Fe feels like trying to spur an emotional response from other people. Fe forces people to take care of other's emotional status. Fe users also search for help when dealing with emotional issues. Unlike the Fi users that prefer to process their emotional problems internally.
Fe to me feels like I care about other people's feelings and I have to put in effort to make people happy or make others like me (or at least not hate me lol). I'm intp.
Let me set external balance so that I can then balance my internal world. At least, this is what I think it is. I'm a Fi User and it's the opposite for me. I can't feel for others until I understand how I feel about things myself.
I am an ENFJ with Fe hero, my mom is an ISTJ with Fe trickster, seriously this makes me live in hell cuz she will always assume that she knows what I feel or think and it will be faaar away from the truth. while growing up I always used to think why she doesnt understand how I feel and I got upset and angry and used to judge her about it because I didnt see that not all people perceive the world as I do and that its not that easy to understand others emotional needs for everyone like me, despite the horrible trauma she caused me I will never lose the hope to find a way to get her understand me in a better way and to work out our relationship. thank you for the good video
3:34 As an ENTP myself, you got it absolutely wrong, I am not confrontational... just kidding, I just had to. First time watching your channel and it seems like you have a good grasp over the function. I recently began really trying to develop my Fe, and gotta say even tho I was very reluctant, because I was relying too much on my Ne and Ti, it really made me happier. The analogy of it being the child function is pretty accurate, because it does come out that way for me. Every time I use it and try to really open up and support people I am filled with some childlike wonder, like it is a whole new world I am exploring full of new experiences. But I am also very naive and hopeful, which my Ti absolutely despises that, because feelings are illogical. So I have been working a lot on trying to balance both Ti and Fe.
Great videos! Looking forward to the Ni, Ne, Si, Se videos :) you are one of the only people talking about each type in the stacked functions this succinctly.
I'm an INFP. I use Fi as my primary. I'm much more self responsible and create balance by ensuring that I'm not causing imbalance. So it's similar in an opposing way.
Possible Intj here. I didn't think Im an Intjbsince I thought I understand other peoples feelings just fine. Then everyother trait did fit together but I still didn't think I was an Intj because of the feeling thing. Now it makes sense. If Im practically blind to It obviously I couldnt know what I did not know. Now Im supper paranoid about the impression I've made on others :[]
My istj have Fe blindspot. This makes him clueless to people’s emotions. When he talk to me, I think he’s weird cuz he assumes so many things about me based on the past and he’s so awkward when speaking
You touched a bit on the balancing out of the dominant feeling at the forefront and the thinking function on the opposite end of the psyche of the enfj. I would love if people explored this aspect of the spectrum. ❤❤❤❤❤ Angel/Trinidad.
I was unsure of what I was... but after Hearing the Fe in the shadow areas is a light bulb to how I use the cognitive functions and which type I am. Good video! Thank you for making it!
Lol I’ve become pretty good at Fe on a one on one basis to help people but it’s very exhausting to me. Fe in a group setting seriously drain me... overall, I hate this needed function 😂 Also, I think my Ni hero helps where my Fe trickster lacks. The introverted intuition brings me much insight to how people feel... when, of course, my Ni is accurate.
You seem to be from Romania! I am INFJ too and so happy to discover psychology in a mathematical way as MBTI is. It hepls me to connect with un ENTP in a surprising way, to fly together into our past and hope for a different kind of future.
@@INFJinxed Da si ma bucur foarte mult ca mai e cate cineva cum esti tu, preocupata de MBTI. La noi nu pare nimeni interesat de astea si sunt atat de practice... E primul lucru care imi da incredere in psihologie, ca e o stiinta cu adevarat. Sunt medic :)
@@adina_4176 Mă bucur! Prietenii mei din România au devenit și ei obsedați de MBTI haha. Din ce zonă a României ești? Eu am locuit în Cluj, dar m-am mutat în Germania.
@@INFJinxed Multumesc ca mi-ai retras mesajele, daca tu ai facut-o. Unele lucruri sunt personale si eu le facusem publice, nici macar nu stiu din ce motiv.
I have also thought that Fe and Te are helping one another. Like right at the back of Te's actions, there are Fe intentions. Probs the same for Fi and Ti and so on, so forth.
I'm having trouble understanding the terminology. Feeling: I understand this means love, hate, anger, sadness, jealousy, and others. But how about pain, tiredness, hunger, thirst, fear, etc? Those are legit. The 2-part question is: How does the MBTI determine the scope/boundaries of what we call "feelings", and how do we determine (if the second set is a part of feeling) if they are e or N?
That is not what feeling means, I suppose you have taken in it in a literal sense but it's not like that. Feeling types are people who prefer to use their emotions to govern their decisions and vice versa for thinkers. Everyone has feeling and thinking but what you dominantly use is what is projected.
I would not call Fe subjective but rather Objective to values in social relationships. Ti I would say even due to its introverted nature has more of a subjective nature. Because the source then become internal while extroverted functions derive energy and information from outside sources. Respectively. Tho I Love your videos and think you are doing a wonderful job.
What does Fe feel like to you?
Fe feels like trying to spur an emotional response from other people.
Fe forces people to take care of other's emotional status. Fe users also search for help when dealing with emotional issues. Unlike the Fi users that prefer to process their emotional problems internally.
Fe to me feels like I care about other people's feelings and I have to put in effort to make people happy or make others like me (or at least not hate me lol). I'm intp.
It feels like interacting outside world with the emotional language, plus I need to consciously active Fe because it is my auxiliary function
Let me set external balance so that I can then balance my internal world. At least, this is what I think it is. I'm a Fi User and it's the opposite for me. I can't feel for others until I understand how I feel about things myself.
