🔴How The Narcissist Reacts When They Leave But You Don't Chase Them | Narcissism | NPD
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Hello everyone, welcome back to our channel. In today's discussion, I'm going to delve into a topic that I've rarely touched upon in the past, or at least, not in the manner I intend to today. It's a subject that primarily revolves around the profound anger of a narcissist and the intense resentment they experience when they don't feel pursued, even after they've belittled you, discarded you, and made you feel entirely insignificant and worthless in their eyes.
Narcissists are extraordinarily dependent on the reactions of others, especially those they view as their primary sources of "supply." If you were that main supply, they would have leaned heavily on your reactions to regulate their emotions, to reassure themselves, to feel significant, and to validate their sense of self-worth. When you fail to respond in the way they require, or more importantly, in the way they anticipate, you inadvertently inflict a deep-seated pain on the narcissist.
A crucial aspect of a narcissist's behavior is their method of discarding people. When they decide they've reached their limit, that they've had enough, the decision to discard always occurs on their terms. Narcissists are exceptionally cautious and are acutely attuned to their supply. They carefully manage their relationships to avoid a scenario where their supply might reject them before they're ready to do the discarding. When they choose to cast aside their source of supply, it's because they believe the timing is perfect, and they've decided it's time for you to exit their lives.
However, the story doesn't conclude there. A couple of significant dynamics are at play in this situation. First and foremost, the narcissist operates under the assumption that you're in a state of mind where you're needy, dependent, and the prospect of surviving on your own seems like an insurmountable challenge. They believe that you're not capable of achieving independence, and this mindset serves to reinforce their sense of superiority and control.
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When you don’t chase them it’s like you’re putting up a mirror to them and showing them that in fact they are not worth it and are not that special
Absolutely, you hit the nail on the head. It's so important to remember our own worth and not let it be defined by someone else's perception. When we refuse to play their game, it can be a powerful statement about our own self-respect. Thanks for your comment!
😂yes, they need me to be devalued as well. Reciprocity is key. 😊
Narcs are nuts. Stay no contact and ignore all hoovers.
Absolutely, maintaining 'no contact' is often the best course of action when dealing with narcissists. By doing so, you protect your mental and emotional wellbeing. Your advice about ignoring their 'hoovers' is right on the mark. It's all about setting boundaries and prioritizing your own peace. Thanks for sharing your insights, they might be very helpful for other viewers going through similar situations.
They seem so nice (at the start) --- until you see who they really are. Nasty people
You're absolutely right. Narcissists often present a charming facade at the beginning, which can make it difficult to recognize their true nature until later. It's a harsh reality to face when their true colors start to show. This only emphasizes the importance of maintaining strong boundaries and taking care of our own mental and emotional health. Thank you for sharing your insights, it helps to spread awareness about this issue.
Yes in start he reached at me on matrimonial site...showed a lots of love concerns everything...but at the end u have to disappointment about his behavior...he she never care about uar pain uar sadness uar life never ever...react like stranger...swing moods,childish behavior Infront of me but perfect in professional life...many time I asked him why u look very different in two different places in office u look different Infront of me different...seriously I never knew about narcissist before a month after breakup I knew I was dealing with a narcissist and from a month I'm getting information about narcissistic personality
Real shitty people
About 3 months in is when the mask slips
Shes discard me before christmass, shes dead for me. Never chase toxic people 😊
I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through this, especially during the holiday season. It's indeed painful, but remember, it's important to prioritize your well-being above everything else. You're absolutely right - chasing after toxic people can cause further harm to your mental and emotional health. Use this time to focus on healing and nurturing yourself. You're stronger than you think, and you will get through this.
Why would I chase someone who hurt me! NO THANKS ! Keep it moving ....
Absolutely! Prioritizing your well-being and self-respect is crucial. It's important to remember that you deserve to be treated with love and respect, and there's no need to chase after someone who doesn't see your worth. Keeping it moving forward is a brave and healthy decision. More power to you!
I didn't chase her, she tried hovering me, through friends but I realised and cut them off permanently
It sounds like you've made a strong decision to prioritize your own well-being, which is commendable. It's not easy to cut off people, especially friends, but sometimes it's necessary for our mental health. I'm glad to hear that you recognized the situation and took action. Keep trusting your instincts and protecting your peace. Thanks for sharing your experience with us.
I'll never go back definitely move on life is to short for clowns
Absolutely! Life is indeed too short to be spent with people who don't respect and value you. It takes a lot of strength to move on, and it's commendable that you've made that decision. Keep prioritizing your happiness and well-being. Thank you for sharing your determination with us. Stay strong!
Im dealing with this now. They left me for the final time. Time to find myself again
I'm truly sorry to hear that you're going through this. It sounds like a challenging and painful time, but your resolve to find yourself again is both inspiring and courageous. Remember, this journey back to yourself is not just about recovery, but also about discovery. You may uncover strengths and passions you never knew you had. Be gentle with yourself, allow yourself time to heal, and seek out supportive communities and resources that resonate with you. You're not alone in this. We're all here to support each other. Sending you strength and positive energy for the path ahead. 💪
Hell yeah 👌
I got the brutal discard as soon as she got graduated after helping her through school and got a new job in the field. She started an argument then purposefully gas lighted me topush me and when that wasn't working when I was trying to reason withhershe began mocking me like I was a stupid oaf at that point I knew she was wanting me to give up so she could blame me for the end and then she raged and abused me as hard as she could saying I never did anything for her and I was worthless to her and left and blocked me. There was absolutely no sympathy or care for if I was ok because I just been released from the hospital. I gave all I could and lived for her and it was devastating never again
I'm really sorry to hear about the pain and difficulty you've experienced. It's very brave of you to share your story. It's important to remember that your worth is not defined by the way someone else treated you. You are strong and resilient, and you deserve respect and kindness. I hope you find comfort and strength in knowing that you're not alone in this journey. Never hesitate to seek help if you need it. Stay strong and keep moving forward. Thank you for sharing your experience with our community.
