A single mother of three, and running a business at 30

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  • čas přidán 30. 09. 2021
  • At 17, Pelyn Tan became a mother.
    12 years on, she’s now a proud mum of three who runs a thriving baked goods business. She’s gone through diplomas, a degree, a marriage, a nine-year nursing career, and countless lessons on life. This is her story.
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Komentáře • 163

  • @RealMadrid008100
    @RealMadrid008100 Před 2 lety +37

    She feels like giving up but she does not. That is a sign of her strength. Massive respect.

  • @weili3
    @weili3 Před 2 lety +56

    I was brought up by my single mother. I can feel your emotions and drive to survive. I wish you the very best in life with your young kids!

  • @btslee
    @btslee Před 2 lety +107

    She’s so courageous, what a heroine 🦸‍♀️👏
    May her struggles today blossom into smiles tomorrow

  • @wailinglee1335
    @wailinglee1335 Před 2 lety +28

    Such an optimistic, diligent and loving person! You are a great mum cos you always make time for your kids despite your busy schedule, they are definitely proud of you!

  • @geekroute
    @geekroute Před 2 lety +20

    Hi Pelyn, if you're reading this, I just wanna tell you - you're awesome!

  • @mokhtaramin2011
    @mokhtaramin2011 Před 2 lety +12

    Overcoming such challenges at a relatively young age is impressive. I luv your Dad. Cool man. Please don't be upset with your Mom's reaction, it's honest and she did play a major part in ur life and made u what u are. I wish you luck and success in your endeavours. Well done 👍

  • @bakkwa8705
    @bakkwa8705 Před 2 lety +28

    Wow 😮 she’s a really strong woman , such amazing fortitude ! To study/childcare and work/childcare at the same time is no joke ! Wishing her and her kids all the best in everything . May God’s Blessings be with you always 🙏

  • @ivanyee446
    @ivanyee446 Před 2 lety +53

    You're such an inspiration. This puts a lot of things into perspective. Its heartening to see such a bright and beautiful smile despite all the challenges thrown your way. Thank you Pelyn for sharing your story.

  • @skirtrunning
    @skirtrunning Před rokem +1

    This woman is one hell of a warrior for the strength she exhibits.

  • @beckham48
    @beckham48 Před 2 lety +56

    She is cheerful despite what she’s been through

  • @Staar624
    @Staar624 Před 2 lety +11

    I can listen to her talk all day

  • @ILovePlayingZeldaGamesOnSwitch

    May your business grows more.

  • @livetill7136
    @livetill7136 Před 2 lety +4

    You are amazing! You find no excuse to keep going. Truly an inspiration!

  • @dnrgarments-hunt5635
    @dnrgarments-hunt5635 Před 2 lety +3

    So Heartwarming. U go girl!

  • @christopherlaw9184
    @christopherlaw9184 Před 2 lety +22

    WELL SAID PELYN 👍🏻 LIVE WITH NO REGRETS! Your smile and laughter is your positive energy. RESPECT YOU ✊🏼

  • @pllin240
    @pllin240 Před 2 lety +10

    thanks for sharing; very courageous and amazing 👏 👍stay strong and happy

  • @spyboy71
    @spyboy71 Před 2 lety +14

    all the best, you are a extremely strong person

  • @frankieteo6659
    @frankieteo6659 Před 2 lety +19

    Wow.. bless to see you staying strong and positive. Keep up your achievement and success by going through tough time. A single mom with 3 kids. Heads up to you.. God bless and cheers..

  • @qyu...976
    @qyu...976 Před 2 lety +4

    Strong and cheerful women👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @abdulfattah4276
    @abdulfattah4276 Před 2 lety +5

    respect you for being an awesome mum

  • @Laorealestate
    @Laorealestate Před 2 lety +3

    Very beautiful and positive! You go momma!!!!

  • @tomahawk1556
    @tomahawk1556 Před 2 lety +9

    This is very inspiring! May Good Gods & Goddesses Protect , Guide & Love Pelyn Tan & Family always! 🌷🌿🌎💖

  • @aclp003
    @aclp003 Před 2 lety +11

    Well lived! I've much to learn from her! Truly inspirational!

