Molestation - Stand Up Comedy ft. Nitin Mandal.

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    Venue Courtesy: The Habitat, Mumbai
    Directed by Anuj Mehta
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    Dishang Popat, Vivian Castelino & Harsh Shah
    Sound Recording by The Habitat Audio Team: Yash Barse.
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  • @NitinMandal
    @NitinMandal  Před 4 lety +186

    Thank you for watching this video. Agar aapko acha laga toh share zarur karna and Instagram @mandalcommission pe aap apne personal messages bhej sakte ho. I'll definitely reply you guys. Also watch my other videos as well.

    • @Suraj-_-Sood
      @Suraj-_-Sood Před 3 lety +2

      Best way to make joke and also spreading awareness. Loved the video.

    • @amritamishra2555
      @amritamishra2555 Před 3 lety +1

      I lovee your videos n you're soooo cutee n intelligent ofcourse 🥰

    • @vandanaraturi3886
      @vandanaraturi3886 Před 3 lety

      After listening to this I just wanna say I luv uh

    • @preranasomani2056
      @preranasomani2056 Před 3 lety

      I don't know how audience laughed!!! Like it felt very insensitive i was feeling so bad...I don't know if it's scripted or not .....but this actually show how bad the situation is everywhere not just Delhi 😔😔😔

    • @BBBiggBossBBBiggBoss
      @BBBiggBossBBBiggBoss Před 3 lety

      भाई, अच्छा कर रहे हो , पर ये 'share करो' जैसी भीक मत मांगना !

  • @ashwatinair5678
    @ashwatinair5678 Před 4 lety +391

    It's difficult for men to speak of abuse. If humour is the resort you choose to speak of it and deal with the trauma, so be it. But, I am glad you spoke.

  • @srushtykamble2936
    @srushtykamble2936 Před 4 lety +122

    To all the men who have experienced this you're not alone you're not at fault more power to you

  • @inddranil1103
    @inddranil1103 Před 4 lety +59

    Molestation by guys on guys is surprisingly common in this country. There have been molestation attempts on me by trans as well as other men, in trains, buses. Even close friends tried to molest me during a drinking session. Surprisingly this is a topic that is usually not discussed much and the scars it leaves cut much deep. Thank you mate for sharing this. I hope your standup do encourage others to come forward with their stories.

  • @sansthitasaha2247
    @sansthitasaha2247 Před 3 lety +65

    I was molested when I was 9 and acted almost the same way as you did. But this video just gave me the power to fucking cope with that after so many years. I hope you are doing alright and this video and your comedy is a life-saver. Thank you so much for sharing this. This speaks for so many people out there in itself and you. Wish nothing but the best for you.

    • @NitinMandal
      @NitinMandal  Před 3 lety +22

      Firstly wanted to say that i really felt bad to know that you also go through this kind of bad experience which gave you a life long trauma. But yeah raise your voice and fight against these animals is should be done in first place. But thank you so much for your time and kind words. ❤❤❤

  • @maharathy
    @maharathy Před 4 lety +126

    Molestation is actually scary, at that time actually one can't react the way he/she wants when I was 14 during a train journey one person is touching my crotch and in my mind I was like BC kar kya raha hei, but I was completely freeze, my parents were sitting in front seat (chair car) but can't even call them as I don't know how to react. Now I am 29 and thinking about it makes me realise ye salo ke dimag me molest karte wakt kya chal raha hato hei, hats off and shout out to those who protest and shows courage during this situation all molesters should be punished no matter what the person gender or age is.

    • @maharathy
      @maharathy Před 4 lety +8

      And also parents should teach their children what is inappropriate touching and how they should immediately reach them with out any fear, it will help them overcome the trauma and meke them a courageous person.

    • @nikilsingh5924
      @nikilsingh5924 Před 4 lety +3

      @@maharathy *In short: Sex Education*

  • @jaspreet0305
    @jaspreet0305 Před 4 lety +73

    Conveying tragedy with comedy. You're a strong man to remember it back and write jokes about it. Lets hope viewers get the message behind the whole set.

    • @shrutirasaily231
      @shrutirasaily231 Před 4 lety +3

      True! Because everyone was laughing soo much. And I was also concerned about that one guy being 'seduction'. I hope the message went through their head.

  • @padhamnathpradeep2711
    @padhamnathpradeep2711 Před 4 lety +301

    An important topic.. scripted or not. Great delivery. Bringing up a topic like this and handling this so well.

  • @NitinMandal
    @NitinMandal  Před 4 lety +35

    Hey everyone i believe Molestation is a very serious topic, It can hurt someone's sentiment, specially for someone who have been through this. Trust me I've been through this and it felt bad, but here i am sharing my story in my way.
    I believe every artist try to give his message by his work..and I am doing same.
    If I've hurt someone's feeling i am so sorry.
    If you like the video press the like button and subscribe to the channel, also share this video with your loved once. And for more updates about upcoming videos shows FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM - @mandalcommission

    • @chingpong5048
      @chingpong5048 Před 4 lety +1

      damn right bro

    • @MahaswetaMDas
      @MahaswetaMDas Před 4 lety

      My ex was sodomized as a child by his own maternal uncle...... he couldn't get over.

    • @chingpong5048
      @chingpong5048 Před 4 lety

      @@MahaswetaMDas what man is it for real ?

