Tay Speak Up About Fans Feeling UNFAIR and UNCOMFORTABLE with His Mom’s FRIEND (a fan’s mom)

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Komentáře • 52

  • @axismage2710
    @axismage2710 Před měsícem +48

    Tay is such a good person but why are there so many haters out there criticising everything he does. He is one of the nicest person in gmmtv and his popularity with everyone there shows how much he is loved. I just don't understand how a "fan" can hurt the person they like with their thoughtless actions

  • @aurelie94
    @aurelie94 Před měsícem +50

    Seriously, people need to get a grip. Why do these so-called "fans" feel the need to control every part of their idols' life?? And now even their family life? That's crazy, can't they just let them live without making them feel bad, inconfortable or guilty about things they shouldn't feel guilty about!
    I am so fed up with these people.

  • @stardrummie
    @stardrummie Před měsícem +47

    I don't understand how this is an issue. Family always comes first. If his mother has friend its logical that she will want them to be with her. She is an elder, she needs her friends to travel with. Fans do not own the actors!! In the Western part of the world , fans do not have so much influence on actors. It is so sad to hear this. Come on guys, do better than this. He is always apologizing for nothing.

  • @juliecoe2867
    @juliecoe2867 Před měsícem +20

    This breaks my heart 💔!!! Tay’s time with his mom and family is precious!! The fact that he felt inclined to address this with his fans is heartbreaking and sad. His gifts, talents and work should be enough!! Personal life… none of their business!! Fan service in Thailand is toxic!! Wanting to control people’s lives outside of their work and at work needs to stop!!! This man works his butt off!! The only thing fans should be saying is thank you!! Prayers for Tay and his family 🙏🏻♥️.

  • @LadyLaduga11
    @LadyLaduga11 Před měsícem +6

    The only thing that crossed my mind ... what is it to those fans who his mum is friend's with? Is it because the other woman is the mum of one of Tay's fans? Then it would only sound like envy from other fans to me (like ... oh I wish my mum was close to her, so I could be closer to him. But this is not the case, so I have to be toxic about it.). In my opinion he doesn't need to explain anything to those fans about his or his family's private life. I'm sick and tired of the entitlement of certain "fans" who think they can decide what someone is allowed to do or not in life.

  • @gincatt4783
    @gincatt4783 Před měsícem +19

    You don’t owe us this explanation just like Gun kissing you!! Your mom should have friends just like you should!! The internet is a bitch!!! Stay strong Tay❤

  • @nghtwtchr9
    @nghtwtchr9 Před měsícem +18

    This has gone beyond delusional, now it’s bordering on absolutely insane and extremely toxic. At this point, it is time the non-delulu fans start calling out every delulu comment, post, and video they see in order for delusional fans to see that this is not acceptable behavior and it will no longer be tolerated. These are people! They have a right to privacy just like the rest of us. Just because you are a fan gives you NO right to dictate other people’s lives. Figure out what’s missing in your own and work on it. Enough is enough!

  • @sandrabritton1307
    @sandrabritton1307 Před měsícem +18

    This situation is absurd. She is Tay's mother, for goodness' sake. It's already difficult enough for them to go anywhere without people invading their privacy, but the fact that Tay feels the need to explain how the fans feel to his own mum is disgusting. His true fans would be happy to see Tay happy, and they would be glad he has his mum around for support. They definitely wouldn't feel rejected because he spent time with her. What is this world coming to? They need to regain some control because this is why so many idols are reaching the point of having people run interference for them-because the fans just don't know when to stop.

    • @66skate
      @66skate Před měsícem

      It's sad, but that's the way it goes when your famous. His Mom doesn't need to be there. He's over 30 and lives alone and says in the beginning they only see each other after several months. Later, he's worried about her but work must be more important to him.

  • @terimarvel
    @terimarvel Před měsícem +1

    I think it’s a shame that this young man works so hard and worries about his mom being lonely, and now he has to worry about what the “fans” say about her. Now, he feels like he has to explain their life decisions so they won’t judge her. If you want to judge her, talk about how she raised her son to be a hardworking and good man.

