I stuttered as a child as well as Tourette’s. I was severely abused in every way except sexual abuse. I was blessed by the grace of God to able to defeat them into adulthood and beyond. God bless this young man for coming forward. 🙏🙏
my cousin sounded just like you growing up. Today I can't tell he had/has a stutter at all. Just keep working at it and dont go faster for anyone else. People who care about you will listen to what you have to say. You are very brave dude and I believe in you!
My best friend at school stuttered badly, but she had the voice of an angel and when she sang you'd never know she had a stutter. She and her husband formed a very successful band ... I still miss you Vicki RIP
👍 I really appreciate this video. I'm one of those well-meaning people who ends up saying something stupid because I just want to be helpful somehow. This is a great lesson that it's okay to do nothing but listen patiently. Thank you!
Stuttering is such an overwhelming thing we have to deal with daily. I also stutter and it's a very frustrating and exhausting problem due to the fact that you can't control or predict whenever it will happen... . It's the worst when I go to the University, mostly because of the presentation I have to make and because I cannot make any friends to study and have fun with 😢. I have to always fake that I am fine around others...
Completing my sentences for me was nice for a bit because I could finally get to rest after shoving all those words out of my throat, but then I realized how bad it felt, that they couldn't wait for me to say 1 sentence even though I listened to their monologue. My family for a bit found "the magic phrase" "Just breathe." Yeah, didn't help just stressed me out, especially being annoyed with me for not "just breathing". Thankfully the couple that said it, realized it didn't actually work and stopped but now some attention divert as if they can pause me for a second then come back into the conversation like talk to a pet while I'm talking or scroll through their phone. Keep at it and keep speaking! You CAN talk! ♦
you are very brave making this step! but you know that you can get rid of stuttering almost completely. I stuttered myself and while doing my therapy it went better and better, thanks to my friends who supported me and gave me recognition. I know a method which can help you. tell me if you want to learn this simple method, I would be glad to show it to you
Hey mate you doing a great job so keep doing what you doing and I hope you get batter as soon as possible if I tell you you wouldn't believe me I myself I also stutter I'm trying to get better and also keep trying and never give up!
Or you can accept that people will do/say whatever they think or want and get over it, regardless of the particular issue that we may or may not have. It's just life/people, don't worry too much about it~ 😉 But if you're telling people what to do/not to do around you, then you can be sure they are going to do the exact opposite... My question now is, do you stutter while you think/in your mind too?
I have an advice for you. When you are about to stutter (when you can feel it) try saying some melody lik mhmmhmhm because part of brain that controls speaking and singing is separated. Hope I helped!
Shouldn't have to take a medicine for the way you naturally talk. It's a blessing that we talk the way we talk. I love my stutter and wouldn't change it for anything.
I don't know anyone who stutters, but I'll try to think of your tips if I come across someone who does. Am I right in thinking that your stutters get worse when you're nervous?
I have a big problem interrupting people, ending other peoples sentences etc. So I would probably be horrible for him, because I could totally see myself say those things xd. I have met stutterers, and I just try my best not to finish any sentence, and just wait for them to say it, and act as nothing. (It is literally painful for me lmao. NOT because I am impatient in a way, not because I cannot wait the time, but because I am extremely impulsive, and I HAVE to say out things xd) But I was laughing at myself before I wrote this, because I just imagine we would be the most horrible radar friends; I would make him feel like shit, for making him more aware of his disability at speaking, and he would make me feel like shit, for reminding me of how I made a stutterer feel like shit xD. Anyways, Good video! And thanks for the info
No wonder you can't let people finish their sentences. For someone not effected by the subject, you're using the word "I" quiet often. Maybe it's not about you all the time. Maybe just listing could be benefishle.. Anyway, have a nice day
@@dietdoubledew8986 I understand that you cannot see the whole picture from my one comment, but I don't really think I ONLY focus on me. You might think so from that statement alone, however, the one thing that is untrue from my pov, is that I ALWAYS listen to what others have to say. (my mind is quite gone now, thanks for the comment) :D
With all due respect...listeners do not have the patience to listen to a stutterer...that is not meant to be rude....they might need to be somewhere and the stutterer is holding them up.....folks might help by saying words stutterers cant say because stutterers struggle.....we live in a fast pasted world and folks are always rushing!!! Fact of life.....
