I started watching john in 2019. His videos convinced me to start going to Mass again after a decade away from the Church. 5 years later I’m married to a Catholic gal and starting a family.
What does that say about how screwed up you are? Doyle kisses Trump's butt. He won't ever let his audience know that the reason he wants Trump, a New England *Protestant* elite, back in office is to trigger the libs. Not to mention that he couldn't just cheer on DeSantis, his Floridian brother in Christ. He started the lie about DeSantis being an establishment plant to thwart Trump. He's catty.
@@tc9459 I think he just means people who aren't terminally online, not to say I'm not terminally online, but it's like a niche drama thing. It doesn't mean you're not a good Catholic, you're just not up to date on the lore so to speak.
@@billymays7958 Oh im well aware, I got sick to my stomach seeing this creep on Mats show. This guy is extremely sus based on his circles. You can always point out the “independent thinkers” who spend all their time on YT following this caliber of personality.
John Doyle has some must watch videos. "The Very Real Link Between Christianity & Conservatism" and "The Very Real Link Between Satanism & Liberalism" are extremely good.
This is why I like Christians. This comment right here. You guys need to tolerate way less. I’d totally go for a Christian / catholic hedgemony over what we have now. In a heartbeat.
@@valuedCustomer2929 What perspective is the "meh" from? That it really doesn't matter, and the Federal Reserve has a negligible impact on things? Or even from some thought that it is beneficial?
John Doyle sounds like a very intelligent, well-grounded man. I can't wait to check back in 10 years when he has a little more perspective on life. There is a streak of authority and invincibility in his opinions that feels untempered by years of lived experience of the world. I will stay tuned to see where he goes.
I was going to make this exact comment, there's a streak of self-righteousness that shows immaturity and lack of life experience. I don't know about his disappointments, but I know mine have soften my previous anger streak.
@@johnx140 of course they exist. The problem is that moral theology always deals with theoretical situations. But the application of Good and evil, of moral theology, can only be done in the particular circumstance it takes places. We can say killing is an evil action. We can also say that a woman who kills in self-defense against a rapist is choosing the moral good. Good and evil exist. But the longer you live, the more relationships and connections you make with other humans, the more you realize that there is room for nuance and Love tampered with Mercy. Doyle seems to have a lot of high moral opinions which is wonderful, but they do not seem to be tempered by the wisdom of lived experience.
Thank you so much for having john on. I cant begin to describe how important what you are doing is for people matt. From the bottom of my heart thank you.
Two of my favorites, together at last. Fradd and Doyle are right where the culture needs to go. I'd love to see Doyle and the New Polity guys get together and start building up more of a popular movement for conservative Catholic integralism.
1:28:02 As someone who had fallen pretty deep into the mindset described here. Thank you for the perspective. I don’t know what to do with this yet, but i needed to hear this.
We would drive around our town and other towns nearby and find ways to climb on top of schools. It became a challenge to see how many schools you could climb up. We became rather creative on how to climb up these schools, never using a ladder.
John Doyle is going far. I've been a fan for a while 🔥 LETS GOOO!! I'm getting baptized at the Easter vigil this year, and partly, this conversion of mine is thanks to John.
Like Doyle said in the interview, Buckley and National Review were some of the first to embrace cancel culture and purge paleos from the conservative movement.
He literally talked about this in the video. He claimed old conservatism (JBS) and said neocons (NR) systematically blacklisted the old ones. He left out a couple details, like the fact that the first neocons where Jewish Trotskyites who flipped against the USSR for backing Arabs against Israel. That's a big reason the right is so pro-Israel today. The old conservatives stood for America First always and it's about time we blacklist the neocons.
He totally nailed it with the description of paleo vs neo conservatism. I’m glad some conservatives are calling out William F. Buckley and his style of conservatism. I’ve heard Michael Knowles claim that Buckley invented conservatism! How ridiculous! Not that I am completely opposed to Michael Knowles (or Buckley for that matter), but he is starting from the wrong place historically speaking. Two years before the founding of National Review, Russell Kirk wrote The Conservatives Mind which featured real traditional conservatives like Calhoun, John Randolph, John Adam’s etc. These days, conservatives seem to think that Lincoln or MLK were conservatives. Good to see young people figuring this out and starting from a correct historical perspective.
@@Snoopy-apollo well, true. Adam’s was more a European style conservative. Just didn’t want to exclude all of the yankees. I respect Adams but he’s not my favorite. Are you saying that because I included Adams, I must also think that Lincoln was conservative? Because he just objectively was not in the context of his time. I’m not sure that writing one sentence about someone counts as a screed. Maybe take your own advice, bro.
@@Snoopy-apolloLincoln is only conservative in the sense that he was racist (most people for most of history were racist). He was pretty mediocre. The Confederates were far more conservative, generally.
