THEODORE FINCH - AWAKE (all the bright places)
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- čas přidán 26. 07. 2020
- A lot of people suffer in silence and go through the same thing in their own way and in their own lives. With mental health awareness increasing in outreach and a mass influx of resources now available, you don't need to suffer in silence alone anymore. Just like how Finch explained his pain and wasn't heard, the despair most people face is due to the same circumstances; people don't HEAR you and they don't UNDERSTAND but there will always be someone out there who gets it when the people in your life don't. So many trained professionals are ready to help you and I am too in the capacity I can be:)
You're never alone and I don't want people to feel that way.
This video was made to express what I felt and saw in this movie and an experience that I and so many people have gone through.
Thank you for watching this video:)
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when he wrote “ because she smiled at me “ and put it on the wall I didn’t really know what he was talking about but now I do “ I don’t want to kill myself YET, Because she smiled at me”
That part really hit me too. This movie is so gut retching but so real
Was it in the movie? The latter part? Or in the book?
E ninguém vai entender , até ires embora
@@deko9323I'm just always sorry to everyone. Even random people.
I've been trying to leave desperately for so long. But couldn't. But I'm also afraid of being left alone. Loneliness is so painful if not understood properly
I'm unfit for human relationships.
I do understand, it hurts me so much
i was crying when she was found his clotes on the lake most heartbreaking movie ever if you love someone from your heart watch this movie
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@@SimplyMudiwa thanks to reply
I thought it was hilarious jk jk
Whats the name of the movie
@@gifttapera9926 all the bright places
I can relate so much to Finch. Every day, I try to find things to stay alive. As of now, I'm only alive because I know my mother would never recover. But once she's gone, I will follow her.
Stay strong ,things get better ok. There are more happy and good days waiting for you. So Stay Awake💛, may God be with you
Everyday you wake up and carry on is a victory and there are so many memories yet to be made
I was in the exact same place as you for YEARS and somehow after literally fighting for it I reached the other side and I’m glad I didn’t give up
Give yourself a chance and the pat on the back you deserve, we’re the strongest ones out there and you’re the strongest one in the room. Art remains an outlet and a chance to feel and heal even if it’s temporary
We’re all here with you and if you ever feel alone DM me on any of my social media and I’ll reply you!! Just show me the screenshot of this convo!
If no one else will be your friend or a shoulder to lean in, I will🤍
Tbh, lots can be seen as art. Same for your life. Don’t ends it here. It’s precious. Once you are gone, nothing is going to wait for you, everything moves on. The thing is, for 1,5,10,20 years you may feel bad, hopeless, depressed but in life, there are more and more years to come. Avg lifespan of human is near 80. So, 20 is 1/4 th of life.
Get a life long dream man. Fullfill it. 20 years later, when you will look back, you will find yourself how fool you were. Suicide is not an art man. It’s just some bad thing our society have normalized. Imagine 1000 years ago suicide was that normal. If that was the thing, there will be only few people left. You born as a human to survive. Not to givr up and die. You got most powerful thing in the world (your mind). Let it be in your favour.
Listen my friend, don't quit.
Even if your mother one day will not be there, you have to live and share how you feel, you can save other people, you can be for others the Man or the Woman you needed, value yourself, virtual hug to you, stay strong, we are on the same ship❤
same
God, this film messed me up. And the book broke me into a billion pieces. The saddest part? Finch was trying his best. He did everything he could to stay awake. In the end, it didn't matter how much he loved Violet, or how much Violet loved him. It wasn't about their love story. It never was. It was about Finch. It was his story, and his journey. I feel like he wanted to help Violet. He wanted to help one last person before the inevitable. He'd seen it coming from a mile away. I like to think that he wasn't scared. He knew what he was doing and he knew that he had to do it. It's what he wanted, and that breaks me up the most. "A lake. A prayer. It's so lovely to be lovely in Private." That's a quote from the book in case any of you haven't read it. In which case you should because it's brilliant and there's more to the storu and I'm cryin and I cant see what Im writgn anymore
Bluebird coffee, you are such a beautiful soul
Your comment really touched me because it’s sooo true
This WAS Finch’s story and a lot of us relate because we see ourselves in him
I’m sending so much love and light your way🤍 thank you for taking the time out to comment
@@SimplyMudiwa Thanks. I love your video by the way. The film, of course, is brilliant. But this video helped me see Finch in a way I've never seen him before. I now see him as this scared kid that deep down, just wants to feel normal
It's such a realistic ending. Just shows the real outcome of having an illness. Even love can't save him
Everyone talks abt finch but no one realizes that because of him Violet had to face the pain of losing a loved one not once but TWICE; first her sister now her lover
Which is why I would dare to say he is selfish
@@dinaf.k5372 it's not being selfish, we just don't know or understand what's running on depressed people's mind. it's killing them inside.