  • @sarahwakaf
    @sarahwakaf Před měsícem +2

    Wow 🤯🤦‍♀️the toxicity lately is crazy, I feel suffocated, I can’t imagine how these actors deal with it 😮‍💨 I always try to leave positive comments especially when I see hate comments but it’s like never ending geez… ppl need to realize that these actors have their own private lives you don’t own them

    • @66skate
      @66skate Před měsícem

      They deal with it by living in a fancy house, expensive cars, clothes, vacations anywhere they want to go and more provided by the people they complain about.

  • @kenfraza
    @kenfraza Před měsícem +1

    I loved the cooking show where Tay got slightly jealous at how close New and his mom got! It makes me happy if they all: Tay, New and their moms all get along!

  • @hajijahkalbani6425
    @hajijahkalbani6425 Před měsícem +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤ nong tay.. anda seorang yang baik hati dan anak yg sangat sayangkan keluarga. Teruskan usaha mu.. keluarga harus di utamakan..❤❤❤

  • @angelacross7940
    @angelacross7940 Před měsícem +6

    The fact that Tay had to say this to so called fans ! I’m sorry but are they genuine ! . Our parents won’t be around forever so please leave him be . You should be proud of his genuine love and care for his family it also helps him mentally it’s a very stressful occupation, you don’t own him if you’re real fan you will always want the best for him and all the other actors . Please support them with love and good whishes as my Father always said if you have nothing nice to say ,say nothing at all . Rant over . Carry on with the life you need to live Tay for your own health and happiness then the genuine fans will be happy .

  • @user-vs7nv8mo4e
    @user-vs7nv8mo4e Před měsícem +1

    know we are all looking forward to his new series...personal property.......will get to see his comedic/chaotic side.....
    as for the family issue.....people need to realize he is an ACTOR with a private life...and his fans should love/appreciate him for his spending what time he has with them...the fans...and working hard to show his appreciation for them.....LEAVE HIM ALONE....and LEAVE HIS FAMILY ALONE

  • @veritush
    @veritush Před měsícem

    i was not sure if the translation had an issue that didn't allow me to understand the nature of the issue at hand OR if the ussue was so silly that is was impossible to identify as issue. when i finally read the explanation at the end, i understood that it was the second.
    how entitled do you have to be to impose your thoughts on someone else's mother?
    leave that woman alone, she can be friends with whomever she wants. and if the other person turns out to be insincere, then she will know how to deal with it. why do people think they know better than the families that have been dealing with privacy invasion for a decade?
    i feel for tay, really. he's such a great guy. he doesn't deserve the bullshit he constantly gets

  • @glendene45
    @glendene45 Před měsícem +1

    Actors need to stop apologising to these lunatic fans. Tay doesn’t need to explain anything to anyone when it concerns his family. Actors need to start saying you know what if you were a true fan you would not behave this way you’re hurting me and my family. What I do in my private life is not your concern. Believe me for every lunatic fan there are 10 rational thinking kind supportive fans.

  • @CurioMin
    @CurioMin Před měsícem

    Tay said something that all fans ought to live by and respect when they are engaging with entertainers and content. “In our life, We can only control our own actions.”
    🧐 ❤🎉 We ought to stop imposing our own beliefs and desires onto entertainers. Just because we enjoy their performances, their content and all that they do FOR THEIR CAREERS, (remember they are professionals in the entertainment industry;) does not mean that they have to not date, or date their costar/work partner, visit or not visit family and/or friends, they don’t have to eat, drink or buy the items we want them to.
    And, honestly, their families and personal friends need to be off limits. These individuals are not being paid in the entertainment business and they have their own lives.
    Anyway, maybe if we paid more attention to our own existence, our own work and relationships, we would not feel the need to attempt to invade in other’s personal space and attempt to persuade these people to live the way we have envisioned in our delulu fantasies.

  • @sanrio8058
    @sanrio8058 Před měsícem +10

    Dont understand what happened/is happening

    • @66skate
      @66skate Před měsícem

      A lot of what was said may have been sensationalized a bit to stir drama. There is a disclaimer at the beginning of this that it their edit. Never completely trust a media source for the truth. They want to get clicks and make money.

  • @TL-yp4uh
    @TL-yp4uh Před měsícem +8

    I mean, he wants to ask the "hardcore fans" to respect and use the little free time he has and wants to spend with his family to ensure that there is no fan service.

