7 Secrets To Becoming Mentally Tougher

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  • čas přidán 12. 06. 2024
  • Are you mentally strong? What does it mean to be mentally tough? Mental toughness is the capacity to effectively deal with stressors, challenges, and adverse situations, and still perform well in spite of their circumstances. Developing a tough mentality helps you cope with distressing and overwhelming moments in life better. You're more capable of handling fear and doubt. We'll let you in on some secrets on how to build mental toughness!
    To help you more encouraged and better about yourself, we previously made a video on the signs you're actually mentally stronger than most people: • 10 Signs You Are Menta...
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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  Před 3 lety +503

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    • @mrkryptex3076
      @mrkryptex3076 Před 3 lety +7

      Simbaaaaa!!!!!!!
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    • @SkyleeKate
      @SkyleeKate Před 3 lety +7

      _mum took away my ps4 so i punched a hole through my bedroom wall_
      *_i’m not aggressive just ooze-masculine passion_*

    • @SuperBlessedKing
      @SuperBlessedKing Před 3 lety +8

      My birthday February 14th is in one weekend from now.
      ♒️♒️♥️♥️
      I was born during Valentine’s Day and Black History Month.
      ♥️♒️✨🙏🏽🥳

    • @seanmcfadden3712
      @seanmcfadden3712 Před 3 lety +2

      @@SuperBlessedKing My eldest niece has her birthday on Christmas. Birthdays on holidays are awkward.

    • @seanmcfadden3712
      @seanmcfadden3712 Před 3 lety +2

      Thank you. February is always tough for me.

  • @cordidi
    @cordidi Před 3 lety +4988

    if an actual emotional trash can was in the physical world, i would totally buy it.

    • @SkyleeKate
      @SkyleeKate Před 3 lety +119

      Here vent here in this reply section think of it as your own personal emotional trashcan
      I don’t know you so don’t hold back i don’t know anyone who knows you that might be keeping you back
      :)

    • @younggamer7218
      @younggamer7218 Před 3 lety +8

      Ok

    • @simlad
      @simlad Před 3 lety +32

      @@SkyleeKate thats so sweet :'D

    • @SkyleeKate
      @SkyleeKate Před 3 lety +34

      @@simlad I’ve been op behind the screen i know how it feels i don’t want people to feel as bad as me, a lot of people should try it sometimes it makes me feel good for a bit :D

    • @sherina3663
      @sherina3663 Před 3 lety +27

      try writing. it really help.

  • @datboi6954
    @datboi6954 Před 3 lety +5634

    1. get an emotional trash can 0:39
    2. acknowledge and use the power of choice 1:31
    3. do the difficult things first 2:14
    4. exercise 2:55
    5. learn how to lose gracefully 3:27
    6. practice gratitude 3:59
    7. let go of things you cannot control 4:32
    I hope I could help! :)

  • @greedy381
    @greedy381 Před 3 lety +3757

    “The only person you should ever compare yourself to is the person you were yesterday”

    • @more1494
      @more1494 Před 3 lety +86

      Execpt when people compare your past
      (it is so frustrating for me when people compare my past)

    • @greedy381
      @greedy381 Před 3 lety +11

      @@more1494 I hear you bro

    • @sumasunil3530
      @sumasunil3530 Před 3 lety +2

      Wow

    • @more1494
      @more1494 Před 3 lety +4

      @@greedy381 i have no words to say

    • @popcat6570
      @popcat6570 Před 3 lety +21

      @@more1494 yeah, my mom always compares me with my 2015-2016 self and i feel pretty ashamed whenever they do that :(

  • @hel2727
    @hel2727 Před 3 lety +1941

    I feel like depression had actually made me stronger and more empathetic. I never had therapy or medication, didn't talk about it to anyone, but suffered from it for years. And now I'm finally starting to win.
    There is hope, after all. There is light.
    But what I didn't realise before, is that it was hidden inside.

    • @lalalavideo6435
      @lalalavideo6435 Před 3 lety +5

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    • @swatisaini6447
      @swatisaini6447 Před 3 lety +30

      Same thing happened with me

    • @hayatzor6249
      @hayatzor6249 Před 3 lety +50

      i will try to win against depression

    • @lalalavideo6435
      @lalalavideo6435 Před 3 lety +3

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    • @insidiouslyfanatic714
      @insidiouslyfanatic714 Před 3 lety +26

      The last lines can actually be used in a poem or a quote....wonderful!
      And great to hear that...thanks for inspiring us :)

  • @Faizidogar200
    @Faizidogar200 Před 3 lety +588

    This Girl's voice itself is a therapy......
    Soooo melodious yaa

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid Před 3 lety +875

    Nobody ever said life was easy…they just promised that it would be worth it

  • @abdulrahaman0157
    @abdulrahaman0157 Před 3 lety +504

    I feel like brutally beaten inside, by my inner demons, I feel like I can’t stand up, but I don’t have a choice. I will stand up and fight, until my last breath, for those who love me and for those whom I love

    • @faitdetreseul9767
      @faitdetreseul9767 Před 3 lety +10

      Search stoicism my g

    • @jerichoraepueda3960
      @jerichoraepueda3960 Před 3 lety +14

      We got this, brother 🤝

    • @RPGKingdom64
      @RPGKingdom64 Před 3 lety +13

      I hope that you will also fight for yourself 🧡

    • @euchiron
      @euchiron Před 3 lety +13

      It was a long and hard path to get to the point where I feel like I can finally stare down my inner demons. They're allowed to speak, but I thank them for their input to make them feel heard, and then deny them the driver's seat forever - because I wasn't born with that skill and neither was anyone else. They can no longer take me anywhere I don't want to go. I feel you're on the best path you can be with your approach - never give up!

