@@minna1682 allow? Mine don't even allow shuttung the doors. The first thing my mom asked when we once locked the doors was, why did you lock the door? With a look that screamed i know you were doing something sneaky and all we did was watch tv past bed time.
I'm just glad my parents let me close the door whenever I want. I know a lot of people whose parents give them no privacy, and I'm always thankful for my parents for trusting me ❤
That was my mom. I started to close my door and stopped talking and sharing any news with her unless absolutely necessary. We had too many arguments and she let it out by mistake one night that she needs to have control over me. 2 years later, now, I close and open my door on my own will. It will be a tough fight, but keep trying.
Yeah... this is a toxic parenting trait in every culture, I think. Privacy is okay. If parents can lock their doors or ban you from their room, it's okay for a child to sometimes lock their door when they want privacy. This sort of practice allows the child to learn the value of privacy and to also feel trusted by their parents Also, not to be that person, but TYSM for the likes :)
Agreed. I am hispanic and my parents also did this, even took off my door at one point. All it did was lead me to hide things from my parents and became way more sneaky. It’s extremely toxic and doesn’t help your child at all.
I used to get in huge fights over this with my parents when I was a teenager. I straight up told them, if you don't want me to lock the door don't give me a door that has a lock. I still to this day have no idea why it was such an issue. Both of my younger siblings were allowed to lock their bedroom doors 🙄
@Heheheheheheheheheh3 Oh, this is India, great! A beautiful country, amazing desserts and a unique culture, but yeah also strict parents! 😄🫢😆 It will be fine, I'm sure they really love you and care about you very much. They will become less strict as you grow up a bit, it's gonna be alright
@@Old.Fashioned.Lover. Yup, its an amazing country, with amazing people and culture! And you're right, they do care about me alot, but sometimes, it can get a *little* bit annoying 😂
I always want to answer to "are you talking back to me?" with "that's how communication works" bc that's literally how it is and I don't understand why parents use this as an excuse in arguments when their children talk to them????????
They don't want a conversation, they just want to talk at you instead. Then when they realise they're wrong they will be able to say "Well why didn't you say something?"
wrong! you should be able to understand how to read between the lines. if your parents are mad and it seems like they don’t want you to answer, DONT! 1. it will carry on the argument and 2. you should respect your elders that help you speak, talk, and be grateful they don’t do really bad things to you, they are trying to discipline you so in school you can get good grades, you can get a job and earn money and live a good life, always listen to your parents and respect your elders, kids. your parents pay for clothes ect and they just want you to live a good life, so follow the house hold rules as you aren’t paying the bills. if you don’t want to get into more arguments, become friendly and form a bond with your parents! don’t give them childish tantrums and comebacks, just accept it. help them with chores, and try to be the best kid to them, as they try so hard to be the best parent to you. everyone gets stressed out sometimes.
When I was a child, my mum and dad used to say “We pay the bills in this house so you do as we say” they were not happy when I moved out and used those same words on them when they came to visit
My parents never had locks on their doors and we don't either with our kid. If the door is shut no barging in. You knock and if someone says you can come in then you can go in. If no one answers that typically means no one is in there so we would go in if we needed something. Rooms shouldn't be "off limits" to anyone. I also think parents should practice what they preach. If your door doesn't lock, neither does mine. And if I want the respect of knocking then you do the same. You have to teach kids how to act as future adults by example. But I know every household is different and what works for one family might not work for another. That's just what works for us. ❤️
Parents think they are entitled to taunt their kids about anything & everything. My parents behaved exactly like this in the video. I left my house & never looked back to even reconcile with my parents. They have asked for forgiveness countless times, but I cannot forget their rude & harsh words which has pierced my heart terribly. They have constantly humiliated & insulted me all the time in front of everyone. I don’t even want to look at their faces. God will surely punish them!!
l can really understand what you are going through, but you have to remember that u should always forgive and forget and l know it will be very hard and it will take some time to do so, and l know their words have really hurt you and anytime you think of them u remember all of those harsh word they said and how they have embarrassed you, l get it l am also a very sensitive person, but you have to remember that they have asked you for forgiveness multiple times and l am pretty sure that if they could change time they would probably not do any of those tings they did, and God will probably forgive them if they are truly sorry for what they did (which l am sure they are) and you on the other hand who is holding on to all these grudges and they have asked for forgives but you wont forgive them that is the same way God will not forgive you for holding on to all those grudges, so pls l beg u l think u should go visit them and accept their apology that is the best to do cause if they die knowing that u did not forgive them, they might never forgive themselves and you will say on judgement day lf l had known and you will probably regret not forgiving them so pls if you read this go and forgive them cause u never know what will happen the next minute.
