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    In today's video, I share my 20 simple rules to own less stuff. These are great, because they're easy to do, but they will automatically result in you owning less stuff and less clutter in your home. So whether you want to pursue minimalism, simple living, or just save money and spend less, this video will have some helpful ideas. Enjoy!
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  • @SimpleHappyZen
    @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci +15

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  • @charlottea.9642
    @charlottea.9642 Před 9 měsíci +197

    Great tips! Sometimes, I can tell that I'm desperately looking for something to buy (due to stress, boredom, frustration, you name it). When that happens, I allow myself some wiggle room and either buy a cute sticker or two (that I will eventually use and that occupy virtually no space) or I buy a new tea flavor or something that I will definitely consume within a couple of weeks. That approach is to be used carefully, obviously, but it does help me avoid bigger purchases on occasion.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci +22

      That's such a good point, thank you for making it! I can actually relate since I do it too :) Buying a new tea or something, or even looking up a new recipe to make. :)

    • @elainefuneralformyfatt1134
      @elainefuneralformyfatt1134 Před 9 měsíci +4

      Great idea

    • @Bessie66
      @Bessie66 Před 8 měsíci +1

      What a fab idea

    • @lorimcbrayer8431
      @lorimcbrayer8431 Před 5 měsíci

      Why think of purchasing something at all ??? Spend time watching different things on CZcams. I have been watching trials and interrogations on CZcams and they are very interesting.

  • @missroyalbtch
    @missroyalbtch Před 6 měsíci +20

    “Can I rent / borrow it??” is also a rule I use to stay minimalist. There are so many things you can rent or borrow from a friend (tools, a dress, a book, party decor). Love the great list of rules you have - some are new to me that I’ll be sure to try! 🤗❤️

  • @denisecarpenter2981
    @denisecarpenter2981 Před 22 dny +3

    I like to take pictures with my phone of beautiful things I want instead of buying them. I go back and look at them and enjoy that. It feels like I “own” them. And if I really still want it later on, I can get it but I usually forget about it after capturing it in a photo.

  • @joannpartin-qc8yc
    @joannpartin-qc8yc Před 26 dny +1

    Thank you for this helpful video! I’m now in the process of purging stuff & I’m pleased. I want my home to be calm & simplistic.

  • @feanorian21maglor38
    @feanorian21maglor38 Před 9 měsíci +35

    Great tips. Gift giving and receiving is a bit of an issue for us. My husband and I stopped giving each other stuff for gifts long ago. For birthdays, we go out to our favourite restaurant. We've never bought into the whole silly Valentine's thing, so we don't even exchange Valentine cards. and for Christmas presents, we try to arrange an experience together, like a couples massage or a weekend away with a cookery class. We prefer to save up and spend our money on experiences not clutter for the home. I have tried to get the whole family onboard, but it doesn't work! So our children and parents receive items as gifts, though we also gift experiences or things they can consume, such as tea or hot chocolate assortments, wine or food hampers. The truth is that as a family, we are very privileged to be in the position not to really need anything, so it's not even easy to think of appropriate gifts. The big occasions are about getting together for a nice meal, catching up, and playing silly games. That's what makes the memories.

  • @MrsMessalina
    @MrsMessalina Před 9 měsíci +5

    Vera, you are like a ray of sunshine!! The way you speak is so calming for my mental health, 😍I love your videos and the tips you share.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci +1

      Aw thank you so much, that's nice to hear 🤗☀️❤

  • @gretchendoyle8489
    @gretchendoyle8489 Před 9 měsíci +36

    I’m constantly looking around for things to declutter, but lately I’ve been doing a big cleanout. I was watching Hoarders and felt envious of having a big dumpster to just toss stuff in. I thought of getting one myself but decided I’d feel guilty about not donating. But I’m still imagining I have one. I think, “do I really want to just toss this in the dumpster and never think about it again?” If the answer is yes, then into the trash or donation box. So that’s my tip. Imagine having a dumpster.