    • @meow9985
      @meow9985 Před 3 lety +7

      You can get through this, i believe in you

  • @hmmmmmnmmmmmm
    @hmmmmmnmmmmmm Před 3 lety +594

    I'm going to start leaving self-care tips and reminders whenever I time travel. So here's the first one: brush your teeth when you get up. I know it's hard, but you'll feel a little better knowing that you've maintained personal hygiene. Trust me. You don't have to do it 3 times a day since I know it can be hard to find the motivation, so just once is fine for now. Okay, bye, and remember that I love you even if I don't know you 🥰

    • @fairyfellermasterstroke
      @fairyfellermasterstroke Před 3 lety +10

      Alright, I clean my teeth after breakfast, sometimes even before, if I have a horrible taste in my mouth. Than I clean them in the evening.
      So, I'm waiting for the next tip of yours.
      Edit: I wanted to say 'brush'. Anyway, I'll let it say clean, if I already wrote that...

    • @sudhakhandrika237
      @sudhakhandrika237 Před 3 lety +7

      That's rough buddy ,
      Aww your so sweet!

    • @LokeshSingh-cm4mf
      @LokeshSingh-cm4mf Před 3 lety +4

      ❤️😇

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    • @marybravo8484
      @marybravo8484 Před 3 lety +1

      Thanks for this

  • @CocoasArt
    @CocoasArt Před 3 lety +939

    For a couple years I haven't been in the greatest mental state
    But over this time I went through so many negative things, each time I learned more and more how to deal with it
    And that helped me understand people's feelings a lot more, and how to help
    Often people might be upset about something and write a vent, and 9 times out of 10 I always know what to say
    Friends started calling me therapist of the group xd
    My brain just excercised a lot during these years lol

    • @anjithaa4521
      @anjithaa4521 Před 3 lety +5

    • @exodusingenieur
      @exodusingenieur Před 3 lety +1

      Hello there,i always see you here devushka :)

    • @siqxyre8473
      @siqxyre8473 Před 3 lety +13

      Oh my! Didn't expect to see you here! But I can definitely relate, well I used to relate until I decided to reserve myself to heal from trauma.
      I think soon I'll go back to actively helping others and giving advice, I'm starting to heal from past events :)

    • @stressedyounglad
      @stressedyounglad Před 3 lety +7

      @@sra779 Yeah, it's totally fine to use your time for yourself and concentrate on your future. The people around you might be disturbing sometimes. But I think it would be difficult for you and for them also to start talking like nothing happened. I would suggest that even if you don't feel like talking, just talk a little, very little bit to ensure the people around you that you are still connected. Balance both the things. If you don't balance it you'll face consequences in the future. The people around you might not show interest in you. There is a high chance that you'll be left alone. So balance it. And tell them that you want to concentrate on your future so you won't be having time to talk and try to make them understand. I hope they understand you.

    • @jellioni
      @jellioni Před 3 lety +2

      I’m sorry but i read your name as coochie art at first

  • @user-rp5or1ik5l
    @user-rp5or1ik5l Před 3 lety +276

    I'd need a video on how to fight laziness and procrastination

    • @ultra6909
      @ultra6909 Před 3 lety +9

      Yo I am lazy xD

    • @arpitkumar4525
      @arpitkumar4525 Před 3 lety +50

      1. Just do it. Just start doing it at least. For 60 seconds. You will find more often than not that you can continue doing it.
      2. Have an accountability partner. This can be imaginary even or even God.
      3. Do the easy things first (yes contrary to what was suggested in this video). It might help you to get moving and feel less overwhelmed after finishing many small tasks.
      4. Plan your day a night before. Keep a journal. When you feel lazy, just look at ur plan in journal and then u would want to do things seeing that u still have a lot of stuff to do.
      5. Keep a vision board if u r lazy in doing ur hobbies. Visit it whenever u want inspiration and want to regain the same passion that u had when u started that hobby. See Rachel Kable for vision boards

    • @SanaKhan-uu4kd
      @SanaKhan-uu4kd Před 3 lety +4

      @@arpitkumar4525 thank you🌈👍🌈

    • @user-rp5or1ik5l
      @user-rp5or1ik5l Před 3 lety +1

      @Yuziferry LMAO

    • @bsinita_wokeone
      @bsinita_wokeone Před 3 lety +2

      Same im dealing with this struggle but for 10 years now, i needs to stop.