@@dinaf.k5372 maybe he was , who know. But I can tell yo its was not easy not even a bit for him. Sometimes its hard to let out everything we are going through no matter how badly we want to.
Justice Smith's Finch effectively portrayed the character's struggle with his mental illness. It hurts to see that no matter how happy he made Violet feel, even if they are in love, in the end those weren't enough to save him from his inner battles. It only goes to show that when someone is really suffering like the way Finch does, it would take more constant effort and understanding for the people around him to get to him. I feel what he felt, I know what it's like to be trying so hard to make yourself be understood but people just won't get you so you clammed up and just keep it all in your head, praying for the strength to get through another day. A little kindness goes a long way ❤️
This was so beautifully said🤍
I agree
Thank u so much:((
u ok?! jw
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"I think too fast to keep track of anything, and then, all my thoughts, are gone". This hits me hard, I can relate to him :(
People think that I am cold but the truth is my thought and emotion were too fast in my head, and suddenly it disappears so that I decide not to say anything
I hear you, I’m the same way a lot of the time🤍
"Sometimes it's the hero that needs to be saved ." 💔
Edit : it's my 20th time to watch this😭💔
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Response to the edit: Thank you for watching my video so many times, I appreciate the love 💫
@@SimplyMudiwa you deserve it
it's true because they're busy saving other people and the fact that no one can save them at all
@@jemimafaithperalta3695 that sound very sad and bad almost unfair
can totally relate with Finch
Same here 😔😔
One of the most heartbreaking movies I've watched. Thank you for this
Ofcourse xx
It was such a good movie I was crying for so long
Read the book also! It s so much batter
Also try midnight sun
When you make yourself sad so you can feel something...
It’s the classic ‘I helped her but I was the one who really needed help’
I relate to Finch so much. my feelings are his exact words, i just could never put them into one. i could never express anything, and everything was just bottled up. how could someone understand how i felt if i didnt understand it myself? thank you, Jennifer, for writing this amazing book and inspiring these actors to make these awesome movies.
I do too which is why i wish he had a happy ending. Lost a lot of hope :/
@@firstnamelastname1267 I feel like if he didn't die, the movie wouldn't be as great. Yes, it was a sad scene, but that's why I admire the movie so much. It shows what life gives. It shows what happens. It shows that you have to face reality. It shows there's a bright light in every place, even if you don't know it. Even with Finch dying, it taught Violet how to move on, and how to value and cherish everything in the world before she dies. This is just my opinion! Great movie.
Finch is me I am him , everything he says is what I can't scream out loud enough.
I was here R.V....
i read this book and it gave me roller-coaster of emotions
Where can I get the book??
@@siyazwane5521 Barnes and noble or your local library
@@siyazwane5521 the book is more depressing
Exactly it was unexpected and shattered me for days
The saddest part about this masterpiece it's that I am finch...
Everyone in this comment section is here with you🤍 you’re not alone❤️❤️
@@SimplyMudiwa thank you 🙂
Heyie, how are you, dear stranger?
@@OA2605 I'm great thank you for asking. What about you? Dear stranger
@@thedaking4880 well, days are just passing by, lately. Not giving up somehow
I cried at the end of the story. I love you Theodore finch. Until today, I'm still awake to remember this beautiful scene about your finch🥺😭
I will be here again after a year 😢❤
Saw it before I saw the film. They missed a lot but it kept the concept, he couldn’t stay alive even for her. He was hurting just too much. And I relate to that
I just watched this movie the other night and gosh it was a great movie. Beautiful and heartbreaking all in one. I can relate to Finch on so many levels, I’m surprise I’m still here. I feel lost and lonely. If anyone wants to be a friend of mine and can relate to this feel free to respond.
it all starts with labels. being judged and looked at. good and bad is subjective and sometimes people don't like how we act, so they label us. Labels is what makes us feel normal. But normal is also subjective, different is subjective. I want to commend you all for being here, not because you want to die, but because you're still fighting, fighting the void and emptiness inside you. fillers constitutes most of life in my opinion. We're all looking for those fillers, till there is no more fillers to look for....
"This body, with all its capacities, seemed nothing - nothing at all."
