WOMEN ONLY crave men who DO NOT NEED them (female nature facts)
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Yap, been in that boat multiple times, everything you said is 300% right. From the moment you showed that you care, or tried to dance for her needs you lost. However you forget one thing to mention, a man can turn the wheel in time and cause the reverse, the solution for that man is to cut contact with that woman for a certain period of time to improve, and try to reconnect preferably indirectly with her through her friends. I heard a few stories about men who succeded, and others rejected the same girls that rejected them years prior to their improvement.
Do an interview with Bo Refec from 'Legion of men'.
At this point Why dont u have offspring from every country
I have walked away from several relationships and... only one or two women have called me back. Others just moved on.
Not true. I just got harshly dumped by a woman who was interested in me but I was not so much interested in her. She made attempts to get me, made hints to go deeper, same time I was cool, confident but friendly. I liked her quite a lot but I wasn`t interested being a couple or have serious relationship yet. After some weeks of dating she just dumped brutally. So I lost her.
The last message hits very very deep. Let her leave if she thinks she can do better, u cannot control her nature as a woman but you can control yours as a man
True as long as time
Absolutely true
Agreed, told my spouse you don’t like it there is the door. She stayed.
@@blue_guardian-2023told the same to my spouse for 4 years while she was trying this shit. I finally had to throw her out the door and lock it. She had kicked the efforts up so high she was crossing lines, taking too much of my time, and injuring people close to me...and now she's crying. Can't fix stupid.
Not the easiest way to do especially if im already sleep with her.
“If you want to win in Battle, you must fight as if you are already dead.”
- Miyamoto Musashi -
I don't agree with that, because if you fight like that then it just feels like it's totally pointless, because you're already dead, lol... I would like to actually WIN the "battle" myself, instead of being killed by it, because if you already know that you're gonna die anyway, why even fight in the first place, just totally give up instead...
@@JoeJ-8282you misinterpreted that quote imo… it’s not about being dead… it’s about being fearless and not caring.
It's not about dying, it's about trying your absolute best and not letting criticism put u down
Musashi is the goat just ignore the other guy
@juliend9495 the only fearless men in this world are the ones who want to die, but refuse to take the cowards way out.
When a boy/man/dude, whatever, realises that he, 'doesn't' NEED a female to love him, he to love, or, seek validation from her, not only he has matured, he has also arrived at the 'Promised Land'!
This is powerful
One of the quickest ways to show a woman that you do not need her is to do Semen Retention. After a few weeks of this, you will ooze non-neediness and won't need female validation. Females will begin seeking your validation.
Semen Retention will also bring you closer to the divine/God/universe.
If you know, you know 🙂
Exactly real ones know this 🔥🙌🏾
That will also bring you closer to prostate cancer.
I agree. It’s not just women, semen retention will bring success in all areas of life like health, wealth etc. it’s insane how quickly things change.
I love the part about if you need external validation, there’s a problem with your inner core man you’re slaying it
Never tell a woman that you need her, thats the ultimate sign of weakness and she will have too much power you,
Agreed. It’s cringeworthy when guys say things like ‘I don’t know what I’d do without her’ etc.
Yes, i agree, It just comes off as too needy and desperate for her validation, which inturn will make her feel sorry for him and see him as weak and just play with him until she'll ghost him forever, bruh
AND SHE WILL PUNISH YOU FOR IT. Women with power are more ruthless with power and take no prisoners
A true masculine man puts God first. Seek first the Kingdom of God and everything shall be added unto you.
A true man doesn’t believe in fairytales
@@gideon9849YAWEH is alpha and omega the only way to be a truly truly masculine man
@@gideon9849i bet my life that you have a pentagram somewhere at home you edgy degen.
wanting is bliss, needing is suffering.. having is irrelevant
This guy nails it. I am a Christian, and it's very very sad to me that 100% of my church experience has taught me the opposite, albeit mostly IMPLICITLY (though that might be worse than explicitly). This is fantastic advice that I wish I would have known at 20 instead of 30. Applying what he is saying will set you free.
This is pretty much all true, especially the end part. In my late 20's n early 30's, I did the whole 9 girls at a time, maybe only messed up 2 situations in like a 2 year span, and I think I went back n got 1 of them a fews months later. Now, I just don't have time for that shit, and don't care, probably because it's already been done. Doing the whole routine, and saying some variance of the same things and getting her to come back with me etc.....I just can't be bothered anymore. But all these guys who can't get shit- in a round about way, you have to understand how women are. Your confidence and not caring about what others think about you is vital to your success with them. I cannot stress it enough.