  • @sumasunil3530
    @sumasunil3530 Před 3 lety +278

    I can't imagine myself without psych2go my life would be such a mess without this channel snd thx again

    • @faitdetreseul9767
      @faitdetreseul9767 Před 3 lety +6

      Search stoicism :>

    • @faitdetreseul9767
      @faitdetreseul9767 Před 3 lety +2

      @Perfectlymixed yeah Ik. I just wanted to give advice on today's struggle of genz's lack of motivation and being deppresed, stoicism is a great philosophy of how to not give a f*ck about anything. it's a life saver

    • @faitdetreseul9767
      @faitdetreseul9767 Před 3 lety +2

      @Perfectlymixed I mean it's ok.
      do you have a disc? I can help you with that

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před 3 lety +16

      We hope this video has helped you in some way :D

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 Před 3 lety +2

      @@faitdetreseul9767 Ultimately it boils down to the mind. Daily mindfullness meditataion for 10-15 minutes twice a day and being assertive are top priorities to develop your mental muscles. Never say "Yes' when you mean "No". Avoid getting too attached to anything in life or being over emotional and over sensitive. . Walk with your head held high. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir-Counsellor. .

  • @soundarya8156
    @soundarya8156 Před 3 lety +365

    Lately I've been so much happier than ever... These are the words I tell myself to avoid negative stuffs around me:
    "I am like this, let them learn to love the real me"
    "I am not perfect, that's what makes me unique"
    "It's fine, I'm just a human"
    "It'll get better I promise"
    "I love the vulnerable and imperfect side of me"
    "I know I'll find a way to solve this soon"
    "It's ok to be selfish and care for myself"
    There ya go :)

    • @siaaa8871
      @siaaa8871 Před 3 lety +3

      Thank you:)

    • @shakira7301
      @shakira7301 Před 3 lety +5

      If you asked my problem few months ago it would be the same. But recently I'm battling something different. I have faced harassment from men and recently whatever i experienced years ago started to kick in and i just feel hard to live. I try to remind myself i can't worry about things I can't change but when men speak bad about women i just have this trigger like an anxiety attack, i lost my appetite and can't sleep recently.

    • @siaaa8871
      @siaaa8871 Před 3 lety +5

      @@shakira7301 Hope you start getting the happiness you deserve and I am sure bad time will also pass, as per my case I tested positive for COVID but I try to be positive so always look for the brighter side and dont waste your energy and time on those who dont deserve it:)

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 Před 3 lety +2

      @@shakira7301 Ultimately it boils down to the mind. Daily mindfullness meditataion for 10-15 minutes twice a day and once before sleep and being assertive are top priorities to develop your mental muscles. Never say "Yes' when you mean "No". Avoid getting too attached to anything in life or being over emotional and over sensitive. . Walk with your head held high. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir-Counsellor. .

    • @beizanten1
      @beizanten1 Před rokem

      cool. thank for sharing

  • @steceymorgan814
    @steceymorgan814 Před 2 měsíci +209

    Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

    • @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU
      @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU Před 2 měsíci

      Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!

    • @elizabethwilliams6651
      @elizabethwilliams6651 Před 2 měsíci

      Yes, dr.andrew_james. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @IkamiLog
      @IkamiLog Před 2 měsíci

      I wish they were readily available in my place.
      Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
      He's constantly talking about killing someone.
      He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

    • @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU
      @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU Před 2 měsíci

      Is he on instagram?

    • @elizabethwilliams6651
      @elizabethwilliams6651 Před 2 měsíci

      Yes he is. dr.andrew_james

  • @MsRxses
    @MsRxses Před 3 lety +96

    I really needed this; Lately my father has been ruining my Mental health
    My friends on discord are the only people I trust, I don't even trust my own relatives because I know they wouldn't believe me.
    My mother left us for some man; My father never really moved on; Probably a reason why he has been ruining my mental health.
    *Thank you; So much.*

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      @lalalavideo6435 Před 3 lety +4

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    • @lalalavideo6435
      @lalalavideo6435 Před 3 lety +7

      Maybe this video will help you 🤗🍀🎐

    • @kaamiljk5227
      @kaamiljk5227 Před 3 lety +4

      Hang in there.... Things will eventually get better.

    • @goldenclosetclubarg
      @goldenclosetclubarg Před 3 lety +1

      You'll move through it, be strong for yourself!

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 Před 3 lety +2

      Jillian, Ultimately it boils down to the mind. Daily mindfullness meditataion for 10-15 minutes twice a day and being assertive are top priorities to develop your mental muscles. Never say "Yes' when you mean "No". Avoid getting too attached to anything in life or being over emotional and over sensitive. . Walk with your head held high. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir-Counsellor. .

  • @leaharmbruster6047
    @leaharmbruster6047 Před 3 lety +93

    Nobody will see this but... I’m proud of myself. I finally got rid of those toxic manipulative ‘friends’. If anyone needs to, vent down below. You are loved!!

    • @h34tg
      @h34tg Před 3 lety +5

      Congratulations honey. I hope now things are becoming better 😸

    • @jonaichi_09
      @jonaichi_09 Před 3 lety +6

      It sucks to have those "friends" but i'm happy you could get out of that situation!

    • @leaharmbruster6047
      @leaharmbruster6047 Před 3 lety +5

      Thank you! I’m out here thriving now!☺️

    • @kaamiljk5227
      @kaamiljk5227 Před 3 lety +2

      Great job... Me too!

    • @shachintheartist
      @shachintheartist Před 3 lety

      Thanks

  • @skinnygurl6903
    @skinnygurl6903 Před 3 lety +82

    What it means to be mentally tough.💪🏾
    1.)Get an emotional trash can 0:40
    2.)Acknowledged and use the power of choice 1:30
    3.)Do the difficult things first 2:16
    4.)Exercise 2:55
    5.)Learn how to lose gracefully 3:28
    6.)Practice gratitude 🙏🏾 4:00
    7.)Let go of things you can not control 4:34🕊
    Thank you for giving us these lessons as often as possible!

