The Dark Side Of OnlyFans: A Warning To Young Women
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- čas přidán 11. 09. 2024
- I've been putting off posting this video for several weeks now as it's very vulnerable and personal to me. However I feel like this message needs to be heard and I want to warn young women of the dark reality of being an OnlyFans creator, coming from a former creator for the past 3.5 years.
OnlyFans absolutely blew up during the pandemic with so many women signing up to make some quick cash. However the consequences of this have been numerous for so many of us and I've made this video to bring attention to the harsh reality of selling your body online. You don't walk away from this unscathed. There are so many ramifications that can come from this.
So to any young women thinking of making an OF, please watch this first and listen with an open mind and heart, as I've experienced first hand the damage that can be done from pursuing this. This is my story...
Stunning video. It takes a lot of guts to do this. I live in South Africa and here it's very lucrative because of the weakness of our currency as opposed to the USD. My daughter is a molested child and is on OF. Her partner is too. He is 52,my daughter is 25 and I am 51. My daughter's beauty comes from me. However her sexual conduct from her father who died this year from leukaemia. I am a survivor of much abuse. However the love of money is the root of all evil. Too both my daughter and myself have Ehlers Danlos Syndrome. I warned my daughter as a rebellious teen that once a pic is out there it's out there forever. Her ears are ornaments. God bless you in your journey to a new career in life. ❤❤ Sue from South Africa
No one tells you ? You KNEW that's what people are going to think & you tried to tell yourself It didn't matter but It does & always will, Men think they've got to give you $ to talk because they do, Thank you for warning others but stop blaming others for your actions.
In what way am I blaming others for my actions? The entire premise of this video is that I've realised my actions and their consequences and am now warning other women of the reality of this industry
That's it I think - they do know all this, the uploader probably knew all this, but they don't listen and this video won't make any difference at all, it'll fall on deaf ears.
Women will have no problem gaping their p**** for the world for cash for as long as men don't completely disown them for gaping their p**** for the world for cash.
@tr1k716, Gia has already admitted that she regrets her actions, that is her taking ownership of what she's done, she is in no way passing the buck.
Leave the girl alone, she seems a pretty cool and genuine person. Try not to be so judgey and let's have a bit of understanding...
Show me the man/woman who has never made a mistake...
@@Crease36Oh shut up, simp!
I didn't see any blame on others, so weird to interpret that. The main message I get from her, is that her internal state changed
I'm glad you realized what pornography does to people. It isn't good for anyone. I hope everything goes well for you.
Thank you 😊 I fully agree. It's destroying people and relationships from the inside out, and I wish I realised this much sooner
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It took me along time to realize what it was doing to me.
This is important for society. Thank you for being honest with yourself and others. That's respectable.
Thank you, I really appreciate it 😊
Please understand that making this video is a genuine service to humanity. May your life be blessed, as you have blessed others by sharing your experience.
Thank you so much, I really appreciate your kind words 😊
Were you crying? You have done a great thing by exercising your soul like this. Your the first OF girl I’ve ever witnessed giving advice not to do it, or at least be aware of the pitfalls.
People want and need content like this. Talk more about it.
I think it's awesome that you have turned this experience into something that you can use to help others. A warning from someone who's actually been through it I think it would be much more helpful to young women considering this. I'm happy for you that you were able to see this for what it was and get your your humanity back.
Powerful message. Well done.
8:31 this needs to be talked about more. I'm not saying that men who consume the content are not responsible for doing so - they certainly are, noone is making them subscribe. But if you think about it, selling to them absolutely is predatory. it's basically selling drugs to addicts. And addicts can become dangerous. It's a lose-lose scenario - creators and consumers both suffer in the end.
...and there is no such thing as an OFs creator. It's called sex work, whether it's in person or online. Doing sex work online is arguably worse because it's there forever.
@@PB22559 OF creator is a job, only when done professionally, not that easy to earn enough money. AND is about sex. Nobody needs to know who you really are or what is your personal life.
The comments seem so negative but thanks for speaking out. Too many people are glorifying the adult industry which includes OF.
This film has got an enormous cognitive value. It describes a reality that we don’t see; something hidden, that doesn't appear at the first glance. We don't realize it may exist. Everything was presented in a condensed and very emotional way. I am impressed, because not many videos about the OnlyFans platform have as many advantages as this one.
The final message isn’t directed to me, because I am an older man who does not use 'online services' like OnlyFans. I know my comment means little, but I decided to write these few sentences in support the author’s film and the work she put into its creation.
