Sex Magic & Sacred Union as a Liberated Human - with Layla Martin | Deja Blu EP 104
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- čas přidán 16. 06. 2024
- Layla Martin joins the Deja Blu Podcast this week to share her journey from sexual abuse to erotic liberation, and how to find this same freedom within yourself.
Layla takes us on her journey of being abused as a child, experiencing a spiritual awakening, finding Tantra, and how she became the sex witch she is today. She describes the root of sexual shame in our culture, and gives practices for freeing ourselves of it.
She dives into the meaning of Tantra's teachings, explaining how to find God in the hardest places to love - even in negative comments on the internet.
Layla describes her experience of sacred union, and how to embrace change within relationship.
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Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
4:55 From Sexual Abuse to Liberation
21:30 Overcoming Shame
24:04 Practices for Sexual Liberation
30:45 When Your Fullness Triggers Other People
37:40 Finding God in the Hardest Places to Love
45:56 S*x Magic & Manifestation
1:06:24 Sacred Union as a Liberated Human
1:12:26 Embracing Change in Relationship
1:24:50 Conclusion
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Layla Martin:
Instagram: / thelaylamartin
Website: laylamartin.com
CZcams: / @laylamartintv
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BLU:
/ bluofearth
www.bluofearth.com/
www.florescence.earth
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I'm lost for words, the amount of passion within this woman, she's just beaming with her truth, it's incredible. Such a beautiful episode and interaction between the two of you, thank you so much! ❤
For me this episode came in divine timing ❤
It is so fascinating to me how these two beautiful humans have their own unique, beautiful, divine frequency and when they come together, they create this third awsome and divine energy. This is so healing ❤
True intimacy at its purity imo is about being that enabler for the other to reach his/her full potential, in all realms and finding servitude in same.
I'm so happy that the universe led me to your channel! Layla Martin and you make a great team. I now know that I am meant to worship the goddess. I was so shamed by my Catholic priest and faith. I know I'm meant to find full sexual expression. Thank you!
this is your best podcast yet. such an interesting and strong woman. thank you so much for sharing your story!
what an incredible episode!!! thank you both so much for being a beautiful example of sisterhood and empowerment!!!!
Each and every podcast makes me feel more alive! So much expansion. Love to you both.❤
This interview is such a gift, I enjoyed every second and didn't want it to end. Thank you thank you thank you! ♥🔥
Just love you gurls xx so glad u exist xx thank you again for just showing up xx
This podcast was incredible!!!! I laughed, i cried, i was amazed and my heart felt it aaallll!! Love you both!!
This is amazing. Thank you to you both!
Thank you both for sharing this. I’ve watched Layla’s videos, but her history and her explanation about her life’s work is incredible. She gives words and expression to old taboo…shining light on what IS natural normal and healthy. Keep on Layla! And Blu, you too!
I think you need to do a call in show, together….
Amazing Souls - one of the most powerful talks I've heard in awhile.
Wow. I really just started loving her as soon as she started talking ❤❤❤❤
Blu you are so magical! Ty for sharing your heart.. my ex happened to be visiting when I was watching your break-up video, I am so grateful to have had as an example.. after our break up I started trying to learn about tantra... it's hard to find information on this subject.. thank you both for being vulnerable for the 🌎!! I hope to one day find a tribe as you guys have and be a healer!!!❤
Awesome episode! Thanks for sharing yourselves from such a vulnerable place. Got me thinking that inner power blossoms when the adult that we are, gives space to the wounded child that still lives within us, without jugement and lots of compassion. Un abrazo desde Chile!
So many gems in this episode! Thank you, thank you, thank you xoxo
Every new episode I'm just in awe - this whole season has been immensely deep, bringing light to sooo many aspects of my existence. Thank you - so healing🤍 I shared this episode with my best friend and we laughed so hard throughout the episode. Gremlin party is on for sure.
