So you are trying today we should marry to any stranger. What about our wishes. As you said they want us to be happy and if i would be happy if i do love marriage, then why wouldn't the accept it😶😶😶😶
@@8dtime441 kyuki unhe apne baccho ko ammer khandaano me shaddi krwaani hai ye girls ke liye apply hota hai aur kyuki unko dowry lena hai ye boys ke liye apply hota!! Maine toh ye cheez bhut se relatives se sunna h lol
@@8dtime441kuch bhi ho jaye bro .....I will marry to my girlfriend only....my parents are strict ....abhi unko Pata nhi hai .....par meri gf ke parents ko mere baare Mai Pata hai.....it's hard for me to tell my parents par...Mai bataunga jarur kyuki mujhe apni gf se hee shaadi karni hai.......ab jab ❤️ love kiye hai toh saath Nibhane ka promise bhi kiye hai....ab Jo ho Jaye koi mane ya na mane shaadi definitely apni gf se hee karenge kyuki.....atlast saath Mai jinka shaadi hai unhi ko zindagi saath Mai nibhana hai na ki kisi or ko....isseley last decision sirf humhara hee hoga....
@@aaditisharma6020love is more than money....kyuki paisa toh kabhi bhi aa jayega par jisko pyaar krte ho uss type ka Acha insaan milna muskil hai.....thts why....parents ke liye apne pyaar ko kurbaan maat karna....baad Mai regret feel hoga..
I like a person , we both are working earning very good salary, well established and fully independent,i am trying to convince my father since he is very much against of intercaste marriage,it’s been 6 years i have waited my father’s decision to change but he is not ready to listen he is okay marrying me with complete stranger just bcz of caste . We both are above 30 now,sometimes it is not there good intentions or bad intentions sometimes it becomes there stubbornness not to listen to their child
You should'nt wait any more. Sometimes, it's just complete ignorance of parents. Yes, they brought us into this world, raised us and care for us, but some decisions are meant to be taken by us.
I was a slave to my parents ....I used to help them ...sacrificed everything for my parents and relatives ...when I was 33 ...I wanted to marry a girl ...when I told they said gareeb Ghar se nahi laana hai ..... I was astonished ....I was working like slaves God knows.... Today they are behaving as if I am a stranger..... Alhamdulillah ....By God s grace I got married in court..
Because, In parents minds they are always right about their children.... Maybe there are right but marriage is so important life changing event, It's all about heart... Not social status and beauty
My girlfriend's parents are ready to arrange her marriage with the person who is not good looking or even earns less. On the other hand I'm good looking well settled and earn pretty good and ambitions too. But just because my caste is lower than their caste they are not ready to accept me and allow us for marriage. Her brother even threatened us that he would kill both of us and her mother is saying that if you do such a thing I will die of heart attack. Her family does not even care for her health, she is I'll from the last one year and is now also facing low blood pressure problem. Her family sees and understands everything but does not give fuck about it. They are okay if anything happens to my girlfriend but are not ready to allow her for a love marriage. We are not able to understand how we deal with this situation?
Sameee..... My situation is exactly same. My boyfriend is very good looking and well settled but only because of this is love marriage and inter caste, my parents are not allowing me to do. When I told my parents about us they fixed my marriage with another guy from same caste. And giving me warning of sucide if i tried to talking anything about my boyfriend. They taken my phone from me, resigned my job, and closed me in home. What should I do now? 🥺😓 His family is very loving and caring but just because of their reputation they are behaving like that. They are not ready to even listen my feelings.
@@vani23955nhi kr skte court marriage because parents agree nhi krte durse caste me kyunki society presence hota h ki sb piche se bezzati krenge or ye sb toh court marriage ke bd bhi hoga parents jis dar se mna kr rhe the unko vo dar jhelna pdega. kon apne parents ko dukhi krna chahta. 😊
I am working like a slave still to my parents i am always available even i dint put my interest first. But they are telling me how they educated me and gave freedom. But i have always listend to them making them happy always . I said I wanted to marry a person who i was so much comfrtble. 12 yrs we wre really good frnds but they are asking me to break up because they r telling famly is not good. His mom is not good she is goin with other ppl. So much worse things they r telln me. And they are forcing me to marry a person whom i dont even know. This is so much toxic
I somehow agree to what you are saying but not completely, give them time...how long? There is a limit to everything right? If they doesn't approve to get married to your love for the next 5 years then? I can't waste so many years when I know what they will do at the end. If my parents are not agreeing till 5 years then I can't wait for this long, afterall they are our parents not owners who own our life
@@sjthomas454Why are you pissed? Parents don't control our lives. Yes they care for us more than any other person in the world, but some parents are just stubborn. It's not about what their children want, it's about their respect in the society. If I have kids, I'll definitely allow them to marry who they wish, after ensuring they are a good person. Obv
I gave 6 months time ....Mane nahi bhag ke shadi kardi .😂😂 Jo Kiya sahi kiya ...while in relationship everyone talking negative...now bolo😂😂 Only courageous person can marry ....
How long should a person wait if the parents don’t agree with the decision. There is a limit to something. Specially in case of girls, what she should do if her parents don’t agree with her? Should she wait and if it takes too long then?
