15 Things New DMs Must Know Before Their First Game

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  • 15 foundational truths for new dungeon masters to know.
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    Running D&D for the first time often seems like a daunting task for new dungeon masters. And it rather is. It's no wonder that new game masters often feel nervous and wonder if there's anything they're missing before they run their first D&D game. Is there anything else they should know as a new DM? Did they check all the boxes? In this video, we discuss 15 things all dungeon masters should know before running their first D&D game.
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  • @theDMLair
    @theDMLair  Před 2 lety +31

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    • @quonomonna8126
      @quonomonna8126 Před 2 lety +1

      your discord server has more rules than D&D

    • @lanefunai4714
      @lanefunai4714 Před 2 lety

      White with hollandaise

    • @theDMLair
      @theDMLair  Před 2 lety +5

      Thank you. That is a feature not a bug.

    • @garhent
      @garhent Před 2 lety

      Is critical role scripted - no. Is critical role storylined and the players told in advance damn well they are. Take a look at the set up for each fight, the DM and Players know exactly what's coming their way with the fully set up area. Their lines are mostly adlib.

    • @etherknightmare1181
      @etherknightmare1181 Před 2 lety

      As a improv prefered dm, I still plan. owo And am relatively new, too.

  • @quonomonna8126
    @quonomonna8126 Před 2 lety +881

    protip to new aspiring DMs: forget trying to play with friends that you want to get interested in the game, find new friends that are already want to play

    • @claracastilhooliveira3793
      @claracastilhooliveira3793 Před 2 lety +62

      This tip is gold, am still going to keep trying to get my baby cousins to play though. While I keep playing with my other groups, obviously.

    • @ickmonster73
      @ickmonster73 Před 2 lety +30

      Of course, ask your friends, if you have them. Lots of people want to play and don't have the balls to speak up unless asked. Now I'm running 2 games at once for 11 people.

    • @Venslor
      @Venslor Před 2 lety +12

      I think a good balance between people who have played and people that haven't is best. Otherwise, no one ever joins the hobby, but having a few people you know already enjoy the game help hold the game together while the other players learn the rules and figure out if they like it or not. Some people just aren't going to enjoy it. I had friends who just didn't like that they couldn't control the narrative like a video game.

    • @shawdow357
      @shawdow357 Před 2 lety +5

      I’m currently making this mistake.

    • @bigstupidgrin
      @bigstupidgrin Před 2 lety +4

      *cries in middle school me trying to run AD&D*

  • @TheodoreMinick
    @TheodoreMinick Před 2 lety +562

    "No plan survives contact with the [players]."
    This is true. But this is also true:
    "Plans are useless. Planning is essential."
    Like Luke points out, the more you plan, the better you'll be at coming up with a new plan at a moment's notice.
    Improv uses the same "muscles" as planning. And if you have planned for every possibility that you can think of, when your players inevitably come up with something you didn't, you'll be better equipped to come up with the response.

    • @nilsjonsson4446
      @nilsjonsson4446 Před 2 lety +11

      Good points. Still in my experience at least 90 % of plans survive the players

    • @NegatveSpace
      @NegatveSpace Před 2 lety +12

      Plans are still needed so someone knows what to change when different stuff starts happening.

    • @TheodoreMinick
      @TheodoreMinick Před 2 lety +4

      @@NegatveSpace exactly.

    • @urdaanglospey6666
      @urdaanglospey6666 Před 2 lety +7

      Also, planning gets you in the villain's mindset or more familiar with the situation at hand so, when things go awry, you have a better idea of the pieces/pawns/etc in play that are available to respond with.

    • @AuntLoopy123
      @AuntLoopy123 Před 2 lety +11

      @@nilsjonsson4446 You obviously don't have MY group of players.
      I LOVE how unexpected they are. They are patient with me, as I sit there, holding my head, moaning, "Whaaaaa? How the heck do I DM THIS?!" And then, I respond, and wind up changing canon.
      For instance, in our world, carrion crawlers are now allergic to and terrified of chocolate. Also, chocolate makes "chocolate noises" that are very loud and frightening.
      Because why the heck not?! It was hilarious, so I ran with it. It all started with a critical failure, while one player was trying to tame the carrion crawler, by offering it chocolate. The animal handling check was not likely to succeed, but that Nat 1 clinched it. I always come up with some sort of more-than-mere-failure for a Nat 1, so I said that "It gets a rash, and does 1d4 of damage. It's shocked and surprised." The next thing I know, they're throwing chocolate, and smearing it on their weapons, and casting minor illusion of 5-foot-cubes of chocolate behind the carrion crawlers. 5-foot-cubes of chocolate that "make chocolate noises" thanks to another minor illusion spell. And carrion crawlers have an Int score of 1, so they were terrified of it. And now, it is part of our world lore. Carrion crawlers are allergic to, and terrified of, chocolate.
      They kept four carrion crawlers contained DURING A COMBAT, simply by drawing a circle of chocolate around them.
      Now they're almost out of chocolate, and have to get back to town, and try to place a special order for more, though the Lionshield Coster, because they used seven pounds of chocolate in one encounter.
      Seriously, there was no way to PLAN for that sort of stuff. My niece doesn't just think outside of the box. To her, the box doesn't even exist. Put her with her father (who taught her about ignoring boxes), and no plan I make for them is going to go exactly to plan. I have to spend SO MUCH of my time thinking on the fly.
      But prep is key, so that I can respond with some sort of confidence, and know how things WORK in this world, and what is likely to happen, due to their actions, and "Well, I know that not 50 feet away, around the corner and behind a door, are X monsters, who hear this commotion, and respond by..."
      We've been playing for a while now, and NOT ONE of our encounters have gone according to my plan.
      This is the group that used a rope to pick a lock. "You do whatnow? HOW? Well, when you explain it that way, it actually makes sense. OK, I guess you can try that. Give me a Dexterity check. Wow. You rolled REALLY well."