  • @deblinadey2789
    @deblinadey2789 Před 3 lety +40

    Letting go of things that I can't control is the hardest.......

  • @lovemiizukii
    @lovemiizukii Před 3 lety +104

    Hi people from future! I hope everyone is fine, have a nice day!

    • @hamsterSNAKE
      @hamsterSNAKE Před 3 lety +2

      HI Person from the past, this is the future, and its just as bad as the past.... WE NEED TO GO FURTHER BACK!!!

    • @MyMarsham
      @MyMarsham Před 3 lety +3

      Before you ask, no, I’m not sending back the lotto numbers!

    • @IshaSharma11
      @IshaSharma11 Před 3 lety +1

      Thanks

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 Před 3 lety

      @@hamsterSNAKE No future-no past-only the present day as proved by the pandemic. Ultimately it boils down to the mind. Daily mindfullness meditataion for 10-15 minutes twice a day and being assertive are top priorities to develop your mental muscles. Never say "Yes' when you mean "No". Avoid getting too attached to anything in life or being over emotional and over sensitive. . Walk with your head held high. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir-Counsellor. .

    • @maxsheng8215
      @maxsheng8215 Před 8 dny

      Hi saying hi from the future 😄

  • @tlotro625
    @tlotro625 Před 3 lety +12

    My personal tip: Don't try to make things to change instantly. If you try to hammer a nail with just a single hit, you are likely to bend the nail and achieve nothing. You have to do it hit by hit, starting slowly and driving a nail into a wall. The same works for everything you do, including health. You can't just do everything once and expect results, do things one by one, start slowly, pick up speed only if you are 100% sure you are capable of doing so.

  • @UpsilonDreams16
    @UpsilonDreams16 Před 3 lety +167

    Psych2Go has been around for months and months helping us better understand psychology. But my main question is.. how are you all doing back there in the team? Everyone at Psych2Go doing okay? Everyone staying healthy in all forms? You always ask us to tune in with ourselves, but what about yourselves? You all are just as important as the rest of us viewers. We are all amazingly important! Everything going ok?

    • @sirivenneladara8947
      @sirivenneladara8947 Před 3 lety +9

      Aww you're so kind!! Yes how are u all doing???

    • @bhavyabakhshi5230
      @bhavyabakhshi5230 Před 3 lety +17

      This is for the first time that I had seen this sort of comment. It's good to see viewers are so loving and emotionally mature haha.

  • @zer0voidz506
    @zer0voidz506 Před 3 lety +24

    I remember last week I just started like, writing my negative feelings out, I don't know what has changed but something just feels better.

    • @sirivenneladara8947
      @sirivenneladara8947 Před 3 lety +2

      Yes it really does help. You should try and continue to do that as much as possible

  • @pinkpaprika8410
    @pinkpaprika8410 Před 2 lety +7

    There was a time when I kept thinking “I must do this, and that, and the other..” and kept making todo lists, but with all my will I couldn’t get myself to do even very simple chores, it was a real torment. At some point, I hit on the idea of making a “success list”, i.e. writing down the things I had actually managed to do - afterwards. This really “put a tiger in my motor”! I found myself actually tackling the hardest things first! It made me feel proud of myself, even if I’d simply remembered to take out the trash, because I was judging myself by my own needs and capacities, not by the assumptions of other people. Although I wasn’t able to make this a consistent habit, every time I did so gave me a powerful feeling of success. The memory of such moments reminded me that there was hope, and very gradually (with therapy) things did get better.

  • @skinnygurl6903
    @skinnygurl6903 Před 3 lety +40

    I’m getting mentally stronger by watching you guys!!!! Your channel is inspiration, and the viewer are supportive. Unlike family and friends. All I have to say to y’all is listen to your gut and inner voice and it’s ok to cut out toxic ppl!

  • @thedarkertheberrythesweete7125

    “ find a support group “
    I literally have no friends

    • @-criedjupiter-8464
      @-criedjupiter-8464 Před 3 lety

      Family

    • @-criedjupiter-8464
      @-criedjupiter-8464 Před 3 lety +3

      Online friends

    • @josephineananda
      @josephineananda Před 3 lety

      Recovery International.

    • @cloudfish1829
      @cloudfish1829 Před 3 lety +3

      Pets, during my worst years of depression, my hamsters got me through so much, not because they rly did anything, but just the thought that I wasn't alone and there was something bright to look forward to in life.

    • @cloudfish1829
      @cloudfish1829 Před 3 lety

      And also family, esp your mom. I remember back then, every time I was around more than 4 family members, I would be happy and much calmer. Sadly, they couldn't be around all the time

  • @medhachakraborty7474
    @medhachakraborty7474 Před 2 lety +11

    I love the way she says that there is no such thing as a wrong choice. I am a student of political science and in public administration there is a concept of decision making called bounded rationality where the theorist i.e. Herbert Simon says that total rationality is not possible- you can have only satisficing decisions i.e. Satisfaction+Sufficing. I hope it helps ❤️❤️✨

    • @SyedaWajihaZehra
      @SyedaWajihaZehra Před 5 měsíci +1

      Absolutely! It's fascinating how the concept of decision-making aligns with the idea that there's no such thing as a wrong choice. Herbert Simon's notion of bounded rationality acknowledges the limitations in achieving total rationality, emphasizing the practical approach of making satisfying decisions. It's a valuable perspective that complements the belief in the validity of our choices. Thanks for sharing this insightful connection! ❤✨

  • @michaelhansom123
    @michaelhansom123 Před 3 lety +2

    This video helped me a lot I told myself that this year I’m not letting anyone make me feel lower. I let someone take advantage of me which made me feel low and heartbroken but I’m now working on myself physically and mentally for myself.

