PSYCHOTHERAPIST REACTS to Dave- Lesley (ft. Ruelle)

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  • @maunarchy272
    @maunarchy272 Před 2 lety +106

    As far as I know it is a true story and Ruelles part when she sings ''A child without a name'' it gives us the image that Lesley did not make it to name her child.

    • @CaptainCupcakez115
      @CaptainCupcakez115 Před 24 dny +2

      I’m 2 years late with this reply but for anyone who sees your comment: Dave explains, in a later track on the same album called Drama, that he based Lesley on his relatives. So the song was a way to tell the story of someone in his family without being specific. Also, as the album shows his chronology through therapy it’s a way of showing how he opened up about the real truth of the things he was saying towards the end, rather than just acting like they happened to random people

  • @jimbean1371
    @jimbean1371 Před 2 lety +90

    This is one of the deepest songs I’ve ever listened to. Every time I listen to it still I struggle not to cry…

    • @markstewart4282
      @markstewart4282 Před rokem +1

      I’m sorry by Joyner Lucas is one of the reasons I’m still here. 😂

    • @teunromme6603
      @teunromme6603 Před rokem +3

      There really is no need to struggle. Just let it come.

  • @jamiealways1976
    @jamiealways1976 Před 2 lety +41

    Dave released an album this year called ‘We’re all alone in this together’ and it has a few which are great for storytelling and more about himself and his life

  • @Rzerhawk
    @Rzerhawk Před 2 lety +55

    The final song in this album, “drama” is an outro to the album and talks about what he learned. He also says, “do you believe that I can illustrate what streatham is, then break the fourth wall and base Lesley on my relatives?”

    • @Averagemeatball
      @Averagemeatball Před 2 lety +3

      why you give spoilers to him bro xD

    • @Rzerhawk
      @Rzerhawk Před 2 lety +4

      @@Averagemeatball lol I thought about that but it seemed like he was pretty curious about whether it was actually true or not

    • @afamagbatekwe4033
      @afamagbatekwe4033 Před rokem +4

      So leasly isn’t his mom but one of his relatives? I was thinking she was his mom and Jason his dad, I forgot which song but he referenced his dad as someone who “ran away from a war and now his son is in a war”. At the end of the song it says a “soldier with out a war” which I believed was a reference to his dad again. I kinda made the connection that his dad was some kind of vet with problems that he laid on his mom before leaving, I’m not sure cauz I’ve searched so much without answers but I love this song man, heard it first almost a year ago and I’ve listen to it well over 200 times it just hits me to the core man. I love Dave and all his music he’s the future of music man.

    • @f4t
      @f4t Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@afamagbatekwe4033 I know this is an old comment I'm replying to but that line about a dad running away from a war is not about his dad, the actual line is "Somali dad ran away from a war, now his son's in a war, that's the cycle we're in". Dave isn't Somali he's Nigerian and in that line he's just talking generally about the state of the world and not about himself. Dave's dad also isn't a veteran but he did get deported when Dave was still at a very young age so he was never part of his life.

    • @viktonner2368
      @viktonner2368 Před 13 dny

      @@afamagbatekwe4033Didn’t you hear he said he met her on the train don’t overanalyse it enjoy it

  • @Watts_that_behaviour
    @Watts_that_behaviour Před rokem +17

    As an actual Lesley iv been in this exact situation.
    Two children by 18 to an abusive man. Shamefully I didn’t get out for me but my daughters I had so low value of my self. Glad I got out. Those two children are now in university. Odds against us but we did it

    • @blueyt622
      @blueyt622 Před rokem +1

      You should be proud. You are so strong. ❤

    • @Watts_that_behaviour
      @Watts_that_behaviour Před 10 měsíci

      @@blueyt622thank you so much. That means a lot ❤

    • @eleonoramori4786
      @eleonoramori4786 Před 7 měsíci

      That’s amazing. I grew up witnessing my mum in an abusive relationship and I can’t tell you how proud and grateful your daughters must be. I understand how hard it must’ve been, you’re so so strong ❤️❤️

  • @nathanbrown1210
    @nathanbrown1210 Před měsícem +1

    Dave is one of the greatest rappers ever already, the imagery he gives describing the outfit getting out of the taxi and light flashes eye gashes during the abuse is just incredible. Basing it on real stories of loved ones is amazing also

  • @derisme1987
    @derisme1987 Před 2 lety +9

    I need f**king therapy after hearing this song.

