Man Reunites With Childhood Bully After He Apologizes 20 Years Later

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  • čas přidán 31. 08. 2015
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    Chadmichael Morrisette is heading to his hometown Eagle River, Alaska, where he was bullied so badly as a kid, he left vowing never to return. #InsideEdition

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  • @adamolivares5470
    @adamolivares5470 Před 8 lety +10749

    It takes a man to say sorry

    • @tmcdonald2374
      @tmcdonald2374 Před 8 lety +562

      No it takes Justin Bieber to say Sorry

    • @bleu8209
      @bleu8209 Před 8 lety +38

      Guessing girls can't say sorry right?!

    • @patricksnose8114
      @patricksnose8114 Před 7 lety +11

      katy ellenburg ITS A METAPHOR JEEZ sry I know that ur comment was old

    • @martinandme2748
      @martinandme2748 Před 6 lety +13

      Adam Olivares nope, just a mouth.

    • @peeper2070
      @peeper2070 Před 6 lety +54

      Adam Olivares It's 2017 you have to include women, transgenders, bisexuals, unspecified, apache helicopters, roblox characters and Steve in your sentence.

  • @lala-cw6rb
    @lala-cw6rb Před 7 lety +7894

    just imagine if the bully in the thumbnail was the little one

    • @cloroxbleach7301
      @cloroxbleach7301 Před 7 lety +81

      i agree

    • @ancientmanakete3253
      @ancientmanakete3253 Před 7 lety +456

      la la I honestly thought it was. I thought this because I feel like the smaller one would've picked on the heavier fellow.

    • @Noodlepony
      @Noodlepony Před 7 lety +22

      la la such dramatic irony

    • @Alcatrazzzzzz
      @Alcatrazzzzzz Před 7 lety +122

      I was kinda expecting like that as if he was making fun of him being fat

    • @BLCKCRVCK
      @BLCKCRVCK Před 7 lety +27

      la la Honestly what I was thinking when I saw that

  • @BearofTexas
    @BearofTexas Před 2 lety +2071

    Most bullies never apologize to their victims. Most bullies refuse to even admit to it.

    • @kingofdeath9012
      @kingofdeath9012 Před 8 měsíci +65

      Some just get worse.

    • @Thot_Patrol_USA
      @Thot_Patrol_USA Před 7 měsíci +23

      they probably forgot too lol or blocked it out so they wouldn’t feel bad

    • @randomassjellyfish
      @randomassjellyfish Před 6 měsíci +13

      From my experience being bullied in two different schools, I don't think they even realize they were not innocent at all!

    • @Wilson099
      @Wilson099 Před 6 měsíci +1

      not most.. "All"

    • @DevonteDunkley
      @DevonteDunkley Před 6 měsíci +10

      Some people don't change, and that's the harsh reality, but karma will catch them

  • @malcolmnicoll1165
    @malcolmnicoll1165 Před rokem +545

    Props to the former bully. The bullies in our school never had that kind of integrity or consciousness. I saw some of these bullies years later. They’re still the same wretched people they were as teenagers.

    • @gabrielpr03
      @gabrielpr03 Před 9 měsíci +25

      Don’t worry, everyone will eventually have to face justice at the end of their lives.
      I said to myself, “God will bring into judgment both the righteous and the wicked, for there will be a time for every activity, a time to judge every deed.” - Ecclesiastes 3:17

    • @sunnydelight5255
      @sunnydelight5255 Před 6 měsíci +14

      Only because his daughter is bullied. That’s not from the heart. If she wasn’t bullied he wouldn’t even think of him or have remorse. Still a selfish cowardly bully.

    • @sarahblack4864
      @sarahblack4864 Před 6 měsíci +16

      @@sunnydelight5255 I don’t think he is selfish or a coward. He probably didn’t realize how damaging his behavior was towards his classmate until he saw someone he loves go through it. He acknowledged the hurt and owned up to it which shows empathy and integrity.
      Should the bully have had empathy back in junior high towards his classmate? Of course.
      We also don’t know how the bully was raised or what was going on in his home life at the time.

    • @enriquerodriguezjr4466
      @enriquerodriguezjr4466 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Oh you mean karens and chadrens that harass to random peoples?

    • @akilkotamarti1000
      @akilkotamarti1000 Před 6 měsíci +4

      ​@@sunnydelight5255Where did it say his daughter was being bullied? You're just making that up.

  • @jbzhummerh2gamer
    @jbzhummerh2gamer Před 6 lety +9177

    That's a rare breed of human who apologizes for being a bully. It's honorable.

    • @Robin-el5ig
      @Robin-el5ig Před 6 lety +118

      jbzhummerh2gamer he's still a bully and one little apology doesn't make that anything different

    • @revolvingworld2676
      @revolvingworld2676 Před 6 lety +404

      Robin Staal
      Yes it does, if you bully someone when you're an imature kid, that doesn't mean you cant change.

    • @mariyaminaaugdahlbesbes2244
      @mariyaminaaugdahlbesbes2244 Před 6 lety +38

      Robin Staal How do know that?

    • @suvrabiswas4838
      @suvrabiswas4838 Před 6 lety +56

      Robin Staal you know brother 2 weeks ago , i would have completely agreed with whatever you have said but man i have to tell you people do change when they grow i have been bullied myself and yet i still believe that people despite their actions must be given a second change to redeem though that does not mean that whatever crimes he did in the past should simply be forgotten and neither does it mean that you should necessarily forgive him but rather than that you should allow both of you to move ahead in life rather dwelling in the past . trust me it makes life a lot easier.

