Guests: Super Junior-Yesung, Shindong, Eunhyuk, Donghae[Hello Counselor/SUB : ENG,THA / 2018.01.29]
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Guests - Yesung, Shindong, Eunhyuk, Donghae from Super Junior
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Yesung: have you ever had a girlfriend?
him: of course
Yesung: an online avatar?
me: THE FIRST TIME you open your mouth and already being savage (I LOVE HIM LOL)
May May when did he say that?
@@btsstoopids6075 20:10
@Shafiqa Hussaini bruv
SAME 😊💜💜🥺🥺
Yesung is amazing. I'm lil sad cause he doesn't talk that much at shows
@@nc9701stb what he does is only laughing at all
The third concern was so sad like the boy is so sweet and he needs therapy because he clearly has anxiety. His family situation clearly is caused by his parental situation..
Yusra M The situation forced him to grow up more than other kids at his age. At least, he tried his best for his parents for coming on the show. It's not easy to tell the whole world about his family's problem especially at young age 😔😔
konnichiwa same ! When the mc was reading his concern I was thinking that the kid is so mature for his age !
I totally agree with you bestieb
The boy : Don't look at me
*Eunhyuk look at his face the entire time😂*
Eunhyuk seemed to be so fond of that kid, he kept patting him and even hugged him when he cried! I would have done the same though, it was sad to see him struggle because of his parents.
Ikr.... Yet there's comment here sayin' Hyukk disrespected the kid--- aigooo
The last concern is probably one of the most horrific concerns I've ever seen on this show. That poor child has an alcoholic father and a constantly busy nurse mom. He's at home by himself until 10 pm after school. He must be incredibly lonely and feel really neglected to have his self-confidence affected that much. It's really sad to see such a sweet boy not even be able to meet others in the eye. The fact that he doesn't have significant pleasant memories of his parents for the past 15 years is just heartbreaking. I really wish his father would stop drinking and his mother would have more heartfelt conversations with him.
Kpopaddict444 I agree completely with you it broke my heart 😭💔
Hopefully they will finally learn from this because this was honestly the most heartbreaking concern 💔 a young boy should not have to go through something like this. It really made me cry just listening to his story 😞
and whats great with the boy is that he still have a nice attitude despite of all the negative environment he grew in. others was given good life with good family even turned out ungrateful yet the boy looked so good natured. i hope he wouldnt take the negativity in and continue walking in a straight path.
Kpopaddict444 i hope the family in the last concern will start to do their promises and will continue living a happy life..i feel all of their concerns...even his dad.
Fairuz Syifa which episode??
Donghae would give anything just to talk to his dad or have his dad see him perform once. That last concern probably hit him close
MusicMaster 😭😭😭
Nawww why do you have to remind me againnn😭😭😭😭😭
I can't bear to watch that part :/
MusicMaster did he not closed to his dad?
madgurl59 he is super close to his dad but unfortunately he died in early suju debut days
My heart ached everytime I saw Donghae with his head down during the last concern...
I hope that family is trying to sort things out.
For me as well....
Why Is his head down???
Deepali Taneja Donghae’s dad passed away few months after his debut. He was so close to his dad and he became a singer because it was his dad’s dream to become one. So he must felt sorry for the little boy to have this kind of relationship with his dad
tomah alq how sweet of him
Eunhyuk's behavior towards the fanboy just cemented my love for him. He's been my fave member since the start and I'm sticking with him till the end. 💜
The Jeongwu boy is the absolute sweetest he deserves the world oh my i just wanna give him a hug
Katelet ME TOOoOOOOoOoo
HE'S ADORABLE I AGREE
i wanna hug him
@@yeonjunpee3471 omg found roha
How Eunhyuk Cared For the Boy at the end warmed My Heart :)
Is it just me or does Yesung remind people of a manga character or something, I think he's good looking regardless of what he thinks 😂
He does look like one😍
He kinda look like kaji yuki voice actress of eren on snk
Maybe I'm just projecting but I 100% think the boy burst into tears because he got patted in the head and also comforted by Eunhyuk. When you've gone your life not getting love from the people who are there and should love you, getting that small comfort can feel overwhelming. In a good way.
I think he burst into tears because tbh I bet this isn't the first time the mom/dad made promises to be better and this boy has been disappointed over and over again. The dad is an abusive alcoholic. Promises don't mean anything to alcoholics.
can we talk about that last concern tho? that poor kid can’t even remember a good memory of his dad... like the parents need to sacrifice for the kid, he clearly has suffered so much damage emotionally from them
What's there to talk about? The only people that can fix this are him and his parents
She doesn't mean literally "can we talk about" lol. It's just a figure of speech to draw attention to that segment.
I feel like the mom is also a victim and is already sacrificing a lot for her kids.
She doesn't get any rest and does everything in the house by herself while working 3 shifts as a nurse because she can't rely on her addicted husband.
The mom and the kids deserve so much better.
