i was more thinking, 1st that you dont spend time with someone for 8 years and not build a connection to them even if its just a deep friendship let alone if your fucking for that long, god i know people who wanted to be fwb and yet caught feelings after a few weeks... and 2nd if it meant nothing and she had no connection to him, why did she still go to see him while she knew her husband was back home xD
I love how they were ok with him going initially. Then, never bothered to open their mouths and tell him their issues, and lay it all on him. Manipulation at its finest.
Bro it's not easy to divorce . She will most likely get the amount to herself because she is the woman and he is will most likely lose the money because of alimony and child support so yah . That's why divorcing will do no good to him in anyway as of now
@@allanbenoy6092 For *him* there is no reason to divorce *now*, he's in Dubai. For *her*, she needs a divorce to get out of the legal mess. Back *then*, if she really was so lonely, she should have worked with him to live together or divorced instead of stringing this guy along.
@allanbenoy6092 she could have gotten a divorce before now and dated anyone she wanted but decided to stay and waste his time and ruin her image of herself to her daughters. She had choices but choose the dumb@$$ route.
@boredpersonstory553 that's the problem Divorce needs both sign And he would have demanded a explanation and beside a cheating wife won't miss out on the easy bag he has been giving and also didn't expect him to come early so she wanted to keep it hidden and get that bag and not work
@@experiencedotaku171 I just realized this story is fake and written by ai, so I deleted the comments lol. Get out of this youtube space as fast as you can.
The problem is that you are away, but they don't want you to come back. The other guy means nothing but you are in town and they go there to see him. She loves you but doesn't end the affair. For me that's enough to never see those two again.
Wife and mother should not be forgiven. They had no problem spending his money or living in a house he was paying for. The mother especially because that's her son she let down
The sob story was bollocks, if she felt that way she could have just said the distance isn't working, I want a divorce. The mother has no excuse, she was being supported by him, so the approve of the affair against her own son while he's supporting her is just toxic.
while being separated by a sea is certainly a challenge, he did it all to make sure his family would never want for anything other than his presence and never once did anyone express missing him or needing his attention but the second he comes back "oh it's your fault for not paying more attention to us" get real he was just a meal ticket to her hence why she didn't file for divorce or want him to come back because she was perfectly content using him for money while playing with her hardware store boytoy which that guy had no business trying to throw OP out of his store given what was going on. but all of this pales in comparison to the fact his own mother not only was covering it but hugged the AP as if he was family or a good friend any good mother would have done everything in her power to tell her son about the affair.
I call BS on the wife's reasons for being lonely. If she was so lonely she could have gotten off her butt and flown to Dubai to see her husband like he made the many attempts to do so. Nope, she wanted to cheat. She had her cake and got to eat it for eight years while he supported her financially.
It sounds like he came back every couple of months. But this is what a lot of people do who work in Dubai, like Indians, because they can earn far better abroad than at home, and send that money back to their family back home. If the wife is cashing those checks, maybe she should show some loyalty?
I had a classmate, which dad also worked in different country. He was back for some holidays and all, also took a decade or so to be back for good (and open his own shop back home, when he gathered enough money), and from what I know, their relationship survived. So yeah, it is possible to live long-distance, not for everyone, but still
I’m not fond of LDR but if she got lonely she should’ve told him. It’s not like she’s the only one sacrificing atleast she has her family near her the husband is literally alone in another country.
@@justinekho4751 Which is the main problem, most relationships and marriages die because people don't openly talk about the problems they're having but because they act irrationally in order to make themselfs believe that their actions are justifiable.
You know this channel peddles such over the top AI generated stories. Some key giveaway vocabs are - Grasp Grappling Complex web of emotions Mend the fence/bridge Overwhelming betrayal Also, when OP is going through life changing events, they turn into a third person in their story and start preaching. WTF Add other words if anyone has any.
