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  • čas přidán 22. 01. 2023
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    Just because someone is not good to you, that does not mean they are not good. Sometimes you have to be the one that sets the standard for the community you're in. My mantra when it came to relationships last year was, "I deserve better." This statement is not a way to keep me isolated or hold things against people, it's an invitation to accept the right things into my life. Now when it comes to chosen covenant relationships this doesn't apply in the same way. Let me know your thoughts below.
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Komentáře • 104

  • @maxbeullens1222
    @maxbeullens1222 Před rokem +64

    This guy is one of the best fathers I have ever seen...props to him, his kids are going to be successful people let me tell you right now! Keep up the good work!

  • @daniellemichelle2539
    @daniellemichelle2539 Před rokem +44

    This is so true! Before the new year I let go of some family and 2 people that called me their best friend. These relationships were not reciprocal and would only contact me if they needed something. But when I called just to check in they were never available. It frees up space for me to find my tribe. Thank you Glen!

    • @daniellemichelle2539
      @daniellemichelle2539 Před rokem +1

      @@Crab88 thank you and no it’s not easy and I appreciate your response.

    • @DivaAP08
      @DivaAP08 Před rokem +1

      Learning the same lesson

    • @OoohUSuk
      @OoohUSuk Před rokem +1

      I did the same for that exact reason.

  • @by-feliciaboyd9849
    @by-feliciaboyd9849 Před rokem +6

    This is soooo timely for me. Thanks for sharing the realness, BIF!

  • @zerubabel777
    @zerubabel777 Před rokem +7

    Facts, Glen! Just because they're not good for me doesn't mean they're not good people, necessarily. And it doesn't mean that God doesn't love them just as much as God loves me. An important reminder. Thanks, Glenn.

  • @SterlingTurner
    @SterlingTurner Před rokem +13

    Man this hit right in the heart at 1:18. I definitely come to realize that about myself, and it's a hard realization. I've had to personally remove myself from relationships I've cared about not because they were toxic but because I was the toxic person. It humbled me and made me really challenge my character and review to see if it align with God's

  • @motherslove4373
    @motherslove4373 Před rokem +8

    I am in that very space of lighting up my life. It took a lot of conversations, heartache, and tears to get to this point of my life because, quit a number of them are relative's. It in no way means, lost love. It does mean stop losing precious time I don't have. I thank the Lord for allowing me to turn 54 yesterday 🙌🏽🙌🏽 PRAISE HIM 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @i_am_A.R.T.
    @i_am_A.R.T. Před rokem +2

    ✨️A timely Word. HALLELUYAH🙌🏾✨️

  • @GaylynLareese
    @GaylynLareese Před rokem +4

    Yes! It's so easy to vilify people when it's not necessary. I recently had an old friendship return just to realize that I no longer desired to have that friendship anymore. Did my best to explain to them that I didn't believe they were a bad person, the friendship just didn't feel like a step in the right direction. Thanks for that confirmation Glen 💙

  • @JeanineStaples
    @JeanineStaples Před rokem +3

    This is wisdom. 🖤✊🏾

  • @BronxRisen
    @BronxRisen Před rokem +2

    It’s apart of growing and transitioning into being an adult! As I progress I can no longer factor in people who potentially put that at risk with either behavior or energy implemented! Fuk em and don’t explain shit to anyone for finally being SELFISH, I’m sure u deserve it🙌🏾💪🏽💯❤️

  • @acw-wk6ui
    @acw-wk6ui Před rokem +8

    I can't begin to tell you HOW ON POINT that LIGHT was for me.💡 I've been struggling with a friendship that no longer serves me & this video put my feelings into perspective! You are truly a vessel... I THANK GOD for your willingness to share on this platform. God bless you, Yvette & the Chocolate Babies (my internet niece & nephews 😉) 🙏🏾 Continue to be GREAT!

  • @sugwilliams6257
    @sugwilliams6257 Před rokem

    Messages like that are Holy Spirit revealed so you definitely have to meditate on it! It's so important to understand the purpose of any relationship, so you behavior properly and accordingly 👍🏾 Thanks for sharing LIGHT.