Eunhyuk looking at the boy in the third concern like he wants to hug him and take him home is literally me. Poor boy, I know it's not easy living that way :(
Jinwoah yeah he was like hyung to the little boy
That was so sweet 😍
Anette Sanchez v
Dong hae doesnt talk much here. but when he talk its so wise and genuine toward the guests
Nurwantini Wiyono it's donghae personality that's why I love
The second guy sending Suju’s mvs to his friends for streams and buying their albums... he’s doing God’s work
I may not be a fan of Super Junior but they always make me laugh so much.
About the second concern I don't see any wrong in loving your favorite group and it will not make you gay just because of that. Many females likes girl groups but that doesn't make them lesbians, so the same goes for male fans admiring male idol groups.
It is not that he likes a male group, but that he sends things to his friends abt the group even if they don't like them, and he cancels outings with his friends and such to go to the concerts. I think that is the problem. I mean, I would also think he could be gay by the way he acts and how they describe him. I would think a woman is lesbian if she acted and was described the same way. So the real problem is just that he is overdoing it, acting feminine and such is just smth that makes the friends and maybe the people around him uncomfortable, but not a crucial thing in this concern.
Diana Acting feminine doesn’t automatically makes him gay, yes he should stop sending all the time text about the group to his friends but his feminine gestures is just because he’s like that.
I know girls that aren’t that feminine and they aren’t les or bi or whatever
It's Korea not America... Korea has not evolved in that regard yet
Diana are you dumb just because he acts feminine or like a crazy fan dienst mean he's gay.
Diana all fans are like that 🙄
IT IS NOT WRONG FOR A GUY TO SUPPORT AND LOVE A MALE OR FEMALE KPOP GROUP.
IT IS NOT WRONG TO BE A FANBOY.
Just keep on doing whatever makes you happy because at the end of the day, YOUR HAPPINESS MATTERS. 💖
P.S. i love suju
jah hink I KNOW RIGHT!! NOTHING IS WRONG WITH FANBOYING AS LONG AS IT IS NOT TOO MUCH.
Also its not wrong to be gay. smh
There are a lot of K-pop fanboys 😑😑 so, there's nothing wrong about it
I agree!! They are like the cutest!! They bring my spirits up with their loud sincere cheers. They are so lovely!! I think they play a very important role in a fanclub. 😊
jah hink same like ppl are mean af i talk about sunmi and blackpink to my friend and have a picture of them put them as my wallpaper on my laptop but im a girl so it doesnt make u gay
I feel so sad for the guy in the first concern, he's trying so hard to keep their friendship but the friend isn't even bothered with him. how painful is it to hear your friend say spending time with you is a waste of time...
the friend who cut him off 6 years ago did well, i hope the guy with the concern does that as well, he can't keep that friendship alive on his own, it must be tiring for him
And the counselors were just going out of context, it’s just annoying, instead of them to advise the guy to see a psychologist
@@ayanfescorner1569 the gamer guy needed a psychologist, nutritionist, and see a lot more of experts. Like, he was super unhealthy, how can they say it wasn't a concern?!?!?!?!
And I was so sad for the friend when the gamer was able to go to a online friends funeral and wedding
But couldnt go to his own friends brothers wedding . I'd be pissedd
@@ayanfescorner1569 I remember someone said that they will meet real psychiatrist/psychologist backstage. (sorry for 7 months late 😂) But indeed I really feel sorry for his friend :(
I think it’s the best for him to stop being in his definition of a friend and in mine too that he’s not really your friend just someone who check every once in a while with no really concern if he is doing good.
The last concern broke my heart, since it feels like it's me sitting in his place (and I can imagine that many others relate as well). I completely understand why he asked for them to not look at him, and I know the hosts were just joking, but in the beginning when they all looked at him on purpose he must have felt very uncomfortable. When you've reached that point of having your confidence completely shattered, it cam be very difficult to do something as simple as making eye contact.
Cosmic LOOΠΔ totally agree with you
I agree
Absolutely! I could sense the lack of confidence he had in himself as well as feel his nerves. I really wanted to give him a big hug and just let him know that everything was going to be okay, no matter what. I hope that all is well with him and his family ♥
I agree, I wanted to help him and confort him
edited: I've experienced it before I was young and whenever my parents fought I always go into my brothers room to cry and he'll try to confort me. P.S my parents doesn't drink
Yeah i agree with you, I just hope and pray that kid can live more confidently and be able to hang out with everyone.
Eunhyuk caring for jeongwu just melts my heart. The way he tries to make him feel better, eunhyuk is seriously such a nice person
Eunhyuk oppa is not ugly he is very beautiful and talented ❤❤❤
Yes♡eunhyuk oppa is very handsome😍l love super junior^^♡
i cant even take my eyes off him. He’s so gorgeous.
Haha are u the guy in the concern? I agree
Does anyone else thinks it's dumb that the guy who spent 3 months at a PC bang (without showering or changing his underwear!) before going to the army was thought of as less of a concern than the guy who likes Super Junior? I think that's a little ridiculous!
airbear320 I also think it's ridiculous. There's no one who condemned him for his actions. How I wish Taejoon was there to put some sense into that guy. I think the emcees downplayed the concern, which is saddening. If I have a friend like who admitted that he doesn't care about me, that would be so sad. :(
It depends on your point of view I guess ? I think that the pc game guy is insane, but he doesn't seem to care about others this concern affects more his friends than him for the moment. And that's a concern on its own... But his mental is not really affected.