“Make it seem like a pleasant surprise” “Over the next few weeks driven by a mix of anger and emotions.” I hate the way these AI stories speak. They dont sound like a real person wrote this
I was thinking the same thing. The description of each action is too detailed to be an actual real life story. I mean who remembers such details? It sounds like an English Literature assignment
I wouldnt give either one the time of day. They had no problem accepting all the money you sent back and you had offered both of them to join you but neither one wanted to do that. Let Jessica get a job.
If I remember correctly he asked her to be with him. If she was lonely it was her own fault. She should have called him and said she was ready to go with him. But it's so much easier to destroy what you have than to lessen the pain. And when people use dead family members it just shows how deeply they disregard and disrespect someone feelings. I think her husband would be disappointed that she condoned cheating.
Personally, I don’t put much stock in long distance relationships…. Should she have cheated and his mother kept that secret, no of course not but as soon as he was looking at leaving the country and the family stayed behind, particularly for 13 years, divorce should have really been on the table.
Well, I know a couple in real life like this though similar but a little bit different. The husband cheated, he then live together with the mistress but the wife never divorce him which according to the wife, it’s her punishment to them since they will never be able to get married and the other woman will always be nothing but a mistress and she as the legal wife will always have rights towards anything that belongs to the husband even the husband himself is legally bound to the wife since they’re legally married. Note: The mistress is an actress so she has a reputation to protect
Now how many times did u ask them to come with you? If they were so lonely why did they not want you to come back to Texas when you told them you wanted to come back?
Should he have probably spent more time with them? Yes. But just because someone decided to park in your spot on the street doesn't mean you get to burn their house down. You need to voice your issues to the partner, and if you couldn't make it work: break up.
I hate it when women uses the stupid excuse that the man who is working provides is not showing attention which he does because if he wasn't the bills wouldn't be paid
his mother was a good mother in law by finding the wife a boyfreind while her son was away. She didnt want the daughter in law to be lonely while her son was away working hard for the entire family. The husband a 6 figure man gave everyone a good life, an upper income life only to be treated like the lowlest of men,. All he sacrifice for a common streetgirl, a trollop of the highest magnitude. They want things to go back to how they were, he can go back overseas to his high paying, and they can go back to there comfortable lives, the wife will pinky promise not to cheat anymore. The wife can now go back to the streets, to prance around in her too tight red minidress and worn high heels.
This story comes across as if it were written by a dyslexic parrot. The sentence structure is young, and it repeats itself endlessly. I strongly suspect AI
let me tell you one thing many people in asia specifically indian subcontinent moves to middle east for better opportunity for their entire family and THIS PEOPLE ARE USUALLY THE "MAN" who has to work endlessly to provide for their family. unlike the OP who can visit his fam every 6 months not everyone is lucky who either gets to see their family once a year or once every 2 year. Many of these woman wont cheat. having a family also mean you neeed to provide for them especially even you have kids. its a foreign concept in america and europe becz most people dont know that becz those are developed and first world countries every jobs opportunity is alot compare to other countries in asia and africa. AND YES YOU CAN LEAVE THE MARRIAGE IF U FEEL ALONE AND NOT having a partner with you at every moment thats something i can empathize with but doesnt meaning you can cheat on that very person who try to provide for u and ur kids.
Don't blame yourself because you financially supported them but when youb wanted to come home they said no so you were only a pocketbook to them only so divorce them bot you did nothing wrong because you didnt cheat to satisfy your needs bud. A cheater will always try n turn the table to say you drove me to it, bullshit they made a conscious effort to do it they only wanted your $
So if he didn't do it he would have been labeled as a poor provider. But now its, I don't see you enough I don't have enough time with you I felt lonely get a damn hobby. The reason she stay is because he was a good provider he was financially stable and he was able to take care of their financial needs. So of course she's not going to give that up because if she give that up then she has to figure out a way to take care of herself.
