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1. No one really cares about you 2. Until you fight, you can't get anything in life 3. Your friends make you - so if you have bad friends, you are in trouble 4. Time is the only asset in life - if you love life, don't waste time 5. Your 20s is the most important period of your life because you can get a lot done then for your older years
Well ... allow me to interpret the 5 truths: 1.) No one values you more than they value theirself. 2.) Success takes a 100% effort. Anything less, results in mediocrity and failure. 3.) Humans tend to "sink" to the level of those that surround them. 4.) Time can be Utilized, Sold, Invested, or wasted. Ones' emotions usually make the choice. 5.) Few people continue to "Learn" after they turn 30 yrs old. Distractions of occupations, children, and financial debt often drown out the opportunities for further meaningful learning. Thus, whatever "groove" you settle into as you get married, buy a house, raise a family, and then retire from the rat-race ... will likely determine the level of success you will acheive in life. Does this mean that these five rules are carved in stone? Not at all. It simply means that only one in a thousand are ever able to "jump to a higher groove" once they begin "groovin'". Oh, ... and the video forgot to mention the sixth rule of life: Assuming that you are able to overcome the first five rules ... there is only one that remains, that threatens to extinguish your fire. 6.) All worthwhile change requires Decision, Committment, and Sacrifice to acheive it. (Sadly, this is the truth that slams people to the ground with such force that they rarely get up, to try again.) Which brings me to RULE #7: 7.) Winners keep getting up after EACH failed attempt to succeed. And simply WILL NOT QUIT until they succeed. (Ultimately, it is Rule 7, that separates the losers from the winners in life.) Please make a note of it. 😜
Totally agree with everything here! Though like to highlight 1 point about the age thing. You can still become successful in your 40s or 50s or even 60s. You’ll only realise to have regrets as to why you didn’t start in your 20s but as you age you will have become mature and stronger in the mind to tell yourself to fight it, let it go and focus for what holds in the future.
Not saying that your 20s are not of extreme Importance but statistically speaking your 50s and your sixties are actually your highest earning periods for your life. Secondly ,once again we're getting back to facts here, the number one reason for retirement is health. So if in fact you do stay healthy, you can be a high earner going way into your 70s.
The thing is MOST of us waste our 20s. Some of us even waste our 20s on working hard and getting law degrees or medical degrees, because someone we thought we respected told us we should, and then we find out at 32 that we HATE our professions and also with a truckload of school debt. This wasn't me, I wasted my 20s on chasing girls with no success. I'm super lucky because some guys spent their 20s chasing girls and had babies--poor bastards, the dads, not the babies. So, with many of us wasting our 20s, then we're all basically equal. If you have a baby or school debt, it's harder, but not impossible. Tough it out--like he said, nothing good happens in life without a fight.
I feel sorry for your life view... I am 64 and although my life has been one of many hardships,,. I think we are blessed to be alive to be a friend to another... to start today over if necessary... to be truly grateful for whatever we do have,.." most people have no clue why they are here so they chase Things and more things...Serving God by serving your fellow man brings great joy... Try it🙏🏼✝️☮️🕎✡️❤️in JesusName
I really thank you for this video. Most people will rarely grow to appreciate the truth in this video until its too late. Experience taught me this bitter truth very early in life and I worked hard to acquire advanced degrees in my mid twenties. People who were pampered and spoiled in their early life were horrified to discover this shocking truth too late! The bitter truth is those who truly care are very few and very rare. In other words, learn to take good care of yourself.
Interesting video , some truth,I’m concerned with the statement if you don’t lay foundations down in your 20’s it’s to late. It’s never too late to change any part of your life. So be careful on believing other people’s opinions. You are your own belief. Change can happen at any age.
Never too late to achieve success, but the earlier you start the easier it is and the sooner you get there. Harness the power of learning and compounding early.
@@lovingdiscernment4234 Starting early and making sacrifices really is a loving gesture. You have to love yourself and be successful or at least sow the seeds of success before you can really help others in any really significant way. I see your point that giving to charity and others, either through time, money or both, is a product of success and should be mentioned as a positive result of success in ALUX videos. The only mention I've of charity in Alux videos was negative. Stating not to give to charity because it enriches the charity administrators and professional fund raisers. I agree with Dave Ramsey's plan. Live like no one else early by being frugal so that you can live and give like no one else as you become more successful. The latter is where I am in my life and my intention is to use a substantial portion of my accumulated wealth to help others both now and when I pass away.