Luca Brazi said in Godfather I at Don Corleone's daughter's wedding...."May their first child be a masculine child". He as right about that.
Dazed and Confused by Led Zeppelin..."Soul of a woman was created below". They weren't that wrong! lol. But seriously C, this is great advice,
Casey this video summarized life in general with our day to day human interactions, you just give us the best advice that any man can get.
11:59 Famous investor James Dines spoke of the weakness of needing to be liked. The dude when he wss well in his 80s sounded like someone in his 40s when he spoke. Greg Mannarino is a present day version of this, I think.
never second guess your presentation style thinking it needs to be more glamorous.. the white board serves you well during these talks and adds an element of " No Bullshit.." Your doing a great service here on your channel and I enjoy how you embrace these topics.. you are well beyond your years.. continue bringing your wisdom.. and old soul in a young body should never be underestimated.. Casey
You're all over it. Great message.
Thanks, Casey. Another one right on point. God Bless you, bro. 💪❤️ for the channel. Sending some love from Deep South Texas 🙏
if I could frame this, do something to keep this particular piece of divine wisdom, if I could make it last forever. I would. Big blessings to you Casey.
You keep hit this on nail on the head .Hell ya!
NEED is DIS-IN-POWERED!🙌
Emotional Control is one of the fastest ways to IN-POWER ourselves. PRESENSE kicks NEED out the window
Brilliant video. Thanks Casey. Great advice. Now I know: I never need to be liked. Must be okay with being alone & building some impressive thing that brings value to my life and others, and never allow her to play first fiddle in my life.
Also, if you don’t need women, why should you care what they are attracted to or not attracted to?
Yep, agreed
Because you like their company ?
Liking them is not needing them
@@juliend9495 then just go to the strip club
@@juliend9495everyone craves company.
Liking is not the same thing as needing
This Is great Casey, thank you very much💪
This is Casey's best video! Definitely following God given purpose gets you every great thing!
Powerful well put together, brother, thanks
Randomly came across your vid and you hit paydirt with the whole 'when you can pull a lot of chicks, it can become pretty addictive". When I was like 27 or 28 I was in this place and as much fun as it was, it was kind of filling a void too.
But you'd agree it's far superior to be a recovering player than a recovering non-selected man, correct?
Hit the nail on the head, been down that road........if you are ever in the UK I will buy you a beer Casey
Absolutely true about stoic traits!
Let's go! Thank you
On point. Well done sir!
Taking notes. Inspiring lecture.
P.S Love your style G.
Ey you dude, you are pure gold. Regards from Argentina. And thaks a lot
This video does make sense and gives detailed prospect on to how you put
Your steps on wooden bollards without falling
All spot on
love your videos brother. Subscribed!
Lit bro ur video's also made me bang Bang Bang right after other GG
I agree with the, fill your cup part. Stop chasing girls. Start chasing your goals. Women will chase you if you're just living your best life.
Man your Old Videos are really GOLDEN!
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4:33 Another Soul SAVED!
So that's why my exes come back when I'm the one who broke up
Yep
And is that a good thing? If you don’t want them back, why mention?
@@JoeBudd-Dur just mad you have zero bitches that are waiting for your approval
@@JoeBudd-Dachievement.
Ice cold facts 🤙
Well I purposely stopped dating and having sex 10 years ago I'm 35 years old. and I just learned how to be happy by myself and avoided any opportunity that i have had on purpose because I don't give a fuck. it is only recently I have stepped back in the past couple months thinking maybe I'm just passing my life with no one in it. I am also 6ft 1. I try to be nice because the other side of me is extreme adrenaline and hatred. so I'm either nice or very hateful.
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More facts. Casey knowsssss.
This is what schools should be teaching
Tru but it ain't happening.
I have been binge watching on utube the different dating coaches and im in my 60s now divorced many years the whole dating mindset has done my head truly spinning .thank goodness not into 😂 that whole dating and relationships anymore feel physically sick this last few days ,good luck k😂
This actually IS an awesome video with essential information to leading a great life, I just wish I could actually find MY true "purpose" in this life, because after almost 50 years of still not knowing that, I'm beginning to think that I do not have one... And of course that is also a big reason why I don't have the drive and passion for life that I need to actually make something out of my life... Honestly IDK what to do after this long...
Also, as good as the info in this video is, let's rephrase this title and premise a little bit, to be more realistic to the way it really is in today's modern society...
Women ONLY crave men who do not need them... AND who they think are hot! (Or at least ones who are really attractive to them, from their individual perspective)
I personally don't need ANY woman per-sé, however, that definitely does NOT make any of them automatically "crave" me... You absolutely MUST have MUCH more about you that they like, in ADDITION to you not needing them!