But I can see why the fanboy feels bad. Ppl don't say anything about fangirls (whether they like boygroups or girlgroups) but because he is a guy he is mocked and stuff. Maybe it's a bit extreme but he should be able to like whatever he wants. From the outside we can see that it is not much of a concern but think at how he is feeling when ppl tell him he is a psycho etc...
PS : sorry for my english I don't even know it all make sense :c
I think the second concern is a bit too subjective as to whether or not you vote on it as a concern. For instance, "I voted it as a concern because I think he's being judged unfairly", or "I voted it as not a concern because there's nothing wrong with what hes doing." On the first issue though, you could vote it as "I'm voting this as not a concern because this guy is human trash and his friend should just throw him away".
Me too, I felt angry and saddened in the fact that it doesnt seemed alerting to them. That gamer even affects his emotions. He will certainly understand it until he cant play games anymore and will need a helping hand from a real life friends. Shin Dongyup just turned everything into a nonsense concern even though that guy badly needs a psychologist.
True! I thought exactly the same. How ridiculous.
The male fan went there with his own concern. His friends complained but it seems Super Junior were impressed instead by the fan's efforts and were seemed slightly affronted when his efforts were criticised.
I understand that forcing your own interests on your friends is not nice but seems like they were complaining in front of the wrong people lol
Sort of.. i personally think that the concern was his friends calling him gay, laughing at his interests because he liked a boy group. If he had liked a girlgroup they would be fine with it. The concern was that a guy cant be a fan of another guy unless he's gay. His concern was the kind of toxic thinking korean society has towards guys liking male groups. He wanted to let people know he likes SuJu and to not bother him for his interests. As for him trying to get his friends into SuJu... that might be a little extreme.
Super Junior as artists realised that though many people loved and adored them.. there's still a need for open-minded ness in the society for a man to like them. It might have hurt them to know that there were people who still were embarassed to openly admit that they liked a boy group. So, yes. They werent the right people to be complaining to, but they surely did help in making the guy feel a lot better about liking thwm.. Im sorry for the long comment but i thought i shouls just put this out there..
i am a huge kpop fan and some of my friends know but i donàt force them into this world .. they have they interest and i have mine so yeah...
@@swathinayak2859 you are right
@@swathinayak2859 Agree with you. I think his friends shy cause their friend like male idols. And then I don't understand why he might gay while he likes male idols. And then I understand when he sent photos and music videos of SJ. May be His friends think it's right when they sent or get photos and music videos of girl idols to each other. And then personally think his friends not good friends. They thought shame on him cause on his like and behaviours. They thought their friend might be gay because he like male idols and he does soft behaviours and he covers whenever he laughs. So when we might think like they did, most of guys might be gays who like rockers and hip hop. I thought personally, they are narrow minded person who thought the man like the me idols might be gays. I don't understand who built this rule.
It’s so weird that in Korea if a guy like male idols, they find it disgusting. Don’t girls too are crazy for girls idols. In fact, it’s more guys who attend boy band’s concert in my country. Why in kpop it is presumed that boy bands have only fangirls while girl groups have fanboys. Somehow industry is at fault too, they only pick pretty boys nowadays, plastic surgery is also so prevalent. I m sure many guys likes make idols music but they r ashamed to admit it too their friends because industry has more of established that the male idols they churn out are for girls. Let it be just a group of talents. Why mold it to fanservice a particular gender. It creates more wedge and makes it more prejudiced towards fanboys of boy bands. Let artists stay as themselves and let people love them as who they are.
In Bollywood, SRK has a huge fan following and I m sure half of them are boys. FYI he is known as King of Romance. By society prejudices, his fans should be mostly girls. But I have seen so many guys crazy over him, they even have watch few movies of him more than 50 times in cinemas. Way more than me.i m too huge fan of him. And they proudly brag for it.
I know there are differences in both situations. Idols usually debut in teen age and their fans are teenagers. A little immaturity and concern of being mocked by friends is there. Still I feel industry can play a huge role in that. They can make it pretty normal if they first accept that their groups can have both female and male fans. And cater to both gender’s wishes or let just idols be themselves. For girls groups,I see it’s pretty normal though, better than boy bands. Like Twice has almost same amount of fans in both genders. Why more issue with male idols? I wonder if reason is more deep rooted in our mindset esp male community. Girls are usually pretty chill if their friend like gg, some would even happily join them. Urggg so many thoughts right now. I can’t find root for all this. Sorry for all this big rant. There r so many issues with it that I can’t pinpoint problem at one and I might be not clear in my comment.
omg the last kid made me bawl out into tears. i cried so hard when he did in the end. he deserves so much more. he only need love and affection.
when Donghae asked ‘when was the last time he had fun w his dad’ is so heartbreaking.. ELF will understand 😢
What happened?