Wow
I love this sm✨💫
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When u realized that finch stayed with her at the ledge of the bridge when v told him to go away cus he knew what she was feeling that time how unfortunate finch
This movie opened a lot of wounds for me from when my best friends took their own lives no matter how much we tried loving them they still removed themselves from my life
That's a reminder that sooner or later you're going back to the world or by yourself, I can watch this movie many times
So devastated by this still. Book and movie wrecked me
I cried for hours after watching it! It really got to me!
This was beautifully done...thank you for sharing your thoughts about not being alone and that there is help if needed. No one deserves to feel hurt and ugly within themselves for we all have the "colors at full brightness" in our own ways.
Thank you for this comment. It truly makes it that much more “worth it” when you hear feedback like this. I really appreciate it! Sending good vibes your way💫
Simply Mudiwa It’s a pleasure, and same right back to you. 😊💕
In case if some one wants to know.....The background song is "Winter aid: The Wisp Sings"
Tbh, for me this is the second most heart breaking movie after Five Feet Apart.
Thanks for the edit.
Thank you for the comment 🤍
Thank you for posting this video because every time I am truly low, I remind myself that sometimes we can't our own demons alone and that sometimes it still wins. To everyone who still feels that way like I do now, please now that I am Andrew and I was here. I hope to run across you one day so that you can know how amazing you truly are and to stay strong no matter what. Sometimes we only have each other during these times.
Andrew if you ever feel completely alone my DMs will always be open to you❤️❤️
We’ll get through this together, everyone in the comment section understands what you’re going through and you’re not alone, we’re here with you🤍
just finished reading a book...again.
i was here w.l.
I WAS HERE. T.F
I was here... The fu-
what was the meaning of this
@@KeyboardMonstered he wrote it in her book ^^
@@pierrx3719 this movie hit bro!
My legs shake, my mind is hollow, my whole nervous system is disturbed.
The last silent verse of my broken fiddle plays, I'd read through some significant instances from my fav book & watch the movie again for the 3rd time. I can't continue! I have controlled myself for 5 years but now it is really Really REALLY excruciating! < 3 with love to Humanity, Klop!
Klop, I pray you read this before you follow through with it
I was in the exact place you were last year, it had become too much and the only thing that really stopped me was the fact that I was travelling and how expensive it would be for people back home and that was my blessing in disguise because it eventually did get lighter and suddenly everything clicked
If I wasn’t here I couldn’t be here for people like you🤍 if you need someone to talk to my DMs are always available to you, I just hope you stick it out, just a tiny while longer, just to see if it does ease and this is coming from someone who understands
I used to have to curl in a ball on my bed to ease the pain and somehow be okay even though it barely did a thing but I’d try anyway
I need you to know that there are small steps you can take to get yourself out without making it final, I’mliving proof
You have purpose and your life has value🤍 trust it
Please
I know it’s excruciating and it’s a lot to ask, but I’d love it if you had one last conversation with me?
"I will forever grieve for Finch. I was there; I saw everything, and I wanted to save him so badly. This book has been my life ever since I read it. These days, I've been feeling more like him. I cry every day, but I cry more at night. I feel heavy, and I feel very helpless. These voices are just too loud; I can't hear my voice anymore. help me breathe.
The day i watched this movie it tooked me a whole day just to accept this was film not a real life and boy i cried like a lot in that day
The author Jennifer Niven confirmed Theodore Finch was real. The movie and book are mostly improvised
The relationship of these 2 Are perfect. Made me happy every time. The dark moments In the scenes, Can make you feel like you're sinking In sadness But you're happy at once Because You've gone through the Similar Illness As Finch. You're never alone There is always a free place That you go to feel whole again. I can relate to that because I suffered in depression, Anxiety, And PTSD for the most of my whole life. All I want to feel Is that I am Worth of many things That can make me feel good. The struggle comes all the time and I feel as if I can't get through it.
I want to help him and make him feel loved but im dealing with my own issues and i feel like im drowning deeper into emptiness and hopelessness
We all have emotional scars so deeply entrenched in all all of us that will never never ever ever ever ever go away....it's an event that took place in 2009 but believe it still HAUNTS til today 2022...😣
ultra violet!-T.F.
The boy who violet Markey loved ~~ TF
the end broke my heart ..
i watched it 2 years ago , n i keep watching it
I see myself in finch again and again.❤
I have no one to hold my hands to listen my words. I wanna thank god that i got a chance to watch this movie and felt something good. I WAS HERE.- Sonam❤🌹
You alright?
@@kath1752 Going through really difficult times.
