Exactly! We (women) have to have more control over our reproductive health. Women end up doing most of the child raring anyways, so why be so loose with our reproductive health..smh
I agree! I immediately got back on birth control as soon as I met my ex fiance. All he could talk about from our first date (which was amazing) was having a daughter with me. He was literally obsessed. I never knew a man who talked about having a child so much. I didn’t immediately think anything was wrong with it since we only had boys between us bc he only had sons with his ex wife & I had 1 son. Still, I insisted on us growing our relationship and getting married first. If you love me that much to have a child, you’re going to have to marry me. Period. Lord, I’m so glad I did that. Within 8 months he turned into a monster & I was able to see he was a narcissist who was love bombing me. We had a good relationship until the mask fell off & we broke up. That was the worst breakup I’ve ever had. It hurt like hell & I was depressed for months afterwards. Looking back, I’m so thankful to God I had the sense He gave me to protect myself. If not, I would’ve been forced to have him in my life forever and been miserable bc he’sa terrible guy. Ladies, please protect your womb & wait until a man shows up as he should by marrying you BEFORE you have children. It’ll save you a world of heartache.
This man or should I say boy is going to waste her years and leave her emotionally crippled for the next guy. Sounds like that is what she is going to stay with. A man can make a good dad but the foundation of a stable household is nonexistent when you’ve got a “splashier” aka someone who always needs to point out your flaws when they are wrong to deflect off of their tired ways.
There's a severe rat stench around him. Don't trust him as far as I can throw him. If he can go find comfort in another's arms after a week, his gf's not anywhere in his heart at all. Coparent, people!!! No one should have to beg for fidelity or loyalty.
Man, this dude had an excuse for everything & kept trying to angrily put the blame back on her. He is way too machista in a bad way. Him: "I may slip." WHAAAT? 🥶😠NOOO! Mister, either change for the better (& treat her right) or hit the road Jack! She is so hurt from all the stupid things you've done. You are damaging the mother of your son. Needs to stop. Grow up. Be a real man & stop acting like a single & partying lil youngster. He's a fool if he loses her.
He said he’s trying….😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 They both are too immature to be together. She doesn’t know how to vet a man and not she has a 5 month old and trying to have a relationship with a man that acts like he’s 5.
@@bryanbeeman5256 Trying. Yes he did say that. Lol Agree, both immature but more bad on him for acting out on his immaturity then getting angry at her hurt reaction.
People as a rule of thumb, if you know that they cannot take what they dishes out LEAVE. They’re fine with making you feel the way they would never want to feel or better yet allow you to make them feel so RUN
If I hear I am from NY one more time, as an excuse for a pass on doing something ,no one else finds appropriate, I am seriously going to lose my mind, come clean and simply admit that you are not ready for monogamy, dude it is such a simple thing to do, stop the lies and begin the honesty, life for you both, will change a 100% for the better, she gave you a son, that says everything 😮 💯
He may want a relationship, but he definitely don’t know what constitutes a relationship. If he’s asking how to fix it, he doesn’t know. He’s been doing just what he wants to do and doesn’t understand what sacrifice is. He needs to mature a bit.
He not ready to be committed. He does not take accountability. People need to understand you can’t apologize for something and then turn around and act like you didn’t do the very thing you apologized for 🤷🏽♀️ that equals I don’t care and I will definitely do it again
Don't get married. This behavior will continue and i know as women...we have a tendency to put up with so much even with cheating and such. When you're young it's even more convoluted. If it's tumultuous now, it'll probably we worse after marriage.
She claims he's been this way the whole time they've been together, So why decided to be an idea to bring a baby into this And then want to leave him after the child's born ?! Should have left him before that !! If he's really that bad. And don't Marry him for god's sakes.
He doesn't have a place to live without her.. that's why he wants to stay together. Why get pregnant by these immature men CHEATING KILL THE RELATIONSHIP IT IS NEVER THE SAME..
This one is on bro, she said she didn't like him at all when they first met but he kept pursuing her. Women who date guy's they don't like be praying for a reason to leave "lord let him breathe the wrong way just once so I can leave"
I looked at it this way: if a woman like her would have said she don’t like me like that, I’m out. I’m not everybody’s cup of tea (that goes for everyone). Go where you’re wanted. Stop pursuing people that don’t want you to prove that you can get them… because truth be told, you really don’t want her either.
