Full Episode- Williams vs. Wilgo: Boot Camp Bae
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- Artika says her fiancé, Tito, is a controlling, manipulative and serial cheater. She wants out of the relationship and $54,000 which is the value of the property she purchased with Tito. Tito says Artika should be grateful that he has brought structure and stability into her life, and instead of “obsessing” over whether or not he has been unfaithful, she should focus on maintaining her weight. Can Judge Faith clean up this mess of a relationship? Find out on the next Divorce Court with Judge Faith.
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So he out here cheating but talking about self control and structure. The hypocrisy Is real.
ALL FACTS!!!!!!
Lol
Seems to be a recurring thing, guy is super controling and acusses the other of cheating while he's doing the exact thing.
I swear I before watching I was thinking he cheating
Girrrrrl ain't it tho lmafo N.O P.E.
Ma'am YOU put $54,000 down on a home with a Man who told/showed YOU that he doesn't want YOU?? Girl wth is wrong with you 🙄
Wow....
@@keab9929 Wow is indeed correct
Just Ty She needs to run. He is not going to change and she deserves to be happy. She can’t get time back once it is gone.
She needs a strong drink, put on her big girl panties and go her own way. Once she owns that she has given him too much of herself, then she will be able to pick up the pieces and move on.
@@keab9929 Time or all that $, I don't see him coming off $54,000. I honestly, feel like he used her for that specific need. I wish she was more vigilant.
Repeat after me it is OK to be single. Sis just wasted six years of her life.
Tayler Buster that’s even worse than being single. Wasted time is something you can never get back.
VintageAfro91 Not as worse..being in a toxic/ abusive relationship!! even if that fool that I’m looking at here on D.C. were..the last person on earth..I would definitely choose to be single than to be with an controlling a**hole like him.
What about her family pls
RUN SWEET HEART! THIS FOOL IS CRAZY. EVERTIME SHE TRIES EXPLAIN HERSELF, HE OVER TALKS HER. SHE COULD GET A WORD IN.
Men waste their time on women
He’s not into her. She needs to leave him. Warning comes before destruction.
Yep she does. Love the quote.
'Warning comes before destruction'
He can't even put a structured sentence together yet he is talking about being an example.
🗣ENGLISH 101
Girl you cannot control an idiot.
He is not worth your time.
Insecure people are not healthy.
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Truth
English 101 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Not a structured sentence 😂😂😂😂 I was thinking the same thing! He got a reason or excuse for everything!! He's a bit delusional too... I'm almost certain he takes things out of context ALL OF THE TIME!!
Yes say that again. Insecurity is not healthy
Soooo... you put down $50K+ on a house to live with a man that doesn't want you, or kids? I'm confused.
Right!?
Thinking that it would make him happier and kinder.
Tragic
She's clearly desperate and he's clearly a nut case.
Lol
Sloan58 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Forget him and move on. You are getting all the signs...
Right some people will take anything they can get and then get mad when it's not what they want or wont change to what they want.
DESPERATE, SHE DEFINITELY IS and if I may add to that...low self-esteem and no self love
I’m always amazed when women buy a house with a boyfriend ...... that’s never a smart move
Listen I was going to touch it but I figured I would be attacked. My husband and I bought a house and another separate property, and I made sure to know where my name is on everything and the monthly bills. Stop playing house and buying a house with a boyfriend. I see it too often. Then the woman he finally marries lays up in what you financed and decorated.
No different than having a baby with you.
Not really me and my husband build a house together half half an we are still together over 15yrs. 3 kids no Intention on ending. We work out what ever disagreements arise but there doesn't be any major issue to cause the marriage to end.
She was living recklessly..because she was eating carbs..
Lol that was the only thing he could come up with
Pls stop..there is no way forcing someone to exercise will make them want to lose weight. The judge was right, she is an adult, it has to come from her. Being s controlling jerk will only make someone do the opposite.
@stop judging um..lots of black women exercise..lots of women of every color exercise.
