatness, discipline, good habits Amma veetla ponnu thaana appudinu solli kudukkaama vitrupaanga. Adha unga amma solli kudutha thappa. Husband first marranum enga Amma enna adichu irukaanga thitti irukaanga adhey Pola en wife oda ammavum. Endha pillayum appa Amma kitta thittu vaangama adi vaangaama valarndhadhu illa. Unga wife oo Amma vo sonna problem ennanu kelunga adhu rightna sollunga do the right it on time. Nenga pudichuttu valikkudhu thanninu nee sollum podhu marandhutten, illatti meduva vandhittu irundha accept pannuveengala. Ammavum ponnu thaan wifeum ponnu thaan. Amma kashtapadum podhu theriyala, wife free ya irukkanum jolly AA irukkanum. Idhenna niyayam. Tharaasil sammamaga alakka vittaal vitiruveengala kadaikaranai. Nerngalum unga veetil uravugalai tharaasil sama mmaaga niruthi paarungal. Veetil nimmadhi santhosam, amaithi, iraivan arul irukkum.
Correct😂🙌🏻
மருமகள் மாமியார் வீட்டிற்கு வந்திருக்கிறார் கிட்டத்தட்ட அவள் விருந்தினர் போல தான் சோ குறைந்தபட்சம் ஆரம்பத்திலாவது அவள் விருப்பத்திற்கு அவள் ருசிக்கேற்ப உணவுகளை நாம் தரவேண்டும் அதை விட்டுவிட்டு எங்க சௌகரியத்துக்கு எங்கள் டேஸ்ட் கேட்டபடி சமையல் என்று ஆர்டர் செய்வது சமையற்காரயை நீங்கள் கொண்டு வரவில்லையே.....
பெண் திருமணம் ஆகி கணவர் வீட்டுக்கு வந்தாசுன்னா கணவர் வீட்டுக்கு சுவையில் தான் சமைக்க வேண்டும் எல்லாருக்கும் அப்படியே பழகிட்டாங்க ok அந்த பொண்ணு அவ வீட்டு சுவையில் சாப்பிட்டு பழகிருப்பாலே அப்படின்னு யாராவது யோசிச்சிங்கலாம்மா அவ ஸ்டேஸ்ட்ல சமைக்கட்டும் அந்த ஸ்டேஸ்ட் புடிச்சா அப்படியே சாப்பிடுவோமே ஒரு வாய்ப்பு கொடுப்போம் என்று சிந்தனை யாருக்கும் வரல முழுக்க முழுக்க சுயநலம் படைத்தவர்களாக இருக்கிறார்கள் அந்த பெண்னுக்கு வாய்ப்பு கொடுதோமாணால் அவல் சமைத்து உங்களுக்கு பிடிக்கவில்லை என்றால் அவளே சரி அவர்களுக்கு நமது ஸ்டேஸ்ட் பிடிக்கல so நாம அவங்க ஸ்டேஸ்ட்க்கு சமைக்க பழகுவோம்ன்னு அருமையான முறையில் பழகுவாங்கமா பயப்படாதீங்க நீங்களும் மருமகளாகி இப்போது மாமியாராகிருக்கீங்க so பொறுமை
Romba correct aa sonnenga 👍
Left side Brown saree super mamiyar.. 😍😍😍 & nan patta kastam en marumagal padakudathu super statement for better life..
Right side blue saree romba over namba than ellam nu Stone hearted person.
Watching after 9 years.. 21/7/23... 😂😂😂
😅😅 yes
31/10/2023 😂😂😂
Nanum eppothan paakkaran😂
31/11/23
Im also 😁😁30.11.23
வேலைக்கு போன மாமியாரே அவர்களை விட அதிகம் படித்த பெண்ணை வேலைக்கு போக அனுமதிக்கவில்லை என்பது தவறு.