  • @deseanlothian
    @deseanlothian Před 2 lety +12

    It's finally happening. From the first dave reaction, this became inevitable.

  • @brasse19
    @brasse19 Před 2 lety +21

    next on should definitely be “How i met my ex” from dave 🔥 and greetings from austria 🇦🇹🤝🇺🇸

  • @fibre2735
    @fibre2735 Před 2 lety +8

    Dave always brings amazing awareness to touchy subjects without it being seen forced. He’s of a kind

  • @johnbell1565
    @johnbell1565 Před 2 lety +5

    one more line before a dash like morse code 🔥

  • @bazza1024
    @bazza1024 Před 2 lety +6

    not sure if anyone said yet, but I think in Drama he has a lyric where he says "I based Les off a relative"

  • @Joep02
    @Joep02 Před 2 lety +14

    Been waiting for this one from the get go! Such incredible storytelling with a very important message.

  • @tuckermorris2099
    @tuckermorris2099 Před 2 lety +6

    This song makes my hair stand up and gives me goosebumps.

  • @Watts_that_behaviour
    @Watts_that_behaviour Před rokem +3

    Also it happened the on the tube in London often you’ll see the same people every day. Dave and Lesley struck up a conversation. Each day he was getting an update.

  • @LAVISHING
    @LAVISHING Před 2 lety +8

    Thanks man for having my bud Dave on here. Please check out the album We’re All Alone in This Together. Wrote it will him. This was a fun track to send to him!

  • @robgilmour2172
    @robgilmour2172 Před 2 lety +7

    Really love your reactions & your calm demeanour is so refreshing. Your take on the lyrics is fascinating to me. Keep it up

  • @edi4dam914
    @edi4dam914 Před 2 lety +6

    He said în a different song that Lesley was one of his relatives

  • @jaybainbridge430
    @jaybainbridge430 Před 2 lety +5

    So glad you’ve finally done this ❤️

  • @scottishemmaa2457
    @scottishemmaa2457 Před 2 lety +10

    I watched this on Patreon last week but it was so good I watched it again! Lol!!!
    Great reaction Tom!!! Very powerful track!
    Dave is super talented - I went to his show last week and it was amazing!!! Although I was definitely the oldest there by a good 15 years! Lol!!!
    Unfortunately this is based on a true story of one of Dave’s family members. He confirms this on another track on the same album when he talks about ‘breaking the fourth wall’.
    Dave, Fredo, Meekz, Ghetts and Giggs all performed their track, ‘In the Fire’ at the Brit Awards last month and it was an EPIC performance!!!! They’re like the UK rap Avengers - all so talented, especially Ghetts! Ghetts and Giggs are the ‘generation’ before Dave, Fredo and Meekz (could even argue Giggs is 2 generations of music before Dave) so It was great to see them all up on the stage performing, especially with a genre that would never have been on national TV even 10 years ago!
    Great job Tom and so pleased you enjoyed it, the message is awesome and it’s one everyone needs to hear.
    I agree with your comments at the beginning of the video too - you and Nick were totally meant to do this!!! Sending love guys!

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  Před 2 lety +2

      Thanks so much Emma! We appreciate you and your comments! What a cool experience to see him in person! Thank you for always having great things to say!😊👍

    • @deseanlothian
      @deseanlothian Před 2 lety +2

      Fire is amazing; Ghetts did so much on it. Everyone did so well and he still stood out to me.

    • @scottishemmaa2457
      @scottishemmaa2457 Před 2 lety +2

      @@deseanlothian definitely - Ghetts absolutely killed it!!! His verse was brilliant!

    • @deseanlothian
      @deseanlothian Před 2 lety +2

      @@scottishemmaa2457 Couldn't agree more.

    • @scottishemmaa2457
      @scottishemmaa2457 Před 2 lety +1

      @@deseanlothian if you’ve not seen LeetotheVI’s reaction to In the Fire, you should check it out! It took him over half an hour to get through it - and must’ve rewound Ghett’s verse at least 7 or 8 times lol! Its around half an hour into his reaction of ‘We’re All in this Alone Together’ - I’m sure there are time stamps though - if you don’t have time to watch the entire album.

