How Did So Many Men End Up Lonely and Single???

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  • čas přidán 31. 08. 2022
  • Deep Dive #156
    In this week's deep dive The Chicks talk about how and why the number of lonely single men has grown so drastically in recent years. They discuss a psychologist's take on it, the effect our culture has had, and how the world of romantic relationships may never be the same.
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Komentáře • 63

  • @alyciapeters5073
    @alyciapeters5073 Před rokem +18

    I think men are sick of being belittled! There are far more then 3 things that are being expected of them! And they want a wife to be a wife!

    • @colleen2864
      @colleen2864 Před rokem +2

      I've never felt more valued than when my husband (then only dating) discovered that I had packed some of his bags for a work trip and made him breakfast. He was floored, and it made me feel amazing. We're built in different ways because we're here to support one another. I genuinely hope the joy of "gender roles" returns to the mainstream.

    • @forgottenfuryan
      @forgottenfuryan Před rokem

      Marriage, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows, women file 80% of divorces and chronic social isolation drives people insane. Get ready.

  • @keithscott1926
    @keithscott1926 Před rokem +3

    I am a lonely Man, and I choose to be lonely because I am tired of dealing with mentally unstable women.

  • @cbobwhite5768
    @cbobwhite5768 Před rokem +7

    "How Did So Many Men End Up Lonely and Single???" that's easy to answer, you two were already taken. 💔

  • @alyciapeters5073
    @alyciapeters5073 Před rokem +6

    I don’t think it’s emotional: I think women want financial! They don’t want a man that makes LESS then them!

    • @julierose7786
      @julierose7786 Před rokem

      Wow. Way to taint women. Real women don’t want men who live off them, but no woman I know cares if their man makes less money. Some of the best men out there do jobs as public servants that don’t pay great but contribute to the welfare of society.

    • @ab9772
      @ab9772 Před rokem

      I make less than my wife. Who cares.. we are equal in the relationship.

    • @rogerstuart2592
      @rogerstuart2592 Před rokem

      @@ab9772 one of the lucky few

  • @southjerseymountain
    @southjerseymountain Před rokem +3

    Ruby and the Romantics.
    August 1963 sung that song. "Hey There Lonely Boy" in its original version.

  • @4ohgollycats
    @4ohgollycats Před rokem +3

    Too many men were raised in single parent homes with just mother.

  • @alyciapeters5073
    @alyciapeters5073 Před rokem +5

    Amen dazy! Men are men, women are women!

  • @Snowdog856
    @Snowdog856 Před rokem +5

    Eddie Holman sang Hey There Lonely Girl.
    Truth is for me anyways men just don't want to be coupled today. I am happier alone than coupled. Most women today not all are too demanding.

  • @alib414
    @alib414 Před rokem +2

    My ex-husband was with a new woman right after we separated in June 2009 and married about two years later. Here we are in 2022 and I’m still single. I’m completely comfortable being on my own, but I’d like to be able to share my life with someone.

  • @janinecarlson6118
    @janinecarlson6118 Před rokem +5

    I wholeheartedly agree with you Daisy. Men are to be men

  • @jana_leeann
    @jana_leeann Před rokem +3

    I agree with all of this, especially what Daisy says about a man being A MAN. When Daisy said that she didn't want a "girlfriend" for a husband, I was totally able to relate to that. I can't tell you how many times I've wished that my partner would be more understanding or emotionally available about a specific situation, but then I realize that I'm grateful for certain ways that he responds to me. Like, he'll tell me straight up what his blunt opinion is on a matter and encourage me to move on. That can be so frustrating at times! But when I look back on those moments/conversations that we have, I realize that I love it because that's what he would do, as a man, in that situation. If I came to him for his opinion, well... that's it. Why should I be upset about it, you know? If I am looking to vent rather than to receive advice, then night out with the girls it is! We shouldn't belittle and berate our men because they think differently than us or approach situations differently than us women do. That's the very thing that makes us so uniquely special. In a way it makes us WANT to depend on one another. At least that's how I see it.