    • @pinkroses135
      @pinkroses135 Před 9 měsíci +1

      😂 If that's where you're at in life and it's what you gotta do to have a peaceful home go for it. Especially if it's a basement, garage, closet learning lesson thing.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci +1

      Haha that's actually an interesting question to use! :) And I think we've all felt like wanting to just chuck things into a dumpster hahaha :) So if you would, then that's a good indication :)

  • @ashleycomer8451
    @ashleycomer8451 Před 9 měsíci +12

    Love the portrait of Daenerys Targaryen! Well done, especially for a first! :)

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci +2

      Ahw thanks!!! :) Glad someone at least recognized who I made the portrait of haha

  • @renehoffman4343
    @renehoffman4343 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Nice portrait choice! Mother of Dragons🐉

  • @merandasomnolentgamer8323
    @merandasomnolentgamer8323 Před 9 měsíci +13

    One of the ways I use my wishlist is that I reference it when sales and coupons come up. If I want to shop a sale or use a coupon, it has to be an item from my wishlist!

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci

      Ah that's clever! And a good way to take advantage of sales :)

  • @lizzabbott
    @lizzabbott Před 9 měsíci +5

    I recently helped my daughter with her major, out-of-state move. Her home was never cluttered. But she did have a couple large closets that became stuffed to the brim over time. Ditto some pretty full cupboards. A lot of new stuff had come in over recent years,, what with her getting married & having a baby. So boy did they ever purge a lot right before this move !! Several trips to donation cntrs , facebook posts about free stuff available to pick up ( including furniture) , items to a consignment shop, & yepp … more than usual garbage thrown out that last week B4 the move. And I bet they wouldn't mind letting go of even more ! So I am filling my own donation boxes at my home now, giving things away , & listing things to sell. I declutter pretty faithfully & yet … could def declutter more !! So I am !

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci

      Wow that sounds like so much progress!! Amazing :)

  • @cat999991
    @cat999991 Před 9 měsíci +13

    Vera, your soft gentle flexible way of minimizing/simplifying inspires me. Plus your delivery is always relaxing. I am trying to use things up. I am also giving things away that don't serve me well. And then having new purchases be more thought out. It seems that much of life is better lived with at least some kind of a plan. 😊

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci +1

      Thank you so much, and I'm happy to hear those strategies are working well for you too! :)

  • @gwenj5419
    @gwenj5419 Před 9 měsíci +9

    One way I limit my buying is by limiting the brands I buy. For example, I only have one brand of shoes and purses that I will buy. I've found they work well for me and it stops me looking at any purses or shoes in stores. Shoes and purses used to be big temptation for me.

    • @lsamoa
      @lsamoa Před 9 měsíci +1

      Oh, same for me and shoes!

    • @StellaM22
      @StellaM22 Před 3 měsíci +1

      This!!! I do this. It reduces stress and makes shopping so easy.

  • @stephaniechavira2924
    @stephaniechavira2924 Před 9 měsíci +3

    This is all new to me! I came across these kinds of videos about a week ago and we just opened a restaurant about 7 months ago so I am trying to make less work for myself at home so I can have a more relaxing peaceful home to come home to at the end of a stressful day! Thank you for sharing!

  • @goodwin.the.wizard
    @goodwin.the.wizard Před 9 měsíci +33

    Love your videos for their calming atmosphere! You always make my day a bit nicer 🙂

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci +3

      Aw thank you, that's so lovely to hear 🌷🤗🌱

    • @onimendez7735
      @onimendez7735 Před 9 měsíci +3

      💯 agree! 💕

    • @sl9906
      @sl9906 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Totally agree! So soothing and full of great advice too.