@@balasubramanianparamasivam3851 moodu ni
Exactly. You are right ms. Shanti
No.. it's happening
1:00:32 this lady is veryyyyyyyyyyy irritating. Then why did you get him married to a girl 😡😡😡😡
She is irritating and she is also pathetic 😞
Yeppa! The price young women pay for marrying sons of such ladies . Dowry, MIL competing , trashing, being bossed around by in-laws, in-laws bringing frictions into married life, damaged self-worth, lack of appreciation for all the menial labour done, mainly such cheap Politics that suckle peace away, someone else dictating the ways of our lives ….all these for love from husband.
No wonder divorce rates are up & live-in relationships are chiming in. Both men & women are losing faith in the institution of marriage.
Why can’t married couple be a separate branch of the same tree & function independently understanding each other’s needs & derths?
Also noticed how they address their sons as “en pillai”, “kolandhai” they never expressed a dot of love for DILs?
Green sorry over
Strict mother in laws all are thinking that daughter in law is just a unpaid maid..... It is really showing in their speech and attitude at few mins of show itself...... They all are just expecting to share work that's ok..... But how they can think that a girl is coming to listen to all my words??? Are daughter in laws slaves for you? To listen to all of your words and mood their head and keep quite?
They will all suffer when they become old , their dil will do it back to them at that time. Instead if they are friends naturally the dil will take good care of them. What we give is what we get.
ஆயிரம் இருந்தாலும் தாய் இடத்தில் யாரும் கிடையாது கிடையாது மாமியார் பெருமைக்கு ஊர் மெக்சிக்கோ கூறலாம் அதுபோல் மகள் இடத்தில் யாரும் கிடையாது கிடையாது பெருமைக்கு கூறலாம் சூரியன் கூட மேற்கே உதிக்கும் இந்த உறவுகள் மாறவே மாறாது 😁😁😁😁😁🙏
But in my case my MIL is way better than my own mom 😢- I have nice MIL like people are sitting in the left side ❤
@@rojiramgallery2354lp
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@@suganyamuthu7057 sathiyam TV Mukhtar Ahmed speech
Intha kandipana maamiyar munja parthale vanthi varuthu 😂😂😂😂
😂
Exactly which mamiyar😂😂😂😂😂
The good maamiyar face all bright n happy. The bad maamiyar face all like serial villi maamiyar
மாமியார் ஜம்பம் லாம் பேசிட்டு இருந்தால் சுலபமாக பெண்கள் வாங்க தனி குடும்பம்பாக செல்லலாம்னு போய்டே இருப்பாங்க.
9th padithirundhalum, nasukka nadandhukara Pakuvam irruku, super
Do all these mother-in-laws' own children follow their rules? If not, then how can they expect other people's children to listen to them?
Why there is no role for husband. Are women born only to serve.
Yes
@@GokulHardy7 who said so
@@GokulHardy7 thimiru. Ponungaloda sabatha vanity nalla iruka mudiyadhu
@@GokulHardy7 en saapadu potu sapida theriyatha? Kaluva theriyuma? Illa adhayum un wife than pani vidanuma?
Yennoda mamiyar kannula padura varaikkum share pannunga....
Simply waste , husband dhan purinjikanum wife a apo dhan happy life long life vazhalam
Same
Mil never change...she is too arrogant
Intha episode tv potu parunga ellarum okanthu
Cruel mils are ignorant believing that their sons are loving and obedient..the sons are just acting to be so..
100% true
Ivalavu pesum mamiyargal, thangal pilagalai idhai soli koduthu valarthargala😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
35.15 to 36.06 I like this mamiyar mentality... genuine ly think Dil side...9th standard mamiyar superooo super🙂🙂🙂
9th std mamiyar knew how to handle the whole fly... Even my mil was a teacher... She expects the same fm me too like her scl.. students...
She has an attitude as educated PPL know more than the uneducated..
Padipu வேற பண்பு வேற
@@sudhayogesh4885soopera soninga ponga ...unmaya
எட்டு வருடங்கள் போகட்டும்.இப்பொழுது எப்படி உள்ளார்கள் 😂😂😂😂😂🙏
8 yr ago nadantha program.....
Comment full recent
Naanum athathan nenachan pa😲
They recently uploaded the video I guess
நானும் இப்பதான் பார்த்தேன்
Sme. Me
Nanum now only watching
Actually there are many genuine mil out there ❤❤❤
The difference between the two groups is a little humility. Yaarum first naale perfect dil ah iruka maatanga. And every mil was once a dil. I want to be one such good mil in the future like Poongodi aunty.
