single & shouldn't mingle | episode two
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- čas přidán 20. 07. 2023
- Episode 2 of 6 chats where I discuss things I'm deeply wrestling with, and perhaps you are too. Tune in every Friday.
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4:43 :D
Thank you for the time stamp kaiti. Being able to repeat that made my day.
this was such a suprise haha
That was awesome
Something I dealt with after my first break up was, realizing I felt shame for being dumped because having a boyfriend made me feel worthy. Now, this is coming from someone who didn’t want to date and was very happy just me myself and I (until I met him)… so realizing I had put my self worth in being “desired” by this one guy was a crushing realization. I was disappointed in myself for being “one of those girls”… but after some time away from the break up I was able to lean into my relationship with God more and relearn who I was! And I realized I liked myself way more out of the relationship then in it so it didn’t matter if I seemed pathetic to others for being dumped. Having a person is kind of this status symbol that you are desirable… but that isn’t true. The only difference between a person in a relationship and a person out of one is the status. As humans we are all walking around desiring affirmation from others wether that is parents, friends, men, women, authority figures, random baristas… realizing that and redirecting our focus to affirming our selves and leaning on the love and support and validation we get from the people we hold close in our lives is one step closer to inner peace. At least in my opinion. I’m married now and that’s a whole other can of worms.
Yep. I felt all these same things too! Married now as well but I remember feeling all those same things.
beautiful comment
Thankyou for your comment, it brightened my day ❤
WE'RE ALL IN THIS TOGETHER 💛
Once we know
That we are
We're all stars
And we see that
I think that one of the lessons I'm learning currently is how to prioritize my friendships and myself instead of putting that energy into longing for a significant other (obviously I know we all wired for love, but putting love into my relationships has made me forget more often about even wanting a bf)
I swear every time time I see her notif, it's a largest FRICKING dopamine hit of the week.
"I hate the fact that I want another person in my life"
Very relatable
🫡 felt this!!! when u said its hard to admit you even WANT a boo, so relatable. i guess bc society sees it so negatively but girl… we just want a built in buddy, is that too much to ask 😔
i LOVE this series i LOVE listening to u talk
i LOVE u
Thumbnail is how I look at my Math teacher when he expects me to start answering questions at 8:07 am
I've never been a person that prioritizes her love life or dates at all until this year. Dating was a huge fear of mine and i tried to face it. It was one of the most humbling experiences in my life. I could finally understand my friends and all the women i thought were "silly" for weeping over a guy instead of girlbossing it through life. When you're the one checking your phone constantly to see if he texted, it all makes sense. In a very sucky way. And all my single friends feel the same, we all want intimacy. Just cuddles, warmth, someone to hug after a long day but in today's day and age all we get is mind games and hook-ups.
we're all in this together!! thank you for sharing this kaiti
After being in relationships non-stop since high school. This year I took the time to be fully single and picky about who I decide to let into my life. It was very rewarding experience and I got to focus on my mental, spiritual, and physical health. I ended up meeting a great guy and am in a relationship now! But, I wouldn't have minded being single longer. It was a great period of growth in my life.
I'm so glad you chose to share these thoughts with us! It's a reminder that we're not alone
Can’t wait to watch this sad but relaxing vlog on a Friday night! ❤
I'm sad and single and I'm okay with it. We're all in this together
this video literally came at the perfect time in my life omg I just got out of a relationship and getting back to the norm with just myself and it’s always hard but I know I don’t miss him, I just miss how he made me felt and the security that comes with a relationship whichhhhh can be better bc I know I can get that type of feeling from myself and friends/family!! we’re all in it together fr love u Katie and everyone!!!!
Loving this series and the new hair❤
"WE'RE ALL IN THIS TOGETHER" sorry about the break up, super excited to watch your video!
this made me feel less guilty as someone who had convo's with er ex after the breakup (mainly because we had to be in the same circles) love how you show realistic imagies of things in life we all deal with!
Omgggggg Kaiti your skin is literally glowing!!!!!
As a man. I understand girls pretened to be the "bad bitch who moved on." And as much as I experienced that front. I gotta say, I'm proud you got to be more honest and conscious about things. You have no idea how heartbreaking it is for men to have to see that attitude so thank you for being more mature about it. ❤❤
Dude you have no idea how much I needed to hear the analogy of the 103 degree fever because I have the emotional equivalent of that and I LOVE to beat myself up about it. But now i’m gonna go take a nap and talk to a loved one about it. ❤️
I am so proud of you Kaiti.❤ Thank you making this series!!
I adore that desire and moto which you have,and that is 'to grow'. I love it because I have learned throughout my life that as long as I go through hard and good times with this sentence in mind, I will be able to learn from them and still remain grateful. Keep going darling, keep your head up 💖💖
i don't mean to be insensitive to the main topic (which im very grateful ur sharing w us!), but i love the editing style of this series ahh
this series is a saviour fr
GIRLLLL I am so glad I found your channel. Love ya
Kaiti, is ok to want intimacy and a relationship. Is good to be proactive in looking for one.
Don't let people tell you other wise.