  • @schylerfontenot7358
    @schylerfontenot7358 Před 2 lety +520

    These things are also good reminders for veteran DMs. Especially knowing that your players aren’t judging you as much as you think, and knowing that you’ll have a bad session every once in a while… very important to keep in mind

    • @023Whiplash
      @023Whiplash Před 9 měsíci

      He mentions these things, so why say ‘also’

  • @yugdaBretsiM
    @yugdaBretsiM Před 2 lety +370

    20 year DM here. This vid is spot on. It took me years to learn some of these lessons. New DMs take this to heart.

    • @theDMLair
      @theDMLair  Před 2 lety +34

      20 years. That's awesome.

    • @joeharvey5556
      @joeharvey5556 Před 2 lety +2

      I played dnd 5yrs when younger. I just learning 5e. Not played in longtime. Ppl want me to dm but im green. I feel not ready .. what do you recommend..?
      Im poor with combat etc

    • @glennjordan5057
      @glennjordan5057 Před rokem +2

      @@joeharvey5556 my best advice for this is aside from running something premade is to give your players upfront honesty that you’re new and learning. Then run a time loop based game. Then you can get messy and make potentially fatal mistakes but it’ll all be okay.

    • @bestlogic9543
      @bestlogic9543 Před rokem

      I will run some one timers then after 3 months when they say im good we get into module etc

    • @yugdaBretsiM
      @yugdaBretsiM Před rokem +1

      @@joeharvey5556 Late reply, but honestly? Jump right in, don’t let failure get to you. You’ll make mistakes regardless of how much you prepare, we all do (I especially still do.) Treat any mistakes as learning experiences, always err in encounter setups on the side of too hard, (especially this edition, PCs are very resilient,) and never let them know what you’re thinking.
      The number one thing you’ll need to learn is to think on your feet, which no amount of world building, planning or record keeping will train you to do. You really just have to get that one “trial by fire” and it takes time.
      Above all act like what they are doing was always your plan, no matter how many notes you have to rip up.

  • @xam_insight
    @xam_insight Před 2 lety +100

    "If you see your players laughing and smiling, if they come back week after week, then you're probably doing just fine." This made me genuinely cry in relief. I'm judging myself too harshly! Thank you for making me realize it, Luke!

  • @TabooX1984
    @TabooX1984 Před 2 lety +305

    "The essence of a role-playing game is that it is a group cooperative experience."
    ~ Gary Gygax
    👍

    • @jonsimpson6240
      @jonsimpson6240 Před 2 lety +14

      Proceeds to invent the tomb of horrors and tomb of annihilation...
      Rip Gary. Thanks for the games.

    • @fenixmeaney6170
      @fenixmeaney6170 Před 2 lety +1

      @@jonsimpson6240 yeah, acererak is kinda an asshole
      And really creepy
      Not in an undead way, as much in a "erase someone's memory and keep them trapped in a lagoon in your dungeon as a personal joke"/"trans your gender and send you outside naked" kinda creepy

    • @brnatlas9611
      @brnatlas9611 Před 2 lety +4

      Right on Gary

  • @shortal
    @shortal Před 2 lety +213

    So since you asked for the "Nein Flavours of Aspargus", here is my explanation:
    1) The Cobalt Aspargus - It somehow tastes blue in a kind, not to confuse with the smurf variant
    2) The wild grown Aspargus - It tastes a clay. Clay. That's it.
    3) The Aspargus of the Sea - It tastes a lot like fish, yet it is vegan. Delicious.
    4) The Colorspray Aspargus - Having his name from a wild sprinkle of color, its taste really reminds me of tealeafs.
    5) The Two-Faced Aspargus - The taste of this one really depends, on some days its really beautiful and delicious, on other days is smells and looks like a rotten green cucumber.
    6) The electrified Aspargus - This one is a special. Unlike most other Aspargus, this one gets fried via electricity and gets really crispy and tender that way.
    7) The Rainbow Aspargus - Probably my favorite one, it tastes like sprinkled with the dust of deliciousness.
    8) The Hot Boi Aspargus - Well this one is more for the eye, than for the taste. It has a dark, purple look, and it kinda tastes like regular aspargus, but with a twist.
    9) The Reborn Aspargus - It tastes like a mixture of the Sea and Colorspray variant, but in the end, it still creates his own flavour. Delicious.
    You are welcome!

    • @theunderjack8349
      @theunderjack8349 Před 2 lety +11

      Came here looking for you

    • @elijahhensley1648
      @elijahhensley1648 Před rokem +10

      LUKE GIVE THIS MAN A PRIZE

    • @AFmedic
      @AFmedic Před 5 měsíci +3

      I have to disagree with you. There is one, and ONLY one flavor of Asparagus. It is called "Inedible" ( or as some say ... Sh*t) LOL

  • @viperv6768
    @viperv6768 Před 2 lety +191

    My previous DM actually quit half way because he wasn't having fun. We were not doing literally anything he planned for... and that was both of our faults. He would make everything seem optional or not important, and besides me, my group was very indecisive, so it turned out badly for all of us.
    For example, my character's brother was going into a dungeon. So I asked if his life was at risk if I didn't go with him. DM said he'd be fine. So I didn't go with him and got back to the main quest. The DM had the whole dungeon planned out and he was very disappointed. However, so was I because I wanted to go down there too, but i thought I'd be helping my DM more by going back to the main quest since I figured if thr DM wanted me to go with my brother, then he'd have told me he was in danger or about some reward.
    I say all of this to new DMs from a player perspective... if a player asks you "I'm not sure what to do" don't be afraid to break the 4th wall and just say "well I planned for you guys to go into the dungeon." In my limited experience, if you tell players you have a direction planned, then they will be more than happy to go that way and come up with a realistic character reason to do so.
    And another note- be careful saying "the room SEEMS empty" when it's actually empty... cause players will spend far too long trying to solve a puzzle that isn't there.

    • @tylerwellman8252
      @tylerwellman8252 Před 2 lety +28

      It is perfectly OK to lead the party in these moments. You gave a solid example when a little railroading is a good thing.

