The 60'S were far worse than the 80s and 90s. It was totally unacceptable then and almost no one came out. It was in the 70s a lot of people started coming out and acceptance was starting to take place.
@@Nikes62 No. YOU'RE wrong. Being gay is so much easier today than it was in the 70's and 80's. Of course homophobia still exists but back then it was MUCH worse. Today many more people are accepting of gay people but back in the 80's most gay people were closeted. My mother commented to me how there are so many more gay people these days. I laughed and said, "No mom, you just know about more of them. You used to think Rock Hudson, Raymond Burr and J. Edgar Hoover were straight".
@@Nikes62 Not legally. www.cnn.com/2020/06/15/politics/supreme-court-lgbtq-employment-case/index.html?form=MY01SV&OCID=MY01SV Back in the day they could outright tell you that you're fired because you're gay. I realize that there are ways to skirt the law just as many companies do with age discrimination but if caught they can be sued. That did not used to be the case.
Tell that to the gays and trans being legally refused live saving operstion in alabama and those still being assulted or killed on the streets in hate crimes
You are the type of Gay person that make us all feel proud of being who we are!!... I wish you a very happy and successful life!!... God bless you!!...
Such a handsome (cute) young man!!! It's touching to hear these tales of young poeple facing their families and society with the truth about their identitieds and so revealing of society and the church's resistence to sexual variety. Thanks for doing this!!!
Coming out gay as a high school wrestler is very brave. Take it from me, wrestling is/can be a very homophobic sport. I find wrestling interesting cus you have wrestlers and coaches doing and saying gay things, but then will turn around and call someone a fag who's doing the same thing. I'm willing to bet that there are a lot of gays on high school and college wrestling teams and too afraid to come out. Same goes for football players. Overall, you're very brave and you have more balls than anyone on your team. Cheers mate! :D
Great story. You were so brave to come out at your age. A lot of time has past since this video. Hope all is well. Can you make a updated video to let us know how you are doing?
Since your sexual orientation is not a choice and doesn't change, you made the only rational choice of accepting yourself as you are. Hope you have a happy and wonderful life. Thanks for making this video to help others like us.
I AM SO DELIGHTED TO SEE THIS STORY BEING TOLD. SOUNDS PRETTY COOL AND COLLECTED AS FAR AS YOUR EXPERIENCE WITH TELLING THOSE CLOSE TO YOU. YOU ARE SO HANDSOME. I HOPE YOU CONTINUE TO VIDEO BLOG.
Congratulations Justice on your courage and fortitude with your coming out story. I'm sure it has inspired many Gays in similar situations, including me! I'm quite a bit older than you, when coming out prior to 1980, when I was in my teens and 20s, it was much more dangerous to do so back then, for a variety of reasons. And yes, it is NOT a choice, no more than being right handed or left handed is a choice. I was (uncomfortably) living a double life. To this day, I still have 1 foot jammed in the closet, but your video, as well as some other similar coming out videos, have given me the courage to come out to two long time close Straight friends last week, and another one I plan to do very soon. Justice, you're a beacon of Light and an angel sent from up above. :)
Great video man! I enjoyed hearing your story and I subscribed. Think you did a great job! I realized when I made my own coming out video, I should be so lucky to have so many supportive people around me. I wish you all the best!
Your unvarnished honesty will serve as an inspiration for men who have been married for many years & are being forced to finally reveal who they are to their wives...all of whom have been hiding in plain sight the entire time of their marriage.
Good luck to you. Natural reaction to start hating yourself. Worst reaction. You got thru it!! No need to add 'that kind of stuff' and 'and everything.' Have a lovely life.
I completely understand where you're coming from. I was a state medalist in wrestling in high school. People were extremely homophobic. People gave me hell once for wrestling someone in a match from another school who was gay. What they didn't know was that some of our team mates were gay and bi until they came out in college. I remember losing to one of them my sophmore year too. Hey, keep doing you and enjoy wrestling. It's one of the oldest sports around!