Love language with a narcissist? That goes in circles till the psychotic merry go round crashes and you are left wondering where your life went wrong ! He’s awful
From the beginning she said that she met him and did't even LIKE HIM! yet the next day they ended up at the same night club and from that moment on, they never spent a day apart. Sounds like he was HOMELESS!!!! and because he knows that she din't like him at first, he's been getting "revenge" on her ever since.
First of all, you are not married to these people. Just walk away! Why are u married people on divorce court??? You don't need a judge to tell you what you already know! Just my opinion.
His is narc. He is not going to accept responsibility for anything. It will always be her fault. He will make an excuse for his behavior every time. He was the benefits of a committed relationship but in the streets at the same time
He's not too bright. All that "love language" jargon went WAAAAAAYYYY over his head cos all he thinks about is himself. And she's silly for sticking around.
If I have no trust in you, you're not sharing my bed or my body...PERIODT and love ain't even a factor. Why does the serial cheater always say WE need to work on things .
I don’t get why people get in relationships when they don’t want to be committed. Sidenote all he worried about is her going thru his phone and social tryna manipulate her into not doing it so he won’t get caught smh
Judge Starr I saw BS when he asked you that question. That was manipulation!! I hate to say this but that was a bad call. She needs to run for the hills and take their 5mon old with her. He clearly wasn't going to nor will he ever own up to his wrong doing. He showed that when he tried to make it like it was her fault at the end. They boy is bad news. He clearly needs to grow up and learn from the bailiff on how to be a man and not a boy.
Cultural differences. Amazes me how different Cultural/ ethnic groups bring their culture to court. Just leave!! He thinks he is all that just by all his. Anger outburst outburst this is one step from abuse. They actually look like sister and brother
She just had a baby 5 months ago. She, perhaps is going through postpartum. He is young and overwhelmed with a new baby and commitment I don't know why people who are not married come to divorce court. Robert needs to be quiet. These people bring these terrible videos or photos to court. Just leave each other. He is not for real. He is faking he wants his own time he has the audacity to argue with the judge and have anger control in the courtroom.
You are standing over him in his phone, heart pounding, reading cheating texts ....... BUT you're in dc, years later. What is jstar going to do for you that you can't do for yourself?
Yeah I don't think she really liked him initially as she said. And dude cheating and having other women well ughh that will lead to him being on child support so if he's ok with that then kool....
Naw she’s a brat. Instead of standing up and leaving she likes the toxic behavior. She will continue to nag him and he will continue to find peace elsewhere. Sorry to the baby
I love Robert, he is such a kind soul, he reminds of someone. You could tell he makes his wife happy. I don't understand these other men who have no respect or even genuine remorse for their actions. Why because they don't feel as if they are wrong, they are irritated cause they got caught.
This man is a narcissist he don’t see no wrong in what he does he cheats and can’t take any accountability for his actions him apologizing is a joke he don’t mean any of his apologies he just wants to point fingers towards her like she is the problem not him in his little brain people need to understand once trust is broken it’s hard to gain that back you can forgive but you will never forget
I understand it takes two, but I wish women would just stop getting pregnant for these men.
Exactly! We (women) have to have more control over our reproductive health. Women end up doing most of the child raring anyways, so why be so loose with our reproductive health..smh
I agree! I immediately got back on birth control as soon as I met my ex fiance. All he could talk about from our first date (which was amazing) was having a daughter with me. He was literally obsessed. I never knew a man who talked about having a child so much. I didn’t immediately think anything was wrong with it since we only had boys between us bc he only had sons with his ex wife & I had 1 son. Still, I insisted on us growing our relationship and getting married first. If you love me that much to have a child, you’re going to have to marry me. Period. Lord, I’m so glad I did that. Within 8 months he turned into a monster & I was able to see he was a narcissist who was love bombing me. We had a good relationship until the mask fell off & we broke up. That was the worst breakup I’ve ever had. It hurt like hell & I was depressed for months afterwards. Looking back, I’m so thankful to God I had the sense He gave me to protect myself. If not, I would’ve been forced to have him in my life forever and been miserable bc he’sa terrible guy. Ladies, please protect your womb & wait until a man shows up as he should by marrying you BEFORE you have children. It’ll save you a world of heartache.