  • @vaniaarellano989
    @vaniaarellano989 Před 2 lety +2

    Lately I’ve been feeling so down and stressed and that makes me sad because I’m really young and I think I should enjoy my favorite tv show or eat my favorite food or talk to my family/friends or just be a teenager in general but instead of doing that I’m in my bedroom doing homework all day. I’ve always been a good student but I don’t feel as efficient as I used to (I feel heavy, mentally ill) and I hate that, but at the same time I feel sad for demanding more of what I can give (at the moment), I know I’m capable of accomplishing my goals if I want to, but I don’t feel good, I need a rest. Yesterday I broke down and just felt like sh*t to be honest and today I saw this in my recommendations. I just wanna say thank you and I hope to get better. And if you are going through the same situation, take a deep breath, drink water, sleep, eat well, take care of yourself and then get back to work because all your efforts are gonna pay off soon. This is to myself (and to you): You can do it, I believe in you and I know that you’ll get through it. It’s ok to take a break some time and let your mind rest from all the stress, the work and the people. Then you can come back and be your best self. Starting from today I promise that I will be kinder to myself but also do my best at school and I’ll try to balance them both. I’m strong. You are strong.
    Thanks for giving me your time and remember that you can do it. You are not alone, there are many people going through that right now. Stay healthy and have a nice day :).

  • @sirivenneladara8947
    @sirivenneladara8947 Před 3 lety +6

    Writing in your diary really helps. I would totally recommend it. Especially when you don't have anyone to talk to or are insecure and you are worried about how the other person will judge you, you should start maintaining a diary. You don't need to write on a daily basis but at least write in it when you need someone to talk too. You can also write when something that made u happy happened. Writing in a diary really helps and I mean it

  • @PracticalInspiration
    @PracticalInspiration Před 3 lety +10

    Love the point on doing the difficult things first. I practice this all the time and have taught my son to do the same. Beyond mental toughness, it's just so valuable for numerous reasons.

  • @sahilnangare5207
    @sahilnangare5207 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I have been going through a lot of ups and downs in the recent years.
    But now I have decided to actually put effort into uplifting my life.

  • @Alex-rj9sg
    @Alex-rj9sg Před 3 lety +7

    Thank you for this video! I was alone last night (my parents left me home alone) and I had some kind of a mental breakdown and your videos help me so much staying in kind of regular mood if not feeling better :) they help me with figuring out my self (no self diagnosing) and what I feel like so I can become a better myself. Thank you very much! :)

  • @tommygunn6901
    @tommygunn6901 Před 3 lety +11

    "The force will be with you, always....."

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  • @nobelkk2855
    @nobelkk2855 Před 2 lety +3

    Dear Sara Del Villar. I started all these steps yesterday especially the power of discipline through physical workout and letting go off the uncontrollable things. Surprisingly out of pure coincidence Im seeing this videos today. This video made my day❤️

  • @Buhleep
    @Buhleep Před 3 lety +1

    I love this video so much...
    all of these things are things I've spoken about with many doctors and therapists over the last 4 years.
    My family screwed me over deeply and I fell into a dark world of drugs, alcohol, sex and fighting.
    I was losing myself completley and I'm still here..getting ready for work and thinking about all the work I'm going to do on my animal crossing island...
    I used to hate life. Now all I want is to learn how to love myself...I deserve it. We all deserve to love ourselves🕊

  • @fatmafati7761
    @fatmafati7761 Před 2 lety +2

    This channel helped me a lot to deal with my unhealed trauma n to deal with a narcissist n setting boundaries ... God bless you and I owe the voiceover lady a lot of appreciation n thanking ✨💛

  • @AB-ue5pm
    @AB-ue5pm Před rokem +4

    1-Solitude: it's a bless only appreciated by the solitary. Builds character and widen insight.
    2-Listen to your body: depression might be telling you to slow down. Psychosomatics are warning alarm. Don't fight, listen and change accordingly.
    3-Focus on 'why': the rest is details. How, when and what will follow a clear and string why.
    4-Me: my loyalty and obligation is all about me. The rest is irrelevant.
    5-Read the classics:
    -Virtue of Selfishness & Atlas Shrugged by Ayn Rand.
    -100 Years of Solitude by the great Gabo.
    -Being There by Jerzy Kosiński.
    -The Trail & The Metamorphosis by Kafka.
    -The Post Office & Women by Charles Bukowski. Also his short poem, The Genius of the Crowd.
    -The Hitchhiker Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams.
    -Anton Chekhov short stories in general.
    And most importantly, don't think too much.

  • @lianepardo
    @lianepardo Před 3 lety +6

    Thanks for this video! I really need this, I think of myself as a phoenix, but I'm becoming weak and weaker every single day. I'll have my first mental health consultation next Saturday after years of battling with my demons alone. Wish me luck!