  • @xenavo6495
    @xenavo6495 Před 9 měsíci +27

    I love all your videos, Vera. You have really inspired me to own less stuff and live a simple, meaningful life that’s worth living. I can be truly happy with less items, and it is a blessing that I’ve come across your channel! Sending love❤

  • @Audrey.17
    @Audrey.17 Před 9 měsíci +9

    With #7. … it’s interesting - I am kinda going through something with this one.
    So, going shopping used to be quite an activity / time filler for me years ago.
    I notice that I replaced it with honing in on seasonal decor and really
    streamlining it.
    I did work on streamlining my clothes and shoes too.
    I feel like I am done with streamlining my holiday decor.
    And now- I miss shopping and bringing in new items to my home or my wardrobe. But - I don’t have a spot for the Knick knack. And the clothes… I feel like I have everything I need.
    So, I watch a ton of holiday decor videos, especially people that are showing what is in the stores. And I watch some fashion type videos too.
    I guess what I am saying is that I miss shopping, but also know it is a hobby I do not want to go back to. It’s boring and wasteful.
    My idea is to use my creativity with seasonal “stuff” towards maybe a seasonal tea.
    Or maybe making an easy seasonal dessert.
    I do try to bring nature into the home too. That helps too.

  • @heatherogoussan7984
    @heatherogoussan7984 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I take things that are free so I can donate them to shelter either abusive or homeless.

  • @flohough1870
    @flohough1870 Před 9 měsíci +5

    Agree with so many of these tips. I've never understood not wearing the same outfit twice, if I find something works, I'll wear it over and over again! We recently had our kitchen remodeled and in the packing up stage, I got rid of a lot, using a lot of the same rules, especially the duplicates. I did some more decluttering when I moved back in and I've reached a really great point where everything has a place, it's not a danger to get things out of cupboards, things are easy to find and most everything is getting used on a regular basis. I did replace a few things that were worn out and treated myself to a few new things that I knew would be useful, but other than that, I'm happy with the things I kept.

  • @Bessie66
    @Bessie66 Před 8 měsíci +2

    I find that buying the best kitchen items I can afford has saved me lots buy not repeat buying as they last longer

  • @olgakari660
    @olgakari660 Před 9 měsíci +57

    In my experience, back up's of skincare and makeup do make sense and I never in life regretted having them😂🎉

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci +25

      It helps if we can get our favorites on sale, so sometimes I will stock up on them a little bit as well. But I don't really venture out and get different ones, if I'm still using something that I'm really enjoying. But as with all tips, there's room to make it your own and do things in a way that works for you! :)

    • @lsamoa
      @lsamoa Před 9 měsíci +7

      I buy multiples of the basic care products I use all the time and don't want to run out of, like shower gel, toothpaste etc. They have a long shelf life and don't take up much space so it makes sense for me to stock up rather than keep having to go to the shop to refill.

    • @JaneDoeDoeDeeOhDoe
      @JaneDoeDoeDeeOhDoe Před 9 měsíci +8

      @@SimpleHappyZenI like to take advantage of sales on products I use regularly. I usually buy a little more than I think I'll need for a given period of time, so I won't run out and then be desperate to buy more when they're not on sale. It saves me a bit in the end.

    • @surendrafed
      @surendrafed Před 9 měsíci

      Only if you look ugly 😅

  • @carlienvandernet7902
    @carlienvandernet7902 Před 9 měsíci +4

    I really have to start again with decluttering. I made a big start, got rid of a load of stuff, but then I got health issues and the decluttering started to fade away. I still do get rid of small bits and pieces, but I really should start with the big projects again. I’m procrastinating to do the bedroom and closets and also the kitchen should be done again after changing to induction cooking. And there is still a big project to be done in my craftroom 😅.

  • @lisbethskaalum3680
    @lisbethskaalum3680 Před 8 měsíci +3

    I love, love, love your videos. Your advice make so much sense. I am guilty of almost all of the habits you address. Which explains why my home is too small. Greetings from Lisbeth (62) Denmark 🇩🇰

  • @mrs.rowland5184
    @mrs.rowland5184 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Tip #3 was really IT.
    I knew the version of "it is was ruined, would you be relieved to let I go?" -- but in all honesty, most of the time I actually cannot separate this from the guilt of having ruining it 😅😅 even theoretically 😅😅 (HSP here, yay 😂)
    By imagining the objects as desappearing from my life **not by my fault** everything was just so clear, and the list of things I discovered I wanted to declutter expanded immensely.
    THANK YOU, from an HSP that wants decluttering for increasing peace of mind and loving what I *truly* love about my possessions ❤