Rightt In some cases girls ko time diya hi ny jata ek baar bata diyaa ghr pe uske baad jldi hi unki shaadi fix kr di jaati hai chahe girl ki marji ho na nhi Nd am facing this time RN😔
relationship but we are from different caste .. so what should i do to make our family accept both of us ?? We are from RAJASTHAN FROM A TOWN , as everyone know caste matters a lot in Rajasthan...
Bilkl nahi maan rhi meri mmy🥺🥺💔💔💔💔💔roz rota hu kisi bhi kaam me mnn nhi lgta blkl bhi ni lgta😞😞💔pdhai se bhi door ho chuka hu...me uske bina blkl ni reh skta jb vo hmari same caste se hai ldki...lekin mmy ne kahi or dekh rkhi hai...😞😞😞😞😞😞😞mee kya kru😭😭😭😭 please koi bta do yrr...agr uski shadi kahi or hone lgi to me use maar dunga or khud ko bhi....uske sbhi ghrwalo ki hn hai lekin sirf meri hi mmy ki mna hai or meri mmy kehti jo krna krle tera vha ni krne ki chahe mrrja😭😭😭me uske bina mrrna ni chahta...me to mrr jaunga lekin phr uski shadi kahi or ho jaegi ye baat mujhse blkl brdasht nhi hoti 😭
Same happened with me They found out this thing and they even give me phone in their supervision only Had also asked me to not go to collage anymore just study in home In 2-3 yr they will get me married
Yr mera to ajab chl raha life ne, ldke k papa bol rhe ki caste pblm aur bol rhe tujhe jb bche honge mtlb unke pote poti unko smaj me kon ldki ya leka dega abhise 30 sal age ka soch rhe aur edhr insan ka bhrosa nhi hai kb mrta ye reason dekho yr
Are bhai nahi mante gharwale 6 mahine se mana raha hun kuchh nahi dusri shadi ke liye ladki dekh rahe hai abhi unko society main respect jyada jaruri hai
Mere wali ko mene bahut mushkil se fsaya tha yrrr or phr usne mujh pr bharosa krke mere pe yaqeen kr liya or me uska yaqeen ni Tod skta yrr...agr. Ek din baat na ho toh vo pure din roti hai or blkl nhi reh pati mere bina lekin meri ammi mna krti hai rista krwane ko usse kehti hai uski height km hai ye vo...halanki uski puri family ki Haan hai or me uska itna aadi ho chuka hu ke me uske bina apni life imagine bhi ni kr skta or sch me vo bahut bahut bahut jyada pyaar krti hai mere...agr meri ammi ne vha Mera rista na kra or uska kahi orr ho gya toh mee sbko barbaad kr dunga🥺🥺😞😞😞💔💔💔💔💔me use kisi or k sath soch bhi ni skta...use bhi maar dunga or khud bhi mrr jaunga🥺😞😞💔💔💔💔
Bhai bhag kar shadi kr lo 🙂😁 best rahega, parents se kaho ya ti mai bhag ke shadi kr lunga ya mar jaaunga. Ab unke pass or koi option na bachega 🙂😁. Ye sale hai koun be? Inki shadi ho chuki hai na,
@@kasliwalshubra.8530 they are not even listing my words simply other caste we will not do we will see match for you leave him and marry another person they are telling and they are searching they are blackmailing me that they will die
@@Serene1999 yes i told if you marriage i will tell him completely then my parents if you told for him then our respect we all will die after seeing death you go with him
Sir , friends in comment section please muje bataye ki mai kya kru - mai ek ladke ke sath committed relationship me hu...hmdomo shadi krna chaiye hai hut uski mummy ko mai aosand nahi hu, unhe ek job wale ladki chaiye and mai abhi exam ke preparation kr rhi hu.... Mai kya karu???