    • @marimo66666
      @marimo66666 Před 2 lety

      starts from making babies at 17 😂

  • @stuartrodrigues4095
    @stuartrodrigues4095 Před 2 lety +6

    You’re a beautiful mama. Stay strong babe

  • @max308767
    @max308767 Před 2 lety +5

    Stay strong and seek strength in your kids. Take care!

  • @VS-wv4qg
    @VS-wv4qg Před 2 lety +2

    Thank You for sharing this story it brought tears to my eyes ,I can relate on every level.
    Your perseverance has been everything to me in just 8 mins.
    God sees the struggles,the tears,the heartache,the lonliness.
    When He rewards He will Bless You infront of all the people who thought you would not make it.
    Never give up.
    Stay Strong.

  • @antoinesimeon728
    @antoinesimeon728 Před 2 lety +2

    Keep going Pelyn! We'll be here for you!
    My mother was virtually in caring for her 4 children, alongside her parents, or our grandparents. We have all made it through. You can too girl!

  • @eugene4261
    @eugene4261 Před 2 lety +8

    Jiayou to this fabulous and strong mum! 💪

  • @chandutomaz
    @chandutomaz Před 2 lety +1

    Very inspiring story

  • @LL-ys8uy
    @LL-ys8uy Před 2 lety +6

    You’re a pretty mommy and that’s a fact. Good job, move forward and try not to let your past haut you . Good luck

  • @thomashay79
    @thomashay79 Před 2 lety +3

    U are a real super woman... Salute!

  • @rubennachang3196
    @rubennachang3196 Před 2 lety +3

    Definitely strong lady!

  • @celestialstar124
    @celestialstar124 Před 2 lety +11

    加油, i hope you do well and your parents, 3kids and you are happy. ❤️

  • @maryngshwuling9916
    @maryngshwuling9916 Před 2 lety +4

    What a remarkable woman 🌈

  • @simonloo1588
    @simonloo1588 Před 2 lety +1

    Her story is quite unique but I find her personality very cheerful and strong . Kudos and it helps that she is pretty too

  • @paperluvxhearts8510
    @paperluvxhearts8510 Před 2 lety +4

    Such a pretty and strong lady. Very likeable

  • @denyce06
    @denyce06 Před 2 lety +4

    Keep up the good job!

  • @richardwang8080
    @richardwang8080 Před 2 lety +15

    This , this is journalism at its finest

  • @nurainshahrier9769
    @nurainshahrier9769 Před 2 lety +6

    very brave and inspiring to all the single moms.

  • @abdulrajaf6
    @abdulrajaf6 Před 2 lety

    Wow...the NEVER GIVE UP ATTITUDE...inspires me...I understand that your Kids are your STRONG POINTS...(Awesome...having Kids is the MOST...Mothers...would DIE to protect them)...Take Care...👍

  • @jiarui1312
    @jiarui1312 Před 2 lety +26

    Through her bff Tammy, I bought her nutella cookies, which is really really good! Worth trying!!! But with all the hardships u faced with the past, makes u a better person towards the future! U go girl! Jiayou!!!!

  • @anermila6325
    @anermila6325 Před 2 lety +8

    So pretty ;)
    And I am proud of you too.

  • @JLWWANG
    @JLWWANG Před 2 lety +5

    Salute to all single parents 🖖

  • @gerardvong
    @gerardvong Před 2 lety

    Thank for sharing luv y smile

  • @darrelcheong8369
    @darrelcheong8369 Před 2 lety

    kudos! inspiring

  • @Danderman888
    @Danderman888 Před 2 lety

    Respect!

  • @joelpayne1193
    @joelpayne1193 Před rokem

    Wow, I totally respect lady who rasie 3 kids and running business at same time. Kids are lucky for their mother would role model for inspiration for their future. Good luck and may God bless this family 👪 😊

  • @tricialow217
    @tricialow217 Před 2 lety +18

    不是一个空有美貌的女子,她更是一个让父母放心,孩子安心的好榜样。

  • @jerryooiss
    @jerryooiss Před 2 lety +1

    Inspired by you! Great job Mom!

