Break Up to Make Up: Victoria Golden v Freddie Lind
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- čas přidán 28. 08. 2024
- Victoria says her husband, Freddie, is a manchild who dresses like a teenager and won’t find a steady job. Freddie says Victoria is a “know it all” who loves to embarrass him in public.
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Let him take the lead?. He gone lead you of a cliff sis. Her expectations honestly weren't that high she was asking for bare minimum
I agree however there were a little things that she kept saying that show you she really is kind of a nasty person she did not have to bring up his weight the way he dresses she belittled him multiple times sounds like she got with kind of a loser and then got mad at him for being a loser she ignored the red flags and made it his problem and beat the dude down
I'm her sister and both her and Freddie are liars. Met as addicts, abused each other, I can't even believe this was TV worthy without anyone legal paralegal doing homework on them both.
Mrs. Golden deserves better. She shouldn't have to beg this man gir affection. He ain't paying nothing, so you are a child she has to care for. Victoria, you deserve better and can do better . Judge Star love you, but I don't agree with your verdict on this one. The man is a loser.
The judge called it exactly what it was. They're on two different pages. In fact, they aren't even in the same book.
Judge was clueless . A puppet by both of them in her own court room . BTW I'm her sister
@@user-ru2hn1ci9h are they still together?
I think this is an example of why they say addicts should not date each other
He has nothing but excuses and wants to do the bare minimum while being praised as a provider. She needs to move on with her life, he will NEVER be the man she desires.
She's constantly belittling and disrespecting him
@@Trinidad679Exactly 💯💯💯
She makes no sense at first she said she wanted him to put in effort because she shouldn’t be doing all the work , then she said she wants him home with her and living off disability …which one is it
Right
The only thing I can see is her ponytail moving back and forth about affection 😂😂😂 She’s passionate ❤
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He's has arrested development syndrome.
He isn’t very proactive but she is very overbearing. She won’t even let him speak.
Dude too old to be acting this way but those years of drug use got him stuck in time
She was putting him on full blast, she's sick of him! 😂😂😂😂
All men can’t lead. He’s one.
No Star... this guy is immature. He's a boy in a man's body. He has no goals or focus. She should have dropped him a while ago and not settle. He needs to grow up.
Agree. Judge surprised me with this one. He's a grown man, 45 years old with no direction.
Men be like "let me lead" but they need you to take care of them.
😂 I suppose we could say the same thing about women "treat us/women like an equal but I want you as the man to pay for everything..."...the audacity, hypocrisy and double standards....lol
@@zulu3274and then try to complain that men don't protect them...protect them from what, exactly?😂😂😂
@@d820m 😅 honestly nothing... But if you are in danger that often, you need to take time to analyze your life... lol
She should leave him to find himself.
People who are financially unstable are often mentally unstable too. This man shouldn’t seek a relationship but instead a therapist.
You are so out left field. Having financial issues is not indicative of mental instabilities
@@margokyler-knight9428 If you got triggered by my comment I invite you to talk to a professional. By the way , I’ve been working in the medical field for more than 20 years specifically with adults.
@@margokyler-knight9428but poor mental health is indicative of poor financials a lot of the time.
I'm mentally unstable but not financially unstable. Unless you call making $27 an hour working full-time and recently purchasing a townhome being financially unstable. 😂
@@BREEZYM6015 I hope you’re seeking the help that you need because buying a house with your mental instability might become a high stressor. Take your meds.
Judge Star is up there with Judge Lynn Toler - great performer, great advice and insight, and she slays
Never up there with judge Lynn but she's doing a good job
He has every excuse in the book. Arrested development comes to mind. This was so painful to watch. She needs to let him go once and for all….
I think the drugs hit him different. He’s no longer mentally capable. She needs to move on. Awww she loves him but it’s over. He will find someone on his level.
His self-esteem is very low because she is like a dripping faucet. It's hard to be affectionate with someone if emotionally you are hurting.
She fell in love with a drug addict who was a different person obviously a more charming person because he was high all the time so now she's confronted with the real person and she's disappointed. Both of them spent what should have been their college years getting high instead of learning . Why is she just getting disability and staying home and wanting to be flattered? Why isn't she taking some courses online and learning a skill because often people who are handicapped can have careers. Both a case of arrested development.
We do not know her disability, if it’s so serious she’s being payed enough to live on, it probably prevents her from working
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@marilaucher9989 🎯🎯🎯
He's able bodied and needs to be productive and have a purpose. She wants to be catered to if he doesn't work. They need to part ways.
He's so not into her and this was so sad to see. You should never have to BEG for affection from your partner. She's a good woman hopefully she finds someone on her level because.... this ain't it
Agree. The judge, afterwords with Robert, really surprised me. This guy is living in a fantasy world. He may still be using.
Him using COVID as an excuse is CRAZY because they were almost pushing people through programs because we needed medical personnel that badly. They even allowed us to hire people not qualified, just so companies could at least have one driver and one EMT on a unit. This man is just lazy
She was putting the guy down too much. I understand why he checked out.
Checking out is ok. At least be honest about it. Then everyone can go be happy🙏🏾
He’s a bum. She knew he was a loser. She thought she could “change” him. You can’t change the bum.
She's condescending towards him though. It's obvious he's going through something
She’s way over the top, she needs to move on and let that man evolve, they have been through a lot but maybe this is the end of the road for them. They have truly outgrown each other. Neither one of them can get to the next level with each other. Yes, she is constantly berating him. She needs to GO!!!!
DRAINED my spirit through the tv. enough already!!!!!!!!
She needs to lighten up, and why would he want to be with her when he is always putting him down!