I don’t want to get roasted because I am a woman asking this. I think a place like Steubenville would be so good for my husband who never had a present or engaged father. He NEEDS men. So I’m down with him going and having a cigar or pipe with friends. But, he has battled with alcoholism and has been sober for many years. It nearly destroyed our marriage. So how do the men handle a man who is sober from alcohol? Is it weird? Or do they encourage? Would the temptation be too much for him and if so, where in the world is he supposed to connect with men? We live in DFW area, but I’d almost be willing to move to find my husband some MEN to hang with. He’s in his late forties and has been starved of friendship for years because he doesn’t drink. I know, I know, this is me being mommy.
It’s a valid concern. I wish I knew what to tell you. Your husband would have to be very strong in his sobriety, not to be tempted among men who bond over alcohol. While I don’t want to 100% condemn the practice, I do have mixed feelings about it because of the temptation it may present to people who struggle over alcohol.
Perhaps he could first reach out to Catholic society/organizations like Calix or Catholic Recovery in an effort to connect with men who have recovered. And look into Catholic organizations like Fraternus and Knights of Columbus or secular ones like U.S. Men's Sheds (would love to know if Catholic men have started one) that do charity volunteering programs and/or workshop activities focused on fraternity, sharing practical skills and socializing. God bless you
Find good catholic men. If any friend of mine says in response to a drink offer “I don’t drink” I immediately understand without question and have the drink to myself. We can still have good conversation and a good time without alcohol.
He is not bashing it to say no one prefers it, he is bashing it to break people’s trance thinking its okay for men to shadow themselves from their friends due to a relationship
Na. Society looked down on smoking because cigarettes are freaking disgusting. Smoke pipes and cigars or whatever you want. Cigars don't smell horrid. But I had parents who smokes cigarettes all the time, and it's gross, and I can't blame anyone who doesn't want to be exposed to cigarette smoke.
Yeah, I don't know where this new pro smoking thing on the right is coming from. We all have observed people with our own eyes who smoked for years and the terrible effect it had on them.
@@s.t.652I think it’s more a push against the nanny state. I can understand that. However, cigarettes were a deal breaker for me when dating in my teens-20s and again in my late 40s. Still would be if I were dating.
Agree 100% about the smell. And I don't even mind the smell of the smoke that much, but that nasty odor that soaks into people's houses when they smoke is awful
What are the comments on this? 😅 I’m gen Z and I’m lost as to why we are bashing John, eachother, and some dude named nick? Cmon people, enjoy the interview on its own merits. Peddle your political ridiculousness elsewhere por favor
Thank you! You took the words out of my mouth. Except that I am a millennial and I know what’s going on in the comments. It’s so annoying. Idk why what John does has to have anything to do with another man.
41:25 My brother lives in the town we grew up in and his son goes to the same schools we went to. My dad still lives in the same house we grew up in too. I wish my kids could grow up there. My daughter loves it when we visit and has said that she wants to live there too. My husband doesn’t want to have to shovel snow or pay over $10k in property taxes though, so that’s not going to happen.
I realize he's young, but the descriptions of newly married men.😳 The two become one flesh. Maybe young men aren't as interested in spending time the same way as they used to spend it. And as far as "getting permission"....i feel like thats courtesy. I wouldn't call it getting permission, but couples tend to want to spend their time together early on. Its not emasculating.🤨
Right! Yes when you’re married you kinda need to communicate your whereabouts. That has nothing to do with being emasculating.. you have to be a pretty pathetic man if you can’t understand that simple concept of love
Communicating with your wife and changing some priorities isn’t emasculating. What’s emasculating is withdrawing from all male activities in your free time in order to live a life 100% centered around the things that your wife wants to do. Men need time with other men and there are ways to find time for that amidst life changes, it just takes more commitment and preparation than it does as a single man with less responsibility. Most men could do both but many drop the ball on their male time because they don’t understand how important it is until that they stop watering that’s plant and it dies.
I’d like to hear John define what he means by “do something great.” I think he draws a false dichotomy between “doing something great in the world” and “doing something great at home.” I see a lot of people in the comments “reacting to the normies” that think he is too far right. In reality, nothing says normie to me like waiting until your mid-30’s to get married and start a family because you were “doing something more important.”
Amen brother. I was quite amazed just glancing through the comments that no one was speaking up about...franky how wrong Mr. Doyle was regarding this issue.
You can do both without forcing yourself into a box, which I think is Doyle’s point. It can be just as silly for a boy to get married at 18 for the sole purpose of fulfilling a trad aesthetic as it is for a man to put off marriage for the sake of a decade of career building. A single man shouldn’t put his career goals on hold to chase marriage, in the same way that he shouldn’t put his home life on hold to chase money. Doing that is a recipe to end up finding success at neither. I’ve known peers, young men, who lack all motivation because they make their youth all about having a wife by 25, and lamenting their singleness at 26. Whereas if they’d invested in building themselves, their faith, their career, their masculinity, and their other relationships, they’d much more naturally be finding a wife by 26-30 and would be perfectly in line to have all of the home and career success that they’d always wanted.