Judy Park his father dead before they debut.. or right after debut. i forgot...
do_nut I think it's a year after his debut
heechul got in the accident after returning from his funeral
i dont think it was even a full year after debut. maybe like 8 months. he never got to say goodbye to his dad when he passed away and donghae had left his family at 13 to be a trainee... so yeah, heartbreaking :< the anniversary of the last time hae saw his dad alive actually just passed. oct 8.
1:17:04 Btw, I love how Eunhyuk always patted (w/a slight massage lol) and comforted the boy in the third concern. He even gave him a hug (which the boy deserves). 🥺💙
the gamer addict concern pisses me off. it’s sad that people were trying to help but he just dismissed them. it’s already amazing the boys stayed by his side. i hope he can change his habit or else i’m pretty sure they’re gonna split ways
Or he could die.
ikr
the way hyukjae hugs the little boy right away💙 this is why he is so precious and needs all the love in this world💙💙💙💙💙
ks96119 i kept repeating this scene!
hehehe💙
I can see that Eunhyuk is constantly patting and comforting the boy. It's very nice that he is there despite that the boy couldn't look up. I hope the boy will be happy and that his parents will change for the better. Super junior is amazing. They were the one band that got me into Kpop. Although I'm more into CPop now, I'm so happy to watch them on this show.
P.S. the fanboy had accomplished more than me LOL
please recommend me a good C-Pop group
Yes if someone has great CPop groups to recommend I would love to know!
if y’all want to stan cpop please stan nine percent, nex7, oner, awaken-f, and mr-x 😭💗
When the boy cried, Shindong was mopping up tears too. I grew up watching my parents fight all the time too and it is true, their fights remain a shadow on one’s childhood. I’m thankful this boy was brave enough to seek help for his parents and I pray that his parents will truly find a way to learn to love and respect each other again.
But he also couldn't help but stare at him the whole time...
The way Eunhyuk hugged that kid when he was crying 😍
That SuJu fan dude is just like me, Heechul was my first ultimate bias and then it changed to Hyukjae during Bonamana era 😂😂
Till now, Hyukjae is still my babe 😜💙
blue heart my first bae from suju was eunhyuk then I became donghae fan and now I am D&E fan and eunhae shipper 😍
Same
You like wang he di
@@sakurakou2009 8
😂😂😂omg sameeee. Heechul was my favorite then i saw eunhyuk dance. It's the anchovy now😂
Let's just stop for a moment and appriciate Eunhyuk's looks. He is so effin handsome these days omg... :O
Zsuzsi Sz. using too....it is like they are getting gorgeouser
He has always been so handsome tho
Agree. He's always handsome for me❤
I like eunhyuk eyes. :)because everytime he smiles his eyes smiles too
When EH smiles, you see his heart. He is a good lad. The SUJU guys all are awesome guys, just cray cray. :) So proud I stan the right group :)
laughing so hard at the part the guy saying "its aggravating and frustrating" and shindong was like "ITS AGGRAVATING???!!" 😂😂😂
Ship everyone I cried and laughed so hard at that remark. I even replayed several times. Good times.
Ship everyone wheñ?
Hyukjae keeps getting more handsome!
“With an online avatar” yesung sweetie the savageness
Eunhyuk is the life of this episode ❤
Rn Shakya when he stared at jeongwoo (3rd problem) I was like 'bruh u r sooooo cute.' 😍😍😍😍
Alia Nord omg yesss!😍 he's like such a playful kid who's already am adult 😂
Gosh I cried so hard for the third concern. That poor boy, 15 years of existence n not a single happy memory. It would v be better if they divorced years back than causing so much pain in their child. The good thing about HC is they also counsel the guests back stage after the show, I hope someone suggest therapy for the boy n family and help him grow in confidence n love. Jeongwu be strong, happy and healthy
i'm crying right now
Eunhyuk is just the sweetest guy in K-pop. He's so kind .. what a beautiful soul !
eunhyuk is so considerate and kind.. such a warm person. :')
Jeongwu's concern broke my heart so much. A kid should never have to go through that. The members were obviously emotionally invested and touched. I appreciate Eunhyuk extending his support, continuously patting Jeongwu and looking at him with so much sincerity. I only hope nothing but infinite happiness for Jeongwu and his family from now on.
And to my fellow ELF, Jinseok oppa, you are loved and adored by the fandom. Keep doing you.
I’m happy that I’m not the only male who really likes Super Junior and considers them the best in the Kpop industry 💕❤️
KpopChopper 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
KpopChopper 🌹💫💛
Wow!!!! A male ELF helloooooo 💙💙💙💙
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Male ELF here!
hyukjae, thank you for hugging the boy
i love you
thank you for liking Eunhyuk.. he is my bias. i love when people chose him.. T_T
That videogame addict: I would have cut him off as a friend. He is there for people he barely knows, and not there for people who have known him for years? Thats sad. He pissed me off so much.
MusicMaster ikr. And his online friends might not be there for him anymore if he stopped gaming or smtg. For his real life friends, I think they sincerely care for him. Just look how long they've been friends tghtr
Well, I don't know what I'd have done, but I sure admire his friends for helping him and not abandoning him...