  • @sveinpedersen7346
    @sveinpedersen7346 Před rokem +2

    I'm singel, but not lonely. I'm 65 years hold, have a girlfriend that are 55 years young. We live 8 miles from each other. Work fine, for both of us. You don't have to be lonely, just because your'e singel. 😉

  • @jana_leeann
    @jana_leeann Před rokem +3

    Mock, you have a BEAUTIFUL singing voice!

    • @pbwbrian53
      @pbwbrian53 Před rokem

      They both sing well, but will not admit it.

  • @aaronmartin7086
    @aaronmartin7086 Před 3 měsíci

    I'd suffer from depression and loneliness since childhood. No friends or girlfriend. Been having suicidal thoughts throughout my teen years. It's a struggle to be alone in your 20's. And it seems like no one cares about men's mental health. Hollywood, music, social media, ect.

  • @howbertsteele8684
    @howbertsteele8684 Před rokem

    Furthermore, I try not to make myself vulnerable, but also be honest. That is all I will concede.

  • @peterseager6738
    @peterseager6738 Před rokem +1

    As a single man looking for a girl friend, I have found that most women want a patron, ie someone who will finance their new lifestyle. There are clues to this when I read profile names such as "I like travelling" or "Laughter, fun and travel"

  • @heathercarter5831
    @heathercarter5831 Před rokem

    Love your deep dives!

  • @cynforthewin3493
    @cynforthewin3493 Před rokem +4

    Well my ex coupled up quickly being that he was coupled with the person while we were married. I think some women have to be independent because we have found men not to be so dependable. I finally found a good one but it took a loooong time.

  • @earlewilliams4262
    @earlewilliams4262 Před rokem +2

    Go to church, love Jesus and follow his word. Married 40 years. Met my wife in church.

  • @Terrahoskins
    @Terrahoskins Před rokem +2

    I have been saying many of these things since the ‘80s. It has always bothered me, the way men aren’t really appreciated. Everything is out of balance. Ooh Daisy just said this! Also-Mock, you have the most brilliant segues into sponsor promos. I’m a writer, and I just have an appreciation for this kind of thing. Thanks for your insights!

  • @jackiegillies4165
    @jackiegillies4165 Před rokem

    My fiance of 14 years, cheated, so now at 55, I am single again! I browse single sites, and it just makes me sad so many persons of my age are single...so I log off!

  • @ROCKlaws
    @ROCKlaws Před rokem +1

    Chicks Rocks

  • @howbertsteele8684
    @howbertsteele8684 Před rokem

    First, I am available. Period. As for emotions, I have them. I understand them. I empathize with them. But I am only controlled by them when my inner woman raises her pretty head.

  • @daisyviluck7932
    @daisyviluck7932 Před rokem +5

    The thing is, you got these troubled kiddos and folks are all “where are the moms and dads”..
    welp, there’s only so much a mom and dad can do if the bigger community of moms and dads (in the schools and neighborhood and sports teams) undercut you by trying to be the hip cool woke parents

  • @daisyviluck7932
    @daisyviluck7932 Před rokem +6

    A lot of men today have skills and hygiene/grooming deficits. A lot of women today are flighty and easily led into ideologies. There. I just pissed off everybody in the room.