    • @sagartamrakar1919
      @sagartamrakar1919 Před 4 lety

      Mere sath bhi hua hai esa hi kuch...I can feel you brother. Thanks for telling this story in this way.

    • @akshayde
      @akshayde Před 4 lety

      Good one man. I tried open mics a couple of times at habitat too when I was in Mumbai. But i was too much in my head and was in general going through a bad time and i couldn't really enjoy it. Wrote a lot of stuff...including something related to molestation. Ab vaapis dilli. Kisi din phir se try karna padega.

  • @special5564
    @special5564 Před rokem +29

    Okay as a girl faced that molestation many times .......by random strangers and even by family person ......it's very serious issue .....pr kya kre Mr jaae kya serious serious bol kr ........you did a great job to highlight that ....in a laughing way ...so what ? Don't give lectures to him on that ......jb ye public k samne bhi hota h tbb bhi kisi ko frk nhi pdta ..I feel healed !! Thankyou dost for making me laugh !!

  • @yash8044
    @yash8044 Před 3 lety +53

    It fucking takes courage to deliver such a horrific incident in a comedic manner... Hope you're doing well brother and I wish nobody ever has to face such terrible situations... Amazing content brother.

  • @Enigma_Male
    @Enigma_Male Před 4 lety +71

    I bet if this were a story about a girl getting molested then them audience wouldn't have clapped and laughed at this.
    Kyuki jab kisi ladka ka izzat khatre pe aata hai toh sabko haasi aata hai and vice versa ho toh phir Rona/ Candle march hota hai.
    Thanks brother for putting light on this side too.

    • @nataliewhite632
      @nataliewhite632 Před 4 lety +8

      The thing is that he presented this whole scenario as a funny incident. Of course if he would have been serious, I doubt that the reaction from audience would have been the same.
      Even tho the vid was definitely funny but its a sensitive topic and is not really meant to draw up laughter and that's a lil bit triggering.

    • @eishangupta9521
      @eishangupta9521 Před 4 lety +1

      Well said bro

  • @nishthasingh9896
    @nishthasingh9896 Před 4 lety +37

    With consent - seduction
    Without consent - molestation
    So true

  • @KDey1217
    @KDey1217 Před 4 lety +42

    This content is so real for women. I laughed a lot but then it just got so real. But the only difference is that it happened with a man... but all in all I loved the content because it's not just women even men go through this shit and the difference is the man comes back home alive but a woman is burned or found dead.

  • @indianaeri4483
    @indianaeri4483 Před 4 lety +30

    The first thought that comes to our mind when someone molests us is "galti se ho gya hoga" and then feel helpless,no one deserves to go through such trauma be it male or female

  • @jahnvibhadouria2080
    @jahnvibhadouria2080 Před 4 lety +35

    Hey brother. You're really brave. I couldn't find it funny because I've been a victim of molestation, when I was not even a teenager. Thank you so much for opening up about this. I feel like a weight has been lifted off my chest.

    • @dhanrajkumar7384
      @dhanrajkumar7384 Před 4 lety +3

      Its really bad dii aap behno ko hamari gandi soch ki wajah se aap sabhi behan shikaar hoti hum mardo ko ghinn aani chahiye

  • @shwetamaurya5188
    @shwetamaurya5188 Před 4 lety +40

    I'm a girl, and I have experienced this shit in public bus, I wasn't able to believe the man was like my grandpa's age, I was so shock like how come old man do such things.
    He was trying to rub his hand on my thigh, hiding it under the newspaper he was reading and to my shock he wasn't some uneducated illiterate.

    • @arunalexander690
      @arunalexander690 Před 4 lety +5

      I was shaken to the core when one such incident happened to me. Being a guy it has happened to me multiple times. It's very unfortunate to be a victim of such putrid acts.

    • @yash8044
      @yash8044 Před 4 lety +1

      it's just terrible to hear these things... I really hope you take care of yourself and be strong...No I am not trying to say that the victim is the one who is to blame at all, it's obvious these douchebags are the ones at fault... But I really hope everyone stays safe and never get to experience such mishaps ever in their life. The sad part is that you would be asked to be careful or to watch where you're going etc. but they're never told not to do shit like this in the first place..

    • @15ARYA
      @15ARYA Před 4 lety +2

      You are not the only one! I am a student, and often I get middle aged men in public transport who are way too interested in me.....and not in a healthy way...🤣🤣

    • @vivekthakur1451
      @vivekthakur1451 Před 4 lety +1

      What u do then

    • @TrilokdanGadhavi10
      @TrilokdanGadhavi10 Před 4 lety +5

      "Uneducated Illiterate" people are usually afraid of doing these things actually ....And nowadays most of the people are well educated...so, The main reason is their sick minds....And they are everywhere with any age number....& Parents don't allow their children to go outside at Night.......Not because they don't trust their children but because they don't trust these sick mind creatures.....And Parents know that molestation or little scratch can ruin their child's life socially, mentally and physically.

  • @nitupandey7534
    @nitupandey7534 Před 2 lety +29

    People in the comment section saying this, why is he cracking jokes about it, this is how you bring such issues to light! This is called satirical comedy!