Many ppl have re-invented themselves later in life, thanks to wisdom of learning from mistakes made when young. Your 20s is hardly the be-all and end-all. More like 30s/40s. Ppl do care about you when they need something. Like you do when asking to subscribe.
I disagree with the age thing. It's never too late to realise your dreams. We are where we are for different reasons. Are you saying after 30 or 40 one should give up. I know people that failed in their early years but realised their dreams after 40. They did the wrong things before but started teaching for their dreams 'late'. One of them is my brother. He now has a successful company in Zimbabwe where most people are running away from.
No one is wasting time. It is not, those who are struggling are wasting time.. They may or may not be so called 'successful', materialistic world can recognise..It is the confusion amongst the parasite middle-class mentality highly responsible for such aimless hang around between the aspiration of dreaming of high although having genesis lies in simple livelihood of honesty. .
EXACTLY. I got married and divorced in my 20s after college. Stagnated my life. Joined a direct selling company in my 40s and now close to 60...own a million dollar property in the midst of executing a $7M realestate development plan...
i was bankrupt at 40, now 46 own out right my house, car, no debt. will retire b4 50. spent my 20's drinking smoking weed ,on holiday and enjoying my youth. you can never get your 20's back and money isn't the be all and end all. that being said if I was to do it all again, I wouldn't waste nearly as much money on material objects and would have probably already retired by now
I think , he using the number 20 because living at any country in the 'Fisrt World' is another reality . It's easier To get anything and loose everything . For the rest whose are living at the rest of the world , our options are fewer . Still , this advise is good and applicable .
@@WWEENETWORK Well done, very few guys have the talent to revamp like you. So many people wasted their lives reveling and frolicking in their teens and twenties they will never have the chance to compensate like you did.
Except that for most people their family DOES continue to care about them after they grow up. That's why you have so many 30 year olds still living with their parents! What's needed is more parenting designed to get kids to launch someday. Parents make their kids too comfortable. It's important to have a strong family system, where you know you'll never be left to starve on the streets alone so long as anyone in your family has a home and food to eat. But there also needs to be an expectation that depending on family is a rock bottom fall back, not a way of life. And yeah, I'm talking about my family right now. I've already told them that I'll teach them everything they need to know to build their own wealth, but if they ask me for money the answer will always be "no." That's not because I don't care about them. It's because I do.
Think again bro, not all families are this caring. Many families kick out children out into the streets in their early teens or even before. Come to Africa and see a lot of family discord and rancor.
@@princexl33840 That type of family life isn't restricted to Africa. We have way too much of it in the US. I believe it is one of our biggest problems as a nation and the root of most of our other problems.
I always say no one really cares about you - that’s your job. it’s a hard pill to swallow but it’s 100 percent accurate...it’s all about you! Fix yourself and make yourself happy
That is the raw truth about living this life, but do you REALLY want to know what to do in this short dream we "live"? Get rid of everything you have, live as a monk, or like a monk, and be of service to whoever needs help at every turn. If you don't believe that now, go about acquiring "stuff", keep it in the back of your mind, and remember it when you are old and close to death. You will then realize the truth, but it will be too late. All the great wise one's throughout history tell us that all you can do with this life is give it away. We go from no-where to now-here, and back no-where - may I add - with no-thing.
There are some truths with what he shared with us. However, word choice could be better. I don’t feel comfortable that we have to fight so, we could get what we want out of life. A better substitute would be “working hard, be dedicated and motivated” to achieve your goals. And I don’t agree that nobody cares for us because there would always be people who care for us or better yet said, “ we are born independent”.
while this video are meant to motivate us it will also depress some you cant tell people that no one cares for them dispite of the way the world is today thera are caring people around besides some of us do have families that care it does'nt matter how much you acheive in life if there is no one that care for you it is not fullfilling because if you think that no one care that mean you done care for anyone either.
@@andreaphang68 guess he made the video from his own experiences and perspective to what life has offered him, added to the environment he must have been raised or found himself😰 .. As much as I agree with some points there.. Thé aspect of "noone cares, and after 20 you've lost out" is a NO👎 for me!