Yeah I never realize this until now but I don’t do that with my son. He’s only 5 but there are times he closes his door. I just peek to make sure he is okay or not into something when he is super quiet, but he is always playing with toys and then invites me in to play with him because I let him have that time to be himself and to woosah after school. I think it is good to teach them how to set boundaries so they won’t have those issues when they get older.
bro that’s so true tho, im 18 and i’m still living with my mom and sometimes when i’m in the BATHROOM out of nowhere she PICKS THE LOCKER and says that i’m not supposed to be ashamed when she opens the door because we are all “family” ☠️☠️
@@vanillabeanladyAnd then innocently borrow something. At the same time, ask them why they HAVE to lock the door when "they're having sex". They shouldn't need to because "we're family". Even knocking on the door if you can't lock pick will do it. But personally I would come back maybe 2-3 times just to make them annoyed.
Uhm, but when u get older, you obviously don’t wanna have ur door open when you change. Like once you actually hit puberty, most people will not wanna have their parents seeing them changing.
@@scarbarlolz its not that they feel comfortable leaving it wide open, its that they feel comfortable locking the door only when needed,like changing. I got my lock taken off because I had an argument with my dad and i locked the door to calm down in peace, he then a month or two later went on to body slam the door and break it when me and my sister made a makeshift lock out of legos so we could do school in peace and quiet since he decided to have guests over. I never learned a sense of privacy because it wasn't just the door. If i could hide something there, it was looked through. He only had as much decency to not look through my underwear drawer.
@@Moldy_Voldy_26when he found out that you did it just for school and some quiet, how did he react? Any change in his behavior? Have you talked to him about wanting to have some peace of mind with locked doors? I'm often hit with the argument "no one comes to your room anyway" 🤷♀️
I’m so grateful for my parents because they won’t accept it if you lock the door for like, no reason at all, but if ur changing, they will be fine with it. They respect privacy.
I'm just curious. Do you still love your mom? I've been thinking of moving out asap cus of all the nagging and yelling (it's unbearable. there are no peaceful mornings) but the thought of them being alone with no one to depend on makes me sad.
That’s horrible. When you were a young child, they took care of you properly and now they need help too, so you turn your back to them and think “oh right #boundaries” goofy.
@@opixlx not everyone has the ideal happy households. Sometimes you compromise. Sometimes you leave for your own mental peace. It was their decision to have us and hence they are held responsible for it. Sad that you think people pop out kids to take care of them in their old age. That's not the kids' responsibility. That's something done out of affection. But if you never gave them the chance to feel that way towards you...they're free to cut you off from their life. :)
She actually lets me lock the door if I’m about to get dressed. However, that’s it. I’m not allowed to lock the door if I’m doing other than that. Or she’ll be like “why did you lock the door? Are you hiding something?!!”
literallyyyyyy. me and my older sister share a room (we’re both girls dw) but the only time we lock the door is after a shower when we’re getting changed, not even just getting changed normally 😭😭
I don’t like that we make fun of this. This is actually quite sad… no privacy. Then you grow up and behave the same way around your children. It’s an awful cycle and I hope people realize that not being able to close your door is messed up
I agree but making fun of this is a good coping mechanism, so perhaps stop trying to remind us when we were laughing at the video knowing how relatable it is and trying to make light of our horrible lives.
My dad told me to never lock the rooms Im in for the case of there being an emergency. I completely understood that one. What I didnt get is when they removed my whole door because "The cats" which Im allergic to "cant get in". For the first time in my life I completly lost it to the point of (accidental) property damage and the door was back after 3 days of 0 sleep and lots of crashing sounds of my unhinged door falling over
just answer back, what can they do? Kill u? Even if they hit u then they’re the ones going to jail not me (edit: before anyone comes at me, I lived in an abusive ahh house, and was treated like a puppet and a punching bag, one day I started talking back, they realized that they couldn’t use me as a punching bag anymore and I started talking more about how hitting kids is illegal, the abuse has kinda stopped to I can say it works 50%)
@@scoobz4177bcs sometimes parent still think that their teeanage children are babies Even now i have kids,my mom still think im her baby😅 Just explain and talk to your parent about how you feel If they love you,they'll understand eventually,that you are already in that age that you want and need some privacy I remember when i was young i used to shoo her away from my bedroom but now as an adult i miss her nag and nosiness
A bit perverted of you to have assumptions that go straight to the gutter. Some parents want to prevent their kids from becoming drugies before adulthood. At least not in their house...