  • @jesserramsessoller990
    @jesserramsessoller990 Před 3 lety +2

    I love this channel so much! Eversince I started watching your videos, my understanding of myself, others, my strengths and weaknesses grew!

  • @Deniela_
    @Deniela_ Před 3 lety +5

    Today I finally got the courage to talk to my online friends. I said hello. And they made fun of me for so long. After that I ofc didn’t wanna talk again but then they called me a p**** for not talking. Things like this makes me rlly just wanna cry. I personally don’t like my voice and I’m very insecure and that just made me feel even worse. This video was very calming and it rlly helped me to cry. I was holding it in all day. Thank you 💜

    • @erinshannon8031
      @erinshannon8031 Před 3 lety

      I'm sorry your friends are like that! You'll always find support here! Don't be ashamed of your voice. I'm sure it's uniquely gorgeous!

    • @prolo6309
      @prolo6309 Před 3 lety

      Man, fuck those guys! Go and make some new friends. And when you do, you will not feel afraid to talk to them. Strive towards making true friends. You got this.

    • @kritisrivastava9393
      @kritisrivastava9393 Před 3 lety +1

      Those people aren't your friends. Throw them into the trash can.

  • @maiamaravive
    @maiamaravive Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you! This has helped me with my unhappy and stressful life honestly, keep up the good work! ❤️

  • @SAGE-ro4yb
    @SAGE-ro4yb Před 3 lety +15

    I've never clicked on a video so fast after reading the title

  • @drunkensquirrel7545
    @drunkensquirrel7545 Před rokem +2

    I'd add daily prayer and/or meditation to this excellent list of steps! I've noticed that when I pray daily I'm better able to handle life's curveballs! 🦋🙏🏽🦋

  • @Noname-jd1vp
    @Noname-jd1vp Před 2 lety +8

    I'm having hard time because of my own decisions in life, my mind is weak as just as my body. I guess, what I have to train first is how to get mentally strong, in order for me to get started. I don't know how long it would take, but I know I'll get there someday! 🙂
    Thank you Ma'am for this! 🙂

  • @starros1
    @starros1 Před 3 lety +5

    Very well done, Sara. Anyone can benefit from your mental toughness advice. Thank you!

  • @french-ishtoast
    @french-ishtoast Před 3 lety +66

    I used to be pretty mentally stable but the pandemic really messed me up.... luckily in the future the pandemic passed.
    -A Time Traveler

    • @imiss1d968
      @imiss1d968 Před 3 lety +7

      Hey!!! We are at the same timeline
      Pendemic isn't over yet
      Or is it..
      Edit: Directioners will get me

    • @french-ishtoast
      @french-ishtoast Před 3 lety +1

      @@imiss1d968 Oh I have already traveled to the future >:)

    • @imiss1d968
      @imiss1d968 Před 3 lety +3

      @@french-ishtoast so tell did 1d reunite ??

    • @french-ishtoast
      @french-ishtoast Před 3 lety +1

      @@imiss1d968 That is something you must find out yourself... mwhahahaha

    • @oh-ohstinky5819
      @oh-ohstinky5819 Před 3 lety +1

      the time travel thing is becoming old

  • @minfirezman2351
    @minfirezman2351 Před 3 lety +8

    Thank you, I've been struggling on how to become mentally stronger, perfect timing as always thanks!!!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před 3 lety +1

      No problem!! We hope these tips helped you

  • @Noone-qh7pu
    @Noone-qh7pu Před rokem +2

    Preparing for the worst case should be one of the points to focus on if one is trying to increase mental strength

  • @woof9991
    @woof9991 Před 3 lety +5

    This actually gave me courage and an idea to deal with my situation rn, thank you 🌱🌸

  • @Popo-hn6of
    @Popo-hn6of Před 3 lety +8

    I just clicked on a video about how depression sounds and I get this notification omg what is this timing

  • @alyssawilson6271
    @alyssawilson6271 Před 2 lety +2

    This video brought light to things I was already doing but also things I can work on for the future. I'm greatful for these videos.

  • @mvincentmoore
    @mvincentmoore Před 2 lety

    Whoever you are, you have such a lovely and soothing voice, perfect for these kinds of topics!

  • @asmashahid372
    @asmashahid372 Před rokem +5

    Mistake doesn't remain a mistake when we get lesson from it. That's my quote 💟

  • @anonymousleapyear5616
    @anonymousleapyear5616 Před 3 lety +11

    I feel like this was a really good video to post just after 2020 because a lot of people are struggling with a lot of different things, and this can really help them get through it.
    So thank you Psych2Go for being there for us when we need you❤️

  • @kimberleyabeelack5959
    @kimberleyabeelack5959 Před 3 lety +2

    So grateful to have come across this beautiful masterpiece. Thank you for these amazing tips ! 🔥 Keep it up 💪🏿

  • @lemonpie_vanilla
    @lemonpie_vanilla Před 3 lety +2

    Really needed this, thanks. I am really weak mentally, I cry so fast and I get hurted far too easily and it is really annoying.

  • @nataliagonz4661
    @nataliagonz4661 Před 3 lety +10

    I saw this and clicked as soon as I could because A weak mental system has been making me very different from others apparently and I’m only getting meaner and meaner because nobody is respecting my kindness

    • @SkyleeKate
      @SkyleeKate Před 3 lety +1

      You can vent in this reply section :)
      Only real people would accept you for you and I’ll be that person :D

    • @prolo6309
      @prolo6309 Před 3 lety +3

      Don't be kind just because you want others to respect you. Be kind because you like being kind. At the end of the day, you don't need approval from others to be happy.