Bilkl nahi maan rhi meri mmy🥺🥺💔💔💔💔💔roz rota hu kisi bhi kaam me mnn nhi lgta blkl bhi ni lgta😞😞💔pdhai se bhi door ho chuka hu...me uske bina blkl ni reh skta jb vo hmari same caste se hai ldki...lekin mmy ne kahi or dekh rkhi hai...😞😞😞😞😞😞😞mee kya kru😭😭😭😭 please koi bta do yrr...agr uski shadi kahi or hone lgi to me use maar dunga or khud ko bhi....uske sbhi ghrwalo ki hn hai lekin sirf meri hi mmy ki mna hai or meri mmy kehti jo krna krle tera vha ni krne ki chahe mrrja😭😭😭me uske bina mrrna ni chahta...me to mrr jaunga lekin phr uski shadi kahi or ho jaegi ye baat mujhse blkl brdasht nhi hoti 😭
Bilkl nahi maan rhi meri mmy🥺🥺💔💔💔💔💔roz rota hu kisi bhi kaam me mnn nhi lgta blkl bhi ni lgta😞😞💔pdhai se bhi door ho chuka hu...me uske bina blkl ni reh skta jb vo hmari same caste se hai ldki...lekin mmy ne kahi or dekh rkhi hai...😞😞😞😞😞😞😞mee kya kru😭😭😭😭 please koi bta do yrr...agr uski shadi kahi or hone lgi to me use maar dunga or khud ko bhi....uske sbhi ghrwalo ki hn hai lekin sirf meri hi mmy ki mna hai or meri mmy kehti jo krna krle tera vha ni krne ki chahe mrrja😭😭😭me uske bina mrrna ni chahta...me to mrr jaunga lekin phr uski shadi kahi or ho jaegi ye baat mujhse blkl brdasht nhi hoti 😭
mai or meri gf ka relation 6 th class se hai aaj mai or o same MBBS College mai hai internship ke liye .aab ham shadi ke liye convince karana hai par meri bahot fat Rahi hai .bhai mai tumhe mere parents ka no deta hu tum baat karoge kya 🥶
Bilkl nahi maan rhi meri mmy🥺🥺💔💔💔💔💔roz rota hu kisi bhi kaam me mnn nhi lgta blkl bhi ni lgta😞😞💔pdhai se bhi door ho chuka hu...me uske bina blkl ni reh skta jb vo hmari same caste se hai ldki...lekin mmy ne kahi or dekh rkhi hai...😞😞😞😞😞😞😞mee kya kru😭😭😭😭 please koi bta do yrr...agr uski shadi kahi or hone lgi to me use maar dunga or khud ko bhi....uske sbhi ghrwalo ki hn hai lekin sirf meri hi mmy ki mna hai or meri mmy kehti jo krna krle tera vha ni krne ki chahe mrrja😭😭😭me uske bina mrrna ni chahta...me to mrr jaunga lekin phr uski shadi kahi or ho jaegi ye baat mujhse blkl brdasht nhi hoti 😭
As indian we have to agree we have the worst society in the entire world even countries that are poorer than us ( very few of them ) they have more freedom than us
My whole life i was just wanting to become my parents favourite child which i never become 😅 but then i hated both of them but then slowly i understood them helped them as much i could but i didn’t felt loved from my both of my parents much may be 😅 only on my birthdays i felt it by dad side but mom never but i know mom can never hate her children’s so i feel she might love me too n now my dads is no more n im getting married so i always wanted to see or feel the same kind of love from my inhales inlaws but my hubby don’t have mom n he is having only dad so everyone hates me in his home cause im intercaste marriage but my mom or my side of family never hated him or anyone they are very happy for us but i wanted same parents love which i didn’t get .. from hubby family but 😅i think im unlucky this time of the life may be ill get love in my next life 🙂
Time dene ko family ne time nhi diya btane ke baad ghr valo ne blackmail kiya or next day kisi or se fix krdiya or upr se ye bola h ki agr apni pervious relationship ka ldke ko btaya to hm suicide krlege ......i lost my relationship...i lost my 10 year relationship
2 sal ho gaya mane to nhi, soch to wase hi h, rudhiwadi, bura nhi chahte to ladki se milne me problem h, utla seedha bolna h use uski family ko. Apna samaj dikhta h bas aur apna narrow mindedness, ye smjh nhi ata ki zabardasti shadi krwaye to khud k bacche aur dusre k bacche ki life barbad kr denge.
Bhai apne pass rakh ye salah 2 saal se wait kar raha hu . Jab parents nai mante to unke dimag mai set hota hai ki nai means nai . Teri advise se. To tu bhai samne walo ko budha kar dega 😅. Ladki khaee bhi kara sakti hai baad. Mai ladka to Gaya 😂
Mai ek ladka se boht pyar karti hu. Wo bhi bolta hai wo mujhe pasand karta hai lekin hum kabhi ek sath nahi reh sakte kyuki usske parents arranged marriage karwayege. Mai rone lag jati hu ki kya ye meri galti hai Mai usse pyar kar baithi. Mai ussko boli thi ki jab tumhara career bann jaega tab bolna mom dad ko mere bare me. Wo mujhe bola ki usske mom usko mar dalege. Wo bolta hai usske liye usske mom best layege😔agar wo mujhe sacchi pyar karta ye nhi bol sakta. Mai harwaqt ro deti hu ye sochkar ki wo mujhe shayad pyar nhi karta hai isliye fight bhi nhi karna chahta. Sath sath mujhe Jane bhi nahi deta hai kahi pe jab mai Jana chahti hu😔
If you are a man and your parents are not agreeing, then do disobey them. If today you can't stand up for your love, the you don't deserve to be a husband. Your wife has nothing to do with your father or mother. She is yours! If they don't allow keep her in seperate house.
यहां pta लगते ही लड़की के फादर ने तुरत शादी fix kr di h khi ab wo man hi nhi rhe 😢😢😢😢😢 imandari se bataya उल्टा हमे ही गलत tahra diya 😢😢😢ab ky karu mai preshan hu bhut ।।।।।
wo bura ni chahty... lkn zrori to ni k hr bar unka kiya hua decision i sahi ho!! Wo idhr ni krwa rhy but khin or krwa rhy just saying k hum tmhara bhla chahty!! Just bcz lrhka is balochi..& am punjabi!! cast difference!! mery rishtedar kia khngy agr udhr kr di?? whyyy?? Q nzr ni sti unhen yh khushi hmari?,
I am 18 year old and she is also 18 year old We are both in love, The love is uncountable ,but she's afraid of what will happen if her parents won't accept me We can't live without each other 😖😖 What can i do in this situation sir please tell me 😞
unko sirf darr hota hai ki tumara haal shraddha jesa na ho jaye yaa sushant singh rajput jessa na ho jaye vo bas tumko happy dekhna chahte hai yi reason hai
Parents bachho ka bura nhi chahte par apna acchha jyada chahte hain. Prestige, respect is more important than child's wish.