The interesting thing about these long interviews is, it's just enough time to get a better understanding of what one truly believes. Building one self for marriage in all the areas your talking about is important. But this shouldn't be postponed for one into their twenties or thirties to start doing. And career building is not just restricted to being a business owner, a doctorate graduate, waiting for mom/dad to pay for your way or hand you an empire, or waiting to have a 1 to 2 child family which usually is controlled by birth control....unfortunately. I know of multiple examples of men who lived simple lives for their families teaching them the faith and responsibility which if that is trad them I'm all for it.
To be fair, chewing on cocaine leaves gives a similar effect to caffeine. The problem is cocaine is distilled down to a ridiculous degree. It would be like ingesting tons of pure caffeine, which is a really bad idea.
@@pinochet3698 Do your own research, of course, but I also don't have any problem with people being tea-totalers. If alcohol and such don't appeal to you, you are totally fine not partaking in them. You will still live a totally fulfilling life without them.
Im getting tired of single people giving advice on relationships and marriage. Just admit you want to keep pursuing self-centered pleasures or goals and aren't ready to put the needs of others ahead of yours. Thats fine, i would respect the candid talk way more then all this "marriage hampers your ability to do great things" garbage. Nothing against John in particular here, he's definitely not the only 20 something year old internet personality to say these things.
Yep pretty much. Imagine thinking a man spending time with his wife and children and providing for them isn’t achieving greatness. What in the world was he even talking about?
Fradd 💯 I have no idea what 'generation' I am. Seems like a new 'generation' comes along every couple years. I only know two generations: young folks, old folks
@cameronpack3965 he was one of the first with an insanely long interview. I think George Farmer might have gotten longer than his first one. Now Akin at over 6 hrs... gonna be hard to even want to beat haha
Nooo that interview was a SLOG. You could tell Seamus wanted it so bad and Matt just couldn't muster the enthusiasm. I think they ordered a pizza at one point.
All we can do is stream and say based things .. as a married man, and son of a carpenter... who has no practical skills ... and a theology and theatre degree.... yes....
My grandfather says men should get married a little older (around 28 to 30) and use those early twenties to do great things. And that is what he did...I think it is good advice for lots of guys! Maybe not everyone and getting married at twenty can lead to your doing greater things :)
I both agree and disagree. I think it completely depends on the person and what greatness is in store for them. I think having the wife and kids could fuel them to become even greater or at least out a bit of focus in their lives, though where I agree is if it's something very time consuming and resource heavy, such as climbing everest or being in the military. Wouldn't wanna miss the most important years of my child's life
Most men don’t. Kids and children makes a man mature and strive for more out of love and duty. Men always married young in the past. They just always have been slightly older than the woman. But still in the same agerange.
I don't quite understand what it is about marijuana that so many people have these bad experiences with it and become so consumed/misshaped by it. I smoke or vape it occasionally and I've had some great times with friends sharing deep conversations. In my experience, I find it can help me to feel more open and relaxed, more prone to being contemplative, and often increases my sense of wonder. I don't know why so many people seem prone to indulge in it and have such shallow experiences with it, though I have seen that with many of my peers.
@@dwong9289 It isn't a mortal sin to smoke it lol. If smoking marijuana deprives you of the use of reason, then that would be grave matter which could indeed be a mortal sin. If it merely impairs your use of reason, then it would be a venial sin.
Very off putting.. his view on masculinity and a man’s mission are really weird too. At one point he made a comment that having children do men want it or did the woman force the husband 🤨 what in the world does that even mean?
Another home run, Matt Fradd! Thanks for having this excellent guest on. I was unaware of him prior (I know, I live under a rock) but subbed his channel now.
Hi, I’m a real “tradwife.” I have four children and I stay home with them most of the time. I also work for income when my husband asks me to. I raise my children in the Faith and honor my husband in my word, dress, and deed. I do not have an Instagram account showing me making sourdough and dusting already clean vintage vases full of sunflowers, I do not wear a crisp sundress with a ruffled apron every day, I do not get up at 5am to milk our cow and prepare fresh butter and use the excess buttermilk to make fresh pancakes for my apple-cheeked and impeccably clean children from my own hand milled wheat. You are absolutely right that what is online is larping. I work extremely hard and so does my husband. I am a “tradwife” because I understand that my proper position as a Christian is to be oriented to follow my husband and not to lead him, just as he follows Christ. That’s it.
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Hey, Matt! :D
John Doyle is a goof and a sellout.
Pray he repents ASAP.