Does this kind of feeling really happening also online, such as group chat livestreamers?
yup, you are correct for ITSP. ~istp
I am an ENFJ with Fe hero, my mom is an ISTJ with Fe trickster, seriously this makes me live in hell cuz she will always assume that she knows what I feel or think and it will be faaar away from the truth. while growing up I always used to think why she doesnt understand how I feel and I got upset and angry and used to judge her about it because I didnt see that not all people perceive the world as I do and that its not that easy to understand others emotional needs for everyone like me, despite the horrible trauma she caused me I will never lose the hope to find a way to get her understand me in a better way and to work out our relationship.
thank you for the good video
OMG MY ISTJ TEACHER IS LIKE THAT. HE ASSUMES SO MUCH ABOUT PEOPLE BASED ON THE PAST. WITHOUT FE, HES SO AWKWARD WHEN SPEAKING
More people need to know your channel. All the explanations are so clear, precise, and on point. I hate wasting time watching people ramble.
3:34 As an ENTP myself, you got it absolutely wrong, I am not confrontational... just kidding, I just had to.
First time watching your channel and it seems like you have a good grasp over the function. I recently began really trying to develop my Fe, and gotta say even tho I was very reluctant, because I was relying too much on my Ne and Ti, it really made me happier.
The analogy of it being the child function is pretty accurate, because it does come out that way for me. Every time I use it and try to really open up and support people I am filled with some childlike wonder, like it is a whole new world I am exploring full of new experiences. But I am also very naive and hopeful, which my Ti absolutely despises that, because feelings are illogical. So I have been working a lot on trying to balance both Ti and Fe.
Great videos! Looking forward to the Ni, Ne, Si, Se videos :) you are one of the only people talking about each type in the stacked functions this succinctly.
Thank you! Glad you find them insightful and helpful :)
I'm an INFP. I use Fi as my primary. I'm much more self responsible and create balance by ensuring that I'm not causing imbalance. So it's similar in an opposing way.
Subscribed yesterday since I’ve never seen you before in the mbti community and definitely glad I found you!
❤️🙏🏻
waited the whole time to the infp part, did not disappoint. Yes this is exactly my situation
Possible Intj here. I didn't think Im an Intjbsince I thought I understand other peoples feelings just fine. Then everyother trait did fit together but I still didn't think I was an Intj because of the feeling thing. Now it makes sense. If Im practically blind to It obviously I couldnt know what I did not know. Now Im supper paranoid about the impression I've made on others :[]
My istj have Fe blindspot. This makes him clueless to people’s emotions. When he talk to me, I think he’s weird cuz he assumes so many things about me based on the past and he’s so awkward when speaking
You touched a bit on the balancing out of the dominant feeling at the forefront and the thinking function on the opposite end of the psyche of the enfj.
I would love if people explored this aspect of the spectrum.
❤❤❤❤❤ Angel/Trinidad.
I was unsure of what I was... but after Hearing the Fe in the shadow areas is a light bulb to how I use the cognitive functions and which type I am. Good video! Thank you for making it!
Lol I’ve become pretty good at Fe on a one on one basis to help people but it’s very exhausting to me. Fe in a group setting seriously drain me... overall, I hate this needed function 😂
Also, I think my Ni hero helps where my Fe trickster lacks. The introverted intuition brings me much insight to how people feel... when, of course, my Ni is accurate.
You seem to be from Romania! I am INFJ too and so happy to discover psychology in a mathematical way as MBTI is. It hepls me to connect with un ENTP in a surprising way, to fly together into our past and hope for a different kind of future.
Yes, I am from Romania! Did the T shirt give it away? Are you as well?
@@INFJinxed Da si ma bucur foarte mult ca mai e cate cineva cum esti tu, preocupata de MBTI. La noi nu pare nimeni interesat de astea si sunt atat de practice... E primul lucru care imi da incredere in psihologie, ca e o stiinta cu adevarat. Sunt medic :)
@@adina_4176 Mă bucur! Prietenii mei din România au devenit și ei obsedați de MBTI haha. Din ce zonă a României ești? Eu am locuit în Cluj, dar m-am mutat în Germania.
@@INFJinxed Multumesc ca mi-ai retras mesajele, daca tu ai facut-o. Unele lucruri sunt personale si eu le facusem publice, nici macar nu stiu din ce motiv.
@@adina_4176 nu am șters eu, s-ar putea să fi fost făcut de CZcams :)
My Fi is in the 8th slot
Here because I'm an ISFJ.👋🏻
I have also thought that Fe and Te are helping one another. Like right at the back of Te's actions, there are Fe intentions. Probs the same for Fi and Ti and so on, so forth.
I have Fe as the least developed function and I think I should develop it
I'm having trouble understanding the terminology. Feeling: I understand this means love, hate, anger, sadness, jealousy, and others. But how about pain, tiredness, hunger, thirst, fear, etc? Those are legit. The 2-part question is: How does the MBTI determine the scope/boundaries of what we call "feelings", and how do we determine (if the second set is a part of feeling) if they are e or N?
That is not what feeling means, I suppose you have taken in it in a literal sense but it's not like that. Feeling types are people who prefer to use their emotions to govern their decisions and vice versa for thinkers. Everyone has feeling and thinking but what you dominantly use is what is projected.
7:47
I would not call Fe subjective but rather Objective to values in social relationships. Ti I would say even due to its introverted nature has more of a subjective nature. Because the source then become internal while extroverted functions derive energy and information from outside sources. Respectively. Tho I Love your videos and think you are doing a wonderful job.
Ti is the manifestation of our thoughts on how they (the values) connect
Esti din Romania???
Da 😊
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