Well, it just goes to show that when someone speaks the truth ... someone else is subsequently offended by the truth, and complains that it wasn't sugar-coated, and thus, was horribly difficult to swallow. Have you ever been taught the proper method of saving a drowning victim? Yeah ... you approach the thrashing victim "feet first". Seriously. Why??? Because if they get ahold of your head, or your shoulders, or your arms, or your chest, or ... ANYTHING they can use to save theirself, they will gladly drown you, to gain a few additional breaths before drowning again. The person that saves the drowning victim, must first get a committment of submission from the drowning person, before they can do anything to help them. The person who KNOWS HOW TO SWIM must be the one in control. Otherwise, both die needlessly. Likewise, those who are offended by the truth ... are those who will latch onto others and pull them below the surface, if you let them. If they can't handled the truth ... unfortunately, it may be necessary to wait until they are unconscious, before attempting to tow them to safety. Of course, if you are offended by this truth ... well, start at the beginning again.
I dnt have ant friends 8n the world BUT... JESUS CHRIST and he is incontrol of the 5 things you mentioned, without him what your saying is true...but with him hope , love, strength and prosperity is soooo possible. Please read the book of Job ❤...its not over till he says it is that's why we are still here. GODBLESS YOU AND JESUS CARES❣❣❣
Life is all about luck and timing! You can be good at what you do, work hard, and do things better than others. But, if you don't have luck and timing you won't be very successful no matter how hard you work!
Preparedness is good but only if timing is in the groove with it. Things don't always come your way. You've got to be in sync and it all has to gel together.
Chance, luck, opportunity or whatever, will always be there. You can only recognise it if you are prepared. Even if you win a lottery, without preparation, you will lose it.
6. Conditional life prizes you fight and have the right friends for are not worth a dime in larger sense. unconditional things are the only things that can bring lasting contentment and joy, but see #1.Nobody gives a dime, thus you have to work really hard to fake and condition yourself that #1 through #5 will open the doors of contentment and everlasting joy.
20s is best period I agree and I understand it even though I see so many people disagree with this but the point there is fighting for life when u still young is best and u will start live ur first class life when u ar very young it's good and Sweet than being late to be successfully
Stopped watching the video at 'they think capitalism is the problem'. As a matter of fact, it is: many people have to be poor, for a few to be rich. Do you really enjoy living by the law of the jungle, people?
Living life focused only on one's self sounds like a pretty lonely, boring existence. I get the point of #1: you can't expect society to hand you anything. You have to be proactive and pave your own way. But saying nobody cares about you is also pessimistic and wrong. A lot of people do care, and you'll likely live a happier life if you care about other people too.
Bro to be honest the only people that can really care for you is family Your friends don't care about trust your friends are only their when things are good in your life when things are bad their never really help You they don't want you to succeed and prosper
jijor assad This might be a crude analogy, but, when I need to get in shape, that doesn't stop me from wanting junk food. And it doesn't make me want to exercise more. But I can desire my health more than the junk food and the comfort of my couch and choose to live a healthier lifestyle. Similarly, I will admit that there is a selfish, prideful side of me that wants to make more money and be more successful (however you define that) than my friends. This side of me is reactionary and cares about my social status. But then the rational side of me actually cares about my friends and wants them to thrive even if my accomplishments pale in comparison or they move far away and I don't get to see them very often. And, ultimately, I choose that over my self-centeredness. Those desires are where I place my intentions. My best friend is thinking about going off to the military, and I think it might be good for him. I'd miss him a ton, but I'm encouraging him to do what he thinks is best for his future. In this tangible way, I chose to support him even though it would be inconvenient for me. I think most people, like myself, do have that dark side of them that is out for their own interest. And I think you're right to point out that conflict. However, I think most people have the other side of them that does care. And I believe a lot of people would choose the side of virtue when given the chance. Not everybody, but certainly not nobody.
Had i not read through the comments, the 20yr part would have really f*cked me up. Am 37yrs old now and still f*cked... but i have *still* not lost all hope yet... thanks to some comments i read
I don't know what or why you think your fucked. We all are at some point I'm 45 year old female and all I want is my freedom and as much sexual gratification I can get. I now own my sexuality.
Not mom not dad no bf or husband or wife ( truly care ) this what i have realised when i get 39 .not even your children . We are dospensable in right time for others . Its harsh truth yes . But it still truth
I'm just finding out these things.... I'm 25 I'll b 26 next year. I wish I would've known this when I was 15. I have been wasting so much time on things I thought were important but in reality they're actually not.
