I have major daddy issues so I relied on my mom a lot to actually listen to me and understand how I actually felt. The feelings I get from this aren’t like how horrible I feel about my Dad but almost a sense of not wanting to lose the security and safety that my Mom brings me. I don’t wanna grow up and fly away from the nest my mother created for me. It hurts really bad.
Yeah this is how i feel this song too! It really hits that fear bc now i live on my own and often find myself thinking about what id do if i were to lose her. My mom is so important to me. This song always makes me cry :,)
Ahaha this hits different when you went from “gifted, motherly, kind, feminine kid” to “16 yr old depressed, gay dropout” and ur mothers not okay with that 😀
Hits diff when mom dead and you start acting like her and u finally realize why she was the way she was and now u can never tell her that u understand her even if no one did.
Mom, I'm tired Can I sleep in your house tonight? Mom, is it alright If I stay for a year or two? Mom, I'll be quiet It would be just to sleep at night And I'll leave once I figure out How to pay for my own life too Mom, would you wash my back? This once, and then we can forget And I'll leave what I'm chasing For the other girls to pursue Mom, am I still young? Can I dream for a few months more?
The first time I heard this it felt like Mitski reached and plucked a single string inside of me as if my soul were her bass. I was just left speechless
this sounds like she had much more anger and prosperity while singing this than in her original. it's so amazing how much she's passionate her singing, and tired and full or rage and emotion that can only be expressed by music and one's guitar.
I feel like such a horrible son for feeling so deeply to this song, especially because she is the best mom ever. She has listened to me over and over again, loving and doting on me, but even so I am so horrified at the idea that I will become too much the moment I turn 18, and need to leave. She says now "you can live here forever if you want to, because you're my son. I want to keep you forever!" And it breaks me to think of the day that when I turn 18, she'll turn to me, that motherly look gone and instead replaced with a stranger's, saying "I'll help pack your things" like a uhaul worker or airport security after all of your stuff broke open. I don't have the right to feel this way. But I do.
she’s hurt me so much i just want an apology. i just want her to apologize for all of the nights i’ve cried myself to sleep, having intrusive thoughts about ending it all because i’m not good enough. i just want her to apologize, that’s all. i don’t even think she loves me anymore.
This. But I realized she never did. She loved how I made her feel. Now I have no mom. Or more like, I never did. And I feel pathetic for talking about it.
I don’t even have mommy issues. I just love my mum so much and I wish that I could just hug her all the time and it was just me, her and my sister again on our own. I wish our family wasn’t tainted by our shit excuse for a dad or our toxic step dad who keeps acting like he’s the best thing that has happened to us. I just want my mum back
MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOMMMM WOULD YPU WAAAAASSSHHH MYY BAAAAAAACKLK THISSSS ONCEEEEE?????? ANDD THEEEN WE CAAAAAN FORGEEEETTTT AAAANDDD I’LLL LEEEAAAVEEEEEEEEE WHAT IIIM CHASIIING FOR THE OTHERRR GUUUUURLLLSSSSS TOOOO PURSUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE MOOOM AM I STILL YOUNG??? CAN I DREAM FOR A FEW MONTHS MORE??
I’m so sorry I couldn’t just be like her, I’m sorry I’m my own person. I’m not like her. I’m sorry I don’t want for me what you want me to do. I’m sorry mom, I can’t be like you.
The “mom am I still young can a dream for a few moths more” really hit my ‘I dint have a good childhood becuse of my mom and now she makes me feel bad about it”
mom, i don’t want you to go. i don’t want to grow up either. i don’t think im ready to be a grown up and handle my own things. i still need you, i’ll always need you. please let me stay with you forever. i don’t know what to do without you and i don’t even want to know how im gonna be without you. please don’t leave me behind. please. it hurts so much and i love you so much
it’s almost gonna be a year and a half. she really did leave me, she left our family and i guess it was all for nothing. she’s here now phsically but i guess i’ve been motherless for 3 years now
apparently it's too much to ask her to love *me* instead of who she wants me to be. i just want her to love me like she did when i was younger. we used to get along so perfectly. and now i'm the only one in my family who looks out for me.