Nicotine men create good times, good times create weed men, weed men create hard times, hard times create nicotine men
Goes hard
Jajajaj
Based
Nice
💯 😂 well done
I started watching john in 2019. His videos convinced me to start going to Mass again after a decade away from the Church. 5 years later I’m married to a Catholic gal and starting a family.
Glory to God! Amen to you! John has done the same to me, realized the dangers of porn which actually lead me to find PWA! Thank you to both these men
Congrats man! All us young people need to have Catholic families and we’ll save the world for Christ
What does that say about how screwed up you are? Doyle kisses Trump's butt. He won't ever let his audience know that the reason he wants Trump, a New England *Protestant* elite, back in office is to trigger the libs. Not to mention that he couldn't just cheer on DeSantis, his Floridian brother in Christ. He started the lie about DeSantis being an establishment plant to thwart Trump. He's catty.
Congratulations! Praise God
But did all the commies heck off from your life. Thats the real question!
@53:50 'Trump was hosting gay weddings at Mar a Lago while Kanye West was running for President'. What a sentence.
Yeah lol sure didn’t have that on my bingo card
i appreciate how John talks about porn issues, he doesn't pull any punches or try to skirt around the issue
Pounces?
@@hetmanjz punches*
John Doyle saved my life. I mean that in no uncertain terms. God bless him.
Same.
Seeing Matt’s mostly normie audience being exposed to the groypers and right wing e-drama is pretty hilarious.
Groypers rise up
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Normie audience? Please explain…. I don’t think you can be Catholic and be a normie in in this culture we live in.
@@tc9459 I think he just means people who aren't terminally online, not to say I'm not terminally online, but it's like a niche drama thing. It doesn't mean you're not a good Catholic, you're just not up to date on the lore so to speak.
@@billymays7958 Oh im well aware, I got sick to my stomach seeing this creep on Mats show. This guy is extremely sus based on his circles. You can always point out the “independent thinkers” who spend all their time on YT following this caliber of personality.
Never would have guessed I'd see this pair-up, but I'm so glad I did. This is exactly the interview everyone needed to see.
John Doyle has some must watch videos. "The Very Real Link Between Christianity & Conservatism"
and "The Very Real Link Between Satanism & Liberalism" are extremely good.
I prefer "The link between Catholicism and child abuse."
Sadly John Doyle is a goof and a sellout.
Pray he repents ASAP.
His video on the evil of pornography is life changing
Doyle has no must watch videos
Yes even more important than those two@@supremeleadersmeagol6345
Prayed for John in my Rosary this morning. Thank you, Matt.
This is why I like Christians. This comment right here. You guys need to tolerate way less.
I’d totally go for a Christian / catholic hedgemony over what we have now.
In a heartbeat.
Bros, I think he might be literally me
Hearing Thursday laugh out loud after John talked about drywall was one of the best moments… and there are quite a few good ones
😅
Who are “those people in charge” that dont want men to organize?
Gotta wait for the NJF locals only segment for the answer
Everystein Singlewitz Timeburg.
I mean, if YOU were in charge, would you like people organizing against you? The people in charge wouldnt like it either, its just normal
To answer your question, we are talking about literally the people in positions of power
It might be the same tribe that occupies DC, who also sends billions of dollars in money and bombs to isreal
Y'ALL! Fradd can have whomever he wants to have on his podcast. He's good at what he does bc he interviews people HE wants to talk to.
Age of Empires II is such a great game
Absolutely classic game!!!
I've never met a leftie that loves AOE2
Fantastic game. If you've never watched pro AOEII Gameplay watch the Viper play it's insane how good some guys get.
@@achilles4242I once heard of a man who could predict when he'd hit castle age within about 10 seconds based on deer placement.
Haha what is this comment?? Its literally my go to game, one of the only ones I still play.
Wololo
Based. John Doyle is a very smart and well spoken fella.
Some dealers are lacing marijuana with fentanyl. This is coming from a first responder
End the Federal Reserve
😌
((((federal))))
Meh
@@valuedCustomer2929
What perspective is the "meh" from?
That it really doesn't matter, and the Federal Reserve has a negligible impact on things?
Or even from some thought that it is beneficial?
Based
John has his finger on the pulse of the issues better than anyone I've ever met
Sorry Matt, you're definitely not a boomer. In fact, you're barely Gen X on the borderline of Gen Y.
Zion Lion 😂
Millenial
John Doyle sounds like a very intelligent, well-grounded man. I can't wait to check back in 10 years when he has a little more perspective on life. There is a streak of authority and invincibility in his opinions that feels untempered by years of lived experience of the world. I will stay tuned to see where he goes.
Agreed some of his takes seemed a immature. I'm sure he'll get there
I was going to make this exact comment, there's a streak of self-righteousness that shows immaturity and lack of life experience. I don't know about his disappointments, but I know mine have soften my previous anger streak.
@@TJByrnesAudioVisualso does right and wrong don't exist?