You spelled out your problem in your first paragraph. Then you reneged, offering up an excuse by blaming women for only wanting hot guys. So which is it? You or those "evil" women?
@@shockmarkets7384 i never said (or even implied) that "women are evil", (that's just YOUR perception), I am just stating the facts of the way it really is in today's society. (And pretty much always has been)(Your looks, especially in your face and overall appearance, are VERY important to women liking you. (Or not))
I know my MAIN problem is not knowing my true purpose in life, (and I stated that explicitly), and I'm NOT denying it either, OR trying to place "blame" on anyone else either, however, women's attitudes and extreme expectations definitely don't help anything, and since I don't know how to find my true purpose, I'm still kinda at a loss after these many decades of life... It is what it is, nothing more, nothing less.
@@JoeJ-8282 I was quoting the video. Call 'em evil or whatever else you want, that keeps you from having to deal with them on human level. I promise man, it's all in your head. Most of what you wrote above is a diatribe of "It's all out of my control".
Your true purpose in life isn't something divine, ordained by god, but kept a secret from you for some reason, that you can't figure out. It's up to you. It's your life. You're in control.
Judging by what you wrote, your problem isn't your lack of purpose, it's the self defeating dialogue going on in your head. It's your perception of yourself that is the problem. I think we all suffer that to some degree, in certain areas of our lives. The point is, and what the video is about, is you, and only you, can fix it. It's up to you.
@@shockmarkets7384 First off, I NEVER said (or implied) that "women are evil"... That is something that YOU mistakingly interpreted from my comment somehow, but I've never thought that and I never do/will. Women are human just like us guys, however, they're usually just a little more "picky" than most guys are, and some of their expectations of guys are sometimes unrealistic, and very difficult for us guys to meet or live up to.
And about the finding my purpose thing... HOW in the world do I do that??! I still haven't ever been able to figure that out, even after this many decades! It's extremely frustrating!
Well said
Thank you from Egypt.
Thank you bro
put this along with the Bible will make you the strongest man alive 🙏🏼✝️❤️ truly doing Gods work casey
Deep.
Correct me if I’m wrong but I had to write it down I might be wrong but here’s the quote that came into my mind:
I’m the one who produced the attraction( the man) therefore I’m the one who’s in control of my attraction I find the woman sexy and appealing because I produced it part of my sexual energy and the reason of why I’m attracted to her I can take it away if I want because I’m in control of my impulses and attraction since it came from me me being the head I was the one who produced the attraction in her and if she rejects it’s either a test or she rejects either way if this happens I can take away the power and the pull of that attraction and return it back to myself because it all came from me. The head. The physical beauty came from her but the sexual attraction and tension came from me.
Amén!
Casey, im nice to women because they all know my family. Only women who dont know my family are allowed to see the other side of me. My reputation is worth more than gold.
That’s an excuse, my women knows my family and just asked for a ride. I respectfully said no, and went on to explain I have work to do. And I do I’m not making it up. Just cause they “know your family” doesn’t mean you can’t set and uphold boundaries.
@@coleaceret I set boundaries, I'm not nice in the sense of being a pushover. It's my understanding that women can change how they view you in the blink of an eye so for men like me specifically we have to be very careful who we use dark triad seductive traits on. High risk because it can all come crashing down on you. In layman's terms its intentionally handicapping yourself for safety purposes. Too much charisma can get you in trouble...
Its wrong to think "being nice" equals good reputation. ALL women will see you as weak but won't say a word.
I'd rather set boundaries and be respected than have women whisper "he's soo nice".
Sounds like you may need to "walk away from your family." You depend on their validation too much. You're probably too needy with them. You care too much about your reputation with them.
There are times in life where we even need to tell our family to "Fuck OFF" so we can level-up and be okay without them.
Don’t seek the pleasures of life, because you can avoid pain and suffering. That’s different when someone imposes their evil wrongdoing or deeds.
Yes!
Not true. I just got harshly dumped by a woman who was interested in me but I was not so much interested in her. She made attempts to get me, made hints to go deeper, same time I was cool, confident but friendly. I liked her quite a lot but I wasn`t interested being a couple or have serious relationship yet. After some weeks of dating she just dumped brutally. So I lost her.
And. Most women act same way.
You must've done something wrong!
@@rayanmarianelli1371 no I did not
This is true
thanx man
Uncle C 💪💪
I will admit, I sometimes still feel like an incel despite having a girlfriend, probably because I feel that my 20s were a waste, didn't have a serious relationship until the beginning of my 30s.
