Dating a Married Woman: A man's way to love and learn from his mistakes
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- čas přidán 22. 05. 2024
- Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed by Sandeep Mavi on Kissey Podcast are solely his own and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the podcast hosts or production team. The content discussed in this episode is for informational and entertainment purposes only, and should not be construed as professional advice. Listeners are encouraged to seek guidance from qualified professionals regarding their personal relationships and life decisions. Additionally, the names and identifying details of individuals mentioned in this episode have been altered to protect their privacy and confidentiality. Thank you for listening with an open mind and understanding.
🎙️ Join us on Kissey Podcast for an eye-opening conversation with Sandeep Mavi as he bravely shares his experience of dating a married woman for 2 to 3 years. In this raw and honest discussion, Sandeep delves into the emotional rollercoaster of forbidden love, navigating the complexities of a relationship that defied societal norms, and ultimately confronting the repercussions of his actions.
Throughout the episode, Sandeep reflects on the challenges he faced, the moral dilemmas he encountered, and the profound lessons he gleaned from his mistakes. His journey serves as a powerful reminder of the human capacity for growth, resilience, and self-discovery in the face of adversity.
Tune in as Sandeep's story unfolds, offering invaluable insights into the nature of love, the consequences of our choices, and the transformative journey of personal growth. Don't miss this compelling episode of Kissey Podcast, where heartfelt stories meet meaningful conversations. 🎧💬
Time stamps
0:00 - 1:28 - Preview
1:28 - 2:10 - Intro
2:10 - 6:50 - How they met
6:50 - 28:40 - She is Married
28:40 - 39:09 - Relationship with her
39:09 - 1:02:30 - She changed
1:02:30 - 1:06:30 - Second Chance
1:06:30 - 1:12:00 - Suicide Attempt
1:12:00 - 1:17:00 - She Left
1:17:00 - 1:19:45 - The Support
1:19:45 - 1:26:12 - Last Message
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yaar this man is such a gentleman, agar saccha pyaar kisiko milna chahiye toh iss bande ko milna chahiye
Sukriya 💗
अगर इसके साथ किसी लड़की की शादी हुई या फिर प्यार हुआ यह उसको पागल कर देगा भाई....
पहली बात कौन किसी शादीशुदा लड़की को अपने पति से दूर रहने के लिए बोल सकताहै... अगर वह लड़की अपने पति से दूर रहती है तो उसका घर कैसे चलेगा भाई ,उसकी जिंदगी तो वैसे ही जहन्नुम हो जाएगी और यह बोल रहा है उसे लड़की को कि तुम अपने पति के पास मत जाओ मुझे डर है वह तुम्हारे साथ रिलेशन बनाएगा अरे भाई शादी की है रिलेशन तो बनाएगा ही ना तुमको पहले सोचना चाहिए था कि वह शादीशुदा है मैं उसके प्यार में न जाऊं... कोई भी बंदा अगर अपनी दोस्त को गर्लफ्रेंड को या फिर अपनी बीवी को स्पेस नहीं देगा तो लड़ाई झगड़ा होंगे ही होंगे
@@beantsingh6690 deko life aur marriage complex cheezen hoti hai. Main point ki ladki khud use batati thi ki mera pati abusive hai, toh kya use bolna chahiye tha ki 'Arey mai kya karun tera pati tujhe marta hai to" voh kya mai bhi uski jagaha hoti toh apne friend se bolti ki uske paas mat rah. The girl is also at fault here, she never wanted to separate from her husband and still wanted to be with this guy as backup/attention. But is bande ko lag raha tha last tak ki voh ladki usko choose karegi. isme uski feeling toh genuine thi na, pyaar mai thoda andha ho gaya aur us ladki ke intentions judge nahi kar paya, and he also admits he was wrong for pursuing a married woman. so i dont see any issue
The woman couldn't take so much intensity. She didn't want to become Mavi's single project in life.
I wish I could get married with such a person who has emotions and can understand others emotions.
Dear young people, please don't look for validation from lovers, partners, parents, friends. Excel at what you do well, seek validation from your own self, surpass your own self. Look inwards, be focused on your educational goals and meditate. Love yourself.