I wanted to be so much harsher… my comment was going to be more along the lines of “woman hating dweeb” Matt has such patience 😂
@@johnx140 of course they exist. The problem is that moral theology always deals with theoretical situations. But the application of Good and evil, of moral theology, can only be done in the particular circumstance it takes places. We can say killing is an evil action. We can also say that a woman who kills in self-defense against a rapist is choosing the moral good. Good and evil exist. But the longer you live, the more relationships and connections you make with other humans, the more you realize that there is room for nuance and Love tampered with Mercy. Doyle seems to have a lot of high moral opinions which is wonderful, but they do not seem to be tempered by the wisdom of lived experience.
John Doyle is awesome. We need more young conservative men who are still cool to look up to
I’m a 22 year old white woman, and I used to be OBSESSED with target. Haven’t been since the boycott.
I fangirled hard, been watching John since 2019!
Just stop
What are you bothered about?
@@lindaramirez9370 Find a husband and stop watching Goyle
As a fan of Matt fradd and NJF. I really enjoyed this interview. We don’t get a lot of Doyle content but what he gives us is great
We love Nick and John!
Got more John Doyle from
PWA than I have from John Doyle all year. Good to see you from another former DTW turned DFW
What are DTW's and DFW's?
I think he means he also moved from Detroit to Dallas/Ft Worth. Speaking of which, @crystalkathuria4381, are you my dad?
Hope to see John on here more often!
The amount of conviction in this episode is inspiring. Praise God!!!
Thank you so much for having john on. I cant begin to describe how important what you are doing is for people matt. From the bottom of my heart thank you.
Sadly John Doyle is a goof and a sellout.
Pray he repents ASAP.
Great guest!
I wish that more people of Matt’s generation could see this!
I appreciate John as a guest, thank you for having him on
This was fantastic. More of this content please.
Perfect blend of personalities. Great show.
Two of my favorites, together at last. Fradd and Doyle are right where the culture needs to go. I'd love to see Doyle and the New Polity guys get together and start building up more of a popular movement for conservative Catholic integralism.
1:28:02 As someone who had fallen pretty deep into the mindset described here. Thank you for the perspective. I don’t know what to do with this yet, but i needed to hear this.
God bless you. Go to adoration and ask Jesus what your first step should be. Praying for you.
Hey, it’s me Peter Griffin, from Fork Knife.
Love seeing Doyle on PWA. I bet we have Thrsday to thank for this. ❤❤❤
All the super chats over the years paid off! Finally got John on. Super pumped. Unfortunately you’re gonna be mitigating groyping. Good luck brother.
Very Inspiring podcast.
SO GOOD to see John Doyle on the channel! This was just such a great chat. I only wish it was longer!
Keep it up John.
We would drive around our town and other towns nearby and find ways to climb on top of schools. It became a challenge to see how many schools you could climb up. We became rather creative on how to climb up these schools, never using a ladder.
Fellas! 🙌
Is there a place like Matt’s cigar lounge here in Nashville/middle TN, where I could send my husband off to?!?
John Doyle is going far. I've been a fan for a while 🔥 LETS GOOO!!
I'm getting baptized at the Easter vigil this year, and partly, this conversion of mine is thanks to John.
Congrats! I received my last two sacraments last Easter Vigil, and John sure was part of my journey to Catholicism!
John Doyle sounds like a John Birch Society conservative- the John Birch Society that Buckley and National Review crushed.
I thought this same thing. The John Birchers are re-emerging as a prevalent societal force, or at the least their ideas are.
@@kylefleshman8584Good.
It’s not 1980
Like Doyle said in the interview, Buckley and National Review were some of the first to embrace cancel culture and purge paleos from the conservative movement.
He literally talked about this in the video. He claimed old conservatism (JBS) and said neocons (NR) systematically blacklisted the old ones.
He left out a couple details, like the fact that the first neocons where Jewish Trotskyites who flipped against the USSR for backing Arabs against Israel. That's a big reason the right is so pro-Israel today. The old conservatives stood for America First always and it's about time we blacklist the neocons.
He totally nailed it with the description of paleo vs neo conservatism. I’m glad some conservatives are calling out William F. Buckley and his style of conservatism. I’ve heard Michael Knowles claim that Buckley invented conservatism! How ridiculous! Not that I am completely opposed to Michael Knowles (or Buckley for that matter), but he is starting from the wrong place historically speaking.
Two years before the founding of National Review, Russell Kirk wrote The Conservatives Mind which featured real traditional conservatives like Calhoun, John Randolph, John Adam’s etc. These days, conservatives seem to think that Lincoln or MLK were conservatives. Good to see young people figuring this out and starting from a correct historical perspective.
insane that you'd mix in Adams as a "real conservative" with calhoun and randolph, and then go on a screed against lincoln. Hit the books lil bro
@@Snoopy-apolloLincoln LITERALLY conserved America!!!