  • @marcialee508
    @marcialee508 Před rokem +5

    Love this! Thanks for putting my thoughts and feelings on this subject into words💯God's continued Blessings to you and your family ✝️🙏🏾💜💞👏🏾👍🏾✌🏾

  • @denisebecerra82
    @denisebecerra82 Před rokem +1

    👽🌵✨AMEN Brother🍊🌵⭐️thank you for articulating these feelings & god bless

  • @yvonnewebb5037
    @yvonnewebb5037 Před rokem +1

    Words of wisdom! Thank you Glen, continue to let your light shine, you are leading by example for your beautiful family AND the rest of us.
    I'm sharing this gem. 🤗❤️

  • @dejuaniagillum6147
    @dejuaniagillum6147 Před rokem +4

    Appreciate this Gem so much!!

  • @trinitysaintvil46
    @trinitysaintvil46 Před rokem +4

    Well said.

  • @JG-bo2qx
    @JG-bo2qx Před rokem

    I needed this extra reassurance. I have now made it a positive habbit to let go of People, Places, Job, Situations etc and things that are no longer in vibrational alignment with who I am or becoming. I just don't resist any natural changes that is happening anymore, I trust my spritual guides. I am excited to find my tribe.

  • @Fe_licia7
    @Fe_licia7 Před rokem +1

    Well said👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🤎

  • @aphetrerryac3603
    @aphetrerryac3603 Před rokem

    Losing someone to learn to (improve on) love (loving) yourself -- good stuff.

  • @MrsTC2U
    @MrsTC2U Před rokem

    Love this ❤❤❤. I have felt the same way for sometime now and when you remove those people from your life it’s like putting down weights! You feel so much lighter.

  • @AzureSkii.Kismet
    @AzureSkii.Kismet Před rokem +1

    Thanks for the fabulous advice and or life lesson!!!💙

  • @malaikalovee
    @malaikalovee Před rokem +1

    Absolutely love this channel💜 keep it coming 💜

  • @Pshell
    @Pshell Před rokem

    You are so on point! Thank you for sharing your light and I’m definitely going to shine mine! You are such an inspiration and we appreciate YOU for sharing your heart and also just showing love along with your beautiful family! GOD bless you! ❤

  • @Maris-oq7ql
    @Maris-oq7ql Před rokem

    Oh my word!!....this hit me hard. You spoke facts. 👏🏽

  • @chelseakayy8138
    @chelseakayy8138 Před rokem +1

    Sir!!! You better preach on today!

  • @Joy_LaFaye
    @Joy_LaFaye Před rokem

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾That part!!! Yes Glen!! Everything u said is on point and I too, had to do the same, seemingly for the exact reasons!! Excellent message! Preciate ya! 🫶🏾

  • @beautyforashesapparel

    This is such a crucial and valuable piece of light. I needed to hear this. I can use this idea to truly forgive someone I’ve been holding anger for, and to realise that boundaries between myself and people that don’t value me are necessary and not bad things to implement

  • @IncorrectUserr
    @IncorrectUserr Před rokem

    Love this. Thank you. Reverberate that message!

  • @codyhumphrey9054
    @codyhumphrey9054 Před rokem

    Belief is a very wise man and great father

  • @RoyalTea54
    @RoyalTea54 Před rokem

    Perfect good Sense!! I had to learn that too Glen I have Value. I had to Walk Away!

  • @jenniferbrown7659
    @jenniferbrown7659 Před rokem

    "...there are so many ways to wisdom and to the heart. Let us do it in wisdom and love and joy. Evolution means the progressive development of organizational complexity..."

  • @lindarichard9348
    @lindarichard9348 Před rokem

    Very expansive thinking. You are absolutely right.