  • @deseanlothian
    @deseanlothian Před 2 lety +2

    Shivered for about 2 minutes. When you hear there is a sharp pain in her belly.

  • @j.ma1308
    @j.ma1308 Před 2 lety +15

    Dave is the most gifted storytelling rapper EVER

    • @Citygbb
      @Citygbb Před 2 lety

      Fax I’m literally speechless after listening to this song for the first time now

  • @splvi6558
    @splvi6558 Před 2 lety +4

    oh yes, this is one hell of a song cant wait to see your reaction

  • @pkohnn
    @pkohnn Před 2 lety +3

    Dave creates literal art.

  • @PeterLarter81
    @PeterLarter81 Před 2 lety +3

    Perfect album for you

  • @davidbotrashvili5191
    @davidbotrashvili5191 Před 2 lety +4

    Crazy story telling,
    U really should check out "both sides of a smile" from Dave

  • @Theo-wl5mo
    @Theo-wl5mo Před 2 lety +4

    What a fantastic song and reaction!

  • @monolit73
    @monolit73 Před 2 lety +8

    Meet the singer with the most unique voice (dramatic contralto with polyphonic overtones), reactors call her the goosebump queen. "Together with her tessitura, it identifies her potential voice type as dramatic contralto, the deepest, darkest, and most powerful contralto voice." (Wikipedia about Diana)
    Full vocal range - 4 octaves.
    The most famous hit of the king of rock 'n' roll in an unrivaled gorgeous, phenomenal performance by Diana Ankudinova ( 18 y.o.)
    Can’t Help Falling in Love (Elvis Presley / DARK VERSION cover)
    Please react to Diana Ankudinova !
    The number of reactions to Diana exceeded the number of 12 thousand reactions. In my playlist section there are 3 playlists (5k+5k+2k reactions each).

    • @monolit73
      @monolit73 Před 2 lety +1

      Can’t Help Falling in Love
      czcams.com/video/M-znD6QKbrg/video.html

  • @maxmoyer8216
    @maxmoyer8216 Před 2 lety +1

    yessssss!!!! Thank You. I would love to hear you react to Dave- Three Rivers. I think you would really love it and there is really so much to analyze. Love the channel, my mom is a retired therapist and psychologist and I have been showing her Dave's music as well.

  • @Rzerhawk
    @Rzerhawk Před 2 lety +6

    Dave has always been one of my favorite artists, a lot of his songs are so deep and real

  • @Vision_Rize
    @Vision_Rize Před 2 lety +4

    Hey tom lol loving the videos I always click at soon as I see your noti

  • @yeboaaah1449
    @yeboaaah1449 Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks for reacting to Dave again 🔥
    I know you have reacted to his song Pyscho already, but a few songs I would recommend, if you like more of his story telling kind of songs are
    Question Time
    We're all alone in this together
    My 19th birthday
    Heart Attack
    Thanks for uploading this, Dave is Revered over here, and his latest single has been Number 1 in the charts for 5 weeks straight, called 'Starlight', he's a once in a lifetime artist

  • @lukeshepherd8436
    @lukeshepherd8436 Před 2 lety +2

    Bro this, this is the album you need to react to

  • @citral3621
    @citral3621 Před 2 lety +1

    “Let It All Work Out” - Lil Wayne is a must react

  • @mattashcroft8509
    @mattashcroft8509 Před 2 lety +2

    The song is actually about his family member all true and a child without a name because she couldn’t name the baby

  • @nobudy_left
    @nobudy_left Před 2 lety +1

    Thx for the video

  • @Eyetiefrankie
    @Eyetiefrankie Před 2 lety +4

    You need to give Cadet - Closure a listen, it’s insane

  • @tomaskvasnicka9184
    @tomaskvasnicka9184 Před 2 lety +1

    In song Drama he actually said that this story is based on one of his relatives

  • @7Taric
    @7Taric Před 2 lety +1

    I propose to draw your attention to the unique singer from Russia - *Diana* *Ankudinova* . Everyone who heard it for the first time claims that they have never heard such a voice in their life! Check it out!