❤
Perfectly said
Sir I believe 1 st love I always a lesson .people have to learn from it
He is among that 1% of guys who genuinely love ❤.....
Hey bro...don't ever think of suicide again. There are ppl who love u . Trust me.
Maa papa hai to ❤️
People ignore you when:
1. You give them more attention than what they actually deserve.
2. You tell them everything and don't hide anything.
3. You talk very clearly and frankly.
4. You are always available for others.
Especially girls...!!!
I don't know why, but I have listen this podcast from beginning to end without any skip.
Too painful story
Purani yadon aur pagalpan pe gussa bhi aata h.
Congrats bro for recovering yourself from that bad phase.
a podcast that proves... green flags always suffer. And he suffered.
Gree flags always suffers matlab
पुरुष का जीवन ऐसा ही है, कितना भी त्याग तपस्या तर्पण अर्पण करें, आखिर में हरे झंडे का टैग मिलता है
@@Devotee-hari green flags are the good people...the innocent ones in the relationship...
Red flags need to be avoided
🙂and i think Both genders have equal number of corrupt people and innocent people
@@sonalimehta20 🙏
Is he green flag really? He is looking like a psycho who was in a relationship with a married women who already have ha baby 😂 boss reality pe jio aise ledke completely red flag hoti hai.. bhai tum ek shadi suda ledki ko pyar kro aur jbb wo apne pati se physical ho to usse tumko prob hai ye pagal pan hua na
More power to this man 😌😌broo you deserve someone who loves you the way you love your family 🤍🤍
A very good guy, he deserves a good girl who loves him equally.
@@thezoldics7648 exactly
He will only be happy when his partner gives him emotional turmoil.
@@06musicfan *tf 🤣🤣🤣 emotional turmoil. He is a kind of person who will stay " project under construction " type mentality. He'll be a psycho after experiencing ' emotional turmoil '. Don't be so rude 🤣🤣
It’s called Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) Direct triggers(talking about the event or being in the same environment again) or indirect triggers (video/audio, scents, voices, melodies, tastes are connected to the traumatic memories in the brain and can trick the brain into reliving the same traumatic event, hence the intense physical responses of fight, flight, freeze or fawn.
It requires behavioural therapy or even medication depending on severity.
You explained it so well -
Explanation was so simple and yet effective
Please send your personal number sir I need ur support suggestions please
Mavi aap jaisa pyar to har ladki ka sapna hota hai. Vo ladki unlucky thee. You deserve much much better girl than she. You are a pure soul
Thank you neelam ❤
@@sandeepmavi712 u mad me cry 😢
Yes true ❤
मावि, तुझे प्रेम खूप प्यूअर आहे. परंतु स्वतः कमावल्या शिवाय त्या मुलीच्या इच्छा तू पूर्ण कशा करणार?
@@mandakhade4904 Kyu ladka sirf isliye kamaata hai kya ki ladki ki saari ichchayen poori kar sake?
You are so softhearted and complete gentleman.....lady was lucky to get you in this selfish world
People misunderstood sympathy with love so that girl needs sympathy so she believed it was love but after a certain time it faded when she has to support him bcoz she was accustomed of being understood.
More power to you
Trust me bro...I also went through this and i m going through.... I can totally understand how difficult it is to manage ..All i can say is have faith in god and people like us deserve much better .... You nd I will surely sail through this ....All The Best
What had happened in your case bro
Their is nothing permanent it's all about balance and practical thinking 🙆♀️....... Hats off to this man🙌
Tum mere saath relationship mein ana chahogi ? 🙄
In search of gold she lost a diamond 💎❤
He is too good for this world 😢❤
Such a nice hearted person ❤
More power to Mavi...You made a mistake somehow love is not a mistake but you didn't find the right one. I hope you meet the right Girl in future.
Heard the full podcast, however i feel the girl was playing with his emotions..i am sure she was two timing her husband and all story about her abuse was just a made up story.. she started behaving strangely after he got serious about the relationship.. however glad @Sandeepmavi has come out of it as a stronger person... more power to him & God bless!!
