Benny's Been Single For so Long that his Mom Thinks he’s Gay | First Dates New Zealand
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- čas přidán 3. 08. 2023
- 22 year old student Benny has been single for so long, his Mother has started questioning his sexuality. With a strong attraction to short white females and girls who love adventure, Benny is hoping to meet a woman tonight who encompases both. Benny's date this evening is 18 year old cat lover Kaelyn, who's not looking for anything major… just the love of her life.
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Why would they match a super responsible 18 year old with this mess?! He could have been on a date with a cardboard box and somehow thought it went well.
😂 📦
This guy is behaving like it’s his first date ever !
What a date! Whoever matched these two individuals together should probably take a moment and reflect on this job!
@@milanetc4865 Everyone on first dates from NZ thinks their life is over if they're not married by 22.
😂😂😂@@milanetc4865
@@MissX33 lol
Ain't no way she was paying........she pushed that bill right to him.
She's only 18, sensible and lovely. He needs another decade in the pot, not quite done yet..
Well, this is a true case of the saying, "girls mature faster than boys on average."
I’m 8 months pregnant and I find it really creepy when men have a fetish for pregnant women
its very creepy. i dont like anything about this guy
I cannot imagine why this guy has been single for so long....... 🙄
In California, USA, we would call Benny's behavior alcoholic. His date has her own issues but she does NOT DESERVE Benny. He is an alcoholic, immature, rude young man that needs to grow up.
You mean he doesn't deserve her?
At 29, I should just start wearing a shirt that says "Too old to live".
😆
That was a very Dorothy Zbornak comment.😂😂😂 Too funny.
He's 23 and he thinks that having been single for 6 yrs is too long? And he thinks 23 is old?? Hello, I'm 23 and I've never been inna relationship and I feel sooo young lmao. This guy is so weird! She's way too cool for him. Not to mention the weird age difference
Wow getting drunk on a date how shameful and embarrassing. To the point of not knowing what you are talking about anymore. It's like getting drunk at a job interview.
I see why he's single 😂
😂😂 aye go ahead bruh 😂😂😂 I see it to 😂😂😂
Immature
I've been single longer than that and no-one in my family thinks I'm a lesbian lmao
How old're u 😐
@@MoiOui-bh5hhhow rude dude, you never ask a lady her age.
23 and you're old???!... hahaha, no.
That is not old at all
23 yrs old body with 14 yrs old mind, sadly..
@@sparra3819 I mean, he couldn't even explain what 'Netflix and chill' means without giggling.
You are not old at all..
He drank way to much
He asks "What's your favorite color? Favorite band?" - Really? And "chick"? That word is done. Then he spills did drink on his face while he's saying "I know you think I drink too much." SHE was great.
Wow as a 47 yr old straight man i have been single just about all my life so far ...Gees wonder what peoples perception would be..
you're not alone. some ppl can't fathom that romantic rltshps just don't register that high for some of us as far as priorities
Well, I'd 1st suggest not going by the name @stickyfinger100. That alone would put off many women. Just a suggestion. Don't be mad.
Nothing wrong with that. You don’t need to be in a relationship to define who you are. Our son is 25, he’s single,don’t think he ever been on a date, don’t know if he likes girls, boys, or nothing,lol. It doesn’t matter,as long as he’s happy.
@@cheery-hex "Priorities" totally not being unattractive.
This guy’s outlook on dating/relationships is very weird
She’s only 18! And he’s 23!! Who’s matched these two! The maturity difference between these ages is massive
18 is so young to date. I thought people just went to college and met people there. I don't think I went on a formal date until aged 25
Colleges in NZ are not the same as the US.
@aron.gortman I'm british. New Zealand are basically Brits that got lost or sent away. Our cultures are entwined
@@leigh7507 No, thats Australians. NZ especially modern New Zealanders have a maori influence thats unlike what you'd find in England. Most of them have kids or get married by 25, thats how they get benefits.
That dude is very odd!
And the fact she said yes to him?!
Awkward
He's got a drinking problem. Maybe the booze hides is awkwardness?
Yes, he's using it as a crutch. They have a nickname for alcohol: "potion to cure cowardice."