It's interesting to see how differently everyone interprets this song. All different sorts of pain and mixed feelings. But no one's alone in these comments, that's nice.
i just feel like a constant burden to her no matter how hard i try and how much she has to tell me it’s fine but really i know she wishes i was someone better and i wish i could be someone better for her
Someone who has anxiety and if my mom showed any signs of anger/annoyance of me, I start overthinking about how our relationship will be in the future every time. It got to the point I also relapsed and told myself I deserve everything. I didn't know. I get therapy for it but it still happens.
theres 2 ppl who cry at this, 1. ppl who have bad relationships w theyre moms 2. ppl who are extremely attached to theyre moms and literally couldnt live without them
I love my mom, but I feel like she doesn't love me back, every time that I show her something that I've made and tell her that I'm proud of myself, she doesn't seem proud, she's normal. she prefers my sister and that's a fact, she always cuddles her and hugs her and talk about her day, while with me, it's just me who talks, because I want to let her know that I love her, and I wanna know if she loves me back too...
My mom: *does nothing*
My mentally ill brain:
BYE I WASNT READY FORNTHIS COMMENT
Lmao yes
Yes
your name has k pop in it but u like this music this world doesnt make sense
@@joaogomes1332 do u only listen to one genre of music ..
the weird relationship with my mom and fear of growing up is really hitting tonight
it hurts
Thisss
Are you okey?
Exactly what I'm feeling evertime I listen to o this song
Real
When the mommy issues hit,,
i feel attacked
I felt that ✨✨
felt
How did u know?
yeah
The comments are so recent, are yall okay?
@@markitaneight I was going to say it's probably people who are sad because of the pandemic but mitski being on tik tok also makes sense
No ❤
No 💫
@@markitaneight idk but are you
oh- 👩🦯🧍🏻♀️
I love this version because the screaming feels so much more like a genuine cry for help, for love, than in the studio recorded version.
Real.
i'm sorry, mom. i wish we were young again.
this comment made me cry harder 😭😭
@@ejrose1339 SAME IM A FOUNTAIN RN
STOPP I CAME HERE TO SEE THE GUITAR THING😭😭
THE SONG LEFT ME ON THE VERGE OF TEARS AND THIS COMMENT MADE THEM S P I L L.
WE
Never thought I'd simp over a woman screaming into a guitar so hard.
I did
@@blehpp7192 same
Frfr
mitski gets very uncomfortable when ppl say things like that please dont
I just realized my mom gets so heated at me because I'm a constant reminder of my dad
I related to this comment on another level
SAMME
woah
LMAO SAME. MY MOM SAID THE REASON SHE ACTS LIKE SHE LOVES ME IS BECAUSE IT WOULD BE NEGLECT IF SHE DIDNT LMFAO
same lolz she says i look just like him and i'm like 🧍♀️
this is so raw and it only makes me cry more
class of 2013 kinda night how are we doing tonight kids whos mother chose something or someone over them and then didnt ever apologise
my mom chose my alcoholic of a father over me and my needs LOL 🥰🥰
she didnt chose anything over me she just..didnt chose me at all
she chose drugs 😀🤙
@@hunteralton86 NOOO WAY SAME HERE
@@isoclover aYYYYYYYYYYY ✌️
she makes me feel like a mistake and burden to her life...
You are not a mistake neither a burden; you are just human and it's ok being exactly the way you are
You get me
i dont think any of my friends truly understand what i mean when i say mommy issues but mitski does
I have major daddy issues so I relied on my mom a lot to actually listen to me and understand how I actually felt. The feelings I get from this aren’t like how horrible I feel about my Dad but almost a sense of not wanting to lose the security and safety that my Mom brings me. I don’t wanna grow up and fly away from the nest my mother created for me. It hurts really bad.
Yeah this is how i feel this song too! It really hits that fear bc now i live on my own and often find myself thinking about what id do if i were to lose her. My mom is so important to me. This song always makes me cry :,)
EXACTLY THIS
i kin
THIS IS SO REAL ‼️
SAME
Ahaha this hits different when you went from “gifted, motherly, kind, feminine kid” to “16 yr old depressed, gay dropout” and ur mothers not okay with that 😀
Why did you jist discribe current me and future me?
Az!d Wave :D good luck chief
Yes
yeah you just desribed me too
yup me right now
"daughter lives once, mother lives twice"
Hits diff when mom dead and you start acting like her and u finally realize why she was the way she was and now u can never tell her that u understand her even if no one did.
yall werent joking about this but im literally sobbing my eyes out
Mom, I'm tired
Can I sleep in your house tonight?
