Meeting My Partner’s Kids for the First Time || Collab Story Time

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  • čas přidán 14. 09. 2020
  • It can feel like so much pressure for both the adults AND the kids when you’re introducing a new romantic partner for the first time, but I think-at least for us-the way we met each other’s kids for the first time really worked out well and reduced that kind of pressure on each other and our children. And it worked out the best for the long run-we’re just two weeks away from celebrating our second anniversary. 💕 I hope you enjoy hearing our story!
    WATCH PIXIE CANADAY’s VIDEO HERE:
    #howimethiskids #datingafterdivorce #blendedfamily
    Thanks for watching!
    💕 Laura
    Let’s be friends! / smallstuffbigfamily
    Blended family + coparenting resources:
    www.smallstuffbigfamily.com

Komentáře • 83

  • @BrittanySerrato
    @BrittanySerrato Před 3 lety +4

    I like how you introduced each other as friends to your kids. I feel like that makes the first meeting a little easier

  • @SwansonCrew
    @SwansonCrew Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing this! I love this video!

  • @ValerieSantos
    @ValerieSantos Před 3 lety +1

    Hi friend here watching! Excited to hear yalls story 💗💗

  • @JenniferGFamily
    @JenniferGFamily Před 3 lety +1

    Hey hey beautiful! I’m excited to hear YOUR story ♥️

  • @tiffanyjetter7254
    @tiffanyjetter7254 Před 3 lety +1

    Loving ur hair Laura!!! Soo pretty my friend!!

  • @ashleyforbes
    @ashleyforbes Před 3 lety

    Awww loved hearing how you introduced the kids to him & his kids!! 💖💖 I could imagine it would be a tricky situation but yall def handled it amazing!! 🥰

  • @MegaMom
    @MegaMom Před 3 lety +3

    So excited to hear this! I love hearing how people do this with their children (I have a stepdad- he’s basically my dad since he’s been around since I was 5)

  • @BrittanySerrato
    @BrittanySerrato Před 3 lety +1

    I’m excited to hear about this!

  • @rochellehdz.1143
    @rochellehdz.1143 Před 3 lety +1

    Love your story thanks for sharing!:)

  • @JenniferGFamily
    @JenniferGFamily Před 3 lety +2

    I’m listening to this while getting stuff ready for school and such and I LOVE that you introduced them at the pumpkin patch! Just casually bumping in is such a good idea!

  • @MegaMom
    @MegaMom Před 3 lety +1

    I love how you introduced your kids to each other as friends! I think that was perfect for ya’ll 💖

  • @KerissaShaylynn
    @KerissaShaylynn Před 3 lety +2

    I’m excited for this video!!

  • @SwansonCrew
    @SwansonCrew Před 3 lety +1

    I’m excited for this video! Here watching, sweet friend! ❤️

  • @MrsHillpartyof6
    @MrsHillpartyof6 Před 3 lety

    I love your approach! That was such a sweet story! I got to know you a little better. ❤

  • @BrittanySerrato
    @BrittanySerrato Před 3 lety +1

    I think you guys went about it really well!

  • @LauraValverde.
    @LauraValverde. Před 3 lety +2

    I love the approach you guys took in getting your kids together as just friends! That's a good way to start I think. I'm so glad it turned out awesome for your whole family!💕

  • @loveandfuzzydusters
    @loveandfuzzydusters Před 3 lety

    It all seemed very well thought out so that it wouldn’t stress out your kids. So sweet!! Thanks for sharing ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ashleyforbes
    @ashleyforbes Před 3 lety

    Hey hey!! Here watching !! 🌻

  • @ValerieSantos
    @ValerieSantos Před 3 lety +2

    I love how y’all introduced each other 😍🙌🏼 no pressure it’s perfect ❤️

  • @FunandBudget
    @FunandBudget Před 3 lety

    Ha! At that planned/unplanned playdate - love it! Thanks for sharing your story. Our story is so uneventful...him and his daughter were both at my grandmother's house for thanksgiving.

  • @caylacurry8064
    @caylacurry8064 Před 3 lety +2

    I am very interested to hear your story! My stepdad was a constant male figure in my life and I am forever grateful for him

  • @crystalhernandez4512
    @crystalhernandez4512 Před 3 lety

    Thanks for sharing this story. I think yall make great choices with how you would intro each other to the kiddos 🙂

  • @caylacurry8064
    @caylacurry8064 Před 3 lety

    I will definitely be checking out her channel!