Too many impertinent things was said on this story. You could actually skip the first 15mins. I don't even think that this is a true story. It's probably from a wanna be writer who posted this in reddit. What a waste of time
Buddy the Great Recession was 2008. If you’re barely sending your family since then, then what did you expect. I’ll never agree with cheating but damn man, 13 years?
Maybe it's a cultural thing, but this is common in poor countries, where the husband goes abroad to work and sends money back home, and the wife stays home to take care of the family. When the economy got better, he could have gone back. But then again, he had built a business in Dubai that was funding the lifestyle back home, and maybe this guy felt responsible for keeping up that lifestyle, at least while the kids were at home. But it sounds like she got back the loyalty from him that he gave to her.
@@WagyuYetiThese channels are just scraping content off of Reddit in an AI voice. Whether the posts on Reddit are fake or not is another story, but as people often say on those threads, who cares? Is the story entertaining ?
Bro is in dubai, he needs to put some money aside a get a Lebanese woman for the night. The most expensive of them all types. You won't regret it, you plain american white woman is no match.
@@visibleinvisible6636 then don't put themselves in a position to be cheated on...and what really cracks me up are the ones who get cheated on and have to pay alimony, lose their home and financially support an affair child..yeah cheatings wrong but if your stupid enough to marry then ...yeah I have no sympathy and you deserve to get whatever ..no law or no one forced one to marry...I find it hilarious 😂😅
Only loved the convenience of having someone as safety and backup. Someone that truly loves someone as a life partner can't see others in a sexual way when it comes to it. if they do they doesn't love them as a life partner only as something temporary. even hard times and loneliness cant change that. There are a lot of educated individuals that comes with other things on the topic. the funny thing many of them are cheaters and cheaters have bonding and attachment problems that prevents them to love that way also deep rooted attitude problems they haven't addressed.
They "loved" him and the affair meant "nothing". Yet, when OP has a chance to move back home they didn't want him to.
he even suggested they move to Dubai with him, but they refused as well
i was more thinking, 1st that you dont spend time with someone for 8 years and not build a connection to them even if its just a deep friendship let alone if your fucking for that long, god i know people who wanted to be fwb and yet caught feelings after a few weeks... and 2nd if it meant nothing and she had no connection to him, why did she still go to see him while she knew her husband was back home xD
I love how they were ok with him going initially. Then, never bothered to open their mouths and tell him their issues, and lay it all on him. Manipulation at its finest.
If she was so lonely she would have jumped on the many chances OP gave for them to out there or you GET A DIVORCE and not waste anyone's time.
Bro it's not easy to divorce . She will most likely get the amount to herself because she is the woman and he is will most likely lose the money because of alimony and child support so yah . That's why divorcing will do no good to him in anyway as of now
@@allanbenoy6092 For *him* there is no reason to divorce *now*, he's in Dubai. For *her*, she needs a divorce to get out of the legal mess. Back *then*, if she really was so lonely, she should have worked with him to live together or divorced instead of stringing this guy along.
@allanbenoy6092 she could have gotten a divorce before now and dated anyone she wanted but decided to stay and waste his time and ruin her image of herself to her daughters.
She had choices but choose the dumb@$$ route.
@boredpersonstory553 that's the problem
Divorce needs both sign
And he would have demanded a explanation and beside a cheating wife won't miss out on the easy bag he has been giving and also didn't expect him to come early so she wanted to keep it hidden and get that bag and not work
Exactly! She could have said something
Look at it from the wife’s point of view, she is able to live her best life while receiving endless amounts of money!!! Who would give that up???
Specially when his mom is your mom now and he is gone for 13 years
A decent human being?
She could have also just divorce him and get half like a good gold digger but choose the dumba$$ routine
This is vile 😭
@@experiencedotaku171 I just realized this story is fake and written by ai, so I deleted the comments lol. Get out of this youtube space as fast as you can.