Mom, is it alright
If I stay for a year or two?
Mom, I'll be quiet
It would be just to sleep at night
And I'll leave once I figure out
How to pay for my own life too
Mom, would you wash my back?
This once, and then we can forget
And I'll leave what I'm chasing
For the other girls to pursue
Mom, am I still young?
Can I dream for a few months more?
the ,,mom, am i still young, can i dream for a few months more?" always hits me.
mom, i'm trying to love you.
This is so emotional, I can't stop crying at the mom can you wash my back for me part
This woman owns my soul
I love the rawness of this performance.
I would never be able to go to a mitski concert it’d be so embarrassing just standing there bawling my eyes out
This is my roman empire
Yes
Mine too
My mom died from cancer this morning. I wish with every fiber in my body that I made her proud.
You're loved and I hope you're okay after all this time
The first time I heard this it felt like Mitski reached and plucked a single string inside of me as if my soul were her bass. I was just left speechless
this sounds like she had much more anger and prosperity while singing this than in her original. it's so amazing how much she's passionate her singing, and tired and full or rage and emotion that can only be expressed by music and one's guitar.
Whoever disliked this, why you gotta be like that? :(
Fr
it was probably all the moms tbh
or they got outed by their mommy issues and didn’t know how to feel about it
This better than the original
I feel like such a horrible son for feeling so deeply to this song, especially because she is the best mom ever. She has listened to me over and over again, loving and doting on me, but even so I am so horrified at the idea that I will become too much the moment I turn 18, and need to leave. She says now "you can live here forever if you want to, because you're my son. I want to keep you forever!" And it breaks me to think of the day that when I turn 18, she'll turn to me, that motherly look gone and instead replaced with a stranger's, saying "I'll help pack your things" like a uhaul worker or airport security after all of your stuff broke open.
I don't have the right to feel this way. But I do.
all i feel is pain
If this wasn’t recorded I don’t think we’d still be alive
"Mom, am I still young?" broke me
how is she not bursting with tears on the first like 3 seconds of the song?
i'm crying.Mitski is so talented
THIS IS MY ROMAN EMPIRE
this song makes me cry my eyes out, my relationship with my mother isn’t good and im becoming an adult soon
Me too I’m scared
i miss u mama
it’s either we have mommy issues or we’re too reliant on our mothers
Or both
Or both
No In-between
Mom, just love me one more time before my childhood ends.
Ahh yes time for my 3am cry about my loving my mom but hating her for hurting me and not loving me in the way I need❤
My mom told me to die last week. I'm still thinking about her words.
not a single dislike on this video
they were mad about how this song called oht their mommy issues
Who done this.
It’s that type of night
i dont have mommy issues
i just really like mitski!
i love this woman
she’s hurt me so much i just want an apology. i just want her to apologize for all of the nights i’ve cried myself to sleep, having intrusive thoughts about ending it all because i’m not good enough. i just want her to apologize, that’s all. i don’t even think she loves me anymore.
Omg, how I understand you so!😭
This. But I realized she never did. She loved how I made her feel. Now I have no mom. Or more like, I never did. And I feel pathetic for talking about it.
I don’t even have mommy issues. I just love my mum so much and I wish that I could just hug her all the time and it was just me, her and my sister again on our own. I wish our family wasn’t tainted by our shit excuse for a dad or our toxic step dad who keeps acting like he’s the best thing that has happened to us. I just want my mum back
Everybody's gangsta till mitski screams at guitar
the 5 dislikes are from all the teardrops hitting your phone.
lol
MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOMMMM WOULD YPU WAAAAASSSHHH MYY BAAAAAAACKLK THISSSS ONCEEEEE?????? ANDD THEEEN WE CAAAAAN FORGEEEETTTT AAAANDDD I’LLL LEEEAAAVEEEEEEEEE WHAT IIIM CHASIIING FOR THE OTHERRR GUUUUURLLLSSSSS TOOOO PURSUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE MOOOM AM I STILL YOUNG??? CAN I DREAM FOR A FEW MONTHS MORE??
плачу от этой песни как маленький ребенок
SCREAMING, CRYING, BANGING MY HEAD AGAINST THE WALL
i know i wasn't the best daughter but why did u make feel like i am the worst
I wish I was seven again. Before life hit me and I still had a will to live
im sorry mom im sorry, im sorry for never realizing. you were doing all these things for me. im sorry for failing you
This is one song I'll never be able to sing out loud. I can't get past the first verse without breaking down.