  • @MrsHillpartyof6
    @MrsHillpartyof6 Před 3 lety

    good job mama being cautious and using your intuition!

  • @KerissaShaylynn
    @KerissaShaylynn Před 3 lety +1

    I loved this!!! Thanks for opening up a bit on the topic I know most people are in the same boat but are nervous to talk about it!

    • @ShowMeAnAdventure
      @ShowMeAnAdventure  Před 3 lety

      It’s such a personal topic! Thanks for being so kind! 💕💕💕💕

  • @OurNationalAdventure
    @OurNationalAdventure Před 3 lety +2

    Such a sweet story. ♡

  • @SwansonCrew
    @SwansonCrew Před 3 lety +1

    I loved how you guys introduced each other as friends and was able to see how each of you interacted with your children at the pumpkin patch.

  • @JenniferGFamily
    @JenniferGFamily Před 3 lety +3

    “We don’t wanna mess around we don’t wanna play games” I AGREE! 🙌♥️Once you know what you want don’t settle for less! I can’t stand when people “play games” like do you wanna be with that person or not?!

  • @ashleyforbes
    @ashleyforbes Před 3 lety

    Thats a really cool way to meet each other for the first time!!

  • @SamRadecki
    @SamRadecki Před 3 lety +1

    I completely agree about cutting anyone off if you get any weird vibe!

  • @VLoveTarot
    @VLoveTarot Před rokem +1

    thanks for sharing!

  • @KerissaShaylynn
    @KerissaShaylynn Před 3 lety +2

    I feel like that was a sweet way to do it without pressure!!

  • @caylacurry8064
    @caylacurry8064 Před 3 lety +2

    I cannot imagine how hard it was dating as a single mom. I love to hear that you trusted your gut

  • @TravelandFestival
    @TravelandFestival Před 3 lety +1

    GOOD PRESENTATION👍😊❤️

  • @FaustineMbeh-vt4iz
    @FaustineMbeh-vt4iz Před měsícem +1

    Very cool idea 😂😂😂😂yes! At the party too 👌😘😂😂😂😂and kids bond quickly that way too 😂😂😂😂boys during a games too since boys are usually into sport can arrange a tanker game 😂😂😂😂set them up like that your idea was so helpful 👌😘thank you for this ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @KerissaShaylynn
    @KerissaShaylynn Před 3 lety +2

    Pumpkin patch 😍😍😍😍awww how sweet

  • @amayi_pernecia
    @amayi_pernecia Před 3 lety +2

    I’m a step mom as well .. this was so good

  • @tiffanyjetter7254
    @tiffanyjetter7254 Před 3 lety +3

    That’s sweet that he adopted ur daughter. I definitely know it’s hard to date as a single mom. I was a single mom for a long time!!!

  • @MegaMom
    @MegaMom Před 3 lety

    Here watching 🖤🖤

  • @Daffodils2Daisies
    @Daffodils2Daisies Před 3 lety +3

    I never thought about having the agreement in order! My mom is a step mom to my older sister but my sister was 16 when my folks got married and then she got married when she was 19 so it was very different. I know my mom said she never felt like a true step mom cuz my sister lived mostly with her mom.. but thankfully my mom and my sister are super close now!

    • @ShowMeAnAdventure
      @ShowMeAnAdventure  Před 3 lety

      There are about a billion ways that people do this while blended family thing. I feel like I’m lucky that the girls and I bonded when they were so young, bc now we’re all pretty close. They still of course will always prefer mom or dad over me of course, but I’m glad we have a good relationship. I love being a stepmom! It’s a fun role to have. 💕

  • @ashleyforbes
    @ashleyforbes Před 3 lety

    Oh my goodness!! That is insane!! I cant believe someone said can I crash on your couch if I get drunk 😳🤣🤣

  • @dragonflymagictarot1180
    @dragonflymagictarot1180 Před 2 lety +1

    Same ❤️
    Cutting people off all the time until I met my amazing man 🙏🏼❤️ so blessed 😇