Love the quality of this podcast thanks for making good podcast for us
I commented a while ago about your reactions being completely inappropriate to what your guest is saying and I’m so glad you took the constructive criticism well because the past two podcasts have been very professional and engaging to watch
Literally crying!!!! This is so heartbreaking💔💔💔💔💔
Ladka ho ya ladki, kisi ko itni importance mat do ki aap ko dukh ho. Mushkil hai but zaroori hai. Kuch red flags ko identify karke apne standards high rakho. Give love but remember you also deserve love.
Exactly 💯
@@taniyadwivedi4094Chup rho tum jaisi lakdi jahahr ho mere jaise pure love boys walon ke liye.controlled Pyar tum hi kar sakti ho. Jo sacha pyar krta hai, usko pata nhi hota kitna pyar karna chahiye.
Thanks! I needed it today✨
You are driven by little bit masculine energy, that's why aisi ladki se bach ke rahiyo, bada badnasib hoga eska husband.
@@AjayRaj-tg1vx 😂aap ki biwi ya gf hogi badnaseeb jisse aapke jaisa illogical banda milega. Aapko shayad mera message samajh nahi aaya, aayega bhi nahi, sensible logon ke liye hai
He is brave man, its not easy to share all of this. More power to you brother, Many booys can take learnings from this video.
He sounds like such a genuine guy. I wish everyone comes across such pure heart people and don’t get hurt.
Thank you
Bohut Jayada hi Relatable...Aisa lag raha hain koi meri hi kahani bata raha hain....❤️❤️❤️🌻🙂
Sending you hugs and prayers. Mavi ki tarah aap bhi is se bahar nikal jao aur khul ker zindagi jio. Good Luck. 🤗
Apka vala b married tha kya same i suffered alot
Ha yrrr
I also suffer this phase
No love
Omg i was waiting for ur podcast...and here it is🤍
Salute to you dear Maavi..u ra true gentleman 👌🏻👌🏻.. n You r soo genuine n actually rare...you should be proud of urself bcoz giving unconditional love is ur strength not weakness n the other person is soo unfortunate n it means u deserves much better..❤️🤞🏻🧿
Brother keep it up. It takes real guts to share one's painful story on a public platform.
You are a gem of a person and one day your good karma will make you meet the best person in your life.
You did what you thought was right that time and loved with all your heart. This is the issue with empaths that when they give they give their soul. But not everyone deserves that.
Good luck to you. May you achieve all your dreams and find a genuine partner who matches your energy, vibration and above all a loyal character.
Keep growing brother.
Am glad to know that am not the only one who's having that feeling ki someone will touch him 😢😢😢😢 breakup not hurt that much jitna yeah feeling dard deti hai and i had written my suicidal note
Aap ne bhi married person se pyar kar liya hai kya ??
Married log kyu ate he kisi app pr phirse relationship dundne bc 😂😂
I can totally relate with him!
Giys these things are happening with so many peoples.like both are giving their best in starting and faking promises then one person getting changed while the other person remaining same. that suck bro 😭💔
Bhaiya you are such a pure soul
Be strong and happy too
Omg kya bolu is bande ke liye kamal hogya yaar aese log bhi hote h... no words for him i wish yeh banda khush rhe
Sukriya ❤
Dear narrator, you are the gem of a human. May Allah give you all happiness and in life❤ Shoutout to the host too. Being so young you’re so mature and groomed❤. Wish you both heights of success inshaAllah!❤❤
Heart aching story 😢
Mavi your story made me cry ... Apko mata rani khush rkhe ✨
❤ sukriya 💗
Bhai apki har ek baat relate kar paa raha hun apki taklif samajh sakta hun aap kese feel kar rhe ho💔🫂 cheating is a choice not a mistake yeh baat v mujhe bohat der baat pata chali jo v hota he bhagwan humare liye acha hi karte hen yeh baat v sach he 🫂hume ek lessons mili god is great❤ esi galti dubara kisi se na ho hum jyse ladkon sabhi ko god bless you brothers stay strong 🫂
Glad that you learned the lesson bro❤
Iski bibi jaroor karegi .karm ka phal jaroor milega.jay Shri Ram
@@user-tt6xp1kq6t kiski biwi?
That girl totally destroyed his golden period of career making! If she was suffering, she should have fought for her rights with police! She was just time passing!!!