@@erencanaslan7989 all of these stories are fake yk-
The problem is that you are away, but they don't want you to come back. The other guy means nothing but you are in town and they go there to see him. She loves you but doesn't end the affair. For me that's enough to never see those two again.
Wife and mother should not be forgiven. They had no problem spending his money or living in a house he was paying for. The mother especially because that's her son she let down
She used him for the money.
"Life we built TOGETHER" 😂
Gaslighting like an early 1900’s oven in the winter time.
They dont want him they want his resources, leave them
I can't believe this. This is not how a 50 year old would talk
yeah, this seems like someone whos trying to write a book or something.
She didnt end it coz your money was useful
The worst betrayal is your the ops mom.
Yes,she was worse.
The sob story was bollocks, if she felt that way she could have just said the distance isn't working, I want a divorce.
The mother has no excuse, she was being supported by him, so the approve of the affair against her own son while he's supporting her is just toxic.
It was easier to betray and abandon him than to communicate for them.
while being separated by a sea is certainly a challenge, he did it all to make sure his family would never want for anything other than his presence and never once did anyone express missing him or needing his attention but the second he comes back "oh it's your fault for not paying more attention to us" get real he was just a meal ticket to her hence why she didn't file for divorce or want him to come back because she was perfectly content using him for money while playing with her hardware store boytoy which that guy had no business trying to throw OP out of his store given what was going on. but all of this pales in comparison to the fact his own mother not only was covering it but hugged the AP as if he was family or a good friend any good mother would have done everything in her power to tell her son about the affair.
They didnt love him. They loved his money. Sell the house forcefully. have buddies tell everyone about the shop so they can mess with it.
Why is Jessica so worried about OP's money her AP is hardware store owner so once business picks up she should be on easy streets
Never a good idea to leave your spouse alone for 13 years.
This is true. But if she loved him she would have moved with him.
Never a good idea to cheat on your spouse.
I call BS on the wife's reasons for being lonely. If she was so lonely she could have gotten off her butt and flown to Dubai to see her husband like he made the many attempts to do so. Nope, she wanted to cheat. She had her cake and got to eat it for eight years while he supported her financially.
How is even a relationship anymore if you haven’t seen each other in 13 years 🤨
It sounds like he came back every couple of months.
But this is what a lot of people do who work in Dubai, like Indians, because they can earn far better abroad than at home, and send that money back to their family back home. If the wife is cashing those checks, maybe she should show some loyalty?
I had a classmate, which dad also worked in different country. He was back for some holidays and all, also took a decade or so to be back for good (and open his own shop back home, when he gathered enough money), and from what I know, their relationship survived. So yeah, it is possible to live long-distance, not for everyone, but still
He came back every few months.
I’m not fond of LDR but if she got lonely she should’ve told him. It’s not like she’s the only one sacrificing atleast she has her family near her the husband is literally alone in another country.
@@justinekho4751 Which is the main problem, most relationships and marriages die because people don't openly talk about the problems they're having but because they act irrationally in order to make themselfs believe that their actions are justifiable.
You know this channel peddles such over the top AI generated stories. Some key giveaway vocabs are -
Grasp
Grappling
Complex web of emotions
Mend the fence/bridge
Overwhelming betrayal
Also, when OP is going through life changing events, they turn into a third person in their story and start preaching. WTF
Add other words if anyone has any.
“Make it seem like a pleasant surprise”
“Over the next few weeks driven by a mix of anger and emotions.”
I hate the way these AI stories speak. They dont sound like a real person wrote this
I was thinking the same thing. The description of each action is too detailed to be an actual real life story. I mean who remembers such details? It sounds like an English Literature assignment
Nah..this sounds like typical Reddit beta male stories
I wouldnt give either one the time of day. They had no problem accepting all the money you sent back and you had offered both of them to join you but neither one wanted to do that. Let Jessica get a job.