    • @nightskye15
      @nightskye15 Před rokem +14

      Thank you such for the explanation and example. As a long time DM, it's hard to tell when it is appropriate to railroad and especially how. But being upfront was overlooked by me. Thank you again for the Insight and Inspiration 😉

    • @nemooh
      @nemooh Před rokem +4

      you're better off. keep moving.
      But it is Dungeons and Dragons. If there is a dungeon or dragon, you must. It's in the title, after all.

    • @matzl12
      @matzl12 Před 5 měsíci

      @@tylerwellman8252 im hosting my first DnD with my friend group and i never did any DnD or DMing before, we are playing stromwreck isle and i noticed my group didnt go the way where i had stuff ready and there are many kobold as friendly npcs, i just created a kobold named flip that put them to the right direction without breaking the game and it worked wonders, had to do that a second time when the party spend way to long in a tavern, drinking...

    • @xThunderxWolfx
      @xThunderxWolfx Před 4 měsíci

      It seems like your party just isn't very smart

  • @bryanlangerud7953
    @bryanlangerud7953 Před 2 lety +78

    These tips are exactly what I learned over 40+ years playing DND, it’s good to see that they’re being passed on to the younger players.

  • @anastasiawilford2770
    @anastasiawilford2770 Před 2 lety +34

    Common misconception: the primary purpose of corn fields is for pilots-in-training to crash into. Harvesting only happens as a byproduct and corn prices are as low as they are because of a lack of interest in piloting 😁👍

    • @calvinjohnson6242
      @calvinjohnson6242 Před rokem +8

      That’s why popcorn pops. It is genetically engineered for cushioning the fall of planes.

    • @StrazdasLT
      @StrazdasLT Před rokem +2

      Yes, we should encourage more pilots to get trained so we could avoid tthe liquid poison that is corn syrup.

    • @TheReZisTLust
      @TheReZisTLust Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@calvinjohnson6242 the fire helps activate the cushions, it all makes sense

  • @beaujacquier2514
    @beaujacquier2514 Před 2 lety +87

    Since I've literally just started putting together my first campaign I really appreciate this. Thank you.

  • @DrewTombs
    @DrewTombs Před 2 lety +74

    I was always overprepared and found so much of my planning went to waste (though I've since recycled some things that were not used initially). Now, I only really plan for the current trajectory of the party and have a loose-but-adaptable plotline for the overarching story.

    • @MrGBH
      @MrGBH Před 2 lety +6

      I'm making my game world and initial campaign concepts into an RPG, so anything I plan that goes to waste is still getting use

    • @soulfirez4270
      @soulfirez4270 Před 2 lety +7

      I always end my sessions with asking what the players intend on doing ( where they are going to go next with the intent of doing what ever ) so that I can prepare only those things with a few extra bits that can be rotated infront of the players if I need to try and hook them in certain directions .

    • @DrewTombs
      @DrewTombs Před 2 lety +1

      @Soul Firez that's what I've learned to start doing as well. Makes things so much easier. Especially now the druid is level 11 and has access to Transport Via Plants 😂

    • @destructionindustries1987
      @destructionindustries1987 Před 7 měsíci

      Fantastic

    • @DrewTombs
      @DrewTombs Před 7 měsíci +1

      They're all level 17 now so now more than ever my plans are incredible loose, because they can just "nope" their way through most things 😂😭

  • @richardwilliamsiii3035
    @richardwilliamsiii3035 Před 2 lety +25

    I really appreciate this video, I've been "planning" my first DMing session and secretly been avoiding it because I was so worried about how I'd do

    • @theDMLair
      @theDMLair  Před 2 lety +5

      Yeah, just gotta start. Put a date on the calendar with your players and just do it, rain or shine, terrified or excited. It's not nearly as bad as one's mind might make it seem.

  • @bonbondurjdr6553
    @bonbondurjdr6553 Před 2 lety +48

    Your job as the GM: set up a string of situations, hold a coherent, fantastical world, force the players to act.
    How to be a player: ask yourself what you would do as your character because he is defined by his actions, aslways state intent and approach.
    The GM decides when the players roll the dice: when there's a chance of success, a chance of failure, and a consequence for that failure, the dice are rolled to determine the rest of the story. Be fair, telegraph most everything, and tell your players why they are rolling the dice.
    Your GM lexicon: conflict, opportunity, danger, call to action, fellowship, motivation, arbitration, and tags.
    Your best tools: Maze Rats random tables, Godbound random tables, and ICRPG.
    GM reading list: Trap Theory video by Runehammer, the AngryGM's book or his articles about GMing, Basically, SlyFlourish's Lazy Dungeon Master book, and The Monsters Know What They're Doing by Keith Ammann. DM Lair as well, obviously! ;P
    *And know this: you're NEVER going to be perfect, we simply can't and we keep learning forever, so stop worrying and get into the fray because you'll have a hell of a lot of fun. And Luke (Lucas? I don't hear it well.) is right, your players aren't judging you as much as you think they would, they'rej ust busy having a good time. Oh, and steal. Steal, steal, steal good and interesting ideas, you're now part of the coolest club ever: all that advice above? I stole it from the sources I've shared, it's a pleasure for us GMs to have our ideas, adventures, traps, and even advice stolen for somebody else's table. GLHF!* :D

    • @nickwilliams8302
      @nickwilliams8302 Před 2 lety +3

      Thought I'd see Angry in your list of resources after you brought up "intent and approach" (which I agree is key).
      If I could give a new GM only one piece of advice, it would be to read the Angry GM blog. There's just no one else who breaks down the fundamentals quite as well. And a hell of a lot of people (Luke's a notable exception) who don't even try.

  • @beaujacquier2514
    @beaujacquier2514 Před 2 lety +31

    Not sure about flavors but the 12 types of asparagus are Green, White, Purple, Wild, Apollo, Atlas, Jersey series, Mary Washington, Precoce D’Argenteuil, Purple Passion, UC 157 and Viking KB3.

  • @Curator_Crow
    @Curator_Crow Před 2 lety +28

    I'm currently writing a new campaign, and one of my players (a DM of a couple of our other games) decided to send me this video.
    I'm feeling called out but it was extremely helpful in putting a couple things into perspective. Cheers!