What if ye Boy ki jagah single working Girl ho aur married Man uske he office me ho
@@Baby-vs1ip toh vo bhi time pass hi kr rhe hoge... aap khud pr focus kro ye married logo ke chakkar me padna hi kyu?
Ye sabse hard phase hota h jab koi na rehta h na proper jata h.
Mere thoughts kahi na kahi sandeep se match hote h ki topic par baat to karo tabhi kuch sahi hoga.
Jabki sab mujhe pagal bolte h
संदीप भाई जी ! बहुत समय के पश्चात मैंने आपके जैसा अच्छा इंसान देखा ! ❤🙏🌺
Thnks CZcams for recommending this master piece. In some part i felt my story someone telling on behalf of me. You deserve true❤brother
It was not love just attachment
, and attachment is just the parts you are missing in yourself
So invest in yourself , u are better off alone
It was love for this boy but only attachment for that married woman.
He deserves to be loved ❤
Yeh baat samjha nahi aaya. Ki ek shadi shuda ladki tumhare sath 24 hour phone me kese lage rehga? Jab tum dono phone me lage rehte the toh uska pati aur sasural ke log kaha me the..
Husband sy lr K apni mosi K ghr ae hue Thi.
😂😂😂
@@hifzatariq1391 toh masi ko ni pta th itna time kisse lgi rehti
24 khante khene ko hai bro 😂 samjha Karo ye kabhi pyar nhi Kiya kya , mausi ka call Nani ka call
Ye toh Mai bhi soch rahi thi 24 ghante kaise 😂😂😂😂
Such a painful story.Sandeep I can feel your pain.That girl was the wrong choice of your life.But u can be happy that u are having such lovely parents and sisters.May God give u the best girl of this world.U deserve all the love of this world.The one who marries u will be the luckiest girl.God bless u beta🎉
Mera birthday v ..7 December ko h🙂✅..
😊Great story,god gives uu more power hope uu bhaiya blessed with all the happiness of the world 🌎
Meri bhi 7 December ko hi aata h
His every points were absolutely true. I salute him .
Thank u for sharing ur experience. Quite informative. Great episode
Shukriya ❤
Bro you ever time come with crazy storys thanks for that
Itna pyaaaaaar !!!!! - itne details - aap Kamal ho !! Itni shiddat sabke bas ki bat nahin - samne wala galat tha ya sahi ,ye to pata nahin par aapne pyar ko khokarv dard bka wo anmol khajana pa liya hai jo sabke pas- nahin hai -
Isss pyaar nahi chutiya gari khata hai
Hum pe jo bit Rahi hoti hai us time wo hum hi samz sakte hai. Sach me logo ko kehna asan hota hai ki divert karo mind but nahi hota 😢
Meri mausi yese hi ek unmarried ladke ke sath relationship mai rahke apni married life khatam karli aur abhi bhugat rahi hai😢
Bekar chii kese yaar log shadishuda ladke aur ladkiyan kese relationship mai aajate hai yaar🙄
Bro tum lucky ho tumhe time rahete mata rani ne bacha liya.
exactly
Right
Kuch shadishuda log aise relation me aa jaate hain kyuki unko apne partner se love, respect ya kuch bhi wo nahi milta jo wo expect karte hain to wahi sab wo kisi doosre insaan me dhoondhte hain. Jab koi aisa mil jaata hai to wo usse attract ho jaate hain. Lekin fir apne spouse ko divorce deke us doosre insaan ke sath hi shaadi kar leni chahiye agar itna hi pyaar hai to.