  • @SharlemNina
    @SharlemNina Před rokem +1

    What a great interview 💗

  • @venesleunam9293
    @venesleunam9293 Před 2 lety +1

    We as Chef here we very proud u n I'm looking forward to support on event basis

  • @skg901
    @skg901 Před 2 lety +2

    6:28 The way she said - "definitely"... Says a lot about her...

  • @ustadzahelmihamidahalimin3405

    Amazing 🤩

  • @HyramaisaraMohd
    @HyramaisaraMohd Před 2 lety

    Stay strong ,so proud of u,keep doing wat u do ,keep strive, having a bless no woman have that

  • @iamvaibbhavchachad24
    @iamvaibbhavchachad24 Před rokem

    Strong enlightenment

  • @terenceeng597
    @terenceeng597 Před 2 lety +1

    good inspire... hope u cheer

  • @sgfuture9472
    @sgfuture9472 Před 2 lety +45

    Being a mother is no easy task, so just imagine how hard it is when you have to do it all alone. Nothing prepares them, but they do it anyway... Single mums are Heroes...

    • @sumit6190p
      @sumit6190p Před 2 lety +1

      So true and imagine being a mother at 18.

    • @eatdrinkrunwalk
      @eatdrinkrunwalk Před 2 lety +2

      Dun forget single dad's as well....we are also super heroes

    • @nicholaschan4257
      @nicholaschan4257 Před 2 lety

      ALL moms are heroes -.-

    • @m1xxified
      @m1xxified Před 2 lety

      I want to give her 1 more baby

    • @eatdrinkrunwalk
      @eatdrinkrunwalk Před 2 lety +1

      @@m1xxified How is it possible when ur small head is still underdeveloped?

  • @arthurdubois9978
    @arthurdubois9978 Před 2 lety

    Lovely lady

  • @askjoannaable
    @askjoannaable Před 2 lety +30

    Always want to say that your Nutella bakes is very delicious! You go girl, Pelynoobakes!

  • @power279
    @power279 Před 2 lety

    my kind of woman❤️🌹☺️

  • @Cat-lo6sk
    @Cat-lo6sk Před 2 lety

    Stay strong gal 💪...Me too life move on after my wife passed away 😢...Good luck in yr baking business..

  • @jalanjalan7099
    @jalanjalan7099 Před 2 lety +3

    Beautiful and strong mama! Jia you! 💪

  • @xxxxxx8818
    @xxxxxx8818 Před 2 lety

    Your brother is a fighter, but i didn't know you are one too! All the best!

  • @huffingting
    @huffingting Před 2 lety +1

    Her beauty is over shadowed by that toughness, like a statue 🗽🗿

  • @samymorty4112
    @samymorty4112 Před 2 lety

    she has such a cute personality 🥺

  • @atkins8644
    @atkins8644 Před 2 lety +6

    You have done out of mother love that there is no other love can substitute. Your strength will be their strength. Just keep doing the right thing not to sway into sin. You will surely and slowly see abundance in time to come.

  • @wayntang3714
    @wayntang3714 Před 2 lety

    🙏🏼

  • @kckamote
    @kckamote Před 2 lety

    ❤️

  • @liu.dadong768
    @liu.dadong768 Před 2 lety +6

    An amazing woman. Strong and beautiful. It's your ex husband loss right leave you. His loss. Don't look back. U are doing so much better now.

    • @leechengho8407
      @leechengho8407 Před 2 lety

      You're very right, her hard-hearted ex-husband leaving this exceptionally courageous lady with 3 children, will definitely live to regret.

  • @venesleunam9293
    @venesleunam9293 Před 2 lety

    Be strong u sure can rise again

  • @sicasfuc1204
    @sicasfuc1204 Před 2 lety

    Courier is here. :))

  • @zapp99
    @zapp99 Před 2 lety

    So strong and focused. Amazing.

  • @keonglim
    @keonglim Před 2 lety

    Keep it up

  • @kim-vw4wr
    @kim-vw4wr Před 2 lety +1

    Singapore is a very stress country even what you do you always feels very tired

  • @mylife5237
    @mylife5237 Před 2 lety +2

    A man who leaves a woman with kids is a scumbag. When you're father, kids are priority, nothing else matters.