Yup sounds about right,
Today I ad to carry a dialogue with my narcissistic ex and I couldn't get through the conversation without her trying to belittle me disrespect me by Calling me out of my name so I just hung up ,she hasn't tried to call so I'm hoping she gets the message.
Thank you for sharing your experience. It's never easy dealing with a narcissistic person, especially in direct conversations. It's commendable that you recognized the disrespect and chose to prioritize your wellbeing by ending the conversation. Your strength is admirable. Remember, it's important to establish boundaries and stand up for yourself. Stay strong and keep moving forward. We're here to support you.
Mine discarded me 2 days before my birthday. I didn’t even see it coming
I'm so sorry to hear about your experience. It's really tough when someone you care about lets you down, especially at a time that should be filled with joy. Please remember, it's not a reflection of you, but rather their inability to value others. You deserve better. Stay strong and know that there are people who truly care about you. 💛
Thank you for your affirmation that the ability to introspect and take responsibility for one's own part in the failed relationship is a healthy step. I did this but cannot now seek reconciliation because I'd be back in the same web of chaos
Thank you for sharing your insight and reflections. It's commendable that you've taken the time to introspect and acknowledge your role in the relationship dynamics. Recognizing the importance of this self-awareness, yet also understanding the risks of re-entering a potentially chaotic situation, shows a deep level of wisdom and self-care. Moving forward while maintaining your boundaries is a courageous step towards preserving your peace and well-being. Keep valuing your growth and healing above all. Your journey is a powerful reminder of the strength in self-respect and the importance of making choices that truly serve our best interests.
I have been dealing with them my whole life and in the end their surroundings hates them and leaves them
I'm sorry you've had to endure that. It's a harsh reality that their behavior often leads to isolation. I hope you find the strength and support you need to heal and move forward. Thank you for sharing your experience.
Your welcome and thank you for the encouragement it's very helpful and things to dwell on as I work my way out of this
💯% truth!
Thank you so much for your support! It means a lot to know that the content resonates with you. Let's continue spreading awareness and understanding together. 💪
@@NarcPedia no, thank you for sharing, you did more good sharing with this, appreciate it, helpful and eye opener.
you answered alot of questions i had. great vid
I'm delighted to hear that you found the video helpful and that it answered your questions! It's my goal to provide valuable and insightful content. Thanks for your support and feedback!
I often cut to the chase with people but out of being nice and trying to help cause it often saves time, but on here this topic I would not but self reflect and you see you being good and moving up and they still twirl the same circle THAT WON'T CHANGE and you see a path of patterns that it's not you...! 🔥♥🔥
Your comment touches on an important aspect - self-reflection and recognizing the patterns in others' behavior. It's crucial to realize when the issue isn't about us, but about the other person's unchanging behavior. Your approach of being straightforward can indeed save time and prevent further misunderstandings. Keep trusting your instincts and prioritizing your wellbeing. Thank you for sharing your insights!
Great research retrievability to help any way you can without doing it for me..
I like your style...❤b st therapist ever 😂😂😂
Thank you so much for your kind and encouraging words! It's truly rewarding to know that the information and insights shared here are helpful to you. Your feedback motivates me to continue doing my best in providing valuable content. Remember, we're in this journey together. Take care and stay strong!❤️
Im sorry the begging sounds like an SCP description
Love the vid btw
Thank you for your comment and the compliment! 😊 I appreciate your unique perspective on the introduction. It's always interesting to see different viewpoints.
i stop chasing my ex the narcissist are weird i don’t care if she returns any keys etc my peace is more important
Well said. Focusing on your own peace and well-being is the wisest path forward. Chasing after a narcissist or their belongings will only prolong the pain. By letting go and prioritizing your own healing, you're taking back your power. Your peace and self-care are far more important than any material items or attempts at closure from the narcissist. Stay the course - your mental and emotional health deserve to be the top priority
Why are there now.... Dozens, and Dozens of Podcasters now doing shows on this???
I listen to 2.... This Chanel, and NarcDaily (Andrew)😮
The increasing number of podcasts on this topic likely reflects a growing societal awareness about narcissistic behaviour and its impacts. It's crucial to understand these dynamics to foster healthier relationships and self-awareness. Your active participation and engagement in these discussions is a positive step towards that understanding. Thanks for your support and stay tuned for more content!
Because these demons are everywhere
Why would we need to understand that narraccissts experience anger we all ready know that's rhe majority of what they feel come on now. For real
Thank you for your comment. You're right, it's well-known that narcissists often express anger. However, understanding the root causes and triggers of their anger can help us in dealing with them more effectively. It's not to excuse their behavior, but rather to equip ourselves with knowledge. I appreciate your perspective and engagement with the content!