This conversation reminds me of the uproar that Inxeba received, exposing sexual assault among men where there imbalanced power dynamics and how it gets swept under the carpet if it does get spoken about.
Hey Zuko. You’re extremely courageous for sharing this. We would love to have you in our show as well to share the story of you’re comfortable with it.
Thank you very much … I would love to and I’m glad people can relate, shot this Storytime along time ago but was hesitant on posting it. Please do drop me an email at zukondzakana@gmail.com
Crazy world we live in 💔 I’m sorry you went through this.. Almost everyone I know has been s*xually assaulted/harnessed as a child.. I’m talking like 90%, both men and women..this is just depressing honestly… But speaking about it is part of the healing process and I’m glad you did.. Love and Light 🫶🏼🫂
Sexual assault between men has been normalized to such an extend that when victims speak out, they're victimized. That's how our society operate,hence most men would never speak out or even seek therapy. A young man who was sexually abused by another older man is a danger to society because his perspective about sex,gender & sexuality is skewed. The trauma of that sexual assault might turn him to become a perpetrator of the same crime he was a victim of. This doesn't imply that every perpetrator of of sexual assault was once sexually abused,rather it exposes the underlying effect of which our society ignore to attending to.
This is so true and my channel is all about uncomfortable growth and encouraging people to speak out and not be prisoners of their own thoughts or experience’s. Thank you a lot for watching 🫶🫶
Oh Zuko😢... that must’ve took a lot in you to share that❤ asbonge mzala for talking about this and shedding some light into this topic... hope you've healed hun and I'm wishing you love and light going forward ✨️. love the content quality and lighting... Just one thing tho😂please get a mic... I'm angry at u😂😂 Hugs ang kisses always ❤
"Are you a girl or boy"??that's a question they would ask me in a taxi too😂😂🤞
Hate that question 😭😭
Do u look like a girl or act like one?
@@Zuko_N reply with ''Hi, I am Thlologelo. How can I help you?''
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This conversation reminds me of the uproar that Inxeba received, exposing sexual assault among men where there imbalanced power dynamics and how it gets swept under the carpet if it does get spoken about.
Very similar and sad part is that when you talk people assume you are seeking attention, as if it’s normal 🙌🏼
Thanks for sharing boo,so brave!🥹🤍
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Ohhh Zuko, your are extremely courageous for sharing this I must say, I wish more people can speak out, I can imagine the trauma 😢
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This are things we don’t talk about especially as guys coz it’s quite embarrassing hei 🥹
Hey Zuko. You’re extremely courageous for sharing this. We would love to have you in our show as well to share the story of you’re comfortable with it.
Thank you very much …
I would love to and I’m glad people can relate, shot this Storytime along time ago but was hesitant on posting it.
Please do drop me an email at zukondzakana@gmail.com
Crazy world we live in
💔 I’m sorry you went through this.. Almost everyone I know has been s*xually assaulted/harnessed as a child.. I’m talking like 90%, both men and women..this is just depressing honestly… But speaking about it is part of the healing process and I’m glad you did.. Love and Light 🫶🏼🫂
Iyoh! Sangena phakathi 🎉🎉🎉🎉 the power of starting ngeComment before watching 😅 let me watch kengoku
Looooove my people ke sana 💯💯on taking instructions sana
Yoh sana I hope more people can have courage to speak out
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Sexual assault between men has been normalized to such an extend that when victims speak out, they're victimized. That's how our society operate,hence most men would never speak out or even seek therapy. A young man who was sexually abused by another older man is a danger to society because his perspective about sex,gender & sexuality is skewed. The trauma of that sexual assault might turn him to become a perpetrator of the same crime he was a victim of. This doesn't imply that every perpetrator of of sexual assault was once sexually abused,rather it exposes the underlying effect of which our society ignore to attending to.
This is so true and my channel is all about uncomfortable growth and encouraging people to speak out and not be prisoners of their own thoughts or experience’s.
Thank you a lot for watching 🫶🫶
Oh Zuko😢... that must’ve took a lot in you to share that❤ asbonge mzala for talking about this and shedding some light into this topic... hope you've healed hun and I'm wishing you love and light going forward ✨️.
love the content quality and lighting...
Just one thing tho😂please get a mic... I'm angry at u😂😂
Hugs ang kisses always ❤
😂😂😂definitely am getting a mic this is ghetto 📍
Thank you for watching
Yabona lento yokuthi indoda kakhali has killed alot of man ,thank you for sharing hope abanye abafwethu will find peace.
USANA OLUNGAKHALIYO LUFELA EMBELEKWENI 📍 that’s the Xhosa saying,
Thank you a lot for watching it means a lot to me
6:28 😂❤periodtt, and you will forever be a pretty guy 🫵🏽🫵🏽🫵🏽
😂😂😂Thank you 🫶🫶🫶
Yho you take time to get to the point. I left without getting to the reason why I clicked.
Patient is virtue
Thank you for watching 🫶🫶🫶
Zuko molo mtshanam. Im watching your video for the 1st time. Kha uzame ngesiXhosa ingamnandi content yakho. 😮😮😮😮
Definitely, zayinabisa ngesixhosa on my next one nextweek 🫶🫶🫶🫶
Definitely, zayinabisa ngesixhosa on my next one nextweek 🫶🫶🫶🫶
Love jou
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Thank you for talking about this ❤
Funny enough even people around don’t see anything with those sort of questions to kids🤚 …. Wena ubonani I’m whatever you think I am 📍
Hey Zuko
Where is Brooklyn market
I stay in Brooklyn Pretoria
Oh it’s in Brooklyn mall but it’s a thrifting makert happens once a month, first Saturday of the month 💯🫶
Brave ❤
The fact that you commented keeps me going.
Thank you 🫶🫶🫶
Love jou me mis jou
12:34 yeah💔
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10:28 😭😭😭😭😭haibo
Hectic 😭😭😭
Yho sorry cuz 😢
Thanks babe 🫶🫶
But idlulile hei
Eish sorry man
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Ousi 🫶🫶🫶🫶