okay, but for the same reasons that some silly grown-ups like you apparently don’t have the “patience” or “time” or whatever to listen to them, stuttering is low key kinda based and epic, because it’s inherently anti-capitalist and “time” is just a capitalist construct 😎😎😎🫨🫨🫨👹👹👹 get rekt + L + ratio 😹😹😹
I stuttered as a child as well as Tourette’s. I was severely abused in every way except sexual abuse. I was blessed by the grace of God to able to defeat them into adulthood and beyond. God bless this young man for coming forward. 🙏🙏
Thank you! God bless you!
Theres a first time for everything
@@Achineeeee00 Jesus
my cousin sounded just like you growing up. Today I can't tell he had/has a stutter at all. Just keep working at it and dont go faster for anyone else. People who care about you will listen to what you have to say. You are very brave dude and I believe in you!
Thank you!
I wish the stuttering community would step their game up. Much love young man, I hope you find your fluent self.
Thank you!
I've found healing here,so glad to see people with the same problem as mine
Thank you!
My best friend at school stuttered badly, but she had the voice of an angel and when she sang you'd never know she had a stutter. She and her husband formed a very successful band ... I still miss you Vicki RIP
👍 I really appreciate this video. I'm one of those well-meaning people who ends up saying something stupid because I just want to be helpful somehow.
This is a great lesson that it's okay to do nothing but listen patiently.
Thank you!
Thank you!
It's a gift we have my guy. Not a curse. Love the way you talk. Keep it up!!
Thank you
Stuttering is such an overwhelming thing we have to deal with daily. I also stutter and it's a very frustrating and exhausting problem due to the fact that you can't control or predict whenever it will happen... . It's the worst when I go to the University, mostly because of the presentation I have to make and because I cannot make any friends to study and have fun with 😢. I have to always fake that I am fine around others...
I'm sorry to hear that ❤. I swear that if we should meet, I would never make fun of your stuttering. You're perfect as you are.
I wish everyone was more understanding about our struggle. Thank you for your kind words, it means a lot! 🙏 @@justanothermortal1373
Work on it, own it, and never give up! Everyone has problems, some can be outward like stuttering so you just have to own it.
Completing my sentences for me was nice for a bit because I could finally get to rest after shoving all those words out of my throat, but then I realized how bad it felt, that they couldn't wait for me to say 1 sentence even though I listened to their monologue.
My family for a bit found "the magic phrase" "Just breathe."
Yeah, didn't help just stressed me out, especially being annoyed with me for not "just breathing". Thankfully the couple that said it, realized it didn't actually work and stopped but now some attention divert as if they can pause me for a second then come back into the conversation like talk to a pet while I'm talking or scroll through their phone.
Keep at it and keep speaking! You CAN talk! ♦
That’s the worst! Completing sentences can be nice at times but I think it’s good for people to avoid it. Thanks for watching!
@@Stuttering101 I agree, especially when it's all the time or they keep guessing wrong then I have to stop and say no then start again.
I just found your channel and I am so happy to see someone have the same problem like mine It makes me feel like I belong🫂
Same, unfortunately, he speaks english 😔 my Hispanic ass don't let me feeling all he's saying because I can't get it 😔😔😔
@@58iJohnDoegirlll me too I don’t understand everything he says, English is not my native language lol
Thank you! So sorry it’s not in your native language but I’m glad I can help in some way!
You're doing a great job mate
Thank you!
I have a stutter too fam! Take your time and dont be embarrassed . With time , it’ll be b easier
Love your voice and your message, Asher. Thank you for your videos!
Thank you!
Oh and I'm a manager of a multimillion dollar company so don't let stuttering let you down...its all bullshit. Confidence and love in yourself
you are very brave making this step! but you know that you can get rid of stuttering almost completely. I stuttered myself and while doing my therapy it went better and better, thanks to my friends who supported me and gave me recognition.