I am very proud of you for being so brave, especially as a gay athlete. I know and understand the pressure that comes with being a gay athlete. I’m a high school football coach and I am also a dad. I had to deal with being a gay athlete in high school, football as well as track and field were my sports. I was raised by my grandmother and I was also raised in the Baptist Church where I was a faithful member and very active in my church. I spent most days of my life as a kid feeling like I had no purpose, I also felt as though I could never be accepted or loved because of my lifestyle considering all of the hateful comments that I use to hear from others about the gay community. I struggled with coming out in high school and nobody knew that I was in a discreet relationship with a popular basketball player for the last two years of high school. He went on to play college basketball and I went on to college running track and achieving a degree in music education. I often thought of him and wished that I could still have him in my life but we separated in order to focus on college and to work on our personal growth. I came out to my family while in college after coming out to my friends and fellow athletes. I can honestly say it was not as bad as I thought it would be. lol Though I am single at this point in my life I have an amazing son who is very supportive of me and a family who has finally learned to accept me. I actually had the opportunity to reunite with my ex boyfriend from high school when he surprised me by showing up to my graduation when I received my masters degree. He is in a relationship with a guy and he plays pro basketball in Europe. Justice, thank you so much for sharing your story. I pray that life will treat you kind and I wish you the most success in life. I am very happy that I found your story. I have subscribed to your channel. ♥️
damn I wish I had your courage at that age I never told my Mom or my Nana and they are no longer here. Biggest regret in my life. You are what should've been
You are a hottie 🔥 Thanks for your coming-out story. Hopefully, this helps others. Live your life, follow your dreams. Wishing you nothing but peace, prosperity, and happiness. Big hugs and kisses 🤗💋
Glad you shared your story. It will help many people understand they are not alone. Now that that's out of the way let me just say you are PHYNE!!! I hope you like Black guys. LOL
What a good kid. You did everything right. Your mom must be so proud to have a son who respects her and trusts her help him handle the big important stuff... together.
***** Maybe I should clarify, I was never impressed by athletes who came out, unless they are in combat sports. Not counting WWE of course, those are body builders, not fighters.
Being gay today is easy compared to how it was in the 80s & 90s. You’re gorgeous, and I wish you the best.
@@Nikes62 Seriously!? Nothing changed!??
The 60'S were far worse than the 80s and 90s. It was totally unacceptable then and almost no one came out. It was in the 70s a lot of people started coming out and acceptance was starting to take place.
@@Nikes62 No. YOU'RE wrong. Being gay is so much easier today than it was in the 70's and 80's. Of course homophobia still exists but back then it was MUCH worse. Today many more people are accepting of gay people but back in the 80's most gay people were closeted. My mother commented to me how there are so many more gay people these days. I laughed and said, "No mom, you just know about more of them. You used to think Rock Hudson, Raymond Burr and J. Edgar Hoover were straight".
@@Nikes62 Not legally. www.cnn.com/2020/06/15/politics/supreme-court-lgbtq-employment-case/index.html?form=MY01SV&OCID=MY01SV Back in the day they could outright tell you that you're fired because you're gay. I realize that there are ways to skirt the law just as many companies do with age discrimination but if caught they can be sued. That did not used to be the case.
Tell that to the gays and trans being legally refused live saving operstion in alabama and those still being assulted or killed on the streets in hate crimes
I literally told my mom I was gay right after this video I just wanted to say thank you so much for inspiring me to tell my mom 😊😊😃😃
You seem very sincere and honest and I hope you never lose those qualities. They are very difficult to find in our culture today.
This is many years later, I appreciate so much your story. We are who we are. Your shared your story so so well. Thank you
You are the type of Gay person that make us all feel proud of being who we are!!... I wish you a very happy and successful life!!... God bless you!!...
Such a handsome (cute) young man!!! It's touching to hear these tales of young poeple facing their families and society with the truth about their identitieds and so revealing of society and the church's resistence to sexual variety. Thanks for doing this!!!
Coming out gay as a high school wrestler is very brave. Take it from me, wrestling is/can be a very homophobic sport. I find wrestling interesting cus you have wrestlers and coaches doing and saying gay things, but then will turn around and call someone a fag who's doing the same thing. I'm willing to bet that there are a lot of gays on high school and college wrestling teams and too afraid to come out. Same goes for football players. Overall, you're very brave and you have more balls than anyone on your team. Cheers mate! :D
I completely agree with you Chris Parker.