  • @leslieannedizon7228
    @leslieannedizon7228 Před měsícem +1

    Oh my! Poor my son Tay 😢 he deserved treat better and yes he deserved privacy 🙏

  • @jamesclancey156
    @jamesclancey156 Před měsícem

    These so called fans need to understand that the people in shows are ACTORS and they don't own them just because they follow them. The actors are entitled to their own lives including who they love and who they choose to associate with. The actors are not your personal property and don't need your approval in their lives and actions. Maybe these fans need to get a life, a real life, where they deal with their own circle of friends (if they have any) instead of trying to control the actors who will never be in their circle of friends, EVER. Tay should not let anyone interfere with his family, especially his mom.

  • @Genevois1205
    @Genevois1205 Před měsícem +3

    Wow! Things have reached an entirely new level of toxicity in a fandom when the actor has to come out and publicly explain why his mother, who has nothing to do with his work or his career, has made a new friend. Honestly, with all the crap Tay has been getting from so-called 'fans' recently, I would not blame him for just throwing in the towel and taking a long sabbatical away from the toxicity and negativity. If fans are unable to see him for a while, maybe they will learn to appreciate and treat him better. I frankly don't know how (or why) he endures it. These people do not deserve his efforts at all.

  • @tinaanderson7283
    @tinaanderson7283 Před měsícem +3

    Why do they need to feel uncomfortable. Doesn't make sense to me.

  • @anwitasarkar7131
    @anwitasarkar7131 Před měsícem

    Wait a min! What? What? An almost 33 years old successful good hearted actor had to tell this! Ridiculous! Stop bothering him! That's his mother, the purest relationship according to every religion! Spare them please!

  • @Yoonshii07
    @Yoonshii07 Před měsícem +8

    The fans are getting so toxic these days

    • @martakavaliauskaite4566
      @martakavaliauskaite4566 Před měsícem

      Not all the fans just some toxic inmature people who like to control other people's lives it is absurd that actors have to apologize that they want to spend time with their familys but thankfully there is more normal fans who respect actors than toxics and some fans are letting go of their toxicity at least I want to believe that /

  • @zzdlover2005zz
    @zzdlover2005zz Před měsícem

    What in the world! I am mad for Tay that he has to come out to explain this to the fans.

  • @kevincoss6470
    @kevincoss6470 Před měsícem +2

    THE FANS NEED TO GET A LIFE,SO MANY FANS ARE POOR,AND LIVE IN A DREAM LIFE THEY WOULD LOVE TO HAVE.

  • @elaine4827
    @elaine4827 Před měsícem +2

    My god these people (FANS) are so damn immature why was it necessary for this beautiful and loving young man have to go into so much personal details because of immature people😒😠

    • @66skate
      @66skate Před měsícem

      There are too many young and very immature people that follow these guy's. Many of those here defending him are the same one's pushing beyond the limits. They talk out of both sides of their mouths.

  • @cholla47
    @cholla47 Před měsícem +2

    People who act like that are not fans they want to be puppet masters.

  • @darrenhales6094
    @darrenhales6094 Před měsícem

    I am so tired of these silly toxic fans!! These are REAL PEOPLE with REAL LIVES!!
    It's fine for fans to want to see their favourite actors at fan meetings. But stop thinking that you should be the only person in their lives. Or that fans should be getting the same access to these actors that others might get. These guys should be able to spend their time with whomever they wish. Family, friends, colleagues, associates, acquaintances, lovers, partners. This ongoing fan obsession is disgusting. The threats and hate sent to these actors because they are seen with a girlfriend or boyfriend or even just a family friend just show how toxic these fans can be.
    You would think, after everything that happened with Build, these fans would learn. He sued so many of them and won every case. So, don't think that the internet can keep you safe from getting caught with your hate because you're jealous.
    Time to grow up, kids. Even underage can be arrested for threats and slander.

  • @toopshi
    @toopshi Před měsícem

    Thai entertainment industry should completely forego this concept of fan service. What kind of criticism are they facing! This is ridiculous. There should be an unanimous decision among the bl industry or the whole entertainment industry of Thailand that none of the actors is property of fans, so they seriously do not bother themselves to explain why someone's mother came to meet her son with another friend. Their personal life is not business of these crazy fans! It has to be done by every actors. What nonsensical demands and expectations these fans are having!