  • @abbasjoy4785
    @abbasjoy4785 Před rokem

    Shucks! My goodness. Thank you for sharing. I'm literally going through this like this week!!! and I'm ok, but people don't understand that it's ok if I value myself more than they do. Thus is confirmation for me. Thanks for sharing

  • @dellanixon7657
    @dellanixon7657 Před rokem

    So much Wisdom! Thanks for sharing!❤️🙏🏾😇

  • @ivythorne6094
    @ivythorne6094 Před rokem

    Just listen to the video...agree 100%, I have been doing just that and it is causing a lot of problems...😊😊, do I care...No!

  • @BrianGlaze
    @BrianGlaze Před rokem +2

    Leaf cleaning those glasses like pastors do when they been sweating and about to make the closing point.

  • @AbiYah7
    @AbiYah7 Před rokem

    WORD!!!

  • @nonenone3624
    @nonenone3624 Před rokem

    Thank You for this.

  • @SueProv
    @SueProv Před rokem

    Beautiful and humble statement.

  • @SherrieYvetteWilkins
    @SherrieYvetteWilkins Před rokem

    This topic is so real.

  • @nuview1
    @nuview1 Před rokem

    Im floored right now. I had a dream, and he was in it talking about values. Three times it was spoken. I'm at a loss for words right now.

  • @TzmtheProdigy
    @TzmtheProdigy Před rokem

    Facts!!!! I had the same epiphany not long ago✍🏾.

  • @markebakt
    @markebakt Před rokem

    This is the final revalational puzzle piece for me. You are doing the Lords work this evening👣👣👣🙆🏿‍♀️🙆🏿‍♀️🙆🏿‍♀️🙆🏿‍♀️🙆🏿‍♀️

  • @jazlynkelley661
    @jazlynkelley661 Před rokem

    Common said it best "Granted, we've known eachother for some time, it don't take a whole day to recognize sunshine" 💖 The Light

  • @kdkb314
    @kdkb314 Před rokem

    Thank you so much

  • @TianaGerman29
    @TianaGerman29 Před rokem

    😮WOAH….needed this!

  • @aryelbrown
    @aryelbrown Před rokem +1

    Thank you for this!!! 🙏🏾

  • @bcgreen1966
    @bcgreen1966 Před rokem

    I needed to hear that thanks

  • @mpatreece2726
    @mpatreece2726 Před rokem +1

    Say THAT! 💯

  • @lilygutierrez9973
    @lilygutierrez9973 Před rokem

    YESSSSSS!!! Thank You 🙏🏽 😊

  • @ericagroce4834
    @ericagroce4834 Před rokem

    Omg! Thank you! Wheewwww!! 👍

  • @jakubanterlope7432
    @jakubanterlope7432 Před rokem

    Thank you

  • @tiffanirae.musiq777
    @tiffanirae.musiq777 Před rokem

    That’s a word!💜💙

  • @matthewgower
    @matthewgower Před rokem +1

    I had an epiphany last night too. I realized that the time in my life I felt loneliness the most was when I was with my ex. I’m a hardcore introvert, I’m ok with having very few friends. Loneliness in general isn’t really a feeling I get. We only saw each other twice a week at most and barely talked on the phone. I was committed to her because we had a past and she was my first. Looking back she never felt as close to me as I did her; she also had horrible trust issues but that’s besides the fact. I cared about her, she made me think she cared a lot, she neglected my feelings and never showed strong affection. I still miss her, but I know she’s not the one for me

  • @ilovemefortune2887
    @ilovemefortune2887 Před rokem

    This!!!!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @tennillewilson5077
    @tennillewilson5077 Před rokem +1

    So glad you shared this!
    Thank you for your light!

  • @OHMYMISSHILL
    @OHMYMISSHILL Před rokem

    I learned the exact same thing in 2022. And it lifted a huge weight off of my shoulders. I wanna use this as a Tik Tok sound

  • @tt2much
    @tt2much Před rokem

    100% facts

  • @theknights3025
    @theknights3025 Před rokem

    Come on sir 🔥🔥🔥

  • @beatrizmata1800
    @beatrizmata1800 Před rokem

    Very well put.

  • @chariwater1
    @chariwater1 Před rokem

    I was just thinking about this today.

  • @misshoneynevercame4832
    @misshoneynevercame4832 Před rokem +1

    Sometimes it's best to let go.