What reality "we didn't see?", and "that was hidden" That getting paid to dildo your holes for money might be a bad thing? What are we going to learn next? Prostitution might also be bad? OF women sold their soul due to being lazy, in hopes for easy money. I have no sympathy. They got what they wanted. You want to be a degenerate, you face the consequences.
thank you so much for sharing - this is knowledge that needed to be heard, and you can help a lot of young men and women. Pray the best for you, and will follow the channel for more wisdom
sending you lots of positive energy, took quite a strong woman to change stuff and admit it publicly, i am sure many will see your inner self above any exterior beauty that indeed is easier to perceive when your blessed with it, i see a much larger soul in you beyond whatever you decided in the past to do with your life
Thank you so much for being brave enough to be honest. We need more women to be as honest and brave. You are very beautiful, very smart and articulate so it's clear that you are an extraordinary person and it's obvious your destiny goes far beyond SW. I'm glad you got out before the point of no return because many don't. Everything you said is Truth and hopefully people will be set free from hearing it. Many Blessings to you in all that you do.
This should be shown in whatever podcast
So sad...what she doesn't seem to realize is that everything you do is there forever....even though she shuts down her site... it's always there...and furthermore she knew this going in.
She knew this going in but she didn't care because she thought she was immune to repercussions. It's all on her.
Well , are you sure a potential employer can get to know your past by only knowing your name and surname ?
Thank you so much for putting this video on your page. You are very courageous and truly doing a great service to our young women in telling them the truth. Yes. The truth must be told and it is wonderful you are telling it.
I started watching this video, thinking 23 minutes seems extreme. I was wrong! You make so many salient points that people need to hear -- especially anyone considering it as an option. Thanks, Gia. 👍
When I was in college my girlfriend wanted to be a stripper and do bachelor parties. Because her friend was doing it and making lots. I was against it. Called sexist, controlling, and all the rest. So I broke up with her over it. I think it was the second party she went to, she got raped by a man at the party. The police didn't want to get involved as she had sex with another guy at the party for money. So she quit and wanted me to date her again. OMG.
It definitely happens all too often in all lines of sex work and it's absolutely horrendous it occurs. It is a very high risk industry for these types of occurrences and a lot of women walk into it thinking it will never happen to them until it does, and then the reality sets in
Honestly I think there should be a lot more videos like this about Onlyfans. But I feel that only those who didn't make a lot of money feel some kind of regret. There is no moral perspective on it, just if you make money or not.
Truth is every girl who decide to doing OF stuff needs to know it will be way harder for her to be included into normal society after. Money or not they mostly will be looked as outcasts.
And you have really beautiful eyes. Sorry but I just need to say it.
The Creators are like drug dealers dispensing dopamine to the weak of mind and heart.
yeah exactly!
As a cam model since 2014, and of creator, what she says is true.
Thank you for posting this, it must have been a very vulnerable video to make. We can only hope that this can catch some girls' attention before they make their OF account. I hate how OF was promoted as a "fun, fast, easy way to become financially stable" some years ago, and anyone criticizing it was labeled "a misogynist who wants to keep women from financial success". I hope that you can move away from this and build a different life, all my best wishes go to you.
It's odd how you demean the men, calling them simps, desperate, lonely, and awkward. Not once did you demean yourself, since seggwork is already even lower than anything, even those men you look down on. Just as you said that you are worth more, the same goes for those men as well. You should have tried to help them be better men, not try to spit at them. You really are in no position to place your value higher than those men.
She is not hudging those men or putting them in a scale of value. She is pointing out them as being tremendously lonely and desperately victims of their hormons.
'Onlyfans creator' is a euphemism women use for sex work. You're not 'creating' anything.
Still crearing content 😂 same as you created a comment good biy well done
I enjoy ASMR videos but never have joined an Only Fans. It seemed to be taking things way to far. I would comment on your videos & you usually gave me a ❤️ but I never attempted to interact with you beyond appreciating the YT clips. They were on the edge but not over the line & I liked that you were a mystery & I only knew what you portrayed on YT. I'm glad I have never crossed the line from entertainment to a dark place. Wish you well & thanks for the perspective.
Thank you so much 😊
The point you make about how OF affects the model is important. Being fake and commercializing yourself for others has repercussions on the persons spirit. It does warp how you see everything. In the end it will make both sides resentful. Both resent the fake ness of it all, and yet are inextricably linked because of it. Capitalism is the only real winner here-
This is why OF is shifting to using outsource businesses to reply to ‘clients’. It must be incredibly unsavory to be hands on with these men. Also the race to the bottom to get you to exploit yourself more and more--
It will take a few years for OF to stop being trendy but casual sex work is here to stay. At least until A.I corners the loneliness/porn market. .. but by then A.I will be changing Everything.