  • @apparition668
    @apparition668 Před 2 lety +19

    I have a safe phrase for my players when they're about to do something silly. When they hear, "Are you sure you want to do that?" they know the choice they're contemplating has a high chance of very unpleasant consequences. Sometimes, however, they do it anyway. =)

    • @theophrastusbombastus1359
      @theophrastusbombastus1359 Před 2 lety +3

      The most terrifying things I ever utter to my players are: "Are you sure...?"
      And: "You can certainly _try._ "

    • @FlameUser64
      @FlameUser64 Před 2 lety +1

      @@theophrastusbombastus1359 "You can try" is fine if you only use it to warn players about bad ideas. Just don't do that to poor innocent players when they ask if they can attempt _anything at all ever._ I've had that DM! Twice! It's not fun! It results in a game where as a player I feel too intimidated to take much action at all, nevermind play the seemingly-reckless, semi-calculated-risks swashbuckling types I want to play.
      Don't try to fake players out with that _or_ with asking "Are you sure" for reasonable tasks. Remember that the players don't always have all the same information on the world or even their immediate surroundings that you do as a DM. They're not in that environment, they don't have the luxuries of sight and hearing and touch that their characters do, and they're not familiar with their characters' bodies the way their characters would be. And they're not familiar with the world itself the way the characters would be, having lived in it all their lives! So don't fake the players out unless it makes sense to (such as illusions or a foreign civilization being involved so the characters are just as out of their depth as the players, for example).

    • @theophrastusbombastus1359
      @theophrastusbombastus1359 Před 2 lety +1

      @@FlameUser64 You maybe didn't read the original comment, but certainly sound advice nonetheless 😎
      Thank you for taking the time to share your story.

    • @FlameUser64
      @FlameUser64 Před 2 lety +1

      @@theophrastusbombastus1359 No, I did, I just wanted to put that out there anyway, heh. I just feel fairly passionately about that particular phrase because, yeah.

    • @StrazdasLT
      @StrazdasLT Před rokem

      @@FlameUser64 I always tell the players they can try anything ever. The dice will decide if its possible. and in some cases the negative modifiers will simply make it impossible. Theres always the chance of rolling two nat criticals in a row though.

  • @goliathcleric
    @goliathcleric Před 2 lety +10

    You just had to say it... Here ya go:
    The 9 flavors of asparagus (yes, these are just ways of cooking it):
    1) Grilled
    2) Sauteed
    3) Roasted
    4) Creamed
    5) Puree
    6) As part of a gross "nutrient shake"
    7) Steamed
    8) Raw
    9) Broiled

    • @lwnasidh
      @lwnasidh Před 2 lety +1

      My grandmother used to boil it too, so the list of ways of cooking it is even incomplete.

    • @RottenRogerDM
      @RottenRogerDM Před 2 lety +2

      10. Uneaten. The best flavor.

  • @VictoriaMorganawesometori
    @VictoriaMorganawesometori Před 2 lety +20

    I've been a GM for a few years and always good to hear tips, and your first tip is already fantastic!

  • @jonashansen6391
    @jonashansen6391 Před 2 lety +9

    The Dice touching thing is on page 235 of the DMG. "Don't touch others' dice if they're sensitive about it." That is, if we are thinking of the same quote.

    • @MannonMartin
      @MannonMartin Před 2 lety +6

      It never even occurred to me that anyone WOULDN'T be sensitive about it... Why would you want someone else touching your dice without asking? Not grabbing and touching other people's things without permission is just common courtesy isn't it? It's just polite. It's not even about dice.

    • @jonashansen6391
      @jonashansen6391 Před 2 lety +2

      @@MannonMartin I mean... it IS very sus behaviour haha.
      I just think that including it in the DMG is like swatting houseflies with cricket bats. A bit over the top imo.

    • @minnion2871
      @minnion2871 Před 2 lety +1

      @@MannonMartin Agreed, it's just like anything.... It's rude to touch other peoples stuff without permission... Dice included... or trading cards... or pawns...

    • @StrazdasLT
      @StrazdasLT Před rokem

      Solution: just use virtual dice. No touching involved.

  • @poetrywithbennit
    @poetrywithbennit Před 2 lety +34

    This helped a lot, it's actually my second time but you cleared up ALOT of my errors and anxieties! Thanks :)

    • @soulfirez4270
      @soulfirez4270 Před 2 lety +3

      Relax and enjoy , I would remind you to shine the spot light on each of the players to give them all there moment to do something cool or just important to the story ,as its there story , its your plot but its your characters story .

  • @stephenwells2464
    @stephenwells2464 Před 2 lety +3

    13:47 I don’t care if people touch my dice unless it was Wil Wheaton

  • @bigbuddhamech
    @bigbuddhamech Před 2 lety +13

    This is a fantastic video man. I needed something like this to send my players who want to start their own games but are getting over that initial first hump of anxiety/fear to get started.

    • @theDMLair
      @theDMLair  Před 2 lety +5

      Awesome! Happy to be able to help.

  • @ikjman1
    @ikjman1 Před rokem +5

    For planning. We always plan 3 sessions ahead, we aim to do a session every month.
    We have found out that planning 3 months ahead is the sweat spot for us to make sure we can have a monthly session in a group of 6 players and a DM.

  • @courtneyoverbey3300
    @courtneyoverbey3300 Před 2 lety +5

    As a new/very inexperienced DM, you have given me a lot of things to consider. My last group fell apart due to holidays and schedule changes. Hopefully we'll get to start back up soon.

  • @MrViperashes
    @MrViperashes Před 11 měsíci +3

    Long time player finally running my first game with a coworker and his young sons. We rolled character sheets as a separate event and plan to play our first Golden Vault game next week. I’m really excited to get to help them build the world they want to live in, and this video really helped me seat my confidence in my readiness and ability to make this game fun for them.

    • @MrViperashes
      @MrViperashes Před 11 měsíci

      One of my players is a 6yo that decided on Warlock and it threw me for a loop initially. After this video, I’m realizing I can “gift” him his patron with loot during the opening session of our campaign instead of expecting him to be able to choose one.