Great story. You were so brave to come out at your age. A lot of time has past since this video. Hope all is well. Can you make a updated video to let us know how you are doing?
Since your sexual orientation is not a choice and doesn't change, you made the only rational choice of accepting yourself as you are. Hope you have a happy and wonderful life. Thanks for making this video to help others like us.
I remember watching this 3 years ago, and it sure did help me
Great story. Thanks for sharing it! So proud of you.
I AM SO DELIGHTED TO SEE THIS STORY BEING TOLD. SOUNDS PRETTY COOL AND COLLECTED AS FAR AS YOUR EXPERIENCE WITH TELLING THOSE CLOSE TO YOU. YOU ARE SO HANDSOME. I HOPE YOU CONTINUE TO VIDEO BLOG.
Congratulations Justice on your courage and fortitude with your coming out story. I'm sure it has inspired many Gays in similar situations, including me! I'm quite a bit older than you, when coming out prior to 1980, when I was in my teens and 20s, it was much more dangerous to do so back then, for a variety of reasons. And yes, it is NOT a choice, no more than being right handed or left handed is a choice. I was (uncomfortably) living a double life. To this day, I still have 1 foot jammed in the closet, but your video, as well as some other similar coming out videos, have given me the courage to come out to two long time close Straight friends last week, and another one I plan to do very soon. Justice, you're a beacon of Light and an angel sent from up above. :)
Well done. Thank you so so much for sharing. You did an excellent job telling your story and you are an inspiration stay true to yourself.❤
Great video man! I enjoyed hearing your story and I subscribed. Think you did a great job! I realized when I made my own coming out video, I should be so lucky to have so many supportive people around me. I wish you all the best!
He is so innocent omg 😭
You seem hella cool man and hella chill. I'm looking forward to seeing more videos from you! ;)
I hope you honesty and candor have brought you respect and great experiences.
Keep being you. So proud of you for sharing :)
I love your personality. You're beautiful bro, no worries
Your unvarnished honesty will serve as an inspiration for men who have been married for many years & are being forced to finally reveal who they are to their wives...all of whom have been hiding in plain sight the entire time of their marriage.
Cool video Dude, you're a positive influence for all. keep up on the videos Bro.
Great story. Thanks for sharing. Hope you make more vids.
Thanks very much for the upload.
Good luck to you. Natural reaction to start hating yourself. Worst reaction. You got thru it!! No need to add 'that kind of stuff' and 'and everything.' Have a lovely life.
Thanks for sharing. Those people that turned on you were never truly your friends in the first place.
Well I'm a wrestler and I'm bisexual (more into guys) and it's hard for me. But I'm there to win matches no matter who I like
Awwwww your story is sooo sweet :)
i know your mom is cool because she raised a very cool kid. thumbs up.
Looking for more video from you
You were so brave for coming out
I liked the video
Loved your story!
I completely understand where you're coming from. I was a state medalist in wrestling in high school. People were extremely homophobic. People gave me hell once for wrestling someone in a match from another school who was gay. What they didn't know was that some of our team mates were gay and bi until they came out in college. I remember losing to one of them my sophmore year too. Hey, keep doing you and enjoy wrestling. It's one of the oldest sports around!
Nice "coming out story" man, thank's for sharing!
I am very proud of you for being so brave, especially as a gay athlete. I know and understand the pressure that comes with being a gay athlete.
I’m a high school football coach and I am also a dad. I had to deal with being a gay athlete in high school, football as well as track and field were my sports.
I was raised by my grandmother and I was also raised in the Baptist Church where I was a faithful member and very active in my church. I spent most days of my life as a kid feeling like I had no purpose, I also felt as though I could never be accepted or loved because of my lifestyle considering all of the hateful comments that I use to hear from others about the gay community.
I struggled with coming out in high school and nobody knew that I was in a discreet relationship with a popular basketball player for the last two years of high school.
He went on to play college basketball and I went on to college running track and achieving a degree in music education. I often thought of him and wished that I could still have him in my life but we separated in order to focus on college and to work on our personal growth.