Couldn't agree more. You can only cry so much when you knowingly let a man get you pregnant.
They can’t get enough of Pookie…
I agree. There's rarely accountability for the women. Why have kids with him AFTER you say you can't trust him? It's on her at that point.
“And a hush fell over Jerusalem..” 🤣😂😆 I love Judge Starr
Lol! Yesss, me too. Also: “Tag you’re it”. 😂😂😂 Translation: “How you gonna explain this BS?!!” 🤣
Lmao I love when she says that😅😂
I wait for the hush comment! 🤔 👀😆🤣😂
One thing about Robert, he gone make somebody feel stupid when they are wrong 💯
He's a vicious scumbag, liar and cheater with no remorse and no accountability. That "relationship" is too toxic!
Robert has his comments. Love it.
Love it when he says,"Wow"
If Robert doesn’t say the right thing, he better find another job… this show is about the sisterhood….
This man or should I say boy is going to waste her years and leave her emotionally crippled for the next guy. Sounds like that is what she is going to stay with. A man can make a good dad but the foundation of a stable household is nonexistent when you’ve got a “splashier” aka someone who always needs to point out your flaws when they are wrong to deflect off of their tired ways.
There's a severe rat stench around him. Don't trust him as far as I can throw him.
If he can go find comfort in another's arms after a week, his gf's not anywhere in his heart at all. Coparent, people!!! No one should have to beg for fidelity or loyalty.
If she doesn’t trust him then leave! Not that complicated!!!
Yep no TRUST NO RELATIONSHIP
She has a five month old with him.
@@bryanbeeman5256So what, if see dont trust him gtf on......why keep living in misery????
It is not complicated at all especially if you got your own cash
Robert be keeling it real. I love how he just drop is ine liners
Man, this dude had an excuse for everything & kept trying to angrily put the blame back on her. He is way too machista in a bad way.
Him: "I may slip."
WHAAAT? 🥶😠NOOO!
Mister, either change for the better (& treat her right) or hit the road Jack! She is so hurt from all the stupid things you've done. You are damaging the mother of your son. Needs to stop. Grow up. Be a real man & stop acting like a single & partying lil youngster.
He's a fool if he loses her.
He said he’s trying….😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
They both are too immature to be together. She doesn’t know how to vet a man and not she has a 5 month old and trying to have a relationship with a man that acts like he’s 5.
@@bryanbeeman5256 Trying. Yes he did say that. Lol Agree, both immature but more bad on him for acting out on his immaturity then getting angry at her hurt reaction.
Run! He is not ready to change.
He meant none of it!!
Absolutely none of it.
@@austinbuscaglia8705 💯
At all!
@@kashmeredreamss1689 right!!
He don’t know how to mean it.
People as a rule of thumb, if you know that they cannot take what they dishes out LEAVE. They’re fine with making you feel the way they would never want to feel or better yet allow you to make them feel so RUN
If I hear I am from NY one more time, as an excuse for a pass on doing something ,no one else finds appropriate, I am seriously going to lose my mind, come clean and simply admit that you are not ready for monogamy, dude it is such a simple thing to do, stop the lies and begin the honesty, life for you both, will change a 100% for the better, she gave you a son, that says everything 😮 💯
I hate that too. It's like saying I'm from NYC we have no morals. So deal with it
He may want a relationship, but he definitely don’t know what constitutes a relationship. If he’s asking how to fix it, he doesn’t know. He’s been doing just what he wants to do and doesn’t understand what sacrifice is. He needs to mature a bit.
He not ready to be committed. He does not take accountability. People need to understand you can’t apologize for something and then turn around and act like you didn’t do the very thing you apologized for 🤷🏽♀️ that equals I don’t care and I will definitely do it again
He truly didn't own anything, he didn't mean any of those apologies. A weak little boy.
Coparent 😇 sugar and move on, the ignorance is crystal clear, the maturity is nonexistent 💯‼️
Robert be going in 😂😂😂
Don't get married. This behavior will continue and i know as women...we have a tendency to put up with so much even with cheating and such. When you're young it's even more convoluted. If it's tumultuous now, it'll probably we worse after marriage.