I’m crying with laughter at the last part of this podcast. 😂 You two together are hilarious and I love it! Layla is awesome, I really enjoyed the course I did with her and her team. Thank you both for your magic!
I’m so excited to listen to this podcast ❤️🔥
This was some of the most important content I’ve seen lately. New sub here! Love it love it love it 🤙🏾
hello, newbie here, i had many talks and experiences revolving sex/trauma/spirituality etc but this has left me dumbfounded, i think it's the first time ever i felt all range of emotions from a podcast, thank you so much for this 🥺
this is so freaking amazing.
You are both amazing ✨✨ so much gratitude 💚
Gold. Queens. Gratitude!!!! ✨
Love you Layla♡ Shout out to Blu for another amazing guest ☆
First time I was able to listen to / watch the podcast at that early after upload :) My evening just got better :) Greetings
I love you both!! I came to this video bcuz I already knew about Layla Martin... You're both so beautiful inside and out and I appreciate you ladies so much!! Thank you!! ❤️❤️
What an amazing conversation ❤🙌🏼🙏🏼
excited to listen to this!
Love both of these women/ where do I find friends like this lol
Best video so so good!
Great episode
Adore the laughter. Thank you❤
This girl's laugh is so contagious 🤣. Love it. Thanks for sharing your story.
Love love love me Layla Martin and her teachings
Omg I love you two so much😭😭😭💞💞💞
Love the episode and your explanation of tantric path. Who are you teachers and influences, books, etc?
So awesome you guys are so much fun 😂❤❤❤❤
Your guest is such a beautiful person and soul. I just stand in amazement and worship. 🙏🌞☯️🅾️❤️
Love that one!!
This is fucking amaaaaaaazingggggg. I never thought of sensuality/sexuality being connected to the nervous system, my brain is popping off + I'm leaning innnnnn. Laughing at the gremlins and forsee me crocheting a massive one hahaha (I'm a textile designer lol) thank youuuuu so much.
😂😂Not only that but its good for the Universe! Yours n everyone's collective higher selved and SO MUCH FUCKING MORE!!
This episode! 🤯 I have to watch it again, and again, and again. Thank you Blu and Layla. I would love to live in a house of goddesses! ❤
Two superheroes right here straight up!
Love this. Not to get esoteric but this reminds me of the powers of Inanna and her red priestesses. Beautiful and love this all.
THANK YOU 💜💜💜
Thank you.
This episode 😭❤️🙏🏼😌 Humility, gratitude and p*ssy magic to get to walk this earth the same time as you two.
Flashback to about 5 years ago when I felt like only the men in my life were "doing work on themselves" and constantly frustrated by the women.
To a tremendous loss that completely shifted my view of men and further brought light to my lack of trust in others around me.
To shining the mirror and light into my own confusion and fear and beginning to own that I have to lead from where I am.
To discovering VITA Sacred Sexuality, The Highest Self Podcast and Pussy: A Reclaimation in a span of several months.
To spring '23 having the space/health/self-work/Spirit enough to listen to your episodes with Layla, Mama Gena & Sahara in a week and be literally soul fed. Breakfast, lunch and dinner. App, dinner, and dessert. So. Much. Goodness.
Blu, discovering you through conversations with these 3 women I love (aside from seeing an AM intro of you last year with everyone just cheering and cheering and wondering, "Who is this woman?") was and is amazing.
Dreams of sitting in a room with the four of you one day and also... Empowered to know we are all out here calling in Divine and Pussy power *direct* to where we are.
Feeling alone has been such a constant, that its fucking stunning to know with the 4 of you at work out here... I am so not.
I look forward to connecting with other episodes but for now had to start with these women who my heart has already recieved and welcomed in.
Thank you.
Love,
Libby
Yay! I just started her crystal egg course and it’s been an intense coupla days🥵😰🤪😭🙀
I do want to know some tangible tips, how to love the things about yourself that don’t match what you wish they were.