I’m so sorry I couldn’t just be like her, I’m sorry I’m my own person. I’m not like her. I’m sorry I don’t want for me what you want me to do. I’m sorry mom, I can’t be like you.
The “mom am I still young can a dream for a few moths more” really hit my ‘I dint have a good childhood becuse of my mom and now she makes me feel bad about it”
HER EMOTIONS ARE SO RAW JUST WOW
Such raw emotion...not afraid to admit I've cried to this song many times
this is why I can’t see mitski live. All her songs are too beautiful for me and I already breakdown at the subtle meaning of strawberry blonde
1:05 literal tears are forming i love her
YOUR PFP HELP?
@@MrLatthawat STOP THIS MADNESS
mom,
i don’t want you to go. i don’t want to grow up either. i don’t think im ready to be a grown up and handle my own things. i still need you, i’ll always need you. please let me stay with you forever. i don’t know what to do without you and i don’t even want to know how im gonna be without you. please don’t leave me behind. please. it hurts so much and i love you so much
it’s almost gonna be a year and a half. she really did leave me, she left our family and i guess it was all for nothing. she’s here now phsically but i guess i’ve been motherless for 3 years now
I wanna cry so bad but the tears don't come out 😜😜😜😜😜
I genuinely cannot listen to this song without crying
This song gets me every single time (I'm crying to this rn lolz)
it hurts it hurts so much
MOM I'LL BE QUIET IT WILL BE JUST TO SLEEP AT NIGHT
apparently it's too much to ask her to love *me* instead of who she wants me to be. i just want her to love me like she did when i was younger. we used to get along so perfectly. and now i'm the only one in my family who looks out for me.
i come to this video like every week
i dont wana get old
This rips into me in a very raw way. It brings out my insecurity of not being enough even for myself.
This song kinda scares me idk why though it's just unsettling to me still a good song though
im crying so hard...
This song makes me emotional everytime i hear it
I wish i was a kid again just for a day
It's interesting to see how differently everyone interprets this song.
All different sorts of pain and mixed feelings.
But no one's alone in these comments, that's nice.
poor mitski :( she thought her guitar was her mom💔
NAHH 😭
i live and love every line of this song
i wanna hug her
The Pain In Her Voice ☹︎
2024 anyone?!🎀
the hurt in her voice
goosebumps
i love having mommy issues (i crave affection and attention and i cry whenever someone tells me they think they are proud of me)
i miss my mom, yet shes only on a work trip. i dont want to grow up. i dont want to experience life without my mom.
TE AMO MITSKI POR TI LE SIGO ECHANDO GANAS
I feel like i've disappointed my mom because of my burnout. I'm so sorry ma, i love you so much but I want to rest.
Я РЫДАЮ, КОГДА ЧИТАЮ КОММЕНТАРИИ И СЛУШАЮ ЭТО ВЫСТУПЛЕНИЕ
i just feel like a constant burden to her no matter how hard i try and how much she has to tell me it’s fine but really i know she wishes i was someone better and i wish i could be someone better for her
mom im sorry i could'nt fit your expectations
This is when I started to truly appreciate Mitski as an artist
I love my mom.
IM SOBBING I LOVE MITSKI SO MUCH
Well this night is going great😀🧍🏼♀️
MOM, WOULD YOU WASH MY BACK THIS ONCE?
AND THEN WE CAN FORGET, AND I'LL LEAVE WHAT I'M CHASING FOR THE OTHER GIRLS TO PURSUE 🗣🗣‼‼❗❗
Someone who has anxiety and if my mom showed any signs of anger/annoyance of me, I start overthinking about how our relationship will be in the future every time. It got to the point I also relapsed and told myself I deserve everything. I didn't know. I get therapy for it but it still happens.
theres 2 ppl who cry at this,
1. ppl who have bad relationships w theyre moms
2. ppl who are extremely attached to theyre moms and literally couldnt live without them
I love my mom, but I feel like she doesn't love me back, every time that I show her something that I've made and tell her that I'm proud of myself, she doesn't seem proud, she's normal.
she prefers my sister and that's a fact, she always cuddles her and hugs her and talk about her day, while with me, it's just me who talks, because I want to let her know that I love her, and I wanna know if she loves me back too...