  • @vaibhavisharma3187
    @vaibhavisharma3187 Před rokem +45

    Idk why I kept imagining Mahesh Bhatt as the "buddha"

  • @kartik8704
    @kartik8704 Před 4 lety +21

    Often as men we don't fully understand these things until it has any experiential basis. I appreciate your attempt to talk about it through comedy..

  • @rupinderrajput
    @rupinderrajput Před 4 lety +22

    Molestation is not something that can be easily put in public.... but Bhai you did it ✌🏻the best thing was the way you presented the fear .....that anybody would cry.... 👍🏻

  • @meghaleegohain6459
    @meghaleegohain6459 Před 4 lety +35

    The Audience were laughing, but when they leave the show they will for sure think over what was said in the set..it was deep, dark and thought provoking.

    • @blast2686
      @blast2686 Před 3 lety

      This is dark humour. If he doesn’t have a problem with making these kind of jokes, then why are you being so upset

  • @Vagmayi666
    @Vagmayi666 Před 2 lety +21

    At first I laughed but then after knowing that you cried it suddenly vanished And basically I felt sorry....And was Happy to know that your girl tried to make you feel comfortable

  • @dr.shakti15
    @dr.shakti15 Před rokem +40

    Shows the reality of people. They are laughing.

    • @julfikarhaque2823
      @julfikarhaque2823 Před rokem +11

      Its a standup show bro they paid for this entertainment
      What do you expect from them , do they have to sympathies him for telling this story in a laughable manner
      Bruh you're so dumb

    • @Pranjal446
      @Pranjal446 Před rokem +2

      Bruh! That was the entire point, to share the story in a humorous manner.

  • @ronaldweasley1779
    @ronaldweasley1779 Před 4 lety +23

    Finally someone spoke bout male molestation 👏🏻🙌🏻

  • @rishq5725
    @rishq5725 Před 4 lety +29

    I have a habit of standing on the door while travelling in the train. Especially when the train takes a halt away from the platform buzz, amidst the greenery and nature.
    Once when I was commuting I did the same and there was a man standing pehle se. I leaned over to take a peak outside and that man just put his one hand on me waist and another on my chest. Earlier I thought he was just helping me so I don't fell off (although I wasn't going to fall or anything) but then he started caressing my chest and waist and started taking deep breathes!
    Suddenly the reality seeped in and I backed off of his hold, he showed some restraints but since there were people he left me.
    To tell you the truth I was shaking within those 2 minutes...I just went to my seat and sat down shriveling inside and outside. Even my friend who was travelling with me asked a few times. I was blank or frozen, I don't know what got into me man, but I could've easily faced that man and beat the hell out of him but I just sat there running those moments in my head again and again. He even peaked into my berth and I couldn't even make an eye contact with him.
    That day I came to know what a girl feels and why they don't talk or take an action against these things. Kudos to those girls and boys who muster up the courage to say out loud and face these molesters.

  • @amitasonkar9826
    @amitasonkar9826 Před 4 lety +24

    I don't know how the audience sitting there can laugh on such a serious content though it's been orated comically 😅 , I didn't even smile for a moment

    • @ashishshrma
      @ashishshrma Před 4 lety +3

      sucks to be you then, that was the entire point of his set to satirise the topic, so that it isn't such a taboo to talk about

    • @amitasonkar9826
      @amitasonkar9826 Před 4 lety +2

      I was a kind shocked on hearing that stuff , it's nothing sort of taboo to me

    • @simransimran9339
      @simransimran9339 Před 4 lety +3

      Yeah... He made it funny but I felt really bad for him and just uncomfortable.
      I wanted to give him a hug! The bro-wala!

    • @Stripathi94
      @Stripathi94 Před 4 lety

      @@simransimran9339 yeah, I think the entire point was to make everyone uncomfortable, doesnt it?

  • @FunkadelicFeed
    @FunkadelicFeed Před 4 lety +21

    If it's not a work of fiction then I salute your bravery, it must have taken a lot of courage and confidence to talk about it.

  • @Madhavi_the_rare
    @Madhavi_the_rare Před 4 lety +28

    Whether the molestation victim is male or female; The lightness that he added by doing this set, really makes more damage to the heinousness of assault.
    It sounds as molestation is just an any other day, nothing serious or worrisome.
    No one's denying that male can't get molested, at least don't make fun of man's molestation.
    He did completely opposite of what his subject was.

  • @swapnilroy6851
    @swapnilroy6851 Před 3 lety +20

    ''Mai ro diya" 😂😂😂😂😂
    Epic dialogue

  • @naziaparween4600
    @naziaparween4600 Před 3 lety +13

    I really respect the talent, how perfectly you delivered such a strong massage.....
    Aise situation me koi bhi ro dega

  • @bipashasarkar3478
    @bipashasarkar3478 Před 4 lety +18

    Omg!!!! Finally someone is vocal these stuff!!! And you're turning it into standup. Wow!!!

  • @priyamvadaupadhyay3346
    @priyamvadaupadhyay3346 Před 4 lety +48

    I think this is a serious issue, that's why I couldn't laugh! Molestation can never be a joke to me! I felt for him! 🥺😔

  • @NitinMandal
    @NitinMandal  Před 4 lety +12

    If you like the video than make sure YOU WILL FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGARM AND SUBSCRIBE TO THE CHANNEL.