    • @ahhwe-any7434
      @ahhwe-any7434 Před 5 měsíci

      Somexs u really do hafta fake kindness to get by tho. Like y the f do I hafta be stuck w/ u for? You're the worst 😭. I just look at ppl, mostly all liars, like you're a damn psychopath killer! This is y I can't w/ y'all. Ok maybe not but still. I still can not

    • @maxsheng8215
      @maxsheng8215 Před 8 dny

      Change the system. But id say your trying to fit into a system which is not you. Let the system fit you, if no such system, just go with your instinct. It will not disappoint you by following ur instinct. It existed before any system.

  • @sra779
    @sra779 Před 3 lety +6

    Hey psych2go...I just wanna thank you down from the heart....💜...I became more self loving , confident and l learnt many mental facts...and sometimes I understood what my frnds are going through and help them for feeling better...every video of you are informative and helpful... especially voice of Amada💜🥺....I became strong ...and Im realising that life is so simple and lovable...I'm looking for possibilities instead of problems... 🥺💜...just because of strength and support and information and live that you given...you became my best friend 💜🥺 .....love you....thank you psych2go fam....just wanna say...every video you do is useful...💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜...I wish I could meet you and hug you and say thank you💕

  • @sidracula2.050
    @sidracula2.050 Před 2 lety

    Your voice is so soothing! Thank you.

  • @samriddhipant5889
    @samriddhipant5889 Před 3 lety +2

    I needed this so much. This is the perfect time. Thank you so much💞

  • @jwmrna
    @jwmrna Před 3 lety +5

    I really was waiting for this vid my whole life lol. This is really helpful. I am in a bad state in my life right now but using these tips I think I can get through it! So, thank u for these advice!

  • @shyaaammeneen63
    @shyaaammeneen63 Před 3 lety +19

    Nice video. Daily mindfullness meditataion for 10-15 minutes and being assertive are top priorities to develop your mental muscles. Never say "Yes' when you mean "No". Avoid getting too attached to anything in life or being over emotional. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir-Counsellor. .

  • @CheriLexvold
    @CheriLexvold Před 11 měsíci

    Thanks so much. I needed this help this morning.

  • @CheriLexvold
    @CheriLexvold Před 10 měsíci

    I have listened to this numerous times since I found it. Thank you so much.

  • @juliannebenido6835
    @juliannebenido6835 Před 3 lety +4

    To anyone whos reading this you are so special and blessings will come unexpected

  • @vAqeii
    @vAqeii Před 3 lety +82

    Secret 1: Playing Minecraft on Hardcore mode

    • @boystarr706
      @boystarr706 Před 3 lety

      this is my sign to play minecraft

    • @cordidi
      @cordidi Před 3 lety +1

      i would like this comment but it's at 69 likes and i can't mess it up

  • @MisterVestige
    @MisterVestige Před 2 lety +2

    My mental toughness has been deteriorating for a while, as much as I can put on a facade. Thanks for this video.

  • @breanna4111
    @breanna4111 Před 25 dny

    I came to this video because I’m trying to break my flare. The reason I haven’t given up is because of my loving service dog. If I didn’t have him I believe I would find myself in oblivion at rest. I’ve never felt so misunderstood, alone and in pain. I’m going to be going to a chronic pain patient program in August and I hope to be able to fight more and to help keep me emotionally stable.
    This is a life I wouldn’t just choose for anyone. Stay strong!

  • @lion3914
    @lion3914 Před 2 lety +4

    MENTALLY STRONG
    1) get an emotional trash can
    2) acknowledge and use the power of choice
    3) do the difficult things first
    4) exercise
    5) learn how to lose gracefully
    6) Prartice gratitude
    7) let go of things you can't control

  • @yipps1171
    @yipps1171 Před 3 lety +4

    I just need this to stop crying so much, it's starting to get normal to my family

  • @chiuoolala9887
    @chiuoolala9887 Před 2 lety

    I am grateful to learn that I should let go things out of control and try not to assume I am the only person who can fix it. I feel relieved and break free from the current mindset. Thanks for sharing!

  • @LuckyWarrior-hv9vp
    @LuckyWarrior-hv9vp Před rokem +1

    This is so helpful!! Thank you so much

  • @samsonm.5372
    @samsonm.5372 Před 3 lety +8

    I really love this channel and I noticed a string of solution driven videos have come out recently. It couldn't have been at a better time ♡. Thank you psych2go for YOUR support in my life. I tell you it's more constant than some people in my life & I hope you continue to empower others for years♡♡♡

  • @monicaperez2843
    @monicaperez2843 Před 3 lety +4

    Here are a few more: ask yourself what is the most pressing problem in your life. Work to solve it, and often your other problems will disappear with it. Another suggestion: accept some people need to be loved from a distance. Love them from a distance, as allowing others to abuse you does not benefit you or them.

  • @vidhisharma4862
    @vidhisharma4862 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you so much for this video. This actually helped me!