I know a method which can help you. tell me if you want to learn this simple method, I would be glad to show it to you
Hey mate you doing a great job so keep doing what you doing and I hope you get batter as soon as possible if I tell you you wouldn't believe me I myself I also stutter I'm trying to get better and also keep trying and never give up!
I have a speech impediment too! I love this video!
Good people understand.. keep being you😊 🇨🇦 Eh..
Great advice. Wish someone had given it to my Dad about 60 years ago…
Or you can accept that people will do/say whatever they think or want and get over it, regardless of the particular issue that we may or may not have. It's just life/people, don't worry too much about it~ 😉
But if you're telling people what to do/not to do around you, then you can be sure they are going to do the exact opposite...
My question now is, do you stutter while you think/in your mind too?
I love your videos you'll became a huge CZcamsr in the future ❤
I have an advice for you. When you are about to stutter (when you can feel it) try saying some melody lik mhmmhmhm because part of brain that controls speaking and singing is separated. Hope I helped!
Thank you!
I ONCE HAD THIS PROBLEM AND THE MEDICINE BUSPIRONE WAS VERY EFFECTIVE IN TREATING THIS!!! IT IS A GREATLY UNDERRATED MEDICINE!!!
Shouldn't have to take a medicine for the way you naturally talk. It's a blessing that we talk the way we talk. I love my stutter and wouldn't change it for anything.
I don't know anyone who stutters, but I'll try to think of your tips if I come across someone who does.
Am I right in thinking that your stutters get worse when you're nervous?
thank you Asher
Good video 👍
You look amazing dude!
Thank you!
Sehr Stark von dir 💪👍
Ich stotter auch und weiß wie schwer es ist.
Du kannst sehr stolz auf dich sein ❤️😊
I have a big problem interrupting people, ending other peoples sentences etc. So I would probably be horrible for him, because I could totally see myself say those things xd.
I have met stutterers, and I just try my best not to finish any sentence, and just wait for them to say it, and act as nothing.
(It is literally painful for me lmao. NOT because I am impatient in a way, not because I cannot wait the time, but because I am extremely impulsive, and I HAVE to say out things xd)
But I was laughing at myself before I wrote this, because I just imagine we would be the most horrible radar friends;
I would make him feel like shit, for making him more aware of his disability at speaking,
and he would make me feel like shit, for reminding me of how I made a stutterer feel like shit xD.
Anyways, Good video! And thanks for the info
No wonder you can't let people finish their sentences. For someone not effected by the subject, you're using the word "I" quiet often. Maybe it's not about you all the time. Maybe just listing could be benefishle..
Anyway, have a nice day
@@dietdoubledew8986 I understand that you cannot see the whole picture from my one comment, but I don't really think I ONLY focus on me. You might think so from that statement alone, however, the one thing that is untrue from my pov, is that I ALWAYS listen to what others have to say. (my mind is quite gone now, thanks for the comment) :D
❤❤❤❤❤❤video interaction is great ❤
Why do people's stutter go away when they sing?
I feel bad for you and keep going
Stuttering is worst than death. It messes up my quality of life and kills my confidence 101%. Straight talk
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I know its unrelated
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With all due respect...listeners do not have the patience to listen to a stutterer...that is not meant to be rude....they might need to be somewhere and the stutterer is holding them up.....folks might help by saying words stutterers cant say because stutterers struggle.....we live in a fast pasted world and folks are always rushing!!! Fact of life.....
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okay, but for the same reasons that some silly grown-ups like you apparently don’t have the “patience” or “time” or whatever to listen to them, stuttering is low key kinda based and epic, because it’s inherently anti-capitalist and “time” is just a capitalist construct 😎😎😎🫨🫨🫨👹👹👹 get rekt + L + ratio 😹😹😹
@@b6b6b6b6b6 wtf you babbling about!
@@Anonymous-qg9xxyou being unbased 😂
Everyone is always rushing! I just hope to help out whoever decides to watch my videos.