  • @thomasthampengkintham452
    @thomasthampengkintham452 Před 2 lety +5

    life is a journey, good and bad times, it was tough but you overcome it, have faith, stay strong and believe i your inner self and ask God for wisdom. Good luck and God speed u and your three lovely kids.

  • @jaynetan3672
    @jaynetan3672 Před 2 lety +1

    😍

  • @jeal79m
    @jeal79m Před 2 lety +1

    妈妈是最伟大的!

  • @samk1918
    @samk1918 Před 2 lety

    Hero

  • @mabeldin7891
    @mabeldin7891 Před 2 lety

    You are proving alot of women that life can be charged with positivity as long as you keep moving forward. I had thoughts of giving up too and also brought alot of insurance just in case.. But having a child stopped me. I had those sliver linings too. Hahaha. Anyway, if i am a insurance agent, I will target single mother. Hahaha

  • @asthenyukimori9853
    @asthenyukimori9853 Před 2 lety

    I thought she gonna say from zero to hero.

  • @thiahrazak6033
    @thiahrazak6033 Před 2 lety

    wow

  • @sweetyome475
    @sweetyome475 Před 2 lety +1

    Strong independent women. So preety so educated with experience. Ill pray for you my dear.. women like u deserve better and more.just you wait and see 😊

  • @eliteprogamer27
    @eliteprogamer27 Před 2 lety

    Funny when you see people you know on CZcams, my mother is friends with her and I am very good friends with her son since they were in the same school and got pregnant around the same time but my father is still married to my mother and I am a single child

  • @DressedRunner
    @DressedRunner Před 2 lety

    She might have sacrificed her precious youth but she gained more time with her kids. That's a fair trade.

  • @isozai
    @isozai Před 2 lety

    ☀️

  • @salmahmuhd7398
    @salmahmuhd7398 Před 2 lety

    👍👍👍👍👍♥️

  • @ustradingdiary
    @ustradingdiary Před 2 lety

    What baked goods. Will buy to support?

  • @jetsonje8654
    @jetsonje8654 Před 2 lety

    What's her business contact to order the cookies?

  • @shiongyeow3977
    @shiongyeow3977 Před 2 lety

    Jia You!

  • @romantic2saygoodnite
    @romantic2saygoodnite Před 2 lety

    I want to buy her cookiesssss

  • @mohdyusuf1865
    @mohdyusuf1865 Před 2 lety +2

    As a man,woman must be well educated...be strong n independent...if you want to marry ,go ahead...for marriages are all not made in heaven...if you can live alone...go ahead ...as a muslim myself...i feel sometomes women are not treated well n fair...well done my child....may life be always good to you n your children

  • @Interloper322
    @Interloper322 Před 2 lety +3

    Pump and dump x3 lmao.

  • @SuccessforLifester
    @SuccessforLifester Před 2 lety +1

    So steady. Many women aged 30 still not yet married.

    • @goodman2758
      @goodman2758 Před 2 lety

      Marry for what they can afford them no need man ma haha

    • @SuccessforLifester
      @SuccessforLifester Před 2 lety

      @@goodman2758 I think most have very high expectations of guys until they missed the boats..

    • @goodman2758
      @goodman2758 Před 2 lety

      @@SuccessforLifester tall handsome rich is their minimum requirement 🤣🤣

    • @SuccessforLifester
      @SuccessforLifester Před 2 lety

      @@goodman2758 Yeah..

  • @trufflett803
    @trufflett803 Před 2 lety +2

    ya i ate her nutella cookies i swear i need somemore

  • @SyedAli-wu3hk
    @SyedAli-wu3hk Před 2 lety

    I wanna contact this woman

  • @felosio
    @felosio Před 2 lety +1

    I'm so curious how can her teeth be so white and shiny??

  • @MrFyce
    @MrFyce Před 2 lety +16

    what's her online business? would like to buy her food.

  • @jessicalang7320
    @jessicalang7320 Před 2 lety +6

    She is a divorcee and hence a single parent. Single mother is one who has children out of wedlock.

  • @pamelakoh4660
    @pamelakoh4660 Před 2 lety

    🙏🔥🔥🔥👍💪🙏