So you are trying today we should marry to any stranger. What about our wishes. As you said they want us to be happy and if i would be happy if i do love marriage, then why wouldn't the accept it😶😶😶😶
@@8dtime441 kyuki unhe apne baccho ko ammer khandaano me shaddi krwaani hai ye girls ke liye apply hota hai aur kyuki unko dowry lena hai ye boys ke liye apply hota!! Maine toh ye cheez bhut se relatives se sunna h lol
😭
@@8dtime441kuch bhi ho jaye bro .....I will marry to my girlfriend only....my parents are strict ....abhi unko Pata nhi hai .....par meri gf ke parents ko mere baare Mai Pata hai.....it's hard for me to tell my parents par...Mai bataunga jarur kyuki mujhe apni gf se hee shaadi karni hai.......ab jab ❤️ love kiye hai toh saath Nibhane ka promise bhi kiye hai....ab Jo ho Jaye koi mane ya na mane shaadi definitely apni gf se hee karenge kyuki.....atlast saath Mai jinka shaadi hai unhi ko zindagi saath Mai nibhana hai na ki kisi or ko....isseley last decision sirf humhara hee hoga....
@@aaditisharma6020love is more than money....kyuki paisa toh kabhi bhi aa jayega par jisko pyaar krte ho uss type ka Acha insaan milna muskil hai.....thts why....parents ke liye apne pyaar ko kurbaan maat karna....baad Mai regret feel hoga..
This is the most worst feeling when aur parents don't understand us and our feeling for someone. 😔
I like a person , we both are working earning very good salary, well established and fully independent,i am trying to convince my father since he is very much against of intercaste marriage,it’s been 6 years i have waited my father’s decision to change but he is not ready to listen he is okay marrying me with complete stranger just bcz of caste . We both are above 30 now,sometimes it is not there good intentions or bad intentions sometimes it becomes there stubbornness not to listen to their child
Bhai agree hoye to batana
Yes
You should'nt wait any more. Sometimes, it's just complete ignorance of parents. Yes, they brought us into this world, raised us and care for us, but some decisions are meant to be taken by us.
The only best part of our generation is that we won't stop our children from marrying someone they love🥺
We? Who's We?💀
Right
@@shicc4008The newer generation.
Yes, we might be pieces of shit in other aspects, but our generation is more open minded, which is obviously good
@@shicc4008that’s sad for you then.
@@complexities_ womp womp
I was a slave to my parents ....I used to help them ...sacrificed everything for my parents and relatives ...when I was 33 ...I wanted to marry a girl ...when I told they said gareeb Ghar se nahi laana hai .....
I was astonished ....I was working like slaves God knows....
Today they are behaving as if I am a stranger.....
Alhamdulillah ....By God s grace I got married in court..
Congratulations
Did they agree now
Congratulations 🎉
Congrats may Krishna keep both of you happy and healthy 🎉
How did u do that can u explain the procedure and it is inter religion in my case
Exactly you are right...but also parents should also understand that their children are not their enemies!!
Guys hamare country ko agar sudharna hai toh we should make intercast marriage more common.
But they don't give us time to understand the man whom they selected....... They don't give time to think about it... whyyy
Because, In parents minds they are always right about their children....
Maybe there are right but marriage is so important life changing event,
It's all about heart... Not social status and beauty
@@SoftCoreNc3ompletely agree with you my friend it's all about knowing each other well without taking tension of social status and beauty
My girlfriend's parents are ready to arrange her marriage with the person who is not good looking or even earns less. On the other hand I'm good looking well settled and earn pretty good and ambitions too. But just because my caste is lower than their caste they are not ready to accept me and allow us for marriage. Her brother even threatened us that he would kill both of us and her mother is saying that if you do such a thing I will die of heart attack. Her family does not even care for her health, she is I'll from the last one year and is now also facing low blood pressure problem. Her family sees and understands everything but does not give fuck about it. They are okay if anything happens to my girlfriend but are not ready to allow her for a love marriage.
We are not able to understand how we deal with this situation?
What you guys are going to do? May the god be with you:)
Sameee.....
My situation is exactly same. My boyfriend is very good looking and well settled but only because of this is love marriage and inter caste, my parents are not allowing me to do.
When I told my parents about us they fixed my marriage with another guy from same caste. And giving me warning of sucide if i tried to talking anything about my boyfriend.
They taken my phone from me, resigned my job, and closed me in home.
What should I do now? 🥺😓
His family is very loving and caring but just because of their reputation they are behaving like that. They are not ready to even listen my feelings.
court marriage kr lo
@@vani23955nhi kr skte court marriage because parents agree nhi krte durse caste me kyunki society presence hota h ki sb piche se bezzati krenge or ye sb toh court marriage ke bd bhi hoga parents jis dar se mna kr rhe the unko vo dar jhelna pdega. kon apne parents ko dukhi krna chahta. 😊
@@pranalibansode3922same .what is ur current situation
Are parents to Maan Jaye lekin yeh char log kab sudhrenge😈😈😡😡😡😡
Sahi baat hai 🙏😁
bhai ohh 4 log hai kon apke bare me bolne wale.