@stop judging point is, you cant speak for all women..you dont know all women. If you wanna speak about the area you're from you should be more specific. And I'm sure there r even women out there that work out. 👍🏽✌🏾
@stop judging nah I'm good..been to Florida. Another reason I know there r black women there that work out 👍🏽
The moment she started to follow his schedule is the moment she lost all of his RESPECT!!!! 💯
Right
Absolutely! She will continue to be his doormat!
EXACTLY...she's not tired yet cause if she was she could have researched the law.
Dwahn Denson 🎯 BINGO
Hey u , been looking for ur comments in these new episodes . Faith grew on me . She’s witty 😄
Okay as soon as he said I need structure and sent me an email with details And tells me what I can and can’t do PLUS cheats. I’m out!!! Why do these women think if they move forward in the relationship to marriage baby and a house these men will change. And he told her they getting married and didn’t even ask haha. Boy bye. I’ll be damned if a man tells me I’m marrying him lol. They are going no where fast except her into misery. Don’t do it!!
I feel you
DELICATE Or don’t look at the comments until the video is done... Just a thought
Michaela White haha agreed why you coming on here no one made you read the comments before you saw the show. Just stop.
DELICATE don’t read comments or come on here if you haven’t seen the episode. Point blank period. Good bye.
I’m gonna be honest there’s no hope for fat girls, they will be cheated on at a almost 100% of the time.
Artika and Tito should go separate way, there's no future in the relationship.
I agree 💯 lady run 🏃 take the lost in do time you get it back strong woman have faith 🙏 move on be safe 🧤😷
I hope they break up
They got married 🤦🏽♀️
I find it ridiculous that men thinks the military model is healthy to carry over in a marriage. The fact that he used the word "regimented " to describe his relationship is scary. I say that as a 9 year military veteran.
Ikr he a little off
Thanks for your service.
You're welcome, and thank you.
Thank you
My stepdad, and ex-husband and MANYYYY other military people try that shit.. My mom tell her husband we ain't in the military.. I had to tell my ex-husband the same thing.. I had to leave and divorce that NARCISSISTS..
My mom is still married to her NARCISSISTS husband of 45yrs.. Ain't no way.. I could've went that long with my abuser..
Sadly, We tend to attract what's familiar to us.. I GOT TF ON AFTER 3 YEARS OF MARRIAGE, I WANTED TO AT LEAST TRY FOR MY DAUGHTER'S SAKE.. 3 YEARS WAS WAY TOO LONGGGGGG.. HE'S STILL THE SAME PERSON 31 YRS LATER. DUDE WAS RIGHT WHO EVER GET WITH HIM GONE HAVE TO ACCEPT HIM AS HE IS, BECAUSE HE'S NOT CHANGING. PERIOD.
Girl get you some fries and kick him to the curb
A large fry! 🤣🤣
Iam Je'Nai yes girl!
Yes get all the fries, curly, seasoned, crinkled....and add extra ketchup too
Nanny News & Views some potato wedges and ranch 🥰
Theresa Muro Don’t forget the tacos🌮 & a large drink!!🥤 & last..dessert!!🍰🍨🍫🍩
I'm a former marine and I don't do none of that foolishness
Maybe.. because you aren't a narcissists like that fool..
I just divorced my husband of 8 years, he was in Marines for 25 years. He was controlling and I have a strong personaility. I see my husband in this man, with the exception I curse him AZZ out. Most MARINES are AZZ HOLES. I went through same thing, weight, eating habits, structure, leaving duties. BOI bye
Congrats
Some women marry long-term military or retired military men knowing how rigid they can be. But they want the comfort of a retiree lifestyle and think they're going to live like a retiree too off his money.
Same. I see him in my ex husband so much!
My marine is great, 20 years married. Don't blame the guy for being structured. If that's not what you wanted, then that's on you to stay with him for 8 years.
There is not a man who is gonna tell me how I can wear my HAIR... PERIODT!!!!
This man is ONE BIG RED FLAG, Nope!
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Literally a walking red flag. He's like one of those inflatables outside a car dealership.
What a super, tacky outfit the "marine" wore on set.