Holy cow you didn't see that? Dude I'd check DNA of the children bro was she ever faithful to you
If I remember correctly he asked her to be with him. If she was lonely it was her own fault. She should have called him and said she was ready to go with him. But it's so much easier to destroy what you have than to lessen the pain. And when people use dead family members it just shows how deeply they disregard and disrespect someone feelings. I think her husband would be disappointed that she condoned cheating.
This video is making me sick to my stomach
The sisterhood at its finest.
They loved his money , never him.
WHY are there SO MANY STORIES of Mom's doing this to their Sons?... A Father would NEVER do this to his Daughter. 🤦🏾♂️
I mean..... Couldn't she get a job?..... Like a normal person?
Personally, I don’t put much stock in long distance relationships…. Should she have cheated and his mother kept that secret, no of course not but as soon as he was looking at leaving the country and the family stayed behind, particularly for 13 years, divorce should have really been on the table.
OP's mom definitely cheated on his father.
Well, I know a couple in real life like this though similar but a little bit different. The husband cheated, he then live together with the mistress but the wife never divorce him which according to the wife, it’s her punishment to them since they will never be able to get married and the other woman will always be nothing but a mistress and she as the legal wife will always have rights towards anything that belongs to the husband even the husband himself is legally bound to the wife since they’re legally married. Note: The mistress is an actress so she has a reputation to protect
Now how many times did u ask them to come with you? If they were so lonely why did they not want you to come back to Texas when you told them you wanted to come back?
If they're feeling that lonely they should go and live with you wife is handling the daughters but mother should go right
Should he have probably spent more time with them? Yes.
But just because someone decided to park in your spot on the street doesn't mean you get to burn their house down. You need to voice your issues to the partner, and if you couldn't make it work: break up.
Clean out the checking accounts and ghost them dont confront them
Is this a psychologist's essay? It is like a study of feelings, how to handle them, etc..
Ai is still not the best at this kind of things
Idk Bout this one. 13 years of being in another country is not really a marriage anymore
I hate it when women uses the stupid excuse that the man who is working provides is not showing attention which he does because if he wasn't the bills wouldn't be paid
In my country a triple homicide is just 25 years
his mother was a good mother in law by finding the wife a boyfreind while her son was away. She didnt want the daughter in law to be lonely while her son was away working hard for the entire family. The husband a 6 figure man gave everyone a good life, an upper income life only to be treated like the lowlest of men,. All he sacrifice for a common streetgirl, a trollop of the highest magnitude.
They want things to go back to how they were, he can go back overseas to his high paying, and they can go back to there comfortable lives, the wife will pinky promise not to cheat anymore. The wife can now go back to the streets, to prance around in her too tight red minidress and worn high heels.
....i mean so what wasnt the guy alone? In a foreign country away from all of his family....was he not lonely? Poor excuse
I think I'd have taken on a PI to find the proof.
Thats what happens when you give people your all, they betray you
This story comes across as if it were written by a dyslexic parrot. The sentence structure is young, and it repeats itself endlessly. I strongly suspect AI
Who the fuck wants to move to Dubai?
Everyone kid. Get a life
@@NEVERGIVEUPEVERlol no
If the house was his he should’ve sold it then she would’ve been really mad😊
Thats all he was t tthem a wage slave , they didnt care about him
He was working for them, they just wanted his resources, ave straight up lied shes into the new man, mefr them alone but not without resources
Sometimes I believe these people are just simple asf. Like OMG I can't believe my wife would cheat on me after not living together for 13 years smfh
let me tell you one thing many people in asia specifically indian subcontinent moves to middle east for better opportunity for their entire family and THIS PEOPLE ARE USUALLY THE "MAN" who has to work endlessly to provide for their family. unlike the OP who can visit his fam every 6 months not everyone is lucky who either gets to see their family once a year or once every 2 year. Many of these woman wont cheat. having a family also mean you neeed to provide for them especially even you have kids. its a foreign concept in america and europe becz most people dont know that becz those are developed and first world countries every jobs opportunity is alot compare to other countries in asia and africa. AND YES YOU CAN LEAVE THE MARRIAGE IF U FEEL ALONE AND NOT having a partner with you at every moment thats something i can empathize with but doesnt meaning you can cheat on that very person who try to provide for u and ur kids.
the man didn't cheat for 13 years. why do people try to find excuses for shitty subhumans on the internet...