Un chaar logon ko gossip krne ke hi paise milte hain
Aaj hum hain kal koi aur hoga 😅
Exactly
I am working like a slave still to my parents i am always available even i dint put my interest first. But they are telling me how they educated me and gave freedom. But i have always listend to them making them happy always . I said I wanted to marry a person who i was so much comfrtble. 12 yrs we wre really good frnds but they are asking me to break up because they r telling famly is not good. His mom is not good she is goin with other ppl. So much worse things they r telln me. And they are forcing me to marry a person whom i dont even know. This is so much toxic
I somehow agree to what you are saying but not completely, give them time...how long? There is a limit to everything right? If they doesn't approve to get married to your love for the next 5 years then? I can't waste so many years when I know what they will do at the end. If my parents are not agreeing till 5 years then I can't wait for this long, afterall they are our parents not owners who own our life
Yeah what can we do?
Marry according to ur own wish and disregard what ur parents think. Then ur own kids also should be allowed to do the same things.
@@sjthomas454Why are you pissed? Parents don't control our lives. Yes they care for us more than any other person in the world, but some parents are just stubborn. It's not about what their children want, it's about their respect in the society.
If I have kids, I'll definitely allow them to marry who they wish, after ensuring they are a good person. Obv
If they know that their daughter in a relationship suddenly they started to fix a marriage to her .. what will she do
😶Same situation
Same situation 😭😭
In a same situation 😖
abirami...right 100%..i m facing this
Jo v larka aaye usko he bolo directly nahi karna hai shadi
Uske baad baat aage badhega he nahi
parents dushman se kam nhi hote agar intercast marriage ki baat ho iss liye apne pasand k ladke ya ladki se shadi karo
Parents..harami hote hai. ..
Yaha apne Pathano me software engineer ko qatl kardete hai ...
I gave 6 months time ....Mane nahi bhag ke shadi kardi .😂😂
Jo Kiya sahi kiya ...while in relationship everyone talking negative...now bolo😂😂
Only courageous person can marry ....
Ab apko accept kiya kya ghar walo ne😮
sabse badi bat khud k under himmat kaise laye unse batane k liye ye bhi bataye
Phone pr bol do vo v himmat na ho to WhatsApp kr do 😁
@@silent_feelings 😂😂
Kisi relative me koi cousin ya koi responsible person se baat kro and khulke batado taaki wo aapke sath khade ho or tb unke sath milke batado
@@ChandreshSFno one can understand
@@silent_feelings 😂
What if u get honour killed for telling 😂
Ek sal to ho gaya .. wo ni manege shadi karwane ke lie. Caste jyda badi h unk lie😢😭
Hui kya aapki shadi
@@Vaishu2426 nhi hui.. na honi h udhar😢
Aap himmat mat haro
Wo maan jayenge
Koshish karte raho
Apne kb btaya ghar
How long should a person wait if the parents don’t agree with the decision. There is a limit to something. Specially in case of girls, what she should do if her parents don’t agree with her? Should she wait and if it takes too long then?
Rightt
In some cases girls ko time diya hi ny jata ek baar bata diyaa ghr pe uske baad jldi hi unki shaadi fix kr di jaati hai chahe girl ki marji ho na nhi
Nd am facing this time RN😔
You have to make bold decisions starting from giving them a deadline. Also, be diplomatic. It's very undervalued skill but can be life changinf
What you are saying is 100% true !! Respect 👏🏼..things happen when you have patience to wait !!
relationship but we are from different caste .. so what should i do to make our family accept both of us ?? We are from RAJASTHAN FROM A TOWN , as everyone know caste matters a lot in Rajasthan...
3,4,5 saal le le bs at the end maan jaae
I want to marry a hindu girl we both love each other. Please guide step by step
Pr unko tho jaise he pata chalega ye baat bo kahi aur shadi kara denge 😂
@Guruji-ke-Number-dp-Mprr pyar aur mai hm dono tho shadi he nahi karna chhate hme tho live in me rehna hai 😭😂
agar Vo samajhna hi na chahe to..... m waiting from 5 year....
Bilkl nahi maan rhi meri mmy🥺🥺💔💔💔💔💔roz rota hu kisi bhi kaam me mnn nhi lgta blkl bhi ni lgta😞😞💔pdhai se bhi door ho chuka hu...me uske bina blkl ni reh skta jb vo hmari same caste se hai ldki...lekin mmy ne kahi or dekh rkhi hai...😞😞😞😞😞😞😞mee kya kru😭😭😭😭 please koi bta do yrr...agr uski shadi kahi or hone lgi to me use maar dunga or khud ko bhi....uske sbhi ghrwalo ki hn hai lekin sirf meri hi mmy ki mna hai or meri mmy kehti jo krna krle tera vha ni krne ki chahe mrrja😭😭😭me uske bina mrrna ni chahta...me to mrr jaunga lekin phr uski shadi kahi or ho jaegi ye baat mujhse blkl brdasht nhi hoti 😭
Zidd hi ho gayi ki hmhi shadi karenge, tm pyaar kr li to awara ho gayi..