I’m sending you so much love🤍
I can’t begin to imagine what you’re going through but a lot of us here understand and are there with you, you’re not alone and even though we aren’t physically together we’re a community of beings on this planet who feel things SO DEEPLY that most people can’t fathom what we go through. You’re a fighter, don’t give up❤️❤️ you’re an inspiration to us all and if you ever feel alone listen to some music and replay this video and we’re there with you🤍
@@SimplyMudiwa Thank you so much for this kind words.❤
@@SimplyMudiwa I feel a degree of narcissism in this type of self loathing. You say that most don't "fathom"as if suffering is a skill we harbor but nobody besides the outlier can understand or comprehend. Suffering is a universal phenomenon to help understand one another not own or disclude people.
I wish they went in depth about why he offed himself, but other than it was a really good and beautiful movie, and this vids really good
Thank you 🙏🏾
I think the lack of explanation at the end was to make you reflect back on the ongoing battle he was going through himself and how hard he was fighting to stay alive but everyone around him didn’t notice, listen or understand. He put all his energy into saving someone else because deep down he knew he couldn’t save himself.
There were many signs through out movie that really reflected the depth of the circumstance.The little sticky he wrote"because she smiled" was sufficient for him not wanting to die that down. To the depth of him reaching out to his sister about there father wondering if he could be helped and her response made him think he was never going to get the help he needed. He felt abandonment by connection,he was loved but he couldn't feel it.He helped her because he couldn't save himself
I found this video at a place where I felt the same and I still do but now I'm getting better. Thank you
We’ll get through it 💕
@@SimplyMudiwa Indeed we will. Just gotta keep staying awake
Okay so I don't understand how this edit haven't gotten more attention and love bc this is ma fav one so far. I loooved this one so much just bc I can see my self in finch❤️
sam sommar thank you for the comment, I really appreciate the love!💫
And I hear you, I see myself in him too
I’m glad this edit helped add some light into your day:)
☺️me too.
This movie tells about my life 🫤
Every time I watch this movie, I find myself with strange feelings
You are loved more than you realise and you are so soo seen, in this moment and eternally by the entire community here sharing their experiences. I think this mental and emotional space can be very isolating and that in itself can dig you deeper in the whole but I understand you and I stand by you too🤍
Just take it day by day and give yourself the grace to heal and to process it all because just when you feel like the world is ending the sun will shine
I know it can become overwhelming and how intense it can get and we can feel alone but there’s a tribe here for you to connect with, you won’t ever have to fully be alone again and if you ever need someone to talk to, my DMs are open:)
Sending love your way friend x
@@SimplyMudiwa Thank you, my friend, you have made me very happy :) 🤍
But still sometimes I feel sad.
Just like tf growing without father and mom left me when I was 12 ...
Life isn't fair enough I'm trying to do good still people judge you so quick
"2022 STAYING AWAKE as possible as I can :( "
-D Y
My favourite movie i can't stop watching
Amei essa parte eles sempre são emocionante
Loved this movie and love this edit
Thank you!!
Great book, great movie 😢😢😢
This was a beautiful edit
Your awesome for making this edit !🥺💕💕
Thank you for the love🤍🤍🤍
Amo esta pelicula
Finch is literally me💔can totally undersatnd what he was going through with his thoughts
He was the one helping when he himself needed help too
Its reality at its best
While watching this scene. Im really mad that everyone always ask why why and why to finch. This is the first time i find the explanation about this feeling that i felt too. For everyone who maybe felt the way finch felt. Well you are not alone. You are not freak. You are okay. And everything would be okay.
Sorry for fck up english. Hehe.
You aren’t alone either, just look at the comments, there are so many of us out here and atleast we have each other and the knowledge that we’re not alone and we aren’t freaks and this is something other people deal with too🤍
i can save you but i can’t save myself.
Best movie.... 🙂💔
I love it soo mutch ❤❤❤❤❤❤thank you
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Thank you.
🤍🤍
god i love this book
Great movie
It really is!!
Justice Smith and Eleanor brought this to so much life.