My parents removed the locks on my door because I told them I needed privacy while crying. They don't even want to make me feel better , they just want to make sure I'm not sneak talking to someone
So black kids are not the only ones that hear this from their parents *you are stunningly beautiful. Also, is it wrong if I know how to Dabke? I do this dance all the time with my friends that are Arabic
If my parents were like that i'd be like.. "okay!" And leave the door wide open while I change and do other private and disturbing things. Im sure they would ask me to close my door arter that😂
Bruh I wasn't allowed to close my door growing up if I had friends over no matter how old we were or whether they were male or female. They also had weird rules about meeting friends and insisted on meeting every guy I went out with so I only went out with a guy once when I was under age. Last time I went out with a guy, they tried to force me to stay until they could meet him and it was honestly so humiliating. I was 20 at the time and old enough to make my own choices without them breathing down my neck. I also didn't want them to meet him bc he had a lot of tattoos and piercings and I knew my parents wouldn't let me leave the house after seeing him simply bc of that. He was a nice guy, but I didn't go out with him again bc I just didn't feel like we had anything in common. Great guy tho, just not for me lol. But yeah, I hate some of their rules. I understand wanting to meet a guy when you're a minor but as an adult on the first date? Insane and weird I think. I'm a very private person tho and I don't like feeling like I'm forced to share things with anyone that I might not want to share or be ready to share. It's ridiculous. Hate it here. I also wasn't allowed to lock my door unless I was changing and even then I got the whole bathroom spiel.
I once had my brother remove the door knob under the order of my mother and I threw such a tantrum over it. The next day my dad installed the door knob again but it still can be opened with a little force even if it's locked. Save my mother anger cause she can barged in whenever she wants.
This happens every single day I'm tired of it sometimes when I'm sad and want to cry alone in my room my parents won't let me have privacy they keep asking to open the door i wish they would understand us children bit more
I totally get you. Sometimes I need to cry and my mom will keep texting me to come downstairs and won't give me that privacy to have my emotions by myself
Recently I locked the door cuz I wanted alone time. Since I am someone who can't cry infront of someone nor do I want someone to walk up on me so I wanted to let it out. It has been 2 months I lost my mom and a lot is going like renting our home now since financial crisis. My dad knocked at the door, not knocked. Literally breaking and he burst in yelling and shouting. I calmly told him but he still was shoutin and said don't talk. He was doubting me I was doing something bad in my phone and I was angry so I gave him my phone. My brother checked my phone and there was nothing. I yelled too and he called me horrible names. He was doubting cuz my sisters were once horrible like affairs etc so he is really strict with me and on top my 2 brothers are drug addicts for years. Now it is been 3 days I am extremely sick, haven't eaten anything for 3 days. Just few bites cuz am very sick now.
Bro as an Asian I can feel you 😭
Brazillian is t same LOL
As an African same lol
I’m south Asian and my parents don’t even allow locks on the door-
@@minna1682 allow? Mine don't even allow shuttung the doors. The first thing my mom asked when we once locked the doors was, why did you lock the door? With a look that screamed i know you were doing something sneaky and all we did was watch tv past bed time.
@@Khanquirat lmao fr 😂
I ended this by having my door wide open when I changed, mom quickly changed the locked door rule 😂
Lesson learned
at one point i should do this 😭😭
My room is just rigged so I just change in the bathroom and close the door and wait for My brother to annoy me and leave the door open 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
My room is just rigged so I just change in the bathroom and close the door and wait for My brother to annoy me and leave the door open 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Genius 👍🏻👍🏻
I'm just glad my parents let me close the door whenever I want. I know a lot of people whose parents give them no privacy, and I'm always thankful for my parents for trusting me ❤
Aww. Your parents must be so nice
Mine too ❤
@@lilxmoonxhow is a basic human right supposed to be nice
@@JokersD0ll Bc unfortunately, a lot of parents think they can just control their kids whenever they want and treat them like trash.