    • @5yearsago404
      @5yearsago404 Před 6 lety +5

      jbzhummerh2gamer indeed

  • @daveteves
    @daveteves Před 4 lety +4899

    Bully: Hey i want to apologize. Can we meet?
    Bullied guy: *calls Inside Edition

  • @marlboroughsounds9710
    @marlboroughsounds9710 Před 3 lety +1784

    Every person has acted in a way that they aren't proud of especially as a teenager. Good for him to apologize.

    • @appathelastskybison
      @appathelastskybison Před 2 lety +29

      @@user-tq9ed9xz1x He’s not a teen anymore. He grew up, made amends and became friends with the person he bullied. He didn’t care if he was shown on t.v because like he said he wants to set a good example for his daughter so he wants to set a good example for people watching. You don’t think that somebody who might not have changed and had kids would teach their kids to do things that lead to bullying or influence his kid to bully?

    • @appathelastskybison
      @appathelastskybison Před 2 lety +10

      @@user-tq9ed9xz1x His parents might not have set a good example for him so he bullied. He might have not know that what he was doing was wrong because that’s what he taught was right.

    • @tinydough8746
      @tinydough8746 Před 2 lety +22

      @@appathelastskybison This.
      I was a bully because that's what my home environment was like back in elementary. I hated myself back then. I hope to get the courage to send messages to the people who I have hurt. They don't have to accept my apologies, and I don't expect them to either. I just want them to know that I am sorry for what I have done in the past as a clueless child who was raised in a hostile environment.

    • @emmanuelthiam9687
      @emmanuelthiam9687 Před 2 lety +13

      @@tinydough8746 The fact that you realised your wrong doings despite the environment you were raised in is amazing. And you accept the fact that the people you bullied may never forgive you and yet, you posted this message...
      Your not a bad person, you just got raised in the wrong environment. Your really brave telling people this. I'm proud of you😊

    • @yo9979
      @yo9979 Před rokem +2

      @@emmanuelthiam9687 God Bless Jesus loves you and he died for you put your faith in him before its too late

  • @dishusharma7881
    @dishusharma7881 Před 6 měsíci +292

    imagine that instead of apologising, he starts bullying him again when they meet. this could be made into a skit

    • @erinfreeman22
      @erinfreeman22 Před 6 měsíci +33

      I read this as I'm only 50 seconds into the video and just died laughing lmao

    • @colinroyle
      @colinroyle Před 6 měsíci +11

      All I had in my head was Family Guy and was waiting for the wedgie 😂

    • @lieselotmauroo9808
      @lieselotmauroo9808 Před 6 měsíci +4

      You just described every childhood bully I still run into today. Even blame me for not being able to hold my ground against over 60 kids, said I let them do it to me. Let them. Like it's something I wanted.

    • @Qwertyuiopaz
      @Qwertyuiopaz Před 6 měsíci

      Seems like something clickhole would do

    • @christophersawyer253
      @christophersawyer253 Před 5 měsíci +1

      That would be a great SNL sketch….if SNL was still funny

  • @garretcathers8408
    @garretcathers8408 Před 7 lety +4270

    My bully is serving time in Prison. Says a lot about him.

    • @wangfire343
      @wangfire343 Před 7 lety +33

      😂😂

    • @griffinshaw1484
      @griffinshaw1484 Před 7 lety +1

      Jaime Velazquez Jaime?

    • @movies360uploader9
      @movies360uploader9 Před 7 lety +181

      Garret Cathers once i was getting bullied by this kid in middle school. 2 days later i borrowed a mini baseball bat from my cousin and when he came up to hit me i took the baseball bat out and hit him multiple times in hes rib cage

    • @stumpers1661
      @stumpers1661 Před 7 lety +43

      savage

    • @adderallsenpai
      @adderallsenpai Před 7 lety +44

      I broke all my bullies.

  • @nichill7507
    @nichill7507 Před 4 lety +6611

    Imagine bullying someone just to have a beer with them later

    • @liquidsnr7499
      @liquidsnr7499 Před 4 lety +123

      If by that you smash a damn beer in their face. Your damn right

    • @zimmermanblake9485
      @zimmermanblake9485 Před 4 lety +75

      That’s essentially my relationship with my girlfriend.

    • @NRF-ee6cp
      @NRF-ee6cp Před 4 lety +25

      I can think of a few. Flash Thompson, Buford (Phineas and Ferb), Nice Biff Tannen, Harold, Stoop Kid, and Helga (Hey Arnold!), Jinx (Teen Titans), and Warren Peace (Sky High) come to mind.

    • @sirman6356
      @sirman6356 Před 4 lety +12

      Liquid SNR don’t be such a pussy. I’m sure they tormented the gay guy when he was younger but he still had the heart to forgive his bully. Being resentful would have achieved nothing.

    • @brendanm4179
      @brendanm4179 Před 4 lety +46

      Alot of enemies become best friends and alot of best friends become enemies..

  • @neo30m
    @neo30m Před 2 lety +221

    that guy who wants to set an example for his daughter. awesome parenting skills. and took a lot of guts to apologise.

    • @StretchUrMind1115
      @StretchUrMind1115 Před 2 lety +13

      ... when he was bullying, was someone setting an example for him?
      ... what if he had no child - I guess he wouldn't have bothered apologizing. I mean "setting an example"
      ...

    • @nocturnal7345
      @nocturnal7345 Před 2 lety +1

      @@StretchUrMind1115 What a horrible mentality you have.

    • @StretchUrMind1115
      @StretchUrMind1115 Před 2 lety +11

      Thank you sir...
      ...I was bullied through school but I'm ok now. (No need going into detail)
      ...Anyone who is having sleepless nights for what they did to me in school, I pray they never recover from it.