  • @InBloomBouquet9347
    @InBloomBouquet9347 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for this! I felt very comforted, learning there are ways that I can try to be mentally stronger😍

  • @ultra6909
    @ultra6909 Před 3 lety +18

    Sometimes we already know the true way, just need somebody to remind us...just my opinion ;)

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    • @Clv_nts.
      @Clv_nts. Před 3 lety

      wait really? i didn't know that tho- i feel so wierd...

  • @IKEMENOsakaman
    @IKEMENOsakaman Před 3 lety +31

    "Mentally tough"? Or "be able to hide feelings and emotions?" That's the question... hmm..

    • @lalalavideo6435
      @lalalavideo6435 Před 3 lety +1

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    • @iluvtulips3646
      @iluvtulips3646 Před 3 lety +1

      i think its being able to control actions when feeling negative emotions and be able to stay strong thru hard times

    • @sirivenneladara8947
      @sirivenneladara8947 Před 3 lety +2

      @@iluvtulips3646 Yes. Don't hide ur emotions or feelings. If ur not ready yet to talk to someone I would recommend to write in a diary but don't bottle up ur feelings. Ik how it feels to do that :(

  • @keeo6834
    @keeo6834 Před 3 lety +1

    Just what I needed. Thanks.

  • @munkeefinkelbeen5395
    @munkeefinkelbeen5395 Před 3 lety +2

    I actually have just started practicing gratitude lately, and listing 10 positive things that happen each day. It's helping a lot...I've been much happier lately :)

  • @vibhatripathi48
    @vibhatripathi48 Před 3 lety +14

    Hey psych2go, i wanted to request a video on the topic 'maladaptive daydreaming.' I am seeing some symptoms in myself and I am scared. I am not self diagnosing myself though. Hope you notice and help me a bit .
    Love this channel so much ❤

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  • @VictorPham_
    @VictorPham_ Před 3 lety +12

    When you’ve built up your mental fortitude...then you fall in love.

  • @didiathome526
    @didiathome526 Před 3 lety +2

    Love the description "emotional trash can," - brilliant! This was the only one I had not heard before. Thanks for a great list. I can start using this right away!

  • @m.a...7543
    @m.a...7543 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for giving such beautiful video.

  • @arcadeii
    @arcadeii Před 3 lety +28

    Me after getting in the dream fandom and getting hated on: g I v e m e y o u r k n o w l e d g e

    • @subhobrotonath5160
      @subhobrotonath5160 Před 3 lety +2

      He probably said dream's new song is trash

    • @arcadeii
      @arcadeii Před 3 lety +1

      No, like I’m in the fandom lol

    • @-criedjupiter-8464
      @-criedjupiter-8464 Před 3 lety

      Oh wow lol u got attacked well dont go in those fandoms expecting people to accept ur opinions cos thats not gonna work

    • @arcadeii
      @arcadeii Před 3 lety

      @@-criedjupiter-8464 nah I get attacked by people outside of the fandom

    • @-criedjupiter-8464
      @-criedjupiter-8464 Před 3 lety

      @@arcadeii oh ok

  • @nainshiraina2155
    @nainshiraina2155 Před rokem +5

    I really need this generation to invent a device to erase the memories...

  • @reddot01
    @reddot01 Před rokem +1

    Her voice is so calm ❤️

  • @prernajh
    @prernajh Před rokem

    This is exactly what I needed given how badly filled with fears and doubts I am about my upcoming CAT exam. Starting today I really am gonna work on myself and gonna post every single day in either yes or no indicating whether I succeeded in keeping myself positive or not.

  • @arpitkumar4525
    @arpitkumar4525 Před 3 lety +4

    I do all of these! Yay! 🧠💪

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  • @frutticam
    @frutticam Před 2 lety +3

    Just a little reminder 💚
    Believe in yourself ✨
    Don’t forget who you are and what you capable of ✨
    Don’t estimate yourself ✨
    Stay strong ✨

  • @kristalhumphreys4621
    @kristalhumphreys4621 Před rokem

    Definitely sharing this with a few loved ones! Great video ❤

  • @marslars3567
    @marslars3567 Před 2 lety

    The voice of the narrator is so soothing to my mind and heart and the message gets easily received.

  • @miata8047
    @miata8047 Před 3 lety +20

    The Thumbnail: mEntaLlY tOugH
    My brain: “ELY OH”

  • @hafizurrahaman1379
    @hafizurrahaman1379 Před 3 lety +3

    4:33 let go of works that u can't control
    Me:Finally a work that I can do

  • @lukasmurin06
    @lukasmurin06 Před rokem

    thank you, I really needed to hear that

  • @PlanetYokoshima
    @PlanetYokoshima Před 2 lety

    Thank you, and your voice is really soothing.

  • @wham1984
    @wham1984 Před 3 lety +8

    Why did this come out at 3?!?!?😂

  • @nina1905
    @nina1905 Před 3 lety +4

    why are these comments' dates saying "2 days ago" or "3 days ago" when the video was just uploaded 15 minutes ago

    • @shadowsightliker
      @shadowsightliker Před 3 lety

      You can find unlisted Psych2Go videos on their playlists and comment before they get uploaded

  • @amayliawijaya6627
    @amayliawijaya6627 Před 3 lety

    thank youuu so much, i got soo stressed lately and this just come in the right time ✨💖

  • @lenarettke6708
    @lenarettke6708 Před 3 lety

    Your channel is sooooo helpful!!! Thank you so much!