Exactly what i've been thinking. Thanks for pointing that out! Kudos to you!
True. What really got on my nerves is that his parents don't know anything. They must be working hard to financially support their "studying son" while he's gaming and living on pills. I can't even imagine their reaction...
His friend really care for him yet he take it for granted. He is completely addicted, without any doubt 😡😡😤😤😤
Eunhyuk has always been attractive, it's just that beauty standards have been changing, as well as fashion. Super Junior is such a complete and wonderful group thanks to the fact that each one is talented and not only handsome.
While I would never say he was unattractive, he has certainly gotten 10x more handsome and sexy as the years have passed.
@@bandotaku Plus the fact he gets exponentially hotter as he dances.
Ha!
@@qazielynn2580 There is that too, lol!
@@qazielynn2580 that's why he become my bias
Yes i dont really understand why people are saying he is not good looking because first of all he is belong to SM which i always believed only good looking people can enter SM and accepted to be an idol.
The kid's concern left me in tears. Especially the moment he cried. 😭 I wonder how's the boy doing now? I hope the parents has kept their promise. I felt the genuine concern and sincerity of Eunhyuk, Shindong, Yesung and Donghae towards the boy. Makes me love them even more. And i really admire Shin Dong-yup too!
wow the saying of "Hyukjae is your bias even he is not your bias" is real tho. i dont stan 100% with only one bias. i just love them equally till now
Fr my bias is heechul but for some reason I have a soft spot for Hyukjae
Eunhyuk is the ultimate bias wrecker 😍
I just noticed, Donghae didn't say much but he asked really good questions. He's really getting better with variety 👍
I thought the same:)
Hahhaha I LOVE HOW when the show started, Eunhyuk imitate his hyung Heenim & Yesung ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
msSimple Wei and having them dissing each other 😂😂
Tht elf is so lucky he gets to sit beside his idol! Hyuk's not my bias but if i was the fan i'd be giggling n be hysterical! N hyuk shldn't look at anyone like tht...be still my heart!!!
43:58 and 52:16 Oh my goodness Yesung's laugh is gold😍 i can listen to this all my life😍😂
LMAOOOOO not even 1 minute into the show, eunhyuk dissed the hyungs alrd, I seriously can't with this guy. ♥️
Eunhyuk changed so so much since debut, he is hotter than ever! The army sure did wonder to him, they are seriously getting better with age, how did they even maintain their good look over the years?!
AND THAT FANBOY IS THE PIONEER ELF, HUGE RESPECT SIR! How can he even breath sitting next to Eunhyuk?!? 😍
Ps: suju is doing a show called SUPER TV, the first ep has been released! We all know its gonna be one hella good mess😂
Hotter?
Angela Lee that moment his friends said about him sending them music videos and suju pictures i seriously couldn't relate more 😂😂😂 it was almost as if my friends were talking about me
But then most elves would relate as that's what SuJu does to you 😍❤️
Yes everyone will be in better shape when they grow older, from tiny to hot, from skinny to hella hot hahhahaha
i feel like he neglected donghae though :((
Angela Lee Do you have a link for it with Eng subs?
Gosh... That game addict sure doesn't know how to appreciate his friends. Why did he say he wasted his time by talking to his friend?! Your friends needs consolation after his break ups dude. Show some sympathy for him
The second one made me cry, it’s so sweet, and Eunhyuk was so fond of him and nice to him. I hope he’s doing great, he deserves the world!
43:10
“Nope, they aren’t sexy.” XDDD Shindong just slay XD
i see super junior,i click
Nicole clarke yes! Yes! Yes! Me too. Lol
IM READY TO LET EVERYBODY ACTUALLY TELL ME IM A NORMAL FAN AND THATS HOW IT WILL BE TOMORROW IF THEY ASK ME WHY I LOVE SUJU
Nicole clarke me too hahaha
Nicole clarke I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS SINCE I FOUND OUT THEY'RE COMING TO THIS SHOW 😍😍
This is me ALWAYS! ♡
I LOVE HOW SUJU PROTECTS THE FANBOY OML I LOVE EM
Guy in the first concern, get a new friend that actually cares about you. Man, I understand having internet friends but you can't just completely abandon reality like that. I'd be lucky to have one friend like the first guy...
I wish I have friends like Super Junior members. I feel like, they are the real friends each other. Specially, eunhyuk.
I cried throughout the last concern.
I had similar experience as a child growing up with an alcoholic father and a hardworking mom. He always came home drunk and tried to start a fight with my mom. I used to share room with my parents and there are those nights (school nights) where I couldn’t sleep cause they were fighting verbally and physically. I cried when the boy said he tried to cover his ears cause that was exactly what I did. My heart would beat so fast and I wanted it to stop. Things got better for our family once I became 14-15. I hated my dad up till I was 15. I’m 24 now but those memories are still vivid in my head. My brother wasn’t that affected but I reacted very strongly to it. I believed those times really had a negative effect on my mental state and since then till now, I was always a timid kid growing up with intense anxiety and full of emotions when my brother was all care free. I saw myself in that boy. I felt like I was indirectly emotionally and psychologically abused.