Thank you for your honesty. ..OF, it is insidious . Your message has been heard , you have gotten through To me . I won’t continue my sub from here on .
God bless , and I hope you can put this behind you and get on with your life 🙏🏻
You are a beautiful person and moving out of the only fans content was the right choice. It will be better mentally and physically for you. I pray that God will forgive you and that he gives you strength, encouragement, and comfort.
I can't believe someone needs to be told that by becoming a "CONTENT CREATOR" and show yourself to the public will be kept secret from people around you, when you charge money to sell yourself you shouldn't have to be told that the ones who pay won't expect you to give them what you charge.
Well done for leaving you've done the right thing! You are beautiful and are worth way more than that
A deal with simps is a deal with the devil.
She's the one providing the 'service' so it's all on her. She made the deal with the devil herself. No one twisted her arm.
The majority of the world are simps
I feel like I remember you making ASMRs at one point. I remember your face from somewhere hmm. Anyways thank you for this video. It's a serious thing to discuss and you're awesome for bringing some reality to this topic.
So sad that covid caused this escalation of young people ruining their lives. Horrible situation and this site needs to be shut down.
I'm sorry for what happened to you but I'm also glad that I have never.contributed to thos disgusting site. Hope you heal and repair youself and find the person you need to fill your life❤
Covid didn't cause this. Women thinking there would be no repercussions to their actions has caused this.
The Dark side? Is there a bright side on OF then?
Well said. These women know exactly what they're getting themselves into but they don't care until it's too late.
$$$ and some other psicological effects
You Said The Right Thing, My Friend, I Started A Onlyfans Account 2 Years Ago And Got No Money at all 😞
Porn warned you wyn. Prostitution warned you. You knew all the problems. You just didn't care and pushed the blame everywhere else but on yourself.
I originally did not know all the problems that came from this as they weren't discussed in the OnlyFans sphere and it was seen as a more softcore alternative, hence making this video. The majority of publicity surrounding OF was discussing how much money could be made and how 'empowering' women were finding it to be. There was very little discussion on the darker sides of it at the beginning as it was either a) too new or b) too much money behind it to openly scrutinize it. I am not passing blame and have acknowledged in the video my regret in pursuing it and my part in it as it's detrimental to both the creators and the consumers, and a sign of bigger societal problems
Thats pretty easy to say. Try to listen, instead of judging.
The industry itself only exists because there’s clients for it. The blame goes both ways. The bigger issue here is why is some men’s mental health so compromised that OFs is the only way to obtain intimacy. Last I checked it’s not women online buying used socks or underwear….
She also isn’t blaming anyone. She’s being completely accountable for her experience and sharing it.
@@GiaUnplugged Stop trying to blame 'the ofs sphere' for your own decisions. You knew damn well taking off your clothes for money had nothing to do with 'empowerment'. Stop using excuses. You made a horrible decision to get into sex work. I'm glad you've stopped but, unfortunately, the repercussions are long term.
Accountability is womens kryptonite
I don't think it's that way...Good video...
Everything you're saying about only fans could be said about any subscription based platform/ social media platform even CZcams can caused similar problems even streamers have these problem with their fans but like usual sites like only fans or porn becomes the scapegoat 🙄
Appreciate your perspective. Keep your head up. Don’t worry about comments too much.
If you want me to consider you worthy of going out on extravagant dates then don't be 2.99 a month.
You are only worth ehat some one is willing to pay you that is your worth.
So mist population my workers included are on minimum wage thats what they are worth.
If she gets 2 99 a month and makes 20k a minth thats her worth which then makes her worth more then the guy doing 9.5 making 6k a month
So, what's the solution? Have you seen the dating market nowadays? If you try to approach a girl nowadays in a coffee shop or a supermarket, you're most likely to be rejected, be seen as a creep or in the best case scenario, be given a fake number or be ghosted afterwards when you initiate contact for a formal date, simp or no simp. Not to mention the terrible reality of dating apps like tinder, bumble or hinge. Also, I understand your point of view about OF but at the same time, why don't you recommend these women to become janitors, housekeeping maids or workers at McDonald's? It's so easy to revel in your moral superiority but what options are you really giving to these women who may have debts or can't afford to go to university? This moralising bs is tiresome and don't offer real solutions, just posturing to make you feel better about your previous choices afterwards. There's a dark side to working at Mcdonald's, men working as delivery crews with bikes in shitty weather and getting yelled and demeaned at constantly by customers, a dark side working as an amazon crew worker where the stress drive many to actually wear diapers when driving because of quotas and no pauses informally allowed, a dark side to being a maintenance worker for e-mobility scooters working in the rain, repairing vomited on scooters on the spot, freezing in the wee hours of the morning. Problem with this video is that you actually think OF content creators are the centre of the world. Get out of your laptop, touch grass and realize there's plenty of human suffering in other blue collar professions out there, not to mention the inhumanity being faced on a daily basis to refugees in jobs like dishwashers or street sweepers.