  • @ayushibarnwal6904
    @ayushibarnwal6904 Před 4 lety +14

    It takes guts to tell people this kind of story that too on the stage. Proud of u❤

  • @iamashutoshdimri
    @iamashutoshdimri Před 4 lety +20

    All those who are saying ki bakwas h, they should know how difficult it is to create such content and make people laugh with timing without doing any Racist remarks or shitty things which most of the stand up do these days. Keep it up man

  • @kittub9812
    @kittub9812 Před 3 lety +20

    It felt so bad even listening to this how can someone laugh wahi Koi female bolti to audience serious rehti.. Hats off to you Nitin

  • @v.priyankamurty3324
    @v.priyankamurty3324 Před 4 lety +17

    I was not ready for the topic to be joked about but still happy it came out in the light . Damn this guy . I dont even know how to react .kitne shiddat se rache honge ye jokes . 🤘🏻

  • @navneetkaushik2482
    @navneetkaushik2482 Před 3 lety +25

    I was molested as a kid and you just made me laugh on it , you are brilliant bro

  • @malvikadancer7000
    @malvikadancer7000 Před rokem +32

    So each and every men should to think about it .... Women also feels that same 🙂

    • @svcby
      @svcby Před rokem +1

      Wtf think about it we know its wrong off course

    • @malvikadancer7000
      @malvikadancer7000 Před rokem +6

      @@svcby bruh bruh calm down i just wanted to say feels... Feels that how much terrible it is

    • @svcby
      @svcby Před rokem +1

      @@malvikadancer7000 yeah unfortunately

  • @GarimaSingh2412
    @GarimaSingh2412 Před 4 lety +50

    Rape/molestation is not funny whether the victim is male or female.

    • @realsidmation
      @realsidmation Před 4 lety +1

      I know right

    • @puritythogt6996
      @puritythogt6996 Před 4 lety

      @@realsidmation well once there was a gay dude just approached me and just talked but i felt molested 😂😂😂😂 ... i was younger back then.... now that i know better i feel sham about how i reacted back then ...

    • @realsidmation
      @realsidmation Před 4 lety

      @@puritythogt6996 many of us are conditioned that way by the previous society and backward norms...
      The good thing is that we learned from our past mistakes and know what good or not for the better.
      Thanks for sharing... :)

  • @chandrakantsayalwar3205
    @chandrakantsayalwar3205 Před 4 lety +12

    Happened to me twice brother. Once I was when 17. And then when I was 24. First time I ran away somehow. But second time I made him feel ashamed of himself. Thankyou for this. ❤️✊

  • @ranjitprasad5920
    @ranjitprasad5920 Před 4 lety +20

    Man, I don't know how did you find this kind of energy to make that set...coz if anyone of you have experienced this(which I did) ,damn that's scary.
    Great set ❣️❣️❣️

  • @aayushiverma7019
    @aayushiverma7019 Před 4 lety +21

    Its so good to know that you sensibly used your talent to address common issues faced by people when they fail to recognize the incidence often occuring with men that are never highlighted. Also, I applaud your sincere effort to draw attention to the fact that consent works both ways. More people need to understand.
    PS: these "common issues" should not be common.

  • @UZMAGHAZALI
    @UZMAGHAZALI Před 4 lety +12

    After reading the comment section I realised that this issue is much more common than I initially thought. Not speaking about it will only increase these incidences. I liked the way you presented it. The message will reach a much larger audience .

  • @ayushigautam01
    @ayushigautam01 Před 4 lety +22

    Well, it was funny, only in the way he presented it. But it was so damn hard to listen if you're a victim. I almost cried at some point, like why people are becoming so heartless.
    It's the best way to present molestation case with such humour.
    The way he replied that it's not seduction, it's called molestation, that literally had me crying, man!!
    Lots of love for this standup. And for his expressions, obviously.

    • @NitinMandal
      @NitinMandal  Před 4 lety +3

      Shukriya. 😊

    • @ayushigautam01
      @ayushigautam01 Před 4 lety

      💝

    • @blast2686
      @blast2686 Před 3 lety

      Wow you’re ready to laugh at murder jokes but not ready to laugh at molestation jokes? Since when did murder become a joke

    • @ayushigautam01
      @ayushigautam01 Před 3 lety

      @@blast2686 when did I laugh at murder jokes?

  • @geologylexicon2095
    @geologylexicon2095 Před 4 lety +16

    When I was studying in class 7th, me and my friend went in Baraat, while walking in Baraat with croud and loud Nagada music one Dadaji trying to cuddle my friend from back. First my friend thought that Dadaji is kidding but when it became annoying he told me about it and we together speculate that Dada is trying to kidnap my friend and we immediately rushed away, but now I realize that it was not kidnapping, it was child molestation😡

  • @singhamaninder5836
    @singhamaninder5836 Před 4 lety +43

    When I was 15, I went through something like this..
    The guy asked where is the Metro Station, I gave him the directions, and he asked me for lift and I was going in the same direction so I said yes... It was a bike.. later on, he started touching me inappropriately, I didn't feel quite well... Then he stopped bike, I got off, I just smiled, and took off my Kada (it is of pure metal and weighs 1 kg) while he didn't notice, he took off helmet, and I just punched my kada as hard as I could on his jaw, he fell off, and I ran....
    I am happy I had this heavy Pure Metal Kada with me and I don't regret what I did.