This video called me out (in a good way) SO MANY TIMES so real and relatable wow
The Ecclesiastes!! Appreciate you so much Kaiti
You are pure chaos girl and I love you 😂♥️
I was eyeing that shiba inu ngl. Glad you snatched him and gave him love at the end of the video. I do that with my similar looking plushy :) they’re so fun to throw
When she said "any person that you love *will* wrong you" oof. Hard. Pill. To. Swallow...
YEESSS WE'RE ALL IN THIS TOGETHER!!! LOVE YOU!!
Hey Kaiti, with the right person love is such a beautiful experience, hence you are not WRONG for wanting love and relationship. No matter how independent you are.
OMG YOUR HAIR
Love you Katie
theres a korean proverb. 혼자면 외롭고, 둘이면 괴롭다.
youre lonely if youre single and miserable when youre with someone. meaning, the grass is always greener on the otherside.
most peoples greatest fears is being alone and lonely. but we often forget the arguments and fights and pain we go through when we're with someone.
The ending caught me off guard lmaooo😭😭😭😭
love you!
Not her yeeting the emotional support plushie😭 does he have a name?
We all need community and love it’s ok to want that 💗
Thanks ! I can relate to you to u so much ! Helps me to be honest too
i'm going through and trying to heal from a breakup as well. i got myself a therapist couple months ago too so let's hope it'll just be a good lesson at the end.
No, same.
WE'RE ALL IN THIS TOGETHER, babe❤️
Was not prepared for 0:43 😂. It’s ok you’re only human, and we’ve all been there
we’re in this together ❤
We’re all in this togetherrrr 🎉
Katie is FAB-A-LU-OUS!!!!!
WE'RE ALL IN THIS TOGETHERRRRRRR~~~
As of now i still don't know the feeling of being dumped and sad. I wish you the best. That is why i always say on my channel that i proitize myself and gratitude. Stay Blessed 💜.
I felt very attacked but at least I learned something 😭 ily we’re all in this together 🥹
WE’RE ALL IN THIS TOGETHER 🫂🫂🫂🫂
Two words - "Needed this"
Feeling kinda shitty right now but I think this video will make my day ❤
Being emotions AND logical at the same time is effin’ difficult and yes, terrifying! Bruh
WERE ALL IN THIS TOGETHER
U r such a roll model
Role * 😅
Hahahaha nooo the intro !!!
Well being a bad bitch it'll depend on the other person.
Also, I just parted with my friends, I chose to. But they're good people it's just they aren't some people who will ever understand why I want to have a closure conversation with them so I really just chose not to meet them even though I really really want to.
Love this mini series Kaiti 💛💛💛
Well, it is too difficult these days to find a truly good person , let alone your soulmate. Good luck 🍀 with the matters of the ❤️. The time will be a good way to find someone else .
3:28 bars!!!
is there a link to the sermon from last episode? thx anyways
What's your mbti personality type, i'm curious
Lol, I guess this single season is my whole life, cuz lord knows I get rejected everytime I try. Guess I'm meant to be alone. 😭
Little reminder: please don't actually drain drugs and medicine down the toilette. Its bad for the environment, since it's almost impossible for water treatment facility to get rid of the remnants
Girl, speak for ur self ! We r all not single nor sad...😂😂
SpongeBob narrator popped in with that ONE WEEK LATER
Probably shouldn't be watching this while I'm sad, single and disappointed but whatever
so when's the podcast coming
Ummmm where’s your podcast. I need.
Hi❤❤
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I met up with him. Oh Gawd NO!!! But I understand
wE’rE aLL iN tHiS tOgEtHEr 👏
Was I the only one who watched this ar 2 am
Katie, I’ll take you out. Let’s get it 😂
I have noticed that compared to older videos you are cussing a lot less! I don't know if you got convicted by the Holy Spirit or anything but just wanted to let you know I noticed it lool.
Praying for your healing 🙏🏾
3:27 Every person that you love will wrong you ? Idk where you got that from.
There are lots of healthy relationships where nobody wrong anyone.
That's not possible.
@@Jessicaokoliet’s sad that you think that. I have been in multiple relationships where I didn’t wrong her and she didn’t wrong me. I know from experience that it is possible. If all you’re relationships are toxic and unhealthy “ego love” then yea is it impossible. I been on both side
@@Dr.Jekyll_ Because somebody wronged you does not mean they are toxic. The times you made them angry, you wronged them.
@@Jessicaokolie God bless my dear, hope your soul awakens one day.
I think what the other person means is that there's no perfect human just for you that will never make you angry or upset. There's a difference between toxic relationships and healthy ones, and you can still have arguments in a healthy relationship. Human beings are immensely different and unique, there's going to be some clashes sometimes.
Sorry - love your clip, but the fluffy thing at the end of the stick reminds me of a dead hamsters butt. Also - why are your eyebrows half missing? Looks cool!
lol😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Bunch cheung
Church people watched you grow. How can they get confused. Tan over by chan family. How you got that famous last name in church.
As a man:
- hearing your girlfriend want to be so independent is translated as "although men have a biological desire to be useful, I will give you no space for your biological reality as a man".
- then you are surprised by why a partner would break up with you?
- I had a little of that with my ex. She refused my help at times, and refused to help me. If that rupture has already been made by a woman, its much easier for a man to rupture it completely.