என்னுடைய கணவர் அவருடைய அம்மாவுக்கு தான் முக்கியத்துவம் குடுப்பாங்க நா எதாவது சொன்னாலும் அவுங்களுக்கு எல்லாமே தெரியும் நீ எதுவுமே சொல்லாத உனக்கு அந்த பக்குவம் இல்ல அப்படினு சொல்லுவாங்க அவுங்க வெளிப்படையாவும் சொல்லுவாங்க எனக்கு அம்மா அப்பா தான் முக்கியம் அடுத்து தான் நீ என்று சொல்லுவார்
The left side of mother in law ( free mother in laws) are perfect for the current generation. Then only life will be happy, easy, affectionate and understanding
@@nandhithanuts9485 are all men responsible and good without any affair ??
@@Neon-dq8sd exactly ...well said sis....how come she's generalising all daughters in law this way...nonsense
@@nandhithanuts9485 excuse me...what has happened to the responsibility and duties of men in a family...they also have to help in household duties...just because they are going to work doesn't mean they don't have to help in household duties...men also have to share housework...daughters in law also go to work...won't they be tired doing all the housework all by themselves?....besides going to work?...stop picking and picking on daughters in law...its just not fair....
@@nandhithanuts9485 I’m sorry, but where is the man in this situation? Why does the burden fall on the daughter-in-law to be a perfect caretaker/cook/maid/whatever? What role does the husband play?
Are women the only ones burdened with responsibilities?
@@aparna2701 exactly sis...her replies in the comments section are really weird
Watching After 8 years from USA😍.. மாமியாரை ரொம்ப மிஸ் பண்றேன்
Unmaiyave miss pamriya😂
Thaniya irukarathula miss pandringa. Kudave iruntha kandipa miss panna matinga 🙂
@@swathiniraju4731 yes Romba miss panren ☹️. Nalla mother in-law vum irupanga. Enga Amma kuda Ethavthu work panna solluvanga but en mamiyar Romba kind nalla pathupanga. Ethume kurai solla matanga😍
@@keesworld1 apadina miss pandrathu thappu illa..🤝🤝🤝
@@rajeswarisedhu2990 😍😍
Ninth Degree Mam super. lovely 🌹
Inneram strict ana neenga ellam dummy piece ayirupinga😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Worst mamiyaars ... Please don't get ur son married ... Keep it with u life long. Tell your daughter in law your family practices and cultures but please don't expect them to be a dippi copy of you .
Exactly 💯
எனக்கு தோழமை மாமியார் பிடிச்சிருக்கு missing anuty to mee cute
At no point the men were expected to do some chores,fight is which woman should work,at least teach your son to clean the plates after eating, DIL or MIL mattum thaan sapta thattu kaluvanuma?
Green sari kannadi pota mamiyar original 🐍
A lady's divine form is mother
A lady's devil form is mamiyar
the most sadistic form of a lady is daughter in law.
Sadist means feeling happy for others sadness. I think u used wrongly
😂😂
@@unicorn111 daughter in law feels happy when mother in law is really sad . I am well aware of the meaning of the word sadistic.
That strict green saree women - she just wanted a slave women and they way she says shows how cruel a women can be sometimes😞 she worked all her life but she doesn't want her daughter in law to work coz she has to work at home and she says thats the way it should be. What a double standard it is!
Glad to see a sensible mother in law. Proves formal education has nothing to do with how sensible a person is. Like my loving mil. Love her to bits. This emotional blackmail for son's attention is the very reason why people want to move into individual homes, however small that space might be. These women are the very reason their child's life will get frustrating and spoilt. Thankful for my mil who praises even a simple tea i make for her❤❤
The black saree and the pink saree(9th degree) is super they are the best mil
I also like both characters
Best psychology
Marriage system ye romba bayangrama eruku
Love side mother in law is really super. Love you aunty.