  • @oisinnoonan3349
    @oisinnoonan3349 Před 2 lety +12

    You have to do Heart Attack by Dave. It is lyrically one of the best songs i’ve ever heard. Definitely worth the listen

  • @F3ar3ss
    @F3ar3ss Před 2 lety +1

    Always awesome to see your channel growth Tom. Your passion for this will continue to drive the channel growth. You and yours are awesome people. Stay humble(as i know you will!), keep up the grind, and watch and millions of people are positively effected by your work. Cheers Tom!
    -James

  • @adambond5590
    @adambond5590 Před 2 lety +3

    If you enjoyed reacting to this I would definitely recommend
    Cadet - Closure
    This track has great storytelling and is a true story based on a previous relationship of his 👀
    Another great reaction as always! 🙂

  • @chisomimmaculataohabuenyi5398

    Dave always met her on the train, same time, same route. They were friends somehow so he knew what was up with her. After the hospital scene, he began the story. To me, I think she died and couldn't name her baby, acc to ruelle

  • @Rabbel5520
    @Rabbel5520 Před 2 lety +3

    Will your patreon videos always be on patreon or will you post them on CZcams later? It’s kinda disappointing that we have to pay for them, it’s quite expensive :(

  • @Galaxics
    @Galaxics Před 2 lety +2

    I really recommend react about "Citizen Soldier - would anyone care"... Thanks for ur videos!!

  • @yobiwankenobi473
    @yobiwankenobi473 Před 2 lety +4

    Hey Great video! I Would recommend listening to Dance with the devil By Immortal Technique. The song is lyrically genius and paints the picture immaculately!

  • @ivanandreassen4917
    @ivanandreassen4917 Před rokem +1

    You need to react to «How i met my ex» one of his best songs

  • @erlandjuniku7724
    @erlandjuniku7724 Před 2 lety +1

    Please do more Dave, do Heart attack by Dave!

  • @whokilledfr.
    @whokilledfr. Před 2 lety +1

    You should react to at night by Lucki, it covers addiction and depression really well

  • @stickman3400Z
    @stickman3400Z Před 2 lety +2

    You should listen to Lil Peep - The Brightside, it’s a really good and interesting song, definitely one of Lil Peeps best songs

  • @CpThugLife
    @CpThugLife Před 2 lety +1

    Pff what a song! So good

  • @_residential.
    @_residential. Před 2 lety +1

    i would kill to see a reaction on arctic eyes by 9tails

  • @codysuttonmusic
    @codysuttonmusic Před 2 lety +1

    I would love to see you react to Ross Capicchioni by Joyner Lucas. Joyner has very deep thinking songs.

  • @tuffmagician
    @tuffmagician Před 2 lety +3

    React to frank ocean pls

  • @josuezozo4618
    @josuezozo4618 Před 2 lety +1

    You should react to my 19th birthday by Dave

  • @conorgoulding4014
    @conorgoulding4014 Před 2 lety +1

    Hey Tom great video. Could you do some of mgks new album mainstream sellout please

  • @user-ns3sb5gi8b
    @user-ns3sb5gi8b Před 2 lety +1

    The song is cool. I recommend Sweet Child O mine by Guns n Roses.

  • @themixer7627
    @themixer7627 Před 2 lety +3

    React to Dear Alcohol by Dax

  • @MysticLGD
    @MysticLGD Před 2 lety +2

    nice

  • @BrendanishLeo
    @BrendanishLeo Před 2 lety +1

    I just want to clarify because of one or two things I heard in the vid, men can be domestic violence victims too! I'm not trying to detract from what happens because women are statistically more likely, but it's not as much as some people might think!
    1 in 4 (25%) women & 1 in 7 (~14%) of men have been victims of severe physical violence by partners!