True😭 khud k parents character p ungli utha dete h
Nd am facing this 😞
I have seen your comment everywhere....lets solf each others problem...friends?
@@arshiuya
It's not a problem but thinking...
@@priyadwivedi1860 hmm..
What if she says in her home nd thy take all her mobile nd not lv her anywhere out nd planning to marry to other ?
Same happened with me
They found out this thing and they even give me phone in their supervision only
Had also asked me to not go to collage anymore just study in home
In 2-3 yr they will get me married
Yr mera to ajab chl raha life ne, ldke k papa bol rhe ki caste pblm aur bol rhe tujhe jb bche honge mtlb unke pote poti unko smaj me kon ldki ya leka dega abhise 30 sal age ka soch rhe aur edhr insan ka bhrosa nhi hai kb mrta ye reason dekho yr
Bilkul thik soch rhe hai unhe pta hai kya consequences honge.
Abhi sab josh mein accha lagta hai fir baad mein dikkat aati hai
What if they don't want to give more time ?
Kash arrange marriage krne se pehle parents bhi baccho ko itna time dete.
Yes
They're not giving me time they're now niklo with random guy we get you
Are bhai nahi mante gharwale 6 mahine se mana raha hun kuchh nahi dusri shadi ke liye ladki dekh rahe hai abhi unko society main respect jyada jaruri hai
Hamare yha pta chal jata h tho bat krna band krva dete h tho kaise mnaye
Mere wali ko mene bahut mushkil se fsaya tha yrrr or phr usne mujh pr bharosa krke mere pe yaqeen kr liya or me uska yaqeen ni Tod skta yrr...agr. Ek din baat na ho toh vo pure din roti hai or blkl nhi reh pati mere bina lekin meri ammi mna krti hai rista krwane ko usse kehti hai uski height km hai ye vo...halanki uski puri family ki Haan hai or me uska itna aadi ho chuka hu ke me uske bina apni life imagine bhi ni kr skta or sch me vo bahut bahut bahut jyada pyaar krti hai mere...agr meri ammi ne vha Mera rista na kra or uska kahi orr ho gya toh mee sbko barbaad kr dunga🥺🥺😞😞😞💔💔💔💔💔me use kisi or k sath soch bhi ni skta...use bhi maar dunga or khud bhi mrr jaunga🥺😞😞💔💔💔💔
I can understand this pain bro😢
Bhai bhag kar shadi kr lo 🙂😁 best rahega, parents se kaho ya ti mai bhag ke shadi kr lunga ya mar jaaunga. Ab unke pass or koi option na bachega 🙂😁. Ye sale hai koun be? Inki shadi ho chuki hai na,
Kya bna??? Ghar waly maany ya ni??
No time bro 3 years are too much
29 ho gya h ab age, 2 sal or dege to kab hoga
Ha par vo force kar sakte hai 1 ghante ki meeting m kisi ko shadi ke liye ha karne ke liye?,
Bur they are forcing me to marry with whom they said i am waiting to convince but they are trying to arrange marraige what i have to do
Give time but be clear about what you want
@@kasliwalshubra.8530 they are not even listing my words simply other caste we will not do we will see match for you leave him and marry another person they are telling and they are searching they are blackmailing me that they will die
@@Serene1999 yes i told if you marriage i will tell him completely then my parents if you told for him then our respect we all will die after seeing death you go with him
@@saisrisushmitha5555 are you both financially stable?
@@Serene1999 no he is searching for money to do business but he has job
Ku6 b krlo nahi mante gar vale mere relation ko 5 saal ho gya abhi bhi nai man rahe papa bss yahi bol rahe hai k zhr khaa lenge ..
So the thing is we shld wait till our last breath 😒
Sir , friends in comment section please muje bataye ki mai kya kru - mai ek ladke ke sath committed relationship me hu...hmdomo shadi krna chaiye hai hut uski mummy ko mai aosand nahi hu, unhe ek job wale ladki chaiye and mai abhi exam ke preparation kr rhi hu.... Mai kya karu???
Bilkl nahi maan rhi meri mmy🥺🥺💔💔💔💔💔roz rota hu kisi bhi kaam me mnn nhi lgta blkl bhi ni lgta😞😞💔pdhai se bhi door ho chuka hu...me uske bina blkl ni reh skta jb vo hmari same caste se hai ldki...lekin mmy ne kahi or dekh rkhi hai...😞😞😞😞😞😞😞mee kya kru😭😭😭😭 please koi bta do yrr...agr uski shadi kahi or hone lgi to me use maar dunga or khud ko bhi....uske sbhi ghrwalo ki hn hai lekin sirf meri hi mmy ki mna hai or meri mmy kehti jo krna krle tera vha ni krne ki chahe mrrja😭😭😭me uske bina mrrna ni chahta...me to mrr jaunga lekin phr uski shadi kahi or ho jaegi ye baat mujhse blkl brdasht nhi hoti 😭
Aap bhi krlo kuchh 😭😭😭💔
Sir..1 saal baad uski sadi ho jayegi..
same problem bhai😔
Ku ap wait krskte Ho To vo ku ni.....
