Don't Be Afraid To Be Seen Trying

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  • @Evelynfromtheinternets
    @Evelynfromtheinternets  Před 3 lety +576

    say something nice about yourself in the comments! DO IT

    • @therealsierra98
      @therealsierra98 Před 3 lety +10

      i am powerful~!! (growing channel xo)

    • @ennuiie
      @ennuiie Před 3 lety +11

      I'm a fantastic mediator. I have an open heart.

    • @tasia10121
      @tasia10121 Před 3 lety +18

      I'm patient and kind :)

    • @cristiefieldsa2716
      @cristiefieldsa2716 Před 3 lety +20

      I MAKE BOMBASS COOKIES

    • @__CJLORRAINE__
      @__CJLORRAINE__ Před 3 lety +14

      I dork out about some of the most seemingly mundane things, have these little bouts of joy. And I like that.

  • @AndMattWill
    @AndMattWill Před 3 lety +792

    I have been paralyzed by the thought of being seen as a novice at anything. Not in 2021. We failing EVERYWHERR until I figure it out.

    • @hangoutwithme346
      @hangoutwithme346 Před 3 lety +24

      Yeah why do we feel this way? Like even if Im by myself and I don’t execute something the way I envisioned it the first time I get so down on myself. It’s so weird.

    • @ayemiksenoj5254
      @ayemiksenoj5254 Před 3 lety +8

      Can I watch? Jk. But I genuinely love this comment. I need to get more comfortable being seen failing.

    • @tinekawilliams2715
      @tinekawilliams2715 Před 3 lety +3

      Love this 💯

    • @chidilove8394
      @chidilove8394 Před 3 lety

      Yes!!!

    • @datgrllRITZA
      @datgrllRITZA Před 3 lety +2

      PERIODT 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

  • @jasmineherisse-packard7330
    @jasmineherisse-packard7330 Před 3 lety +494

    "I am intelligent and capable. What I do not know I am able to learn" -QueenGCreative

  • @brianajanae5872
    @brianajanae5872 Před 3 lety +68

    Congratulations to ME for passing my last exam, turning 24, and graduating from college ALL IN THE SAME WEEK! ✨✨

    • @crystald8465
      @crystald8465 Před 3 lety +3

      Sis screaming CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!You did that!

    • @gemmadidit4118
      @gemmadidit4118 Před 3 lety +2

      Whaaat!? That's HUGE baby girl!😃

    • @Thesilentvoice...
      @Thesilentvoice... Před 3 lety +3

      Congrats it’s nice to hear someone winning 😊

  • @Heavenly4L1F3
    @Heavenly4L1F3 Před 3 lety +160

    Whos Here From Berleezy To Support

  • @ashton_johnson
    @ashton_johnson Před 3 lety +530

    Found my mantra for 2021: “Don’t be afraid to be seen trying.” *adds quote to 2021 bullet journal*
    Cause I SHALL be trying some thangs in 2021!

    • @axa5005
      @axa5005 Před 3 lety +11

      I’m with you sis! Let’s get it!

    • @ayonnazglam9050
      @ayonnazglam9050 Před 3 lety +2

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    •  Před 3 lety +2

      Yaaass ma'am!

    • @Courtney5cents
      @Courtney5cents Před 3 lety +1

      Same girl!!

    • @ambrjade934
      @ambrjade934 Před 3 lety +2

      SAME. Here’s to manifestation 🥂!!

  • @intentionalgreatness
    @intentionalgreatness Před 3 lety +296

    Something nice to myself: "I did the best i could this year".

  • @ShadesofSage
    @ShadesofSage Před 3 lety +63

    This exact FEAR is what kept me from starting my CZcams channel for 10 YEARS! I thought, “my life isn’t interesting enough, nobody wants to hear what I have to say😓.” But you know what, I took that leap of faith this year in April and even though I don’t get all the support I would like from family or friends, this community has been so welcoming and positive so far. And it feels good to know that I am encouraging other moms and making a difference in their lives by sharing my motherhood journey and tips as a doula. I’m not afraid to be seen trying anymore ❤️. Thank you for this video, it definitely encouraged me to keep going 😌!