    • @nocturnal7345
      @nocturnal7345 Před 2 lety +10

      @@StretchUrMind1115 I guess your bully didn't apologize to you, but don't take it out on this guy, thinking if he didn't have a child, he wouldn't bother apologizing.

    • @neo30m
      @neo30m Před 2 lety +3

      @@StretchUrMind1115 yeah you have a point but I am sure he had a certain amount of humanity and guilt. I got bullied as well, and it's not right but it happens. I don't hate any of them for it. It's just life

  • @Oscarspoem
    @Oscarspoem Před 3 lety +139

    massive credit to both of them. I was bullied then became a bully to protect myself. It's sad and I am sorry.

    • @mralmnthwyfemnin5783
      @mralmnthwyfemnin5783 Před rokem +23

      You may have point there. Most bullies were probably bullied at one time.

  • @nocturnal7345
    @nocturnal7345 Před 4 lety +4134

    Bruh, that moment when the teacher is still hotter than most of his girl classmates.

  • @shahhaleemmitu8754
    @shahhaleemmitu8754 Před 4 lety +3733

    Who else thought it was the other way around.

  • @aye_sam
    @aye_sam Před 4 lety +330

    The only teacher in the world who cared when he was being bullied
    Edit: 11/October/2021: wow thank ya'll so much for 270+ likes! Never had these many likes before

  • @meatymaggot
    @meatymaggot Před 2 lety +88

    The teacher is a sweetheart. It's so hard to find teachers to stand up for you I am happy she was his teacher.

  • @jjmeara26
    @jjmeara26 Před 4 lety +9492

    Who else knew he was gay as soon as started talking

  • @GlenJ57
    @GlenJ57 Před 4 lety +5346

    My brother protected me from bullies when we were growing up. He would threaten them with a severe beating if they came near me. Years later, my brother became a heavy smoker. I took him in 11 years ago. He told me that he would’ve been homeless had I not done so. I told him I was going to protect him from the big bully called life. I helped him become a prayer warrior. We prayed together a lot. He died six months ago. What incredible Journey I had

    • @will6220
      @will6220 Před 4 lety +323

      Glen Jackson sorry for your loss my guy😕

    • @danielchappell1672
      @danielchappell1672 Před 3 lety +218

      Thank you for sharing this. I am very sorry for your loss.

    • @GlenJ57
      @GlenJ57 Před 3 lety +78

      Matthew Thank you.

    • @GlenJ57
      @GlenJ57 Před 3 lety +45

      Will Thank you.

    • @TrentEngineFan
      @TrentEngineFan Před 3 lety +75

      That is literally the saddest thing I have ever heard. God bless your family

  • @kaanmckinley1763
    @kaanmckinley1763 Před 4 lety +453

    I knew he was gay when they said "now living in los angeles“

  • @theultimateangel2487
    @theultimateangel2487 Před 4 lety +953

    No kidding but if someone bullies the gay kid, the gay kid is more likely to be more handsome than the bully.

    • @royaldeer87
      @royaldeer87 Před 4 lety +16

      Ikr

    • @weltonvillegal6258
      @weltonvillegal6258 Před 3 lety +11

      And probably gets better relationship partners too.

    • @theultimateangel2487
      @theultimateangel2487 Před 3 lety +10

      @@btksavage8167 I can tell that YOU’RE a kid that thinks saying the words “your gay” is funny which is something I don’t find funny but rather offensive. I don’t know why you find “your gay” funny and if you didn’t find it funny then why say it in the first place, yes thanks for reminding me that I’m gay and chile- please go back to crying for your Dino nuggets, thank you.

    • @i7estroyer
      @i7estroyer Před 3 lety +16

      @@theultimateangel2487 75% of the world is homophobic so yes the word "you're gay" is occasionally funny, my lovely fellow.

    • @munchy242
      @munchy242 Před 3 lety +16

      @@i7estroyer More than that buddy I say atleast 90%

  • @cynicaldrummer286
    @cynicaldrummer286 Před 4 lety +2274

    Respect to that bully. It takes a lot to say sorry and actually act that way

    • @Sarah-rm4nm
      @Sarah-rm4nm Před 3 lety +6

      @@user-tq9ed9xz1x why?

    • @michaelp2849
      @michaelp2849 Před 2 lety +1

      @@user-tq9ed9xz1x nobody asked for your opinion

    • @100procent2
      @100procent2 Před 2 lety +37

      Respect? For what?
      Someone who don't respect you want tell you worthless words just to feel better bcs he have crisis. And it will make him fell better lol. After accepting apology bully was win second time.

    • @Coach_Shiner
      @Coach_Shiner Před rokem +67

      @@100procent2 Because people grow up and have regrets in life! Do you think these kids act the same way they did in school?! NO!!

    • @sussyricky
      @sussyricky Před rokem +13

      @@Coach_Shiner he and his 6 comment likers needs to be mature

  • @hogant.551
    @hogant.551 Před 4 lety +9344

    The bully got fat cause he had all that extra lunch money.

  • @thepeterpot
    @thepeterpot Před 6 měsíci +30

    There was a bully in my elementary school named Patrick. My mother encouraged me to invite him over to play after school, which I reluctantly did. We tried playing with some toys but he was inconsolable and was crying to be with his mommy. I realized then that he was going through a tough time in his life. I was able to connect with him in a positive and empathetic way, and he didn't bully anyone else at school after that. That experience taught me that hurt people hurt people.