  • @darths8n598
    @darths8n598 Před 4 lety +44

    This is my story...
    5 ya 6 saal ka hunga, tab Mai Bihar Gaya tha (Delhi m rehta hu) vaha Meri mummy ka Ghar tha toh zyada logo ko jaanta nahi tha, aisahi idhar udhar ghum RHA tha, bakri k bacho k saath khel RHA tha tabhi ek uncle ne mujhe dekha aur bola "tum toh (name) ho, (mummy) k bete, idhar aao ek jagah lekar chalte hai tumko" bacha tha toh I went with him, voh apne khaali Ghar pe lekar Gaye aur kiss karne lage, mujhe samajh nahi aaya k Kya Kar rhe hai, phir unhone Meri pant kholi aur penetration ki koshish ki, Mai roney laga kyuki dard hora tha, unhone paani ki bottle di aur bola Ghar chale jaao, aur kisi ko bataana mat. Mai Ghar Chala aaya air mujhe samjh bhi nahi aaya ki ho Kya RHA tha mere saath, ek base aur hua but tab Mai 11 saal ka tha, (Mai Muslim hu) ek haafiz aate the padhaane k liye, Mai aur Mera chhota Bhai padhte they Unse, ek din mummy Bhai ko lekar Dr. K paas gayi toh mujhe akele padhna pada, unhone padhaaya aur aadhe ghante k baad baat karni shuru kardi, mujhe aaj bhi yaad hai voh ye boley " Mai tumhe maarta hu isiliye nahi ki mujhe shauk hai, tum sahi se padhte nahi ho isiliye maarta hu" mujhe apni God m bitha Kar unhone apni kurta upar Kiya aur pajaame se apna Lund nikaal Kar mere pant m ghusa Diya aur baad m bathroom jaakar saaf safai Kar najaane ko bola. ye baat Maine mummy ko bataane ki koshish ki toh unhone bola k aisa nahi hua hoga ye hua hoga k tumne unke saamne pant utaari hogi toh tumhe bathroom jaane ko kehdiya!
    This is so sad, k they didn't believe what I was trying to say!

    • @sageta9179
      @sageta9179 Před 4 lety

      I feel your loss brother

    • @darths8n598
      @darths8n598 Před 4 lety +1

      @@sageta9179 not to be rude but... People say they can feel the pain, but in reality they have no idea!
      I wanna hear you

    • @sageta9179
      @sageta9179 Před 4 lety +2

      @@darths8n598 i was in a incident at 17 but i survived ,but i was in trauma for a whole month

    • @dhruveshshahkar5325
      @dhruveshshahkar5325 Před 4 lety +1

      Sorry bro

    • @bubblysprinkles
      @bubblysprinkles Před 4 lety +1

      This is heartbreaking 💔

  • @ramanatarajan7111
    @ramanatarajan7111 Před rokem +34

    It was sad to watch a crowd laugh at the description of the molestation. You can see the pain in his eyes as he is recounting. The crowd was probably reacting in embarrassment.

  • @pranjalisharma8429
    @pranjalisharma8429 Před 4 lety +25

    Dude we are having a laugh ryt now but I can imagine kaise iski fatti hogi us time ..
    It's sad man 😒
    Still enjoyed your set , A brave take for creating awareness .

  • @sonu-wu7kq
    @sonu-wu7kq Před rokem +25

    Rape is a serious problem....doesn't matter if you are a man....sexual abuse can happen

  • @demonnoah
    @demonnoah Před 4 lety +16

    It is me the seduction guy😂🙏
    Thanks for the explanation

    • @ra1naveen
      @ra1naveen Před 4 lety

      ohhooo bhai 😂😂 btw bhai is standup ka total duration kya tha? meko pura dekhna tha

  • @bubblysprinkles
    @bubblysprinkles Před 4 lety +18

    This comment section is the best thing ever😭 guys needs to speak out too... Pls go ND talk to ur gf's Nd frnds... ND do take step instantly...this is serious now

  • @khwahish1411
    @khwahish1411 Před 4 lety +15

    This deserves way more views than it currently has

  • @parthpanchal6976
    @parthpanchal6976 Před 3 lety +35

    Okay the exact incident happened with me in Mumbai when I use to go school through Rickshaw, And In Mumbai basically in early morning time we students were biund to sit on the 4th seat (besides the driver).bcauz in the backseat all the three seats were occupied by women and girls, so one day as usual I took a rickshaw till my way to school, and the driver was an bihrai Uncle, barely in his 30s and I was in 9th std, he told me to shift my bag a little from my laps as he said it was bothering him to drive the rickshaw , so I did as he said, then suddenly his left hand landed on my right thigh, and I thought maybe its a mistake, but Later started to rub his plam on my thighs gently and it was the most creepy feeling ever I could have faced, I didn't knew what to do next, I was not able to utter a single word bcauz idk I was just stunned and luckily my stop came early and I just stepped outside the rickshaw in a relief! It was such a creepy incidence and Few weeks later I saw that same Rickshaw waala again, but I chose next rickshaw luckily, its very horrifying that such incidents happen with Boys and Men too, and I appreciate how well the comic has described the seriousness of this incident in a funny way, Applauds👏

    • @NitinMandal
      @NitinMandal  Před 3 lety +13

      Hey buddy so sorry to hear this. But I hope that you will take a stand against it next time if happens with you or someone else.