    • @sharlaamysamuel
      @sharlaamysamuel Před 7 měsíci +1

      Well done for getting started.

    • @ShadesofSage
      @ShadesofSage Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@sharlaamysamuel Thank you so much ☺️🙏🏿!

  • @diannainkorea
    @diannainkorea Před 3 lety +26

    "We're not jumping together fam, because I feel like you're showing off" lol

  • @nicolehernandez11
    @nicolehernandez11 Před 3 lety +275

    I’ve learned that it takes a year of people seeing you trying before they start to support you.

    • @ladiepink
      @ladiepink Před 3 lety +10

      Wow that’s good !!! Like a good observation

    • @hibiscus10moon
      @hibiscus10moon Před 3 lety +2

      ay yay yay 😪

    • @nicolehernandez11
      @nicolehernandez11 Před 3 lety +21

      @@ladiepink Yeah, I try new things allllll the time. If you truly put yourself out there and give it a real good try. At the year mark, you will start to see people responding and acknowledge your effort.

    • @Marnwhite59
      @Marnwhite59 Před 3 lety +3

      THIS!

    • @hangoutwithme346
      @hangoutwithme346 Před 3 lety +12

      Interesting. That makes sense. People usually don’t want to emotionally or financially invest into something that they will get burnt on. So giving them that sustained period of effort must build trust and probably some, ‘Oh shit, I want to get on this train to so I don’t get left behind!’ FOMO feelings

  • @ZataraBerry
    @ZataraBerry Před 3 lety +556

    Never ever has a piece of “online content” resonated so deep in my spirit... thank you

    • @Jcee1030
      @Jcee1030 Před 3 lety +4

      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @1noahsmum
      @1noahsmum Před 3 lety +1

      This!!!

    • @MrDaryl1020
      @MrDaryl1020 Před 3 lety +1

      I felt that in my soul tbh. This video has come at the right time.

    • @cocolacegiggles6896
      @cocolacegiggles6896 Před 3 lety

      Ma’am get out of my head I was just thinking the same thing!

  • @NYRARACHELLE
    @NYRARACHELLE Před 3 lety +114

    Berleezy sent me here, & because of how this quality content resonated, I’m here to stay 🤗

  • @henrywilson735
    @henrywilson735 Před 3 lety +103

    *EEZY GANG HAS ENTERED THE CHAT

  • @lourdemichel6573
    @lourdemichel6573 Před 3 lety +161

    Kids are the best example of this, they're not afraid to fail in front of people

    • @indiald3373
      @indiald3373 Před 3 lety +13

      THE innocence of babes

    • @wiebelziel
      @wiebelziel Před 3 lety +24

      I was afraid. I would rehearse things in my head over and over and I would hate doing something if I wasn't immediately good at it. My mom told me once I was the kind of child who was quiet for weeks and then would suddenly know a bunch of new sentence structures.

  • @nessazee
    @nessazee Před 3 lety +194

    Calling people “butts” feels very Spongebob and I’m absolutely on board

  • @wordsmae
    @wordsmae Před 3 lety +11

    I've been telling myself "I want to try too many things to be afraid at being bad at them". Life is too limited if you only want to do things you're good at. Thank you for this.

  • @sirenumscopuli9754
    @sirenumscopuli9754 Před 3 lety +11

    I just showed my friends some of the poetry I’ve been too embarrassed to share! It was horrifying, but it felt good to show something I’ve worked hard on!

  • @couponwithStar
    @couponwithStar Před 3 lety +561

    Whew! Your timing is always impeccable. Needed this now, more than ever ❤️.

    • @SinoM123
      @SinoM123 Před 3 lety +2

      Riiiiiiight? Cause same🥺

    • @January1487
      @January1487 Před 3 lety +1

      RIIIGGGHHHTT. I've been afraid of being seen all my life. But to get where I want to be in my music career, I gotta share it. ❤
      we got this!