Very good video and informative. Also needs to point areas where these points have been missed by most people and why.should also explain how to main success once achieved because economies crumble.
great video the people who they are commenting they want to show that are also some thing, they are competing, they are not learning if they learn 1 point they learned lot.
Let's be prudent & point out that-regardless what's postulated here--there's an over arching truth that trumps each of these 5 so called "truths". THERE ARE NO ABSOLUTES. PERIOD! So........making broad predictions of " truths" may work in some specific cases---but, out of 7+ billion people w as many different cultures, life circumstances, nature vs nurture situations & random chance, luck not to mention fate---it's safe to assume that each person's life is an intimate experiment of one, w an incredibly complex set of changing variables that will affect any probabilities of a predicated outcome. These broad brushed generalizations simply NEVER WORK. In principle & theory possibly ---but, in REALITY. Never.
Way too few dislikes, this guy seems to be a serious loser if you ask me. example: nobody wants their employees to compete. Competition leads to drama. Nobody wants their business involved in drama.
2 things (1)the topic was what older ppl realize etc THAT wasn't mentioned at all (2) ur 20's is NOT the most IMPORTANT years! Earl Nightingale said we have 40 good years to get it RIGHT however KFC wasn't successful until he was 65! JUST like college ANYONE can succeed at ANY age of course common sense says the sooner the BETTER. I DON'T know what happened w THIS video BUT like the rich say if it ain't broke dont fix it. U were GREAT DON'T CHANGE w misleading titles and propaganda about youth anyone can succeed at ANY age!
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I only done a degree during my 40's years. It changed my live. It is never too late.
1. No one really cares about you
2. Until you fight, you can't get anything in life
3. Your friends make you - so if you have bad friends, you are in trouble
4. Time is the only asset in life - if you love life, don't waste time
5. Your 20s is the most important period of your life because you can get a lot done then for your older years
Well ... allow me to interpret the 5 truths:
1.) No one values you more than they value theirself.
2.) Success takes a 100% effort. Anything less, results in mediocrity and failure.
3.) Humans tend to "sink" to the level of those that surround them.
4.) Time can be Utilized, Sold, Invested, or wasted. Ones' emotions usually make the choice.
5.) Few people continue to "Learn" after they turn 30 yrs old. Distractions of occupations, children, and financial debt often drown out the opportunities for further meaningful learning.
Thus, whatever "groove" you settle into as you get married, buy a house, raise a family, and then retire from the rat-race ... will likely determine the level of success you will acheive in life.
Does this mean that these five rules are carved in stone?
Not at all.
It simply means that only one in a thousand are ever able to "jump to a higher groove" once they begin "groovin'".
Oh, ... and the video forgot to mention the sixth rule of life:
Assuming that you are able to overcome the first five rules ... there is only one that remains, that threatens to extinguish your fire.
6.) All worthwhile change requires Decision, Committment, and Sacrifice to acheive it.
(Sadly, this is the truth that slams people to the ground with such force that they rarely get up, to try again.)
Which brings me to RULE #7:
7.) Winners keep getting up after EACH failed attempt to succeed. And simply WILL NOT QUIT until they succeed.
(Ultimately, it is Rule 7, that separates the losers from the winners in life.)
Please make a note of it. 😜
@@marshalllhiepler Awesome! Impressive! 🙏
I know this already
I really appreciate your comment, I could have wasted my time watching this video.
God says all valuable until death
There are people who care about you. You can waste time every now and then. Having bad friends don’t mean you to be one of them. 🤷🏻♀️
The truth is our future is determined by God and not by man!
I really thank you for this video. Most people will rarely grow to appreciate the truth in this video until its too late.
It's about luck and timing and friends in high places help, also you do have to work hard that I do believe.
I had a rough life. Things seem to get easier as I get older.
Totally agree with everything here! Though like to highlight 1 point about the age thing. You can still become successful in your 40s or 50s or even 60s. You’ll only realise to have regrets as to why you didn’t start in your 20s but as you age you will have become mature and stronger in the mind to tell yourself to fight it, let it go and focus for what holds in the future.