I have to admit that I'm quite smitten by the young lady: very pretty, bubbly personality, great smile and laugh. (Of course, she's only 18, so a bit young.). I imagine that most women would think the guy was about average looking(?). He was quite nervous and awkward, probably due to lack of dating experience, but I thought he seemed to be a nice person. I was frankly very surprised when she agreed to meet him again. As she said herself, there didn't seem to be a spark (from him to her - of course, he definitely found her attractive). But I suppose at her very young and tender age, she just wants to get more experience dating men.
I find the guy mile's better looking 😅
@@orangejuice4425i'm with you.
@@orangejuice4425 You must be kidding, he is several numbers lower than her.
Why are the producers making him do star jumps?
what is up with the match makers on first dates in different countries??
My read is, she wasn't interested. The drinking was an issue, if nothing else. She should just have said no at the exit interview.
Wait who's 18 and who's 23 again?😅
He’s 🌈
Jeeeeez I don't know what's worse. That he looks way older than 22 or that he tries to act like 22 is old lmao
Didn't like the way she pushed the bill towards him but she seemed much more mature than. And stop calling women "chicks".
In general, I would not like this move at all either. So yes I agree overall. However, in a rare case like this, where she only drank one glass of coke and he kept drowning himself in alcohol and acted in an off putting manner, I think it is justified.
Though she could have said “let me pay for my portion “ if she’s truly not interested.
No. They should have paid her for having even stayed at the table after his 3rd shot.
@@sigma8995 good point about him drinking so much. Agree.
@@davidmorley5430 I counted 3 shots + 3 glass of beer + 1 mix drink, at a MINIMUM. Who knows how many more he had off camera. But still, that's a lot for someone his size.
Agree
I have so many questions to ask you….. what’s your fav color? 😂
lol
"I think I'm just going to start off with something light.... can i get two tequila shots?" Haha he has the potential to become the next top comedian and he doesn't even know it 😂❤
If I'm reading this correctly, the guy seem to have a “I am a loser” core. His excessive drinking and how he is behaving give us an idea of what’s going on underneath. He’s only 23 but thinks he’s old, yet he’s quite immature.
As for the girl, I truly hope she did not mean to be an aspiring cat lady. Loneliness is a sad state of affair. Other than that, she seems more mature. Kudos to her for going non alcoholic. That is actually a rare thing to see these days.
I’ve dated women whom drank alcohol like a lost camel drinking water. It was never a good thing.
@@jessicab2682 Learn to type sober first of all. And secondly, encouraging young men to use alcohol as a crutch is pathetic.
I have always told myself I'm old but now at 52 I'm feeling it more. It's a mental problem when you believe your old when your not. Lmao.
@@Shebathebigcat It's alright. I think you are onto a good point though.
I have seen many folks suffering from physical and mental diseases soon after their retirement. The reason is because they are not forcing their body and mind to stay strong, and "young" anymore. It's the concept of use it or lose it, so aging takes over. No matter how old we get, even well into our 90s, it's best to try to stay as active as possible, lift weight, walk, swim, move, anything. Also it is important to keep the mind sharp and be on a nutritious diet.
Going back to you, you still got many youthful years! I got friends whom are older than you, and heck let me tell ya, we do crazy things for their age!
FA is a real problem now I'm a similar age to this guy but not good-looking. I realised that ship has sailed and visit escorts now and then as a way to get intimacy.
"I'm almost 23 - i'm getting close to being old" Oh buddy, you have no idea . . . .
Usually its the "girl-boss" saying "I need someone to tame me". This one is kinda different... 😅
She was lovely. He was just a weird mess. She definitely said yes to another date just to be nice, there is no way she actually wanted to see this clown again.
Where are all THE MEN? Manners for Goodness sakes 🙄
Her: "I want to be a cat lady." Him: "What's your favorite color?" I was hoping the producer would intervene with something...anything.🤣
That jump 2 seconds in gave it all away Benny 🤣
From an ‘old’ lady (comparatively!)… this is how a life of addiction starts.
Time to leave off the drink and stressful public situations my man. Time to focus on what’s important to you. Take time to find out who you are, what your interests are, and pursue goals that make you feel good. The right person will 💯 come along once you find your inner strength and confidence …. That is a promise!!!