  • @normalgirlbim
    @normalgirlbim Před 3 lety +93

    the people who are hating on you for trying are projecting their own insecurities on you

    • @Lisa_Flowers
      @Lisa_Flowers Před 3 lety +14

      nothing but the truth! you trying is making them feel guilty for not trying. so they try to make you stop.

    • @raregodcards
      @raregodcards Před 3 lety +3

      this makes so much sense

    • @melikthegeek
      @melikthegeek Před 3 lety +1

      This statement gets truer every day for me

  • @delicqtemoonxx4694
    @delicqtemoonxx4694 Před 3 lety +11

    Berleezy sent me eughhhhh!! This video is fire✨✨

  • @Siyasays
    @Siyasays Před 3 lety +66

    Evelyn: Say something nice to yourself.
    Me: I'm not a *butt of a person* 😏

    • @crystald8465
      @crystald8465 Před 3 lety +4

      You have a great sense of humor 🤣How about that 😁

  • @BrittNicole34
    @BrittNicole34 Před 3 lety +171

    My mantra this year was “Don’t be afraid to be bad at something new” and it’s amazing what you discover about yourself when you literally just allow yourself to be human/vulnerable.

    • @alu6044
      @alu6044 Před 3 lety +6

      Amazing matra! I've found myself punishing myself whenever I can't just do something right away. Which is an absurt standart to hold yourself to anyways, so this ''Don't be afraid to be bad at something new'' in combination with ''Don't be afraid to be seen trying'' are gonna be my new mantras.

  • @chyronechavez
    @chyronechavez Před 3 lety +9

    Amazing! Really needed!
    Here from Berleezy video.

    • @chyronechavez
      @chyronechavez Před 3 lety

      You can be Inspiring too! DON'T ALWAYS OVERTHINK EVERYTHING, you got this thing called LIFE! DON'T TAKE IT FOR GRANTED!❤

  • @OYOKO
    @OYOKO Před 3 lety +2

    Something nice about myself is that I am incredibly resilient & I'm grateful for that.

  • @IsabelleMN11
    @IsabelleMN11 Před 3 lety +229

    How did you know i needed this Evelyn? How. Did. You. Know?!!?

  • @antonettedewar7151
    @antonettedewar7151 Před 3 lety +132

    "Antonette, you aint got no followers on CZcams like that. Just post the poetry already and have fun!"

    • @offdutybeauty
      @offdutybeauty Před 3 lety +4

      Yes!!!!!!

    • @zachklieman2141
      @zachklieman2141 Před 3 lety +7

      I would love to subscribe to some poetry, whenever it may be, whatever it may be, for however many people it may be!
      Edit: as long as I am ok as an audience, and I totally understand if I am not for whatever reason

    • @onelittleant4682
      @onelittleant4682 Před 3 lety +2

      @@zachklieman2141 Thank you so much Zach! I really appreciate the support. This is my actual CZcams channel if you want to follow it. :)

    • @FolashadeOkunubi
      @FolashadeOkunubi Před 3 lety +1

      I just watch the one on confronting your emotions! I loved it :)

    • @ayemiksenoj5254
      @ayemiksenoj5254 Před 3 lety +2

      This is me!! I've literally been sitting on my work for over 5 years 🤦 I have NO IDEA what I'm so afraid of.. I'll support you if I can.

  • @frostedtaylos
    @frostedtaylos Před rokem +2

    Watching this for a late-night mid-Masters thesis pick-me-up.
    Self, you're trying your hardest to beat your bad brain blues back, manage untreated ADHD, and graduate with your M.S.. You have come far and you should be proud! No one is perfect, and no one (including yourself) should expect you to be. You're doing your best right now. Keep moving forward!

  • @exruu
    @exruu Před 3 lety +5

    just came over from berlinnnn, i’m about to binge all of your videos

  • @stephanielee370
    @stephanielee370 Před 3 lety +75

    As a mother of an adult son who suffers from severe anxiety, who worries so much about looking foolish or be seen as a failure, I really appreciate this WORD! So true!