The man is tired of having somebody down talk him bully him acting overly sexually pressed.🤬🤦🏻♀️👎🏼 and I think it's just time for them to go their separate
He is trying to find his way after addiction. I can imagine it’s a terrible struggle. She’s a lot…incorrigible, in fact. And not only does it disrupt his delicate process, but it harms him. At one point she says she doesn’t mind taking care of them, then she says she’s tired of supporting a grown man. She needs to be alone or with someone who respectfully encourages her to stfu.
This was so heartbreaking
Judge, I respectfully disagree. Hes not saying lighten up. Hes saying im not attracted to you. I like the fact that you provide. But Im not attracted to you physically. Ray Charles could see that. Lastly, if you know your a man and youre stepping up like a man then no matter what anyone says they can't take that away. Im tired of these simps saying she don't talk to me, treat me and respect me like a man. If you allowed it then you werent a man to begin with.
“When I look at her I know I want to be with her” that was pitiful imo. I was looking for him to say “I see my future or I see all of the joy and love I have for her or her beautiful soul… something maybe I’m just being picky cuz I’m a poet though. Lol
😂 who wants to be romantic with somebody that just got through openly calling them overweight yet if he would have did that to her all hell would have broke loose even though she is a fatty too.... lol
I like poetry too 😅
@@zulu3274to answer your question no one. But in that same breath who can tolerate providing for someone who lays up watching anime, while you take care of them like they’re a child?
@@zulu3274😅
She won't shut up. She's insulting. Why would he want to kiss her.
My relationship is going bad
Sorry to hear that, praying for recovery in your relationship
the skittles part way beyond unhinged
Mr Lind needs to be honest with himself
Terrible advice. SMH
Really? They should break up and go find other people, no? :O
He made things the way it is by not being a man in the beginning, but also Wat comes around goes around she was married to someone and stepped back so it is Wat it is
If you're so frustrated and tired of not getting what you need LEAVE him. Why do you keep nagging? He's not the one for you. This man is lazy. He's with her because she provides financially and he has a place to stay. He's got no motivation to finish anything no one else is going to put up with it. I think besides the previous drug problem he should get evaluated by a professional. She needs to send him back to his family let them deal with him and move on with her life.
Sound ruling. They are both better off away from each other. They've grown out of their addiction differently and are not a good fit any longer.
Dump him and move on he doesn't want you anymore
Well he told her today, No! U told her Star
judge judy would send this recording to the authorities. "stay home and we will live off of my disability." wow
Tell His Behind GOOD BYE!❤🙏☝🏿🙌
I love anime and indulge in cartoons but still work a full-time, decent job. I'm saving up for a house right now. He just needs to shift his priorties. He is freeloading and her nagging isn't helping. She needs to kick him out and let him drown to motivate him to do better. Both of them are toxic to each other right now and some distance could help. Maybe they could be friends after a while but for now they should just leave each other.
Birds of a feather flock together
She just said he can stay home & give her attention she can afford it~ then she just turned around & said she does not want to take care of a 40 something year old man! Make her make sense 🤷🏽♀️
Both needs break up and move on
no other woman needs this type of male
I feel sorry for him. You can see he's trying hard. She needs to lighten up becuase her relationship goals has not been met.
the lady on the screen behind Victoria, on the bottom left............ain't that the "Microwaving fish" lady??????🤣🤣
What type of disability does she get that she can take care of both of them all these other social security recipients are struggling
So she want him to lead but doesn't care if he work. He wants to work, but bc he isn't good at it she has a problem??? I am confused.
TRAUMA BOND. 😊
He's jus not motivated
Lady hush oh my goodness 🤦🏽🤦🏽🤦🏽
Some people checked an left out and the other person thinks it ain't over like please
This episode seemed so... disjointed
Hes 45?????
He looks at least 10 years older it’s the effect of drugs and poor dental maintenance.
What about the missing tooth in the front of his mouth?😳
The Skittles happened 😂😂
@dimesdeath 😂😂😂😂😂😂 no you didn't. Not the skittles 😂 hmm but perhaps things happened from being an addict. The heavy substance use usually affects dental health.
Move on both of you man check out.she was tried of him.😮 wow.
She called anime, catoons? NO!!!
😂 who wants to be romantic with somebody that just got through openly calling them overweight and constantly disrespectful yet if he would have did that to her all hell would have broke loose even though she is a fatty too... I bet at one point he was holding her down for a very long time but now that the so called roles have reversed she wants to haul ass... No loyalty...lol
@zulu3274 that's a lotta ass to haul 🤣🤣
@@d820m 😅 yes it is ..lol
@@zulu3274 when she hauls ass she gotta make two trips 🤣🤣🤣
She's annoying. If you going to do all that nagging and complaining then it's best that she leave. Leave on amicable terms. Don't wait til you become enemies
You tell she too bossy that just rude and ssi not make that much money to hold down two people
I find that Starr just talks sooo much. Give advice but she consistently is over opinionated. I find since Judge Toler left, no one listens to the couples. Lynn listened and asked questions. Starr Jones is always trying to act like the Aunt or she is always talking more than the couples. I always watch the old episodes from Judge Toler and Mabeline. Because it's more realistic. I find Divorce court since Toler left is for theatrics! STARR JUST TALKS SOOO MUCH! I want to hear the story and the problem! Like this tag your it. She says it all the time. What is this??? SMH
Do you really want this man delivering your food lol co dependency is real !! He in his midlife crisis 😅 he don’t want you
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Honey, he's clearly autistic. Some things he's just not able to do. Either Love him where he is or move on with your life
Darling and ur an crude evil woman who wants take control and be possive over people you want control it's your way or the highway hit the road baby😅
DIVORCE IS NOT THE ANSWER .JESUS CHRIST IS THE ANSWER. NEVER IN THE EQUATION..JUST QUIT AND GO GET ANOTHER ONE..😢
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Not only him she need to change her clingy ass ways