  • @EricFortuneJr.
    @EricFortuneJr. Před 3 lety +48

    It’s easier to make friends than enemies.
    It takes more mental energy to hate than to love.

  • @caesar7734
    @caesar7734 Před 4 lety +1694

    Kid is being bullied
    Teacher: 😕
    Kid is wearing a hoodie
    Teacher: 🤬

  • @adammoorby99
    @adammoorby99 Před 7 lety +1681

    Did anyone else think that the bully was the small one

  • @theblueststar5316
    @theblueststar5316 Před 2 lety +20

    This is better than the guy who laughed at the person he bullied after his story years later and pretend to be the victim

  • @JeremySolo
    @JeremySolo Před rokem +65

    I sent my jr high bully a message about ten years ago, calmly telling him everything I felt and that if he had any self respect whatsoever he would message me back with an explanation. I never heard anything. I guess not everyone grows up and becomes a better person as this man did.

  • @karlisyourpapi8479
    @karlisyourpapi8479 Před 6 lety +1792

    That teacher in her younger days must have been every guys crush still looks amazing at her age.

    • @kennethpowers241
      @kennethpowers241 Před 6 lety +106

      KarlIsYourPapi And her student still turned out gay. I wonder what talents she fostered.

    • @ilikepigeons6101
      @ilikepigeons6101 Před 4 lety +12

      Kenneth Powers people can turn gay. Don't blame it on the teacher lmao you dumb religious person

    • @thebasketballhistorian3291
      @thebasketballhistorian3291 Před 4 lety +42

      While watching, I had some goofy thought he could hook up with his former teacher (this was before they said he was gay).

    • @vulkandude00
      @vulkandude00 Před 4 lety +40

      I LiKe PiGeoNs when did he mention religion?

    • @killat1293
      @killat1293 Před 4 lety +6

      Ok boomer

  • @XXXB1EAKXXX
    @XXXB1EAKXXX Před 7 lety +229

    their teacher must have been so beautiful omg

  • @alanalaurent6349
    @alanalaurent6349 Před rokem +29

    Look how he aged VS how his bully aged.
    Karma is real.

    • @kittenmochi1250
      @kittenmochi1250 Před 10 měsíci +1

      That's besides the point wrong call love.

    • @kittenmochi1250
      @kittenmochi1250 Před 10 měsíci +1

      also next time u get wig get a preplucked one relax ur shoulders too next time taking a pic.

    • @TheFracturedfuture
      @TheFracturedfuture Před 9 měsíci +2

      The bullie is taller and bigger.

    • @pear-zq1uj
      @pear-zq1uj Před 7 měsíci

      @@TheFracturedfuture but still fat and bald 😂

    • @Cottonball-gz4cr
      @Cottonball-gz4cr Před 2 měsíci

      Yep

  • @ADawg3
    @ADawg3 Před 2 lety +25

    What a great, heartwarming story. Bravo to both guys. To the bully for apologizing and the victim for accepting it, this is humanity at its best.

  • @Kazekage202
    @Kazekage202 Před 8 lety +2070

    That teacher looks young as f***!

  • @StonedAlbatross
    @StonedAlbatross Před 7 lety +2698

    Damn, the bully is still in middle school?

  • @atergonomico
    @atergonomico Před rokem +9

    He's a nice man. I don't think I could have forgiven him.

  • @thecalmingspace7242
    @thecalmingspace7242 Před rokem +14

    Its amazing. Most bullies cant even remember bullying kids or what they did or said or even think it was their fault or " not that big of a deal" for that guy to even remember and apologise was pretty staggering.

  • @dijasr8487
    @dijasr8487 Před 4 lety +647

    Damn who else thinks that teacher looks good for her age

  • @cloroxbleach3838
    @cloroxbleach3838 Před 8 lety +3072

    Despite the graying hair, that teacher looked young af! Lol. I'm happy a friendship turned out for them.

  • @yomelo
    @yomelo Před 5 měsíci +8

    The ptsd bullies leave can last a lifetime. I recently met up with a childhood bully, smoked a joint with him, talked, we never brought up the past, it was a weird reunion.

    • @chief2632
      @chief2632 Před 3 měsíci

      It's a thing that happens a lot. People would rather make new good memories than try to unravel old bad ones

  • @Charlie-bh3yk
    @Charlie-bh3yk Před 5 měsíci +6

    This happened to me.
    I got Facebook in 2009 and a few days later received a friend request from one of my bullies. She apologised immediately and said she felt ashamed, especially as she is now a mother.
    My forgiveness was freely given, she’s now a lovely, kind, compassionate person and we were teens at the time.

  • @boy_of_the_cones
    @boy_of_the_cones Před 6 lety +4843

    *Sees all girl friends*
    Thinks he's gay
    *later states he's gay*
    Silent high five to my gaydar

  • @roggy12345
    @roggy12345 Před 8 lety +2261

    Damn all his good childhood friends were hot girls? No wonder people wanted to bully him cos they were jealous

  • @billn.1318
    @billn.1318 Před 2 lety +84

    True story: A ran into my HS bully. I was a senior analyst for a large corporate company. I went to use the restroom after a meeting break and I noticed the janitor cleaning the restroom is the bully who I remember making racial remarks about me and he did this for a year. I asked if he went to the this such and such high school and he confirmed 100% went there. I asked about what he has done since then and he told me his life story in just under 3 minutes. We were in HS 2 decades ago and I just did not bother reminding him that he was a bully. Not that being a janitor is a lowly job but he just looked miserable and I did not want to remind him of his old past. I did ask if he was a married and he showed me a pic of him and his wife and kids. His wife is asian.