Love you both ..
and everyone here.🐦❤️🦂🌊🌊⭐
Love you too 🌸🌸💃💃❤️❤️✨✨
No sexual abuse happened to me. yet when my boyfriend used to kiss me I used to freeze. My body couldn't respond. Probably that was traumas of my previous births. I still feel uncomfortable when someone is very close to me. I still cannot indulge in sexual activity. I'm on a journey to awakening or alignment with myself
@Blu - that make up, incl ornaments, hair and dress...Goddess Material Girl, own it!
So interesting that you say Blue about that supposed sense of power in convering up... Would love to untangled that
Such two cute, amazing, powerful women! Loved this talk- made me think of all the ways I can liberate myself
Such a beautiful strong woman and Soul
I wanted to make notes on Sex magic tonight & i found this ❤ amazing empowerment of true selves. How do i join a group?!! Practicing sexual magic in a group sounds amazing
A fun energetic co-creation 💗 I started practicing 😉
Can you tell me how to do it?
You ladies are beautiful, I love you both as well as this podcast. ❤
This is incredible timing: just this monday i had a serious shamanic session and there was this thing in me that I thought was like an intrusive energy but it was exactly what you say, such a goblin. lol.
As a man, I listened to this and was triggered at hearing you ladies talk about your sexual energy and the liberation it has given you. However, i am a survivor of a relationship where i was not appreciated in my feminine energy towards my wife. She stepped out of our marriage and it was devastating to me at first. But it was a deep lesson i needed to learn in just so many ways.
I can honestly say that the devil is actually our identities. I am working on myself daily and want to know how as a man i can allow myself to surrender again to love, being hurt for good reason to spiritualy die as my old self and become better in self love
Remembering my sovereignty and honoring who i am and how i need to truly be happy with any situation i come into contact. YET i am feeling less triggered each time i push my fundamental identity to allow myself to feel the emotions and fear it brings up in me but not to give it any energy to harm me but merely observe and not allowing my truths to be THE truth.
Thank you for your strength to push the boundaries of perception to uncomfortable levels and would love to know what I cant do as a Heterosexual man to empower myself to become more accepting of this liberation? Much Love to you all ❤
Thank you for posting and sharing! It just stoked my fire of hope seeing a man here who is open and earnestly seeking. Have you encountered the work of David Deida? His descriptions in his books of ecstatic male pleasure don't sound too shabby ;)
@@kirstenk3791 Thank you. I will have a look and see his work. 👋
what a great watch love you both a lot you are inspiration goddesses aaaauuuu
Love ye both amazing
I love Layla
It's traumatic enough to be sexually abused but to be sexually abused by your biological father is a trauma indestructible.
I'm so sorry you had to experience that.
Had a Good Laugh!.lol…But, Absolutley Loved This Podcast!!! lol
Through out the podcast they speak of arrows or Eros? Im curious what it is please! And thank you
LAYYLLAAAAA 💕💕💕💕
@deja blu i wanna hang out with you and Layla! Also i love psilocybin ❤❤. You two are hilarious and so fun!
I think shame and the feeling of being teased are basically the same, but you're just interpreting it either negatively or positively. just like anxiety and excitement.
❤❤❤❤This ❤❤❤❤❤❤ I want to be y’all’s friend group 😂Where the hell do I sign up??😂
What are the names of these Pegan/Goddess vs Christian wars?
You two are so incredibly inspiring! I will be joining you Layla in mexico this year, I cannot fucking wait!! xoxo
Which book is she referencing to as the first book she read about tantra?
LMAO love this 💥🔥
Wooooooooahhhhh
I want to go to your gremlin party!!🥰
I am so grateful for these beautiful women. My mind and heart are blown!!!
This conversation is so damn triggering for me. Which is awesome. Stepping into my pleasure makes me want to die. I'm so thankful to open up the doors of healing to this part of myself.
Serious Question: My greatest fear around Group Self Pleasuring is, that I cannot come, aka. that I cannot build the pleasure in this setting. And that I am tempted to fake it. How do we set the space that we can build up together?