Mera aur mere partner ka bs ek hi khna h parents se K sadi vhi krenge ni to khi ni
😭😭😭😭😞😞😞💔💔💔💔💔
Bilkl nahi maan rhi meri mmy🥺🥺💔💔💔💔💔roz rota hu kisi bhi kaam me mnn nhi lgta blkl bhi ni lgta😞😞💔pdhai se bhi door ho chuka hu...me uske bina blkl ni reh skta jb vo hmari same caste se hai ldki...lekin mmy ne kahi or dekh rkhi hai...😞😞😞😞😞😞😞mee kya kru😭😭😭😭 please koi bta do yrr...agr uski shadi kahi or hone lgi to me use maar dunga or khud ko bhi....uske sbhi ghrwalo ki hn hai lekin sirf meri hi mmy ki mna hai or meri mmy kehti jo krna krle tera vha ni krne ki chahe mrrja😭😭😭me uske bina mrrna ni chahta...me to mrr jaunga lekin phr uski shadi kahi or ho jaegi ye baat mujhse blkl brdasht nhi hoti 😭
mai or meri gf ka relation 6 th class se hai aaj mai or o same MBBS College mai hai internship ke liye .aab ham shadi ke liye convince karana hai par meri bahot fat Rahi hai .bhai mai tumhe mere parents ka no deta hu tum baat karoge kya 🥶
Baap re! You guys are literally soulmates tab toh
Kya hua abb
Bilkl nahi maan rhi meri mmy🥺🥺💔💔💔💔💔roz rota hu kisi bhi kaam me mnn nhi lgta blkl bhi ni lgta😞😞💔pdhai se bhi door ho chuka hu...me uske bina blkl ni reh skta jb vo hmari same caste se hai ldki...lekin mmy ne kahi or dekh rkhi hai...😞😞😞😞😞😞😞mee kya kru😭😭😭😭 please koi bta do yrr...agr uski shadi kahi or hone lgi to me use maar dunga or khud ko bhi....uske sbhi ghrwalo ki hn hai lekin sirf meri hi mmy ki mna hai or meri mmy kehti jo krna krle tera vha ni krne ki chahe mrrja😭😭😭me uske bina mrrna ni chahta...me to mrr jaunga lekin phr uski shadi kahi or ho jaegi ye baat mujhse blkl brdasht nhi hoti 😭
Yaar sbke parents aise nhi hote ...mujhe to lgta h mere parents kbhi accept nhi krenge
The only thing u need a good package as 20-30lakh per annum
As indian we have to agree we have the worst society in the entire world even countries that are poorer than us ( very few of them ) they have more freedom than us
My parents force me to marry a girl they want but, I can't agree with them because I have my GF already, how to decide now...?
Wht happened for that ...same situation here
Say to the girl only u don't wanna marry her
Bro tell your parent that you like someone else. I know they will scold you but tell them politely and with respect.
@@IMTAOMODASH nothing will happen ulta they will get them married asap
@@random__human aisa parents ladkiyo ke saath karte.😢.. Ladke baat pe ad bhi jaate
The only thing im happy about is that I won't be controlling like my parents and let my kids do whatever they want
Tq brother
My whole life i was just wanting to become my parents favourite child which i never become 😅 but then i hated both of them but then slowly i understood them helped them as much i could but i didn’t felt loved from my both of my parents much may be 😅 only on my birthdays i felt it by dad side but mom never but i know mom can never hate her children’s so i feel she might love me too n now my dads is no more n im getting married so i always wanted to see or feel the same kind of love from my inhales inlaws but my hubby don’t have mom n he is having only dad so everyone hates me in his home cause im intercaste marriage but my mom or my side of family never hated him or anyone they are very happy for us but i wanted same parents love which i didn’t get .. from hubby family but 😅i think im unlucky this time of the life may be ill get love in my next life 🙂
Agr parents suicide krne k liye dhamki de toh?😢phir kya karenge?
Ha Bhai sach hai AAP bolnaka but ladki ke parents 1 year ruko bolke dusre se shaadi kar diye tho
Jaise gharwalo ko btaya jata h turant nhi krna to nhi, iske alwa time dena dur wo bht teji se arrange marriage kai liye rista khojne lagte h
India me apko pta haina cast ki dikkat kitna hoti hai 😢
They want me to not get married to anyone. They want me to stay alone forever what do you say about this???
Why 😮 ?
Is their any issue with you. ?
Time dene ko family ne time nhi diya btane ke baad ghr valo ne blackmail kiya or next day kisi or se fix krdiya or upr se ye bola h ki agr apni pervious relationship ka ldke ko btaya to hm suicide krlege ......i lost my relationship...i lost my 10 year relationship
2 sal ho gaya mane to nhi, soch to wase hi h, rudhiwadi, bura nhi chahte to ladki se milne me problem h, utla seedha bolna h use uski family ko. Apna samaj dikhta h bas aur apna narrow mindedness, ye smjh nhi ata ki zabardasti shadi krwaye to khud k bacche aur dusre k bacche ki life barbad kr denge.
Vul val video
Aapki ky hui love ki arrange??
Bhai apne pass rakh ye salah 2 saal se wait kar raha hu .
Jab parents nai mante to unke dimag mai set hota hai ki nai means nai .