Same here ❤
my parents deadass REMOVED my lock because i wanted privacy, and their response was, “we’re family, you don’t need privacy”
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Bro that's crazy
That's fucked up, every human needs privacy
that is definitely a toxic parenting
“You don’t need privacy” that’s toxic af parenting like who says that? I’m sorry about that dude
no bcs once they see we are right they start saying “dont talk back” ☠️☠️
ikrr
"Fine. I will give you silent treatment."
@@eeaotly then it gets physical.
That was my mom. I started to close my door and stopped talking and sharing any news with her unless absolutely necessary.
We had too many arguments and she let it out by mistake one night that she needs to have control over me.
2 years later, now, I close and open my door on my own will.
It will be a tough fight, but keep trying.
Bruh my dad literally removed the ability for me to lock my door 💀
Yeah... this is a toxic parenting trait in every culture, I think. Privacy is okay. If parents can lock their doors or ban you from their room, it's okay for a child to sometimes lock their door when they want privacy. This sort of practice allows the child to learn the value of privacy and to also feel trusted by their parents
Also, not to be that person, but TYSM for the likes :)
Agreed. I am hispanic and my parents also did this, even took off my door at one point. All it did was lead me to hide things from my parents and became way more sneaky. It’s extremely toxic and doesn’t help your child at all.
Gotta love my Polish family
Bro speaking facts
istg if someone comes in the replies section and goes like “ nO iT iSnt iTs gOod pAreNting”
Everytime I close the door, they are like, don't ever close the door again. Like wtf
I used to get in huge fights over this with my parents when I was a teenager. I straight up told them, if you don't want me to lock the door don't give me a door that has a lock. I still to this day have no idea why it was such an issue. Both of my younger siblings were allowed to lock their bedroom doors 🙄
Y pray tell would they want something your allergic to to come in your room anyway?
When parents never have a cheesy retort to what there kids said, they will always say "ArE yOu TaLkInG bAcK To mE?!"😂
So what you should say is:
- Obviously I'm talking back to you, that's how a simple conversation works.
@@Old.Fashioned.Lover.Yeah, but I am Indian, I'll meet Jesus if I do that😂
@Heheheheheheheheheh3 Oh, this is India, great! A beautiful country, amazing desserts and a unique culture, but yeah also strict parents! 😄🫢😆 It will be fine, I'm sure they really love you and care about you very much. They will become less strict as you grow up a bit, it's gonna be alright
@@Old.Fashioned.Lover. Yup, its an amazing country, with amazing people and culture! And you're right, they do care about me alot, but sometimes, it can get a *little* bit annoying 😂
@Heheheheheheheheheh3 Oh of course it's always like that
And after a while it seems cute when you're an adult 😮💨😄
Oh not the bills bit 😂😂😂
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These are the same people who want you to live with them until you get married.. and even then, they still want to live with you😂!
@@masa3928 Good for you, here in my country parents want you to live with your in-laws otherwise their daughter is a disgrace to them 💀
@@blinkeuisaswiftie8397 may Allah help you 🙄
so the same thing i have to stay with my mum until i get married i like to@@masa3928
@@blinkeuisaswiftie8397me tooo
At this point id juat have really intentional loud sex, if we have to suffer your presence, so do you
My parents never complained if I locked the door. They respected my privacy and trusted me 100 percent.
😂😂so accurate 😭😭😭😂
The " are you talking back to ME???" sent me way too far in my childhood 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂
I always want to answer to "are you talking back to me?" with "that's how communication works" bc that's literally how it is and I don't understand why parents use this as an excuse in arguments when their children talk to them????????
Fr I just want to slap them in the face sometimes
They don't want a conversation, they just want to talk at you instead. Then when they realise they're wrong they will be able to say "Well why didn't you say something?"
bad parents smh 😐
wrong! you should be able to understand how to read between the lines. if your parents are mad and it seems like they don’t want you to answer, DONT! 1. it will carry on the argument and 2. you should respect your elders that help you speak, talk, and be grateful they don’t do really bad things to you, they are trying to discipline you so in school you can get good grades, you can get a job and earn money and live a good life, always listen to your parents and respect your elders, kids. your parents pay for clothes ect and they just want you to live a good life, so follow the house hold rules as you aren’t paying the bills. if you don’t want to get into more arguments, become friendly and form a bond with your parents! don’t give them childish tantrums and comebacks, just accept it. help them with chores, and try to be the best kid to them, as they try so hard to be the best parent to you. everyone gets stressed out sometimes.