  • @SonOfSofaman
    @SonOfSofaman Před 2 lety

    Every one of these points is a gold nugget of timeless advice. You shared many of these points with me a couple years ago and I've been running a game and having fun ever since.

  • @wilsonjonah
    @wilsonjonah Před rokem +1

    Luke, thanks so much for this video! Your number 9 tip completely changed how I look at being a DM... I've been wanting to run an adventure myself for ages, but I've always bene so so nervous about doing it. But with these tips in mind, I feel infinitely more at ease with DMing my first game. Happy New Year, man!

  • @AbyssalDrake88
    @AbyssalDrake88 Před 2 lety +3

    I still struggle with number five. I have thought all of those things after about half of my sessions. But they do keep coming back, they do seem like they're having a good time, so I try not to worry as much. It's been helpful that some players will stay after a bit and we talk about the session, what we thought went right and what went wrong, so that's been good.

  • @davidmc8478
    @davidmc8478 Před 2 lety +4

    Awesome tips. Don’t be afraid to DM, the DM’s standards for the experience they generate are always higher than the players’.

  • @Dhragon
    @Dhragon Před 2 lety +1

    I've been playing and DM'ing for almost 40 years now and I really like the format of your videos. I've got some friends or family that are thinking about trying their hand "behind the screen" and I think your videos will help me, help them. I don't want to teach them how I run a game, I want them to find their own style. I play a wide variety of pen and paper RPG's and I really enjoy see different styles of story telling. Much appreciate the work you've put into these.

  • @KnicKnac
    @KnicKnac Před 2 lety +2

    My main DM used a dry erase map and dice for enemies. We as players could use minis or whatever. I used a putting green coin or small shiny rock. Didn't bother us to busy having fun.

  • @karsonkammerzell6955
    @karsonkammerzell6955 Před 2 lety +4

    1: Roasted Red Pepper
    2: Himalayan Salt & Cracked Pepper
    3: Korean BBQ
    4: Sweet Mango Habanero
    5: Bacon
    6: Lemon Pepper
    7: Garlic Parmesan
    8: Jalapeno & Cheddar
    9: Wasabi
    Bonus: Dill Pickle

  • @viniciusfrj
    @viniciusfrj Před 2 lety +6

    "DnD is not DM vs Players", yeah, tell that to our table lol. We have a running gag that we are always scoring points against the DM and he on us when any makes a question or statement where the other stumbles to or can't answer.
    DM: "you're standing in your tavern..."
    Player: "What's the name of the keeper?"
    DM: "..."
    Players: "OH YEAH, WE'RE WINNING DND"

    • @StrazdasLT
      @StrazdasLT Před rokem

      Any important characters i prepare names and even thier sheets beforehand.A tavern keeper? yeah id just make something up on the spot. your inkeeper is Vasylyj, an immigrant from the east who came here as a child and started his own business. And i just stole his personality from a rat exterminator in a tv show The Strain.

  • @aaronvincent816
    @aaronvincent816 Před 2 lety +2

    This is huge, thank you so much for the tips. Starting my first campaign in a few weeks and I’m super nervous and a bit overwhelmed. Thankfully I know my players well and we should have a good time regardless

  • @AnubisEternally
    @AnubisEternally Před rokem +1

    I'm a new DM with my group playing a basic D&D campaign from D&D beyond. These are amazing tips! I've been super nervous but so far it's been really fun and I've been looking into possibly creating my own homebrew campaign.

  • @LordOfMetal666
    @LordOfMetal666 Před 2 lety +3

    Actually good advice that will save you days and days of trial and error to figure this out on your own. Good video!

  • @lwnasidh
    @lwnasidh Před 2 lety +6

    I prefer green asparagus to white, but like both. I'd rather have it steamed, but I'm not opposed to grilled or even boiled, if there's no other option. All it really needs is a little salt and pepper to bring out the flavor of the asparagus. Adding too many spices just overwhelms the natural taste.

    • @patguardiola4130
      @patguardiola4130 Před 2 lety +3

      Everything important has been said by this man! But try lemon on your asparagus... it´s a completely new level.

    • @theDMLair
      @theDMLair  Před 2 lety +1

      I think I really only ever had boiled or grilled asparagus. And then we just put salt I think on it. I like the flavor though. Don't need to add anything to it to

    • @patguardiola4130
      @patguardiola4130 Před 2 lety +1

      @@theDMLair
      Nothing more heartlifting than having a conversation about asparagus with a great DnD-content creator 😄

    • @lozerette
      @lozerette Před 2 lety

      Ok, but hear me out: bacon-wrapped asparagus.

  • @joaooctaviopereiraneto3837
    @joaooctaviopereiraneto3837 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I'm a beginner Brazilian master and day after day I fall more in love with your content
    Thank you very much for these pearls of learning
    Forgive me for my bad English :D

  • @michaelwood2416
    @michaelwood2416 Před 2 lety

    I just want to say that I find your videos extremely helpful and insightful. In nearly every one that I watch, you make me think of something that I can incorporate into my own game. Something that I simply have never thought of before or a new way of doing something. And for that simple fact, I thank you.

  • @rogthepirate4593
    @rogthepirate4593 Před 2 lety +3

    I agree on almost everything. Except the rules-as-written point. I've played with some house rules since day 1 - for instance ignoring XP and using a milestone system for levelling up instead (which I haven't regretted even once).
    Of course it does come down to how well you do know the more common rules when you start. I've played a few adventures in my group as a player before I became our de-facto DM (The others enjoyed my style best, I guess, plus I go all out with printing minis, making terrain and props and the like and they love that haha), so I already had a decent understanding of what worked well in our group and what didn't.
    So I'd say it depends. For someome completely out of their depth initially, it's probably a good idea to stick to the rules exactly, but if you feel comfortable with it, having house rules from the get-go can totally work.

    • @cleothemuse
      @cleothemuse Před 7 měsíci

      Also depends on if you prefer some things from earlier rulesets. There's a lot in 5e I don't like compared to 3.5e and a lot that felt missing, so house rules to the rescue.

