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Komentáře • 60

  • @muchadrama
    @muchadrama Před 9 lety +3

    Here is a thought... how about just being direct and honest. Example, "Oh no sorry I don't give out my number, It was nice to meet you." :)

  • @sage5316
    @sage5316 Před 10 lety +1

    Song, My Hands by Leona Lewis.*Technically* isn't a gay song.....but most people can relate to it...ish.

  • @CohnTrohL
    @CohnTrohL Před 10 lety

    The prison one is gold I love it

  • @robertschwartz4810
    @robertschwartz4810 Před 5 lety

    The truth is always the best way to let someone down, if only because you may run into them again later.

  • @RCanadian
    @RCanadian Před 7 lety

    Honesty is the best policy, but just be nice about it.

  • @TheSamuraicoach
    @TheSamuraicoach Před 10 lety

    Gave someone that was interested the number to helpline and they played it off the next time they saw me, like, "Oh you gave me the wrong number...." And now...(oh, and I love the line in the movie Hitch, "Thank you for the compliment of.....") but if I'm not feeling that, I'm direct and I simply say, "I'm not interested." Thanks Justin!

  • @corbenwilliams5241
    @corbenwilliams5241 Před 10 lety +1

    Yum yes, please talk about being blunt and to the point. Be forward is so much more easier.
    Also address the diffrence in people. It's not always easy for people to do so and be honest up front.

    • @uppity892
      @uppity892 Před 6 lety

      CorBen Williams I totally agree!

  • @Justsomeguy-j4y
    @Justsomeguy-j4y Před 10 lety

    The Question You Need to Ask Before Starting a Relationship - Help Desk - OWN

  • @samobrien9098
    @samobrien9098 Před 10 lety +1

    I was about to be like wow so mean giving someone a fake number but thATS SO GREAT OMG AHAH GIVING THEM THE NUMBER TO A PIZZA PLACE LOL

  • @sl1975sl
    @sl1975sl Před 10 lety

    What qualifies as a 'gay song' could be a topic of conversation
    Speaking as a gay man (and musician) who actively dislikes most of the songs considered to be 'gay songs'.
    But I love your voice, so sing whatever you like :)

  • @ExireHG
    @ExireHG Před 8 lety

    I never turn someone down unless they ask for a date. Whether girls or guys, I'd just say I'm not interested/not looking, but we can hang as friends. No such thing as too many friends. ^^
    Oh, a good thing also is to just say someone isn't your type, even if you don't have one. Beats saying, "No, sorry...I don't like the way you look. You just do nothing for me...Like, at all." Ouch xD

  • @alamandamooney2571
    @alamandamooney2571 Před 9 lety +1

    I've just binge watched everything and I have to say, I love you cause you're so funny and awesome >.< :P

  • @julielemon7383
    @julielemon7383 Před 10 lety

    Ooooh It would be cool if you sang the "Thank You for Being A Friend" by Andrew Gold (aka the "Golden Girls" theme song)! XD

  • @TheNardoRetardo
    @TheNardoRetardo Před 8 lety

    why am I just now finding your channel? You're a dear.

  • @emiliojorgelomas
    @emiliojorgelomas Před 10 lety

    Kylie Minogue - All The Lovers !!! #LoveIt

  • @brynboatman6869
    @brynboatman6869 Před 9 lety +2

    Its life after love, that's the line

  • @ianmcneil5865
    @ianmcneil5865 Před 9 lety

    the worst way ive let someone down was in 8th grade. we had an 8th grade dance and my crush had allready asked me. and my boyfriends X was just like its so sad that no one has asked me to the dance with a pouty face and i was just like no and walked away

  • @derickma9400
    @derickma9400 Před 10 lety +1

    sing something by lady gaga (Judas chorus would work)

  • @koenigkorczak
    @koenigkorczak Před 5 lety

    Just be frank. No need to have someone get their hopes up by giving them a number and then disappointing them. That's not fair.

  • @randyspellshine2836
    @randyspellshine2836 Před 9 lety

    Omg you look so much like Justin Bartha A.K.A. Riley Poole in National Treasure

  • @max.pankov
    @max.pankov Před 8 lety

    Love Celine Dion haha

  • @cumbiera2intelectual
    @cumbiera2intelectual Před 10 lety

    Intro song request: Applause by Lady Gaga...well, any Gaga song really I don't care which one. Great advice Justin, I should start giving fake numbers. When you're a lesbian (like me, hello) and a straight guy is hiting on you if you say you're gay, they just keep going. So, fake number/pizza place number is a good option.