  • @carolwright2703
    @carolwright2703 Před 9 měsíci +6

    I'm a fairly new subscriber and I really enjoy the peaceful vibe of your channel, Vera. It's so relaxing to watch while I'm having my herbal tea. :) My home is pretty pared down, but I've noticed I have a weak spot for seasonal decor. I've started asking myself, "where is this going to go?" And because it will only be put out to enjoy for a few months, "do I really want to have to store this for most of the year?" It has helped me curb my purchases. Thank you for all your great ideas! :)

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci +3

      Thank you so much Carol for your kind comment! 🤗🌷 "Do I really want to have to store this for most of the year?" is a great question! Sometimes we only think of the initial cost of purchasing the item, but we don't consider the 'cost' of having to store it the rest of the year :)

  • @deedsh6280
    @deedsh6280 Před 9 měsíci +13

    Excellent video, all great tips. But a special thank you for including #4. It may be a classic, but it was also the one that was least intimidating to me when I started my declutter journey. It is a very doable baby step that at least feels like 'first do no harm'. Then it's less of a leap to gaining the mental strength to start getting rid of things or deciding your wants are not your needs can evolve. Thank you so much.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci +4

      Happy you enjoyed the video and that you enjoyed hearing #4! It's definitely one of the more easily accessible ones, and it has been valuable for me during different stages of my life, including right now with my wardrobe :)

  • @onimendez7735
    @onimendez7735 Před 9 měsíci +5

    Hi Vera! Always very glad to see a vid notification from you! 😊 And yes, I hit like before watching everytime. 💕

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci

      Thank you so much, I appreciate it!! Enjoy the video 🤗💕

    • @onimendez7735
      @onimendez7735 Před 9 měsíci

      @@SimpleHappyZen Thank you! I've been watching for 3 yrs and enjoy all your content and soothing voice. 😊

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci

      Wow, thank you for your support all this time!

  • @NintenJon2023
    @NintenJon2023 Před 9 měsíci +10

    Really like how relaxing your channel is. I think there’s just something about the INFJ personality type that makes us tend to declutter and keep our spaces orderly and clean. I’ve been applying much of this since I was a child and never really put too much thought into why I was that way until now as an adult.
    Also, that’s a beautiful entertainment center and living room at 7:07! As a gamer, I love what looks to be the PS5 and Nintendo Switch there as well. 😂

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci +1

      I love it!! :) Haha always nice to meet a fellow gamer :) It's one of our happy places in the house haha

  • @duvessa2003
    @duvessa2003 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Thank you for the ongoing inspiration 🌸

  • @jlewis364
    @jlewis364 Před 9 měsíci +8

    This info is so helpful for where I am at in my decluttering journey. I had become stuck, but want to go further. These new thoughts are already breaking down those walls keeping me stuck! Thank you!

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci +1

      So happy to hear it!! :) Have a wonderful day

  • @JasmineBrownOttawa
    @JasmineBrownOttawa Před 9 měsíci +4

    Vera, congratulations on the Get Organized conference! That is very exciting. I will check out the links to that for sure.

  • @shannond.9346
    @shannond.9346 Před 9 měsíci +5

    Such a great list of tips! Some of them I was already using but the one that really struck me, and that was immediately helpful, was number 9, see if there is something you can use that you already have instead of purchasing something new. As someone that loves to sew, among other hobbies, when I see new patterns and /or fabric I think ooh pretty! I had a couple patterns in an online cart, but when I heard tip 9, i went to my pattern stash and found lovely patterns i hadn't used yet and some quite similar to what was in the cart! Delete cart! I am going to make a practice of reviewing the wonderful things i have before making any purchases. Thank you, Vera!

  • @Georgiajafa
    @Georgiajafa Před 4 měsíci +3

    I definitely am an outfit repeater. One time the guy who works at my local supermarket asked me “is that the only outfit you own?” 🫠

  • @sushmita4713
    @sushmita4713 Před 26 dny

    I follow most of these rules daily. I am a natural minimalist who knew

  • @barbarahoffman2626
    @barbarahoffman2626 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Thank you for another inspiring video. I have done a lot of decluttering so far and feel less stressed and happier with each item I have let go, My once small apartment has suddenly become more spacious and open thanks to the lessons and advise you have so eloquently shared!