@@Snoopy-apollo well, true. Adam’s was more a European style conservative. Just didn’t want to exclude all of the yankees. I respect Adams but he’s not my favorite.
Are you saying that because I included Adams, I must also think that Lincoln was conservative? Because he just objectively was not in the context of his time.
I’m not sure that writing one sentence about someone counts as a screed. Maybe take your own advice, bro.
Listen to the song “ballad of the neocon”
@@Snoopy-apolloLincoln is only conservative in the sense that he was racist (most people for most of history were racist). He was pretty mediocre. The Confederates were far more conservative, generally.
I don’t want to get roasted because I am a woman asking this. I think a place like Steubenville would be so good for my husband who never had a present or engaged father. He NEEDS men. So I’m down with him going and having a cigar or pipe with friends. But, he has battled with alcoholism and has been sober for many years. It nearly destroyed our marriage. So how do the men handle a man who is sober from alcohol? Is it weird? Or do they encourage? Would the temptation be too much for him and if so, where in the world is he supposed to connect with men? We live in DFW area, but I’d almost be willing to move to find my husband some MEN to hang with. He’s in his late forties and has been starved of friendship for years because he doesn’t drink. I know, I know, this is me being mommy.
Find a group of good Catholic men anywhere, and they will understand.
It’s a valid concern. I wish I knew what to tell you. Your husband would have to be very strong in his sobriety, not to be tempted among men who bond over alcohol. While I don’t want to 100% condemn the practice, I do have mixed feelings about it because of the temptation it may present to people who struggle over alcohol.
Perhaps he could first reach out to Catholic society/organizations like Calix or Catholic Recovery in an effort to connect with men who have recovered. And look into Catholic organizations like Fraternus and Knights of Columbus or secular ones like U.S. Men's Sheds (would love to know if Catholic men have started one) that do charity volunteering programs and/or workshop activities focused on fraternity, sharing practical skills and socializing.
God bless you
Find good catholic men. If any friend of mine says in response to a drink offer “I don’t drink” I immediately understand without question and have the drink to myself. We can still have good conversation and a good time without alcohol.
If you are in DFW check out Mater Dei parish. They have an awesome men’s group called the St Joseph’s guild
I feel really bad for these comments, because this interview is a great testament to John Doyle's faith, really good talk
Are we getting a full episode on locals
Excellent pairing. Matt and John.
Matt you are no boomer, GenX is 1965-1980. Millennials are from 1981-1996. You are between GenX and GenY.
I laughed when he said that. Maybe being Aussie makes him a boomer in the USA.
(Kidding, obviously)
I think he means the boomer mindset
Hmmmm, maybe a husband prefers to spend more time with his best friend, his wife...
His most bewildering comment of the interview. I married this person for a reason 😂
Right! I mean what is he even going on about. My very strong husband loves spending his time with me all the time.
He is not bashing it to say no one prefers it, he is bashing it to break people’s trance thinking its okay for men to shadow themselves from their friends due to a relationship
Good video
Unfortunately I never learned to drywall, somehow my hand always knew where the stud was😂
We love Doyle, we need more of him on the show Mr. Fradd!
Na. Society looked down on smoking because cigarettes are freaking disgusting.
Smoke pipes and cigars or whatever you want. Cigars don't smell horrid. But I had parents who smokes cigarettes all the time, and it's gross, and I can't blame anyone who doesn't want to be exposed to cigarette smoke.
Yeah, I don't know where this new pro smoking thing on the right is coming from. We all have observed people with our own eyes who smoked for years and the terrible effect it had on them.
@@s.t.652I think it’s more a push against the nanny state. I can understand that. However, cigarettes were a deal breaker for me when dating in my teens-20s and again in my late 40s. Still would be if I were dating.
Agree 100% about the smell. And I don't even mind the smell of the smoke that much, but that nasty odor that soaks into people's houses when they smoke is awful
It’s horrendous. I don’t get at all why now so many conservatives are thinking it’s okay and cool 🙄 the smell is horrendous! No thank you!
Love John!
This is amazing love to listen to John Doyle!
No it’s not
No Doyle is awful
Uber Eats & pot = bread & circuses. Brilliant 💯
What are the comments on this? 😅 I’m gen Z and I’m lost as to why we are bashing John, eachother, and some dude named nick?
Cmon people, enjoy the interview on its own merits. Peddle your political ridiculousness elsewhere por favor
Thank you! You took the words out of my mouth. Except that I am a millennial and I know what’s going on in the comments. It’s so annoying. Idk why what John does has to have anything to do with another man.
@@rubykrueger2297Nick and John disavowed each other like a year and don’t like each other personally, but their beliefs are 90% similar.
Yeah they’re both pretty good. John can serve as a gateway to Nick hopefully.