Bro your a player you ain't going to stop you can't convince her with your actions and you don't have reassuring words for her
When he said “but”, he still was not accepting responsibility.
As soon as he said "but"...im out!
They have more to worry about than cheating! They look like TWINS!!!! Better invest in a DNA test😂
the minute i saw them, i thought they were brother and sister lol
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
She claims he's been this way the whole time they've been together, So why decided to be an idea to bring a baby into this And then want to leave him after the child's born ?! Should have left him before that !! If he's really that bad. And don't Marry him for god's sakes.
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Women always want to leave their man AFTER the baby is here. It makes no sense.
He doesn't have a place to live without her.. that's why he wants to stay together. Why get pregnant by these immature men CHEATING KILL THE RELATIONSHIP IT IS NEVER THE SAME..
He’s so young. He has some maturing to do first … 😔
He's not that young. I was mature at 25. I'm 30 now.
Good for Ms. Diaz for taking a stand and defending herself😊. He's immature and appear to have issues with integrity.
He needs time to mature,losing her might straighten him out cuz shorty a keeper
This one is on bro, she said she didn't like him at all when they first met but he kept pursuing her. Women who date guy's they don't like be praying for a reason to leave "lord let him breathe the wrong way just once so I can leave"
Good point
I looked at it this way: if a woman like her would have said she don’t like me like that, I’m out. I’m not everybody’s cup of tea (that goes for everyone). Go where you’re wanted. Stop pursuing people that don’t want you to prove that you can get them… because truth be told, you really don’t want her either.
Love language with a narcissist? That goes in circles till the psychotic merry go round crashes and you are left wondering where your life went wrong ! He’s awful
From the beginning she said that she met him and did't even LIKE HIM! yet the next day they ended up at the same night club and from that moment on, they never spent a day apart.
Sounds like he was HOMELESS!!!! and because he knows that she din't like him at first, he's been getting "revenge" on her ever since.
He is 12, emotionally. Girl, run! Date a man, not a child
Why have a baby with this guy?
Can we talk a little bit about accountability ?! 😅
He lying…somebody get him and ALL his manipulations.
IMMATURE
Hi my brother when your woman tell you she is done don't try to save the relationship just move on my brother 🤣
First of all, you are not married to these people. Just walk away! Why are u married people on divorce court??? You don't need a judge to tell you what you already know! Just my opinion.
I say this ALL the time
Babbyyy may be tough, but walk away. If it’s meant to be it’ll happen and be good, not games, immaturity, begging and pleading. Period.
His is narc. He is not going to accept responsibility for anything. It will always be her fault. He will make an excuse for his behavior every time. He was the benefits of a committed relationship but in the streets at the same time
Don’t buy it.
Judge Star please give us an update.
He's not too bright. All that "love language" jargon went WAAAAAAYYYY over his head cos all he thinks about is himself. And she's silly for sticking around.
Narcissist!
And he will never change...
She has allllllllllllll this evidence but stayed!!!! Girl have some boundaries/standards and leave!!!! Use the power to walk away!! Self respect!!
Girlllllll you need to drop that zero but she's not. She'll keep crying keep looking in the phone keep taking him back.....sad
Capacity, Consistency, and Care. Where is the accountability???
He's Not Changing for Her!!! He's Manipulative and I think he will continue to cheat etc.
If I have no trust in you, you're not sharing my bed or my body...PERIODT and love ain't even a factor. Why does the serial cheater always say WE need to work on things .
I don’t get why people get in relationships when they don’t want to be committed. Sidenote all he worried about is her going thru his phone and social tryna manipulate her into not doing it so he won’t get caught smh
Noticed that too
Robert hit it on the head. Disrespectful 😅
Its worse than that in a strip club that was NOTHING, she aint no angel either if he went thru her phone he will definitely find some BS too!
She should have gone with her first instinct
She's childish on top of his actions no man can deal with that selfish attitude not cute
Why is he shouting like that 😕
Yes! I thought he was way too rude, too angry & too bold shouting in a court of law. He's a piece of work.