It causes me to envy and resent couples out there younger than me, people who got to experience having a serious long-term relationship before I did and yes I know people will always say comparison is the thief of joy or don't compare yourself to others.
But I believe it's always has been and always will be part of the human psyche, been that way since the beginning of time to feel upset and depressed when you feel you are not part of the norm.
Because of that I feel like a forever permanent incel for all time, even when I did manage to get a girlfriend.
So yeah even while I did have a girlfriend, I still felt like an incel.
I don't see myself ever getting over this, it will be a pain and wound for the rest of my life.
And I'm not afraid to admit that there have been times over the years I have hated being born male, because I know I'm not the only guy in the world that has this mindset, that men have to do everything in dating and relationships and seduction.
Yes I know tons of people say what's the point of being angry and depressed over what didn't happen in the past or not?
Well I'm entitled and I have a right to my mindset, I believe it's always been part of human nature or just the human psyche to always be sad and depressed or angry and resentful over good things that they wish happened to them in the past but didn't.
I know I'm not afraid to admit I have had these thoughts, and I'm sure other guys have thought this way, we feel that if we had been born a woman, we would not have been single that long.
Probably because women just have to exist and they are guaranteed attention and options from Men, that requires no skill or no social dynamics, no game or no seduction.
Guys, men, have to know or learn all of these skills, behaviors, talk a certain way, behave a certain way, act a certain way, walk and stand a certain way, breathe a certain way, have a certain lifestyle, because leading or taking the lead is something that is behavior based, skill based, think a certain way, and many more things, that i either don't know or forgot.
Women just have to exist and breathe and they are guaranteed attention, options, that doesn't require any learning or skill development, it mind boggles me and makes me annoyed when people say women need skills to succeed in dating.
One person I remember I heard said that women need game as well which I thought was the stupidest thing I ever heard.
So ya I still feel like an incel for all time despite managing to get a girlfriend eventually, and I still get irritated and annoyed whenever people and society say that men have it better than women do in the human mating game.
I get even more pissed off whenever people in society say that a guy or a man is still expected to feel happy and glad even if he does finally get laid or gets a girlfriend despite it happening late in life or later than normal, it's not really the way life is meant to be lived and for women that reality is kind of basically just given her handed them, but if you're a guy, you have to work for it.
It should be obvious as to why for all time there have always been more male Wizards than female wizards.
UNCLE CASEY!
Great video
12:48 so true
Where's the line between "being ok alone" and isolating/being a hermit?
The key is being outcome indifferent. Still socialise and date but also enjoy your own company, so ultimately you don’t care if she wants you or not.
This is the realest shit ever wrote!
I thought that when I was a lot younger that a woman would fill my cup. Very very wrong! Good work by putting this out there.
Women crave if you goodlooking
How do i get wemen, I know I probably shouldn't ask this since I'm a dating coach but
I have to know
Gold
Can you please do a video on building self confidence from ground up. Rejection is the biggest fear and it’s built into you from young age. So how do we rewire the brain slowly so after 6 months we have insane confidence to approach? Please don’t just say approach approach approach. Yes we know that but how do we slowly build up to that point so that the fear is gone ? Thanks
Just have the courage to do it and don't give a crap if she rejects you, bruh
When you care they aren't interested. When you finally say fuck it there's no future in pursuing this, and truly mean it, the script flips and she starts chasing. I cared before but now I have truly lost my gaf. They're just hardwired to desire what they can't have. I'm patient and in no hurry. The way I see things is unlike the majority and I'm okay with the outcome. What I want want's me. In divine time she will magically appear in my aura. In the meantime I'm doing me
0:40 i do not ask women what they want in a man. I AM THE MAN, i present myself as I am to reflect who I am. She wants to know, then she gotta try to figure out the puzzle to unravel the mystery of what I am about.
I'm jaded I don't look like Casey. If I did my world would be different like the moment FREE GUY unlocks his character in the movie. The world opened up.
to need = needy = huge turn off
Let go, how about that
Never forget that there's an endless supply of women out there. In the words of H.L. Mencken: "Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another." And: "No matter how much a woman loved a man, it would still give her a glow to see him commit suicide for her."
Did you quit coffee ? You look much brighter and healthier than a few months ago
Slasher ❤
I found out that I like when the man is serious (deep voice and don't make light of things). When I have good mood and feel safe, I like when he is fun too. Then also I will let out my emotions on him to see if he can handle it. If he runs (go away), I think he is weak but if he can understand and not crumble (or run), I think I can lean on him (so I can be more relaxed in his presence). This is not emotional abuse or emotional blackmail (he shouldn't tolerate that kind of behavior). And third thing - yes, he shouldnt crave for external validation! (at all)
I like stoicism only a little bit (not so much - because I like when I make him happy - but only when I want him, because when I am not sure, I prefer when he is independent with his feelings on me) and I dont know if I mind that he would need me (probably I never experienced it with my exboyfriends - I think I wouldnt mind when I am in love with him, but Im not 100% sure). But I like masculine (strong) man who is also good (not really "bad boy" = bad / evil).