  • @juliapulles697
    @juliapulles697 Před 7 měsíci

    Appreciate your thoughtfulness as you share the ideas.

  • @queenbee7819
    @queenbee7819 Před 9 měsíci

    Excellent list. Thank you.

  • @jessykeim
    @jessykeim Před 9 měsíci

    I love your channel and I love listening to your calm voice, dear Vera! Greetings from Germany ❤

  • @debbiewhitney7289
    @debbiewhitney7289 Před 8 měsíci

    Thanks for the great tips! And the candle with the white heart cutouts was so sweet!

  • @Matthew8473
    @Matthew8473 Před 5 měsíci +1

    This is an insightful work; reminiscent of a book that was thought-provoking and detailed. "The Joy of Less: A Minimalist Living Guide" by Matthew Cove

  • @cassieAre
    @cassieAre Před 9 měsíci

    Great tips Vera. Thank you.

  • @gurbettecayicenadam5389
    @gurbettecayicenadam5389 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much ! It was great inspiration

  • @ardethellis8930
    @ardethellis8930 Před 9 měsíci +1

    No, I did not notice a candle.
    Congratulations for the invitation to present at the virtual conference. I just claimed my free ticket and I look forward to your talk. The all access pass is way more than I need. I went last year and found that there were too many presenters advocating bins and building/buying elaborate storage. That just doesn't work for me. My goal is to reduce my stuff so that it fits in the storage I already own.

  • @susannee.colella6109
    @susannee.colella6109 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Yes for the candle. I too love candles and have just a few that I swap out

  • @darrenpierson2650
    @darrenpierson2650 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I think the headphones made the vacuum much more exciting for you to use!😅 Thanks for the video!

  • @peggymann925
    @peggymann925 Před 9 měsíci

    You always have great tips, and congrats on the upcoming speaking event with the other speakers. And yes! I noticed the candle, thanks for it!

  • @milkaryg1251
    @milkaryg1251 Před 6 měsíci

    Great advices, thank you Vera ❤

  • @natalialenchuk1759
    @natalialenchuk1759 Před 9 měsíci +4

    I like decluttered space in my house so much more than what it looked like before. But one thing bothers me - decluttering seems to become (as a trend) more like a permanent process rather than a one-time action. And while a look 'here-and-there' for things that are rubbish or broken or used up is quite natural, decluttering constantly is more like an obsession (no offence to anyone, please) because we have purchased this item with some intention, why getting rid of it purely for decluttering purposes? Just thinking. Thanks to Vera for yet another calm and clear contemplation of necessary things and really useful tips.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci +1

      I agree decluttering shouldn't be just 'for the heck of it'. In a perfect world, we would buy everything intentionally and with purpose, so we never have to declutter. But in practice there will always be some changes, nothing is permanent, and decluttering will be an ongoing process, albeit with little 'trickles' instead of huge purges

  • @lauriep3334
    @lauriep3334 Před 6 měsíci +6

    I’m not a minimalist, but I have been decluttering a lot recently. I want to declutter a lot more items in the next 30 days.
    I enjoy viewing areas in your new home and many of your tips.
    How did you and your partner decide on your new color scheme?

  • @SirMopy
    @SirMopy Před 9 měsíci

    congratulations for speaking at the conference! and also good rules to understand and follow! thank you!

  • @PrincessofErised
    @PrincessofErised Před 9 měsíci +3

    Excellent and that portrait is Game of Thrones - Daenerys

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci +1

      Thanks you and yay, you recognized her!! 🤗🌷

  • @adreamclellan6924
    @adreamclellan6924 Před 8 měsíci +1

    What great tips. Thank you.

  • @margarethubbard1173
    @margarethubbard1173 Před 9 měsíci +2

    OMG the "just in case" one hits home. Also important when traveling and packing lighter! I am on a buying hiatus and made a vow to not purchase any personal care products until I use up what I have.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci

      Good point about packing light with traveling :)

  • @meenaximani9471
    @meenaximani9471 Před 8 měsíci

    Vera you are my inspiration.. I have started declutter my house long back ,and still the process is going on .