@@eg7463respect my elders is crazy
When I was a child, my mum and dad used to say “We pay the bills in this house so you do as we say” they were not happy when I moved out and used those same words on them when they came to visit
Shhahsshhsshsh😂😂
Gave them a dose of their own medicine 😂😂😂
Noice😂
Slayed
You played that uno reverse 😂
My parents never had locks on their doors and we don't either with our kid. If the door is shut no barging in. You knock and if someone says you can come in then you can go in. If no one answers that typically means no one is in there so we would go in if we needed something. Rooms shouldn't be "off limits" to anyone. I also think parents should practice what they preach. If your door doesn't lock, neither does mine. And if I want the respect of knocking then you do the same. You have to teach kids how to act as future adults by example. But I know every household is different and what works for one family might not work for another. That's just what works for us. ❤️
My parents Always tell me to lock my door whenever i change my clothes or take a bath, cause they say I'm getting matured now.
Parents think they are entitled to taunt their kids about anything & everything. My parents behaved exactly like this in the video. I left my house & never looked back to even reconcile with my parents. They have asked for forgiveness countless times, but I cannot forget their rude & harsh words which has pierced my heart terribly. They have constantly humiliated & insulted me all the time in front of everyone. I don’t even want to look at their faces. God will surely punish them!!
I hope everything is better now
i hope ur okay now
why they asking for forgiveness? have they had zero self awareness to not be pieces of sit when they were doing all that sit?
l can really understand what you are going through, but you have to remember that u should always forgive and forget and l know it will be very hard and it will take some time to do so, and l know their words have really hurt you and anytime you think of them u remember all of those harsh word they said and how they have embarrassed you, l get it l am also a very sensitive person, but you have to remember that they have asked you for forgiveness multiple times and l am pretty sure that if they could change time they would probably not do any of those tings they did, and God will probably forgive them if they are truly sorry for what they did (which l am sure they are) and you on the other hand who is holding on to all these grudges and they have asked for forgives but you wont forgive them that is the same way God will not forgive you for holding on to all those grudges, so pls l beg u l think u should go visit them and accept their apology that is the best to do cause if they die knowing that u did not forgive them, they might never forgive themselves and you will say on judgement day lf l had known and you will probably regret not forgiving them so pls if you read this go and forgive them cause u never know what will happen the next minute.
Please don’t let your parents die without reconciling with them.
My mom wouldn't even let me close the door. There is no privacy at all.
do u know the bg song?
@@salimsims3578read the room omfg 💀
@@P3bbl3I'm so glad there are still people who has manners 😂
same😢
kinda stupid.
Yeah I never realize this until now but I don’t do that with my son. He’s only 5 but there are times he closes his door. I just peek to make sure he is okay or not into something when he is super quiet, but he is always playing with toys and then invites me in to play with him because I let him have that time to be himself and to woosah after school. I think it is good to teach them how to set boundaries so they won’t have those issues when they get older.
As a latina I definitely feel you, specially the last part about the bills😂
She's lying to you!! Even when you help pay bills they still are like "tHiS iS mY hOuSe"
That accent ✨✨
😂😂the 'are you talking back to me' is so personal. Happens to me every time I give my mom a logical answer😂😂😂
“Are you talking back to me?”
No, I was simply answering your question. Would you prefer I not?”
Ah yes, that passive aggressive me
Thanks for telling me what to say. Nice advice! I’m going to try it. (No I’m not being sarcastic.)
@@idk28249 oop gl ig
@@idk28249how did it go
@@yasmine.nrleditzz I am waiting for my parents to say “we need to have a talk” so I haven’t tried it yet
my door don’t even got a lock 😭
same 😂😂
Perfect solution😂
SAME LOL
😂😂😂
Same😂
they be thinking u gonna commit the biggest of crimes the minute u shut that door like I’m just tryna get changed 😭
bro that’s so true tho, im 18 and i’m still living with my mom and sometimes when i’m in the BATHROOM out of nowhere she PICKS THE LOCKER and says that i’m not supposed to be ashamed when she opens the door because we are all “family” ☠️☠️
bro then go into her bathroom on purpose, but if you dont want to need bleach for your eyes just blind fold and tell her its fine bc yall are family
You need to tell someone that is so disturbing and can be illegal, I’m sorry you have to deal with that my grandma used to do that to me
Pick the lock when your parents have sex and tell them not to be ashamed.