  • @marin44ify
    @marin44ify Před 10 lety

    Talk about gay clubs and bars

  • @peakhong
    @peakhong Před 10 lety

    Intro song request: Against All Odds and/or Total Eclipse Of The Heart. Thank you!

  • @lschizzle
    @lschizzle Před 10 lety +3

    So that piece of cloth on your body doesnt count as a shirt XD

  • @jeremydinet3135
    @jeremydinet3135 Před 8 lety +1

    Love the tank and the green glasses But the fake number is kinda messed up lol 😅

  • @BooksMusicMe17
    @BooksMusicMe17 Před 10 lety

    I find the fake numbers thing weird...I'd rather just actually turn someone down. And I'd definitely rather be turned down than given a fake number. As a lesbian, when straight guys ask me out, if I go "Uhhh..." or otherwise act like I don't know what to say, they usually immediately chime in with "Oh, you have a boyfriend?" and I just nod and then they drop it. I find the pretend-boyfriend gambit works better than just telling the truth about my sexuality, since a lot of guys will be all "Oh but are you *sure* you're not bisexual" if I say I'm gay.

  • @jodigiovannini5368
    @jodigiovannini5368 Před 10 lety

    Love your shirt

  • @popstyle1100
    @popstyle1100 Před 10 lety

    You should sing All American Boy by Steve Grand at the start of your videos❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @23texaspanda
    @23texaspanda Před 10 lety

    You should sing "Boy is Bottom" by Willam, Detox & Vicky Vox

  • @MrJDeJesus
    @MrJDeJesus Před 8 lety

    Would you please sing 'Only girl' from Rhianna

  • @muscl954
    @muscl954 Před 6 lety

    spaghetti strap tank tops should NEVER be worn by anyone. No. One. Ever.

  • @alexanderfreeman-rodin9921

    Hey Justin, do you have any advice on gay guys turning down transgender guys?

  • @baamenezesmi
    @baamenezesmi Před 10 lety

    Loveyaaaa

  • @videoking1222
    @videoking1222 Před 10 lety +1

    I swear if I had a quarter for every straight girl that flirts with me I would have a decent amount of change in my pocket and it's hard because I'm not obviously gay by first looks but after 10 minutes of talked you will figure it out but some just don't get the memo. But besides that I was rejected by some guy recently and I don't know how to feel I got the Your cute but not my type like wtf

  • @tyedye422
    @tyedye422 Před 10 lety +1

    Give them a pizza number cause at least they will have pizza

  • @TheUgo1997
    @TheUgo1997 Před 10 lety

    firework by katy perry

  • @teemosoul6701
    @teemosoul6701 Před 10 lety

    Sing anything by Lady Gaga! 🙌👌😘

  • @_sofie
    @_sofie Před 10 lety +2

    *life after love

    • @Sunnilocs
      @Sunnilocs Před 10 lety

      Thank you! I was like wheeet?????

  • @riceballinafruitbask
    @riceballinafruitbask Před 9 lety

    I told a girl that I was moving to france

  • @vino140
    @vino140 Před 8 lety

    Knock off your opening "number." Dont preen.

  • @Bmystyle
    @Bmystyle Před 9 lety

    Any girls that flirt with you are either delusional or just having fun.

  • @tammysos1294
    @tammysos1294 Před 10 lety

    in israel the guys check if its your actual number right away :/

  • @timburke6280
    @timburke6280 Před 8 lety

    hello

  • @MrJason300
    @MrJason300 Před 9 lety

    Lol but that's a horrible way to let a guy down

  • @swabby429
    @swabby429 Před 8 lety

    Kindly, but honestly be truthful. Deceit doesn't do anything to help one's self-esteem, nor one's credibility. BTW: lose the shirt.

  • @colindunbar3634
    @colindunbar3634 Před 8 lety

    spice girls wanna be

  • @videoking1222
    @videoking1222 Před 10 lety

    I swear if I had a quarter for every straight girl that flirts with me I would have a decent amount of change in my pocket and it's hard because I'm not obviously gay by first looks but after 10 minutes of talked you will figure it out but some just don't get the memo. But besides that I was rejected by some guy recently and I don't know how to feel I got the Your cute but not my type like wtf