I came out to my family while in college after coming out to my friends and fellow athletes. I can honestly say it was not as bad as I thought it would be. lol
Though I am single at this point in my life I have an amazing son who is very supportive of me and a family who has finally learned to accept me.
I actually had the opportunity to reunite with my ex boyfriend from high school when he surprised me by showing up to my graduation when I received my masters degree. He is in a relationship with a guy and he plays pro basketball in Europe.
Justice, thank you so much for sharing your story. I pray that life will treat you kind and I wish you the most success in life. I am very happy that I found your story. I have subscribed to your channel. ♥️
Omg I love this story
You're so cute! Nice story you should be proud of yourself!
Thanks for sharing your story.
awesome. ... you are very brave person. ..keep your head up and move forward. .
This is so nice love your story 😊
YOU ARE BRAVE AND A GOOD EXAMPLE OF LOVE
2021 be u always 💯🥂
damn I wish I had your courage at that age I never told my Mom or my Nana and they are no longer here. Biggest regret in my life. You are what should've been
Well done in coming out it's a tough thing xXx
Amazing video I will be making youtube video this coming Christmas and most likely a coming out story Bless u
+Marquiez Jennings and I would be really happy if I could start getting subs now
Omg!! You're listening to OneRepublic!!
You are a hottie 🔥 Thanks for your coming-out story. Hopefully, this helps others. Live your life, follow your dreams. Wishing you nothing but peace, prosperity, and happiness. Big hugs and kisses 🤗💋
I Bet Your Mom is so Proud of You , This is five years later ! I hope You are doing good with Your Life Justice?
happy for you.
ahh man, this story is so cute...lol i still have gain the strength to do what you did.. and funny enough i also have a step dad
Oh my gosh!!!! I went to school with this dude.
I'm that friend sean, holla boyy
be strong kid. i got your back.
Your really cute Justice ! A handsome fellow u are
As usual, someone’s a perv
I went through some of the stuff as you man
ohmygooooshh he is BOMB
Your a real handsome guy , you wont have a problem meeting a nice partner and having a nice life. !! Well done!!
Well done.
I like the tank shirt that you have on
I have always wondered if there are issues with erections while wrestling???
omg you so beautiful, your eyes dammmmmm.......
justice is beautiful.....
Great 🎥
Dude I think they knew already or they suspected, parents know their kids, and by the way you are dam cute, wow.
niceeeee
Boy I never knew wrestlers could be Gay and HOT😚😉🤠✌️👍 NICE.
Why did you stopping making videos?
GREAT KID!
Glad you shared your story. It will help many people understand they are not alone. Now that that's out of the way let me just say you are PHYNE!!! I hope you like Black guys. LOL
I too was a wrestler in high school, by the way.
@@LincolnDouglass Bro wazzz up like ur comment 15015632829 Lol.😂😂.
Cool kid you are a great young man
How are you doing today in 2021??? Give us an update on your life! ❤️❤️❤️
Haha it is good to hear from another gay wrestler. :) You know Darren Young is also gay and he is a professional wrestler!
What weight class you wrestled in man
Justice?? That's really you're name............
Cool :)
Is your name really Zincstaba?
How have you been doing today?
What a good kid. You did everything right. Your mom must be so proud to have a son who respects her and trusts her help him handle the big important stuff... together.
UPDATE UP DATE UPDATE
it's 10 years later, i trust all is well..............
let us know............
What weight class man you wrestled in.
Hey you have a Kik or something I need /want to talk to you about something
Sit down lmao.
What weight class man. you wrestled in.
Damn. A guy even hotter than Nick Jonas :P
What weight class man you wrestled in
Them liipsss :)))
Can we talk
Well done for you and you are very cute xXx
Justin love UR lips.
You are so darn cute xXx
I am 19 and still in the closet 😔yep life sucks
hilarious joke lol
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I was never impressed when athletes come out. Nothing special about tossing a ball around. Real men do combat sports!
You're an idiot
*****
Maybe I should clarify, I was never impressed by athletes who came out, unless they are in combat sports. Not counting WWE of course, those are body builders, not fighters.
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Like kik or something
I'm bi....who cares? lol
What weight class man you wrestled in
What weight class man you wrestled in.
What weight class man. you wrestled in.