    • @akilkotamarti1000
      @akilkotamarti1000 Před 6 měsíci +4

      Thank you for not trying to torment him. You went above that and left him be. If you tried to get back at him you would've been another bully, actually.

    • @theafricantexan9573
      @theafricantexan9573 Před 5 měsíci

      I don’t believe this 🥺

    • @tsbuty
      @tsbuty Před 5 měsíci

      @@theafricantexan9573I love when something starts with “true story”

    • @mikegarippo7815
      @mikegarippo7815 Před 5 měsíci

      His job may have had nothing to do with his alleged being miserable, if he even was miserable.

    • @kagepoker
      @kagepoker Před 5 měsíci +1

      He did not recognize you because to them you all look the same.

  • @honeypower
    @honeypower Před 3 lety +90

    The teacher is hot, can only imagine what she looked like 20 years ago or whatever

    • @EternalPayne
      @EternalPayne Před 3 lety +10

      @Courtney Green You're*

    • @zebes2694
      @zebes2694 Před 3 lety

      lmao! i agree, is a beautiful reunion story and all but damn!!! 😍

    • @appathelastskybison
      @appathelastskybison Před 2 lety +1

      @Courtney Green They might be around the teacher’s age.

  • @Juan-nz1gu
    @Juan-nz1gu Před 4 lety +667

    Let’s reunite 20 years later when this video comes into our recommended

  • @christiandave5638
    @christiandave5638 Před 4 lety +314

    Lesson: It’s never too late to apologize.

    • @kurt7842
      @kurt7842 Před 4 lety +5

      Unless you or the person is dead....

    • @GoogleGoogle-fd6do
      @GoogleGoogle-fd6do Před 4 lety +3

      Another lesson is grow up and be a real man, so what If someome said mean words? Real life is tough,
      Will he cry like a baby when he doesnt get a job? Or If he burnt the toast?
      The media wants men to be soft sensetive crybabies that love make up and hate meat

    • @user-tq9ed9xz1x
      @user-tq9ed9xz1x Před 3 lety

      It is late if u done it when u were a teen

    • @sjffhfjcntgj9411
      @sjffhfjcntgj9411 Před 3 lety +1

      @@kurt7842 Karma did its job!

    • @kurt7842
      @kurt7842 Před 3 lety +1

      @@sjffhfjcntgj9411 how so?

  • @garryatkinson815
    @garryatkinson815 Před 9 měsíci +11

    As someone who was bullied myself i think that you can forgive but you won't ever forget.

  • @4everCharro
    @4everCharro Před 4 lety +3089

    The teacher is hotter than the classmates, lol.

  • @222MovieMan
    @222MovieMan Před 7 lety +1209

    Let's all be honest here. The bully only said sorry so that he could get his free beer in the end of the video and not pay for it, lmao.

  • @therealmr.incredible3179
    @therealmr.incredible3179 Před 3 měsíci +4

    You wanna know what would truly make the bully sorry? The Victim being bigger than him physically and making his life a living hell.

  • @MrGhostface_
    @MrGhostface_ Před rokem +17

    I once met a guy who bullied me ( also was the bullied gay kid ) and he tried to put out his hand and apologize, he was told in a not so polite way where to put his hand and apology. Respect to this guy but I could never forgive or look someone in the eye who damaged me mentally.

    • @keeptaiwanfree
      @keeptaiwanfree Před 5 měsíci +3

      yeah, i don’t know if i could forgive either. i’m not a big believer in “forgive and forget.” i don’t forget and i don’t forgive (when it comes tk serious things) but good for these two men, i feel that his former bully is genuinely sorry

    • @mikegarippo7815
      @mikegarippo7815 Před 5 měsíci

      Stop being a homosexual.

    • @markturner977
      @markturner977 Před 5 měsíci +1

      You probably did him a favour - don’t know where your hands have been 😂

  • @Peff2001
    @Peff2001 Před 6 lety +1311

    I wonder how Inside Edition found out about this story. Was the victim like "hey inside edition, my bully just apologized for bullying me 20 years ago" and they thought wow what an interesting story?? Im so confused...

    • @whatdidujustsay2094
      @whatdidujustsay2094 Před 6 lety +84

      Peff probably someone at work or a friend of a friend. also people probably send in stories and they most likely hire people to find the stories.

    • @datboi2886
      @datboi2886 Před 6 lety +60

      Peff “also I’m gay”

    • @goondocksaints9597
      @goondocksaints9597 Před 6 lety +7

      More like, "hey inside edition, if you fly me back to Cali I'll give you an exclusive story.

    • @5yearsago404
      @5yearsago404 Před 6 lety

      Peff lol ikr

    • @randomstranger5
      @randomstranger5 Před 6 lety

      Peff they made it up 😜

  • @dylanwallace2031
    @dylanwallace2031 Před 4 lety +1461

    i feel bad for the bully, when you know that he has felt guilt for this long , that means that he has probably felt horrible and for him to do this is amazing

    • @ashergillette1689
      @ashergillette1689 Před 4 lety +128

      Dill Pickle random channel I feel bad for the boy who was bullied

    • @thebasketballhistorian3291
      @thebasketballhistorian3291 Před 4 lety +118

      Lol, the guy who was bullied had to leave his hometown and never return for 20 years.
      The bully ended up getting married, raising a family, and having a career (living a normal life).

    • @davidtichborne2912
      @davidtichborne2912 Před 4 lety +22

      Yes because people change their not immature kids anymore

    • @brickmonster6381
      @brickmonster6381 Před 4 lety +7

      I don’t

    • @davidtichborne2912
      @davidtichborne2912 Před 4 lety +3

      People can and don't change but it takes work in order to change

  • @slove2646
    @slove2646 Před 9 měsíci +8

    He’s a bigger person than I am. I would accept an apology from my school bully but I would absolutely NOT be hanging out with them after.