  • @lizzabbott
    @lizzabbott Před 9 měsíci +1

    Oooh Vera ! Yay ! Congrats on being invited to be a speaker @ the conference ! My friend Dawn is speaking there & has done so in the past, & I’ve told her about you . Woo hoo !! ( full disclosure : even tho she & I do converse one - on - one online some , & I converse online with her sister as well , when I say she’s my friend, it’s sincere… and she sincerely refers to all her viewers as friends. But relatively speaking, I’m among her viewer friends / not close circle of friends) . Great list of tips, Vera ! So helpful . And the classics are always good reminders. You are looking beautiful … & look how nicely your new home is all set up & cozy ! Wok ! Haha ! I think it’s originally a Chinese word, although it’s made its way into English. Your English is better than some native speakers ! It flows …. is eloquent, relaxed, smart & engaging. Much love from Buffalo , New York USA … on beautiful Lake Erie : one of the Five Great Lakes ! Such a special area ! Lake Erie alone takes about six hours or more to drive from one end to another ! NOT a typo ! Astounding , right ? Oooh dang I dud not notice the candle .

  • @wholeplantfoodgal5134
    @wholeplantfoodgal5134 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Your videos really inspire me. Thank you!

  • @sharonshmuel3386
    @sharonshmuel3386 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Hi Vera, yes I noticed the candle 🕯️ very helpful tips & content. Mostly agree with you on all. Your home is looking lovely & your 1st portrait is very good. Have a lovely weekend ❤

  • @heliamartins3378
    @heliamartins3378 Před 9 měsíci

    Lovely video Vera better and better .,, so inspiring

  • @jonklause5130
    @jonklause5130 Před 9 měsíci

    Just came across your channel. Great information thank you so much.

  • @Flukey_1970
    @Flukey_1970 Před 9 měsíci

    Great advice as usual Have a great week. 😀

  • @williamclark1244
    @williamclark1244 Před 9 měsíci +4

    I saw you listed as a speaker when I registered last week for the Get Organized HQ. I'm very excited for you 😃
    Regarding the list I do most of what you have on here but #5 can be my struggle. Plants are also my gateway purchase. I can never buy just one. #20 - I love a wish list. It really does keep the spending under control.
    The portrait was easy to identify: Daenerys Targaryen. It looks great. Thank you for sharing.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci

      Ah thanks!!! :) See you there! Also glad to hear you enjoyed the list :)

  • @bumblebee_mrs
    @bumblebee_mrs Před 9 měsíci +2

    Great video Vera, thanks.

  • @gillianm9367
    @gillianm9367 Před 9 měsíci +6

    I made the decision recently to remove all decorative items from my home except for a couple of vases.
    I bought a bumper pack of tissue and wrapped all my ceramic objects, photo frames (after removing the photos!), glass ornaments and miscellaneous knick knacks and packed them carefully into 2 large bags for the charity shop.
    I intend to move next Spring/Summer and wish to take the bare minimum with me when I go so I will be clearing methodically over the next few months.
    I realised that I my life has moved on recently and now prefer the look of a 'clean and contemporary' home to the 'cosy minimalist' look I favoured before.
    Cosy minimalist is a good look except I found I was always looking for new ornaments to make me feel happy SO I realised the solution was to remove them all.
    Keeping my vases allows me to switch up the look by buying fresh flowers as an occasional treat.
    Now when I visit my favourite shops I can admire the pretty ornaments without feeling the urge to buy.
    I want each of my rooms to be entirely clutter free so I can begin the next chapter of my life with as little stress as possible.
    So a good tip for decluttering is to prepare as though you intend to put your house up for sale - even if you aren't! 😊

  • @andreawales1938
    @andreawales1938 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I didn’t notice the candle and only found out about it when you mentioned it at the end of the video.