Tum bhi doodh ke dhule nahi ho😊 jab tumhe bhi koi aisa milega jo ke tumhare khayal nahi rakhega tab tum 🫵🏻 bhi shikar dhundoge 😆😆🤣
@@RajuSardar-eq7ezdivorce do peeth peeche cheat krna is wrong
This podcast prove us no matter what no matter what u need to focus on urself u need to chase ur dream u need to work on urself u need to be a perfect human please loveing someone is not like giving up on urself thik hai
Now a days it's trend do have an affair with married women but other side of story is also thr married women also get frustrated to listen romance from unmarried boys...too. and these boys became so serious in life don't ask and want to have all from a women who has no interest
Bhai aap ek bahut ache insaan ho ... Mai b same situation m rahi hu ...samjh sakti hu aap dono ko.. us ldki ko b m glt n bolungi kyuki itni km umar m shaadi hona se man mar jata h Uparse usko bacha b tha ...apki need thi usko b lekin n samaj ka dar haavi hota h tb Uparse apke cousin n usko bhdkadiya ... Meri b 17 m hui hubby torture karte the agar mjhe b apjaisa koi chahne wala milta to m b kbhi usko khoti n lekin shaadi shyd n krpati ....aapne apna sab bata to Diya bas ab apko ldki smjhdar mile 🙏
Hiiii.punam g .....ksi ho .......
So nice Sandeep bhaiya ab ap parents or jo log needy h like old people and poor small children unke liye work karo bht dua milegi ..well I will pray for your betterment...God bless you
Thanks for making good podcast for us
I suffered with this for 3 years I can feel everything bro that highly depression. Anxiety and very bad mental health. Very very hard to come out still it affects. But only you n you only can help out yourself to come out from such toxicity
A tight hug to you bro ❤
I loved like that in my twenties. Didnt ever occur to me that i would be fine with time. Thank God i didn't take any drastic step back then even though many a days i didn't even wanna get out of bed. For anyone going through this, these days test your strength and you are stronger then you think. Give yourself some time, life will get better.
When you are in a marriage, even then, you can't be "obsessed" with your husband or wife. You have to give and take space, and you can't be talking and sharing 24x7.
Loved it, very well spoken, so many people go through these kinds intense emotions and situations and ruin their studies career goals. I feel parents should also ask their kids regularly if they are doing okay and have awareness that kids might go through these kinds of intense feelings for someone, one sided love, betrayal, bullying- could be anything. Hope all is well now 👍
स्वयं में स्वयं का स्वयं से त्याग है, जल रहे इस देह में असंख्य ताप है! . . . . . . . . . ...❤
11:12 💯 right .. age really matters a lot
I have been through the same pain bt nw I'm becoming strong day by day.
Jai Shree Shyam 🙏🌹
❤❤same mery sath b hua tha in love but aap jo bata ry thy assa lgra tha merpy biti hai ye sb main feel kr pari thi kya tym tha vo kya smjh thi 😢bht roi thi bht jada but at the end vo mujy mil he gya now m happy married but uski family aj tk accept ni kiya but kya frk pdta h vo krta h bht h ❤
Such a good person ...I have never looked in person.
Mujhe bharosa hi nhi ho raha ki itne saaf Dil ka bhi koi insaan hota hai
Koi baat nahi , bass life ka bura part tha wo, now I'm more strong bohot proud feel krana hai gharwalo ko best vloger bnna hai
Hoty h mam gurjar hoty h asse
Apne side ki story bta rha hai .. uske side ki bhi sun lo..
Bewkuf insan h yeh dusro pe itna depend ho gya ki maa baap bhi nh dekhe ise.
@@artandcraft9831 ye kya baat hui
Thnku ❤ kissey thnku so much for such podcast ksm s
Dark side of love🖤
He is very mature and understanding ❤
Congrats for 60k yayyy🎉
Work hard dishank💗
Why isn't your ig working?
@@Kisssey i deactivated it🙂
😢muje rona aagya
Such a touching story
Yese kisi ke sat na ho
Ek ek pain feel ho rha tha jab mavi ji bata rahe the.
Etna detail me batane ke liye shukriya.
Bahut logo ko help milega agar vo yese situation me hai to yese metal pain me na fase jitna jaldi nikal sake yese relationship se utna acha hai.
Koe bhi relationship jab apko metal trauma dene lage, mental peace khatam kar de it is not a healthy relationship its become toxic relationship.
Thanku so much apne apna experience share kiya😊.
Koi baat nahi sab sahi ho jayega
Very nice advice too❤ Always speak your truth!Great👍
Relatable,is waqt se main b nikal chuki hu ,, totally connected with you Bhai.
Being parent i felt dat pain you made everyone proud with your honest feelings . Every parent and everyone has to watch dis podcast to save your children and save yourself.