@@vanillabeanladyAnd then innocently borrow something. At the same time, ask them why they HAVE to lock the door when "they're having sex". They shouldn't need to because "we're family". Even knocking on the door if you can't lock pick will do it. But personally I would come back maybe 2-3 times just to make them annoyed.
@@andreahl3494That’s traumatizing for the person
Arguing with your mom be like:
“Everything you say can and will be used against you.”
Looking at mine at the wrong angle went straight to brutality
No intimacy leads to lock the door. When you raise your children like they actually have their own space, they don't need to lock the door.
Uhm, but when u get older, you obviously don’t wanna have ur door open when you change. Like once you actually hit puberty, most people will not wanna have their parents seeing them changing.
@@scarbarlolz its not that they feel comfortable leaving it wide open, its that they feel comfortable locking the door only when needed,like changing. I got my lock taken off because I had an argument with my dad and i locked the door to calm down in peace, he then a month or two later went on to body slam the door and break it when me and my sister made a makeshift lock out of legos so we could do school in peace and quiet since he decided to have guests over. I never learned a sense of privacy because it wasn't just the door. If i could hide something there, it was looked through. He only had as much decency to not look through my underwear drawer.
@@Moldy_Voldy_26when he found out that you did it just for school and some quiet, how did he react? Any change in his behavior? Have you talked to him about wanting to have some peace of mind with locked doors? I'm often hit with the argument "no one comes to your room anyway" 🤷♀️
what ur saying isnt the case always
but it is very true
@@tomie08I wish I could but I have so many trust issues that there's only one person that I tell everything... At least almost everything
“Are you talking back?” Why did we all live similar lives dispite different cultures 😂
Literally my mom 😂😭
I’m so grateful for my parents because they won’t accept it if you lock the door for like, no reason at all, but if ur changing, they will be fine with it. They respect privacy.
I thought it was only Jamaican mums who say this when you try to lock your door!
And now I’ve moved out and only talk to my mom once a week for a few minutes on the phone. #boundaries
#IFARTCARROTS
@@Shewonityoung#WHYDOYOUFARTCARROTS
I'm just curious. Do you still love your mom? I've been thinking of moving out asap cus of all the nagging and yelling (it's unbearable. there are no peaceful mornings) but the thought of them being alone with no one to depend on makes me sad.
That’s horrible. When you were a young child, they took care of you properly and now they need help too, so you turn your back to them and think “oh right #boundaries”
goofy.
@@opixlx not everyone has the ideal happy households. Sometimes you compromise. Sometimes you leave for your own mental peace. It was their decision to have us and hence they are held responsible for it. Sad that you think people pop out kids to take care of them in their old age. That's not the kids' responsibility. That's something done out of affection. But if you never gave them the chance to feel that way towards you...they're free to cut you off from their life. :)
Asian parenting 101. They ask you questions and when you answer, they think you're talking back to them 😂
I am an Egyptian and I find that really relatable 💀😫
i'm helping my family pay the bills but still cannot lock the door 😂
hhh reconsider ir then it's not like it's something illegal but they take it so far btw for me hhh we're always arguing cs I love staying in my room
Hun, reconsider living with them
I always had to pay 30% of my earning😅 i feel u
As an African this is so reall😂
This is so true as an asian😂😭
I swear this is way too true (especially if u give her a good point but she thinks it’s talking back 😂)
I wasn't even safe to use the bathroom alone. they wonder why we leave and don't come back.
She actually lets me lock the door if I’m about to get dressed. However, that’s it. I’m not allowed to lock the door if I’m doing other than that. Or she’ll be like “why did you lock the door? Are you hiding something?!!”
literallyyyyyy. me and my older sister share a room (we’re both girls dw) but the only time we lock the door is after a shower when we’re getting changed, not even just getting changed normally 😭😭
All mother are the same it’s amazing how we all have the same life even if we doesn’t live in the same country
As an Arab it's so relatable 🤧
I don’t like that we make fun of this. This is actually quite sad… no privacy. Then you grow up and behave the same way around your children. It’s an awful cycle and I hope people realize that not being able to close your door is messed up
I agree but making fun of this is a good coping mechanism, so perhaps stop trying to remind us when we were laughing at the video knowing how relatable it is and trying to make light of our horrible lives.