    • @ShowMeAnAdventure
      @ShowMeAnAdventure  Před 2 lety +1

      Amen!! 💕🎉

    • @dragonflymagictarot1180
      @dragonflymagictarot1180 Před 2 lety +1

      @@ShowMeAnAdventure yass sis. Thank you for the advice. I sincerely appreciate it. I'm nervous but looking forward to meeting his kids. He's got 5 and I got one. haha Should be fun

    • @ShowMeAnAdventure
      @ShowMeAnAdventure  Před 2 lety

      @@dragonflymagictarot1180 I hope everything works out!!! We’ve got a big crew too. It can be challenging but also very fun. 💕

  • @Innerrelief
    @Innerrelief Před 3 lety +1

    🍭 Interesting experience family! thank you for sharing! greetings! 😎✌

  • @SamRadecki
    @SamRadecki Před 3 lety

    October 14th is my dads birthday! Such a special day 🥰

  • @MrsHillpartyof6
    @MrsHillpartyof6 Před 3 lety +1

    Omg the guy that asked to crash on your couch! 🤦‍♀️

  • @TeresitaMendoza
    @TeresitaMendoza Před 3 lety +1

    Hello beautiful ma'am done watching and listening full support let's stay connected... keep safe always

  • @SevenInAll
    @SevenInAll Před 3 lety +1

    I think dating when you have kids would be kind of....intimidating, for sure. The pumpkin patch and the haybale maze sounds like it would have been fun except for the little one getting separated. You guys did get married pretty quickly! For me and Angel....our whole relationship was 8 months from beginning for marriage, but we'd been friends for a while before that (he had a girlfriend when I first knew him so he was not an 'option' in my mind at the beginning, haha!

    • @ShowMeAnAdventure
      @ShowMeAnAdventure  Před 3 lety

      When it’s meant to be it just all works out, doesn’t it?! I’m glad you guys ended up together! I love watching all of your adventures. Beautiful family! 💕

  • @ThisAdventureFamily
    @ThisAdventureFamily Před 3 lety +1

    ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

  • @tiffanyjetter7254
    @tiffanyjetter7254 Před 3 lety +1

    I’ve heard good things about Match.com . I was on pof and Christian mingles. Those sucked. Lol

  • @caylacurry8064
    @caylacurry8064 Před 3 lety

    "Okay these people are dating" Hahah

  • @pixiecanaday5692
    @pixiecanaday5692 Před 3 lety +2

    I could not imagine dating while being a single parent. It would be so hard and I would be a crazy protective mom. Def have to trust your mom gut.
    "can I crash on your couch if I get drunk?" 😂 I'm dying! Girl did we date the same people?😂
    I broke up with a guy because of how he talked to my dogs.......yeah I was not F'ing around.
    Too cool for the pumpkin patch? What? NEVER!
    omg look how tiny the kids were! soooo cute.
    I think how you guys had everyone meet was a great idea. Better for it to be low key and no pressure for the kiddos.
    Ummm I'm still super stoked for this Halloween party btw.
    I loved this story so cute!
    Dating after divorce I'm interested to watch because I always wonder how single woman handle that situation.

    • @ShowMeAnAdventure
      @ShowMeAnAdventure  Před 3 lety

      Girl... that drunk couch guy was not even the worst of them by a long shot. Lol 😂 it was an insane time in my life that I don’t love to relive, but I’ll do it for YT 😂 I think that’s why when I met Mark and he was the kind of guy he is... down to earth, honest, hard working, do-anything-to-make-you-happy kind of man... I was like, yep, goodbye dating 👏🏻✌🏻, I’m done with you!
      I hope y’all can come to our party this year!! It’s gonna be a blast! And I can’t wait for the Lemp mansion!! Stoked! 🧡🖤💜

  • @BrittanySerrato
    @BrittanySerrato Před 3 lety +1

    What?! Crash on your couch? Glad you cut that one off lol

  • @KerissaShaylynn
    @KerissaShaylynn Před 3 lety +2

    I got engaged fast too so no judgement

  • @tiffanyjetter7254
    @tiffanyjetter7254 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow I thought most of those kids were his. Idk why.

  • @KerissaShaylynn
    @KerissaShaylynn Před 3 lety +1

    Someone asked to crash on your couch 🤦🏽‍♀️😳