  • @LovelessYayaoi
    @LovelessYayaoi Před 3 lety +62

    Not being afraid to be seen trying took me from 1 sale on Etsy last year to 58 this year! 🙌

    • @trinity2times958
      @trinity2times958 Před 3 lety +4

      congratulations! so excited for your growth and your continued growth! keep goinggggg

    • @qwmnmnenn
      @qwmnmnenn Před 2 lety

      Where are you now in progress with your etsy business?

  • @QueenZsWorld
    @QueenZsWorld Před 3 lety +3

    "i don't want it to LOOK LIKE i don't know what i'm doing" i felt that 😅

  • @mogilvie37
    @mogilvie37 Před 3 lety +19

    Whew, I needed to hear this!! I'm lowkey applying to grad schools abroad but don't want to tell anyone in case I don't get in. But uhhhh I have to tell them so I can get a letter of rec.

  • @m.pacemaker9564
    @m.pacemaker9564 Před 3 lety +78

    I feel like this should be a whole class in school, starting elementary/primary, to build this mindset!

  • @smome7773
    @smome7773 Před 3 lety +53

    I almost wanted to cry because I've been going through intense creative hesitation for a while with great ideas that I was just so afraid would flop and I really needed this. Thank you so much.

    • @ayonnazglam9050
      @ayonnazglam9050 Před 3 lety

      You can do it!! 😃

    • @murandayvonne
      @murandayvonne Před 3 lety

      😭😭😭I'm experiencing the same feeling.

    • @smome7773
      @smome7773 Před 3 lety +2

      Thank you everyone. I don't even know y'all but I'm big bb touched 🥺💜🙏🏾

    • @graypaint
      @graypaint Před 3 lety

      and tbh let it flop until you fly

  • @hermenzmez4014
    @hermenzmez4014 Před 3 lety +22

    I’m here from berleezy channel. He wasn’t lying very inspirational and pure positive I’m subscribing

  • @levelup2014
    @levelup2014 Před 3 lety +5

    Came here from Berlins video, had to drop a like great message!

  • @thoughtsinabox
    @thoughtsinabox Před 3 lety +60

    -sees Evelyn-
    -sees the title-
    -immediate click-
    Something nice about myself: It took a moment, this blinking cursor. But I can do what it is, whatever I put my mind to.

  • @so.many.obstacles
    @so.many.obstacles Před 3 lety +36

    I went from not being able to run one mile to running 26.2 miles. I wasn’t afraid to be seen trying and someone stopped and helped me. I’m fearless!

    • @gemmadidit4118
      @gemmadidit4118 Před 3 lety +4

      Great! Your name should be "one less obstacle"...

  • @Beblixx
    @Beblixx Před 3 lety +56

    Who came here from Berleezy

  • @imericwilliams
    @imericwilliams Před 3 lety +5

    So “don’t be afraid to be seen trying”, if that’s the motto then I won’t be afraid to be seen struggling because this college thing is getting tough. But I know that what I’m feeling now is only temporary. Self anxiety is a butt, but I hope that myself and others can become more aware of who we are and what we want. Thanks Evelyn From The Internets, your content is always well needed!

  • @hdjd8769
    @hdjd8769 Před 3 lety +14

    That tweet for chadwick man...the feels !!!!

  • @afrobelle8626
    @afrobelle8626 Před 3 lety +59

    My self compliment - I am resilient. Even if I don’t feel like it.

  • @thepocketesthetician
    @thepocketesthetician Před 3 lety +4

    I appreciate my intent and effort towards becoming my most authentic self, and having compassion for myself when I think I come short

  • @ajaash8358
    @ajaash8358 Před 3 lety +8

    I needed this, was feeling like giving up on my brand. Something nice: I am good at creating something from nothing.