All of us wish and pray for your gud heaith and prosperity. Host of podcast must be replace i felt he is disconnected .
aunty this is my own podcast and nope not disconnected people hate being interrupted in between, all my guests need an ear to listen not a mouth to give opinions.
He is so Honest person
Awesome podcast ❤❤
So Honest person he is
I couldn't hold back my tears while watching this podcast 😭 Rarely do you find green flags like him in this harsh world. The girl lost something invaluable . If I were in her place I would never have let go of such a person 🫶🏻
Sab bolte hain aise hi lekin jab time rehta hai tab samajh nahi paate ki saamne wala insaan kitna sahi hai aur uski value nahi kar paate.
He doesn't need a girl... he needs a good job.
God Bless him.. He's very young.
Bhyii rat k 1:27 ho rhe h... Or m ye dekh rhi hu ... M mavi bhaiya ki har ek chiz se relate kr rhi hu....❤ Bs keh nhi paa rhi... Or mene na apki reel dekhi thi insta pe m relate kr rhi thi isliye vdo dekhne aai... Starting m lga yr itni bdi vdo h kese dekhungi then last m m khud in sb chizo se relate krne lgiii bhai... Bs mera v sb thk ho jaye❤
😢bhai abhi sun rhi hu story apki. ... Pta nhi muje rona kyu aa rha h😢..🥺 be strong bhai ..you deserve much better ❤
Uske husband ke badduwa jaroor padega iske upper iski bibi exactly aisi hi karegi.karma ka fal to milna hi hai
Basically this is the karma that poses such situations. You had an option to choose many other ways to overcome your depression, but you chose the easy one which made your life difficult and your kith n kin also suffer along with you.
When we learn self love all orher things become transient and we will rise above naturally. Start self love , it's healing and safe . Good luck. 👍
Thanks for u sharing ur story❤❤❤
Welcome ❤
Most honest loving person,God bless you❤😢😢
Do not die for anybody.....die for ur parents,love them thoroughly, make them feel special all the time,they r very very precious.This is my appeal to everybody in this world......thankx 👍
Ye toh inhone meri side story btayii... Jo apke sth hua h vo same mere sth hua tha bss fark itna apke sth ldkii ne kia glt or mere sth ladke ne.... Jo situation usne laai thi apki lyf mai... Same ase hi meri lyf mai usne bhi laiii... Mai jb rotii thii vo toh call pe soo jata tha.... Muje asa lg rha h jaise male version ho aap.... Same meko bhi dusro ko present dena zada psnd.... Khud ka lia gft lena ni psnd.... Sooo relatable to me.... Firse yaad aa gya muje voo
Iska matlb aap shadi shude ladke ke saath 😒 relationship mein aa gaye
@@RajuSardar-eq7ez nhiii.... Iss video mai jo ldka h uska nature meri tarah h or situations meri tarah similar thi .....bss ldka married ni tha
I never misses podcast from kissey they gives me so much of strength...
This guy have suffered a lot nd his story gave me my flashbacks nd strength at the same time
Lots of love and support to both the guys hats off ❤
You also suffered from such situations
Bhai yeh waist bag kis brand ka ha ? Jo aapne wear kra hua ha 🧐
Dear brother mavi God bless you, love listening to your story ,so say hope you find true love and happiness
When he showed the doll. My eyes filled with tears😢
I feel him, I had suffered from the same situation as he is sharing
Best podcast 😢❤
God bless you yrr❤ bas ek chiz kahungi maine ye kahi padha tha jo ek se ho wo attraction hai jo sabse ho wo pyar hai ❤ pyar is sansar mei sabse hona chahiye, ped , paudhe aur janwaro , insano sabse ❤
Han ji
Ye baat bht sahi kahi k gharwalo se sab share karna chahiye, koi sath ni dega, lekin gharwale kabhi sath nahi chhorte hain. Wo humesha sath dete hain chahe hum kitni bhi galatiyan kar lein.
Such a humble guy. God has instored something very beautiful for you. Take care
Sukriya ❤
Kaash itna pyar karne wala insaaan sabko mile..
I want to give a warm hug to this sensitive man, this tortured soul, who thankfully is back on track. Bhai, sub theek ho jayega. 🤗