When someone is a sellout to the corrupt political establishment, no I won't just sit and take their BS interviews, I will call them out on it.
John serves as a gateway to hell, as he's a sellout to evil satanic people.
Shame on him.
41:25 My brother lives in the town we grew up in and his son goes to the same schools we went to. My dad still lives in the same house we grew up in too. I wish my kids could grow up there. My daughter loves it when we visit and has said that she wants to live there too. My husband doesn’t want to have to shovel snow or pay over $10k in property taxes though, so that’s not going to happen.
I love John Doyle he is a brilliant man
I realize he's young, but the descriptions of newly married men.😳
The two become one flesh. Maybe young men aren't as interested in spending time the same way as they used to spend it. And as far as "getting permission"....i feel like thats courtesy. I wouldn't call it getting permission, but couples tend to want to spend their time together early on. Its not emasculating.🤨
Right! Yes when you’re married you kinda need to communicate your whereabouts. That has nothing to do with being emasculating.. you have to be a pretty pathetic man if you can’t understand that simple concept of love
Communicating with your wife and changing some priorities isn’t emasculating. What’s emasculating is withdrawing from all male activities in your free time in order to live a life 100% centered around the things that your wife wants to do. Men need time with other men and there are ways to find time for that amidst life changes, it just takes more commitment and preparation than it does as a single man with less responsibility. Most men could do both but many drop the ball on their male time because they don’t understand how important it is until that they stop watering that’s plant and it dies.
I’d like to hear John define what he means by “do something great.” I think he draws a false dichotomy between “doing something great in the world” and “doing something great at home.” I see a lot of people in the comments “reacting to the normies” that think he is too far right. In reality, nothing says normie to me like waiting until your mid-30’s to get married and start a family because you were “doing something more important.”
John strikes me as a frat bro conservative
Amen brother. I was quite amazed just glancing through the comments that no one was speaking up about...franky how wrong Mr. Doyle was regarding this issue.
You can do both without forcing yourself into a box, which I think is Doyle’s point. It can be just as silly for a boy to get married at 18 for the sole purpose of fulfilling a trad aesthetic as it is for a man to put off marriage for the sake of a decade of career building. A single man shouldn’t put his career goals on hold to chase marriage, in the same way that he shouldn’t put his home life on hold to chase money. Doing that is a recipe to end up finding success at neither. I’ve known peers, young men, who lack all motivation because they make their youth all about having a wife by 25, and lamenting their singleness at 26. Whereas if they’d invested in building themselves, their faith, their career, their masculinity, and their other relationships, they’d much more naturally be finding a wife by 26-30 and would be perfectly in line to have all of the home and career success that they’d always wanted.
The interesting thing about these long interviews is, it's just enough time to get a better understanding of what one truly believes. Building one self for marriage in all the areas your talking about is important. But this shouldn't be postponed for one into their twenties or thirties to start doing. And career building is not just restricted to being a business owner, a doctorate graduate, waiting for mom/dad to pay for your way or hand you an empire, or waiting to have a 1 to 2 child family which usually is controlled by birth control....unfortunately. I know of multiple examples of men who lived simple lives for their families teaching them the faith and responsibility which if that is trad them I'm all for it.
Been a long time Doylist, glad to finally see him on Pints
I am going to buy a chain cross to pass it on to my firstborn son too.
Why can’t I find his podcast?
Great guest! Big fan of John Doyle’s content
8 minutes in and John is advocating for cocaine EPIC
To be fair, chewing on cocaine leaves gives a similar effect to caffeine. The problem is cocaine is distilled down to a ridiculous degree. It would be like ingesting tons of pure caffeine, which is a really bad idea.
@bearistotle2820 I've never heard this before, I've always had a strong aversion to all drugs but caffeine. I'll have to look into this.
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Do your own research, of course, but I also don't have any problem with people being tea-totalers. If alcohol and such don't appeal to you, you are totally fine not partaking in them. You will still live a totally fulfilling life without them.
halfway through this video i feel absolutely called out
Love you John for almost calling Carlin a f 4 g
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Love John! Thanks for having him on!
He's awful.
Wake the heck up.
@@tayzk5929 no thanks
@@mysticalrosegl Then stay asleep
@@tayzk5929 I will Zzzzzz
52:00
This really made me realize Trump is somewhat like Saul Goodman.
Other political elites: “And HE gets to be a president? What a sick joke?”
Very interesting dialogue.
Im getting tired of single people giving advice on relationships and marriage. Just admit you want to keep pursuing self-centered pleasures or goals and aren't ready to put the needs of others ahead of yours. Thats fine, i would respect the candid talk way more then all this "marriage hampers your ability to do great things" garbage. Nothing against John in particular here, he's definitely not the only 20 something year old internet personality to say these things.