Not saying that your 20s are not of extreme Importance but statistically speaking your 50s and your sixties are actually your highest earning periods for your life. Secondly ,once again we're getting back to facts here, the number one reason for retirement is health. So if in fact you do stay healthy, you can be a high earner going way into your 70s.
samuel vance so long one lean how to ride the waves
Yep,😉
Thanks very much and keep it up and God bless you for transforming our lives from Zambia.
thank you for this eye-opener, but truths I was already aware of....it's never too late to learn.
Health,health,health and reach 100 years to see more the beauty of the world and enjoy the excitement the future has to give
Success is a subjective term , time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time !
The thing is MOST of us waste our 20s. Some of us even waste our 20s on working hard and getting law degrees or medical degrees, because someone we thought we respected told us we should, and then we find out at 32 that we HATE our professions and also with a truckload of school debt. This wasn't me, I wasted my 20s on chasing girls with no success. I'm super lucky because some guys spent their 20s chasing girls and had babies--poor bastards, the dads, not the babies. So, with many of us wasting our 20s, then we're all basically equal. If you have a baby or school debt, it's harder, but not impossible. Tough it out--like he said, nothing good happens in life without a fight.
I feel sorry for your life view... I am 64 and although my life has been one of many hardships,,. I think we are blessed to be alive to be a friend to another... to start today over if necessary... to be truly grateful for whatever we do have,.." most people have no clue why they are here so they chase Things and more things...Serving God by serving your fellow man brings great joy... Try it🙏🏼✝️☮️🕎✡️❤️in JesusName
I really thank you for this video. Most people will rarely grow to appreciate the truth in this video until its too late. Experience taught me this bitter truth very early in life and I worked hard to acquire advanced degrees in my mid twenties. People who were pampered and spoiled in their early life were horrified to discover this shocking truth too late! The bitter truth is those who truly care are very few and very rare. In other words, learn to take good care of yourself.
Interesting video , some truth,I’m concerned with the statement if you don’t lay foundations down in your 20’s it’s to late. It’s never too late to change any part of your life. So be careful on believing other people’s opinions. You are your own belief. Change can happen at any age.
Never too late to achieve success, but the earlier you start the easier it is and the sooner you get there. Harness the power of learning and compounding early.
Negative Video...lacks everything loving and decent.
@@lovingdiscernment4234 Starting early and making sacrifices really is a loving gesture. You have to love yourself and be successful or at least sow the seeds of success before you can really help others in any really significant way. I see your point that giving to charity and others, either through time, money or both, is a product of success and should be mentioned as a positive result of success in ALUX videos. The only mention I've of charity in Alux videos was negative. Stating not to give to charity because it enriches the charity administrators and professional fund raisers. I agree with Dave Ramsey's plan. Live like no one else early by being frugal so that you can live and give like no one else as you become more successful. The latter is where I am in my life and my intention is to use a substantial portion of my accumulated wealth to help others both now and when I pass away.
Many ppl have re-invented themselves later in life, thanks to wisdom of learning from mistakes made when young. Your 20s is hardly the be-all and end-all. More like 30s/40s. Ppl do care about you when they need something. Like you do when asking to subscribe.
Word!
Indeed.Don't forget me too..🤣
@@mikhelBrown yes
@@FleurDeLysPTV in New Orleans at moment. That fleur de lys sounds familiar.
I disagree with the age thing. It's never too late to realise your dreams. We are where we are for different reasons. Are you saying after 30 or 40 one should give up. I know people that failed in their early years but realised their dreams after 40. They did the wrong things before but started teaching for their dreams 'late'. One of them is my brother. He now has a successful company in Zimbabwe where most people are running away from.
No one is wasting time. It is not, those who are struggling are wasting time.. They may or may not be so called 'successful', materialistic world can recognise..It is the confusion amongst the parasite middle-class mentality highly responsible for such aimless hang around between the aspiration of dreaming of high although having genesis lies in simple livelihood of honesty. .
EXACTLY. I got married and divorced in my 20s after college. Stagnated my life. Joined a direct selling company in my 40s and now close to 60...own a million dollar property in the midst of executing a $7M realestate development plan...
i was bankrupt at 40, now 46 own out right my house, car, no debt. will retire b4 50. spent my 20's drinking smoking weed ,on holiday and enjoying my youth. you can never get your 20's back and money isn't the be all and end all. that being said if I was to do it all again, I wouldn't waste nearly as much money on material objects and would have probably already retired by now
I think , he using the number 20 because living at any country in the 'Fisrt World' is another reality . It's easier To get anything and loose everything . For the rest whose are living at the rest of the world , our options are fewer . Still , this advise is good and applicable .