  • @soumiabenrochd1396
    @soumiabenrochd1396 Před 9 měsíci

    You're just lovely dear Vera ❤ Thanks for this interesting video which helps me remember some of the things I can always do to live a simpler and more peaceful life.
    Cheers from Morocco 😊

  • @sandraboose3686
    @sandraboose3686 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Congratulations to you! Know you will do great@

  • @mommyaysa3072
    @mommyaysa3072 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you for the idea

  • @noemibonfiglio5145
    @noemibonfiglio5145 Před 9 měsíci +1

    From a non minimalist, really useful video! I really appreciate your work Vera, send you much love ❤

  • @peggybelcher4679
    @peggybelcher4679 Před 6 měsíci

    Congratulations!

  • @cathylynnpietranton
    @cathylynnpietranton Před 9 měsíci +1

    Hi Vera you have some great tips.Thank you so much. I try to practice mindfulness on all areas of my life especially when it comes to buying stuff. By the way my husband and I thought you did an excellent job on your self portrait Sending hugs. ❤❤❤❤

  • @sylviakanel9766
    @sylviakanel9766 Před 9 měsíci +1

    💜Thanks!💜

  • @Koki-yy1dm
    @Koki-yy1dm Před 9 měsíci +2

    Hi Vera, you inspire me a lot.❤

  • @user-sw6oe3mn1t
    @user-sw6oe3mn1t Před 4 měsíci +1

    When I buy socks I only use 7 pairs. The rest go to storage and next time I need socks I have some already

  • @The-Pink-Checkered-Floor
    @The-Pink-Checkered-Floor Před 9 měsíci

    CONGRATS on being asked to speak! 🥰 And I enjoyed this video! Thank you!

  • @autorinmitkatze
    @autorinmitkatze Před 9 měsíci +2

    Thank you so much for your guidelines! I am very prone to impulse buying, but I learn. :) Last week I put some washi tapes and bullet journal stuff into my cart and removed it again befor paying for the things I really needed. I try to work with the Wish List and favour "one in, one out" when it comes to books and art supplies (and cat toys ...). Right now I am thinking about selling or donating my guitar, because I never got to learn to play it and now play the ukulele instead.
    I love your portrait of Danaerys! (OMG, did I spell it the right way?)

  • @Kristenoyinbo
    @Kristenoyinbo Před 5 měsíci

    I want to live in a tiny house soon and I need to get rid of most of my stuff. I love to donate to goodwill

  • @JaneDoeDoeDeeOhDoe
    @JaneDoeDoeDeeOhDoe Před 9 měsíci +5

    Great tips, Vera. Thanks especially for the rule about asking yourself if you'd actually pay for something someone will give you for free. Free stuff is very tempting, but often it just feels like taking on more junk.
    Congratulations on being invited to speak at the event. You're going to be a hit!

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci

      Aw thank you, that's so sweet 💕🤗 I'm a little nervous for it, so it's nice to hear :)

  • @leanna4170
    @leanna4170 Před 9 měsíci +3

    You asked if we noticed the candle burning--yes, sitting next to the bouquet of flowers. I always notice that little glass lotus flower decoration too.
    Like you, I really value a minimalist lifestyle. I wonder why some people are the opposite and fill their homes with stuff? Of my own family, I'm the only one who dislikes clutter. I wonder what makes us different?

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci

      That's a good question! Different people thrive in different environments I guess? Or it has to do with personality? :) Life experience? Probably all of the above haha

    • @sarahmacrae8277
      @sarahmacrae8277 Před 9 měsíci

      For some it is growing up in poverty they didn't have even what was needed never mind what they wanted. Others are still poor so if they get rid of something they later need they can't afford to buy it again. Others it's trauma maybe they went through a phase in life where someone else got rid of or destroyed what was precious to them so now they hang on to everything.

    • @leanna4170
      @leanna4170 Před 9 měsíci

      Makes sense, @@sarahmacrae8277

  • @artriciagaston1486
    @artriciagaston1486 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Thanks for saving me from spending money on an LV bag today. I just looked at it two or three times and then told myself (firmly) that I don't need it just because it was on sale. You have helped me change my life in so many ways! Thanks again...