  • @maxwelledisonsmum
    @maxwelledisonsmum Před rokem +1

    Eddie Holman sang Lonely Girl

  • @RainbowMan.
    @RainbowMan. Před rokem

    Beautiful!! 🐣 😍

  • @Cavalier-lp8tr
    @Cavalier-lp8tr Před rokem +1

    Smokey Robinson I believe saying that song

  • @beckik58
    @beckik58 Před rokem +3

    Bring masculinity back again.. you're welcome 😘

  • @alyciapeters5073
    @alyciapeters5073 Před rokem +2

    Also PHARMACEUTICAL DRUGS

  • @pmvitale
    @pmvitale Před rokem

    I will preface my comment with I am a Vietnam era veteran. I mention that to show I come from an intact family and in an era where family, children and marriage meant something. I have been by myself for over thirty years. My divorce (the first in my family) in the 90"s beat me so far into the ground I pledged never to make that mistake again. Have I dated since, yes. One relationship lasted two years, but thankfully she dumped me by email and saved me the trouble of splitting half of my possessions with her. I can handle being by myself, what actually hurts is I haven't seen or heard from either of my ungrateful whelps in all that time. That's painful. As of this writing, I have no intention to ever couple up again. I miss having a partner, but I really don't miss the drama and eating by myself in restaurants doesn't bother me anymore. Just wondering out loud, will and Outsider get a chance to get a ticket for the Phoenix gathering?? That, and have you come up with a catchy name for the event?

  • @jackiegillies4165
    @jackiegillies4165 Před rokem

    I should also note, hecwas emotionally and verbally abusive to me, and I'm ashamed of myself for putting up with it, if I ever said something sarcastic back, or was irrated, not by him but life stuff, I got called an itchbay or untcay!! So I never said anything.

  • @minabotieso6944
    @minabotieso6944 Před rokem

    Those three things are a small part of a long list of expectations and they are not really that true. Nobody wants to hear about men’s issues or wants a man to be vulnerable.
    Nobody men or women can sum up their expectations in just a few points off the top of your head because relationships and life are so complex.

    • @forgottenfuryan
      @forgottenfuryan Před rokem

      Traditional women benefit from feminist laws and don't lobby for change, making them defacto feminists. Meanwhile, marriage, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows and women file 80% of divorces.

  • @alliem7403
    @alliem7403 Před rokem +4

    The boys think they’re all going to grow up to be athletes or gamers. They don’t understand that if you can’t do math, you probably can’t manage your money.

  • @lauracknoll
    @lauracknoll Před rokem

    Local Pub chain hires-cute bartenders-bar seats full of lonely single (and married)men. When I go with my husband & I look down the bar @@95% men ogling the bartender. It's sad

  • @jackieseymour3197
    @jackieseymour3197 Před rokem

    Men are walking a tight rope these days...damned if they do and damned if they don't. They don't have a strong community to lean on to teach them all the amazing things there are to being a man, being a partner in a marriage and a leader as a father...

    • @forgottenfuryan
      @forgottenfuryan Před rokem

      Not worth the effort. Marriage, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows.

  • @jillofarrell434
    @jillofarrell434 Před rokem

    CAN YOU SHIP IT TO AUSTRALIA YET////

  • @jonathonrichard6437
    @jonathonrichard6437 Před rokem

    Unless the woman is Jane Fonda whom had three marriages with barely a year between the end of one before beginning a new one. ;)

  • @denisealbritton4963
    @denisealbritton4963 Před rokem

    I'm simply looking for an honest, trustworthy, respectful, hardworking man who will love me and express gratitude.
    Is that too much to ask for these days?! 🤔

    • @minabotieso6944
      @minabotieso6944 Před rokem +1

      Your expectations without a doubt go beyond that. All of those are general nice adjectives

    • @forgottenfuryan
      @forgottenfuryan Před rokem

      The average woman has 40 dates a year and marriage, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows because women file 80% of divorces.

  • @4ohgollycats
    @4ohgollycats Před rokem +1

    My ex is on number 3

  • @colleen2864
    @colleen2864 Před rokem

    Please introduce your boys to John Lovell of the Warrior Poet Society 🙏 . The pendulum will always swing the other way. The best we can do is raise them to be good people with solid values and skills.

  • @dbmom2266
    @dbmom2266 Před rokem +6

    We do not have real men anymore! I do and I’m thankful for that but my daughter wants a man like her dad and she cannot find one.

  • @TheRealGodKOz
    @TheRealGodKOz Před rokem

    Wow you’re doing a deep dive about me 🥹😅😔☹️😣