    • @markturner977
      @markturner977 Před 5 měsíci +1

      If I was your bully that apologised - I would make you hang out with me after - or else !!!

  • @thomasj219
    @thomasj219 Před 6 měsíci +11

    The fact that bullying is so accepted in the country is a weird thing.

  • @speedyg1986
    @speedyg1986 Před 6 lety +873

    My bullies never apologized and went to Religion to hide their past from their kids and some actually died.

    • @UDONTCME111
      @UDONTCME111 Před 4 lety +50

      Scarlet Phoneix Yep, I know tons of people who use religion to “make up” for their past. It’s self serving and does nothing to alleviate the pain they’ve caused others. Just another way for them to boost their own egos and not have to deal with reality.

    • @shuush1094
      @shuush1094 Před 4 lety +4

      Katrina Wolfgram Amen

    • @Itsivyman
      @Itsivyman Před 4 lety +1

      Some time I feel like I want to die

    • @MrK-kr1qi
      @MrK-kr1qi Před 4 lety

      @@katrinawolfgram654 Being Catholic Christian also

    • @Rowan-mo4ko
      @Rowan-mo4ko Před 6 měsíci +1

      They always rot internally

  • @tbonerossigiggles6076
    @tbonerossigiggles6076 Před 4 lety +342

    I feel for him that he got bullied... I’m so glad they both had the courage to move on... the power of forgiveness is powerful

    • @garycarpenter6433
      @garycarpenter6433 Před rokem +5

      Forgive and forget is my motto

    • @hyde5213
      @hyde5213 Před 4 měsíci +1

      "Move on." Yeah, the victim moved on, alright, being exiled from his hometown for twenty years, while the bully got to blow some docile woman's back out and spread his genes. So courageous, that bully.

  • @___XY____________0
    @___XY____________0 Před 6 měsíci +12

    It’s good that he apologized and changed, but unfortunately victims like Chad need this at the time of the bullying and not now. Bullies need to change now and not later, kids can take their own life before then.

  • @IronBalls007
    @IronBalls007 Před 3 lety +23

    Being bullied changes the heart and soul of a person. It is something that can never be forgotten or cleared from the mind and will always have an impact on that person for the rest of his life. It's like walking with a scar on your heart that can never be healed. Please remember this whenever you see someone being emotionally damaged, please step in and help the person in need. You will know from your heart that your help is needed when you see it, please listen to your heart.

    • @garycarpenter6433
      @garycarpenter6433 Před rokem

      Did you see the Power Rangers episode where this kid was being bullied and the Red Power Ranger (I forget which incarceration this was) intervened and helped him out.... I had found out later he had been bullied in his school as a kid

  • @josh18230
    @josh18230 Před 6 lety +70

    "To friendship!"
    Never sees him again.

  • @nyslife1218
    @nyslife1218 Před 7 lety +351

    THATS THE DUDE WHO STOLE WOODY!!

  • @peezhead
    @peezhead Před 5 měsíci +7

    I'm thinking the daughter gets bullied. Sometimes "karma" passes you and go to your child.

    • @Becky12bush
      @Becky12bush Před měsícem +1

      I can see that happening ngl

  • @jannomeeuwessen4886
    @jannomeeuwessen4886 Před rokem +11

    Huge respect for both guys. I honestly don't know if I could forgive my childhood bully.

    • @markturner977
      @markturner977 Před 5 měsíci

      God forgives your childhood bully so you don’t have to

  • @IXAuxiliary
    @IXAuxiliary Před 7 lety +1331

    forget them for a minute.. that teacher looks good damn

    • @OldHoboManYouTube
      @OldHoboManYouTube Před 6 lety +40

      IX Auxiliary why is everyone talking about that 37 year old teacher

    • @janis7077
      @janis7077 Před 6 lety +12

      SingerDancer428 You actually can teach at 17...

    • @ginoxbl2950
      @ginoxbl2950 Před 6 lety +1

      IX Auxiliary please sub to me

    • @ew8438
      @ew8438 Před 6 lety +16

      Vienkāršs Skatītājs you can't be a real teacher at 17... you'd either just be graduating or still be in high school

    • @teaminviminkook2794
      @teaminviminkook2794 Před 6 lety +22

      She can still get it

  • @justinbergeron5997
    @justinbergeron5997 Před 4 lety +535

    *Chad meets his ex bully:
    "Hey you got something on your shirt"

  • @johanj821
    @johanj821 Před 2 lety +11

    It’s astonishing that most of these comments show more sympathy to the bully than to the one who got bullied

  • @reple489
    @reple489 Před 3 lety +7

    Louis eymundsson: "first thing first, I am sorry".
    *now that's courage; it takes a humbled man to apologise.*

  • @user-cl9le8kw9b
    @user-cl9le8kw9b Před 4 lety +265

    You'll never know the damage you've done to someone until the same thing is done to you.

    • @itsmesia2469
      @itsmesia2469 Před 3 lety +3

      👍👍👍👏👍👍👍👍👏
      🙏🥀🕊️♥️🕊️🥀🙏

    • @evbrock5634
      @evbrock5634 Před 3 lety +13

      Or you find Jesus Christ

    • @trashyraccoon2615
      @trashyraccoon2615 Před 2 lety

      Only if your parents didn’t raise you right

    • @knightyagami7841
      @knightyagami7841 Před 11 měsíci +9

      Yeah who knows maybe his daughter is being bullied

    • @chief2632
      @chief2632 Před 3 měsíci

      If you're in the workforce it'll probably happen to you at some point

  • @faseforeal
    @faseforeal Před 4 lety +381

    Bully: Eyes straight, shoulders up, give the most masculine handshake ever, lower voice a few octaves, apologize.