    • @pantherdabrown
      @pantherdabrown Před 3 lety

      @@NitinMandal Bro Bro idk why meri hasi nikal jaati hai jab mere saath aisa hota. aur gussa bhi aata hai.......
      they always come to me and say ki wah yaar dolle to mast hai gym karte ho wagehra wagehra (but wo lena nahi mujhe apni dena chahte) so i always said ki bsdk chala ja bandi hai meri uske saath kar sakta hu main ye sab............ and i am sure wo buddhe uncle bhi wahi karna chahte honge jo ye log mere se karwana chahte the tumne ulta samajh liya (ki wo tumhari hi lena chahte hai) happened with me like 6-7 times.

    • @jayesh5131
      @jayesh5131 Před 3 lety +1

      The same happened with me too but in a bus.

    • @vedhachandresh6137
      @vedhachandresh6137 Před 3 lety +1

      Sorry to hear that!. It's difficult but I hope u get even more strength to stand up against such people. .. NO ONE should have to go through these things..

  • @bhashashrivas6610
    @bhashashrivas6610 Před 4 lety +22

    Bro I want to salute you for the courage you took to make a humourous piece like this over such a sensitive topic, as anyone who goes through such an incident doesn't want to think of it even in the worst of their nightmares... Great going

  • @sritamasaha6457
    @sritamasaha6457 Před 3 lety +27

    U make it funny 🙏.. But it's actually too Scary...

  • @kshitizsaini3022
    @kshitizsaini3022 Před 4 lety +9

    Similar thing happened to me when I was in college. I too almost broke down. This guy is a champ that he turned it into a funny story. 👍🏻

  • @allysinpinto3584
    @allysinpinto3584 Před 4 lety +17

    Ok your comedy was nice but the topic itself is a serious one. Molestation, whether the victim be a man or a woman, is quite a sad thing to happen to anyone. Hopefully more people can stand up to such things and speak on their experiences so that others may stay alert. Kudos to you for being brave enough to speak up about it.

  • @arpitchoudhary6475
    @arpitchoudhary6475 Před 4 lety +38

    Couldn't laugh on this, I was thinking how tough it had been for you to remember that incident again and again to write jokes.
    More power to you!

    • @LeRiderOP
      @LeRiderOP Před 4 lety +1

      Yeah MN... True that..!! Hats off to courage taken to speak about this..

    • @srushtykamble2936
      @srushtykamble2936 Před 4 lety

      Same here

  • @JenniferPinto
    @JenniferPinto Před 4 lety +26

    I'm most wary of creepy, old stranger men who keep calling you beta/beti and try to touch you at every opportunity available. Aise logon se toh main one-arm distance hi rakhti hoon hamesha.
    I'm definitely going to teach my kids about bad touch be it my daughter or son

  • @mohammedhusain3926
    @mohammedhusain3926 Před 3 lety +14

    So relatable maan😂😂😂😂...I thought I was the only one facing..but you expressed in a great way..thanks bro

  • @pujamajumdar6715
    @pujamajumdar6715 Před 4 lety +16

    I laughed.... I cried.... Loved it. Be safe and take care.

  • @1ofstockmarket
    @1ofstockmarket Před 4 lety +23

    Jokes apart, I hope you filed a case against the man or noted down his car's number, cuz if he's capable of doing this to a well grown 27 man, he's surely molested some other children from his or his relatives family.
    Molestation is no joke, if not reported it can develop a certain kind of trauma on the person and affect mental health

  • @nikitavashishth1524
    @nikitavashishth1524 Před 4 lety +23

    I won't say I enjoyed because this wasn't a kind of video that someone would enjoy. I respect you and salute your courage that you are standing here and describing this situation that actually happened to you in a funny manner. People won't say a word about it and you are here giving it a funny way. And each and everything you said was correct that any person irrespective of their gender in your situation would cry and then regret on it but still they would feel helpless and did you. I think you did inspired me but I don't how the fuck is your audience is fucking laughing at this. I know that you do expect laughs from this but sorry man I can't as this is a serious issue.
    But you are great and you have courage. ❤️❤️❤️Respect.

    • @onkarpatil5490
      @onkarpatil5490 Před 4 lety +2

      We don't even know of the incident was real or he just made it up...if he made up that story, then I must say it was not at all funny. It was total ctap. If it was real then then I think he is courageous man.

  • @janhavitripathi8249
    @janhavitripathi8249 Před 4 lety +32

    Much power to you for talking about your experience :)
    Waiting for the day when people will accept that everyone is in danger from those perverts out in the open world.
    Subscribed.

  • @palak6952
    @palak6952 Před 4 lety +18

    Only a good comedian can make people laugh on such serious and uncomfortable issue..it was a fun watch.👏👏

  • @jugjyotiborgohain3212
    @jugjyotiborgohain3212 Před 3 lety +18

    oooo bhai....Delhi safe nhi h !! one month back in Janakpuri...me ja rha tha dukan pe... lockdown ke wazah se baal nhi kata tha toh thora lamba tha...piche se do bande scooty me aye pichware pe marke chale gye...i be like what just happened dude 😮😥😥... Ghr aya... Girlfriend ko bola wo toh hasne lagi 😣😣...bara dukh laga yaar...that day i realised... it's not safe...even for boys

  • @anujgrover9842
    @anujgrover9842 Před 4 lety +16

    Hahahahahahaha Amazinggg work man. You did convey a sensitive story so humorously with the right message keeping us intrigued at the same time. Good you moved from Theatre to become a comedian. Looking forward to see more of your work and buying your show tickets.. in Delhi xD

    • @NitinMandal
      @NitinMandal  Před 4 lety +3

      Shukriya sir, ye kafi badi baat hogi mere liye.