Teri advise se. To tu bhai samne walo ko budha kar dega 😅.
Ladki khaee bhi kara sakti hai baad. Mai ladka to Gaya 😂
yha bhi 3 sal hogye ...mne bola nhi krugi shadi jivn bhr to khte mt kro Lekin wha nhi kraege
@@vani23955 same situation I am facing 😢
prr wait krte kha h vo.. turant apne Pasand k ldke se shadi krane ka sochte h
Mai ek ladka se boht pyar karti hu. Wo bhi bolta hai wo mujhe pasand karta hai lekin hum kabhi ek sath nahi reh sakte kyuki usske parents arranged marriage karwayege. Mai rone lag jati hu ki kya ye meri galti hai Mai usse pyar kar baithi. Mai ussko boli thi ki jab tumhara career bann jaega tab bolna mom dad ko mere bare me. Wo mujhe bola ki usske mom usko mar dalege. Wo bolta hai usske liye usske mom best layege😔agar wo mujhe sacchi pyar karta ye nhi bol sakta. Mai harwaqt ro deti hu ye sochkar ki wo mujhe shayad pyar nhi karta hai isliye fight bhi nhi karna chahta. Sath sath mujhe Jane bhi nahi deta hai kahi pe jab mai Jana chahti hu😔
Aap aise insan ko chhod do jo aapki value nahi karta aur apke liye fight nahi karta God aapko best dege❤
@@gaurigarole19 haan mai koshish karti hu
❤
Aise to hum budde ho jayge😂😂😂
And what if they are not even giving a chance to understand it
Sir please help me. 😔🥺🥺
Mera boyfnd ke parents manti nhi hai 1year hoi gyi ru bol diya hai kabhi nhi manega rlnshp
Uske liye love honi v to chaiye
Aur woh hame unhone select kiye partner se shaadi karne ke liye force karte hai uska kya?
Are sir vo nhi maan rhe
But they forced their daughter to get married with another person after knowing about her relationship.
5 saal ho gya but nhi man rahe hai
Mera same cast hai par distance 400 km hai mein pune mein hu aur wo belgaum to man nahi rahe hai itane dur kaise
400 km dur hota hai kya 😅😆
If you are a man and your parents are not agreeing, then do disobey them.
If today you can't stand up for your love, the you don't deserve to be a husband.
Your wife has nothing to do with your father or mother. She is yours!
If they don't allow keep her in seperate house.
Bhai tab tak relationship hi khatam ho jayega
They say ok and night her marrage with another boy bro😢😢
यहां pta लगते ही लड़की के फादर ने तुरत शादी fix kr di h khi ab wo man hi nhi rhe 😢😢😢😢😢 imandari se bataya उल्टा हमे ही गलत tahra diya 😢😢😢ab ky karu mai preshan hu bhut ।।।।।
Jab Tak girl ka ghar may shadi tho kardaldetanaa bhaii😢
5years 🥲
Parents keo baccha der bojha darkar
Tay noi kii
8 years abb meri behan 40 cross kar rahi hai
Kitna time 4 sala ho gye ab aur kitna . Meri age 29 ha ab aur kitna time
wo bura ni chahty... lkn zrori to ni k hr bar unka kiya hua decision i sahi ho!! Wo idhr ni krwa rhy but khin or krwa rhy just saying k hum tmhara bhla chahty!! Just bcz lrhka is balochi..& am punjabi!! cast difference!! mery rishtedar kia khngy agr udhr kr di?? whyyy?? Q nzr ni sti unhen yh khushi hmari?,
Or jab parents bole ki shaadi kr nhi toh train k aage koond jaenge fr aage kya bole
4 saal de diye nhi Mane zabrdsti kahi or rishta tay kr diya
What about biological cycle then ?? Wait till 40’s or 50’s ??
6yea hogayi ab bhi accept nahi kar rahe hai
Mat parna in baba ke chakkaro me lut ke kha lenge kuch ni hoga 😂😂😂
MERE JAISE SINGLE LIKE MARO
Mujhe to kuch smjj nhi aa rha m kya kru ....bs ak hi rsta dikhta h suicide
Vo rasta nhi he dost ,, himmat rakho ,, koshish kro
😢😢😢😢😢
No one understands😢
Nahi manle tr
Sir apke direct kaise contact karna hai please muje bataye... Mai bhut andar se break ho chuki hu, suicide krne ka dil. Krta hai ab.
Sir tumhare bache hone do tabb do
Bt if they don't agree sooo wht can we doo
Suicid€
Then breakup
Parents should be your 1st priority
If they know your partner very well and still they don't agree then it means they know he/she is not good for you otherwise you should Convince them
If they don't agree then ,go for ur love marriage and listen to subs
I am 18 year old and she is also 18 year old
We are both in love,
The love is uncountable ,but she's afraid of what will happen if her parents won't accept me
We can't live without each other 😖😖
What can i do in this situation sir please tell me 😞
Pahle Apna carrier bna lo fir wo maan jayege aap settle to ho jao
Biased talk!
unko sirf darr hota hai ki tumara haal shraddha jesa na ho jaye yaa sushant singh rajput jessa na ho jaye vo bas tumko happy dekhna chahte hai yi reason hai
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