  • @XX-cx7rt
    @XX-cx7rt Před 2 lety +4

    As of now, I feel personally attacked and called out by tips 1, 3, and 5. Lol! I used to write novels **for fun**; granted, I'd never tried to have any of them published, but making sure that what I'm creating is fleshed out with no plot holes, and is something that everyone will enjoy AND be able to critique is one of my biggest "perfectionist" moments. I struggle with enjoying having fun myself in positions of authority because I'm too busy trying so hard to be perfect.
    Edit: On the dice touching debate; I'd say it depends on the dice. A $10 set of dice you can get at your local game store? Sure no problem. A $100 tempered glass set that my best friend got me on my birthday to also commemorate our year long friendship? No, absolutely not. Hands off.
    2nd Edit: "There are no winners or losers in D&D." This is blatantly incorrect. You see, when everyone gets together and has a good time, then everyone is a winner! :3

  • @bondeddy2502
    @bondeddy2502 Před 2 lety +1

    Great advice for new DM’s and a great refresher for the more experienced. Sometimes we loose sight of the basics.

  • @marzdynsouthwick494
    @marzdynsouthwick494 Před 3 dny +1

    I genuinely LOVE all of your videos, they are so helpful, and they have actually gotten me a group that always comes back eagerly. Thank you soooooooo much!

  • @jonathanherman3479
    @jonathanherman3479 Před 2 lety +3

    Definitely good tips to remember 👌 even for experienced DMs

  • @nimric3348
    @nimric3348 Před 2 lety +3

    My tips
    A book of dry erase battle maps( like 20 maps) is the best thing I've ever bought.
    Have ideas for a plot line but don't push it forward, prepare locations, npc and there goals. Don't railroad let the players decide what to do and think how the world reacts.
    Try to prompt close to the end of the session the players plan for next session
    Create combat shortcuts for yourself you could use average damage, roll all attack rolls at one, don't keep track of all hit points on some make them die after so many hits or just decide when.

    • @schwarzerritter5724
      @schwarzerritter5724 Před 2 lety

      What is a book of dry erase battle maps?

    • @nimric3348
      @nimric3348 Před 2 lety

      I love it so much I'm getting the creators volume 2 map set. Easily the best accessory I've ever bought for dnd

    • @schwarzerritter5724
      @schwarzerritter5724 Před 2 lety

      @@nimric3348 okay, but what is it?

    • @nimric3348
      @nimric3348 Před 2 lety

      It's a collection of themed dry erase battle grids, you can draw maps on them or use the base themes. Like beach, forest, city ect.

    • @schwarzerritter5724
      @schwarzerritter5724 Před 2 lety

      @@nimric3348 That sounds convenient. I probably would have used some PVC tablecloth.

  • @nick4676
    @nick4676 Před 2 lety +2

    Being a relatively new DM it feels good to hear that if they come back they are enjoying it enough. Thanks for that !!

  • @joebogart7093
    @joebogart7093 Před 2 lety

    Thanks Luke! Great tips and reinforcement for those of us fairly new to DMing.

  • @jeffbradstreet9865
    @jeffbradstreet9865 Před 2 lety

    I have watched a few of your videos and I really appreciate how you point out the difference between a game and a show. I don't expect to have my games run or feel like one. I don't have the resources and time. Thank you for being down to earth for noob DM's.

  • @cesarpanda
    @cesarpanda Před 29 dny

    "Your players aren't judging as hard as you think they are"... Straight to the heart. Thanks.

  • @sammipraul3446
    @sammipraul3446 Před rokem

    running my first one-shot today, first time DMing. found this super helpful!!

  • @Krikario
    @Krikario Před 2 lety

    I really enjoy your videos, they are very informative and fun to listen to while doing chores between dnd sessions!

  • @samuelleask1132
    @samuelleask1132 Před 9 měsíci

    Thanks for the video dude! It really helped!

  • @Cat-rq9dm
    @Cat-rq9dm Před rokem +1

    I've just started DMing for my first campaign a few months ago, and this really eased a lot of my anxiety around it, still. Thank you LOL

  • @darksideofthephilosopher

    Thank you for the encouragement and the help💜

  • @DMingThoughts
    @DMingThoughts Před rokem

    Great video, all great advices!
    Very, *very* important stuff, every DM should keep these things in mind.

  • @MysticRick
    @MysticRick Před 2 lety

    Always love your energetic videos.
    Thank you for the content you create!

  • @rico3052
    @rico3052 Před 7 měsíci

    Just started DMing my first adventure. Gotta say, these are all things I know just rationally from being a player. Still, hearing them addressed directly definitely helps with some of the pressure. I really appreciate this video. And the wealth of resources on your channel I have to dig through still.

  • @CubaRican226
    @CubaRican226 Před rokem

    Great info for new DMs. Glad I found your channel.

  • @raym8135
    @raym8135 Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you for content! I am new to D&D and this is helpful!

  • @AJBernard
    @AJBernard Před 11 měsíci

    Great vid, Luke! Thank you for this one.

  • @rcschmidt668
    @rcschmidt668 Před 2 lety +2

    Great video, Luke! These are good reminders for new and experienced DMs and players at any level to remember.
    This term has caught on like wildfire: “You can certainly try.” And often, the challenge is stated in the inflection.
    ... And asparagus baked with olive oil and freshly-crushed garlic. 😁

  • @trumanway3763
    @trumanway3763 Před rokem +1

    I just ran my first one shot and am looking forward to running my first campaign, and i must say it is a really good start. If gives you good practice for dungeon design and how to guide your players to interact with your world but not feeling overly stressed.