Why am I crying.
i was here!- Shaiqal
beautiful video. I love it
Thank you💕
This is great and sad ❤️ but I think you should have to put the sound in the last since
Thanks anyway💓
Finch you are ¡¡¡¡¡ you broken my hart 💔
This was beautiful
iss layladumbfuck thank you so much 💕
i dont have any friends but i hate too loose close one people
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I am sobbing
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I was here👑
I'm the freak don't u get it I'm fucked up Felt that my life story 😑 gets hard being left out alone in everything feel like a outcast finch ur not alone my brother Ur not alone☹️
i thought theres no possibilities that this can happen to me.
but here i am, sometimes losing myself while in daytime i keep cheering all the people around me, friends, lovers they all happy, but what about me, i feel like it's not enough, i keep trying and trying to help myself, but i cant. i keep losing myself...
i don't wanna go, but its's hard for me to stay.
i wish someone can understand me more than i understand myself, and help me please
I understand you
You feel like you’re on an island and a spectator in your own life and no one can seem to understand, fully “get it” or be there for you in the way you need them too. Nothing’s quite right and the love isn’t always delivered in a way you need it to be
You care so much about other people, you check in, you make sure their happy because you know how lonely, isolating and PAINFUL it can be on the other side
But I’m here to tell you you’re not alone
Your empathy wasn’t given to you in vain and you’re just on the pursuit of finding balance, balance within you and balance in the world around you because you feel things on the extreme end
You don’t ever have to go through it alone, DM me when you need to talk/are going through it, just send a screenshot of this convo for reference and we can find balance together
I’ve got you!! For real! And never think you’re being a burden because this is one place where you’ll finally be able to release, I promise!!
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In books it’s all make so much sense 😢
I wrote down the text from the video because I feel it's important and I'm putting it here for anyone else who needs it too.
"When we first met, I saw your pain, and I understood it. I saw you. I helped you get happy again and we fell in love. You were finally happy. It made me happy to see you happy again. But in the end, that just wasn't enough. I just couldn't beat my own demons. I achieved my goal though. I left you happy."
Sometimes it's the hero that needs saving.
Check on your friends. Even the "happy" ones.
Wow, even I haven’t read it like this before
That’s so beautiful
Thank you so much for sharing🤍
@@SimplyMudiwa Thank you so much for sharing it first
Thank you for this ❤️🤞🏽
Thank you for watching it and the love too!! x
The only thing one can do is STAY!!!!!!!!This goes for everyone !!!!
I get finch, im like him. Its just loneliness bcox of our destructive behavior. Sucks the joys out of the world yet i still bring joy. Strange but still learning how to deal with it. Trying do things on my own often now. slowly getting better and getting worst at the same time. This is my fate. And its okay.
My sendmant movie
I was here
I was here.
❤️
And this one is nice edit
Thank you 💕
I lost count of the days.
The book killed me
I m 30 , single , jobless ,live off on my parents....leave hope of everything in life ...i can't even imagine that someone is born for me or may he forget to born . Life is becoming a tedious ride for me...i m totally lost, who is readings this post just wanna say to u BE POSITIVE AND HAPPY. Don't make ur life worthless 😂
As long as you’re still alive you have a chance at life
I understand that pain of feeling worthless or left behind, like everytime you try you fail and every time you get up you fall back down. It’s hard to explain and even harder to explain to someone who’s never experienced it
I just want to say that your story has the power to impact so many people and help them get out of that hole. You are so worthy and you’re not alone, this comment section alone tells you that
Just don’t give up, I understand that pain and that feeling and I’m still beating at the ceiling myself, waiting for a breakthrough, so I’m right there with you
Your testimony will mean something and I think the sigh of relief and victory will be worth your sacrifice🤍
@@SimplyMudiwa thans sis 😘 ur words means a lot to me.
great
Thank you!!💫
np
I was here ,,,,TF
❤️ a lot of us were too, you’re not alone💫
I haven't watched the movie but I don't understand after saving someone and that someone actually trusted you, would kill yourself. Violet has to face another loss. He gets to fall in love with a young woman who trusted him, he gets to have good moments in life despite pain and depression which is a normal stage in life. I know many would call me insensitive but I would say what he did was selfish once he killed himself. I mean...isn't the person who loves and care for you enough? Not everyone has that luxury. Finch is a selfish guy in my opinion..and if he wants to be understood in the first place, then he should accept that not everyone can understand. Anyhow, I am not trying to blame him....it is just in my perspective it is a selfish act that leads to heartbreaks in the end. It is just the same thing what a player does only he does it a lot genuine and authentic.
What was this song used??
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the movie talks exactly about me , im another version of finch
I can also relate.....
He is me...
It was the first time I saw myself completely in a character....
Now am searching indiana
Finch 🥺
Finch, I'm here again.
I'm still here.
I relate to finch 💯. Always tried to make other people happy and feeling empty. Wanting to go but not wanting to go because my mom would never recover and would blame herself.
He saved her but he couldn't save himself
I’m finch
💕
Everything will be fine ❤️
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