  • @thomaslong7262
    @thomaslong7262 Před měsícem

    It is so ridiculous that he feels the need to explain to fans about his personal life and his family's life. It has nothing to do with his acting. Some of his fans need to get in touch with reality. To me, that is a sign of mental illness when fans can't separate the actor's character from his real life. He owes the fans nothing when it comes to his family and personal life.

  • @Mildred002
    @Mildred002 Před měsícem

    In my country we don’t even know if we have celebrities 😂😂😂😂😂, I mean we listen to your music, watch your movies or shows and that’s it. Who has time to be criticizing you? Beside most of these celebrities here have small mad in their head anyways 😂😂😂😂😂. Them nor send your papa.

  • @tristajacobs266
    @tristajacobs266 Před měsícem

    I understand being cautious of who you let into your life but this is ridiculous Tay's mum should be able to be friends with whomever she wants. I highly doubt the friend had ulterior motives, they bonded over a monk that they both like to pay respects to and it turned into a friendship which is great! If anything does happen then it's a lesson learned. Just leave Tay and his family alone

  • @badboy-kr6dq
    @badboy-kr6dq Před měsícem

    what a sad commentary about the toxic fans...... just let them (Tay....) be. it was nice to see New in one of the clips!

  • @rajeevhundoo9818
    @rajeevhundoo9818 Před měsícem

    This was too sad for me to learn how fans can complicate someone's personal life, where family is an important and integral part of life. Fans must learn to distinguish between personal and professional life, where the same person has different roles to play. I wish Tay happiness in life and encourage him to be a family man also along with professional career. God bless him. 🙌

  • @ItreelnotREAL
    @ItreelnotREAL Před měsícem

    Why are you people so miserable? Why are you bullying such a beautiful soul? All this explanation of his family private life and livity is none of our business. O gosh hear how stressful his voice sounds. I am happy for 2 things 1 he has his education and other talents and his family riches to live on and 2 Hollywood is here ready to receive him and all actors from that side. We are here for you Khun Tay Tawan your western international fans.

  • @maximovjuliet7805
    @maximovjuliet7805 Před měsícem

    😢😢😢❤❤

  • @andiedoriza4578
    @andiedoriza4578 Před měsícem

    These complaining so called fans are ridiculous and not worth the effort ignore them tay and his family are fine

  • @TheNiky4ever
    @TheNiky4ever Před měsícem

    No comment 🤦🏾‍♀️ 🤦🏾‍♀️ 🤦🏾‍♀️ 🤦🏾‍♀️ 🤦🏾‍♀️ 🤦🏾‍♀️ 🤦🏾‍♀️ 🤦🏾‍♀️ 🤦🏾‍♀️ 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @robink620
    @robink620 Před měsícem

    If the toxicity of the bl fans continues like this there won’t be any new actors willing to accept bl roles. The toxic fans are really putting the fanatic back into being a fan.

    • @notyourcupoftae
      @notyourcupoftae Před měsícem

      That's exactly what I scared about it's started to look like fan want to some type of authority on them it's so disturbing 😑😑

  • @issara1987
    @issara1987 Před měsícem

    Those people do not deserve to be called "fans". They are selfish and have no empathy. Tay shouldn't have to apologize or explain anything. Those people are the ones who need to say sorry to him. Please don't give a $hit to those people.

  • @tinapiliouras4103
    @tinapiliouras4103 Před měsícem +2

    Fans create revenue for their actors but isn't it about time that these grown up adult men actors stop doing fanservices

    • @touchofstrange
      @touchofstrange Před měsícem

      Or maybe some of the fans need to grow up and stay the hell out of the lives of actors. What does fan service have to do with this bullcrap against his mother?
      Don’t use fan-service as an excuse. It’s literally a part of their job - it’s not their fault some fans are too delusion to realize that.

  • @gincatt4783
    @gincatt4783 Před měsícem +3

    You don’t owe us this explanation just like Gun kissing you!! Your mom should have friends just like you should!! The internet is a bitch!!! Stay strong Tay❤