rant vlog about being social, high school & foster care

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  • čas přidán 13. 09. 2024

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  • @mycatsthecoolest
    @mycatsthecoolest Před 4 měsíci +6

    this video just came on my recommended, and i'm so happy that it did. you talked about so many topics i think and worry about too, and i really like what you said about socialization, being well-rounded, and feeling too deep inside your own head. it can feel really depressing and isolating when i think about topics like this because i again feel like i get too deep inside my head, and i feel too scared to be too introspective for that reason, but was so re-affirming to hear you talk about it, and you seemed so positive and realistic. i loved what you said about teaching others, even in little ways. you have such a great perspective. sorry for long comment; love your videos!!! :-)

    • @LiliMelt
      @LiliMelt  Před 4 měsíci +3

      thank you for your long comment! i feel the same way, there’s so many things i think about that just rattle around and weigh on my mind that i never hear other people talk about, but i feel like most of these fears and topics are things so many other people worry about too and we’re all kind of just going through the same struggles ‘alone’ simultaneously since we don’t acknowledge them aloud and realize we all have the same struggles

  • @s1gmap175
    @s1gmap175 Před měsícem +1

    wow your going to graduate high school that's some dedication, congratulations keep going you go this!

  • @IzaaculateMixes
    @IzaaculateMixes Před 3 měsíci

    hey, this video is really good! it’s rare to find these types of videos, simple, honest, therapeutic and just real yk lol. it’s good to sit down and just think about life while the world is moving around you very fast, with the crazy shit that is going on in this world. i’m also 16 and is very passionate about music, but im very much still learning a lot about it, trying to really learn piano and just focus on my passions. but yeah honestly i relate to a lot of what you said in the video, i’ve definitely struggled a lot with social anxiety, but again having good friends and being able to talk to people is important to me. it’s just really difficult to not get lost in your head, it really affected my confidence to go up to anyone and start a good conversation with someone. but luckily i’ve gotten better and i’m in a much better mental state than when i was a freshman, and i’ve been able to make some good friends online although it’s been a struggle still in school. but im feeling confident that’ll change soon, and y’know once you can learn how to make yourself happy and be comfortable with yourself, it’ll influence your social life positively a lot and ofc with definitely finding a partner too. that’s what i’ve learned for sure. as for high school, it’s had its ups and downs, but a lot of people tell me it’s either gonna be the most mid time of your life or the most fun time. so either way high school era is probably not gonna be the peak era of your life, so don’t stress it if it’s not exactly what you thought it’d be or you feel like you missed out on some things, you have your whole life ahead of you to do yourself good as an adult. personally for me in high school, friends have come and go and junior year has felt a bit lonely in that regard ngl. im not graduating early like you are, but the feeling of missing out and experiencing new and strange things is not far from what i’ve experienced having to move schools a lot, that really sucks and makes it harder to find your place in school as a teen which i’ve yet to find sadly partly cause of that too. but im trying my best, and im trying to make the most of my time before i turn 18, and learn from my mistakes and grow as a person as i get close to becoming an adult. but still, you wanna enjoy your time as a teenager cause dealing with adult responsibilities won’t be fun. anyways, this video was very therapeutic and comforting, thank you and i wish you good luck on your last year of high school and graduating. you have such a great personality btw, and i really believe you can achieve your dreams one day. you got this! 🫂

  • @ralphjrcrayton2001
    @ralphjrcrayton2001 Před 16 dny

    There’s nothing wrong with being stuck with the same people and the same materialistic things but don’t let that make you have a lot of negative emotions but in human nature, we want to change to improve our lives and connect with many people, which we can, even if our situation stops us from doing so but lili I hope that nobody stops you from doing great things and connecting with people that honestly love and care about you and we love you, lili keep loving yourself even thru tough situations 🩷

  • @bbsara0146
    @bbsara0146 Před 19 hodinami

    I feel like you should work on charter boats. it would be a perfect job for a young girl like you. watch the tv show below deck and see how much fun they have

  • @Sara-fl7bh
    @Sara-fl7bh Před 13 dny

    You’re so cute❤❤

  • @coolguy-nq1ve
    @coolguy-nq1ve Před 4 měsíci +1

    Have you put your music on Spotify

    • @LiliMelt
      @LiliMelt  Před 4 měsíci

      i have not yet but hopefully plan to soon!!

  • @markpaladiy5748
    @markpaladiy5748 Před 11 dny

    experiments such as this are not a good idea as a habit. just saying. sorry. not moralizing. just...cautioning.
    1. The general, 'masculine' cosmos and the special, 'feminine' Earth (Gen 1:1);
    2. The Earth, as its own general subject, and its special kind of material wealth: its abiding maximal abundance of open liquid water (v. 2);
    3. That water, in general, and its cycling (the water cycle, vs. 3-10);
    4. The water cycle, in general, and its beneficiaries: biological life (vs. 11-12);
    5. Biological life, in general, and its special category, animal biology (vs. 20-25);
    6. Animals, in general, and its special category, humans (vs. 26-29);
    7. The general human and the special...woman (Genesis 2:7-25).
    In fact, there are only five names that Genesis 1 reports that God gives to five things. And, these things seem to be the Earth's own prime three dynamic, feminine subsystems of its water cycle:
    1. the thermally regulative day/night cycle ('day' and 'night', v. 5);
    2. the thermally regulative atmosphere ('shamayim', v. 8; NOT 'ha-shamayim', for, the latter is general sky, like in Gen 2:4a);
    3. the land/sea surface thermal exchange system ('earth' and 'seas', v. 10).
    If these three sets of things are what these verses are reporting, then it finds analogy in Adam's later naming Woman (Genesis 2:23). For, these things are the Earth's own basic, feminine subsystems for handling the Sun's radiation for benefit of life on Earth. This is why Genesis 1 says that God saw that the light (v. 3) was good. For the 'light' is in the prior context of the Earth and its wealth of water. It is not physical light unto itself that God called good. It is the relation which the light has for the potential for water-based life on Earth. For, the Genesis 1 account does not report that God names gravity, or light, or even water. Only of day-and-night, as such, and the atmosphere, and of land and sea. These are:
    (i) of continual regular rotation of the Earth, which moderates that 'directional' radiation for all parts of the Earth (Gen 1:4-5);
    (ii) the Earth's atmosphere, which further moderates that radiation to the surface (Gen 1:6-8);
    (iii) the continual thermal exchange of land and sea, which constitutes the thermal moderating system of Earth's thermally binary surface (Gen 1: 9-10).