YOU said it!!
I thought it was just me!! He look like he FRESH out of a scene from What's Love Got Do With It...#boybye
Nope...When he said CORRECT...Oh that was a LIE..His reaction was YEP and WHAT!!
Hell yeah he planned that SHIT!!
That was so so TRUE..That is one incompatibility that is usually NOT wavered in relationships.
When she said, "why is it an issue now??" and he said, "because we'd just met!!", that indicates to me THIS is who he IS and he was already seeking someone whom he could control. GoodLuck with changing that dear..
So he tolerated it until he dropped wisdom which enlightened her to correct herself???? !!!!!!!!! Its bull. Yeah he was plotting & planning.
I really love how judge faith keeps calling him out on his hypocrisy, made me giggle, she doesn't miss anything
Yes and her humor too.
The desire to control others comes from the inability to control one’s self.
Structured..No....brainwashed ...yes
Most guys in the service or were in the service have been brainwashed and try to brainwash others.
He likes fit women...she wants kids. They should just part. Why keep wasting time.
She needs to walk. He will be more controlling if they marry.
@jabeck42 he's being that way because she allowed it. She has no spine.
This man don’t care for that woman because his life is set and he just want someone to fit into whatever he has set up. He set it up and fill the role and if you can’t play that role you will be replace. She keeps trying to please him and he will beat up her spirit. Also, she is 33 wants to settle down and have a family so, she is not looking at the whole picture and down the road with this man. She can do better than him.
if she stays with him she will be miserable
They got married.....
He should have stayed in the Marines if he wanted to have all of that structure.
He keeps her on a schedule so he will know where she is so he can do his dirt.
Exactly!!!!! B I N G O .......
Lol she ain't leaving. And he ain't changing.
I'm floored by the women on DC. I can't believe what women do just to keep a damn man, especially one such as this one. LOVE YOURSELF, YOU ARE ENOUGH, even if you have to be single for a while. And this sucka has really strung her along without even marrying her. BOY BYE🚪. And you can't change his mind about having children. He keeps moving the finish line to keep her from reaching it. In all honesty, HE DOESN'T WANT HER... its painfully obvious, because he's not satisfied with anything about her
Exactly
I’m 5 min in and mad at her like for real!!!
@@natnat0576 it's happening too often, he isn't deserving of her whatsoever. I hope she leaves him, and never GOES back.
Right it's like they've never seen the show before 🤦🏽♀️💀
Yep he keeps moving the goal post. It’s a game she’ll never win. She should step.
I'm married but my husband can't do that to me.
I don't even know why she stayed with him that long smh
@@blessedtobealive Ikr
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Your husband he's a beta mail not Alpha
All people go through different phases of their life and they adjust and adapt...and their interest, aspirations and tastes will change.
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Judge Toler... on her IG page... said this was not her responding on these post and this is a fake account!
So...he's a Marine, she's unstructured. He didn't want a mate, he wanted a project. Why didn't he get someone just like him? And she turned the "title" of her life over to him, rather than grow and develop herself. This is a trainwreck relationship.
Judge Faith, you came out of the blocks strong on Divorce Court. These folks are too much work! Pace yourself.
She wasn’t a project. She wanted to be married. He used her for money.
Not even a Marine woman would want this level of structure outside of work. Damn.
Is she serious??!! "He didn't ask, He told me we're getting married." "He has me on a regiment" "He doesn't want children" "He has lots of platonic friends" "He doesn't do anything I need or want him to do for me" "He already got someone else" This is absolutely unreal!! He is beyond controlling he is self centered and uncompromising. Don't be mad now. Literally, better get the money and THEN Run!! Run!! Run away NOW ( sounding like Army cadence). As for Tito, Karma is rough and it's coming. Better believe a lady veteran is on her way to put a boot in your butt and get you all the way right. ( wit your trifling self)
The stupid girl went ahead and married him smh
Her self esteem is on the floor. This is a not a good relationship.