  • @Watts_that_behaviour
    @Watts_that_behaviour Před 10 měsíci

    Could I do a request? Wrench 22 hush little baby. About a man gravelling with an unplanned pregnancy. It’s so good

  • @cyberash3000
    @cyberash3000 Před 2 lety

    you should listen to ghosts of grenfell 1 and 2

  • @MikiisDelta
    @MikiisDelta Před 2 lety +1

    Do little loaded emotional killer or on my momma

  • @marcusbrown2655
    @marcusbrown2655 Před 2 lety +1

    React to Max Miller “Weekend”

  • @IndigenousEntertainment
    @IndigenousEntertainment Před 2 lety +1

    Day 4 of asking Tom to react to Zevia - if depression gets the best of me

  • @kpzzzfishing5817
    @kpzzzfishing5817 Před 2 lety +1

    Doc I really think you would love jelly role his music is so deep and about his life jelly roll save me please check it out

  • @amycadlwell7170
    @amycadlwell7170 Před 2 lety

    You should react to yungblud parents ❤️ love ur reactions

  • @jaredchamberlain
    @jaredchamberlain Před 2 lety +1

    I'm not crying ur crying

  • @johnwesleyisham
    @johnwesleyisham Před 2 lety +2

    Ok I gotta say I love this is something different. But is there any plans whatsoever for the multiple Abstract or other suggestions that I've put on since this channel started? I thought there was some kind of list or order you guys went in but it seems clear it's more based off popularity. If then I might as well stop since there's no other Abstract fans that seem to be aware of this channel and I'm getting nowhere. Or what would be even cooler is if ya'll appreciate a great artist with uncomparable style and flow, deep/inspirational lyrics and most of all can clearly understand every word he speaks. I just don't see how anyone can sleep on such an amazing artist that's working so hard for the recognition he deserves but isn't getting. Please help me out fam and check him out so we can get more suggestions for him on here!!!

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  Před 2 lety +2

      I do hear you and we have over 5k songs in the request list, some other people have had requests reacted to on patreon, but it can take a while unless theres a consensus of people wanting a particular song 😊👍

  • @MrNonoya_Bizness
    @MrNonoya_Bizness Před rokem +1

    Apparently, Lesley is based on his mother and other female family members.

  • @Josh-in9bj
    @Josh-in9bj Před 2 lety +1

    No Dave met her on the train and was obviously friends with her kept in touch then all of that happened

  • @thenextlennon8411
    @thenextlennon8411 Před 2 lety +1

    Tom mcdonald sober next please

  • @limz5093
    @limz5093 Před 2 lety +1

    React to Complete - Jordan !!!

  • @pumknz5518
    @pumknz5518 Před 2 lety +1

    Hey Dave! Can you react to "Soundtrack 2 My Life" by Kid Cudi?

  • @LeoGer94
    @LeoGer94 Před 2 lety +1

    Please, make a reaction to the songs of the Diana Ankudinova.

  • @addictedtosynthwave8151
    @addictedtosynthwave8151 Před 2 lety +2

    Eden = wake up

  • @Backupnow-gf7wb
    @Backupnow-gf7wb Před 2 lety +1

    React to Brian Mendoza please

  • @erikbertuzzi4635
    @erikbertuzzi4635 Před 2 lety

    React to dance with the devil by immortal technique

  • @geraldjones8010
    @geraldjones8010 Před rokem

    React to his recent album.this is my new best CZcams channel.good content good sir

  • @hi-805
    @hi-805 Před 2 lety +1

    Can u please do juice wrld bad energy its a good one

  • @marcusbrown2655
    @marcusbrown2655 Před 2 lety +1

    React to Mac Miller “weekend”

  • @hexicalcat4937
    @hexicalcat4937 Před 2 lety +2

    React to yeat

  • @bazza1024
    @bazza1024 Před 2 lety +2

    lol ur silly, so caught up in how he came upon the story, I think its meant to be like, a girl he saw on his morning train, and he spoke to daily, or something like that, so she would become someone in the neighborhood he was familiar with, so I think the story is an accumulation of speaking with her several times,.....saying that tho, he did base off a relative, but for the stories sake, the train version is great, What an amazing track tho Am I right? This is deff one the most impressive songs, I've heard as far as story telling goes, and he does it so effortlessly, a lot of artist, strive to be able to tell a story the way Santan can, and not only that, there was a lot of word play, I'm pretty sure u noticed, cuz I saw u smile ever so slightly when they'd happen, loved the reaction, this is personally one my fav's to see reactors react too, I would give it a reaction, but I've obvi heard lol, also when u said "bro" it made me laugh haha, love it! Fingers Crossed you'll do an Agust D track soon!!!

  • @GumerGamer1
    @GumerGamer1 Před 2 lety

    Lesly is actually his mother