    • @anujgrover9842
      @anujgrover9842 Před 4 lety

      @@NitinMandal You Deserve it. You worked hard for it.

  • @rappanchal
    @rappanchal Před 4 lety +10

    dark topic fabulously handled with right amount of comedy....

  • @Balpreetkaur06
    @Balpreetkaur06 Před 3 lety +39

    I don't know like it might be the ambience of the place that people found it funny, but honestly, being a girl and from the same place as him made me really uncomfortable about it. Kudos to you for expressing it humorously. I wish nobody has to suffer this ever!!!

    • @chinmaycreations5634
      @chinmaycreations5634 Před 2 lety

      Well i know what you are saying but if an artist make a controversial art you know meaning what he is trying to say but you have to also appreciate him to expressing it so beautifully the same goes here he is an artist and in place of appreciation he expects laughter so if you laugh it's a good thing in my opinion

  • @7814315506
    @7814315506 Před 4 lety +11

    This exact incident happened to me as well. Instead of crying, i open the door of the moving car. Cried later though 🤣

  • @jeetendrakhushlani6344
    @jeetendrakhushlani6344 Před 4 lety +30

    I didn't feel like laughing at this I'm sorry.
    This is a serious issue.
    May be you are being sarcastic and people don't understand the irony.
    Good that you at least addressed it

  • @GuneetKaur-jz6km
    @GuneetKaur-jz6km Před 4 lety +10

    So proud of you❤️ for having the guts to share all this in such a light way.

  • @kavvyakishan2075
    @kavvyakishan2075 Před 4 lety +10

    Sir, I appreciate the way you put your story in front of people in a funny yet serious way. Sorry for your bad experience!

  • @sethikush
    @sethikush Před 4 lety +37

    More power to you man. It takes courage to share such stories.

    • @abhishekjain5985
      @abhishekjain5985 Před 4 lety +1

      Don't forget, he is a stand up comedian. They always have a story😝😝

  • @Barik110
    @Barik110 Před 4 lety +37

    Bhai mere sath bhi hua hai
    Or me bhi 25 saal ka mard
    Par me ne buddhe ko maara
    But me 2 hafte so nahi paya
    Or tab mujhe samajh aaya ki ladkiyo par kya beet-ti ho gi.

  • @rajnithakur4935
    @rajnithakur4935 Před 4 lety +11

    You are very strong person. Who can share his story In a really funny way .I like your confidence brother. May God bless you

  • @vijiganesh3996
    @vijiganesh3996 Před 3 lety +26

    Courageous to come out . But audience laughing for it somehow makes me uncomfortable.. isn't that the very reason why boys don't speak up?

    • @Balpreetkaur06
      @Balpreetkaur06 Před 3 lety +2

      Ikr exactly what I was thinking!!

    • @afsarkhan10182
      @afsarkhan10182 Před 3 lety +1

      The comedian also wants people to laugh but at the same time want people to addressed the molestation which he portrays period.

  • @NiraliSherni
    @NiraliSherni Před 4 lety +34

    i actually dont understand most of that laughter

    • @amiteshmishra3828
      @amiteshmishra3828 Před 4 lety

      Yes, it is a serious issue... But when comedy like satire which is unsaid truth is the best way to propagate a serious issue.... Yes they are laughing, but everybody knows seriousness beyond the laughter....

  • @kismita1
    @kismita1 Před 4 lety +11

    Hats off for bringing this up! Respect!

  • @Vivuverse0712
    @Vivuverse0712 Před 4 lety +20

    From left he looks light virat kohli but soaked overnight..

    • @NitinMandal
      @NitinMandal  Před 4 lety +3

      Hahahhahahaha

    • @sharp0924
      @sharp0924 Před 4 lety

      Mil gaya next standup ka content bhai ko 🤣🤣🤣

    • @bhavinchavda4133
      @bhavinchavda4133 Před 4 lety

      aashish tripathi “Me ne ro diya”. 🤟🏻🤟🏻 best punch line

    • @amanfoujdar8151
      @amanfoujdar8151 Před 4 lety

      I think he look like KL RAHUL🙄

  • @priyanshugaba434
    @priyanshugaba434 Před 4 lety +16

    Though coming out of something..like molestation and to speak about it is a great thing....i admire you for that...we need to talk about male sexual assault...

  • @milankarangiya5788
    @milankarangiya5788 Před 4 lety +18

    Why his head is looking bigger then his body like a caricature 😂

  • @AnirbanNagDev
    @AnirbanNagDev Před 4 lety +14

    The topic you took is very sensitive. But you potraied it with great humor.