Wait wait. What did she just said. She want have kid with this guy. Com on sis. Just RUN
Something is wrong with her
Poor baby
In the end; he’s walking 10 steps ahead of her; while she saunters behind him. She’s gonna stay; eventually leave if she begins to find her self worth and begins to love herself!
Absolutely ridiculous. I can only imagine how he's going to start punishing her when she disobeys his rules & schedule. Put some of that training to work and RUN GIRL RUN!
I’m so mad at her. He didn’t lie to her. She was hoping he would change. She stayed to long in a wrong relationship. If she stays she will regret it.
If i was her when i saw that email i would've sent him so many laughing emojis his phone would crash
She needs to thank her lucky stars she doesn’t have a baby with this guy. Seriously. Why would you want to have a baby with a man who doesn’t want you, hasn’t married you within 7 years, and top of that is controlling? Make it make sense 🤦🏾♀️
I’m willing to bet she is still with him taking orders and desiring a baby! Do not sacrifice for a man/woman that cannot meet your in the middle, your happiness is important too.
If you can't have your own identity in any relationship; its truly 💯 a "GOOD BYE".
This 100% her fault, she knew who this man was the entire time and she just rolls down the river with him. She knew what she was getting. He didn’t lie. He demanded an engagement and she said okay.
She is so lost. It’s sad. I feel like she doesn’t want to let go because it’s been so long.
THAT EMAIL WAS ENOUGH!!!!
Beyond enough!!!!
7 years with this nonsense, I probably would’ve lost my danm mind
He's too controlling. It's best to part ways.👍🏼
Be Safe Everyone🌏😷 #LoveIsNotEnough
I like a woman that surprises me with her personality regardless of whatever she does! Whatever she wears, eats, or does, doesn't bother as long as she gives me her heart.
Yall better put respeck on Judge Faith name... She is really breaking down the obvious to this woman. I hope she leaves him💁🏾💅🏾
Why did you buy a house with someone you are not MARRIED TO! WHY?!!!
They just glossed over that. I watch House Hunters and other HGTV shows and I am mystified. Are you serious? Issa no for me.
Judge Faith won me over on this one. I love the way she handled this. Be a fool if you want to!
Having a child at 40 is not even that old these days
He said that to string her along. I know men who are having babies at 53!
Looks like she's still with him...she loves being controlled smh so sad
Hate to say it.....but that's on her. She's doing this to herself. She knows what he's about, yet she stays.
Can't make a person take the help....that person has to want it bad enough....and she doesn't.
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Listen... Boy Bye! She better get over this time she's wasted, handle her business and move on!
I refuse to take orders from a Dictator 🤔
If your close friends and families members telling you to end the marriage, let it go.
Those military benefits cannot outweigh the way he treating her. Cheating, and controlling no thanks
They not married. She ain’t getting no benefits.
I can't even get thru this because this man keep saying "she's with me" like he is some King or something with his trifling ass. Oooooouuu I can't!
I agree plus he is short and unattractive with that baby afro
Type of dude that turns into a stalker when you try to leave...
I would’ve been left him ! He’s way too controlling! Nobody can live peacefully like that
Getting called out for eating 2 pancakes!!!!
Yaaasssssss Judge Faith!!! Lays down the truth here 💪💪
Okay Judge Faith! I think I am digging you on how you handle cases.
Why some of us women, we find it so hard to get up and leave, men don't stay around when they don't like what they are seeing.
she should change her mind about making children, move move out this guy is crazy. the only good part of him is that he do not want more children
He just like the average man he wants her to live his way and he wants to live his way girl run and don’t look back
It's sad she wasted 3 years of her late 20's when she could have been giving her time to true love. Now she almost 4 years in and half on a house. smh
Got to get an update on this couple in the future. For some reason, I got a felling that she is going to stay..
Yes
I have a feeling she is going to get a baby too
I'm liking Judge Faith. Her word play is magnificent and her rebuttal is quick! Love it.
OAN: He's crazy. She's crazier.
This cat got on my nerves, real fast. She should run. He'll be back
Sad but true OCD is quite common in alot of MILITARY MEN. HE SHOULD SEE A THERAPIST THOUGH!!!! 😂 💯
somewhat like on the spectrum of autism - if things are too much out of place, according to him, he can't function.