Green saree with meroon blouse aunty unga marumaga romba pavam
This green sari lady is doing nattamai..then don't get married to your son keep it in your mundhanai
Marumagal also antha maari mamiyarku yetha maari than amayum i have seen in real life ...😂😂 marumagalum satharana alaa irkathu..
அன்பிலே கண்டிப்பாக கூறலாம்.அதிகாரத்தோட கூறினால் கண்டிப்பாக இந்த காலத்துப் பெண்கள் கேட்பார்கள்.இது ஒரு மறுமகளாகவும் , மாமியாராகவும்...
Green saree and multi color saree such very worst mils
Superb show. Gopi conducted it so well and participants did amazing contribution. I don't have mother in law but I got many take aways how love wins over control to use in my life.
Episode and season Solunga please
If Grip is expected then please marry your own son
It's really pathetic when men and these women say 'ivanuku innoru amma va irukanum'.. apo neeye kattiko.
Endha kodumaikara maamiyargaluku penpillai pirakkalaiya🤔Neenga unga marumagala Enna panringalooo Ungal penpillaiyai Aval mamiyar kottuval...😁🤣purunju nadandhukonga maamiyargaly🤣
Ada ponga☹️ivanga daughters ivangala mathri Alli ranigal.they control their mil n husband
Evanga ellam ethuku vitu vela pathi ah pesuranga athuku pesama evanga payan ku ellam kalyanam panama oru maid ah kuptu vechikalam
Narcissists vs nomal people 🥴🥴 pombalaingala ithunga pisasunga
Sad to see the strict MIL especially when they say how to be first in their sons place. 😞.
Because they don’t have their own life. 😢
Women who have understanding partner (mamanar)will not compete with dil for son love
@@sd-ud6iq thanks for the reply, absolutely agree. They are craving for attention and love. But sometimes the best thing is to love yourself so you attract love from the right people. That’s an ongoing work on self. 🌈♥️✨
Its not carving for love but their insecurity that daughter in law might throw them in old age homes.
True. Pathetic they are.. that green saree lady needs therapy.
Ella oru periya doubt. Evanga payanga ellarum handicappeda enna? Plate wash panna mudiyath, Matra poda teriyath. Ethellam avan pannatath prachana illey ana marumakal panni kudukatath prachanaya 🤦
Wt an episode ❤❤❤ in love with ponkondi mamiyar❤❤❤
Epothume amma amma than. Mamiyar Thani... No one replacement for MOTHER ❤
I LOVE 9th Standard mamiyar❤🥰
23 Vayasula unkaluku makan illaya iruntha pakkamale wedding pannika naan Ready🥰🥰😄😄
I am from SRILANKA💕
Seeing this in end of 2023 ,still ppl are like this,but wondering abt those who spoke supportive for daughter in law
Why they should call. young couple going out means not to interfere
Entha kalathula inthe mari epudi work pannanumnu pasangalukum solli kudunga plz romba kastama iruku kolanthaingala pathuto veeto Vela seiya help panrathuku solli kudunga enaku oru paiya iruka avana apuditha valaka pora
Aiyoh indhe maari strict mamiyar kudhe eppadi thaa irukaange 😂 ennale mudiyaadhe pa samy.. athevum andhe aunty, you cook whatever you want but I won't eat. Idheve andhe DIL panna, you cook whatever you want but I buy groceries taniya and cook taniya. Did she accept it ? See your DIL as your own daughter. If cannot taniya anupi vechirunge... kasthem oh ennavo avenge go through pannikethom taniya. Your son is not a kid anymore. The moment he married a girl, he has his own responsibilities
Antha pacha saree kelavi pinnaadi okkaanthu iruntha antha kelavi laam covid la ticket vaangirukanum nu naan vaendikiren.. antha marumagalgalukku oru independence day maari irukkum athu..