I have a dark humor but this didnt make me laugh.... HOW CAN KIDS LIVE LIKE THIS?! Thats just so sad
My dad told me to never lock the rooms Im in for the case of there being an emergency. I completely understood that one. What I didnt get is when they removed my whole door because "The cats" which Im allergic to "cant get in". For the first time in my life I completly lost it to the point of (accidental) property damage and the door was back after 3 days of 0 sleep and lots of crashing sounds of my unhinged door falling over
i dont get the last part of ur comment but for emergencies there are extra keys
not unlocked doors
ideally
*pays the bills* "okay can u leave my room Now? "
just answer back, what can they do? Kill u? Even if they hit u then they’re the ones going to jail not me (edit: before anyone comes at me, I lived in an abusive ahh house, and was treated like a puppet and a punching bag, one day I started talking back, they realized that they couldn’t use me as a punching bag anymore and I started talking more about how hitting kids is illegal, the abuse has kinda stopped to I can say it works 50%)
For me it's if you shut the door your doing something you shouldn't and I get told off for changing in the bathroom😂😂
When a parent uses the fact they look after you as an excuse to be perverts that's when you know you've got bad excuses for parents.
Its the other way around they think you'd be the pervert when you lock the door.
@@xc4945and why does it matter? Let these kids have some privacy.
@@scoobz4177bcs sometimes parent still think that their teeanage children are babies
Even now i have kids,my mom still think im her baby😅
Just explain and talk to your parent about how you feel
If they love you,they'll understand eventually,that you are already in that age that you want and need some privacy
I remember when i was young i used to shoo her away from my bedroom but now as an adult i miss her nag and nosiness
@@scoobz4177 bro I'm just saying they're overly protective
A bit perverted of you to have assumptions that go straight to the gutter. Some parents want to prevent their kids from becoming drugies before adulthood. At least not in their house...
So true, but the bathroom wasn't aloud to be locked, and I would be in so much more trouble lol
My parents removed the locks on my door because I told them I needed privacy while crying. They don't even want to make me feel better , they just want to make sure I'm not sneak talking to someone
Then you don't let them enter your apartment and they wonder why
My honest reaction: gets a job, gets out of the house and say: f*ck you mom before leaving 💀
my dad drilled a hole in my door knob, i feel you 😭
No matter who you are or where you from , just know there’s somebody out there who has gone through this in their home 😂
As an asian.. No one in my house know the meaning of privacy
No one in Asia knows the meaning of privacy. Sad I'm south east Asian and can confirm.
As a Polish person. I feel you 😭👍
As Slavenian,me too..
That's called an amazing child
just lock the door at the same time you close it. works like a charm
like my mom would just go: "you don't need to close the door all the way, are you planning something?"
bro we got the same mom
Once I replied, "yeah, I am hiding a dear body in my room" 😂😂😂😂.
As an Arab I can say that she stole my mom
As an Iraqi girl I noticed the song ..I immediately starts dancing 💀
As an Indian i m lucky to have parents who are opposite to this. They tell me toclose doors when i go to sleep or even when i am studying ❤
So black kids are not the only ones that hear this from their parents
*you are stunningly beautiful. Also, is it wrong if I know how to Dabke? I do this dance all the time with my friends that are Arabic
Of course its okay!, Arabic or not you can Dabke.