He is off , he never blinks
@@cynthiakila1161 Hi Babe I agree but in his defense the military tends to do some of that shit to you being ex military myself I can most certainly relate to some not all of his ways but he should still see someone IMO!!!! 😀💯
Miss William is not listening!!!! He said "if she want to be with me, then...".
He told you, now believe him
Let's be real she liked being controlled cause ain't no woman is gonna be told what time you gonna make her workout
Where his structure.if he had that much structure.why he,s not still in the Marines
He didn’t lie to her thooo.... he showed her exactly who he was and she was hoping he would change over time . Girl pick up your self-esteem and leave 👀
Let go of the past and accept the beauty of change.
Aww hell naw! He needs to find someone more like HIM. Plus, he keeps talking about compromise, but doesn't sound like he's compromising anything.
Her husband is constantly and overly critical of her.
LMAO!!! And THIS is the exact reason why i would not date someone that's in the military. They manage their personal life like a military structure. No thank you!
This is my uncle. He’s been in the military all his life he recently retired 3 years ago moved back home and our family been going through hell dealing with him
Why is she with this "man"?? He is a controlling cheater!
The judge is “shocked and appalled” to hear about cheating? Judge Faith, you have no idea what you’re in for in pretty much every one of these cases... Trust me soon enough you won’t be “shocked and appalled” anymore.
Leave him.
Judge Faith is growing on me ... keep up the good work 👏
I thought he was joking so i start laughing but then i realized he was serious and i really started laughing 😂 😂😂
Yes!! Judge Faith cuttin to the chase and not playing any games with these folks!
I love her advice. Watched her other show. Judge Toler would have tore into him a little bit though
Why would you even start building a house with him when he’s been showing you who he is? 🙄 girl you brought this situation on urself 🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️👎🏾
It is better to be alone than to put up with crap period!
Her issues: he’s a cheater & controlling.
His issues: she eats pancakes & wore a wig.
Men are silly as hell 😭
i miss judge lynn keep learning judge faith god bless just keep living
wow, 1st time watching the new season. ddnt kno how i'd like it w/out lynn toler..loved it! 😉💯
There has to be something seriously wrong with this beautiful woman to be stuck with this kind of relationship for this long.
Tito got more than sugar in his tank 😂
Mentally his mind is messed up. Idc what nobody says. He’s controlling and tryna make her his puppet. He’s not gonna change. She needs to leave and find somebody else.💯
This is a toxic relationship, I'm surprised the judge didn't (I mean I know he can live the life he wants but he wants to take control of another's life not build WITH another life) preach to his narcissistic ways! This is unhealthy, he does whatever he wants but she has to have 'structure'. Where was his self-discipline in stepping outside of the relationshiP?
You can't preach to a narcissist. It goes on one eat and out the other. They don't change....period. They see nothing wrong in what they're doing, even if they're hurting the other person. They don't care. Preaching to a narcissist is just a waste of time, words, and energy. Judge Faith was right not to say much to him. She knew it was a dead end.
I perfectly understand why some people just want to be single.
She's making excuses for him and then turns right around and have a complaint. She's getting on my dam nerves. Make up your mind either you want to be a doormat or a strong loved woman
I get frustrated & confused, why most beautiful & educated women feel the need to insert themselves in a ..” structusituationship” red flag no 1 a cheater like a structured situation!!!
Red flag no 2 never join your finance with someone base on anticipation or better word hope without being married. I trust she’ll make a better decision moving forward, she’s beautiful & mr structured should do the right thing!!
Be free sis! There is a man who God has for you that will delight in the good thing he has found in you and will honor and cherish your love for him. This is not what you deserve.
Tito there is help for you somewhere( in Christ), bro you need get a lot of compassion, grace and a tall glass of humble tea. Love your future wife like Christ loves the church.
This is what low self esteem looks like. She is desperate for love that she was willing to do anything for that relationship.
Tito the Cyborg. Lol!