I feel like First Dates NZ is the worst for setting up dates with basically kids. 18 ad 22??!! Let's have people with some real life experience!!
23 a step to being old...easy boy😅
I was 27 I had my first boyfriend I am 28 of age now
Yeah ...so....😂? Nothing wrong with that !
Ladies ... IF your date farted and responded like he did, would that be a deal breaker?
Me if she was all giggly abt farting on the first date, IDC what she looks like its nasty. Adios ☁🙄
It’s disgusting truly 🤮
ikr!! he just so weird!! and the way he drinks too!! I think she was tryin to be nice nd will friendzone him if not ghosting him ..
I love a girl thats totally authentic ! Farting is normal, dont be a drama queen !
@@pleun315 is normal when you are alone not with strangers and definitely not if you are trying to impress someone,if that makes me a drama queen for wanting to be respected nd wanting to be with well mannered people then be it
@@spiritedaway99 trying to impress someone is for the insecure darling, it sounds so sad.........a good fart not ☝️
I couldn't even understand what he was mumbling half the time. He's rude and full of himself.
What did he ask het at 5.07 that she was surprised at..? The amount of drink didn't help him but I was surprised that she said she would like to see him again! Entertaining to say the least 😂
Did the fart at the end made her to say yes to him?! I’m so confused
He’s super annoying and immature smh!!
23 is a step closer to being old? How old do they 20s look on the show 😂😂😂 i thought be was closer to 30
Oh my goodness. Please please stop repeating the same scene twice in every episode at the very beginning. It’s annoying, do better editing!
Who’s going to tell him 💅🏼?
I thought she was beautiful, right up to the point when the bill came. Then she pushed it slowly towards him and the dream was shattered 😰
It was made up mainly of his liquid diet ... so good on her.
It could be that he is the only one who doesn't know yet, actually. I wish them a great friendship 🙂
23 so old lol
OMG!
Oh gosh, this is so uncomfortable to watch …
Beardie got me addicted to gambling
The second he did that jump they should have aborted the date. Like, sorry, technical difficulties.
An aspiring cat lady.. that is so sad. I hope she see's the light before its too late.
Think it’s a joke
@@supremennn3829 hope so
@@supremennn3829 I truly hope so as well, though some girls are serious about that. I wonder if feminism has anything to do with it!
@@MaverickLee11 She's only 18!! Even if she's serious it's not serious, lol!!
@@Skeezer66 knowing nowadays, it is... more and more lonely washed up cat ladies, thats why more and more karens lol
9:16 why’d the woman on the right go “😏😏” and wiggle her tongue about to her partner after watching the couple walk past
ANOTHER BAD MATCH UP
No ....don't, you could do way better, girl.
Better out than in but never ever in public or a first second third or fourth date
Why do these NZ people look a lot older than their age lmao
Hope he LOVES CATS
He loves dudes. !
he loves nonsense
This is terrible,why are you wasting this cute girl's time
23. old???😂😂😂😂
jumping like a fairy, not sure why your mum would ever think that....
oooook
No mate I think you are gray. Nothing wrong with that.🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
I'm ur tomcat kaely 😢
I feel like he misspoke...maybe he meant to say he is almost 33. Being 6 years single makes sense then also since many don't start counting their single years until after they turn 18.
Goodness. Excessive drinking. Totally unaware of himself. Needs to grow up, not be ' tamed'
And 18, no sweetest. You grow you, travel, invest, grow yiur money.
This guy is sooo immature!
Energies are so different.
This guy would come out years later..
7:44 I was likinghim until I wasn't..
She is too hot and he went on too strong on her, filling her with compliments. Not the way to go, my man.
Too hot..😂😂😂😂 ohh mercy
But apparently it worked lmao
The fark is this match
they're so cute together
Comment section, be chill! He's just a bit immature and inexperienced!
ThisN ew Zealand dating show is not so good as they seem to mismatch people mostly
Cringe!! Weird!!
Yet she still asked him to pay for her meal even though she had no intention of seen him again! Shameful behaviour by females who do not want to pay