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci

      Ah that's great!!! You can be proud of yourself, since you're the one who did the work :)

  • @teresaromero8655
    @teresaromero8655 Před 9 měsíci +2

    I like your videos about Minimalism !

  • @shoppingislifeuk
    @shoppingislifeuk Před 9 měsíci

    Thanks

  • @skdow
    @skdow Před 9 měsíci

    I really like the last tip - 'Make a Wish List'. Thank you!

  • @janetmurphy4575
    @janetmurphy4575 Před 9 měsíci

    Wonderful video (I always enjoy your content and learn something new.)
    I like the candle in the background, but I didn’t notice it until you said something. 😅

  • @MistressYumi
    @MistressYumi Před 9 měsíci +2

    I have a few backups for things I love because it’s nice not to have go through the process of shopping when they wear /runout. 😂

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci

      It helps if we can get our favorites on sale, so sometimes I will stock up on them a little bit as well. But I don't really venture out and get different ones, if I'm still using something that I'm really enjoying. But as with all tips, there's room to make it your own and do things in a way that works for you! :)

  • @juliemarkham4332
    @juliemarkham4332 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Thank you for the free ticket link for the event!

  • @pippyg7747
    @pippyg7747 Před 9 měsíci

    I did NOT notice the candle but I went back and it looks so cute!

  • @debbiematthews981
    @debbiematthews981 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Great video and yes I saw your candle 🩵

  • @helen1859
    @helen1859 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Great video Vera. I'm moving house soon and these tips are very helpful. 🏡

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci

      Thank you Helen!! Good luck and wishing you all the best with the move!!!

  • @Elegeia1
    @Elegeia1 Před 9 měsíci +1

    amen for number 16 😄great video as always and I'll definitely be looking into that online conference 🤓

  • @chillibird2511
    @chillibird2511 Před 9 měsíci +2

    I have one each of my face cream. When that cream has a third left; I check the store each week on the price of a new one. When on sale I buy it. That way I can safe money. I do the donatebin idea too ❤

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci

      I do that too :) Great way to take advantage of sales

  • @anitaluevano9643
    @anitaluevano9643 Před 7 měsíci

    Simple life is what i want

  • @mastandstars5869
    @mastandstars5869 Před 9 měsíci +2

    I usually forget that English isn’t your first language. It’s very impressive. Have a great week 😎

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci

      Aw thanks!! :) I was confused by the word wok because it also sounds like walk! :) So I didn't know if I was pronouncing it correctly

  • @debracampbell9035
    @debracampbell9035 Před 9 měsíci

    I noticed your candle. I think, cause you were filming in a different room. Always enjoy your channel. Thank you for your tips. Enjoy your day.

  • @Robert-qm1ld
    @Robert-qm1ld Před 9 měsíci +2

    The candle is normal and usual for you. We've seen it many times before so probably don't really notice that it is there, like the mirror that used to be in many videos. 🤩😃

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci +2

      Haha that's a good point. The lotus candle holder is a staple here 😁

  • @pinkroses135
    @pinkroses135 Před 9 měsíci +2

    #11 is the secret to getting your home to run like a well oiled machine. Very helpful tips.

  • @anitac13
    @anitac13 Před 9 měsíci

    Thanks again for a great video, didn’t notice and candles at all 😂

  • @rebeccarendle3706
    @rebeccarendle3706 Před 9 měsíci +9

    Great video😊. The squiggle spoon example made me laugh 😂. I justed watched the interior designer Nick today and he said no to buying those spoons because they have no design longevity and he said "anyway, do you really want to put something in your mouth that looks like sperm" 😂

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  Před 9 měsíci +4

      Hahahaha that's funny 🤣🤣🤣 They do look like sperm!

  • @kaybrown4010
    @kaybrown4010 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I like to give my grandchildren (once they’re school aged) $20 and the gift of together-time. They all have toys and books aplenty!

  • @ingramota1191
    @ingramota1191 Před 9 měsíci

    Excelent video!
    Every day you get better!
    Sorry, i dont see the candle because is small and the light dont let show well (for me that whatch in cellphone).
    Big hug from a brazilian that lives in Portugal ♡