  • @irenewijman4742
    @irenewijman4742 Před 2 lety +2

    For those interested, here is my way to long experience of the past 4 months. As a little bit of background, I started playing about 2 years ago and haven't played as much as I would have liked (something about a pandemic, idk?) and decided a couple months ago I wanted to try DM'ing as my previous DM was strapped for time and cut his campaign short. Decided to start with Lost Mines of Phandelver to get a feel for the trade while making my own entire world from scratch (I have a pantheon I'm decently happy with but might scratch and redo the world map, it's a long-term thing hence the module).
    TLDR: trust your players with a bit of freedom, roll with their decisions, don't pull your punches with monsters that 'seem' too strong out of fear one of the players may go down, let them. Make mistakes, it's the fastest way to learn.
    I got a 3D printer for mini's, then a second one (first was filament, second is resin for better quality). Only do this if you want an extra hobby, it takes up a lot of time and especially resin printing has a bit of a learning curve, but wow do they look good on the table. Having your own means of producing mini's also allows for a lot of flexibility in what monsters and other things to throw at your players.
    I gave my players quite a bit of freedom with their characters, one is a dragonborn with wings and a tail, he doesn't use them functionally, though I might allow him to eventually. This was justified in his backstory as being experimented upon by the Cult of the Dragon. I also have a fairy barbarian, by one of my experienced players, this was before fairies were offically released. I gave the wizard a ram with the stats of a Nyx fleece Ram, which is utterly to strong as a familiar, but the ram is the husband of the fairy and the roleplay between me as the ram, the fairy and the wizard is absolutely hillarious. Lastly, I have two nobles, one paladin/warlock and one draconic sorceror. The freedom I gave my players has turned out fantastic as all of them are more interested in playing an interesting character rather than metagaming.
    Funny things that happened so far in the campaign: both the fairy barbarian and the dragonborn barbarian absolutely fail at opening doors, they have become the bane of my player's exsistance. They convinced the Redbrands to clear out of the cellars of Tressendar Manor, to avoid being utterly obliderated, aided by the scene of the dragonborn kicking in a door (the only one that would be kicked in) holding a Redbrand up by the throat and the warlock slicing their neck as a statement (great rollplaying ensued). They are now potential allies and the party hired one of them, named Cole, to be a guide to Thundertree. Cole has never really done much adventuring, and roling incredibly low several times he now officially has PTSD from all the monsters he's seen these insane people fight against. He's become the guide/cook/nanny to the fairy's 4 baby mimics, found during a session 0.5 to give my players a 'prologue' to their story and why/how they know eachother.
    Some things I learned: I have been to nice to my players. i had them start at lvl 3 because I personally dislike lvl 1 and 2 and I have been pulling punches when it comes to monsters with multi attack. I have now decided to stop that, underscored by a spontaneous 'gauntlet' we decided to do as we reached a plot point for an absent player and cut the session short. The monsters i threw at them they had already fought before, but now with multi attack and such. They did fine.
    During one session we had a guest player. One of my players decided they wanted to go back a bit to try open 'The Door' again. I should have cut this off before it started or after his first failed attempt and not gone on for 1.5 hours, it wasn't fun for the guest and we could have done this some other time.
    One of my players is an 'audience memeber', he made the sorcerer because the other player made a warlock and they would play off each other as the characters are brothers, the idea being they could help each other with certain skill checks. The player unfortunately doesn't know what to do with this character and during a great oppurtunity for some character development and roleplaying he completely shut down. When I or the warlock player brought this up, things didn't go so well, this player also copes with some mental problems which, I admit, I have no idea how to deal with. For the forseable future i will leave him to be an audience member, maybe prod him again in a few months if he's feeling better.
    Thanks for reading, hope you found it useful or at least entertaining!

  • @journeyscribe6534
    @journeyscribe6534 Před rokem

    This helped me so much!! Thank you!!

  • @frankcoleman3173
    @frankcoleman3173 Před 2 lety

    New Dm and running lost mines of phandelver, really having fun and want to praise people like you who have provided superb information and dnd common sense.
    Thanks!

  • @NegatveSpace
    @NegatveSpace Před 2 lety

    Looking forward to the channel showdown! :)

  • @nategoatchild2507
    @nategoatchild2507 Před 2 lety

    I've run my fair share of games, and looking back on this, these are all great advice. Thank you for your video, I will share this will my friends who want to DM but are unsure about it.

  • @lanag.6898
    @lanag.6898 Před 8 měsíci

    I'm just so happy I stumbled upon this channel! Gonna run my second game for my friends soon, and I ran some as DM but they were just small one-shots, and I loooove your advices and the way you put all the info :D Also made me to sit back and work through all the notes for second game a bit more :)

    • @theDMLair
      @theDMLair  Před 8 měsíci +1

      Awesome, happy to hear you're finding the content helpful!!! :D

  • @neilhenderson6602
    @neilhenderson6602 Před 2 lety +2

    This is just a fantastic reassuring video. I started DMing again after forty, count them, forty years and it’s been all kinds of challenging. I’m enjoying it but I need advice and uploads like these are making it so much easier.

    • @theDMLair
      @theDMLair  Před 2 lety

      Awesome so very happy to help! Swing by our live streams to if you have any questions. We have q&a in a live streams almost every week

    • @neilhenderson6602
      @neilhenderson6602 Před 2 lety

      @@theDMLair Sadly I'm in the wrong timezone but what I've taken to doing is replaying them while I paint my minis for the next session. They are very good too, lots of excellent DM tips.

  • @AAAndrew
    @AAAndrew Před rokem +1

    I'm only six sessions into my first campaign and these suggestions are already quite useful.

  • @kellerbenjaminjames
    @kellerbenjaminjames Před 9 měsíci

    I found your channel by chance, I can really tell that you enjoy this stuff and I have found these videos super useful!

    • @theDMLair
      @theDMLair  Před 9 měsíci

      Awesome, so happy to hear it! :D

  • @janfeinberg3825
    @janfeinberg3825 Před 2 lety

    Great advice and great video!

  • @zartul
    @zartul Před 2 lety +1

    Even to play with a grid, you don't need minis! You can just make a few round tokens with the PCs names and monsters name out of some kind of hard paper, and use some maps and grids made out of paper.
    Or even just sketch the map and grid with a pen, and let players mark their positions using pencils and when they move they just erase the previous marker.
    Coins, and dice can be great to substitute minis.
    As someone who had problems having access to miniatures for years, but always prefered playing with a grid, I can assure there are plenty of ways to do so without being cumbersome.

    • @JustAnotherPerson811
      @JustAnotherPerson811 Před 2 lety +1

      I will also add: gummy bears: you beat the enemy, you get to eat the gummy.