    • @EneTheGene
      @EneTheGene Před 4 lety +14

      @A. Fleck nigga what?

    • @thebeastwithin6978
      @thebeastwithin6978 Před 4 lety +17

      I think he’s trying to say that apologizing is manly... idk know for sure tho i’ll leave it to the professionals

    • @ElegeantFencer
      @ElegeantFencer Před 4 lety +16

      He still uncomfortable around gay ppl.

    • @adammaher6962
      @adammaher6962 Před 4 lety +3

      @@ElegeantFencer Sometimes it might be uncomfortable

    • @CoercedJab
      @CoercedJab Před 4 lety +6

      ElegeantFencer for real his face at the end lol
      But he deserves all the credit for doing it. Tons of people would avoid anything uncomfortable.

  • @kevinnash-foodhealthlifest6404

    All that animosity, anger, frustration and regret washed away in seconds when the bully said SORRY to him!

  • @Howard007
    @Howard007 Před 6 měsíci +4

    This dude that got bullied is like the best looking person i’ve ever seen

  • @solidseb1960
    @solidseb1960 Před 7 lety +1908

    We all hade that one gay kid who was friends with the girls.

    • @gwacicielpsow2035
      @gwacicielpsow2035 Před 7 lety +57

      I mean I'm not gay but I'm friends with half the chicks.

    • @gwacicielpsow2035
      @gwacicielpsow2035 Před 7 lety +12

      I mean I'm not gay but I'm friends with half the chicks.

    • @blueshiftdreams
      @blueshiftdreams Před 7 lety +15

      solid seb tru. cuz non of the guys like em 😂😂💀

    • @PeaNutter505
      @PeaNutter505 Před 7 lety +7

      solid seb I'm pretty sure everyone has at this point XD.

    • @bhick3572
      @bhick3572 Před 7 lety

      Yep.

  • @shrekonions1689
    @shrekonions1689 Před 7 lety +2120

    my bully is dead, I got a bluetooth speaker and put ear rape music on full blast

    • @user-nc7nd5ul5n
      @user-nc7nd5ul5n Před 6 lety +56

      amazing I'm going to do that to my bully now

    • @hops2160
      @hops2160 Před 6 lety +8

      Shrek Onions hahahahaha

    • @e2stw3st88
      @e2stw3st88 Před 6 lety +21

      How can he die if you put on full blast music? He would probably go on deaf

    • @mauricioharo3143
      @mauricioharo3143 Před 6 lety +4

      Shrek Onions lmao

    • @narcissist..
      @narcissist.. Před 6 lety +2

      Shrek Onions your going to hell

  • @LeXro6
    @LeXro6 Před 6 měsíci +5

    I was like this guy looks and sounds gay and then they said he was gay i was dying

  • @msbrowneyes786
    @msbrowneyes786 Před 5 měsíci +2

    My bully is now a doctor, married with 2 children. She bullied me so much I had to change schools.
    I often wonder how someone souless like her became a doctor..

  • @mrandrewbowman
    @mrandrewbowman Před 7 lety +110

    Good for the guy for reaching out to apologize. I'm glad he made it right by apologizing.

  • @OriginalCovfefe
    @OriginalCovfefe Před 4 lety +64

    I commend the both of them. The former-bully for having the courage to apologize, and the bullied man for forgiving him. I wish them both well

    • @mikegarippo7815
      @mikegarippo7815 Před 5 měsíci

      Why did you use a hyphen in "former bully"?

    • @OriginalCovfefe
      @OriginalCovfefe Před 5 měsíci

      @@mikegarippo7815 because I dont care to use proper grammar online. Sue me.

    • @hyde5213
      @hyde5213 Před 4 měsíci

      @@OriginalCovfefe Sending my lawyer now :^)

    • @OriginalCovfefe
      @OriginalCovfefe Před 4 měsíci

      @@hyde5213 FULL SEND

  • @aprioriontoast704
    @aprioriontoast704 Před 2 lety +3

    my goodness his teacher is so beautiful !

  • @dumbmoot1708
    @dumbmoot1708 Před 4 lety +1449

    No one will ever know why people liked this comment

  • @Tilesandfabrics
    @Tilesandfabrics Před 4 lety +112

    Hats off to you Padner. My brother was bullied as a kid. He committed suicide. I felt like I failed him as a bigger brother. It was tough. Today I volunteer as a big brother to several orphanages locally. Cyber bullying is so unfortunate. We need strong people to stand up to these situations. Not only physically but mentally as well. God knows best.

    • @itsmesia2469
      @itsmesia2469 Před 3 lety +2

      😓
      🙏🥀🕊️♥️🕊️🥀🙏

    • @garycarpenter6433
      @garycarpenter6433 Před rokem +5

      I'm glad that I stuck it out and I'm still here in my day we didn't have Facebook or TikTok but these days we have it,it can be a blessing or a curse

  • @rowenramnath2016
    @rowenramnath2016 Před rokem +4

    I see my childhood bully sometimes. He became a taxi driver. Now im grown up. I dont fear him anymore im waiting for him to make a move

  • @MusicHandsAbrupt
    @MusicHandsAbrupt Před rokem +3

    I wouldn’t accept his apology.