  • @chloeprice6671
    @chloeprice6671 Před 3 lety +70

    this hit different.. might’ve just changed everything for me

  • @therealsierra98
    @therealsierra98 Před 3 lety +67

    *"people are butts"* ~ my new mantra for sure | tarot channel xo

    • @alexricky87
      @alexricky87 Před 3 lety +3

      That's definitely a lesson from 2020 🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @therealsierra98
      @therealsierra98 Před 3 lety +2

      @@alexricky87 yees lmao~

  • @jcphelps7054
    @jcphelps7054 Před 3 lety +9

    This is exactly the message I needed after getting the news I got into grad school in Ireland. Don't be Afraid to be Seen Trying

  • @itskylanotkayla
    @itskylanotkayla Před 3 lety +15

    Just received my well-earned certificate in Personal Styling this morning and I REALLY needed this pep talk

  • @kmichellenotthatone3611
    @kmichellenotthatone3611 Před 3 lety +63

    The unexpected “let’s go” left me in tears.

  • @1flower161
    @1flower161 Před 3 lety +29

    This is exactly why I started to repeat my daily affirmations:
    I am smart
    I am gentle with myself
    I am deserving of patience

  • @Marly930
    @Marly930 Před 3 lety +5

    Me to me: "You're smarter than you give yourself credit for!"

  • @vishalinarayanan4340
    @vishalinarayanan4340 Před 3 lety +7

    You are as eloquent as you are hilarious -- needed this message, so so badly.

  • @lifeasqueline
    @lifeasqueline Před 3 lety +32

    I am resilient and will continue to grow in every area of my life no matter the obstacles.

  • @SynterraSteen
    @SynterraSteen Před 3 lety +22

    Something nice about myself:
    I have a warm smile 🌻

  • @pm0913
    @pm0913 Před 3 lety +36

    Brene Brown put me on to a poem by Ted Roosevelt I think. It’s called “The man in the arena”. Y’all if you haven’t seen it, check it out

    • @ellablaak4358
      @ellablaak4358 Před 3 lety +2

      Thank you for this

    • @janaemommy69
      @janaemommy69 Před 3 lety

      I've seen her do it on a TedTalk....so good.

    • @asino5494
      @asino5494 Před 3 lety +3

      "Those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat" Powerful...I'm printing this out and putting it on my wall, thank you

  • @gooftroop_
    @gooftroop_ Před 3 lety +5

    Here from berleezy thank you for this inspiring video

  • @littlemusic4x
    @littlemusic4x Před 3 lety +74

    I started an MBA in Oct and we had our first group presentation that was the final grade for a class today and I did pretty good :)

  • @bella9433
    @bella9433 Před 3 lety +10

    I am resilient.
    I am loved.
    My best will look different everyday.

  • @rinellet
    @rinellet Před 8 měsíci +1

    something nice to myself: i love how passionate and resilient i am. i admire how brave and unrelenting i am in living out my dreams. i am proud of me :)

  • @YoursNaturally11
    @YoursNaturally11 Před 3 lety +41

    A word 🙌🏽 ⛪️

  • @zxan.
    @zxan. Před 3 lety +93

    my personal version of this phrase is: “Take it easy, but take it” Thank you for this lil pep talk you’re an inspiration! Love from the Philippines 🇵🇭 💙

    • @katrinab7657
      @katrinab7657 Před 3 lety +3

      love that!

    • @zxan.
      @zxan. Před 3 lety +1

      @@katrinab7657 Pls feel free to use it as a lil reminder! I hope it helps, stay safe 🧚🏻‍♀️✨

    • @elfcare
      @elfcare Před 3 lety

      I had this phrase up on my whiteboard at work this week. Salamat po for the reminder!

    • @zxan.
      @zxan. Před 3 lety

      @@elfcare glad to be of help, Maligayang pasko at manigong bagong taon love! 🧚🏻‍♀️✨

  • @josha.3090
    @josha.3090 Před 3 lety +28

    "Your conviction and your convenience don't live on the same block."

  • @slayinh6094
    @slayinh6094 Před 3 lety +3

    Glad Berlin put me on sis spittin straight faxxs 🙏🏿 , already hit that subscribe button 💛

  • @unseenplayer9841
    @unseenplayer9841 Před 3 lety +4

    ezzy gang here thanks for helping berlin with the amazing videos you always be making.