No they r not all Asian kids have same strict rules even more actually
You KNOW we hear it…also “you’ll get privacy when you earn it!” Lol 🤦🏽♀️
This is so relatable
@@Ladycrafty6I hate when parents say that like i need the privacy i shouldn't have to wait like bffr u want privacy right so give me mine
So glad my Asian parents let me lock my door to change 😭
omd i feel you smm 😭😭
If my parents were like that i'd be like.. "okay!" And leave the door wide open while I change and do other private and disturbing things. Im sure they would ask me to close my door arter that😂
from an Indian family this is sooooo true
Bruh I wasn't allowed to close my door growing up if I had friends over no matter how old we were or whether they were male or female. They also had weird rules about meeting friends and insisted on meeting every guy I went out with so I only went out with a guy once when I was under age. Last time I went out with a guy, they tried to force me to stay until they could meet him and it was honestly so humiliating. I was 20 at the time and old enough to make my own choices without them breathing down my neck. I also didn't want them to meet him bc he had a lot of tattoos and piercings and I knew my parents wouldn't let me leave the house after seeing him simply bc of that. He was a nice guy, but I didn't go out with him again bc I just didn't feel like we had anything in common. Great guy tho, just not for me lol. But yeah, I hate some of their rules. I understand wanting to meet a guy when you're a minor but as an adult on the first date? Insane and weird I think. I'm a very private person tho and I don't like feeling like I'm forced to share things with anyone that I might not want to share or be ready to share. It's ridiculous. Hate it here. I also wasn't allowed to lock my door unless I was changing and even then I got the whole bathroom spiel.
I love her arabic accent it’s literally so pretty
As an African I can relate 😂 in my country we don't lock the door we just close it if you want to get in knock the door but don't lock it
My mom is just like this and her famous line
"Go change in the bathroom "😂😂😂
HER HAIR
HER BEAUTY
HER KINDNESS
HER HUMOR
HER LOVE FOR HER FANS
HER CARE FOR FANS
and last but not least
HER EVERYTHING WE LOVE U GIRL
As an arab i can completely relate.
Mother "losing a conversation"
Mothers "ARE TALKING BACK TO ME "
one more thing my first language is Arabic it's my first language I love your video
I hate parents that do this like it's so unfair that they can do this but we can't have some privacy and we can't lock our doors
True😂
😂😂
@@amanisummer Hii, I'm also arab and I love your vids. I have a question tho, Are u muslim?
im only scared when my sister locks the bathroom because i imagine something bad happening to her, especially when shes been too quiet for so long
She be opening the door so aggressively like I’m doing drugs or some shit,like girl I’m just laying on my bed on my phone😭😭😭😭😭😭
I once had my brother remove the door knob under the order of my mother and I threw such a tantrum over it. The next day my dad installed the door knob again but it still can be opened with a little force even if it's locked. Save my mother anger cause she can barged in whenever she wants.
That’s abuse.
No respect for boundaries. This is actually horrible.
That 'talking back" and "paying bills" thing is damnn relatable and toxic 🙂✅
Girl as a Hispanic I feel you 😭
As an african who was with a junior sister...i can tell u this is fact
i absolutely despise parents that are like this, and im so grateful for my normal parents
As a Romanian, I commend you for your bravery
i can relate soooo much to the point that i would have tears in my eyes
I thought it was only African mom😂😂😂
So much abuse. :(
And I thought I was the only one with my hispanic parents being like that sometimes
This is to relatable 😂
This happens every single day I'm tired of it sometimes when I'm sad and want to cry alone in my room my parents won't let me have privacy they keep asking to open the door i wish they would understand us children bit more
I totally get you. Sometimes I need to cry and my mom will keep texting me to come downstairs and won't give me that privacy to have my emotions by myself
This is actually toxic behaviour. Everyone deserves privacy and space
As a morrocan, I can relate. 😢 they give us 0 privacy 😂
YEEESSSS THIS IS ACCURATE 😂
U are so cute 🥰 ❤
Recently I locked the door cuz I wanted alone time. Since I am someone who can't cry infront of someone nor do I want someone to walk up on me so I wanted to let it out. It has been 2 months I lost my mom and a lot is going like renting our home now since financial crisis. My dad knocked at the door, not knocked. Literally breaking and he burst in yelling and shouting. I calmly told him but he still was shoutin and said don't talk. He was doubting me I was doing something bad in my phone and I was angry so I gave him my phone. My brother checked my phone and there was nothing. I yelled too and he called me horrible names. He was doubting cuz my sisters were once horrible like affairs etc so he is really strict with me and on top my 2 brothers are drug addicts for years. Now it is been 3 days I am extremely sick, haven't eaten anything for 3 days. Just few bites cuz am very sick now.
May the Lord be with you and help you get through this and make you more strong.. Remember dear Jesus loves you so much
Guess I have to be thankful to have a great mother.
This so relatable 😂😅