  • @chaseablonde
    @chaseablonde Před rokem

    Dropping 💎💎💎💎

  • @Peacealways247
    @Peacealways247 Před rokem

    In today's world, you're blessed if you have 2 great friends.

  • @carnitagroves7758
    @carnitagroves7758 Před rokem

    Yeah... definitely a bright ass light. Thankful and grateful, Bruh!

  • @witnessofchrist2524
    @witnessofchrist2524 Před rokem

    TY. ✌️

  • @kiaraedwards328
    @kiaraedwards328 Před rokem

    This is a good word

  • @Preppygirl11528
    @Preppygirl11528 Před rokem +1

    Love your vids

  • @user-alfredo-saucy
    @user-alfredo-saucy Před rokem

    Seemed like this was meant for me in a way, but not quite sure _specifically_ how yet. Thanks for sharing! :)

  • @helenaduncan2310
    @helenaduncan2310 Před rokem

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @larryluna6212
    @larryluna6212 Před rokem

    Facts bro

  • @lovemyshoes77
    @lovemyshoes77 Před rokem

    Definitely needed to hear this.💯🤞🏼🙌🏼

  • @KenteFashionkilla
    @KenteFashionkilla Před rokem

    Wow alignment I just fought myself for a whole year because I let go of a long ran it’s course 💩 friendship. I kind of came to same exact conclusion. God you’re funny ! Preciate it bro

  • @Amoni_sings
    @Amoni_sings Před rokem

    That’s good!

  • @nyreecarell9092
    @nyreecarell9092 Před rokem

    I need to join the patreon 🙏🏾

  • @Joureyoffaithfuless468

    Amen 🙌❤️🧡

  • @MsMVP
    @MsMVP Před rokem

    💯💯💯💯🥳🙏🏾🙏🏾❣️

  • @beershebagiwu3527
    @beershebagiwu3527 Před rokem

    This message is timely watching from South Africa.

  • @stacibrockman7147
    @stacibrockman7147 Před rokem

    Frfr. 🙏🏾

  • @Joe-bm4rq
    @Joe-bm4rq Před rokem +2

    My ex saw this and was like “ so basically…😂”

  • @bettydavis7904
    @bettydavis7904 Před rokem

    I get it 💖

  • @iyshiamyles3323
    @iyshiamyles3323 Před rokem +1

    Hi

  • @beabsbeans449
    @beabsbeans449 Před rokem +1

    First like

  • @MissTaylor696
    @MissTaylor696 Před rokem

    You talking GOODT!!

  • @asetkemetnu538
    @asetkemetnu538 Před rokem

    Please listen to the song Light by (he's underrated) Mr. Michael👍

  • @rayne7810
    @rayne7810 Před rokem

    Hey

  • @christinegardner8829
    @christinegardner8829 Před rokem +1

    That includes family members! 😐

  • @maxbeullens1222
    @maxbeullens1222 Před rokem

    First

  • @AndSarahAppeared
    @AndSarahAppeared Před rokem

    e·piph·a·ny

  • @AzurPlayz
    @AzurPlayz Před rokem +1

    Honestly you should cut ties with this guy Uzi he's such a bad influence, I'm worried that if you keep being friends with him you might end up on somebody's stairs in the middle of the night asking them what their name is

  • @savedbyGodsgraceinJesusChrist

    You just bothered yourself even more Glen. You have a way of articulating feelings that have been in limbo without language or words; and when you give then a voice; all these locked up files of emotions, suddenly are complete with actual words instead of just indescribable feelings. I hope this makes sense

  • @maxbeullens1222
    @maxbeullens1222 Před rokem

    Can I get pin

  • @abcdefghijklabcdefghijkl

    This is too generic. I like the familiarity of videos. Where is that in this video? White- washed video.

  • @lovelytia1
    @lovelytia1 Před rokem

    This was great. Thank you, Glen. Being intentional with your space but also with your relationships is something I've learned to value as I continue in my 30s. I've always kept a small circle but curating my environment through intentionality is recent. 🤎