Is coming neccessary?
😂😂😂 I just love you ❤
I just laughed with you. Fucking epic. Love it sisters!
You have my vote for the Gremlin Orgy! Let's do it! Bless you BOTH!! 💄💋
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👣 Mahakali power, you go girl ❤
Saw the first part of the episode last night. Woke up and had like 10 orgasms (just a rough estimation cuz who's counting) on the though of knowing I live in a world where 900 queens come together to masturbate next to each other on terms of claiming the full liberation of their creator consciousness. Watched the rest of the episode constantly sighing of relief to witness such intelligence.
I can not share my profound gratitude in an other way than sharing this 🙏❤️❣️
THANK Y'ALL 4EVER!!!!!!
BLESSINGS & LOVE!!! ❤️🌬️🌸✨
Yep oprah
💙💚❤ "Bless!" ⛥♡
Holy fuck!!
I don't remember anything as bad happening in my childhood, personally. But I still felt loads of shame around my sexuality and body. And I have multiple explanations for that.
I still am willing to truly share only with my optimal lifelong partner whom I have yet to meet.
And I've been sharing with girlfriends, and that book, and that book, and that book, and those movies, and first bf, and husband, and mother-child, and divorce and lovers, but I'm still shy to display.
Too much compared to some others I see, so much more freely open since childhood, till old age.
I don't want to fake anything.
There have been moments when I might have been quite relaxed and trusting, but I don't think that's it, yet. In good faith though, that I deserve it, and to meet the right guy, always.
I'm still surprised that Osho was a neotantric. I used to be reading his tarots online regularly, maybe I "caught some of to him ascribed charateristics', since people knew I was using his tarots, and might have known more about his biography. Maybe that's why that Sadhu Sadhu said that about sex with a regular partner: it is like prepping your own food at home, compared to going to eat out in a restaurant, and not having a regular life-long partner :<
Becaue Sadhu And Osho were living closer together nacist! HAHAHAh i mean national karma sticking together? phh... anyways, that's just another one of them examples not trusting anyone's respectful awareness be any better than my own.
I AM THE BEST FOR MYSELF!
*chucklecrygigglelol*
but all this repression talk might just extend to your closest neighbour or even brother, who needs an upper hand in some situation and is thus making you feel bad about yourself. I mean it could be just a competition with someone close ,or someone far, u judged that thing that one time, and that person over there has that, and they on the uprise and they getting back at all who ever insulted them, not intentionally just the uprising has such side-effects, maybe cause some bozos are defending them offensively (because they don't know any better) without being asked to, maybe some other reason..
NO it may NOT BE! as ONLY HEALTHY RESPECTFUL COOPERATION IS ALLOWED!
I don't appreciate Layla for the hardships she's gone through.
Instead: I appreciate her heartfelt sharing of the beautiful knowledge for sacred living.... and all the beautiful words she knows how to say it best for herself
Blessing Perfection!
how bout that time when dinosauromania made dinosaur cereals and people have been eating dinosaurs in milk for breakfast.
Aren't I in an awesome spirit right now: The only thing I regret is not living on my own planet and having never practices empathy and compassion, so I can always give myself the best tantric sex ever! LOL
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damn ....
Did you know the princess did NOT actually kiss the frog? 😮 Shocking! We have been told wrong all along. She threw him against the wall. She said "no" 😊
Oh, right! 😄🐸 How did you find out? It's a silly story, I always found no logic in it! ...
I think a lot of tales are wrongly written... And, so stereotype. 😔
@@cutechiangels search for the Grimm Brothers " the princess and the frog" original tale. You will see the real story :)
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It's "Magik" not "Magic". There is a huge difference. You really should change it. Thank you.
Wow I never wanted to be a woman either
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I love your playful nature in the clothes! Super sexy blu!!
crazy aWäman
If your vulva smells weird, there's a problem. Just sayin
No.