  • @n3rdyzuki697
    @n3rdyzuki697 Před 3 lety +35

    Something nice to myself: I'm doing better, and slowly relearning how to take care of myself. The amount of time it's taking me is driving me crazy... but it's still progress.

    • @cutegirl380
      @cutegirl380 Před 3 lety +1

      I feel this on a personal level. Such a slow process... But at least we are still moving

    • @LashayneHampton
      @LashayneHampton Před 3 lety

      Thank you

  • @readreadwriteread9039
    @readreadwriteread9039 Před 3 lety +17

    Dear self: it's ok to do what you can do, now, so that you can do what you're supposed to do, later.

  • @ariyanabyrd6192
    @ariyanabyrd6192 Před 3 lety +2

    Where was this video when I was 14?! Don’t be afraid to be seen trying heard thattttttt. Dope video🥳

  • @h.a.s.7612
    @h.a.s.7612 Před 3 lety +9

    I came hear after watching Beerlezy's video. Both of you give very inspirational messages, thank you.

  • @nickieisknittingtoomuch
    @nickieisknittingtoomuch Před 3 lety +18

    Something nice to myself: If I want it, really want it, I never come back without it!

  • @gwenythjpw
    @gwenythjpw Před 3 lety +75

    I say "Don't be afraid to be seen trying" to myself like 20 times a day, and it's because of YOU! It's literally helped me so much. Thank you ♥♥♥

  • @SK-tk5lc
    @SK-tk5lc Před 3 lety +1

    Building a life thats inching closer to the one you want to live! Whoaa. As someone who definitely feels a pressure to be "put together" and "perfect" all the time, this was GREAT

  • @pulpfaction7286
    @pulpfaction7286 Před 3 lety +1

    Humility is beautiful, Humility with Faith by Works is inspiring, Humility with Faith by Works in Love is divine. Thank you for this second wind, this breathe of fresh air. First time hearing/seeing the words “Don’t be afraid to be seen trying” but to know that process has started and now I am encouraged I am blessed by this. 🦒 God Bless You!

  • @leeleeb7413
    @leeleeb7413 Před 3 lety +10

    On my tombstone, just write “She tried!” All I can do is try. Thanks for this video! I always try in private, but now it’s time to go public.

  • @morrisaengles6477
    @morrisaengles6477 Před 3 lety +15

    Whew child... My head was nodding through this whole video like it was a 90's era hip-hop jam. Something nice... "Girl, you try every day and you've come a long way. I'm proud of you."

  • @bcpop_
    @bcpop_ Před 3 lety +2

    Sometimes these videos be hitting different.
    Something nice to myself: I’m grateful for your perseverance.

  • @rinsworld
    @rinsworld Před 3 lety +2

    “Prioritize yourself and your community over the people who may be watching from the sidelines of your life” WOW. As someone who recently turned 26 and juust started trying to make my art a real something while seeing others who have done it for less time and are just soaring... this meant so much. Because I can feel like welp, I guess I should give up now. Little things like this give me another little push to continue.
    You are now MY fairy godmother ( does that make Ira Glass my fairy great godfather? )

  • @hallease
    @hallease Před 3 lety +58

    Yep, y'all gonna continue to get these on the 1's and 3's Mandolin strums because *I'm having fun gotdangit!*

  • @kaeare2629
    @kaeare2629 Před 3 lety +4

    I went from a D average to straight A's and EVERYONE watched me struggle haha. Most were supportive but some were butts. I always knew I was smart, I was just too scared to try. This video was everything!! Thanks for keeping it real! xoxo

  • @BloodLad6
    @BloodLad6 Před 3 lety +11

    Eezy gang 🤘🏾

  •  Před 3 lety +6

    Whew child I needed to hear this and I didn't even know I did. Literally brings tears to my eyes.

  • @giopannalove93
    @giopannalove93 Před 3 lety +14

    By the grace of God, I've had the strength to finish my Masters. I'm not in the career I dream about, but I've started to take the first steps to get there. One day I'll be a Counselling Psychologist 🙌🏿

  • @meursaultscourtroom8886
    @meursaultscourtroom8886 Před 3 lety +5

    Words of wisdom. And because you asked: I do my best for my patients everyday because I really care about their lives and happiness.