  • @jeremyhamm7157
    @jeremyhamm7157 Před 4 lety +10

    I was bullied as a kid too. I found the bully's sister on Facebook 20 years later and told her to tell her brother that I hope he dies lonely and painfully. I will never forget nor forgive him for all the pain he caused me growing up.

    • @Adil21RUS
      @Adil21RUS Před 4 lety

      Better meet her

    • @jeremyhamm7157
      @jeremyhamm7157 Před 4 lety

      @@Adil21RUS Her brother was the bully, not her.

    • @Adil21RUS
      @Adil21RUS Před 4 lety

      @@jeremyhamm7157 for flirt I mean

  • @archie1244
    @archie1244 Před 7 lety +379

    The bully looks just like the toy collector from Toy Story 2

  • @probablecausetocheckhard-drive

    I wanna see the version we're the bully gets beat up in front of his own kids

  • @summerrr1
    @summerrr1 Před 2 lety +7

    That teacher is extremely attractive for an older woman

    • @D4YT0N4
      @D4YT0N4 Před 2 lety +2

      You just had to comment that right!

  • @11austin3100
    @11austin3100 Před 8 lety +832

    " apologizing face to face is a lot harder then sending a message over Facebook" there is a lot of truth to it and its so fucking sad knowing that , that's what humanity has downgraded to , its now awkward to talk to people face to face for some , like social media is the only way they can talk, 100 years ago even 50 years ago that was not an issue or as big of one as it is today.

    • @killianoconnell3379
      @killianoconnell3379 Před 8 lety +3

      I agree

    • @budredhead00twitchy
      @budredhead00twitchy Před 8 lety +3

      How do you expect him to be face to face, when he's in Alaska and the other guy's in LA?

    • @11austin3100
      @11austin3100 Před 8 lety +2

      budredhead00twitchy what? i didn't say anything about what he did , i was talking about the truth behind is statement.

    • @budredhead00twitchy
      @budredhead00twitchy Před 8 lety +1

      +11austin3100 Oh. Well in that case, I agree. A face to face apology is worth so much more than a Facebook chat.

    • @WoIf-
      @WoIf- Před 8 lety +4

      +11austin3100
      I don't think it has anything to do with that. It'd be different if he thought an online apology was enough and felt as though he redeemed himself in the same way a face-to-face apology would have. Frankly, I think he was likely more awkward about his apology than he might have been if there wasn't a camera + crew in his face invading that private moment. If that were me then I'm sure I'd be annoyed with being unable to sound as sincere as I felt because the added audience was throwing me off.
      It's a nice video and all of course, but I imagine it had an impact on the reunion.

  • @jaygaona8269
    @jaygaona8269 Před 4 lety +577

    It’s like the scene in Billy Madison where he calls to apologize

  • @marissar.8407
    @marissar.8407 Před 3 lety +4

    It's really sad that so many people have the mentality of "Oh it was a while ago I don't need to apologize". Even if, maybe they've forgiven you, you can still apologize. I like this guy.

  • @ameliesdaily
    @ameliesdaily Před 2 lety +4

    apologizing is something he’s supposed to do. no need to praise him exaggeratingly.

  • @jayman8860
    @jayman8860 Před 4 lety +87

    Good for him. I was bullied growing up so I know how the guy felt when you walk in the school. The only difference is none of my bullies ever apologized to me.

    • @mralmnthwyfemnin5783
      @mralmnthwyfemnin5783 Před rokem +7

      Don't feel bad. None of my bullies ever apologized to me either !

    • @garycarpenter6433
      @garycarpenter6433 Před rokem +1

      Don't feel so bad at least you stuck it out like I did and we get to live to tell about it

    • @jayman8860
      @jayman8860 Před rokem

      @@garycarpenter6433 yes we did

  • @nocontentjustads3878
    @nocontentjustads3878 Před 4 lety +310

    But why that teacher better looking than the old friends of his?

  • @stevencantrellzenroom7383
    @stevencantrellzenroom7383 Před 5 měsíci +3

    The kids that were bullied always turn out smarter more successful and better looking

  • @chuckyyes
    @chuckyyes Před 2 lety +3

    He basically gave the bully free clout bringing inside edition with them good job

  • @UnripeApple2003
    @UnripeApple2003 Před 4 lety +191

    His name is Chad, they bullied him because they were insecure of themselves.

    • @StefanP012
      @StefanP012 Před 4 lety +70

      Imagine nameing your son chad and he turns out to be gay.

    • @proffesormeme4495
      @proffesormeme4495 Před 4 lety +2

      Stefan S lol

    • @Wedge122
      @Wedge122 Před 4 lety

      Really?

    • @davids1854
      @davids1854 Před 4 lety +10

      Plot twist he wasn't gay and he pulled a Chad move to. Get in girls sleep overs

    • @pep590
      @pep590 Před 3 lety +1

      I doubt that. Most bullies do it cause it is fun to them and they don't give it a thought. People read too much into that.

  • @PrinceJoshTheGreat
    @PrinceJoshTheGreat Před 4 lety +240

    That teacher was definitely a slayer back in the day

  • @14isoldenough
    @14isoldenough Před rokem +3

    I wasnt ever gonna let anyone push me around but i wish i would had pushed back for other kids. It tears me up that i didnt.

  • @allclassallthetime4739
    @allclassallthetime4739 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I am near in tears watching this, I think the bully victim is such a nice person. It'd be my honor to be his friend.

  • @natedog380
    @natedog380 Před 8 lety +365

    1:37 the reporter just called him gay. Can't you all just give this guy a break? Smh

  • @jackrockwell6698
    @jackrockwell6698 Před 7 lety +204

    Almost everyone's nicer as an adult.