அம்மா அம்மா தான்.மாமியர் அம்மா ஆக முடியாது
21:03 அந்த அம்மா மருமகள் தேடல அதிகாரம் பண்ண ஆள் தேடுறாங்க மாமியார்( including my mamiyar )கூட வாழ்ந்து கஷ்டப்பட்ட யாரும் இந்த அம்மா மாதிரி பேச மாட்டாங்க 😢
Wow in this show everyone talking sooo good..not like loose talks like youngsters more matured women here
Anbaala mattum thaan saathikka mudiyum....athigaaraththaal alla
Na love marriage. Theriyama amma nu kuptuten. Yepdi maathikardhunu therla. Break pana dhairiyam vara matudhu!!
Stop calling whatever you want to convey just tell directly may be she will notice n ask or will realise same happened to me. Na ethume koopidrathilla 10 yrs ayiduchu analum nalla pesarom pazhagarom
@@Tharasuman969 Thanks for the tip. Will try.
The lady with green saree with spectacles is very very selfish.In future the mil will going to face problems. Why this selfishness.
She will definitely get paid for her deeds.She is the cheapest ever creature
She should be military officer. Seriously such a irritating arrogant lady.
Ennoda mamiyar ipdi Ile pa avanga bangalore avanga samayal vere mathiri irukum, Na Mysore la irunthe but enaku Mysore samayal theriyum ana nanga athigama coimbatore samayal tha sapduvom athuku Apram chennai poitu anga neraya kathukute, athuku Apram bangalore pone enaku veetla enna irukom athuku etha mathiri samayal pannuve avanga ethuvume sollamatanga avanga virumbi sapduvanga ellarkum pidikum except En husband father but athu enaku prachane Ile 5members irukura veetla only one personku pidikalena namma enna seyya mudiyum, avanga ellarum non veg sapduvanga ana Na veg avanga non veg samayal panrathuku munnadi enaku veg senji kuduthuruvanga, Ilena nane enaku samayal pannipe that's all 👍
Truth from heart.
35:00 intha maamiyaar mathiri iruntha nalla irukum❤❤... practical ah crct ah pesuranga
என்னால ஒரு முடிவுக்கு வர முடியல
😅
Boy valadha mathri thaana girl valakurom.......
அருமை . economically is thousand time correct
In Balinese culture they have separate kitchen.
Bestuuu 😂😂😂😂
Which episode
9th std aunty z the real friendly mamiyar hats off to u❤
Timing enna solunga plz
I pity that lady’s daughter in law such a control freak
My mother in law is different 1st Marumagalukku mattum Friendly balance 3 Marumagalukkum very strict mamiyar😭😭😭😭😭
ayyo inji poondu aunty danger 🫣
Sprr topic sir😊
9th padicha degree holder 😀😁😁😁
Even in friendly side they are not truly friendly. Adhigaram and feeling happiness and thimiru from adhigaram is fundamentally the old system and not friendly. Why you want to lrder around another woman ? Dont you remember how you felt ?
strict மாமியார்களே, உங்கள் மருமகள்கள் மட்டும் இல்ல, மகன்கள் கூட ரொம்ப பாவம்😢😢...உங்க attitude, family politics ல, BP எகிரி உங்களுக்கு முன்னாடியே போயிருவானுங்க.
Enaku yen mamiyar kudutha stress la bp vanthuruchi
😂😂😂😅
World best liars, 1:17:40 , society ku act as a good person but inner heart worst worst behavior, same scenario and same year 2014 I face in my life , break my marriage life , enga ponnugaluku important illa , gold , money than important........eppo ethalam change agum ?
What happened mam
@@user-zw1im3qe2e past is past, respect the good girls, don't over judge the people live happy life
Poongodi Mdm...i love you....I really wish you were my Mother in law....i will be worshiping you every day 💕❤️💕❤️
கண்டிப்பாக நீங்களும் என் அன்பு மருமகள் தான் செல்லம்
1.09 very nice grand ma .i miss my
Grand ma
Maamiyar kodumaila kashta pattu 10 years irundhu mana ulaichalukku aalaagi kozandhai baagiyam innum edhirpaathuttu iruken.Marumagala kashta paduthadhinga please
I don't understand one thing, how come these MIL's think that they hv to speak in anger, they hv to order, etc etc. Why do they think like that.? Is this why the parents of that daughter raised her with so that one day the princess to turn as unpaid maid? Won't they get hurt? None of them talked over this POV