  • @Test-UCKC
    @Test-UCKC Před rokem

    I've been running games at home for my family and their primary experience is in my game. Now my sister is wanting to DM a game but she's scared we may not like it or so on. This video is absolutely perfect and I need to show her, hell it's even helped me with the way i think.
    Thank You!

  • @cromax666
    @cromax666 Před 5 měsíci

    I've bumped into this video and for me as an experienced GM (35 years in RPG) this list is great. Perfectly summarizes all points for new and experienced GMs!

  • @Jaymy580
    @Jaymy580 Před 4 měsíci

    Just come across this video as me and a small group are looking in to starting a campaign for the first time. I'm going to be giving DM a shot and this video has been incredibly helpful!

  • @danielbartz3107
    @danielbartz3107 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for this video, as a new DM. It helped to hear some of these.

  • @RocketCouch
    @RocketCouch Před 2 lety +2

    To your third point, about starting small, I definitely agree for the most part, but there is something that does bug me about that technique. Mind you this is more of a pet peeve of mine, so maybe take it with a grain of salt.
    The issue I have with only developing the starting area is your players' characters. For the most part, they've all probably grown up in this world you're creating, and even if they're the lowest of peasants, they'll probably still have a vague sense of the world's geography. To that end, it might be helpful to come up with a general layout for a world map (online map generators can help with that), place a few dots around the world, pick one to be your capital, and another to be your starting area. You probably wouldn't need more than that to start off.
    A bit of a bonus to this is that as your map evolves and develops, you can sometimes get some kind of quest idea or world building detail from certain features on it.

  • @XanaTv1980
    @XanaTv1980 Před rokem

    Nice Video man!

  • @derekfarmer3803
    @derekfarmer3803 Před 10 měsíci

    This is amazing, I just started my first campaign as a DM last month and your videos have helped so much! And the offense is the funniest but most truthful parts of your videos, keep it up lmao

    • @theDMLair
      @theDMLair  Před 10 měsíci

      Awesome, so happy to help! 😁

  • @davidknaggs8599
    @davidknaggs8599 Před rokem

    G'day mate I have recently found your channel and I have to say it is hilarious with great information
    Thank you for the effort you put into your videos 😁

  • @grantklash186
    @grantklash186 Před 2 lety

    Great advice, thanks man!

  • @gonzalomanzanogonzalez9422

    Amazing DM tips. Please keep going.

  • @aliceofspades
    @aliceofspades Před 2 lety

    Great advice, and I love your shirt!

  • @KoolGeek
    @KoolGeek Před rokem +1

    Hahaha!!! The plane part. LOL! LOVE IT!

  • @Smurbulock1234
    @Smurbulock1234 Před 4 měsíci

    Happy I found this, I am going to begin to DM very soon and needed these 😅

  • @Lambdamale.
    @Lambdamale. Před 5 měsíci

    I started a D&D group 6 months ago. Im DMing the Lost Mine Of Phandelver. Its been an awesome experience. I make a lot of mistakes, but i get a tad better every time, and my group is merciful. I just try to prep, and be as consistsnt as i can. The advice in the book that says "when in doubt, make up the rules" has been a major help...If i make a mistake, they are none the wiser and i fix it the next time around.

  • @angieboolovesalot8581
    @angieboolovesalot8581 Před 9 měsíci

    Man as a new DM binging your videos is a life saver. Luckily my players are all super chill and just in it for some fun escapism and know full well I only even played part of one campaign before jumping in to DMing but still. Wanna do well for them and all these tips help.

  • @1.red.panda.1
    @1.red.panda.1 Před 5 měsíci

    One thing that really helped me as a new DM with players who are new to the game is starting out on an island. I don’t have to do too much prep work for things like that and they don’t have too much decision paralysis when it comes to what direction they need to go to. Also I’d recommend watching yters play first since even watching one campaign can really set you up strong on how to play.

  • @mds000123
    @mds000123 Před 8 měsíci

    Love you energy. Thanks!

  • @lordoftheninth786
    @lordoftheninth786 Před 2 měsíci

    Love the channel!

  • @k.Storelvmo
    @k.Storelvmo Před rokem +1

    As a completely new DM i'm currently in the "Don't change the schedule due to one player" but it's our first campaign and i've told them that after we all get comfortable with the game we'll start running even though we're missing players! So i feel like i found a slight middleground!

  • @theroguegeneralhunter2206

    Fun video. As always very informative. I enjoyed how you pushed your products as part of the show.
    The great Johnny Carson did a short sketch back in 1982 where he performed a scene from Hamlett as if it were a TV show. The vibe I got from your video was so similar, that I had to stop and look it up about midway through. If you have never seen it you might want to give it a look.
    Anyway- Thanks for doing what you do.

  • @toddsyoutube2679
    @toddsyoutube2679 Před rokem

    Great video!!

  • @ruthieisham5939
    @ruthieisham5939 Před 2 lety

    This was encouraging; thanks!

    • @theDMLair
      @theDMLair  Před 2 lety

      You are very welcome. Always happy to help!

  • @itsbitchcraft7327
    @itsbitchcraft7327 Před rokem

    I just started Dming for my teens and their friends. I bought an essentials kit and read everything. I also bought the recommended books to supplement and have skimmed them/marked all the monsters in my campain for easy reference. The problem I ran into was flow/basic steps. I've never played, never seen a game played, and this is nerve wracking. I am so glad I found these videos, but I would really love an even more dumbed down version where you show a full Session One, step by step (obviously each adventures details will be different, but the basics on how to get from the very beginning to the start of the adventure and then what simple first steps look like during the adventure would be great). Mostly I want a safe space for my kids and their friends to have a good time together and I am afraid I am ruining it by never having played/no experience. We've had two sessions and its been rough. If there are suggestions for videos, forums, etc that this mama should know about please share them!

  • @markgnepper5636
    @markgnepper5636 Před 2 lety

    Great stuff friend 👏 👍

  • @cmmndrblu
    @cmmndrblu Před rokem

    This is very helpful. I really want to DM a game and I definitely just need to start!