I watched the last concern with tears in my eyes cause I suddenly remembered all those times. My dad had come a long way since then and I’m proud of him. I understood that he had his tough time and suffering too, but it’s best not to inflict on other. I hope other parents out there realize how much their action affect their children, especially their mental well being which can affects what kind of adult they would become. I hope the family will improve and I think it will from the look of it!
Really sorry to hear that you grew up this way. I can't imagine the horror of living in fear and sadness and anxiety every day. This is a form of emotional and psychological abuse indeed, even if it's not directed at you. I hope you're living better these days, peaceful and free of such emotional stress, and that your father is less abusive and has solved his alcholism. Much love to you!
Thank you for your kind thoughts :) Yeah our family relationship had greatly improved and we're living much better now. It's just sometimes I felt like I myself haven't changed although on paper my life looks great. I still lack confidence, still shy and anxious and stressed with literally everything. I sometime question if it's due to my personality, the way I am or because I witnessed all those fights at night that when I get to school in the mornings, I just feel empty and hollow and couldn't bring myself to socialize others. As if all those times crying and stressing at night negatively affected my interaction with others during the day, contributing to my anxiety and lack of self-confidence in public. I dreaded going home whenever school was over. It built up over time and now I still get a lot of anxiety when I'm outside. Whatever the exact reason/cause is for the way I am, I know that everyone has the capability to improve and I worked on that. I learned to love myself.
I sincerely hope Jeongwu in this video grows up well. He did more than most kid can do in that situation. He is strong and good-hearted from what I can see. It's just his mental state I'm worried about when he said "its mentally hard for me." The mom in this vid said "you were so young, I didnt know you would remember." Yeah I relate to him so much. I remember so many things that my parents wouldn't believe that I remembered, it's unfortunate that it's still vivid in my mind. When parents fight, they think that their kids are too young and not mature enough to "care" about their fight. But some kids totally get it and thats why they are very sensitive. I hope he has nothing but good memories in the future.
Same, the last concern (and your past situation) really hit close to home for me, because I’m in a similar situation to his right now. And the funny thing was that when he mentioned the part about him covering his ears, I could recall so many times when my sister and I had to do the same, to no avail since I could still hear everything. Hell, i has been doing that a few nights before this episode aired because they were arguing again. I really hope that his situation gets better, and I’m so happy that your family has been able to overcome that. 😊
You're so brave and I'm glad you and your family are doing it well now. I can relate with the kid and your story but in a different way. I have no father at all, so I grew up in my grandmother house with my mom and my sister, but my mom was always physically and psychologically abused by my aunts because she had no job at the moment and was treated like the Cinderella. And I had to live with that except that I hadn't had the opportunity to hide. I had to watch so many times how they punched my mom and how they treated her like she was nothing. My sister and I, we were always scared when they were at home and they even denied us food, and we had to see my mom trying and success looking for food for us. But actually I became really mature about that. What I want to say to anyone who's struggling with this kind of things is that they'll over one day, and you have to learn the best from it. Don't close yourself, it's not your fault, and just learn how NOT to behave in the future. Learn that you are better than that and that you have to become a strong person, try hard to no let that affects your mental health. Stand up for yourself and you'll grow up fine.
You are not alone in this! There is so many of us who got through it and i believe u can make it! My dad left us and my mom was an alcoholic and its been this way since i was 7 however she did tale her anger out on me. Im now old enough to leave but i have serious childhood trauma and Anxiety disorder and mild depression but here i am still standing tall! Stay strong!
DONGHAE !!~~ ❤❤❤
EUNHYUK !!~~ ❤❤❤
YESUNG !!~~ ❤❤❤
SHINDONG!!~~❤❤❤
At first i saw super junior and i click. i had fun untill the third concern came up. I can relate with jongwoo's because i've experienced a similar childhood. My tears just flowing like a river at the moment i saw that poor little boy crying. Sigh... im not ready for this
This makes me like Shindong a lot more
Eunhyuk is such a ball of adorableness.
Also, I see no real problem with the fanboy. Of course, being an extreme fan can be suffocating if you forget to live your own life for the sake of your idols, but the fact that a boy likes a boygroup shouldn't be a problem per se. And he's right about one thing, having someone you admire can bring positive changes to you.
The only advice would be: be reasonable. Don't forget about your own life (says the girl who's been watching K-Pop related videos instead of writing her thesis lately haha).
Exactly! I mean at least he isn't stalking his idols. He's living his life and he has his hobby
As in at least he’s not a sasaeng
I aspire to be like the Elf in this episode. He's such dedicated fan. The only problem is that im broke and can't afford any merch or go to concerts. I want to be that kind of fan.
Rovic araniego poor baby 💙💙💙 hope things look up for you and you can fanboy and do other things you want one day.
Aspire, not inspire. But same. ELF goals
MusicMaster Thanks for the grammar correction. I knew there was something wrong😂😂. I'll edit it.