“Tag you’re it”
She hacks his Instagram he is angry, he CHEATS and he wants her to forgive him no such thing a a slip up it's a DECISION HE MADE ON PURPOSE to CHEAT.
6:08 he ssaaassssyyyyy 😂😂😂 omg😂
Judge Starr I saw BS when he asked you that question. That was manipulation!! I hate to say this but that was a bad call. She needs to run for the hills and take their 5mon old with her. He clearly wasn't going to nor will he ever own up to his wrong doing. He showed that when he tried to make it like it was her fault at the end. They boy is bad news. He clearly needs to grow up and learn from the bailiff on how to be a man and not a boy.
Quit kicking him out all the time!! Too immature to be in a relationship! She acts like she’s perfect!
if he think he is cute he probably never stop cheating because he think he can get with any woman that smile at him
Cultural differences. Amazes me how different Cultural/ ethnic groups bring their culture to court.
Just leave!! He thinks he is all that just by all his. Anger outburst outburst this is one step from abuse.
They actually look like sister and brother
He'll do anything but not cheat on him 😂😂😂
She just had a baby 5 months ago. She, perhaps is going through postpartum. He is young and overwhelmed with a new baby and commitment
I don't know why people who are not married come to divorce court.
Robert needs to be quiet.
These people bring these terrible videos or photos to court.
Just leave each other. He is not for real. He is faking he wants his own time he has the audacity to argue with the judge and have anger control in the courtroom.
Judge he wasn't trolling. He was hollering.
You are standing over him in his phone, heart pounding, reading cheating texts .......
BUT you're in dc, years later.
What is jstar going to do for you that you can't do for yourself?
I also like the way you're good at catching the man or the women in their lives.
A nan asking a woman what he can do to be better - as he continues to misbehave.
He's a clown
How do you turn a one night stand into a relationship and you haven't gotten to know each other?
He likes it when she breaks up with him every two weeks
He is just not there. Definitely don’t go further.
And dont have no more children
They are both immature. He doesn't know how to listen.
That couple wasn't worth coming on divorce court.
Love her style ❤ go judge Star
omg the red pointed shoe!!!!! yessss
Amen judge!
Yeah I don't think she really liked him initially as she said. And dude cheating and having other women well ughh that will lead to him being on child support so if he's ok with that then kool....
Before they continue the relationship they need to take a siblings DNA test. Them mfs look alike. Lol
Hahahahaha they do look " Related" too funny!!😅
@@annaprice7276 😆 🤣
😂😂😂😂
She is beautiful
Naw she’s a brat. Instead of standing up and leaving she likes the toxic behavior. She will continue to nag him and he will continue to find peace elsewhere. Sorry to the baby
He thinks if she wants to marry him she has to go through and accept whatever he does. Have some human empathy sir. That's how.
He's a disrespectful ticking bomb. Stay & be unhappy if you want.
You had his baby why??
Agree. But unfortunately they are too young.
Please TELL that Little BOY Bye Bye! ❤🙏🏽☝🏿🙌
they are just playing with each other frfr. this a dumb NY relationship.
I think she loves the dysfunction because if it's so he's so bad why keep it going. Let that man move on and be happy!
Trolling 😂 she dont know what that means
chillleeeeeeee
At times i don't like watching divorce court with Star Jones. She can be bias at times when it comes to fairness. They both were wrong.
I love Robert, he is such a kind soul, he reminds of someone. You could tell he makes his wife happy. I don't understand these other men who have no respect or even genuine remorse for their actions. Why because they don't feel as if they are wrong, they are irritated cause they got caught.
Star is an old lady that has been hurt by men and its obvious
he a lil sassy lol.
He as no remorse he's a manipulator and evil person
Im convinced these people just want to be on TV. Why put up with foolishness over and over again
He so full of it. Girl your beautiful n u n kids deserve better.
They are both at fault for this relationship. Women learn to leave period.
He really doesn't need a woman like her he finds better
He should’ve never had a child at 25
This man is a narcissist he don’t see no wrong in what he does he cheats and can’t take any accountability for his actions him apologizing is a joke he don’t mean any of his apologies he just wants to point fingers towards her like she is the problem not him in his little brain people need to understand once trust is broken it’s hard to gain that back you can forgive but you will never forget