@@WWEENETWORK Well done, very few guys have the talent to revamp like you. So many people wasted their lives reveling and frolicking in their teens and twenties they will never have the chance to compensate like you did.
We love you at the end, Just remembered you said no one truly cares about us, how ironic but true
I thought this was gonna be a video on what old people say they learned too late. Deceptive thumbnail pic you’ve got there sir
Thank you too for sharing this massage
The only had thing to discover to late is that you spent your life pleasing others and not yourself
First quote: No one truly cares about you. Last quote: Subscribe, we Love you...lol...that sums it all up.
Hahaha how ironic
Being able to know oneself and responsible for oneself and respect oneself wishes i knew sooner
This is truly useful, thanx for sharing
Great stuff!
Best speech ever, makes me emotional
this commentary is priceless and thanks!
I really agree with you!!!!
40 must be the new20 then? 😆🔑🙌💯
Except that for most people their family DOES continue to care about them after they grow up. That's why you have so many 30 year olds still living with their parents! What's needed is more parenting designed to get kids to launch someday. Parents make their kids too comfortable. It's important to have a strong family system, where you know you'll never be left to starve on the streets alone so long as anyone in your family has a home and food to eat. But there also needs to be an expectation that depending on family is a rock bottom fall back, not a way of life. And yeah, I'm talking about my family right now. I've already told them that I'll teach them everything they need to know to build their own wealth, but if they ask me for money the answer will always be "no." That's not because I don't care about them. It's because I do.
Think again bro, not all families are this caring. Many families kick out children out into the streets in their early teens or even before. Come to Africa and see a lot of family discord and rancor.
@@princexl33840 That type of family life isn't restricted to Africa. We have way too much of it in the US. I believe it is one of our biggest problems as a nation and the root of most of our other problems.
I always say no one really cares about you - that’s your job. it’s a hard pill to swallow but it’s 100 percent accurate...it’s all about you! Fix yourself and make yourself happy
That is the raw truth about living this life, but do you REALLY want to know what to do in this short dream we "live"? Get rid of everything you have, live as a monk, or like a monk, and be of service to whoever needs help at every turn. If you don't believe that now, go about acquiring "stuff", keep it in the back of your mind, and remember it when you are old and close to death. You will then realize the truth, but it will be too late. All the great wise one's throughout history tell us that all you can do with this life is give it away. We go from no-where to now-here, and back no-where - may I add - with no-thing.
There are some truths with what he shared with us. However, word choice could be better. I don’t feel comfortable that we have to fight so, we could get what we want out of life. A better substitute would be “working hard, be dedicated and motivated” to achieve your goals. And I don’t agree that nobody cares for us because there would always be people who care for us or better yet said, “ we are born independent”.
while this video are meant to motivate us it will also depress some you cant tell people that no one cares for them dispite of the way the world is today thera are caring people around besides some of us do have families that care it does'nt matter how much you acheive in life if there is no one that care for you it is not fullfilling because if you think that no one care that mean you done care for anyone either.
@@andreaphang68 guess he made the video from his own experiences and perspective to what life has offered him, added to the environment he must have been raised or found himself😰
.. As much as I agree with some points there.. Thé aspect of "noone cares, and after 20 you've lost out" is a NO👎 for me!
See you're a dummy so it passes working hard is one aspect , when the group is working hard you have to fight to beat them all out
Well, it just goes to show that when someone speaks the truth ...
someone else is subsequently offended by the truth, and complains that it wasn't sugar-coated, and thus, was horribly difficult to swallow.
Have you ever been taught the proper method of saving a drowning victim?
Yeah ... you approach the thrashing victim "feet first". Seriously.
Why??? Because if they get ahold of your head, or your shoulders, or your arms, or your chest, or ... ANYTHING they can use to save theirself, they will gladly drown you, to gain a few additional breaths before drowning again.
The person that saves the drowning victim, must first get a committment of submission from the drowning person, before they can do anything to help them.
The person who KNOWS HOW TO SWIM must be the one in control. Otherwise, both die needlessly.