Don't blame yourself because you financially supported them but when youb wanted to come home they said no so you were only a pocketbook to them only so divorce them bot you did nothing wrong because you didnt cheat to satisfy your needs bud. A cheater will always try n turn the table to say you drove me to it, bullshit they made a conscious effort to do it they only wanted your $
It's sad how so many in this comment section thinks he deserved to be cheated on is pathetic.
So if he didn't do it he would have been labeled as a poor provider.
But now its, I don't see you enough I don't have enough time with you I felt lonely get a damn hobby.
The reason she stay is because he was a good provider he was financially stable and he was able to take care of their financial needs.
So of course she's not going to give that up because if she give that up then she has to figure out a way to take care of herself.
this dude sounds pretty desi, "hunky doori" is commonly used hindi saying and he also works in dubai??
Good for op
I'm sorry but 13 years is a damn long time, you can't say as soon as possible if you've been gone 13 years
He said he came back every few months and tired to have them moved with him.
This dude is a pos
Is this for real or a made up story ? Made up.
Too many details. Way too long.
Too many impertinent things was said on this story. You could actually skip the first 15mins. I don't even think that this is a true story. It's probably from a wanna be writer who posted this in reddit. What a waste of time
Buddy the Great Recession was 2008. If you’re barely sending your family since then, then what did you expect. I’ll never agree with cheating but damn man, 13 years?
The fuck. You think he wanted to be away from them?
@@dpjordan2206 you think in 13 years you couldn’t find another job? Just another long drawn out AI scripted story.
Maybe it's a cultural thing, but this is common in poor countries, where the husband goes abroad to work and sends money back home, and the wife stays home to take care of the family.
When the economy got better, he could have gone back. But then again, he had built a business in Dubai that was funding the lifestyle back home, and maybe this guy felt responsible for keeping up that lifestyle, at least while the kids were at home.
But it sounds like she got back the loyalty from him that he gave to her.
@@WagyuYetiThese channels are just scraping content off of Reddit in an AI voice. Whether the posts on Reddit are fake or not is another story, but as people often say on those threads, who cares? Is the story entertaining ?
@@WagyuYetino it's not that easy
I'd double check the laws where your ex lives since financial cutting off your wife is a crime in some places until your divorced
Obviously fake
Leaving your spouse for over 10 years and u expected her to do what? Bffr
Bro is in dubai, he needs to put some money aside a get a Lebanese woman for the night.
The most expensive of them all types.
You won't regret it, you plain american white woman is no match.
Well, if you have to PAY for a woman. What does that say about you? Is this why you hate American women?
Bro's capable of creating a business from scratch in foreign country but not capable of knowing what's happening in his own family.
No sympathy...he choose marriage and thus deserves it
You on drugs
Nobody deserves to be cheated on
@@visibleinvisible6636 then don't put themselves in a position to be cheated on...and what really cracks me up are the ones who get cheated on and have to pay alimony, lose their home and financially support an affair child..yeah cheatings wrong but if your stupid enough to marry then ...yeah I have no sympathy and you deserve to get whatever ..no law or no one forced one to marry...I find it hilarious 😂😅
Only loved the convenience of having someone as safety and backup.
Someone that truly loves someone as a life partner can't see others in a sexual way when it comes to it. if they do they doesn't love them as a life partner only as something temporary. even hard times and loneliness cant change that.
There are a lot of educated individuals that comes with other things on the topic. the funny thing many of them are cheaters and cheaters have bonding and attachment problems that prevents them to love that way also deep rooted attitude problems they haven't addressed.