  • @lin.gc9951
    @lin.gc9951 Před 3 lety

    Some years back I wouldn't have known I'd still be here to this day. I'm grateful for sticking around, choosing to keep living through the good and bad, making the most out of those buckets of love, beacons of purpose, sparks of joy, dashes of radiance along the way. Stumbling but trying and happy to be.

  • @bluehaven8472
    @bluehaven8472 Před 3 lety +2

    1:08 I have been thinking about this idea for years and this is the first time I heard somebody else bring it up. 🌟

  • @UNYQUE707
    @UNYQUE707 Před 3 lety +56

    *Don’t be afraid to be seen trying.*
    I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately.
    I owe you a debt of gratitude for putting this mantra on my radar. ✨💕

  • @Hannah-pq2hg
    @Hannah-pq2hg Před 3 lety +25

    I’m really funny, at least I know how to make myself laugh, and I effortlessly make the people around me laugh 😬

    • @gemmadidit4118
      @gemmadidit4118 Před 3 lety

      I make myself laugh all the time! It's a GIFT!

  • @neighbourhoodgal
    @neighbourhoodgal Před 3 lety +1

    My body is changing and while that is sometimes unsettling, my spirit is essentially the same.

  • @mowbimpson1653
    @mowbimpson1653 Před 3 lety +6

    Just came from Berlin’s video. Both of y’all are so inspirational

  • @endangeredasexual
    @endangeredasexual Před 3 lety +11

    I am kind and intentional with my feelings.

  • @shannonyoutube8759
    @shannonyoutube8759 Před 3 lety +37

    "I don't see how you can hate outside of the club, you can't even get in." -Evelyn the GOAT 2020 :)

  • @davideurope736
    @davideurope736 Před 3 lety

    I'm proud of myself for fighting thru adulthood. It has been hell. Thru the many failures, setbacks, let downs, depression, you name it, I'm still here. And that means something.

  • @petrouchka_
    @petrouchka_ Před 3 lety +1

    "i just wanna... remind myself through telling y'all"
    my philosophy with advice to my friends hahaha

  • @yellowbubblequeen
    @yellowbubblequeen Před 3 lety +4

    Something nice: you tried something new, the pandemic hit, you adapted, and succeeded. Faith thru struggle. Life still sucks, but you don’t.

  • @alexricky87
    @alexricky87 Před 3 lety +21

    "There's nothing wrong with getting rest."

  • @KissMyCreative
    @KissMyCreative Před 3 lety

    From me to me: "Taking the step to try and learn a new skill totally outside of my comfort zone at 44 yrs old was NOT a mistake and was a great move. And I WILL succeed!"
    Thank you for all the encouragement you constantly speak from yo mouf! Much appreciated :)

  • @user-dl1dr8tq9f
    @user-dl1dr8tq9f Před 3 lety +18

    This was timely.
    Something nice about myself: I am smart and able to do anything I set my mind too.

  • @withmightandmane
    @withmightandmane Před 3 lety +10

    “They might even notice that you don’t know how to anchor your braid down to your root...” why is this meeee??😭😂😭
    Alright, something good: I am trying, I am learning, I am putting myself out there, I am doing the work 🙏🏾

  • @sunnydaze80
    @sunnydaze80 Před 3 lety

    This is something I'm slowly learning. What helps me is remembering that people can't help you if they don't know you need it.

  • @tiyanahicks
    @tiyanahicks Před 3 lety +9

    Ugh 😩 I needed this! I absolutely don’t like for people to see me trying! I ABSOLUTELY want to go through my metamorphosis in secret! But I’ll definitely try to take this advice!! Thank you ☺️ I will be sharing this video to all those secret caterpillars 🐛 I know!

  • @MrLakers92
    @MrLakers92 Před 3 lety +25

    The twists comment made me spit out my tea though