Likewise, those who are offended by the truth ... are those who will latch onto others and pull them below the surface, if you let them.
If they can't handled the truth ... unfortunately, it may be necessary to wait until they are unconscious, before attempting to tow them to safety.
Of course, if you are offended by this truth ... well, start at the beginning again.
marshalllhiepler Wise point. 👍
I dnt have ant friends 8n the world BUT... JESUS CHRIST and he is incontrol of the 5 things you mentioned, without him what your saying is true...but with him hope , love, strength and prosperity is soooo possible. Please read the book of Job ❤...its not over till he says it is that's why we are still here. GODBLESS YOU AND JESUS CARES❣❣❣
This was a great laugh. There are some seeds of wisdom, but then some interesting perceptions of them. Point 5, actually contradicts point 4.
Oh man this video just earned a subscription
Life is all about luck and timing! You can be good at what you do, work hard, and do things better than others. But, if you don't have luck and timing you won't be very successful no matter how hard you work!
Agreed and THOSE 2 things come from 1 source GOD! put GOD 1st and luck WILL happen Amen
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Luck? Remember this , so called luck is when preparedness meet opportunity. If you wait for luck you might never achieve anything.
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Preparedness is good but only if timing is in the groove with it. Things don't always come your way. You've got to be in sync and it all has to gel together.
Chance, luck, opportunity or whatever, will always be there. You can only recognise it if you are prepared. Even if you win a lottery, without preparation, you will lose it.
Thank you👍🙂👍
I cannot eat all the deliciuos foods served on the table. I just need to take in what's good and enough for my health. Thanks for sharing....
Is not too late to change your life to a bad person to be a good person and help others people need help out there xx
Everything said is true except #5. It never too late
NEVER! As long as you don't QUIT!
6. Conditional life prizes you fight and have the right friends for are not worth a dime in larger sense. unconditional things are the only things that can bring lasting contentment and joy, but see #1.Nobody gives a dime, thus you have to work really hard to fake and condition yourself that #1 through #5 will open the doors of contentment and everlasting joy.
Maybe I have forgotten after 68 years but i don't remember when I was young and life was "easy"!!!
I only agree on 1.
I continue to upgrade myself to meet the challenges ahead
Time is precious so never waste it
Guess I'm screwed, I'm 45! Thanks for the depression!
Just 45, damn...that means with this knowledge youre going to be greatly fantastic by the time youre 50....just start fighting for it now...
It does not apply to everyone, everybody have their own clocks,you've made it till now,well done😉
ditto let's just have a beer I don't think about it. LOL
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67 just start getting what I want
Excellence is as the results of hard and smart work.
Thanks for educating
God bless you I learnt something today
Learned
20s is best period I agree and I understand it even though I see so many people disagree with this but the point there is fighting for life when u still young is best and u will start live ur first class life when u ar very young it's good and Sweet than being late to be successfully
Stopped watching the video at 'they think capitalism is the problem'. As a matter of fact, it is: many people have to be poor, for a few to be rich. Do you really enjoy living by the law of the jungle, people?
Difficult to accept. But agreed.
Living life focused only on one's self sounds like a pretty lonely, boring existence. I get the point of #1: you can't expect society to hand you anything. You have to be proactive and pave your own way. But saying nobody cares about you is also pessimistic and wrong. A lot of people do care, and you'll likely live a happier life if you care about other people too.
Bro to be honest the only people that can really care for you is family
Your friends don't care about trust your friends are only their when things are good in your life when things are bad their never really help
You they don't want you to succeed and prosper
jijor assad This might be a crude analogy, but, when I need to get in shape, that doesn't stop me from wanting junk food. And it doesn't make me want to exercise more. But I can desire my health more than the junk food and the comfort of my couch and choose to live a healthier lifestyle. Similarly, I will admit that there is a selfish, prideful side of me that wants to make more money and be more successful (however you define that) than my friends. This side of me is reactionary and cares about my social status. But then the rational side of me actually cares about my friends and wants them to thrive even if my accomplishments pale in comparison or they move far away and I don't get to see them very often. And, ultimately, I choose that over my self-centeredness. Those desires are where I place my intentions.
My best friend is thinking about going off to the military, and I think it might be good for him. I'd miss him a ton, but I'm encouraging him to do what he thinks is best for his future. In this tangible way, I chose to support him even though it would be inconvenient for me.