Don’t you think you’re asking for things very specific?
Hi, what do you meand by saying "Then also I will let out my emotions on him"? What could be an example of this?
@@ep.sdp. I tell him for example something emotional what I am experiencing (or some of my past experiences).
If a man "runs" after you've let out your emotions, it doesn't necessarily mean he's weak. As men, there are times when we just don't want to deal with all the emotional bullshit that women have, and we just prefer to deal with a woman who has a bit more emotional control of herself.
Men have our own struggles, and we don't always want to sit around and be a woman's therapist, especially if she's not trying to fix her own emotional issues. We don't run because we're weak, we *LEAVE* because it's simpler to find another woman who is less exhausting to deal with.
@@Remember-DeathFacts, this b**** is toxic af.
#gold
When u know u got wheels 😎😂🤘🏾
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser, i wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash.
@josephregland well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer
@josephregland her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster.
@josephregland you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.
All interaction is generated from a need for social validation. Rejecting this basic truth is why ”stoicism” is poisonous, for it peddles an inherently fantastic conception of the human mind, leaving its adherents ultimately unfulfilled.
can you openly discuss your boundaries and use the word or is it better to subtly display or discuss what you wont put up with?
My experience seems to contradict this. Women I date seem to become very insecure when you obviously don’t need them. To the point I feel they can’t actually handle that. Perhaps most women are just very codependent/narcissistic these days, and obviously these aren’t the women you want to date. Healthy women perhaps fall into the narrative of this video. But finding one of these doesn’t seem to be the norm now!
Yeah, that happened to me also, but you have to realise that those are low quality or immature women. Also women expect quick sexual escelation nowadays, if you don't kiss them on first couple dates their interest will plumit. I take things slow, I need to know a lot before I would kiss a girl, just acting kind and looking good will not do it. It only ever served well to me, once I hung out with a girl, she was nice, I thought she is different, 3rd date I saw she was ready for it, we sat next to each other tightly for hours, talking, stargazing. But I just did not feel it yet, you know, could've gone for it, I liked her. So nothing really happened, next date all the red flags came flying at me, partying, some bullshit mentality about having to live through the "bad" things in order to gain "experience", therefore no regrets, that shit turned me off in a an instance, and she uses social media instagram and titktok 8-10 hours a day. In the beginning she was so impressed by me, about how much I know and my hobbies, and she said that she will catch up to me she just doesn't have time for these things, well nos shit if you spend 10 hours on your phone. So I'm glad I haven't made a move, yes it's pleasant to be liked and admired, would've been easy to get sex but I can't be attracted to women like this.
@@rehakmate it's a sad state of affairs. I have attempted to slow things down myself on my past 6 dates and regardless of how well they seemed to go from my perspective, you're right if you aren't escalating sexually, you aren't getting a second date. I do resent the fact I have to push all these seemingly arbitrary buttons to get a response. But women seem to be wired this way so there's no ignoring your part if you want to secure a womans desire. The fact this girl turned out to be unattractive in the end is perhaps secondary to the fact she might have been everything you wanted. And what if you had ruined it by not pulling the trigger? What if this girl took your lack of action as a weakness and moved on. Personally I think I'll just need to play the game.
Is this detachment?
1000%
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100%
Imagine a tool that fails to work the second you need it too.
I'm starting to realize these techniques r powerful. I gotta be careful with this
Ah hah so Casey is teaching techniques. I thought it was all about doing things only for yourself and avoiding techniques.
@@JoeBudd-Dyou are mad asf lmfao you hate yourself
1st!
I live in the moment and give my best to the women and she too; but if she wanna leave me I'm ok because i am a fuckin stud I can generate options 💪💰💲💵
It's better to start off being a player than being a virgin because youre starting off from a postion of extreme advantage.
A woman touches your leg in university i was in, it's a no gamers 20years ago...
That's because they're takers, not givers.
Same reason the majority of them vote left - gimme gimme gimme.
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'Almost your duty?'....Correction; it IS your duty.
I don't think, you necessarily need a god, God, or, gods. You need a higher purpose, and for this, rational thinking is more than enough.
Apart from that - spot on!
Energy cant be created nor destroyed. You should learn that in school. And therefore there is a creator outside of time and space.