The second concern guy was in hello counselor before when Heechul, Kangin, Shin Dong and Ryeokwook was on the show! He’s truly a fan
The super junior fan was part of the audience on the episode with ryeowook, shindong, heechul and kangin😁
Jinjja 😂😂😂
I keep thinking what's wrong liking super junior? I mean other idol boyband have lots fanboys too..i mean like big bang, bts, even exo, and many more...Super Junior is an awesome group, their songs are well produced, have a great performance too..why these people need to see idol as fan's 'love interest', being a fan for a long time need more than liking physically..fans seeing them as an awesome artist and performer too, that's why fans stay. Sigh.
Arianne Arianne his first friend seems like he's closeted and projecting.
Exactly! Why do I as a fan have to thirsty for my fav idol group? Lol I can love them for their personalities and music(of course many fans do that) but this misconception that someone is following a group only for the eye service is very insulting.
I seriously feel so bad for the guy on the first concern. He really looks disappointed. I hope he forgets about his video game addict friend and find a new one, someone who's willing to comfort him and accept him as friend :((
same :((( the guy he was concerned for doesnt even feel sorry for his actions
I cant help but comment how Lee Hyukjae takes care of that young boy as if he is a family. I can feel his sincerity. He has such a big heart. Eunhyuk’s parents raised him well. And who ever he loves is so lucky. As an avid fan, I hope he finds the girl who will love and cherish him in good or bad times. And who will accept him for all that he is and that he is not. He deserves to be happy. 💙💙💙
partner*
the last concern is seriously heartbreaking. he's so young and already facing that kind of emotional and psychological stress from his parents. for him to appear in a national tv talking about his messed up family is seriously a brave thing to do especially for a young student like him. this appearance could change his life. his schoolmates, his neighbors and everyone will know about his family. and i feel sad to see that he looks very anxious to the point he couldn't make eye contact with anyone. i really hope his family could change for the better. and i hope he himself could be happy in the future
That is why super junior is the best kpop idol. They do well in singing and variety show
I really wished they would consult with a few therapists for these concerns. All three concerns were addicts and are not functioning well even though they’re faking it. You CAN stop a bad habit and not die from it. Poor Jungwoo doesn’t need to change anything or make promises to ‘do better.’ He’s doing the best that he can to survive that toxic environment and the only one who can change that are the parents. Dad should be getting support to quit his alcohol addiction and therapy to address why he relied on it so much and to prevent a relapse, Mom needs therapy to have someone to vent to other than her son and to get support for the abuse and trauma of having an abusive spouse. Family therapy would be good for them to learn how to communicate with each other. Would be good for son & daughter to get some therapy to address this traumatic childhood so that they can be mentally healthier functioning adults and not repeat any mistakes and bad parenting in the future. I’m just so sad that the stigma of mental health is so prevalent that employers can view your health records discriminate against hiring you if you seek these services and that it’s more socially acceptable to go on this show to get help from amateurs who still victim blame and perpetuate outdated and disproven attitudes.
Melody Lao ppl keep posting this... Everyone I know personally who got therapy did not end up any less effed up than any of the guests. Some of them were just as effed up...and also medicated.
The show does a good job listening to the concerns, helping the guests talk out possible solutions with their loved ones etc.
it also makes me happy that they have had struggles with substance abuse and hard childhoods themselves and give realistic advice.
I'm way more impressed with them than all the pros they have ever had on the show. Laughter is the best medicine, and just having someone hear you and let you share can be helpful.
YES TO EVERYTHING YOU SAID. It shouldn't be a reward system kinda thing, like "oh you washed the dishes today so I'll do aegyo for you." But I guess they need to start somewhere, and over time maybe they'll this sort of cognitive conditioning will turn into a genuine desire to be better for the people they love. Jeongwu probably needs lots of therapy, and family counselling might really improve things, but it doesn't seem like they earn very much so it might add financial burden too. In the end it all boils down to their desire to be a better person out of the love for each other instead of just thinking about their own needs.
Most Koreans don't believe in therapy or think about mental health as something that important. Just look at the percentage of suicides there... is so sad.
I agree, If you have an addiction it can't merely be resolved thorughjust shallow talk like that on a show. They'll require specialists. I feel so bad for the kid, I get that he's sad because he won't know if it'll still continue when he gets home.. My grandpa is an alcoholist and my father suffered much during his childhood since he was abusive as well. It's a serious issue that have longtime effects. My father have cut off contact with grandpa because of this and that he couldn't change.