I think most people, like myself, do have that dark side of them that is out for their own interest. And I think you're right to point out that conflict. However, I think most people have the other side of them that does care. And I believe a lot of people would choose the side of virtue when given the chance. Not everybody, but certainly not nobody.
Good advice
Thanks a lot im not a english speaker , but i can learn a lot from you vídeos.
YOU WILL NOT BE YOUNG FOR EVER..A HARD TRUTH..TIME AND TIDE WILL NEVER WAIT.
You got to love yourself FIRST and everything is going to be alright
So true time is everything how U manage your matters
Brilliant
Thank you
Had i not read through the comments, the 20yr part would have really f*cked me up. Am 37yrs old now and still f*cked... but i have *still* not lost all hope yet... thanks to some comments i read
I don't know what or why you think your fucked. We all are at some point I'm 45 year old female and all I want is my freedom and as much sexual gratification I can get. I now own my sexuality.
I'd like to believe my mom cares about me❤
Otherwise this video was very eye opening🌟
Not mom not dad no bf or husband or wife ( truly care ) this what i have realised when i get 39 .not even your children . We are dospensable in right time for others . Its harsh truth yes . But it still truth
I'm just finding out these things.... I'm 25 I'll b 26 next year. I wish I would've known this when I was 15. I have been wasting so much time on things I thought were important but in reality they're actually not.
Very good video and informative. Also needs to point areas where these points have been missed by most people and why.should also explain how to main success once achieved because economies crumble.
Great
number 3 the Millionaire success Habits book explains that the Who is in your inner circle people.
It's what i normally tell my son that in this life you have to fight! So the guy has heat the nail on the spot.
great video
the people who they are commenting they want to show that are also some thing, they are competing, they are not learning if they learn 1 point they learned lot.
You can show and then someone will teach you mord
Very good, very true ... now looking back on 66 years of my LIFE !
I'm Glad That I didn't Wait untill I Watch This Video To Learn That 5
So true
3 is very interesting topic to elaborate
Totally disagree with 1&2
Thanks for good video
Very inspiring ...
I don't buy the 20 year old story. God gives us new opportunities everyday..that is why it is called the present.
Five golden truths....
Thanks for this...
Love your judgement
Hi need to see that God is good
Let's be prudent & point out that-regardless what's postulated here--there's an over arching truth that trumps each of these 5 so called "truths".
THERE ARE NO ABSOLUTES.
PERIOD! So........making broad predictions of " truths" may work in some specific cases---but, out of 7+ billion people w as many different cultures, life circumstances, nature vs nurture situations & random chance, luck not to mention fate---it's safe to assume that each person's life is an intimate experiment of one, w an incredibly complex set of changing variables that will affect any probabilities of a predicated outcome.
These broad brushed generalizations simply NEVER WORK. In principle & theory possibly ---but, in REALITY. Never.
There are no absolute however one truth is we still desire the same thing
20s are the most important period of PROFESSIONAL life only.....rest makes sense
cant be the only one who focused more on the drawing than what he was actually saying
Agreed.
True
In our 20's we had families and children
Actually, most people likely figure some of these things out long before their senior citizens
A.D. B LOL, I agree!
Way too few dislikes, this guy seems to be a serious loser if you ask me.
example: nobody wants their employees to compete. Competition leads to drama. Nobody wants their business involved in drama.
Where can I contact you please? I need a mentor 😩👋🏾
@Van Brown what do you mentor in very interested
2 things (1)the topic was what older ppl realize etc THAT wasn't mentioned at all (2) ur 20's is NOT the most IMPORTANT years! Earl Nightingale said we have 40 good years to get it RIGHT however KFC wasn't successful until he was 65! JUST like college ANYONE can succeed at ANY age of course common sense says the sooner the BETTER. I DON'T know what happened w THIS video BUT like the rich say if it ain't broke dont fix it. U were GREAT DON'T CHANGE w misleading titles and propaganda about youth anyone can succeed at ANY age!
Can verify to the truthfulness of these five points....but dont take them too seriously.
All truths are half truth. The kybalion. Read it.
You're a sad sad man no matter how old you are make the best of it.
Great!
2mins in and I exited.
Hi Success Secrets TV, can I translate some of your videos into Korean in written form and share? I will indicate the source link.
Negative viewpoint
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