Yep pretty much. Imagine thinking a man spending time with his wife and children and providing for them isn’t achieving greatness. What in the world was he even talking about?
Ferris looks good with the beard.
Two channels I never thought I’d see intersect. Should be an interesting interview!
It wasn't
Thank you Matt for having John on the pod, and thanks to Groypers for fueling the algorithm with ani-Doyle comments lol
Fradd 💯 I have no idea what 'generation' I am. Seems like a new 'generation' comes along every couple years. I only know two generations: young folks, old folks
Love it
Get Seamus back on, he deserves a chance to keep his title.
Title of ?
@@cameronpack3965l Guest with the longest stream, I think Akin took that back recently
@cameronpack3965 he was one of the first with an insanely long interview. I think George Farmer might have gotten longer than his first one. Now Akin at over 6 hrs... gonna be hard to even want to beat haha
Nooo that interview was a SLOG. You could tell Seamus wanted it so bad and Matt just couldn't muster the enthusiasm. I think they ordered a pizza at one point.
@@shay-car hahaha so true
He said Takis like "tar keys" 🤣
A priest in TLM mass told me in confession that smoking weed wasn’t a mortal sin. Maybe venial but not mortal. I struggle with marijuana
Can't foyle the Doyle.
He has clear blind spots in his thinking
All we can do is stream and say based things .. as a married man, and son of a carpenter... who has no practical skills ... and a theology and theatre degree.... yes....
lol at the obl quote
God Bless John Doyle
John is party the reason my husband and I got together. We have a beautiful baby together ❤️
My grandfather says men should get married a little older (around 28 to 30) and use those early twenties to do great things. And that is what he did...I think it is good advice for lots of guys! Maybe not everyone and getting married at twenty can lead to your doing greater things :)
I both agree and disagree. I think it completely depends on the person and what greatness is in store for them. I think having the wife and kids could fuel them to become even greater or at least out a bit of focus in their lives, though where I agree is if it's something very time consuming and resource heavy, such as climbing everest or being in the military. Wouldn't wanna miss the most important years of my child's life
Most men don’t. Kids and children makes a man mature and strive for more out of love and duty. Men always married young in the past. They just always have been slightly older than the woman. But still in the same agerange.
It is good to hold on to one, while not letting go of the other- King Solomon
I don't quite understand what it is about marijuana that so many people have these bad experiences with it and become so consumed/misshaped by it. I smoke or vape it occasionally and I've had some great times with friends sharing deep conversations. In my experience, I find it can help me to feel more open and relaxed, more prone to being contemplative, and often increases my sense of wonder. I don't know why so many people seem prone to indulge in it and have such shallow experiences with it, though I have seen that with many of my peers.
It’s a mortal sin to smoke it that will send you to hell
@@dwong9289 It isn't a mortal sin to smoke it lol. If smoking marijuana deprives you of the use of reason, then that would be grave matter which could indeed be a mortal sin. If it merely impairs your use of reason, then it would be a venial sin.
@@herrschmidt412 It's 100% a mortal sin, ask any trained confessor
@@dwong9289 I've spoken with many Priests about it, never has anyone suggested it's automatically a mortal sin lmao
@@herrschmidt412 ask priests that celebrate the Extraordinary form, and read the Manualists
Like this guy but his view on marriage and kids were a bit off-putting. You can tell his view on it came from a single man's perspective.
Very off putting.. his view on masculinity and a man’s mission are really weird too. At one point he made a comment that having children do men want it or did the woman force the husband 🤨 what in the world does that even mean?
@@alqoshgirlclearly you have not been with a woman when she is nesting with baby fever.
So when is Nick coming on?
They’ll never let him on
Nick who?
@@LauraBeeDannonit is so much better for you that you don't know. Trust me.
@@halleylujah247 slander
@@bonythomistyou don't know what that word means but your reaction is classic.
The collaboration we all needed
Neat
This is the collaboration I’ve been waiting for!
Doyle is awful.
Another home run, Matt Fradd! Thanks for having this excellent guest on. I was unaware of him prior (I know, I live under a rock) but subbed his channel now.
Hi, I’m a real “tradwife.” I have four children and I stay home with them most of the time. I also work for income when my husband asks me to. I raise my children in the Faith and honor my husband in my word, dress, and deed.
I do not have an Instagram account showing me making sourdough and dusting already clean vintage vases full of sunflowers, I do not wear a crisp sundress with a ruffled apron every day, I do not get up at 5am to milk our cow and prepare fresh butter and use the excess buttermilk to make fresh pancakes for my apple-cheeked and impeccably clean children from my own hand milled wheat.
You are absolutely right that what is online is larping. I work extremely hard and so does my husband. I am a “tradwife” because I understand that my proper position as a Christian is to be oriented to follow my husband and not to lead him, just as he follows Christ. That’s it.
Real estate signs had a SOLD addon. I think I got just under 20.