wow this is actually a really strong comment
Some things are irreversible. It is much easier to get rid of such tattoos Gia has than of the 0F past...
The funniest thing is, that 0F never admits explicitly that it administers the adult content and takes commision from, lets say, 0F performers. As if they just sang songs online for tip payers. Actually, what is 0F doing is just pimping. Earning on other's people prostitution and facilitating the procedure.
Onlyfans concerns me and worries me that many women will do anything for money not necessarily thinking long term and once it's there it's irreversible and also imagine ruining your future For an oversaturated market it's concerning. Also I've normal women pastors , teachers, women that were normal women become prostitutes due to Onlyfans, I'm not against it but sometimes it worries me. There is a temporary novelty where you have to go more and more extreme because peoppe unsubscribe if they get bored. Also women dont realize even if they delete their account that content is going to be online and distributed for life
Show me your boundaries.
I think all types of sex work are damaging to females and most only do it desperate for money but yes with only fans it dose seam to have become so fashionable to join without people really knowing what it’s all about
I'm so glad i haven't done any of this.
Nice video! My sister is doing it. It's the only way she can make a lot of money and work for herself.
Rubbish. There are many ways she can make money but it takes hard work and dedication. Taking off your clothes for strangers is disgusting and has long term repercussions that can't be reversed.
I appreciate your oppenion on the subject.
The subject is so hard, since we has gone from it was frown upon, to you have to praise it. Like its a way to be proud of your body, by selling it. The feelings around it, is just so confusing tbh.
I couldn't agree more, it's incredibly confusing the message women are getting about our bodies. The fact that prostitution is illegal in many places, but selling your body online is apparently okay, is such a strange mixed message. And the sudden shift in opinions about what's okay in society and what's not now went from 0-100 real fast
@@GiaUnplugged It really is confusing. I can only imagine how empty you are starting to feel about all the flattering, from all those random men.
I really hope your mental health will get better, and I think its important that you speak up about your experience. Dont listent to the people who try to shame you, and tell you that you had it coming. Clearly you didnt! Nobody would put themself through that, if they knew what you know now.
I know this is a Different Story, You’re Tattoos Are Very Very Very Beautiful And Cool 😎 To.
I was wondering what OnlyFans really was. Was curious after seeing a news article headline about a woman with a disability empowering herself by being on the site. Didn't read the article, I rarely go beyond the headline these days.
The whole 'empowering with sex work' narrative is one of the biggest lies that has been sold to women. OnlyFans is basically digital prostitution at the end of the day and the women who believe they're empowered by it generally carry a lot of trauma and have become so detached from themselves that it's used as a coping mechanism in a way. It's a vicious cycle
Jeez some of these comments aren't very nice. Maybe the truth hurts guys? Maybe we don't like being called simp losers?
Well man up and accept it. I was a simp on Gia's Blood Doll youtube channel. Not as unhealthy as OnlyFans of course, but I still knew I was consuming the content in a slightly unhealthy, sexual way.
Nobody's perfect and we all make mistakes (and should be free to make them). So credit to this video sharing Gia's experience for other young women. And how about us guys take it in and learn from it too, instead of some of these quite bitter comments.
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Irredeemable goods but some bloke will wife her and regret it 5 years later, or 5 months later, depends how many more mental veils she cloaked her her third eye. The fact this woman came to terms with truth so late tells theres a lot more to come to terms with. Men you are warned, look at her tattoos....and im a tattoo artist
Edit. Finished listening and perhaps she can grasp the truth after all. God forgives those who show true submission to his creation of life. Submit to god's construct, the truth of our human reality. There is no other truths, just illusions
God may forgive her but the quality man she may want to marry in the future won't want anything to do with her.
Onlyfans is going to be very upset when the IRS comes for the money they have not paid the government
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They want miss it...
Too bad about the tats.
Honestly, the truth is refreshing
nice insights, thanks