  • @krishnaanand917
    @krishnaanand917 Před rokem +9

    5:38 I felt his inner pain which he conveyed through humour, if he would have said it seriously even then people would have laughed like “ohh such a weak man”, “he isn’t a man” and that would feel like humilation, but by conveying through humour, everyone laughed but it wasn’t humilation. Dark truth: anyone can be abused regardless of gender and we must understand this and try to equally respond in the situations

  • @supreetsahu1964
    @supreetsahu1964 Před 4 lety +51

    Apparently sexual harassment against men is funny

    • @shwetamaurya5188
      @shwetamaurya5188 Před 4 lety +8

      No it is not, He just choose this way to express himself and reach out to people become we think such things can't we happen with men or women can't do such things.
      Sexual harassment is crime and it doesn't matter who is committing it and who is Victim. This need to be stop.

    • @Enigma_Male
      @Enigma_Male Před 4 lety +3

      @@shwetamaurya5188 Well i have never seen a sexual harassment story narrated by a female standup comedian and people going "wooh...clap....Haha.." over it. People find it funny when a guy is harassed. No hate to you though but sexual harassment against men is funny and unbelievable

    • @shwetamaurya5188
      @shwetamaurya5188 Před 4 lety +3

      @@Enigma_Male
      yup, it's true because we think this just can't happen, even I was shock when I listened this and I was like oh such things happen to guys also.
      So we are not aware and things that we don't know about we think that simply don't exist.
      So need to talk about this and speak out so that people instead making fun of it, start taking it as a actual and serious issue.

    • @Enigma_Male
      @Enigma_Male Před 4 lety +2

      @@shwetamaurya5188 thanks girl.

    • @blast2686
      @blast2686 Před 3 lety +2

      @@shwetamaurya5188 However young boys make up 52% pedophilia victims

  • @500334AT
    @500334AT Před 4 lety +9

    Main ro Diya.........
    What the fuq behavior is this...
    Outstanding.. both times

  • @mihirvelapure2258
    @mihirvelapure2258 Před 4 lety +9

    That was very well done bro, incredibly brave of you to come and joke about an incident like this, honestly, when people laugh about shit that has happened in your life bura lagta hai, main hota air dosto ko baatane ke baad agar unse hasi mil jaati toh shayad uske baad kisi ko na bata pata

  • @spiceeat7884
    @spiceeat7884 Před 4 lety +9

    The best part of this dialogue "bat chorne ki hwi thi chodne ki nhi"

  • @cedricdiggory2852
    @cedricdiggory2852 Před 4 lety +20

    It must have been difficult to turn this incident into a comedy script. Its basically narrating how you were molested. That's brave of you.

  • @shubhigoswami4125
    @shubhigoswami4125 Před 3 lety +17

    molestation can never be a joke to me..i felt sorry for ol of us who suffered this phase in their lyf😔

  • @rahulbhardwaj6896
    @rahulbhardwaj6896 Před 4 lety +21

    This was so painful to watch. So so painful. I feel extremely sorry for you unlike some who are sitting in the audience. Molestation, sexual harassment can happen with any gender and this must be acknowledged. If making jokes about what happened to you makes you feel better, then good on you. I hope you are better now. Sexual harassment is no joke.

  • @shankysingh9654
    @shankysingh9654 Před 4 lety +12

    Seduction without consent is molestation..
    Aaj se dhyan rakhnge bhai 😁

  • @NupurMate
    @NupurMate Před 4 lety +15

    One thing i noticed in comments section is women are feeling bad that he had to go through something like this and men are criticising women for taking cOmEDy seriously

    • @good-gpt2-chatbot
      @good-gpt2-chatbot Před 4 lety

      comedy isn't meant to be taken seriously. Nothing's wrong with that.

    • @good-gpt2-chatbot
      @good-gpt2-chatbot Před 4 lety

      Nupur Mate nice defending with sarcasm, but if the victim himself presents it in form of dank comedy (which most of us Indians still can’t handle), then there’s nothing wrong in laughing. People are supposed to laugh on how he presented it in form of humor, not regarding what happened to him. Also, one thing I noticed in your og comment is sexism... Even women are praising the comedy and men are feeling bad.

  • @rmandal4654
    @rmandal4654 Před 3 lety +14

    I like the lines gari main bithate waqt batt chorne ki huii thi chodne ki nhi😂

  • @chitwanhawan3064
    @chitwanhawan3064 Před 3 lety +10

    Back when I was in 11th, there was this retired old army officer I knew him and he knew my Nana and other elderly people. He met me in the way while I was going to the coaching and he said he'd drop me I had said ok and then for the next 30 mins those were the most horrible moments of my life. It's a fake id so I know nobody knows me and lol for the first time I find some relevance to what I had felt. I couldn't explain it to anyone cuz nobody would've believed me. It's been 5+ years and still haven't told anyone in person. There are so many people in our lives but when you think from a man's point of view we generally don't really have people who want to be part of our lives to understand us or just accept us for who we are, we are needed for other's wants not for who we are. I dunno I am over all of that though it had fucked me up in my head for months and I couldn't open about it. And that is why slowly I have started hating on everyone

  • @warishataj7544
    @warishataj7544 Před 4 lety +11

    Respect for you sir. I thought of writing a whole para but then.... srsly sir hats off to you

  • @MuskanKhan-gw5oj
    @MuskanKhan-gw5oj Před 4 lety +11

    U being a man cried at this moment ...think about girls , we face this on our daily lives