Melody Lao Definitely my thoughts on this, especially the third concern. As a student of social work (especially in a country that's worlds away from Korea), I don't understand why do they find it normal for a parent to be an alcoholic, as well as both parents fighting? I mean they all had a laugh a few times during introduction. Maybe even after the show, would social services see this and remove the child from that environment? If anyone knows more about that and could comment, I'd be rlly grateful since I honestly cannot understand how could they as a family come into public with this kind of problems.
they’re aging like fine wine and it’s *super*
see what I did there😏
Super senior lol
I'm more confused because they seem found the fountain of youth, each more times, they getting more handsome and handsome 😍😌
pun intended
i cried so hard when Jeongwu starts to cry and Eunhyuk give him a hug, i hope everything goes well for him and his family 💙
"Why don't you dance with eunhyuk?" 41:36 : donghae looks away "argh"
This episode is more than enough for me to fall for Eunhyuk!!❤ such a beautiful person!!💕
same , and i just find this today
42:07 Eunhyuk's smile🙀😭💚
I love that SUJU weren't afraid to voice out their opinions on matters like these. SuJu really is one of the most well-rounded groups out there, who speak up in what they believe in and can be funny at the same time. I'm glad that the members spoke up and participated in discussions, unlike many of the other guests on this show. And especially with Eunhyuk at the end hugging the boy and constantly providing support, it really showed a softer, more compassionate side of him that was really nice to see! SuJu, Hwaiting!
That letter written made me tears. It felt as if he wrote it on behalf to some of the elfs. Yes! Suju also have helped me a lot in many ways. When I get to see them for the first time in concert after 10 years of waiting. I was happy and sad. Happy because finally I get to see them for the first time up closed but sad coz I only see them for a couple of hours. But never less I always felt Suju is very closed to me. They hold a special memory in my life. Thank you Super Junior. 💙
FYI, I was not financial stable to attend to their concert when they came to my country. I finally be able to see them this year 2018 after working full time.
For me, Eunhyuk caught my eyes because of his looks and jaw line, I find him very attractive (he's my first idol crush lol). That poor kid at the end omg 😭 I hope his family will change
Lol at Donghae on the 2nd concern
“i think it’s a concern”
Lol he just doesn’t want anyone else crushing on hyukjae hahahaha lol
But really, there’s nothing wrong with liking whichever group (may it be a boy group or girl group)
It’s your life 💙
Hope you’re still a very very very active ELF ✨☺️
The way Eunhyuk just stared at that boy, even though he didn't want to be looked at, and listened to his every word, cried with him, hugged him and comforted him makes me so excited for the day Hyukie has children because he will be a great father. He's so caring and loving.
14:43 *Eunhyuk staring into the camera like he's on The Office*
Lady Exo 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I just love how caring and interactive SJ were with the guests ☺️💙
Chaochiw they’ve been in the spotlight for years so they know the game. Plus they need to keep the checks rolling in so morefans = more money
+Nora are you antis? i see your soft but savage comment in almost all nice comment about suju...
Nora LOL. But compared to other k.idols, SUJU are the most genuine, the most honest, the most spontaneous and the kindest ones. :)
Is it only me who tears up when HYUKJAE start reading his letter
I'm crying😢 uri chingu ELF oppa😂. Idk why just i can feel it. You are so lucky can meet THE KINGS 👑
the male elf you r my role model seriously, can we talk abt how hyukjae always comforting the 3rd boy like rubbing his shoulder, his neck all the time TT hyukjae we don't deserved you ❤❤
*super junior changed my life*
Okay, I see Hyuk and Shindong crying, but our baby Hae wasn't? Thats an achievement 😄
Who doesn’t love suju? I bet everyone love them 😍💜 우리 오빠들 화이팅 💕
The trombone playing! Lmfaoooooooooooooo
It's not terrible... but it's not great either.
And to think he went to new york to play it 😂
Eunhyuk was so sweet to Jeongwu.. he would be such a good older brother 😭
something that I will always say it's even though I love eunhyuk kind heart, shindong sense of humor and donghae sweetness and cuteness, I will always live to hear yesung's laughter the way he laughs makes me happy, so energetic, pure and cheerful, he is so adorable
never in my wildest dreams that I would be this jealous over a guy 😂 eunhyuk is my bias too ever since I stanned suju since 2009 😂
Eunhyukke you are the most handsome man love you ♥
The third concern was straight up heartbreaking. Usually I love wathcing Hello Counselor, but I hate the fact how much this program "normalizes" alcoholism and domestic violence in general. A household like that is not fit for any kid, and this boy (and probably his siter) will be traumatized by their childhood for the rest of their lives. After reading out the concern, the hosts didn't even mention the phisical fights between the parents. I just hope some professional counselors are working with the production team as well, and at least after the show they can help the kid find a way to seek help.
Momozono Nanami They are not normalizing it. Their culture has different norms than the West and talks about problematic drinking differently. Imo of course.
The blue ocean washed away my panties Sorry but whatever the culture is alcoholism it's an addiction and a serious problem 😓. At least in my opinion.
That was so emotional, ( the last one) i hope his family gets better, and all the love for Super Junior they were really nice and carring, even if Donghae didn't speak that much i do think is heart was on there, the same with Yesung. Eunhyuk and Shindong were really funny, all the love!♡
That last story is actually a big concern to me. That Jeongwu boy have had a depression and his parents didn't know about it. His story brought tears in my eyes. Poor boy, hope he's living a better life now with his family. Even though he cried at the end but it made me feel happy the fact that both of his parents willing to change. 😊
are u sure thats depression? are u psycholog?